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everyone and welcome to episode 289 of
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Mike Ferguson. And this is Mike
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Morford. Mr. Morford, man, how are
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you doing in 2024? I'm
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A week off and got to recharge
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know, it was just a good time. relaxing and resting
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so now that we have all of that out of
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the way, let's jump into our first case of 2024.
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And this is
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a big one that a lot of people
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are currently talking about due to
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recent development. Even though this
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is sort of an older closed
3:32
case, it has exploded in the
3:34
news recently. You may have
3:37
heard the name Gypsy Rose Blanchard over
3:39
the holidays a lot because she was
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just released from prison after
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serving just eight years for the
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second degree murder of her mother.
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Her accomplice, the one to actually
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carry out the act of murder, is
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still in prison, serving life without
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the possibility of parole. And
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a lot of people may be familiar with
3:59
this story. There's been a number
4:02
of shows from Hulu's
4:04
The Act, HBO's Mommy's
4:06
Dead and Dearest, or
4:09
the investigation discovery series
4:11
Gypsy's Revenge. If you're
4:13
not that familiar with the case, just sit
4:15
back because this is one of those cases
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that will make your head spin. Gypsy's
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story really starts from her birth. Her
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parents, Rod and Dee Dee, began
4:25
dating when he was a junior in high school and
4:27
she was well past drinking age. In
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1990, when Dee Dee learned she was pregnant, they
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got married. When Gypsy was born on July 27,
4:34
1991, Rod had just turned 18 and Dee Dee was 24. By
4:41
then the two were already separated. Rod
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had realized that he only married Dee Dee to try and
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be a good guy and a good father, but
4:48
it wasn't truly the right thing for him. He
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told Buzzfeed News, I woke
4:52
up on my birthday, on my 18th birthday,
4:55
and realized I wasn't where I was supposed to be.
4:57
I wasn't in love with her really. When
5:00
Gypsy was still an infant, the first of
5:02
her serious illnesses appeared. Dee
5:04
Dee, a nurse's aide, claimed that the
5:06
three month old was showing signs of sleep
5:08
apnea. She started taking Gypsy to
5:10
the hospital, claiming she would stop breathing
5:13
when she was asleep. Despite multiple
5:15
sleep studies and tests, nothing was found.
5:18
By 1994, Rod and Dee Dee were
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officially divorced. In September
5:22
2005, Dee Dee
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and Gypsy moved from Slidell,
5:26
Louisiana to a rented home
5:28
in Aurora, Missouri, while they
5:30
awaited the completion of a
5:33
brand new custom-built home, courtesy
5:35
of Habitat for Humanity. The home
5:37
was built for them due to
5:40
Dee Dee's claim that they were
5:42
displaced because Hurricane Katrina
5:44
had destroyed their apartment. The
5:47
flood had also destroyed all of
5:49
Gypsy's medical records. Their new
5:52
home on West Volunteer Way was
5:54
a beautiful house, complete with a
5:56
large wheelchair ramp for Gypsy who
5:58
could not live. walk, it
6:01
even had a jacuzzi to help relax
6:03
her aching muscles. When they moved
6:05
into the home, Gypsy sometimes needed
6:08
an oxygen tube to breathe,
6:10
and required a feeding tube for
6:13
nutrition. The only thing she
6:15
took in by mouth was Pedialyte. This
6:18
new home was supposed to offer Gypsy some
6:20
stability. She had been sick since
6:22
birth due to what
6:24
Harper's Bazaar described as unspecified
6:26
chromosomal defects. Alleged muscular
6:29
dystrophy had caused such weakness that
6:31
Gypsy couldn't walk, and that resulted
6:33
in her using a wheelchair, though a
6:35
muscle biopsy found no sign of the condition. Neither
6:38
did brain scans or spine scans. By
6:41
claiming that all of their records and belongings were
6:43
ruined in the storm, just like many
6:45
other people who lived in Louisiana when Hurricane Katrina
6:47
hit, Dee Dee was able to
6:49
hide evidence that Gypsy was actually healthy. Instead
6:52
of putting her through a more invasive and painful
6:54
test, medical personnel just believed
6:56
her doting mother. But
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the list of Gypsy's alleged
7:01
health issues didn't stop there.
7:03
According to Dee Dee, Gypsy
7:05
also suffered from severe allergies
7:07
and epileptic seizures every few
7:10
months. The medication she
7:12
took for seizures caused her teeth
7:14
to rot and fall out. Others
7:16
had to be removed due to how damaged
7:19
they were. Then due
7:21
to treatments for leukemia that
7:23
Gypsy supposedly had, she
7:25
was bald. She wore very thick
7:28
glasses due to poor eyesight. Multiple
7:30
surgeries on her eye muscles had
7:32
still left her with weak vision.
7:35
Tubes had been surgically placed in
7:37
her ears due to frequent infections.
7:40
Make a wish granted Gypsy's wish
7:42
of a trip to Disney World. She
7:45
was also able to
7:47
meet Blake Shelton, Miranda Lambert,
7:49
Elijah Wood, and Sean
7:51
Astin. Due to
7:54
her supposed disorders, defects,
7:56
and medications, Dee Dee
7:58
told people that Gypsy had the
8:00
mind of a seven year old, which
8:03
allowed Dee Dee to do the
8:05
talking when it came
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to Gypsy's health conditions. So
8:10
more of let's just stop there for a moment and
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talk about Gypsy. I
8:15
mean, this is a list
8:18
of ailments that,
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you know, obviously you wouldn't wish upon
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anyone. She's having so
8:25
many different health issues
8:27
according to Dee Dee that
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she needs a specialized home. She's
8:33
getting trips from the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
8:35
Yeah, I think any of these things,
8:38
these conditions, these illnesses on their
8:40
own would be bad enough
8:42
but she supposedly had all of these
8:45
things going on at the same time and, you
8:48
know, we're going to find out that a
8:50
lot of this is just made up stuff. But
8:53
it's kind of surprising to me that the
8:55
medical experts along the way didn't
8:58
pry more when they didn't find indications
9:00
that she really had these things. It seems like it
9:03
would have been a red flag for them to
9:05
catch what was going on here. But for some
9:07
reason, she was able to keep
9:09
going with these claims. Well,
9:11
and I think you're touching on a
9:13
subject that many people have brought up.
9:16
And we'll get into it as we go
9:18
further into the episode. But why
9:21
didn't certain people catch
9:23
it? And when
9:25
you hear Gypsy talk,
9:28
which you can in some of
9:30
the documentaries and things, she
9:33
really does sound like a
9:36
very, very small child,
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much younger than what
9:41
her actual age was in some
9:44
of these videos. In
9:46
2009, authorities visited the Blanchard home
9:48
after an anonymous call regarding Gypsy's
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welfare. The informant claimed that
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Gypsy was actually healthy and may
9:55
be in danger due to the abuse by Didi. According
9:57
to Buzzfeed News, officers Investigators
10:00
investigating the claim closed the report, noting
10:03
Gypsy, quote, does suffer from some
10:05
type of mental handicap, but
10:07
other run-ins with the law would follow. In
10:09
February 2011, Gypsy went
10:12
to the hotel room of a man. He
10:14
wasn't a total stranger. They
10:16
had met in person at a science fiction convention
10:18
that Gypsy had gone to with her mom and
10:21
the two kept in touch online after. Deedee
10:23
found the two in their hotel room and told
10:25
the 35-year-old man he was in a world of
10:27
trouble, presenting documents that proved that
10:29
Gypsy was only 15. But
10:32
as we mentioned at the top of this episode, Gypsy
10:34
was born in 1991, so she was in reality just
10:37
four months away from her 20th birthday. This
10:40
man didn't know Gypsy's true age and
10:43
obviously scared by the prospect of bringing a
10:45
15-year-old back to his hotel room. The
10:47
man let Deedee take Gypsy home without an
10:49
argument. Now, Morr, if there's
10:51
quite an age difference there, but
10:54
in reality, he
10:56
wasn't doing anything illegal, but
10:59
you can imagine how scared this guy would
11:02
have been. And I think some people
11:04
maybe thought that he
11:06
had a chance to take Gypsy out
11:08
of the situation with her
11:10
mom, but I think to your
11:13
point, not really knowing that
11:15
she was an adult, he wasn't arguing with
11:17
Deedee. He was just like, okay, take her
11:19
home. I don't want any trouble. Oh,
11:22
not when he's being told that she's 15 years
11:25
old. I'm assuming he wanted
11:27
to extricate himself from that
11:29
situation as quickly as possible.
11:32
The hotel incident caused some friction
11:34
between mother and daughter. Privately,
11:37
Gypsy was scolded for going to
11:39
the hotel and what really was
11:41
an escape attempt, really.
11:44
According to Harper's Bazaar, Deedee warned Gypsy,
11:47
if you ever try to do that
11:49
again, I'm going to smash your fingers
11:51
with a hammer. Once they got
11:53
home, Deedee chained Gypsy to the
11:56
bed and showed her just what
11:58
it looked like when something got got
12:00
smashed with a hammer, destroying gypsy
12:02
cell phone and laptop, her only
12:04
connections to the outside world. For
12:07
two weeks, Gypsy was not allowed to get
12:09
up from that bed she was chained to.
12:11
So I mean, this
12:14
is really when a different type
12:16
of abuse began for Gypsy at
12:18
the hands of her mother, Dee Dee, to
12:21
make Gypsy pretend that she was
12:23
a sickly child and to
12:26
make her live as such was
12:28
already awful, but now she was
12:30
essentially holding her hostage with chains
12:33
and threatening violence. So
12:35
obviously, Morphes had been going on
12:37
for many years. It
12:40
started when Gypsy was young,
12:42
but my thought is as she got
12:44
older, and by this point in
12:47
the story, she's an adult, it
12:50
would have gotten tougher and tougher
12:52
for Dee Dee to try
12:56
to control her, to try to
12:58
convince her that she
13:00
had all these different type of
13:02
ailments. We mentioned it, right?
13:04
Her only connection to the
13:06
outside world was kind of through
13:08
her computer. So she was
13:11
talking to a lot of people online,
13:13
things like that. At
13:15
a certain point, she has
13:17
to think, I don't want to do
13:19
this anymore. I want to
13:21
experience the world. I want to meet
13:23
people. Yeah, you have to wonder if
13:26
Dee Dee's sudden change to threatening
13:29
violence and chaining her up was
13:31
a way to try and keep that
13:33
control over her, because she felt she was getting
13:35
to a point where she was going to start
13:38
thinking for herself and maybe
13:40
leaving that situation. So it seems like
13:42
Dee Dee really ramped up the
13:45
pressure to keep her under her
13:47
control. I think
13:50
the next thing that you have
13:52
to ask is, what was
13:54
Dee Dee getting out of this
13:56
whole thing? sympathy
14:01
throughout the years from different
14:03
people all look at
14:05
my daughter she's she's going through all
14:07
of these things and obviously
14:09
people around her would be
14:11
very sympathetic. Is also
14:14
what we mentioned right the house
14:16
the trips to disney world things
14:18
like that. Was it
14:20
that she just didn't want all of
14:22
that to go away. Yeah there
14:24
doesn't have to be just a financial
14:27
benefit from all of it or getting
14:29
free stuff you know it could be
14:31
as you mentioned the attention something. That
14:34
maybe the the craved and
14:36
she found a way to get it by using
14:38
her daughter this way and you
14:41
know who knows when
14:43
people do this kind of thing what they get
14:45
from it but it's clear that the. Kept
14:48
going with it and didn't let let
14:51
it stop but i think
14:53
you're on the right track the
14:55
sympathy the attention that was probably
14:57
the main thing. I two
14:59
thousand twelve gypsy was very lonely and
15:01
looking to escape her mother she
15:04
began to use the computer at night after she had
15:06
gone to bed. He made herself
15:08
a profile on a christian dating website hoping
15:10
to meet someone good who could come save her
15:13
and could get her out of the terrible situation she
15:15
was in one of the men gypsy met
15:18
nicolas go to john lived in big
15:20
ben wisconsin. He was very taken
15:22
with gypsy he printed out copies of
15:24
the message she sent him they talked
15:26
often whenever he was asleep and
15:30
the two formed a bond. In
15:32
two thousand thirteen nicolas go
15:34
to john ran into some
15:36
legal trouble when he was
15:38
caught masturbating and watching pornography
15:40
on his laptop in a
15:42
mcdonalds. This incident was said
15:44
to have taken place over nine
15:46
hours now i don't
15:48
know if this was a continuous
15:51
nine hours if he had
15:53
just been at the location for a long time
15:55
before he started acting in
15:58
appropriately or if. He
16:00
had been asked to leave several
16:02
times over the course of those
16:04
nine hours before someone finally decided
16:06
to call the police. I
16:08
can't imagine he was watching
16:11
pornography and masturbating for nine
16:14
straight hours. But
16:16
either way, it was disturbing. But
16:18
it didn't stop Gypsy from
16:20
continuing on with the secret
16:22
relationship with him. In fact,
16:24
Gypsy kept Nicholas Godojon a
16:26
secret until 2014 when
16:29
she told a neighbor, Aaliyah Woodmansey,
16:32
all about him and their plans
16:34
to elope. Aaliyah, who thought
16:37
Gypsy was still a minor at
16:39
the time, was a bit
16:41
shocked due to Gypsy's revelation
16:43
that their relationship involved a
16:46
bit of BDSM. Aaliyah
16:48
warned her that talking to Godojon
16:50
wasn't a great idea, but didn't
16:52
push the issue because she thought
16:55
that a lot of these plans
16:57
Gypsy mentioned were probably just a
16:59
fantasy. When Didi found
17:01
out that Aaliyah had been talking
17:03
to Gypsy about relationships and sex,
17:06
she was furious. Aaliyah
17:08
told BuzzFeed News that Didi
17:10
confronted her, saying, I'm
17:12
not going to tell your mom about the things
17:15
you said, but I don't want you
17:17
talking to Gypsy like that. He
17:19
also punished Gypsy, taking away
17:21
her computer and phone. The
17:24
fall of 2014 was the
17:26
last time Aaliyah spoke with
17:29
Gypsy. And this is
17:31
another thing that I think you
17:33
see from Didi that would have
17:36
been very important to her in
17:39
what she was trying to do. You
17:41
have to keep as many
17:43
outside influences away from Gypsy
17:46
as you can. You
17:48
can't allow her to have a bunch of
17:50
friends. You can't allow her to be talking
17:52
to too many people because
17:54
it could ruin what
17:58
you're trying to do. It
18:00
seems like it would make it harder to keep
18:02
up the charade when you've got people
18:04
poking and prodding and asking
18:06
questions and talking about different
18:08
subjects. And I also think
18:10
that Dee Dee probably wanted
18:13
to be around when people were talking
18:15
to Gypsy so she could sort of
18:17
manipulate the conversation in a
18:19
direction that she wanted it to be on. In
18:22
2015, Gypsy and
18:24
Nicholas Godajon, who was then 26, tried
18:27
to set up a fake first meeting with Dee Dee. Godajon
18:30
traveled from Wisconsin to Springfield, Missouri to
18:32
try and just run into
18:34
Gypsy at a screening of Cinderella. Gypsy
18:37
and Nicholas felt that if it looked like they had met in
18:39
person out of the blue, then Dee Dee
18:41
would approve of them dating. This didn't happen,
18:44
and Dee Dee was extremely put off by Nicholas Godajon. During
18:47
the movie, Gypsy excused herself and
18:49
went to the bathroom. Nicholas met
18:51
her there, and the two were able to have sex. They
18:54
hoped that Gypsy would get pregnant from this first
18:56
time, so that as the father of
18:58
Gypsy's baby, Dee Dee wouldn't be able to keep
19:00
them apart. But Gypsy didn't get
19:02
pregnant, and they started working on another
19:04
plan, and this plan would turn deadly. No
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we'll deliver, leaving plenty of
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time for the important things, like
19:29
opening a nice, cold can of
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aluminum. Metal supermarkets. Order
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June 2015, Gypsy
19:41
and Nicholas finally decided on what
19:43
they would do. They felt
19:45
that the only way for
19:47
Gypsy to escape from Dee Dee would
19:49
be if Dee Dee was dead. On
19:52
the ninth of that month, Nicholas
19:54
arrived in Missouri, checked into a
19:56
hotel, and waited for Gypsy
19:59
to text him. Once Dede
20:01
was asleep, Gypsy sent Nicholas
20:03
a text and he traveled to their home,
20:05
where Gypsy quietly let him
20:08
inside. She also handed him
20:10
a knife that she had stolen from
20:12
Walmart and a pair of latex gloves
20:14
and pointed him to Dede's room before
20:17
she walked into the bathroom to
20:19
hide, while her boyfriend headed
20:21
into Dede's room to do the unthinkable.
20:24
Though she covered her ears, Gypsy still
20:27
heard the attack. Dede
20:29
was startled by the intruder, first yelling
20:31
out, wondering who was in her bedroom.
20:33
As Nicholas Go to John moved in and began to
20:36
stab her, Dede called out her daughter's
20:38
name. It was almost enough for
20:40
Gypsy to change her mind. Gypsy would
20:42
later tell Harper's bizzare of the moment. At
20:45
that point, I wanted to go help her so bad,
20:47
but I was so afraid to get up, explaining,
20:50
it's like my body wouldn't move. Almost
20:52
as soon as it had begun, the attack was over. Then
20:55
everything just went quiet. Nicholas
20:57
Go to John came out of Dede's
21:00
room and entered the bathroom. He
21:02
had cut himself while stabbing Dede
21:04
and his finger was bleeding. He
21:07
and Gypsy tended to his womb and
21:10
tried to clean up the scene before
21:12
going into Gypsy's room and
21:14
having sex. Gypsy
21:17
gathered some belongings, including
21:19
between $4,000 and $5,000 in cash from her mother's
21:23
room. She
21:26
left the home for good, actually walking on
21:28
her own. Her wheelchair was
21:30
left behind in the bathroom. The
21:32
pair called a yellow cab and went
21:34
back to the Springfield Days Inn, where
21:36
Nicholas had booked a room. Though
21:39
Nicholas had booked a return ticket
21:41
for himself on a Greyhound bus,
21:44
the bus was full and there was
21:46
no room for Gypsy to accompany him, delaying
21:49
their getaway. They stayed at the Days Inn
21:51
until June 14th. Then
21:54
they were both able to get on
21:56
the bus back to Big Ben, Wisconsin,
21:59
before leaving Missouri. They mailed
22:01
the knife used to kill Dee Dee
22:03
back to Nicholas's home So
22:05
they could not get caught with
22:08
it while they travel some more
22:10
if the deed is done Dee
22:12
Dee is dead, but I
22:14
kind of want to go back and and analyze
22:17
the The planning,
22:20
you know, obviously this had been building
22:23
for a long time with
22:25
Dee Dee Wanting to get away. I
22:28
think it was accelerated Once
22:31
she met Nicholas go to John
22:34
But I think the thought was there and
22:36
had been there for a while and
22:39
then this kind of revelation by
22:41
the pair that they eventually you
22:44
know settled on the idea that the
22:47
only way for Gypsy
22:49
to get away for them to
22:51
be together was for Dee
22:54
Dee to be dead and
22:57
so they put that plan in motion Yeah,
22:59
it's I always wonder when we
23:02
talk about cases where somebody has a choice
23:04
of Killing someone or
23:06
just leaving the situation why
23:08
they just choose to stay and and
23:11
and kill someone as opposed to just
23:13
walking away and You
23:15
know, we mentioned several times that it
23:18
seems like gypsy felt she was controlled by Dee Dee
23:21
She didn't know how to leave maybe on her own
23:23
So that's it's easy to say
23:25
why wouldn't somebody just walk out on that
23:27
situation But I guess you're unless
23:29
unless you're in her shoes. You
23:31
don't know what it's like to be controlled like that. So
23:35
You know that but I always it always comes up in
23:37
these cases where there's a question of
23:40
why a person just doesn't walk out On a
23:42
situation and later decides to turn to
23:44
a violent conclusion No,
23:46
I think that question is very natural
23:48
I mean she is an adult Gypsy
23:52
so, you know in a lot
23:54
of people's minds, okay get
23:57
with Nicholas Run away
23:59
together do whatever you want to do legally, she could
24:01
have done that. But
24:05
to your point more mentally,
24:07
was she able to just break
24:10
away like that? She
24:12
had been controlled essentially
24:14
her entire life. And
24:16
this was a level of control that
24:19
was really kind of all inclusive.
24:21
I mean, every facet of her
24:24
life was controlled from
24:26
how she talked to whether
24:28
or not she walked. I
24:31
mean, it's part of the
24:33
fascination with this case. Yeah,
24:35
I think it's a little bit of a contradiction too, because
24:38
Gypsy later said, you know,
24:41
in that moment when Nicholas
24:43
was stabbing her mom, she
24:46
almost wanted to stop it, she regretted
24:48
it. But then after
24:50
her mom's dead, they go
24:52
into her room to have sex,
24:54
which is just to me, if you're
24:56
all broken up about what just happened and you regretted
24:58
it, how do you go from that
25:01
point to going in the room and having sex,
25:03
just very, very strange to
25:05
me. And we also don't
25:07
know exactly where, you know, her
25:09
mind is at, at this
25:11
point. You know, how good
25:13
is her mental health after
25:16
going through what she'd gone through
25:18
for so many years? And I'm
25:20
sure we'll talk about that more
25:22
as we go along. And I just wanted to
25:24
touch on too, a little bit about
25:27
the planning. It seems like on
25:29
one hand they said, okay, we don't wanna get
25:31
caught on the bus ride back having
25:33
this knife, so let's
25:36
get rid of it. But, you know,
25:38
that seems smart if you're trying
25:40
to avoid getting caught. But on the other hand, mailing
25:43
it back doesn't seem like the smartest of things to
25:45
do. It seems like you could just throw it on
25:47
a river someplace and be done
25:49
with it instead of holding onto it.
25:51
So not quite sure about the thinking
25:53
regarding that. Well, so
25:55
let's be honest, right? A high level of
25:58
planning or a lot of planning. Doesn't
26:00
always equate to good
26:03
planning you can come up with a
26:05
lot of plans But they're
26:07
not always gonna be good
26:10
and and I agree with you You
26:12
know mailing the knife to
26:14
his house seems so strange at
26:17
1232 p.m. On June 14 2015 a Facebook
26:21
post made by the account shared by gyps
26:23
in DD set off the first alarm
26:26
bells the post read that
26:28
bitch is dead It was extremely out
26:30
of character for the religious good-hearted Selfless
26:33
mother that people knew or at least
26:35
thought they knew DD to be but
26:37
with Facebook There's always the possibility of
26:39
someone getting hacked a few people
26:42
reached out to try and tell them to change
26:44
your password and remove the post But
26:46
no one heard back from either gypsy or
26:48
DD Soon people noticed
26:51
that DD's van which she used to transport
26:53
gypsy in her wheelchair and was still
26:55
parked in the driveway and hadn't moved Another
26:58
Facebook post appeared and in
27:01
the minds of those who knew them It
27:04
clearly couldn't have been from DD
27:06
or gypsy it read I fucking
27:09
slashed that fat pig and
27:11
raped her sweet innocent daughter
27:13
her scream was so fucking
27:15
loud Lol it was
27:18
all in capital letters meant to
27:20
grab attention The
27:22
comments of this account were
27:24
quickly full of friends and neighbors Trying
27:27
to figure out what had happened to the
27:29
two not knowing that DD
27:31
was dead They also didn't
27:33
know that it was indeed gypsy. That
27:36
was the one actually posting
27:38
on Facebook She felt
27:40
that by making those posts Someone
27:43
would go to DD's home sooner
27:45
rather than later to check on her
27:48
Gypsy later told Harper's bazaar
27:50
of making the Facebook post
27:53
I Couldn't stand the thought of her
27:55
just there because what happens if it
27:57
would have taken months to find her?
28:00
So. I wanted her found so she could
28:02
have a proper. Burial. So.
28:05
Here again. moreover in I think
28:07
what we're seeing is. A. Little
28:09
bit of a dichotomy were.
28:12
Gypsy. Once. Away
28:14
from her mother, To the
28:16
point did that she's willing to
28:18
hatch. You're a murder plot. But.
28:21
Then at certain. Points.
28:23
It's almost as if she feels. Bad.
28:26
For her. And away. But. She
28:28
wants to run to help her. Now
28:30
she wants to make sure that someone
28:33
fine sir, So. That she can
28:35
get a proper. Burial. Now.
28:37
Keep in mind this is still her mother.
28:40
Ethic. It's clear that she cared for
28:42
her mom in some way despite all
28:44
the abuse she had suffered, but it
28:46
is a real. Contradiction.
28:48
In. Gone from killing her
28:51
to than worrying about from. Not.
28:53
Been found for love. And I
28:55
also. It. Makes. Me
28:57
think. What? Was Gypsies plan?
28:59
Was she just gonna hopefully him of
29:01
with ever being identified and found. What?
29:04
Was going to be her story when the
29:06
police eventually tracked her down. Was.
29:08
She going to say some guy broke
29:10
in and tell my mom and rate
29:12
damn in it is. Really? Leads
29:14
me to to wonder how far ahead this
29:17
was thought out and if. If. It
29:19
was thought up at all which is too long term.
29:21
plan was. The I don't know
29:23
how much. Planning. When.
29:26
And or how solid the planning
29:28
was right? because. It's
29:30
one thing. To. Figure out
29:32
a way to. Murder
29:35
Someone. And they did
29:37
that successfully. But. It is.
29:39
It's a completely different thing
29:41
you to think farther down
29:43
the road about. Okay, how
29:45
are we gonna get away with this?
29:47
What's gonna happen when. They. Come
29:50
looking for me because you know they're
29:52
going to. Apparently gypsies
29:54
facebook posts plan worked. Because
29:56
or friend decided to climb in through a
29:58
window. indeed home to
30:00
investigate. There were no lights on inside
30:03
the empty house, but it was very cold. The
30:05
air conditioner was set on high. The
30:08
only sign of anything wrong was Gypsy's wheelchair
30:10
was there. Dee Dee and Gypsy would
30:12
have never left home without it. Authorities had
30:14
to wait to obtain a search warrant to enter
30:16
the home, but they didn't have to wait very
30:18
long. At 10.45
30:20
pm on June 14th, they discovered
30:22
Dee Dee's bloody body, face down in
30:24
her bed. Neighbors were stunned and
30:26
couldn't think of any motive for the awful crime.
30:29
One neighbor named Kevin Corbusier told
30:32
the Springfield News Leader she
30:34
was the nicest lady in the world. I can't
30:36
believe how anybody could even have a bad word
30:38
to say about her. Another neighbor,
30:41
David Aiken, added, she was
30:43
always coming up and asking us if we
30:45
needed something from Walmart or wherever they were
30:47
going. They're kind of like family to us.
30:50
And a third neighbor named Angelique Overstritt
30:52
said she would bring us Christmas
30:54
cards and cookies. She was just real
30:56
giving. I don't understand why anyone would
30:59
want to hurt her. And you
31:01
know, this is something that we talk about in a
31:03
lot of cases. Obviously
31:05
after something happens,
31:08
neighbors are interviewed and
31:11
even some of the most heinous
31:14
serial killers. Neighbors have
31:16
nothing but good things to
31:18
say about them. And here we have
31:20
Dee Dee who obviously
31:23
was very nice to
31:25
the people around her, to
31:27
her neighbors, because they had
31:29
nothing but amazing things
31:31
to say about her. Yeah,
31:34
it certainly wasn't the kind of
31:36
neighbor where you just wait till they say hi
31:38
in your driveway or something like
31:40
that. It seemed like she got involved in talking
31:42
to people and offering to do things for them.
31:44
So she really presented herself in
31:47
a way that made them think highly
31:49
of her. Well, I can tell
31:51
you I've lived in this same house for
31:53
over 20 years and not one time has
31:55
Any of my neighbors come up and said,
31:57
hey, we're going to Walmart. Do You need
31:59
anything? That has Never happen.
32:02
But. It makes me wonder was
32:04
deemed. This. Really nice
32:07
person. Who. Just.
32:09
Did this terrible thing to her
32:12
daughter? Or. Was. See.
32:14
Kind. Of putting on an act for these
32:16
people as well. Because. Would.
32:19
She wanted to have gone out of
32:21
her way. To. Make these people
32:24
saying that she's a great mother.
32:26
Because. She's doing all these other
32:28
things. You. Know to gypsy. So.
32:31
She doesn't want anyone to be
32:33
suspicious. And. It's she's
32:35
willing to lie. And
32:37
make up things about her own
32:40
daughter. And present things in
32:42
a way to the outside world.
32:44
There. Are true and. I. Suggest
32:46
a question. The. Way she was
32:49
to everyone including the neighbors. It
32:51
was clear that to those
32:53
who knew Dd, her murder
32:55
shocked him. Even the Springfield
32:58
Branch of Habitat for Humanity
33:00
released a statement about Dds
33:02
murder saying this news is
33:04
devastating to Habitat. For. Humanity
33:07
of Springfield, Missouri. Our community
33:09
and family. Over
33:11
sixty people attended a vigil
33:13
for Dd while Gypsy was
33:15
still missing gypsies will chair
33:17
and medications being left behind.
33:20
Worried. Every one. Soon. Neighbor
33:22
Aliyah would Manzi informed him
33:25
that scares of gypsies online
33:27
relationship with Nicholas go to
33:30
jail. She. Also told them
33:32
about gypsy secret facebook accounts.
33:35
using. The name emirates.
33:37
So. This gave investigators something
33:40
to go. It was
33:42
feared the gypsy lever one thought couldn't
33:44
walk had been kidnapped as trapped at
33:46
the mercy of are tapped. Detectors.
33:48
Immediately looked at the electronic devices to see
33:51
who gypsy had been talking with. And.
33:53
Rebel to track down Nicholas go to
33:55
John's Ip address. Registered to the
33:57
home and big bent. On June
33:59
Fifteen, Authorities from Waukesha
34:01
County, Wisconsin surrounded the go to
34:03
John home. Gypsy and Nicholas
34:06
for taken into custody without incident. During.
34:09
A press conference early on
34:11
June sixteen authorities revealed that
34:13
Gypsy had been found safe.
34:16
But. Green County Sheriff Jim are not
34:18
worn. Things. Are not always
34:20
as they appear. He. Revealed the
34:22
gypsy was not disable that
34:25
she could walk. But. He
34:27
didn't tell the public yeah that she was
34:29
part of the plan. To kill her
34:31
mother. Only. Saying we're not
34:34
ruling anything out. It
34:36
was also revealed that investigators
34:38
weren't yet sure of how old
34:40
Gypsy even was. Just said
34:42
they knew. It. Was at least
34:44
nineteen, but could be as old as
34:47
twenty three. And every piece
34:49
of this news. Was. A shock.
34:51
To those who knew, gypsy. Anticipating
34:54
the public's confusion. Sheriff are
34:56
not said it's a very
34:58
twisted store. Trying to sort
35:01
out what is true and what's not
35:03
in as far as motives and how.
35:05
All. Of that links back. We.
35:07
Just know there is a lot
35:10
of deception. It. Was a feeling
35:12
he was used to in the case. The
35:14
sheriff later told the Springfield News
35:16
Leader. Of the bizarre ness
35:18
of this case is kind of what
35:20
movies are made up. That. Very
35:23
twisted information that you don't
35:25
see it coming around the
35:27
corner. When. The information key
35:29
man? You realize. How is
35:31
that possible? On. June seventeenth: Both
35:34
Nicholas and Gypsy were each charged
35:36
with murder and felony armed criminal
35:38
action. And. Held on one million
35:40
dollars bail. It. Was a shock to those
35:42
who knew just Cndd. Neighbor. Liam
35:45
would manzi. Still, Supported
35:47
zip he despite the shark infusion,
35:49
Later. Told the news leader. It.
35:51
Bounces back and forth between reality
35:54
and being really surreal. Because.
35:56
Is just so appalling. The. Whole thing.
35:59
It. just felt like a bad I have
36:01
always felt it was important to support her no
36:03
matter what's going on and try to
36:05
be someone she can count on. So I
36:07
have been at every pretrial hearing. Gypsy's
36:10
attorneys had trouble accessing her medical records
36:13
due to DDS fraud, forgeries, and
36:15
power of attorney. So it was
36:17
a real challenge for them. On July 6, 2015,
36:21
just over a year after the murder, Gypsy
36:24
Blanchard pleaded guilty to one charge
36:26
of second degree murder. She received
36:28
a sentence of 10 years in
36:31
prison, the minimum sentence for
36:33
murder in the second degree, and
36:35
this is something people still
36:38
disagree on to this day. Many
36:40
people feel that a murder is a
36:42
murder and that especially
36:45
at 23 years old, Gypsy had
36:48
options. She knew right from
36:50
wrong. Others feel that
36:52
mental health treatment was more appropriate
36:54
due to the many years of
36:58
court abuse. She suffered at the
37:00
hands of her mom and that she
37:02
felt she had no other alternative to
37:05
escape her. Greene County
37:07
Prosecutor Dan Patterson understood
37:09
the complexity of the case. He told
37:11
the newsletter, when you look at this
37:14
case, it's a murder and
37:16
it's a first-degree murder, but
37:19
it's also one of the most
37:21
extraordinary and unusual cases we have
37:23
seen, explaining why he
37:25
allowed such a plea deal. Gypsy's
37:29
attorney Mike Stanfield explained to the
37:31
news leader that Gypsy was desperate.
37:34
He said, essentially Gypsy's mother was
37:36
holding her prisoner. If he
37:38
had needed to go to trial, he would have
37:40
had a lifetime of evidence against DeeDee to focus
37:42
on. He said, you're talking about
37:44
a fraud that started when Gypsy Blanchard
37:46
was probably four or so, somewhere
37:48
in that age range. It was part
37:51
of her entire life growing up. The
37:53
situation was also complicated because
37:55
Gypsy believed what she had been
37:57
told about her father. DeeDee had told people
37:59
around them. them that he was a deadbeat, addicted
38:02
to drugs, and didn't want anything to
38:04
do with Gypsy. He had paid child
38:06
support for most of Gypsy's life, but
38:08
Didi decided to keep that a secret
38:10
from everyone, including Gypsy. And
38:13
I think more of you can see
38:15
why different people
38:17
could have different opinions
38:20
on this case. It is
38:22
a polarizing one. Some
38:25
people think, you know, she should have
38:27
gotten a much harsher sense. Some
38:29
people are taking into account, you
38:32
know, all of this stuff
38:34
that happened to her her entire life,
38:36
feeling trapped, like she had no way
38:38
out. And there's no
38:40
doubt what Didi did to Gypsy was
38:43
horrible. She lied about
38:46
pretty much everything over
38:49
her, you know, entire life. Told
38:51
her she was sick. Told her that,
38:53
you know, her dad was a
38:55
deadbeat, left him. Meanwhile, he's
38:58
paying child support. Yeah, to
39:00
me, I go back to the whole, you know,
39:03
looking at it from my perspective,
39:06
I think if this was me, I would
39:08
just walk out the door and say, I'm never
39:10
going to talk to you again. I want
39:12
nothing to do with you because of this. But
39:14
again, not being in Gypsy's shoes,
39:17
we don't know how much
39:20
control she felt her
39:22
mom had over her. Maybe
39:24
she thought this was her only way to get out
39:26
of this. So you know, it's easy to just look
39:28
at it from a distance and say, well,
39:30
I would have done this, I would have done that. But
39:33
unless you're in Gypsy's shoes, it's hard to see
39:35
what you would really do in that situation. And
39:38
I also think this is a tough case to
39:41
come up with the appropriate
39:43
sentence. Obviously, the prosecutor
39:48
settled on a plea deal. And
39:51
I think based on what he
39:53
said, he took all this stuff
39:55
into account. And maybe he thought
39:57
if this had gone to a jury, they might
39:59
have. sympathize with her and then
40:01
she might get off altogether. So maybe
40:04
he thought this was the best compromise
40:06
that she would still be
40:08
held accountable and do some
40:10
time and that's why he ultimately went
40:13
with that conclusion, with that decision. Nicholas,
40:15
Go to John's trial brought more
40:18
of the abuse that Gypsy suffered
40:20
to light. Gypsy testified at Go
40:22
to John's trial. When she
40:25
testified, Gypsy had long
40:27
healthy looking hair. In
40:29
reality, she had never lost any
40:31
of her hair. Due to cancer
40:33
treatments, the leukemia was a
40:36
lie. It had been Dee
40:38
Dee shaving Gypsy's head. Gypsy
40:40
told Buzzfeed News she'd
40:42
shave my hair off and she'd say
40:45
it's gonna fall out anyway due to
40:47
the cancer. So let's keep it nice
40:49
and neat. Gypsy actually believed
40:51
she had cancer. The
40:53
anti-seizure medicine that had cost Gypsy
40:56
her teeth had also
40:58
been unnecessary. She was
41:00
not epileptic. A lack
41:03
of saliva didn't help her
41:05
dental situation. Some of
41:07
Gypsy's salivary glands were removed
41:09
after Dee Dee used Orygeo
41:11
to numb her mouth, making
41:14
her drool. The surgery had been the
41:16
second line of treatment after
41:18
Dee Dee claimed Botox didn't
41:20
help. Gypsy's father Rod
41:22
Blanchard supported her despite what
41:24
she did. Rod blamed Dee
41:26
Dee mostly saying to Fox News she
41:29
was just a bad mother. You can call munch-housing
41:32
by proxy or whatever but
41:34
you can't keep somebody like that all their
41:36
lives. Many wondered where Rod had been all
41:38
of Gypsy's life and Rod explained to
41:41
Fox News that Dee Dee spent a
41:43
lot of time making sure that there was distance
41:45
between us. He said a lot of
41:47
times I would call Gypsy and she wouldn't be available
41:49
to talk to me but the next day she
41:51
was. I kind of felt she
41:53
was preparing her. Dee Dee coached Rod
41:55
about what to say too, going as
41:57
far to forbid him to tell Gypsy her real life.
42:00
age. He said, I would
42:02
call her on her birthday, but Dee Dee would
42:04
tell me, don't tell her it's her 18th
42:06
birthday. I don't want to tell her how old she
42:08
is. And Rod always complied,
42:11
though he felt it was an odd request. Rod
42:14
recalled Dee Dee saying she thinks she's 14. It
42:17
seems as if Rod was just another
42:19
person who Dee Dee
42:21
manipulated due to her legal
42:24
power over Gypsy. Rod
42:26
said to Fox News, it got
42:28
hard. It really did. But I didn't want to
42:30
push it too far. Dee Dee
42:32
had full custody and could
42:34
cut me off completely from any kind
42:36
of relationship we already had. There
42:39
was a fine line. I had to walk
42:41
with her. It bothered me, but I was
42:43
always hoping that Gypsy would get old
42:45
enough that one day we could bond. Rod
42:48
became very involved in Gypsy's life
42:50
after her arrest and felt
42:53
that their relationship had grown. He told
42:55
Fox News, it's a hundred
42:57
times better. Honestly. She can
42:59
email each other. She can call me anytime.
43:01
And she does. I'm keeping tabs
43:04
on all of her accomplishments in school.
43:06
She's getting her GED. It's
43:08
wonderful. I can't wait for her to
43:11
get out so we can build on
43:13
that foundation that we started here.
43:16
Gypsy's cousin, Bobby Petrie, who
43:18
confirmed that Dee Dee forced Gypsy to pretend to
43:20
be sick and paralyzed, felt that maybe
43:23
Dee Dee could have been stopped. He
43:25
told the newsletter, maybe I could have
43:27
done more to get Gypsy out of there. But
43:29
I had no idea how to do it. He
43:31
hadn't seen either Gypsy or Dee Dee for about 15
43:33
years. To keep Gypsy
43:35
isolated, Dee Dee would move around. This
43:38
kept everyone, including CPS, off of
43:40
their backs. She also pulled Gypsy
43:43
out of school after second grade, claiming
43:45
the homeschooler, but she really never did.
43:48
Even Gypsy isn't sure what she would have done
43:50
differently if given the chance. She
43:53
told People magazine, I don't know
43:55
if I would go back to when I was a
43:57
child and tell my aunts and uncles that I'm not
43:59
sick. and mommy makes me sick. Or
44:01
if I would travel back to just the point
44:03
of that conversation with Nick and tell him, you
44:06
know what, I'm going to tell the police
44:08
everything. I kind of struggle with that. Gypsy
44:11
said of Dee Dee, I think she
44:13
would have been the perfect mom for someone that actually
44:15
was sick, but I'm not sick. There's
44:17
that big, big difference. Gypsy's
44:20
neighbor, Aaliyah, told Buzzfeed News, I
44:22
just wish she would have come to me. One
44:24
doctor, pediatric neurologist,
44:27
Bernardo Flasterstein, who
44:29
treated Gypsy also wishes he had done more. He
44:32
told Buzzfeed News, poor Gypsy,
44:35
she suffered all those years and for no
44:37
reason. And I have
44:39
a feeling more that there
44:41
are a lot of doctors who
44:44
probably had that same thought
44:47
after all of this came out because
44:49
I think Gypsy had seen a
44:51
lot of doctors over the years, many
44:54
of whom ran tests and
44:58
couldn't confirm the things that Dee
45:01
Dee was saying, but didn't
45:03
really do anything. I don't know what they could
45:06
have done, but I'm sure there was some guilt
45:08
there on the part of
45:10
some of them at least. Yeah,
45:12
I think anytime there's a case like this where
45:15
there could have been warning signs, everybody involved is
45:17
going to go back and look
45:19
at their involvement and say, did
45:21
I miss something? Is there anything else I could
45:23
have done and maybe have some
45:26
regrets over that. Yeah, I think that's
45:29
perfectly natural. In November, 2018,
45:32
Nicholas Godajon was found guilty of the
45:35
first degree murder of Dee Dee Blanchard
45:37
on February 22nd, 2019. He
45:41
was sentenced to life in prison without
45:43
the possibility of parole. The
45:45
first 25 years of that sentence will
45:48
fulfill the sentence he received for
45:51
felony armed criminal action. As
45:53
for Gypsy, during her first year
45:55
in prison, she gained 14 pounds,
45:58
though most inmates... It's lose weight
46:00
because the prison food is inedible.
46:04
Gypsy was able to actually eat real
46:06
food for the first time in years.
46:08
In February 2018, Gypsy's
46:11
stepmother, Kristi Blanchard, told the
46:13
news leader that Gypsy was
46:15
thriving behind bars. In
46:18
March 2019, Kristi told
46:20
the news leader that her stepdaughter
46:22
was still doing really well. You
46:25
know, she's got another job. She's doing
46:28
photography again. She wakes up,
46:30
goes to school. She goes
46:32
to take pictures, back to school again,
46:34
back to work again. She's
46:36
just looking forward. And
46:38
it's not often more that you
46:41
hear about somebody actually doing better
46:43
in prison than the
46:48
way that they were doing on the
46:50
outside. But I just think
46:52
it shows you how messed
46:54
up Gypsy's life was
46:57
at the hands of her mother. Yeah,
47:00
prison is an improvement
47:02
in her life and being
47:04
able to do stuff and learn things and
47:06
experience different things. What does
47:08
that say? And I look at it
47:10
too, it's part of a
47:12
rehabilitation because when she comes out of
47:14
prison, maybe all the stuff she's doing
47:16
behind bars is going to help her have
47:18
a better future. In December 2020,
47:21
Nicholas Goedijon's lawyers
47:23
filed for post-conviction relief, asking
47:26
a judge to set aside his conviction. While
47:28
Nicholas was trying to get out of prison, Gypsy
47:31
had found love well behind bars. On
47:33
July 21st, 2022, Gypsy married
47:36
Ryan Anderson, a pen pal who
47:38
had been writing to her and visiting her prison. Ryan,
47:41
a teacher from Louisiana, initially attracted
47:43
Gypsy in May 2020 because she
47:45
wanted to meet people
47:47
from her home state. Apparently, he
47:49
only wrote to her as part of a bet with
47:51
a coworker of his, but ended up
47:54
being very happy with the decision. And
47:56
now we come to late December 2023. Gypsy
48:00
Blanchard was granted early parole after
48:02
serving eight of the ten years
48:04
she received as a sense around
48:07
two in the morning on december
48:09
twenty eight thirty two year
48:11
old gypsy was released from the chill
48:14
coffee correctional center in livington
48:16
missouri she was seen
48:18
later that day in public buying a
48:20
pair of basic black sneakers with her
48:23
husband ryan anderson soon after
48:25
this, there were photos
48:27
released of gypsy with her half
48:29
sister stepmom and her dad in
48:31
a room set up with balloons
48:34
and welcome home sign, despite
48:36
the tragedy that happened in two
48:38
thousand fifteen it looks
48:41
like the time is come that gypsy
48:43
is old enough to bond with rod
48:45
like he had always hoped, gypsy
48:48
and her husband ryan will have a
48:50
second wedding she told people
48:52
magazine this time with a dress
48:54
and the cake and everything we
48:57
deserve that gypsy wasn't released in
48:59
time for christmas but she made the
49:01
most of new year's making
49:03
sure to kiss ryan at midnight, wearing
49:06
the wedding ring she waited so long to
49:08
be able to put on and
49:10
i don't know about you but i could've sworn
49:12
that i've seen a hundred people on my friends
49:14
list putting photos of, gypsy
49:17
doing a selfie i guess after she was
49:19
released people just left and right
49:21
posting this photo of her since
49:24
her release so it's it's it's clearly something
49:26
a lot of people are interested in at
49:28
least on facebook, yeah i don't
49:30
do social media so i haven't seen it but
49:33
you can see why people would
49:36
be interested in following her, there
49:39
was a ton of interest in this
49:42
case we mentioned the number
49:44
of shows and documentaries that
49:47
have been made, so
49:49
her getting out it's a big
49:51
deal to people there they're gonna wanna
49:53
follow her and see what she does. And
49:56
i'm calling i think she's gonna have a reality show
49:58
it would not surprise. me in the least. Gypsy
50:01
has an upcoming book called Released
50:04
Conversations on the Eve of Freedom in
50:07
which she tells People magazine is
50:09
not a rehashing of everything that happened. Instead
50:12
she explains it's more of
50:14
my reflection of everything that I've learned and
50:16
experienced in the last eight and a half
50:18
years. Recently a
50:20
three-part six-hour docuseries aired
50:23
called The Prison Confessions of Gypsy Rose
50:25
Blanchard. I'm sure for a lot of
50:27
people after this documentary airs there
50:30
will be new opinions and some changed old
50:32
ones. Right now though people
50:34
online are sharply divided. There's
50:37
the debate about whether Gypsy should have been sentenced
50:39
to prison at all but now that
50:41
she's free and Nicholas Godajohn is still going
50:43
to be in prison until he dies. Many
50:46
wonder if it's fair. Yeah like
50:48
we said earlier I mean you're always
50:50
going to have people who differ in
50:52
their opinion of whether
50:54
or not they believe someone's sentence was
50:57
fair just all of that. You know
50:59
at the end of the day Gypsy
51:02
served 85% of her
51:04
sentence so she was eligible
51:06
for parole but many
51:08
wonder what does Nicholas Godajohn
51:11
ultimately deserve. Did Gypsy
51:13
manipulate him into committing a
51:15
terrible crime and then throw
51:17
him under the bus? Did
51:20
he feel that he was genuinely
51:22
saving Gypsy from a hellish situation
51:24
with her mom Didi? At Nicholas's
51:27
trial Gypsy admitted that
51:29
the idea to kill Didi was
51:31
hers. That she stole the knife
51:34
used to kill her, mailed
51:36
Nicholas cash so he could travel
51:38
to Missouri and let him into
51:40
the home. There are also texts
51:42
from Nicholas that say things
51:44
like, honey you forget I
51:46
am ruthless and my hatred
51:49
of her will force her to die and
51:51
it's my evil side doing it. He
51:54
won't mess up because he enjoys
51:57
killing. There are also text
51:59
messages between the two where
52:01
Nicholas threatens self-harm and even
52:04
suicide. If Gypsy doesn't get
52:06
on Facebook quickly enough to talk to
52:08
him. He also corrects Gypsy
52:10
when she refers to money she is
52:12
going to steal from Dee Dee as
52:15
her money saying, I think you
52:18
mean our money. Of course, there
52:20
are some people who blame
52:22
both Gypsy and Nicholas equally.
52:24
So again, there are just
52:26
a lot of differing opinions.
52:30
I do want to talk about some of these
52:32
messages from Nicholas
52:35
Gautajohn. I mean, there's some really
52:38
dark stuff there. It doesn't
52:40
seem like there's too much in the way of
52:43
regret or we made a mistake
52:45
or... I don't think I want to
52:47
do this. I'm not seeing
52:50
any of that. He's
52:52
talking about his evil side,
52:54
enjoys killing. I mean,
52:57
there's some strange stuff there. The
52:59
punishment given to Gypsy allowed her to get
53:01
an education. She worked and had
53:04
eight years to live healthy and free of any
53:06
of Dee Dee's influence. Now that
53:08
she's out of prison and seems to have a good
53:10
support system around her, maybe she has
53:12
a real chance to thrive. She
53:14
wants to help raise awareness about munchausen
53:16
by proxy and do some good in the world.
53:19
Hopefully Gypsy's experience will be one of
53:22
proof of rehabilitation, especially in
53:24
cases like this, that it works. But
53:26
there's also a chance that, as many
53:29
speculate online, Gypsy will have
53:31
trouble navigating the world without lying
53:33
or manipulating since it was all she
53:35
knew for so long. I'd like to
53:37
stay optimistic here and hope the public attention on
53:39
this case leads to good
53:41
things for victims and survivors of
53:44
medical child abuse and munchausen by
53:46
proxy, which is now called factitious
53:48
disorder imposed on another. Time
53:51
will tell. Yeah, I do think time
53:53
will tell. And I think people will follow
53:56
Gypsy in some form
53:59
or fashion. see what
54:01
she does, you know, I thought
54:03
you brought up a really good point there
54:05
more all gypsy knew in
54:07
her life was manipulation.
54:11
She was manipulated. There was
54:13
a lot of lying that went
54:16
on. So can
54:18
she move forward
54:20
without doing some
54:22
of that herself because
54:24
she did learn a
54:26
lot of it from her mother. And I
54:29
don't think there's any doubt that
54:32
at least to a degree, she
54:35
manipulated Nicholas go
54:37
to job. And it
54:39
seems like that's something she learned
54:41
from Dee Dee. So when
54:44
you have a habit of living
54:46
life a certain way and saying certain
54:49
things and relying on falsehoods
54:51
to tell a story, it's all learned behavior.
54:55
And hopefully she has unlearn that
54:57
or will unlearn that and
55:00
with a good support system around her,
55:03
maybe she can go on to have a productive life.
55:06
Yeah, yeah, we will have
55:08
to see. But I mean, to
55:10
me, this case, there's so
55:12
many strange things about it.
55:15
You know, the length of time that
55:17
Dee Dee was able to get away with,
55:20
you know, snowing doctors
55:22
and manipulating
55:25
people and manipulating gypsy
55:27
into thinking that, you know,
55:30
she had leukemia. She
55:32
had all these different ailments. She
55:34
couldn't even eat her own food.
55:38
On the one hand, you feel
55:40
extremely sorry for her for
55:42
gypsy and what she went through.
55:44
And then there's the other
55:46
side of it where she
55:49
planned the murder of her mother. And
55:51
you have to reconcile those
55:53
two things. And like we've said
55:55
a number of times, people are going
55:57
to differ in their opinions of whether.
56:00
she, you know, got enough
56:02
time, she did too much time,
56:05
she should have gotten
56:07
more focus on the mental health
56:09
side. You can debate
56:11
all of that, but now
56:13
that she's out of prison, she
56:15
served her time. I think you
56:18
have to say that you hope
56:20
she goes on to have
56:22
a good, healthy, productive
56:25
life. Yeah, based on everything we
56:27
know from the research in this
56:29
case, it seems like she's done
56:32
a lot of positive things while
56:34
being in prison and bettered
56:36
herself, bettered her situation so that when she
56:38
comes out, now she has this family around
56:40
her, it seems like she's
56:42
at least on the right track and hopefully
56:45
she stays on that track. Well, we
56:47
talk about so many people that
56:50
I never want to see get out,
56:52
and I didn't really feel that way about Gypsy.
56:56
Eight and a half years is no
56:58
joke. Now, I don't know how tough
57:00
the time was, but regardless
57:02
of that, that was the
57:04
sentence imposed. She did that sentence
57:07
and now she has to, you know, go on
57:09
with her life. But that's it
57:12
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57:44
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57:46
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57:50
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57:57
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