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Hi. This is Sophia Garden and

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has a dream big podcast Shell Blaze

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Still learn to laugh. And

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around. The. Gamers

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Have you ever wished you

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could take back something you

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said in anger Today we

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live in didn't tell the

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young boy a bag of

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nails and or why Zen

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master and exploring how the

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lessons of jujitsu can teach

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us control our temper before

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we act. Make. Sure

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you stay till the very end

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till learn how to apply these

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ancient license to our modern mine.

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This is episode four: Get In

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Southern of the Dream a podcast

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and it's time to Dream Big!

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Bill hindu the three the board

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cause sure you inspiring you to

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shoot for the new the game

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and go brings you amazing! Guess

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you truly love what they do

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everyday living the dream. Dream

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Big take actions, You reach

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your goal or you compare

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showing time than throwing in

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Rome. Welcome.

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Back. Big Dreamers and episode We're

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diving into the power of self

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control and the impact of our

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actions on others. Big Gamers. Have

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you ever said something in the

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he of a moment that later

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you were granted. Or. Perhaps

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found yourself wishing you could take

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bath a hasty to see him.

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Well every day I like this.

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Start with short but why story

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about a young boy who earned

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a very valuable lesson. Once

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upon a time, there was a

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young boy who was easily angered

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his father hoping to teach him

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a lesson send him to the

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Zen Master. The Zen

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master welcome boy in, gave him a

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bag full of males. He instructed boy

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to hammer a nail on to them.

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wooden fence every time he lost his

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temper. On the

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first day, the boy drove 37

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nails into the fence. Over

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the next few weeks, he learned to control

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his anger. The number of nails hammered gradually

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went down. He

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discovered it was easier to hold his

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temper than drive all those nails into

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the fence. Finally, the

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day came where the boy didn't lose

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his temper at all. He

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told us to the Zen Master, who then

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suggested that the boy should pull out a

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nail for every single day he was able

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to hold his temper. The

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days passed and the young boy was finally

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able to tell the Zen Master that all

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the nails were gone. The Zen

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Master led the boy to the fence and said,

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you have done well my boy, but look

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at the holes in the fence. The

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fence will never be the same. When

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you say things in anger, they leave

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a scar just like this one. The

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boy understood how powerful his words

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were. He learned

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that like the nails left holes in

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the fence, his anger

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could be scars in people's hearts.

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From that day on, he

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learned to control his temper

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and treat people with more

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respect and consideration. The end.

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Big Jeepers, do you agree that this

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sale not only speaks to the heart

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of understanding emotions, but also

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teaches us about the lasting effects

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our actions can have? How

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can we prevent the metaphorical holes

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we sometimes punch in our relationships?

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Can we truly repair the damage

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once it's done? Recently,

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I started taking jiu-jitsu classes

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at the logo dojo and

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I really appreciate how their

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philosophy helps with control. Just

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like the boy with his nails, I've

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been learning to manage not just

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my actions, but also my reactions.

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Jiu-jitsu. A little

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strength. It's about mental

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strength to. See,

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their cell phones are all

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an awareness reminding us that

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every movie made just like

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the words we speak has

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consequences. And you good

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seal. Every action is a lesson. Pulling

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up and nails in our story is a

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lot like learning a new move in class.

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It takes her sisters and

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understanding that changes a gradual

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process. And just as

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a Zen master taught the boy

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about mindfulness, intersection and use, it

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feels we're taught to reflect on

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our actions and learn from them.

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which helps us grow not just

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as a martial art as bad

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as people. So

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what do you think? Be gamers? Can

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we have why? These lessons and

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stories from the get go into

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our daily lives? Next.

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Feel a surge of anger

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and frustration. Pies take a

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deep breath before responding. Guess

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practice mindfulness every single

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day. even if it

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just for a few minutes to

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enhance here where aneurysm thoughts and

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reactions. Fair. To reflect on

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the guy you. Hi each evening.

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I didn't know. Again, moments you

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handled the wow and again

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assigning areas for improvement. By.

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Incorporating the simple fact this isn't

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your daily routine, you can begin

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to see a change. Know me

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with how you respond to challenges

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at school with the friend. Would

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the families are also your overall

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approach to life. A truck simulator?

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Zingers. I love how you find

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these ideas and to your situation

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or perhaps have your own practices.

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He didn't find us on Dream

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is what does.com. Os

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on all social media platforms.

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Lysergic Juri made podcast with

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Sylvia Karma. Don't forget. This.

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on our YouTube channel, Dream

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Big Podcast. Let's

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continue to support each other in our

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journey to grow and improve. As

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always, you can find all our

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show notes at dreambigpodcast.com/407. Big

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dreamers, remember, even if

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we can't undo every mistake, we

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can always learn from them and

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choose to make better decisions next

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time. So let's

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all promise to think twice before

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hammering any nails into our fences,

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metaphorical or not. That's

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all for today, big dreamers. This is

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Sophia Cartman reminding you that you have

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unlimited potential. Your dreams are not optional.

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You need to make them essential. So

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take massive action, turn those big dreams

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into reality. Live with passion while

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life is meant to be. Keep

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dreaming big and acting wisely. See you

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in the next episode, bye.