We wrap up this season with how we got to our now. And in our final 4 we touch on our biggest marital lessons and advice. #freecounseling #whatdoweknow

Ep. 18 The In-Between

Apr 20th, 2019 44m 11s

A few steps forward, a few back. That's what many of the years in between felt like. We inch closer to understanding more about each other and in our final four we talk about the things we think are overrated. Sorry in advance to those on the o

Ep. 17 - The Final 4's

Apr 11th, 2019 1h

We take another break to allow you to get to know us even more! Thanks to those who submitted final 4 suggestions, enjoy our chaos.

Ep. 16 - New Life; Old Habits

Mar 29th, 2019 1h 5m

Apparently changing our location does not heal all. Continue to follow along with us as we start to peel away at the layers and begin to realize how hurt we really were. Lastly, hear some highs and lows of parenting this far! #toysruspoo #wormh

Ep. 15- Functioning Dysfunctionality

Mar 21st, 2019 56m 6s

Join us as we navigate the next year of our life outside of the church. We quickly go from a blissful euphoric state to deep unexplained sorrow. How do you begin to heal when you can't comprehend your own dysfunction? Join us in our final four

Ep. 14 - The Wizard Exposed

Mar 7th, 2019 1h 22m

This episode we find out some news that rocks everyone to the core. Every emotion was experienced. At the same time, there's a path perfectly set up fo us that could only be God orchestrated. Don't miss us sharing each other's quirks and habi

Ep. 13 - The Beginning of the End

Feb 28th, 2019 1h 7m

The Veil lifts and we begin to see the truth. Coming off NYC, we spend Christmas away which allows us to separate from our reality and get more understanding. Our pastors world is slowly crumbling around him, and us. This starts the beginning o

Ep. 12 - Welcome to New York - It's Been Waiting for You

Feb 22nd, 2019 1h 20m

The trip of a lifetime that helped change it all. At the end of our wits and our wallets, we took the opportunity to visit family in the Big Apple. It was there that the fog began to lift slightly and we (Ben) were asked some questions; that fo

Ep. 11 - Earn Your Desk

Feb 14th, 2019 1h 15m

Our final year. Continued long hours, continued distance between us. We talk about the months leading up to the unraveling... Africa part 2, more gambling, and an office lease. Also hear our most memorable Chipotle dates. #unevenfood

Ep. 10 - Slot Machines, Jezebel, and Manwich

Feb 7th, 2019 1h 22m

This week we continue the story with the progression of the business and some of the bigger clients it took on. Making some money doesn't mean you get paid, well some do... Also we discuss some big fears #ufo #gobblegobble

Ep. 9 - Top 10 Signs You May be in a Cult

Jan 31st, 2019 1h

Cult: noun - a misplaced or excessive admiration for a particular person or thing. We share our funny and/or serious top 10-15 signs you may be in a cult. Plus learn some more of our obsessions.

Ep. 8 - Fundraising for First Class

Jan 24th, 2019 1h 16m

We back up a little to share where Carlie's head and heart were at during this time. Then get some amazing fundraising tips and African advice before we share some hidden talents. #smearburger

Ep. 7 - The Final Business

Jan 18th, 2019 1h 16m

So after we were rich for 3 seconds, we started THE business that kept Ben busy for years (as well as nocturnal). This is when the clamps came down and our pastor became the CEO and dictator of our life. In our final four we discuss just a few

Ep. 6 - Show Me the Money!

Jan 11th, 2019 1h 2m

Ben is smart, but is he smarter than a 5th grader? One time we were on TV and won a lot of money. We prayed specifically for this money and it was used to launch a new business, and a lot of other things. Also, learn some guilty pleasures and t

Ep. 5 - The Businesses

Jan 3rd, 2019 1h 21m

Have a good business idea? Or even a terrible one? Reality is we probably tried it. In this episode we go over the businesses we started as a church to bring in money (read lose money). And learn Carlie's 1 million pet peeves in our final four.

Holiday Edition Q and A

Dec 27th, 2018 56m 25s

Join us as we take a break from our story and answer some frequently asked questions. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Ep. 4 - The Spirit of an Armor Bearer...WTF

Dec 20th, 2018 1h 13m

What does an Armor Bearer do? What does the Bible say about it? How did we handle this aspect of ministry/life? All this and more as we discuss oils before they were popular, making proper tea, and a final four that includes a massage that will

Ep. 3 - For Better or For Worse...

Dec 13th, 2018 1h 4m

Newlywed bliss. We discuss how our first year of marriage looked; more time apart than actually together. Another cross country road trip and a breakdown in the bathroom, this episode defines a lot how the next several years looked.

Ep. 2 - The Inner Circle

Dec 6th, 2018 1h 1m

So what brought us to this church? Things didn't start out bad, we saw God move in new ways. Today we talk about our journey to LA and the first few years in the ministry. Hint: being ordained, becoming an armor bearer, and driving across count

Ep. 1 - Listen to the Woman

Nov 26th, 2018 55m 36s

Join Carlie and Ben Buys as they discuss the time God spoke the most clearly in their relationship. He told them to leave a church situation that was unhealthy and was wreaking havoc on their personal and family life.

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