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never give up. Fightin to the end.
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Gotta get back up. No time
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for loss. Fightin to the end.
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No matter what the cost. Yeah.
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Keep moving. Gotta get back up. Keep
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moving. Gotta get back up. Keep moving.
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Gotta get back up. How are you?
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Come on in. Keep moving. I'm
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doing a little bit about how you
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can start over again if that's something you feel like
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you need to do. And of course this summer, I'm doing
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what I do every single summer, at least for the past
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nine or ten years, I think it's been
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a while. Operation reinvention. I'm
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running it myself, running it within my face, your passion
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group as well. That's where it
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is this summer. What that means is,
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is there one thing you can do over the next 90 days
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between now and say Labor Day here in
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America at the end of summer? Is there one thing that
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you can not tweak a little bit, you know, not lose
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four or five pounds, but change
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completely, completely, totally change
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something about your life. Can you do it in the
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next 90 days? The answer is yes, you can. What
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would it be though? I'll tell you what
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mine is, not today, but I will soon.
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I want to make sure I can verbalize it correctly
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for you. As not to sound silly.
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It is a Daily Boost
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podcast from motivation to move.com. My name is Scott Smith.
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Good to have you here today. Thanks for stopping by.
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Can I believe it's 18 years
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we've been doing this show every single day
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and reinventing constantly all the time. Are you
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doing that? I believe personally
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that you should be in a
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state of motivational bliss. It's not
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what you think. Okay. Don't freak out about that. This
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is kind of, you're not talking about like always
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upbeat and smiling and happy, happy, happy all the time. Well,
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yeah, if you want to be, I love that. My wife
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is like that most of the time, unless I cause her
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some other state and that happens regularly. Trust me. But
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no, here, here is motivational bliss to me. Ready for it?
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And you can have this if you want to. You see,
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I don't like the word no. And
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it's not that I don't like the word no from other people, I don't like the
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word no from me. I
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love the word possibility. I
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love to be able to know that I can do whatever I want to do.
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That if one day, no matter what happens, no matter where I am,
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no matter how good things are or how bad things are, doesn't matter,
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I can just change. That I
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can just decide to explore the possibilities
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and become something else. I
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can be as low as possible and we've all been
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in situations where you just, like business, right? Business
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can be tough sometimes. And sometimes you just, how am I
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going to get through this? How am I going to make this happen?
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You feel like, oh my God, this is... and
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yet, somehow deep inside, it's like, well, I can do it if I want
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to, so why not just do it? So
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to me, that's motivational bliss. If I could
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talk you into doing that, if
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I could talk you into believing that you always have the
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power and the control to do whatever you want to do,
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no matter what you think is in your way,
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it's always up to you. If I could get you to feel that way,
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so every single minute of the day, whenever you felt blocked,
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you just go, oh, that's okay. I can just do it
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anyway. That'd be a
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win for me. Just
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too many people feeling blocked. And
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I think a good part of my job is to help them get
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unblocked, and maybe I can help you do that today a little bit.
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Let's talk about some actions that
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you could take if
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you were forced to start over again. I
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will tell you this, a lot of people contact me and work with me,
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and one of the things they say, Scott, I just feel like I want
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to start over, and I'm thinking, why would you ever want to do that?
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I remember what it was like when I was 15 or 25 or 35. I
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remember that. It was fun. Don't get
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me wrong. It was a good time, but it was hard. It
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was really hard. It's far easier to get older and get some wisdom in you and
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kind of know what's going on. The world is
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an easier place when you realize it's an evil place.
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It is. Well, it is. Mother
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Nature hangs out on planet Earth way too much, and it
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just has lots of issues. Man,
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it's beautiful at the same time. You live
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long enough to figure that out. But
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what if you had to start over again and you're starting where you are today?
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What would you do? Well, here's the number one thing I would
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do. And by the way, it is the hardest thing. Yep,
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going to start with the hard one. Get
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absolute clarity and focus. If
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you have to start over again, what
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one thing do you want
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to change about your life or your lifestyle? What do you want it to be?
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Absolute clarity, absolute
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focus. Now,
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a lot of times you don't get that absolute clarity and focus until
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you have to. You've been pushing the
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corner. It's like, okay, I guess I
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got to. Guess I better
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make some more money this month. Boom, you go
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do it, right? Guess
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the taxes are due at midnight. Better get it done. Again,
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the hardest part of this whole equation is absolute
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clarity and focus, and I'll tell you this. It
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doesn't often happen overnight, although
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it does happen instantly. Sometimes
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you have to kind of work at it and push toward
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it and think about it and live it a little bit,
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and then suddenly, pow. Something
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happens, and there it is. But
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you can't change your life unless you know what it's
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going to be, right? Number
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two, I want you to confirm your why. Success
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and happiness is going to take time, and
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long-lasting success and happiness isn't guaranteed. So
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you've got to have a strong why. That's
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how you're going to persevere. So
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say you're unhappy in a marriage, and you've decided,
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I'm done. Absolute clarity
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and focus, that's it. Even
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if you're saying, I don't know what I want, but
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I know I don't want that. You
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better have a strong why, because
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your boat's going to get rocked. It's going to
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get tough, and depending on your situation, it
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may be tough for years to come. You better
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know why you're doing it. Number
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three, you've
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got to clear the clutter. This
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is something I see happen
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all the time, and it
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slows people down. Once
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you know your clarity and your focus, and you know why
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you're doing it, you've got to clear the clutter. You can't
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move forward with the weight of your past on your shoulders.
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That could be debts, it could be bad relationships, it
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could be health issues. You've got to fix them to
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move on. You've got to deal with them.
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And I know it's a big, long list, but Scott,
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why can't I just go do the things I want
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to do? Well, certainly sometimes you can. There
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are certain things you can do. There's no doubt. We
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build foundations. One of the foundational parts of what I
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talk about all the time, the foundation here today, is
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to clear up some of the bad stuff. But that doesn't mean you
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can't be doing the foundational stuff on the other side of the bridge
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you're trying to build. You
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can change your whole life, but you've got to deal with today.
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Way too many people come
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into my world, and they're ready for change, and they
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dive in. And a couple
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of months later, I recognize that
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they are so, so cluttered. They
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can't keep going. Some people come to me, they
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say they want to start a business. Tell me everything I
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need to hear. So let's go. Let's start doing it. Turns
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out every dime they were paying to start their business is on a
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credit card that was already almost maxed out. That's
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not how you start a business. You've
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got to clear the clutter. Don't clear the clutter.
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matter. Your time is your most valuable asset. Don't squander
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it. Take
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control of your time. So much
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of what's going on with you right now is being controlled
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by somebody else. That might
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mean you get up early. Might need to stay up late. I don't know what
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it is. Take control of it. Find a way to do it. If
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you don't take control of your schedule and your time
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is impossible for you to focus on what you need
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to do. You'll be focused on everything else around you. And
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the final one is
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one that I started talking about maybe 15 years
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ago. Because I'd
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heard from my whole entire life maybe you've heard that
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too. I think Tony Robbins said it first. You're
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going to take massive action. He's
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right. He's
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right. But the problem is massive
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action makes a mess doesn't it? You
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ever notice that? But that's how you
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do it. You go make a mess. I talk to sales people all
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the time. Business people all the time. We're trying to build these things
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up. People make more money. Problem is
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as soon as you take massive You start making more money,
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you create massive mess. It just happens. And if you
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create enough massive mess, and certainly if you don't have
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clarity, focus, you don't know your why, you haven't cleared
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the clutter. You have no control over your time.
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When you make a massive mess, it
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can stop you to tracks. There's
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nothing more demotivating than making
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more of a mess than you already have. So
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what I did a long time ago was I just kind of
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changed my way of thinking about it. I accepted the fact that
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I was going to make a mess. Then no matter
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what I did, I was going to make a mess because that's the way
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life happens when you start moving forward. When
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you have your clarity, when you know your why, when the
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clutter is gone, you got control. It's time to take massive
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imperfect action. Make a mess.
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Notice results. Clean it up. Make a mess. Make a
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mess. Make a mess. Don't
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be perfect. Don't worry about it. Just get off your butt and
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go after it and go do it. If you need to start
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over, why take five years to do it if you can do
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it in 30 days? You
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can. You got to have clarity and
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focus. You got to know why. You have to clear
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your clutter. You have to control your time. And
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you got to take massive imperfect action until you get the momentum
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you need to make the change you want to make. If
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you do that, everything changes fast. If not,
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the weekend will be here. You're going out having
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a good time. Monday's going to roll around. It's
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another week. You
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listen to the podcast on Monday. All
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right. Yes, right. I'm going to take some action. Massive,
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imperfect action. That's what Scott said. This
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week I'm going to do it. Okay.
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It's up to you. It's not about
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learning more, guys. It's about taking control. You
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already know how to do that. See you tomorrow.
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