"How relevant is it to them in terms of their decision-making? What sort of agency are they gonna have when this comes out? Because if it's something that's uncertain, that they can't actually do anything about, and they're just gonna stew on it and cogitate, ruminate, and stress about it, then maybe it makes sense not to share it until we know it's more likely that it's actually gonna happen."

Karen & Paul discuss when – and when not – to share with a group things that they don't want to hear.

This is the first of a two-part series that concludes with Episode 216.