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2:03

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2:06

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2:15

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2:19

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connections that like dress nice sucking really?

2:24

I. Signed it. You know what? I

2:27

had a bit of an epiphany

2:29

about myself. who have that? I'm

2:31

still kind of. Except the Loring.

2:34

Okay, here's what it is. When

2:37

I was flying. Back. On an

2:39

airplane recently the plane on the screen

2:41

and front you know he'll have your

2:44

little personal screen. It has some games.

2:47

So I started playing this game on

2:49

it. Called to zero Four eight.

2:52

And it's like a sliding

2:54

tile puzzle game. Of

2:57

where you're just combining these puzzle pieces to

2:59

try to get. To the number

3:01

two thousand and Forty eight. And.

3:06

I. Became obsessed with it. And

3:08

I'm obsessed with playing at. And.

3:11

Similarly, I was like fuck you know

3:13

what other game I am obsessed with playing as

3:16

Roma cube. Is

3:18

also a numbers game. And

3:22

like this is interesting because I'm

3:24

a writer, I'd I'm left handed.

3:26

I really identify as a right

3:28

brained person. I've never. I've

3:30

never enjoyed mass. It was always

3:33

struggle for me that these very

3:35

basic number games. Appeal

3:37

to me so much and I he. Word

3:40

Games. I. Hate into crying

3:42

word I Hate connections. I don't do

3:44

the near term spelling bee. I find

3:46

it so annoying. Really? A

3:49

guess and you and my husband or

3:51

big. Word game people like he's

3:53

a huge crossword person. And a know

3:56

you are too and I was like

3:58

and wonder what this says about me

4:00

and my brain in and mike how

4:02

what I find fun and relaxing and

4:04

with that like why I'm drawn to

4:06

number games I i i like sudoku

4:08

like of super said. Okay, fan businesses

4:10

you to do math and sudoku.

4:13

So you like number games

4:15

that not mass games. Yes

4:18

is what I'm hearing that seems

4:20

to be. What? Is the

4:22

I literally was walking my dog this morning

4:24

and I was had this feeling as though

4:27

I had a whole really and I guess

4:29

I totally see that distinction. Like.

4:32

What is a number game that is not? In

4:35

some ways a math game. Well I guess

4:37

it is a mask game. They are mass

4:40

games. So maybe I like math

4:42

games? Yeah I mean look,

4:44

I. The times was

4:47

was beta testing a game called

4:49

digits. Oh, I miss

4:51

her wife and I really enjoy

4:53

it as it turns somewhat similar

4:56

to this. Two.

4:58

Zero for a game that you're talking

5:00

about. Ah, Ah, but I

5:03

guess not enough people like digits because

5:05

the they took it away they they

5:07

did not make it part of their

5:09

regular rotation. And now they only have

5:11

word games except for sudoku. Ah, I

5:13

thought that was interesting. They're. Also

5:16

beta testing a new game called

5:18

strand have you played this game

5:20

My daughter plays that and really

5:22

like said I'd I'd only trying

5:24

Alliance. Love it I asked Anthony

5:26

doesn't like up A C N

5:28

P have similar. Game taste one

5:30

hundred percent you do. There's too

5:32

much happening in strains. There's too

5:34

many. Different.

5:37

Things. I do

5:39

know I'm not. I'm not into that. I

5:41

feel like they overcomplicated it and I don't

5:44

love it if I'm curious to see what

5:46

will happen with strength. But I do love.

5:48

I do love connections. I find connections very

5:50

fun. During that assigning a

5:52

surprise me nuts. But

5:55

some funny I do it but

5:57

I don't enjoy it. I almost

5:59

like. The like, It's not

6:01

pleasurable. right? I'm so

6:03

curious to see how you

6:06

take to Mars on. I

6:09

am to door years to. See me Muslim

6:11

this weekend! I am so excited! I

6:14

also just talk to another friend who wants

6:16

to start Amazon Group who's ever played as

6:18

A Door is teaching. Nick. At

6:20

another will get a table together. I am

6:23

too because I when I try to learn

6:25

the first time I was confused. But

6:27

maybe. The. Lower Don't was not also

6:29

online. It was online. Yeah, yeah. Now

6:32

that I know, More about Mahjong and

6:34

have. Played more I think. I

6:37

think obviously you can learn I'm I'm like I

6:39

I did learn on mine but it's it's much.

6:41

I think it's much better to learn and person.

6:44

How are you feeling Like. Do. You

6:46

feel a as an instructor.

6:48

And a teacher like have you ever

6:50

stepped in those shoes before and like

6:52

are you, Are you enjoying that experience?

6:55

It seems like you are, but I'd.

6:57

Love to hear like how it's been so.

7:00

I did some teaching when I

7:03

was in grad school. I

7:06

was a teaching assistant and I

7:08

taught some of my own classes

7:11

at another college in Philadelphia. And

7:14

I really. Did. Not like

7:16

is. Now.

7:20

At the time I talked this up

7:22

to i don't like teaching. Mean.

7:27

I. Think a couple of things were

7:29

actually going on. One is that.

7:32

I. Didn't. Like

7:34

love teaching college. Students.

7:38

And at some understand

7:40

that. I saying

7:43

also. I wasn't always like super into

7:45

the material and I and I think it was

7:47

hard to teach. Something that I wasn't

7:49

like. Super compelled by Susan. Ah,

7:53

I am really enjoying teaching

7:55

mahjong. I

7:58

mean. Unfortunately,

8:02

All the things that I'm into now. Are

8:06

like sing for retired

8:08

people to. Like.

8:10

Make a little bit of

8:12

money has it and not

8:15

feel feel sick of I

8:17

have both. Career path ah

8:19

so you know. Just.

8:22

To navigating that case. but

8:24

you enjoy the experience and

8:26

you feel like you. Have

8:29

an ability. I

8:32

mean, I've been told that I think it's

8:34

really cool. People people

8:37

enjoy my classes

8:40

and. Have

8:42

said I wouldn't. Mahjong teacher. And

8:47

I've been asked to come back. So.

8:51

That feels like. You know, Testimony

8:55

him family. Ah.

8:58

So yes, I am enjoying it.

9:01

I mean I have Lake isolate.

9:03

It's important for. People.

9:07

To socialize around games. Yeah,

9:12

I mean I like. I think often the happiest

9:14

point of my week is when I go play

9:16

pickle ball for an hour and a half. With.

9:19

Other people. Were. Chatting orphan

9:22

fun and at the eyes. I

9:24

and definitely craving that kind of

9:26

connection so I'm excited! To

9:29

learn, my time to hopefully. Cultivate.

9:32

W. E. I

9:34

mean the goal is. For

9:37

people to be able to like a

9:39

host their own mas on. Evenings

9:42

with a group of people. Because

9:46

that I think is. The.

9:50

Know that's what you want, right? I

9:53

will say I sign that. Like

9:56

now, I have a few. Different like

9:58

game so. You he

10:00

sends an Aids. I do

10:02

find the planning of it

10:05

to be a loss. like

10:07

Wrangling. A group of people

10:09

is is not super fun

10:11

for me. Yeah. You need

10:13

You need like consistency and commitment

10:16

and like. A regularity.

10:19

Yeah and the thing is like ma

10:21

song. You're. Really

10:23

supposed to play with four people? that

10:25

you can play with three and it's

10:27

like kind of fine but you're really

10:29

supposed to play with for so what

10:31

I have. In

10:34

my experience I will

10:36

say now. Ah

10:39

much. There's

10:41

usually at least one, if not. More

10:43

per and more people who flake

10:45

last minute. And I

10:48

don't know if it's just because I've

10:50

been teaching moms who are busy. I

10:52

don't know if it's L A, I

10:54

don't know if it's the season like.

10:56

I don't know what it is, but.

11:00

In in most of the classes

11:02

and in my like regular games

11:04

there's almost always people who flake

11:07

last minute and that is really

11:09

annoying because. It messes

11:11

up the whole balance. Of the

11:13

game. So

11:16

what? I sign

11:18

that frustrating and there's like not

11:21

much you can really do about

11:23

it because like stuff obviously stuff

11:25

com that you know Delhi India.

11:27

Ah I'm glad. That

11:30

is just. And.

11:32

I know, maybe maybe this is

11:35

why lake. Retired.

11:37

People like an easier time.

11:40

Cause they. Don't have

11:42

as many responsibilities and commitments.

11:46

At oh that would be my gas.

11:48

Yes it is. It is frustrating because

11:50

it's not. Just. The kind of

11:52

thing where it doesn't that like it doesn't

11:55

matter how many people yeah and of empire

11:57

that how it impacts that. Yeah, Hooker.

12:02

A full table is ten people

12:04

that you can really play with.

12:06

Anywhere from like six to ten

12:08

so late. If you've planned, it

12:11

was. Ten and a couple people drop out.

12:13

It's like fine. But.

12:15

In Mas is slake. If you're planning

12:17

on to tables, have four and two

12:20

people drop out. Will Now you're down.

12:22

To. Two tables have three and it's just

12:24

a different game. you know? So.

12:30

Be. Retired seems. Like.

12:34

Fun if you have some like savings.

12:36

If you save for retirement I will

12:38

be no. That's the thing Right is

12:40

a say. In

12:43

our. You

12:47

need to have that money in, You

12:49

need to have that communities. Yeah, I

12:51

think community. Is really. I.

12:53

Mean I am in others that so many

12:55

studies done about how like human interaction and

12:58

community like that in helps people live. Longer

13:00

essentially right lake. Know,

13:03

which is why Think we're all

13:06

still reeling from the last four

13:08

year. right?

13:11

Yeah, And I think that's partly

13:13

why I have like I've been

13:15

trying to cultivate these in. Person

13:18

social. Activities is an

13:20

extremely pro active and I really

13:22

admire it. Is.

13:28

You're. Welcome. Ah

13:32

yeah, now I just need to

13:35

like use that energy. To

13:37

get a job. Yeah,

13:40

us, but that's a lot less fun. It

13:43

is a lot less fun and there's also

13:45

like not that many. To. Systems

13:48

and and slinks another

13:51

an obstacle is. Though.

13:54

Yeah that is a that is

13:56

an obstacle and it's also. I.

13:59

Think they're so that's a psychological

14:01

element that comes. Along with

14:03

that like it's not even just the

14:05

job. Market isn't greatest that like

14:07

the entire industry that you've been

14:10

working. In is essentially. Not.

14:13

A states like it's just. I.

14:15

Don't know. It's change in a way. that

14:18

is. the. Soul. Crushing and that's

14:20

very frustrating. Yeah

14:23

I mean I think and then

14:25

we can take a break but

14:27

I think the other thing is

14:29

that it's happening is I think

14:31

a lot of people in my

14:33

industry and in tech and in

14:35

these other industries that have had

14:37

lay off people are feeling very

14:39

gas let something I mean and

14:41

on linked in a lot because

14:43

there's all these headlines about how

14:45

low the unemployment rate is. And.

14:49

Exclusively dig a little deeper at the

14:51

unemployment rate is very misleading and does

14:53

not really take into account the full

14:55

like totality of what's going on and

14:57

the job market. And so I think

15:00

for a lot of people it's a

15:02

very disorienting because you see these headlines

15:04

that are like unemployment down to three

15:06

point, eight percent or whatever it is.

15:08

And why can they get a job?

15:11

Ah, So.

15:13

There's a big disconnect going

15:15

on right now, and I

15:17

think people really feel unacknowledged.

15:20

I see this sentiment a lot coming up

15:22

alot. How are people expressing it like I

15:24

know, are they posting. On linked in are

15:26

just kept at yeah. People.

15:29

Are posting on linked in

15:31

Ah. You. Know talking

15:33

about how many applications they've sent

15:35

out and the gotten no interviews

15:37

or you know they get those

15:39

did or they've been searching for

15:41

nine months and nothing and you

15:43

know. Just like all this. Other

15:47

stuff that is affecting a lot

15:49

of people. So. If

15:52

you are in that though, I see you

15:54

and. I'm. Not gas lighting. You.

16:00

The pressure? You saying? that? Thank.

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Or eight. so. Thank you Dory

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for giving me space to talk about. This

23:43

product because. I've

23:46

never had such an instantaneous. Like.

23:49

It. Works moment. With

23:52

anything really, this is

23:55

a toothpaste. Of

23:58

now I bought this. From

24:01

Brilliance Toothpaste Whitening System is what

24:03

it's called and I bought it

24:05

base and a recommendation from Drew

24:07

Barrymore. And.

24:12

I'm. Pretty sure I stumbled upon this video

24:14

of her brushing her teeth with this stuff

24:16

because I was googling. Whether or not Drew

24:18

Barrymore has the near. Oh

24:21

My. God. I am still

24:24

kind of succeeded on celebrity

24:26

veneers. And watching I'm real watching

24:28

friends. and like when I watch something

24:30

old. All be like an older film

24:32

or movie old. Notice how people. Have

24:34

their regular teeth and then I try

24:37

to google if they have the nearest

24:39

now. I

24:41

love this is a very curious

24:43

person anyway. So yeah,

24:45

I think I was googling Drew Barrymore. and I don't think

24:47

she has veneers. Because. She

24:49

recommended this crest brilliance. A.

24:52

Suitcase and in the video she's like this

24:54

isn't sponsored, I just I really like this

24:56

and it seems to work and then she's

24:58

and she just plessis her teeth and the

25:00

video. I don't have a link to the

25:02

city I can try to find it. I

25:04

just like truly stumbled upon it and. So

25:07

of course I bought this stuff. And.

25:09

It's a two step saying you brush your teeth for

25:11

a minute with one of the things. And you spit it

25:13

out, but you don't rinse and then you brush your teeth

25:16

for another. Minute with the next product and then

25:18

you do rents. My teeth were a little

25:20

sensitive after so like if the whitening products

25:22

kind of bug you might not be for

25:24

you. but it really wasn't bad. And.

25:27

My. Teeth were instantaneously. Wider.

25:31

Not. Like blowing up

25:33

Sally purchase noticeably

25:35

better looking. And

25:38

I used it again this morning sees that last

25:40

night and I was like oh wow this actually

25:42

makes a difference. The news that again this morning

25:44

and I hope this. Works and I

25:47

he likes. I hate white strips

25:49

or two strips. whatever you wanna

25:51

call them. I can't stand those.

25:53

They make the Ag I've tried.

25:56

The. Kind of waiting system where you put stuff on your teeth

25:58

and you let it dry in and you put. Light

26:01

in your mouth that never did anything.

26:03

This. Is so easy. You.

26:06

Just it's just when you're brushing your

26:08

he goes hand in it like meeting

26:10

noticeable difference but not again not in

26:12

a like. Blinding.

26:15

Way Which on an episode of

26:17

Friends. Does happen to Ross? He.

26:20

Whines his teeth two months and then he goes

26:22

to make out with somebody in up. And.

26:24

She turns on a black light and his teeth

26:26

are glowing! Oh. My god that's so funny. but

26:28

I see like that slut some. Celebrity.

26:31

Veneers, They are blindingly white.

26:34

They are blindingly ice.

26:37

Like they're so light and I

26:39

don't. I don't desire that. but.

26:41

It's I do and to shrimp a lot of

26:43

coffee. lake. And. our mind a

26:45

little like freshness on the assault shoppers.

26:49

So anyone tries out this product or has

26:51

tried it like that, let me know. And

26:54

let Drew now really all credit to true. Think.

26:58

You drew. Or it.

27:00

Moving on to some a

27:03

listener comments and choose. Okay

27:06

let's see that's ah I'm or in

27:09

our first is from a lester who

27:11

tax that ass and sad on time

27:13

listener first time texter show p up

27:15

the just made me feel so seen

27:17

she said herself. Care includes her husband

27:20

getting up in the middle of the

27:22

night with their baby because she needs

27:24

her sleep ever since they nineteen month

27:26

old was born my husband of the

27:29

morning shift every single morning I get

27:31

up in the middle of the night

27:33

with physically can't wake up early in

27:35

the morning like Joe. I

27:37

need my sleep. For almost two years

27:39

now I've felt such same not all

27:41

by my husband because it feels like

27:43

every other mom does quote both shit

27:45

and then I'm terrible because I literally

27:47

can't wake up in the early mornings.

27:50

It's nice to know that out there

27:52

somewhere someone is similar to me. Ah,

27:58

Joe does me people feel she does and

28:00

I'm glad that you felt seamless in our

28:02

but I do. Just one note: That.

28:06

It's fucking sucks that you

28:08

felt shame because. Partner.

28:12

Sippy splitting the chefs. Up.

28:17

Your system make sense. And

28:20

I think Austin, especially in

28:23

heterosexual partnerships. Not

28:26

equity. And

28:28

I commend you. From

28:31

modeling it. And

28:34

I'm sorry that you felt. Such.

28:36

Shame about it. He.

28:38

Out that super to really. Get point. Thank you

28:40

for. Near. Welcome

28:42

the new I send that message. To

28:44

Joe Dory. Oh

28:48

I will. Be

28:50

So we got this text. About you know we've

28:52

been talking about like friendships and the change. Like when

28:54

you have a friendship and then it goes away and

28:56

that weird feeling. And someone

28:59

shared the saying and I

29:01

actually. This. Is really resonated

29:03

with me. So this isn't just road

29:05

and they said a saying that I've

29:07

lived by for years. You have friends

29:09

for a season friends for of his

29:11

me. Friends. For a reason

29:13

and friends for a lifetime. It's

29:16

easy to see friendship. So when

29:18

you realize some friends are not

29:20

lifelong friends, And I think.

29:23

What? Changed my perspective after reading this

29:25

is realizing that it's not. Bad.

29:28

If friendships and like it does it mean that

29:31

it was a bad friendship or you had a

29:33

falling out or. You know

29:35

there's something wrong that your friendship

29:37

just kind of died, but rather

29:39

like it run its course. And

29:42

it so filled you during the friendship

29:45

and now. Iran.

29:47

To a new season. I

29:51

really. Liked that because I have a lot of grief

29:53

sometimes. About friendships that aren't as strong or

29:55

have. That kind of faded and the

29:58

kind of helped me read. Thinks

30:00

I'm a little bit more let go of a

30:02

little bit of bitterness. Love

30:08

that about friendship. settle. Yeah,

30:10

I mean I'm currently navigating

30:13

this live a long time

30:15

friend and. I don't really

30:17

know what the outcome is going to be. I

30:19

don't want to say something. That. I can't

30:22

take back rain or you like. I don't

30:24

want to say something in anger or that

30:26

I regret And so I've really been thinking

30:28

about like how I want to respond to

30:30

her because it's obviously it. You

30:33

know, in my mind, it's become a bigger

30:35

saying. Ah, I'm so

30:38

I'm. Just.

30:40

I'm I'm I'm this. this. This.

30:42

Text from a listener. When

30:45

thing is this is very timely army as

30:47

reminder. So

30:49

thank you for that! All

30:53

rights. We have a

30:55

voice hills. Great.

31:01

Story that has shown in Chicago and

31:03

my first ten point I can I

31:05

have the opportunity to fans that are

31:07

coming summer in Italy will be there

31:09

for just over two months and and

31:11

I know that there are a bunch

31:13

of amazing skincare products and make up

31:15

products that are only available on your

31:18

efforts. Wondering if you'd be lying to

31:20

compile a list of things that I

31:22

said keep for to grab and pick

31:24

home I'm or youth I'm their think

31:26

for much of a. I.

31:32

Don't know if either of us have

31:34

the expertise in this area to compile

31:36

a list. But. I thought

31:38

it might be the to open this up

31:40

and she's people had recommendations. Kid

31:45

I remember like one of the first.

31:48

Product recommendations you ever made

31:50

on this podcast with new

31:53

We'll produces I still love

31:55

it right? We. Started.

31:57

Doing five or thirty five like a media. The

32:00

year two prior. I.

32:03

Started. Hyper Fixating said

32:05

of really? Understood. What

32:07

was going on with my brain back then? But you know, And

32:10

I was. This is when I was like oh,

32:12

I see skincare, I'm interested in this And then

32:14

it was like. French French Girl life

32:17

hashtag French Girl what products are

32:19

they using And that is when

32:21

I purchased a bunch of French

32:23

products for I think like French.

32:25

pharmacy.com and nukes.

32:28

We'll. Throw.

32:30

Diseases which is a dry. Oil

32:32

ascend to dry oil I still

32:35

like. I think that's a great.

32:37

Product to check out of your am assuming you

32:39

can grab. It in Italy? I mean my initial thought

32:41

is like i think it's just fun to kind of.

32:44

Browse, And see

32:46

what? like pm your own curiosity

32:49

rather than I mean there's There's

32:51

so many lists of like. French

32:53

products to get at the pharmacy if

32:56

you're in France that you can find

32:58

online but I personally find like. For

33:01

housing to be. Really

33:03

can have fun. I have a day of

33:05

course of recommendations to to throw out at.

33:07

This person, in addition to that nukes

33:09

oil. There's an oil by joe away.

33:12

I'm sure I'm saying the throng it's

33:14

a try. It will Hansen spray like

33:16

a pump. I really like it a

33:18

habit. I got a text from a

33:20

friend who's working in Europe right now

33:22

and she said that all the girlies

33:25

there are loving Los Posts a sick

33:27

up last Bomb. Okay

33:32

that the hots have some

33:34

I love of then. I

33:37

especially love their face cream and they

33:39

had one that I loved that they

33:41

discontinued. That I really

33:43

like their products. I think you can get great

33:45

sunscreen in Europe. flourish per se as a brand

33:48

again of and mix with i me There's so

33:50

much I would. Look at the sunscreen.

33:54

A three one Three is like

33:56

he calls Save Us. Yes,

33:58

Vitamin A. I know

34:00

my yeah. that

34:03

some people swear by. I tried it

34:05

and I was. One of the people who put

34:07

it on my skin when my skin was still

34:09

a little bit too damp. And then my say

34:11

it's domain. Assign.

34:14

I mean I made it. This

34:16

people love that there are some

34:18

oh me oh plaza mean which

34:20

is. Think it's

34:22

like a vaseline. But more.

34:25

And. Yes, someone once brought me a tube

34:27

of it. It's like. It. Is

34:30

yeah it's kind of like ocho for

34:32

it's super thick. people put it on

34:34

their lips, but I remember reading something

34:36

where think that like an American. Interpretation

34:38

of the product and French people think we're

34:40

we're for. Putting it on our lips.

34:43

Oh interests. As

34:45

he can put on your nipples. Think

34:47

you might be right, has like law. And

34:50

I think it's petroleum. I

34:53

don't know. Some. Other brands that

34:55

I would look at em release. Cowardly

34:58

by of Derma. There.

35:00

Is a brand eight in this googling that I

35:02

was doing called. At. Take a teacup.

35:05

he a t y k a

35:07

that looks interesting. Now I will

35:09

say. Italy to.

35:11

Me is like I would look at. Perfumes,

35:15

If you were sent to

35:17

person. There's a

35:19

lot of kind of like old hundred

35:21

year old perfume houses and Italy. Oh

35:24

that's a hard time. I once had

35:26

a send from a place called card.

35:28

Again, everything I'm saying. Wrong. I'm shark

35:30

pursues, Yes to l am. I had a

35:32

son from there that I loved. There's. Awkward.

35:35

The Parma. There's a place called.

35:37

Or of a brand for. Santa Maria Novella which

35:39

was really interesting. So to me a

35:42

flick Italy it's. Cool

35:44

old perfume, the hairs, Perfumers,

35:48

As the that was saying it

35:50

perfumers, Ah,

35:54

just browse and if you're like oh,

35:56

this looks intriguing. A

35:58

nursing this before. Give

36:02

it a grab! A

36:05

like this suggestion. I'm

36:08

kind of of the mindset right now that.

36:11

We all are getting like too much

36:13

information and it's at least for me

36:15

and it's like taking away from. My.

36:18

Own curiosity. And.

36:20

Like, so I'm trying to. I'm trying

36:23

to remember that to keep that in

36:25

mind for myself about things. So I'm

36:27

just. Sharing that perspective

36:29

with you Alison Roman had. A

36:32

good news letter about this recently and

36:34

specifically actually in the context of going

36:36

to Paris. but it was. It was

36:38

also about. Recommendation.

36:41

Culture and getting away from

36:43

mass And she talks about

36:45

this. Okay, I will check

36:47

that out because I do

36:49

things like. That.

36:52

I think things like Tic Toc has like the

36:54

way it's made certain locations like everybody's gotta go

36:56

to this one places for a picture and at.

37:00

It's at oh now. it's kind of made

37:02

things. I. Think it's second

37:05

enjoyment out of like exploration. And.

37:08

Yeah. A pay

37:10

check that out during. Shooting

37:14

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40:22

Okay are a Tory I put this voicemail on here

40:24

and I I just see to a minute to share.

40:26

This with you and we can share the suppose

40:28

there's a can't remember if we have played this

40:31

way smell already. I. Did

40:33

a search. I didn't see it in any

40:35

documents. If this sounds familiar or if we

40:37

are playing at a second time, I apologize.

40:42

Tell me if this. If you remember that, wondering

40:44

if we play that before. Hi

40:47

ladies my name's Lauren as a the Miami

40:50

in a of your pot has it been

40:52

looking for a long time? I have a

40:54

question for you guys and for listeners really

40:56

did says couldn't tear in how we handle

40:59

like getting home watching our seas and then

41:01

perhaps doing it again after dinner. I I

41:03

can't imagine I'm the only person who has

41:05

this issue. so am I get home in

41:07

all. but by the time I get home

41:10

from work and everything it's like six pm

41:12

I have to get out of my clothes.

41:14

I have to think they make of off

41:16

arm. it's good for. Years give or take

41:18

your make of off as soon as

41:21

you can. So I'm I wash my

41:23

face, do the Holy Symbol plan, and

41:25

then this is where I get into

41:27

the problem. Like sometimes I'll do my

41:29

whole routine at that time like Kroner

41:31

eye cream, retinol moisturizer, the whole shebang.

41:33

But then I'll have dinner and like.

41:35

You. Know either eating very easily like

41:37

around my sincere or something like

41:39

with certain foods is to impossible.

41:41

If it's like a mess your

41:44

situation. And and those instances

41:46

I feel kinda silly because when I

41:48

go. That. I wash

41:50

my face again, do the whole thing again.

41:52

You know what? it sounds to slate? Kind

41:54

of insane. So what I've been doing lately

41:56

is doing like a little on a disk

41:59

and care. Situation without. You know

42:01

when I get home of you on a

42:03

wash my feet really well but then I'll

42:05

just to have faith oil. But even then

42:07

after dinner I go back and wash my

42:09

face again and light isn't that bad for

42:11

our skin barrier and. All

42:13

that stuff on what are you

42:16

guys feel I do you dislike

42:18

video. Wash your face and

42:20

put nothing on. I I feel very

42:22

good in that situation and you know

42:24

I sometimes if you don't put moisturizer

42:26

on your skin feels real plates on

42:28

in like that squeaky clean Feelings like

42:30

a try.not good I'm curious. What are

42:33

you confusing when you get home. Yeah

42:36

thing. And we played

42:38

this before. This

42:40

does this. This quandary

42:43

does sound. Vaguely familiar

42:45

to me, like I. I I

42:47

have a vague recollection of answering

42:49

something is not this particular voice

42:51

mail them like something similar, but

42:54

maybe it was something else. We

42:56

answer it out in the off

42:58

chance that we're doing it again.

43:00

Or so it's it's do you

43:02

have sauce of assists? Yeah, I'm

43:04

not. This. Thoughtful

43:07

about my skin. Like.

43:09

I I already. I exercised today in

43:12

a workout class and I didn't wash

43:14

my face after. So.

43:17

You're. You're asking someone at least me Anyway,

43:19

Dory as a Disc is different story that is

43:21

way better about showering after working out. I know

43:23

this to be true. I

43:27

just feel like you're you're asking like you need

43:29

to find your people. on this. Also like

43:31

everybody's job is different. I sit in

43:33

front. Of a computer. And

43:35

I don't see people. Some people are

43:37

working in a hospital. Someone is working

43:39

in front of a and stove. You

43:42

know, like the level of needing to

43:44

wash one's face. After after

43:46

anything is different. I

43:48

would just say that this person you want to do

43:50

it feels best. For you. But.

43:53

I think if you washed your face when

43:55

you got home and then I have been

43:57

using this. Toner from closer

43:59

acts. I think you could use like

44:01

a hydrating. Products like

44:03

a hydrating toner or an amp

44:06

fuel or like something that doesn't

44:08

leave your skin feeling seat and

44:10

then. When. It's time for

44:12

bed. You could kind of do the second

44:15

half of the routine because I think washing

44:17

your face to place. It

44:19

depends on your skin, but it seems like a little.

44:22

Stripping. This.

44:26

Toner That idol I

44:28

love. I'm. I've just started

44:30

using it, but it's really great. It's stuff. Full

44:33

Sets: Propolis: Synergy Toner

44:35

I'm and it's super

44:37

hydrating. I. I'm.

44:39

Loving it. Ah. So.

44:42

You could, maybe just. Wash.

44:44

Your face Pearl Harbor. This. And

44:46

then maybe. You. Know give it

44:48

a second go. Do. Need a kind

44:51

of get stuff off your face before bed and then

44:53

do. The rest of your skincare routine. I

44:56

like that says s and. And

44:59

I was gonna say something similar like if if he

45:02

really cilic you need to wash your face like the

45:04

second you get home. Wash.

45:06

Your face and then maybe just put on like

45:08

a a very light moisturizers. see you don't get

45:10

that like. That. Dryness that

45:12

you sometimes feels also but also if

45:14

your if your skin is really feeling

45:17

tight after you wash. Your face you

45:19

might be using like too much

45:21

of a drying London. Like.

45:24

Maybe use like a bomb or something

45:26

like something a little gentler. Ah, I'm

45:28

And then. I would just put

45:30

on like at like a gel moisturizer, like

45:33

a water cream or something like a sin

45:35

layer of something, just sort of have it

45:37

on there and then. Do. Your

45:40

full routine. And if you if you

45:42

do feel like I say i feel

45:44

a i still need to wash my

45:46

face before bed is needed You like

45:48

an oil cleanser. Again,

45:51

like a bomb and cyanide is

45:54

just not gonna be stripping. I

45:56

like that. Would

45:58

be mine said. The company's.

46:02

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46:05

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46:07

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the formula to their confidence in

46:22

a cream product. It's what Kate

46:24

would call a stick cream Now

46:27

it feels as as thingy on

46:29

my sensitive and dry skin but

46:31

the internet showed me to. Great

46:33

alternative. Whole Leak A Whole Leakers

46:36

good Sarah cream. And

46:38

policy Choice: ultra rich

46:40

moisturizer. Who

46:44

I don't know. Holy The Holy.

46:48

Don't either, but I am

46:50

given who who I am

46:52

into this price point. Oh

46:55

it's it's. a Korean brand. Ah,

47:00

Much. Interesting. Okay,

47:03

I've never tried this policy. Choices:

47:06

moisturizer either. But

47:09

I mean to it at whole leaker the

47:11

whole liquor who like a website looks like

47:13

it doesn't ship to the U S. but

47:15

maybe there's another way to buy they'll wanna.

47:18

Know any The Cylon. I

47:22

love a sick moisturizer. Especially in

47:24

dry and cold. Weather.

47:27

And I don't like when a

47:29

moisturizer stings. That makes

47:32

an area of land so I see

47:34

you. Ah

47:38

thank you for this. Well

47:42

dory Sydney it slide into intentioned

47:45

town. And

47:47

let's do that. How

47:50

has it been for you Last week? You

47:52

said you were going to ease back into

47:54

society. You are going to re enter the

47:56

world post sickness. I

47:59

feel like you're there. Yeah,

48:02

I think I have been

48:04

reentering the world. I'm I

48:06

played tennis. Oh. My.

48:08

Nose is running a little bit but like

48:11

other than that I felt fine. I'm.

48:15

I. Taught the mahjong yeah I

48:18

have been. I have than

48:20

venturing out of my home

48:22

which which feels good. Ah,

48:25

I'm. This

48:28

we. I.

48:34

Am. In the

48:36

try to dislike work on my mental health

48:38

a little moon. Compare.

48:42

For this we'll see. We'll see how

48:44

that pans. That's.

48:47

What are you? Last week I said I

48:49

was in a clean my does. Because it

48:52

was covered in his hands and papers

48:54

and. Food and. And

48:57

have that a clean and I ended up. Having.

48:59

One of the weekends or I cleaned

49:01

a lot. Oh nice that's

49:03

inside us A list. It's

49:05

so satisfying. It

49:08

felt amazing and I.

49:10

I. Made sure to send s. Of

49:13

the projects because I often.

49:16

Nord. Like I'll start those. Bathroom

49:18

Closet yeah out and then I

49:20

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49:22

dust everywhere for six months and

49:24

I'm yeah made it a point.

49:27

To complete the projects. And that.

49:30

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49:32

just did like and expired. Medicine.

49:35

And product herds and

49:38

then reorganized and. You've

49:40

been talking about doing that. I got rid

49:42

of a lot of stuff well I saw

49:45

I was talk soon as citizen and they're

49:47

like anything that's over. Year old like throw

49:49

it out. There. Was a

49:51

key mean this four year old bottle

49:53

of Skyn suitable Vitamin C serum. Okay

49:55

so and they are like yeah I

49:58

didn't reveal that I had that. They

50:00

were like this is not grant. That

50:02

yeah, Okay,

50:05

that's exciting. He feels

50:07

good, To declutter. In

50:09

that way. Without

50:12

the oh my gosh, this week I realized I didn't. Write

50:14

something in our little spot. I wrote that I clean

50:17

you are. Just so excited about food has

50:19

been so they the right leaning that

50:21

isn't that anything else and ah what

50:23

am I gonna do The sleep oh

50:25

I have an intention. Is

50:28

kind of a broader one. I.

50:30

Am really enjoying. Seeing.

50:34

Lives Peter So's. Move

50:38

on. My

50:40

husband and I went and saw

50:42

a play here in Los Angeles

50:45

on Saturday nights and. I.

50:47

I've seen more like Stand Up recently and I

50:49

just and like and good at in there's a

50:51

stand up for minute hello hi really like we

50:53

want to see so I'm just gonna kind of

50:56

like. Try to

50:58

keep that like that that definitely like Stills

51:00

my cop. Love!

51:03

So I him. Going to just.

51:06

Make sure I have another seen.

51:09

On the calendar. Doesn't

51:11

need to be stance see, just. I just like to

51:13

go. Out and see. People.

51:15

Perform. Ah,

51:19

I'm that so fun for you.

51:22

It is Fun! I.

51:24

Also really love magic shows. If anyone has

51:26

any good magic show recommendations. Of

51:31

matter, kit that that love magic

51:33

so recklessly? System of magic. Okay,

51:37

That. Know Dory. We

51:40

have come to the and. Yes,

51:42

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