Learning patience with yourself, and how to eventually do the same for others. It is okay to "fail" and stumble and fall, as long as you get back up. You are worth all of the patience you have to offer, you are worth all of the kind words you have knowledge of. Treat yourself how you wish others would treat you. Speak how you wish to be spoken to, and be everything you want to be. But most importantly, be patient along the way. Loving yourself and others means being patient and kind.