Bullying and social boycott damages the kids on a much deeper level than we can imagine. Social media can prolong, spread and be used to repeat the bullying itself.

It seems that before the kids who were bullies were mostly kids who had a low self esteem. Today that is also the case, but children today also have a really big need to control. With all of that, if we add a pedocentric approach to children (putting kids on a pedestal), the kids don't have a sense of boundaries or others.

A 2008 study from a book The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement by Jean Twenge and W. Keith Campbell said that 25 percent of the kids have behaviour problems which resemble or stem from narcissism.

Some children are born as leaders. It is not a solution to teach them to suppress those inclinations, rather we need to educate them how to use those skills in order to profit everyone.

We as human beings have a natural need to control, even the existence of science is in order to control the nature. That need for control is in its essence nor good nor bad, but if we are try to control self and not others, then it becomes good.

The first step we can all do to help kids not to bully each other and control each other is to start from self and set an example at home.

Educating the kids is at least problem, first we have to start educating the families and come to an agreement on what kind of future we want for our kids.