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Um, I remember back in
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the day it was called Facebook official. I
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guess that's when you knew. your relationship
2:00
became serious? You
2:02
became Facebook official like if your Facebook
2:05
post had you you know with your
2:07
whoever you're dating in there. And
2:10
your status right? You could say your status
2:12
is a couple single. Facebook actually had a
2:14
status thing is that right Katie I don't
2:16
know we're not on Facebook. Yeah you
2:18
would set your status to in a relationship and
2:20
then you would tag their profile to tell everybody
2:23
who it was. That's a major deal right there.
2:26
But now it's Instagram official because Instagram is so much
2:28
bigger a deal than Facebook. And
2:32
this study from the Journal
2:34
of Social and Personal Relationships says
2:36
that going Instagram official is not
2:38
as important to making your partner
2:41
feel secure as some other things which I
2:43
found interesting particularly for depends on your attachment
2:45
style. Do you know about the attachment styles?
2:47
I just became aware of this recently and
2:49
maybe you buy into it or not. What
2:52
did you review for us? I don't know
2:54
them all. There's
2:57
anxious attachment which this
2:59
plays into mostly. Those
3:01
are people that are really nervous about
3:04
the whole thing falling apart and need to be reaffirmed
3:07
on a regular basis. Then there's
3:09
attachment avoidant which I think I
3:11
lean more toward where
3:14
when things start getting you
3:16
know really down to the nitty-gritty you think guys
3:18
is getting a little a little hot in here.
3:21
Step out of the room to
3:23
get some fresh air real quick. Then
3:26
there's Velcro attachment. It's very noisy
3:28
when you break up. Then
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there's super glue attachment. I was speaking of super
3:33
glue. I had to fix something yesterday. I sort
3:35
of got it but this super glue what three
3:37
weeks ago and now the tube is solid. It
3:39
was sealed up tight but the glue is no
3:41
good anymore. When they make super glue so that
3:43
it's still glue in a month when you open
3:46
it up then they'll have it lift. Super
3:50
glue is not so super friend.
3:53
So super glue is not one of the
3:56
attachment styles. I was told by a professional
3:58
therapist that when... avoidance
4:00
and anxious get together it's
4:03
often a rocky relationship, but
4:05
the sex is insane That's
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also known as the disorganized
4:12
attachment so Yeah,
4:15
I can picture that being true Anyway,
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if you're an anxious attachment, you
4:21
don't feel necessarily better because the
4:23
person you're in a relationship with
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has made you Instagram official By
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having pictures of the two you together It's
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when they and for some reason picture
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and dudes mostly but I suppose it
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works both ways when they stop Liking
4:37
lots of hot chicks on the Instagram
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not liking like I like you but
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you know clicking the like on their
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profiles Going around to
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hot people and clicking like on them. Are
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there people that do this? I guess you do
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this I don't do this. I am way even
4:54
if I had free time and I don't have
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any I'm not spending it on going around The
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hot people and clicking like on that. What the
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hell is that impulse? I just don't get it
5:03
So for me, this is like hearing about the
5:05
breeding habits of pandas I I'm not engaged in
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this so I can read about it on an
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academic level, but I can't relate to it Maybe
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Katie can help out I just but
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how would I be aware of what
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my partner is like? Yes,
5:21
because you check their phone regularly Well,
5:23
and there was a feature on Instagram
5:26
that you could actually see what the
5:28
people you follow Were
5:30
liking and follow. So you could go to
5:32
the separate section and it would say oh,
5:34
you know Your boyfriend is liking all of
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these only fans It's
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also not uncommon I understand in
5:42
the modern relationship to Have
5:45
access to each other's phones and then you can look
5:47
through their Instagram and see what they're doing when I
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hear that That is the first the first thing that
5:52
comes to my mind is alright. You guys don't trust
5:54
each other That I
5:56
mean I my husband and I both have
5:58
access to each other's phones could not tell you Yeah,
8:00
my wife has her phone, I have my phone, that's
8:03
it. We don't worry about it. Well
8:06
now, do you not let her look for your phone? Oh,
8:08
she can. Yeah, but we don't look at each other's phone.
8:11
We don't even think about it, you know? She does her
8:13
thing, I do my thing. I must
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say, I've never asked to look at somebody's phone. Yeah.
8:20
But I haven't had that much experience with it.
8:23
But anyway, they say that is the way to
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make somebody feel the most comfortable. Not
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cruising through the Instagrams and liking hot
8:29
people's... When you stop doing that, that's
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when they feel like you're together more
8:33
than the declaring your
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Instagram official. I guess. Weird
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planet we're on right now. Yeah,
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I know. There's
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a... Therapists should weigh in
8:45
on this. This has got to be a whole different world
8:47
just all the way around in that there's
8:51
no way... Not
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that many years ago, you're a couple
8:56
and you're sitting there on the couch
8:58
watching television and one of you is
9:00
flirting with someone. Impossible,
9:03
obviously. Right. I
9:05
mean, just obviously. But in the modern world,
9:07
decent, not a decent chance, depending on who you are,
9:10
but an easy, easy opportunity. You
9:12
can be sitting right there together watching TV and
9:14
one of you or both of you are flirting
9:16
with other people or multiple people. I
9:21
just, again, am looking at mankind
9:23
and thinking, yeah, this isn't working
9:25
anymore. There's
9:28
no... Then that's here to
9:30
stay. That's never going to go away, which
9:32
obviously adds a dynamic that... Well,
9:35
like old wiener. Hilary's...
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Oh, the wiener. Hilary's
9:43
number one, Huma
9:45
Abidine, her husband. Oh,
9:47
Anthony Wiener. Anthony Wiener was laying in bed. He's
9:50
a wiener, a wiener. He was laying in bed
9:52
next to his wife, sending
9:54
pics to high school girls. I mean,
9:56
that was impossible. Not that many years
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ago. What is
10:01
child line right next to him at one
10:03
point right where you're basically cheating on your spouse
10:05
while you're in bed together I mean that would have
10:09
I think you would have noticed You
10:11
had to be skillful to pull that off Super
10:14
quiet don't jiggle the bed I
10:20
spent thinking about that whole situation I had
10:22
to completely erased it from my brain until
10:25
you guys just brought it back up But
10:27
that that's just that's just an element of
10:29
more more ways and reasons to be insecure
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and worry That just did not
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exist That many years ago
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then there's no getting around it Exponentially
10:40
more opportunities to be things
10:43
to worry about than there ever were before I mean it's
10:45
like once you're both home from work at 5 o'clock you
10:47
were in the clear I mean in terms of anything to
10:49
worry about right? That's just no longer true Right.
10:52
Yeah Trouble times
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it's become clear to me that
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they're trying to subvert the West as
18:12
hard as they can, and they have
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a weird kind of informal
18:16
alliance with a lot of the neo-Marxists who want
18:18
to tear down the West for other reasons. There
18:22
are that hardcore, and they're very, very dangerous.
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But it's become more
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and more clear to me
18:28
that they've just been really,
18:30
really successful in persuading with
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moral phony, moral arguments,
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a lot of good people to go along
18:37
with their insidious plans. And
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that's actually one of the subtleties of the
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subversion thing that I was talking about quoting
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the Russian agent, was once you get the
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ball rolling, you don't even have to do
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the work anymore. The people of that country
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system from within. But
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I'm not sure if I have a point. It's just that we,
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the sane patriots,
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people who understand the value of the freedom
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we have got to get aggressive at
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they have K through PhD now.
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We let that happen bad on us. And
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21:47
He's not going to make it to the ballot. No way. I'm
21:50
not talking about dying, but in terms of coherence.
21:52
I was having this conversation with my dad last
21:54
night. If you don't want
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Joe Biden. about
28:00
the plan if he wins? I
28:04
think it'll depend on how quickly
28:06
he declines. He
28:08
shouldn't be president now. I know.
28:11
Oh, I know. No. Um,
28:14
so I don't know. I don't have
28:16
sources like Mark Halpern, but I guarantee
28:18
you this conversation is being had times
28:20
a thousand all the
28:23
time in Democratic circles just quietly
28:25
and and no plan has been
28:27
you know formed up because that
28:29
would be akin to you know,
28:31
talking about tossing off the
28:33
King. Well, that's why I wonder maybe people don't say
28:35
it out loud. It's
28:37
just the it wouldn't be cool. God,
28:40
well, I don't know. I can't
28:42
believe there's that much discipline. How
28:45
do you and that the
28:47
discipline that it would take to overcome the
28:49
obvious, but I would think you would
28:51
have to be so far down the road of yeah, there's
28:54
a bunch of us that know he's got to be
28:56
replaced if he wins. Like
28:59
I said, I can buy the nobody's working to
29:01
get him booted off the ticket. I don't buy
29:03
the there's no plan if he wins and so
29:06
you'd have been that you'd need a bunch of
29:08
people and you'd have to be talking to some
29:10
potential candidates. And how would that not leak out?
29:12
You'd have to be flying Gavin Newsom in to
29:14
have dinner with him and talk to him about
29:16
this or something. Early dinner. I
29:19
just I say wow, he had missed
29:22
it. So I think they're probably meeting
29:24
with some of the the most likely
29:26
suspects and saying we'd like
29:29
you to speak at the convention
29:31
wink. You need to prepare
29:33
a really good speech. Wink. Not that
29:35
we're getting rid of the old guy.
29:37
Wink wink. I
29:39
mean, it would be awesome if you would show like
29:42
ready to go on day one presidential
29:44
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nudge. Wink. Are you following this? Wink.
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Any chance you'd be interested in vacationing
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for a few days? And I don't
29:55
know a major geopolitical location. Wink wink.
30:00
This is so weird. There's never been a
30:02
period like this When
30:06
FDR ran for his fourth term is
30:08
close ish But
30:11
but Harry Truman was
30:13
a non idiot Right.
30:16
Yeah, I think they could picture him being president
30:19
of the United States. Sure. Yeah That's
30:23
why If Trump makes
30:25
a wise pick for Veep it will
30:27
matter more than any vice presidential pick
30:29
for a very long time And
30:32
they're not inconsequential If
30:35
you're young and fairly
30:37
untried Like a George
30:39
Bush or a Barack Obama It
30:41
mattered that Dick Cheney was there and
30:43
it mattered that Joe Biden was there
30:46
the steady old Washington hand ironically And
30:50
if Trump can get a boy JD
30:52
Vance's complex character, I saw him on special
30:54
report with Brett bear He is an
30:56
extremely bright guy in a serious man.
30:58
Which one's the real him? Do you
31:00
think right? Well, I was just
31:02
gonna say he's a extremely bright and a very serious
31:05
man in a wildly populist
31:07
time And then you
31:09
got Marco Rubio if it's either one of those I
31:11
think The National Review is
31:13
trying to push Nikki Haley I don't see that
31:15
happening. But if he can pick somebody who's seen
31:18
as smart and capable and yeah, I could see
31:20
him in the big seat Then
31:23
the Biden is
31:25
dying and Kamala's a lunkhead will become
31:29
Issue in the campaign it will
31:31
it will surpass inflation and immigration.
31:34
I Don't
31:39
know 90-minute debate
31:41
really Who wants
31:43
that? It seems like an
31:45
awful long time. It leaves a
31:48
lot of time though for a clip
31:50
42 moment there Michael I'm
31:56
not sure gonna do show away
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