Ayodele Live

This will be my last show - at least for the foreseeable future. I thing it’s time to try out other stuff. You might call it being defeatist, but I don’t see myself that way. I have done all sorts; written books, written blogs, hosted events (M

The People to Avoid at all costs

Jun 3rd, 2015 30m 12s

There are some people who you need to avoid - SIMPLES! This doesn't mean that you have to cut them from your life entirely - but sometimes limiting (or controlling) your interaction with these set of people will do you a whole lot of good. And

Are you ageing?

May 27th, 2015 33m 2s

In about 24 hours from when you read this, you will be about 24 hours older. It's not the most facinating thing to hear - but one of the few things we cannot control is getting old. To make matters worse, we are reminded that we are aging all t

Shout it from the high mountain top - "I'll do it my way"

May 20th, 2015 45m 21s

There are ways things are meant to be done. There are some things that simply have to be done in a particular way or manner. What if you can do things within convention but with a bit of unconventionality? What if you can obey the rules, but st

Introducing yourself to yourself

May 13th, 2015 45m 15s

We introduce ourselves to other people, or have other people introduced to us on regular basis. That's how we get to meet and know other people. This is how our scope of influence increases. This is how we get to expand our horizons a bit more.

The best person to always be is you

May 6th, 2015 46m

Nothing beats the feeling of knowing that you are being true to yourself. In a world where too many people have one reason or the other to want to be 'like' someone else, it's a sign of strenght when you can always remain true to yourself. But

There are things you should never tolerate

Apr 29th, 2015 45m

There are things that you should never ever tolerate. This is not about being arrogant – but about knowing what you want out of life and pursuing such. When you tolerate things that you shouldn’t, you get slowed down. So what are those things t

Be Interesting, and get noticed

Apr 22nd, 2015 46m

One of the key ways of standing out in our overcrowded world is by being interesting. Let us face it, most people are not interesting. Spend a few minutes with them - and you're done. On the contrary, don’t you love spending time with people wh

What other people think

Apr 15th, 2015 46m

You cannot always live your life according to what other people think.I am all up for taking advice and submitting to words of wisdom. But when almost every decision is about what others might think, then it becomes something that needs serio

Getting rid of the unnecesary

Apr 8th, 2015 47m

There are so many things that you really can do without. Things that weigh you down unnecessarily and become a burden rather than a blessing. These things should leave your life as quickly as they become part of it otherwise you might be slowed

That does not impress me as much as you think

Mar 31st, 2015 48m

Either you want to admit it or not, we all try to impress others. And actually, we need to. To get people to like you, creating the right impression about yourself will go a long way. However; there is the right way and the wrong way of impress

Do nice guys really finish last?

Mar 25th, 2015 43m

Do they? Do last guys (or people for that matter) finish last? Are they the last to be picked when there is a 'picking' to be done? Are nice people relegated to the bottom of the pile while others climb the ladder a lot quicker? Are nice people

Can you be authentic in an unauthentic world

Mar 19th, 2015 46m

Can you really be authentic – be who you really are, display your true qualities and reveal your real person in a world where assumedly, everyone is trying to be someone else? In a world where we find people being more fake than real. In a worl

Office Politics & Office Gossip

Mar 11th, 2015 46m

Office Gossip, Office Politics, Back Biting. Rumour Spreading – and all the other shenanigans that go on in the office are usually described as being negative – and they can have a detrimental effect on you and your career apparently. But is th

Thoughts in more than one language

Mar 4th, 2015 46m

What language do you think in? Sounds like a bit of a strange question – but if you are bilingual, the question might make some sense. If you are monolingual, you can still think in strange languages. I will explain the whole concept during thi

Having those difficult conversations

Feb 25th, 2015 46m

There are times when you just have to have those conversations; the ones that you either don't want to have or those that you might find a bit daunting. Probably the potential outcome is a bit scary, or you might not be comfortable with having

Knowing when to fight back, and when to hold your peace

Feb 18th, 2015 45m

I was a bit thrown back by a comment from someone today when I told them what my plan for the week was. I was not sure if I had just been insulted or undermined – either way I was shocked. I had to bite my tongue because I knew that an immediat

Done after seven seconds

Feb 11th, 2015 46m

We are judged by what others see in us – and according to a research that was conducted sometimes when, this takes a whole seven seconds. This means that people will make an initially assessment of what you are all about, and make a decision ab

You can't afford to give up - ever

Feb 3rd, 2015 45m

There are times when you would probably ask yourself, “What’s the point?” That’s a sign of wanting to give up. There are times when you will look back and think of the efforts and the near misses that you might have had and then start to ask yo

Something you cannot afford to lose

Jan 27th, 2015 31m

Sometimes due to carelessness, or maybe some unfortunate situation – we suffer losses. Many times, these losses are painful, and many can never be regained. there are some losses where there’s a slight possibility of regaining what might have g

Page 3 Girl Dropped

Jan 20th, 2015 23m

Apparently, The Sun Newspaper might have dropped the idea of the Page 3. This has been a feature of the best selling newspaper in the UK for 44 years. The suggestion is that it’s all ended – or maybe not! Who knows? Either way, the Page 3 ladie

To Impress, or not to Impress

Jan 13th, 2015 37m

Is impressing others really necessary? Do we truly have to impress friends, family, colleagues, people in authority and people we are meeting for the first time to make wave in life? Is trying impress people impactive, or is it just vanity upon

Perfection - an asset or an hindrance?

Jan 6th, 2015 29m

The aim shouldn't be perfection, but rather progress.How better do you want to be in a particular area of your life when compared to the previous year? That's what really matters. When you can measure progress, when you can look back and see

Keeping on with the Christmas Spirit

Dec 23rd, 2014 25m

Christmas is here.It's mainly a happy time for us all irrespective of Religious backgrounds. Shopping Malls and Supermarkets are buzzing with people either buying girts for friends, family members, colleagues or fellow church members – and th

My Car is soon to be Obsolete

Dec 18th, 2014 29m

No one can deny the fact that you're wonderfully made, but everyone wants to be better - even you! Bettering yourself improves your quality of life and gives you something to work towards. However; sometimes you need some help or inspiration.