All good things must come to an end... in this episode, Destinista recaps the last 3 years of DDP, explains why she's decided to end it, and shares what's next!Message from the host: It's been a pleasure rocking with you all for the last few

Shedding Old Layers - Toodles 2021

Dec 6th, 2021 31m 50s

This week Destinista wraps up 2021, talks about the lonely part of your healing journey, and stepping into the new version of you! Healing isn't linear and doesn't have a due date. Especially when you're a growth-focused person, you will always

The Power of Being Grateful

Nov 22nd, 2021 22m 4s

This week Destinista talked about GRATEFULNESS. She broke down how gratefulness, connected with staying ready, trusting in yourself, fighting through tough times, and submitting to the process. It's short and sweet but will definitely leave you

Blurred Lines of Communication ft. @travikins

Nov 15th, 2021 1h 3m

This week Destinista was joined by her homeboy Travis and they discussed communication between men and women, where it goes wrong, right, and how it can improve! They each described what they believe men's and women's communication styles to be

Back to the Streets ft. @mini_mouse

Nov 8th, 2021 1h 16m

This week Destinista was joined by one of her good, good girlfriends Ashanti and they discussed dating! The pair are newly-ish single and navigating this world differently, but both ladies are being intentional about learning, growing, and lovi

What Can Be Higher Than This?

Sep 20th, 2021 35m 4s

This week Destinista discussed the importance of operating as your highest self! She shared some stories and dropped several gems. The closer you are to your highest self, the closer you are to true happiness. Tune in and get some tips on maneu

Season of Solitude

Sep 13th, 2021 21m 23s

This week Destinista discussed what she calls her "Season of Solitude." The host delved into her struggles with solitude and also the dangers of getting addicted to it. This episode is short and sweet, but if you're someone who feels like you n

The Right to be Beautiful ft. @wiz_kalimaa

Jul 7th, 2021 1h 9m

This week Destinista was joined by another classmate turned friend and they discussed the "right" to beautiful and the idea of feeling like you don't have it, growing to love yourself, defined what beauty is both of the ladies and Kalima introd

What's Next? (Graduation Edition) ft. @charly.k_ & Tiff

Jun 14th, 2021 38m 16s

This week Destinista was joined by two of her classmates turned homegirls and they talked about their recent graduation from grad school, how this one feels different, what's next, and how it feels to be asked that question. They also got into

What's Grief? (R.I.P. DMX) ft. @Kyla.brattt & @Essdixiee

Apr 19th, 2021 39m 12s

This week Destinista was joined by two of her cousins and they talked GRIEF. They went into the different ways it can show up, how the pandemic has exacerbated these feelings, shared how they've learned to deal with mourning and grieving differ

Spring Cleaning

Apr 5th, 2021 22m 40s

This week Destinista gave some tips for Spring Cleaning! Happy April y'all! New month, new goals, and new revelations... but first have you dealt with the current? It's so easy to get caught up in moving and growing but make sure you take inven

I'm Just Happy to be Here

Mar 22nd, 2021 37m 24s

This week Destinista just poured her heart out, TBH! She spoke about how to turn your test into your testimony and the importance of deciding what kind of person you'd like to be, how you want to handle adversity, and choosing to live in it dai

Good Girl, Bad a$$ Woman FT. @AllisaP_

Mar 15th, 2021 1h 51m

This week Destinista was joined by her childhood friend, @AllisaP_, and excuse us for the length of this episode but it's well worth it! They discussed being good girls growing up and how that led to them being bad a$$ women. The pair broke dow

Bonus

Dear 25 - 5 Things I Wish I Knew/Helped Me at 25 *BONUS*

Mar 10th, 2021 14m 43s

This week Destinista gave 5 tips for 25-year-olds and soon-to-be 25-year-olds!New body, who this?You likely won’t be who you imagined and that’s okIt’s not time to panic, it’s time to activate30 isn’t as close as she looksDon't fo

Am I Doing Too Much? ft. @TaylorIvette1

Mar 1st, 2021 59m 31s

This week Destinista by another good, good girlfriend, Ms. @TaylorIvette1! They discussed the idea of doing and being "too much." And chile, the conversation took so many beautiful twists and turns. They got into what speaking up for yourself a

"I Give Up" A Guided Meditation

Feb 22nd, 2021 17m 44s

A guided meditation on giving up everything that doesn’t serve you, if you can, do this meditation with someone you love (virtual works too) and write out thoughts that come up for you.No affirmations this week, just a reminder to audit what y

Reform, Revolution and all things in between ft. @iamDarrenMack

Feb 16th, 2021 55m 36s

This week Destinista spoke to Darren Mack, an activist, and organizer in the Mass Incarceration space and they discussed the history of mass incarceration, the differences between reform and revolution, the organizing work that Darren does, and

Therapy is for Black folks, too ft. @the_joya_show, LMSW

Feb 8th, 2021 54m 17s

This week Destinista discusses THERAPY and the Black community's relationship with it with her good, good girlfriend and licensed therapist @the_joya_show. Joya broke down different types of therapy and the ladies discussed whether or not they

Black is King

Feb 1st, 2021 30m 56s

HAPPY BLACK HISTORY MONTH! This week Destinista discusses the history of Black history month, the importance of learning the history of your family, ways to honor those who came before us and celebrate Black history month and so much more. Dest

The Beauty of Silence (featuring a 9 min. Meditation)

Jan 25th, 2021 28m 20s

This week Destinista discusses the beauty and importance of silence, the fear of solitude, and how failing to take time to yourself can throw you off your journey to attaining what's most important. In the end, there's time for a 9-minute medit

Don't Pick Me ft. @e.ssenci.a

Jan 18th, 2021 39m 6s

This week Destinista is joined by her cousin Ess, they had a good ol' time discussing "pick me" culture! They defined what a pick me is, why people choose this life, how men encourage women to want to be one, what it looks like in REAL life and

Return of the Mack

Jan 11th, 2021 23m 3s

WE'RE BACK Y'ALL! Destinista is finally back after a longer than expected hiatus and so happy to be. Our host explained why she's been gone so long, the importance of taking breaks but not stopping and we reflected on how important it is to hea

Social Media Craze ft @thekeyznyc

Aug 17th, 2020 1h 24m

This week Destinista is joined by Keyz, the host of Keep it a Buck Podcast, and they discussed social media - the good, the bad, and the ugly! The ladies shared their favorite and least favorite aspects of social media, how it's helped them, an

27 Summers

Aug 12th, 2020 23m 27s

It's Destinista's Birthday week! This week Destinista talks about why she's excited to enter her 27th year of life, the importance of celebrating yourself and those who you love, and reminds everyone to enjoy each day even when you're focused o

You Deserve!

Aug 3rd, 2020 19m 11s

This week Destinista discussed being deserving and how we often convince ourselves that we need more experience or aren't ready when in reality it's our time! Don't be afraid of your light and don't dim it for anyone else, because staying in sp