For so long in my adult life I often told myself my number one motivator to becoming a stronger person was my husband and children.  After really reflecting and writing in my journal about this I have realized that in order to truly be happy with my successes, I have to be the reason to be motivated.  I have to be worth the driving force behind the work put in.  At the end of the day with everything stripped back, I have to be enough for myself and have to be the reason I want to be a better person.