Surely when a long-term relationship comes to an end, it takes a long time before you start feeling better. Succumbed to failure, I remember my friend then suggesting me to do the opposite. She said that it was normal for me not to be able to contain the urge within me to talk about it. But as a good friend, she would try this new tactic of cutting me off and talking about something else in an attempt to help me get over it. I remember not feeling well when we were trying this tactic. I remember feeling as though my throat would burst if she did not listen to my unending rants about those unanswered questions.