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not understanding what the hell? Gender
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Adams I'm your host and resident.
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Shudder Detective Tuck Woodstock. Among
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the. Hey.
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Everyone hope you've all been hanging in
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there. There's. The gonna show. I am
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pleased to share our conversation with Lives Farm
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Jones you might know lives from her organizing
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and advocacy work i google or her past
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efforts to get kiwi. Farms taken down,
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Or. Maybe you know her as the creator
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of the Coworker Solidarity Find, which has
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provided support for striking and unionizing workers
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at Netflix, Starbucks, Amazon, and more. In.
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This episode live and as the and I
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talk about the solidarity find and loses years
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at google. We. Also, talk about ways
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that tech people can use their tech person privilege
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to support trans people and whether it's safe to
1:47
plan your organizing efforts and Google docs you should
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use the tools are most effective. You rather than
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hampering your own efforts in order to kind of
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have this purity of know, we're not going to
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use Google or Amazon. Chortling. Once.
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Again, we recorded this than. You want? My radiator was
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yelling at me as healthy hear that in the background.
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Sorry. About that. But. Before we get
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to the I decided to let you
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don't know, it's so annoying. I'm sorry, but.
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If you wanna give it a shot. That. The
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allies last sentiments. And
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now. It's. Time for this week! Engender.
3:08
How can there be honest? I once
3:11
again using the this week and gender
3:13
segments to really just to sort of
3:15
an extended housekeeping announcement. And why am
3:17
I doing this? Because say it with
3:19
me, all the news is bad, but
3:21
this is fine thought I got the
3:23
sense that. You.
3:26
May have heard me dropping not
3:28
so subtle hints that lasted. Subscribed
3:30
to the Hang Up Podcast. If
3:32
not, does it's kind to the
3:34
Hang Up Pod that to the
3:36
podcast me by my friends the
3:38
Kia and Caitlin. It is a
3:40
queer reality dating so a cast
3:42
and something I really appreciate about
3:44
this show is not only is
3:47
that a queer dating so but
3:49
it also acknowledges the reality of
3:51
clear dating and dating and general
3:53
by which I mean they are
3:55
not trying. To match you up with
3:57
someone who you will then go on to
3:59
marry minutes. The end of the
4:01
end of time they're really just trying
4:03
to find someone who you will ask
4:06
out on a date. Navy is is
4:08
and then what will happen. Who can
4:10
say? And so I'd is really appreciate
4:13
their being safe. For non monogamy, they're
4:15
being space for complicated relationship dynamics of
4:17
various kinds. The way the show works
4:20
is that every season there is one
4:22
star of February. it's not mine and
4:24
the star is matched with a handful
4:27
of contestants and the star goes on
4:29
a series. As phone dates with the
4:31
intestines and after every episode they have to
4:33
quote hang up on one of the contestants
4:35
until they finally narrow it down to one
4:38
person and then there's the big twist that
4:40
I will not while for you even though
4:42
I think it's explained that like. The
4:45
very first episode immediately for whatever you can
4:47
subscribe and find out what the twist. Is.
4:50
Anyway, Season one is out now.
4:52
you can listen to it and I'll
4:55
the height of places he's into will
4:57
be out very soon and I've heard
4:59
a bunch of behind the scenes info
5:01
about that season. It sounds very good.
5:03
Between those two seasons, however, they have
5:05
released one Fossil Bones episode that was
5:07
recorded live in front of an audience
5:09
of other podcasts Errors in Brooklyn a
5:12
few weeks ago and the premise of
5:14
this episode is that it's kind of
5:16
the entire season, but condensed into forty
5:18
minutes. So the way it was recorded.
5:20
Is that there was a star on
5:22
one side of the Korean and then
5:25
for contestants on the other side and
5:27
then the audience can see everyone that
5:29
that and had can't see the sar
5:31
and my first guy and there was
5:33
a time of work going into this
5:35
out to make sure that the ceramic
5:37
interested in seats other even dislike thumping
5:39
around in the hallway before the south.
5:41
I bring this up because. Can.
5:44
You guess who the star
5:46
was? Totally totally totally totally
5:48
totally saw. Ah, maybe you're
5:51
subscribed to hang out if
5:53
you want to hear me
5:55
be an absolute dumb ass
5:57
on a stage in Brooklyn.
6:00
Ah, there is a funny twist at
6:03
the advice I isn't as a real
6:05
fast and I will not spoil our
6:07
something that I is so funny about
6:09
this episode as because there's forty minutes
6:11
for me to make various rounds of
6:13
elimination, there is virtually no time for
6:15
me to learn anything about any one
6:17
like at no point to I know
6:19
like how old these people are, where
6:21
they live i learn that was a
6:23
dancer later and every shocking. ah. There's
6:25
also absolutely no contacts for them to
6:27
learn anything about me literally at all.
6:29
not even a little bit. Which I
6:31
think really affects be a twist
6:33
at the end of it. Anyway,
6:35
I decided to recommend you check
6:38
out the show in general and
6:40
also if you're just dying for
6:42
yeah more it's really really silly.
6:44
Tuck would suck contact. I normally
6:46
review every like podcast that I've
6:48
been on before. I recommend that
6:50
y'all listen to me on another
6:52
so I will listen to that
6:54
so to see if I said
6:57
something very stupid. but here I
6:59
am too confident I absolutely silicon
7:01
a sensibilities. Events and I tried to
7:03
listen to an advance and I just couldn't
7:05
I couldn't do it I could make myth
7:07
of do it but I know with great
7:09
at a great time and that sort of
7:12
behind the scenes I'll tell you is that
7:14
after the so are almost all of us
7:16
hung out for like an hour to to
7:18
sort of process that it was like to
7:20
reject each other on stage. be like by
7:22
the way numbers with Riyadh and models for
7:25
bad your theme. incredibly grail of how follow
7:27
each other on Instagram and I thought that
7:29
was really nice sort of reality. So after
7:31
care and I wish that for all
7:33
people who are in move kind of
7:35
a very specific position. So.
7:38
Let. Me close by saying ah that
7:41
there should be more clear reality
7:43
dating shows and I have enough
7:45
insight and behind the scenes of
7:47
this to say that one of
7:49
the main reasons why there aren't
7:51
more good at queer reality shows
7:53
are Law that one season of
7:56
our he the one that aren't
7:58
we talking about is because. They
8:00
still will mostly only let three
8:02
people queer reality shows into The
8:04
three people are passing out ideas
8:06
of what they think other straight
8:08
people want to see. queer people
8:11
do and we are just never
8:13
going to have like. Exceptional.
8:15
And de lis as. Reality. Show
8:18
content for queer people and less
8:20
it's being made by and for
8:22
queer people as well as about
8:24
where people. It is not going
8:26
to be a good show if
8:28
it is need to be educational
8:30
to he says had audience so
8:32
subscribes hangar listen wherever you get
8:35
your podcasts and in the meantime.
8:37
Here's this episode of Gender. Feel. This.
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terms of gender how do you describe yourself. I
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use she her pronounce and I
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am a proud out trends woman.
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So I've been out since two
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thousand and three Witches and that
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turn it he in trans years
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and see I i a binary
11:13
as far as I know you
11:16
know obviously people's evolution is an
11:18
understanding of the gender change over
11:20
time. That as you know consistently
11:22
I am loving that is that
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is who I am. Perfect.
11:27
Yeah, I am. Inches said you
11:29
coming out more than twenty years
11:31
ago? I guys at the remember.
11:34
The. First time that you may other trans
11:36
people like in your realize. Oh
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goodness. So I was born in
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Nineteen Eighty Seven on side you
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can imagine in two thousand and
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three I was sixteen years old
11:48
and know just slightly died. read
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a little bit. About trends the
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ball on mine. this and. I was
11:55
like hey, wait a second like I might
11:57
be trends. I eventually came out to some
11:59
people online. And I do not weep on
12:01
my real life on my biological parents did not
12:03
take it so well. And the interesting
12:05
thing that saved my God, your life. Is I'm
12:07
serious a group of mostly asian
12:09
trans woman or but you know
12:12
we have course had some token
12:14
white representation on spurt we had
12:16
a group that with called the
12:18
joy Luck club and that group
12:20
or asian friends woman to hook
12:22
me and and mentored me when
12:24
I was like seventeen eighteen and
12:26
night sneak away from my biological
12:28
parents to go and and meet
12:30
up with them and rights you
12:32
notice have community to really like
12:34
see like was connected to people
12:36
sales. Moses experienced meeting others
12:38
and people in real life was
12:40
hanging out with this group of
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other isn't rental and and they
12:45
were. In Lightsaber. Unfortunately,
12:47
one of the founding members of that
12:49
group past when the past five years
12:51
or so, but she was a our
12:54
software engineer at Apple on Melody Bless.
12:56
I think that Melody was a phenomenon.
12:58
Shoes She was incredible. Ill. It
13:01
was a bunch of software dick Street primarily
13:03
because we knew how to use the Internet
13:05
back then, right? Like that's that's how we
13:07
met up with each other. So you know
13:09
ice. This is why I and ironically can
13:11
say the Internet saved my life. Yeah, absolutely.
13:14
Well. You know, Internet Job Tech jobs
13:17
Coding jobs is. In a one
13:19
as bad thighs stereotypical trans girl jobs,
13:21
right? Maybe the only one because you
13:23
health insurance. You think that. It's
13:25
up there in the top five because so
13:27
many. Chance you will meet online or
13:30
what do you think contributes to that? Yeah.
13:32
There's certainly a selection bias, right? like
13:34
the set of friends people that make
13:36
it that survive. Tend. To
13:39
be the ones that all birds were
13:41
working. And software a sounder way toward
13:43
software the kinds, right? My tax instance:
13:45
nudity connecting to people about his instance
13:47
i'm no should in the ability to
13:50
or net income to get health insurance
13:52
in Er. Tech companies have some the
13:54
first to offer trans inclusive health care
13:56
coverage. So yeah, I don't think it's
13:58
that you know. I got a trend.
14:01
people are overrepresented and care for. you
14:03
know twenty four good at tax rate
14:05
like it's just this is the industry
14:07
in which you're most likely to survive
14:09
and the as a trans person and
14:11
I would love for a future world
14:13
in which you know you see plenty
14:15
of out there are trans folks who
14:18
portray these are like year plumbers, electricians
14:20
and Syria of and breached as but
14:22
like that's not the world that we
14:24
exist in today and the other phenomenon
14:26
I think also is yes there is
14:28
discrimination in the tech world. The also.
14:31
You don't have to interact with clients
14:33
in person for the most part, and
14:36
that was a huge advantage in the
14:38
early two thousand was that Saddam is
14:40
less overtly transposing. I would say that
14:43
you know people in the in the
14:45
nineties. two thousand and six you would
14:47
get fired from at the end him
14:49
out at work on you know there's
14:52
obviously a famous thrive when Conway right
14:54
Bias I I I think you know
14:56
in general. Was more accepting
14:58
of trans folks than other professions that
15:00
were more has market Murphy singer and
15:03
players were like but. Now
15:05
that you're trends right now.
15:08
totally. Do you have advice
15:10
for other trans people who are thinking about
15:12
going into Attackers? Who are you know in
15:14
early stages of their career right now. Yeah.
15:17
So this is actually one of the
15:19
reasons. Why I backed a company called
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Career Karma is that I was seeing
15:23
this problem of a lot of people
15:25
looking to get a check for from
15:27
under represented backgrounds were like know hey
15:29
this is an environment of some try
15:32
and make the barrier it seems like
15:34
it might be lower than I thought.
15:36
like you know I as I could
15:38
actually make some money here more than
15:40
I am currently making and then you're
15:42
getting fleeced by these and scrupulous boot
15:44
camps and leaving a Career Karma was
15:47
founded. Do It! started by a couple
15:49
of. I think black and latino
15:51
guys and their ambition was to
15:53
make friends the system of a
15:55
boot camps. Like to publish actual
15:57
real reviews of boot camp sucks.
16:00
Or could learn what they are
16:02
getting into so. I had to
16:04
just he will like go check out Career
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Karma. You're interested in joining the boot camp.
16:08
Lights don't get sucked into gear. Promises about
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you know we buried six percent least and
16:13
reader whenever right like it's you know three
16:15
months, six months of your life. It's like
16:17
a lot of money and tuition money that's
16:19
either owed and conditionally or consistently upon you
16:21
finding employment like make sure that you find
16:23
something that is is going to give you
16:26
the right headlights. I do think that good
16:28
chance of place on as the sadly that
16:30
is much more affordable and much less expensive
16:32
than college but as much. Less regulated and
16:34
college even for profit college which is
16:36
it's own board sales see I I
16:38
I did you know just. Make.
16:41
Sure that you know you're getting into
16:43
that but there is a much more
16:45
wealth his pathway then the days when
16:47
I first got into into taxes are
16:50
paying it was seeking of earlier courier
16:52
you has been. Doing. A
16:54
lot of organizing work. In addition
16:56
to your other work for a long time
16:58
and the i didn't know his.was something that
17:00
you felt like you and very intentionally. Created.
17:04
As a role for yourself or whether you
17:06
felt like it was something that you just
17:08
fell into or were like pushed into. you
17:10
know how intentional was that work? Oh, I
17:12
completely fallen. activists And a chance. So here's
17:15
a size two thousand eight. You know, I
17:17
was the starry eyed person who's by oh
17:19
my God. I got any the little despite not
17:21
having a college degree and being a college. Dropout rate
17:23
like oh my god This is awesome. Might. You know
17:25
we're going to change the world. We're gonna, you
17:27
know, make the world's information universally. Accessible and
17:29
useful. And
17:32
then be kind of cold hard. reality
17:34
hits that Google was actually doing some
17:36
evil, wasn't doing no evil. So Two
17:38
Thousand Eight, it's y'all Remember was the
17:40
year of property in California and the
17:42
Was founder. Sad, You know we're in
17:44
favor of are these families like you
17:46
know we're We're encouraging people to vote
17:49
no on eight. And.
17:51
You know the even when you see brass and you know
17:53
the google founders advise you not to vote no on it.
17:56
But. Google took money
17:58
from the Yes Honey campaign Substance. Com.
18:00
And. They had a dedicated account rep to
18:03
help the Us on. A campaign maximize
18:05
their impact. For revenue spent like
18:07
the millions of dollars in pour it
18:09
into the Just Non Profit campaign and
18:11
saying things that you know we would
18:14
regard is a homophobic or friends other
18:16
today you know right? Make Protect California
18:18
families from the gates right? So. That
18:21
was a moment of shop for me
18:23
realizing that you know to google homophobes
18:25
Money is is is money belt villas
18:27
take it involves help homophobes. So since
18:29
we the employees found out about the
18:32
sales rep allocated to the pro probably
18:34
campaign there was a like phone and
18:36
I just what know where it he
18:38
had died out that has there was
18:40
no organization there is no ability to
18:42
have a sustained campaign so a couple
18:44
your pass and then it's i know
18:47
energy that nine beginning of twenty times
18:49
and the was about to launch. To
18:51
Be I too Plus Project which
18:53
is I tools answer to Facebook
18:55
and they had made design decisions
18:57
to try to replicate what they
18:59
viewed as making Facebook successful in
19:01
one of those elements was a
19:03
real names. And
19:06
there I was just renting them have to
19:08
my mates and I are see I'm in
19:10
the Cambridge office are being like a like
19:12
this policy sucks and you know didn't they
19:14
consider that this is gonna hunt trans people
19:16
in this is gonna hurt sex workers, Mrs
19:18
gonna hit crook teachers and therapists and Obama
19:21
lots. And other were like yeah you know
19:23
thing is that right? and. I
19:25
was thinking to myself. This
19:28
is gonna sit there and go nowhere. This is
19:30
gonna be like the property thing where to dine
19:32
with his like there was no structure around it.
19:34
like you know no one's gonna hear about a
19:36
conversation and employees are having in in a random
19:38
my receipts handle. What? If
19:40
we wrote an open letter to the leadership
19:42
of the schemes and like he like know
19:44
we're going assume good faith. but have you
19:47
considered the impacts that your policies going to
19:49
on the specific groups of people? I offered
19:51
up of of these documents and shirted Nyasi
19:53
channel those rest again. And
19:55
google lox cross because we immediately hit cities
19:57
will who were all opening a document one.
20:00
The edited it and admins so we saw
20:02
some of these issues and then a couple
20:04
days later on right before is about to
20:06
hit the sunburns you to the leadership team
20:08
hopes of do of us people came to
20:10
me and realized I don't amazing and I
20:13
swung Simon into it's my was liquid and
20:15
there's no place to sign names to that.
20:17
This is literally just a way less agreement
20:19
says like you know what in ways that
20:21
we can make it better than okay thought.
20:24
So the petition and kind of group organizing
20:26
as that was an afterthought, straight tragic and
20:28
be right. But as a fellow. End of
20:30
this on that and if they suddenly two
20:32
thousand people out as at the time you
20:34
google says yes were some companies to the
20:36
people with India will find their names this
20:38
letter and said like we don't want to
20:40
the latter romance policy. And
20:42
what was interesting was that. Leadership lessons
20:44
but they said we cannot communicate with
20:47
two thousand people like you need to
20:49
what elect to choose by the at
20:51
like a group of you know, six
20:53
to twelve people that we can actually
20:55
interact with right? that contains mediate the
20:57
torches and pitchforks. So
20:59
that's the story of how I became almost
21:01
Sig union rep right? Like was was his
21:04
idea I was working with. People might like
21:06
it. It also hope that I had sort
21:08
of our in management who was similarly right.
21:10
I see this problem. I recognize that you
21:12
have legitimate grievances, but I. Don't want to
21:15
deal with two thousand angry people who are renting
21:17
at me and my team with ten you
21:19
like help resolve the dispute. So I was doing
21:21
that but primarily oriented around how to admit he
21:23
was. Products that are might make you know
21:25
when it's going to make the company more much.
21:29
And the company did not recently the gets near that
21:31
time. Passes. Liver.
21:34
Other people who are organizing at the same
21:36
time but around things that would cost the
21:38
company money. In particular, Heritage
21:40
like they are. Food is a
21:43
new really awesome person. Here
21:45
the time was a fellow safe, reliable
21:47
engineer and she published a spreadsheet of
21:49
Like People Salaries. I. Think of share
21:51
my salary internally. and
21:54
see was his were actually be
21:56
against into some actually push out
21:58
of the company but sizes. When
22:00
did not approve of her doing that
22:02
play as much slower. I think that
22:04
it is not fair to say that
22:06
you at the time who was wholly
22:08
welcoming organising activity only welcome into certain
22:10
kinds of organizing activity. And they are.
22:12
I have to recognize that privilege. So.
22:15
There are some principals work at
22:17
Google who has invited me to
22:19
talk with their coworkers and I
22:21
always get a lot of questions
22:23
from both this and trans people
22:25
that are like what can we.
22:28
Do for trans people from our positions
22:30
as relative privilege and you know I
22:32
have my little answers but I assume
22:34
you also get this castle and I'm
22:37
just curious. Like how you answer at.
22:39
Oh do I have answers? That question,
22:41
Are you think the primaries are
22:44
things that we. Can Do is
22:46
just not make life works for
22:48
transit. These large technology conglomerates hold
22:51
a lot of power over the
22:53
world and when that tower is
22:55
used to abuse trans people is
22:58
deeply deeply troubling to me. Whether
23:00
it be I've you know trends,
23:02
phobic and Skyn run that kind
23:04
of shit, that overton window towards
23:07
becoming friends who being accepted right
23:09
arm, whether we see instances on
23:11
social media being used to bully
23:14
him, threatened trans people. That.
23:16
Really unfortunate case. Several days ago, a
23:18
non binary trans school child was beaten
23:20
to death or after at their school,
23:22
was riveted by lumps of ten. right?
23:25
I think that's the primary way
23:28
is stop your company from harming.
23:30
Are being complicit in the harm
23:32
as trans people tires. The number
23:34
one thing that I'd ask you
23:36
to do. Organize internally. Get these
23:38
policies teams get your to be
23:40
actual like responsibility and content moderation.
23:43
And then I think finally earned to
23:45
give is a powerful on useful thing
23:47
is applied appropriately like you know can
23:50
I. Earn money in a way
23:52
that doesn't directly harm principle. Obviously, you know you
23:54
shouldn't be like going out on in blood money
23:56
him and trying to repair the damage caused. But
23:58
like you know, assuming that. Earned money
24:00
through the tech sector threat. Like putting
24:02
that to work to help trans people
24:05
in ways that are directed by Twenty
24:07
Bowl for trans people. Com just you
24:09
know thinking about what's the most effective
24:11
way. Lights and you'll It's assists and
24:13
in some cases that may be a
24:15
five, one C three but you get
24:17
a tax write off for in other
24:19
cases it might be political activism organizing
24:21
are dirt political donations right? There's kind
24:24
of the bass spectrum of ways to
24:26
economically top disadvantage trans people. We.
24:28
Actually brands and on the show earlier this season and
24:30
she was talking about how and I can see of
24:32
money as to give away as much as you possibly
24:34
can right now and I think that so many people
24:37
have a hard time without because we are all said
24:39
this like capitalists scarcity message and you're one of the
24:41
only people I see who is. Really?
24:43
actively. Doing. The
24:45
work to give large parsons of your
24:47
money away and I was wondering if.
24:50
You. Know what it is about
24:52
you that has been able to counteract
24:54
these messages and like allowed you to
24:56
give so much of this money away.
24:58
So the catalyst for me was the
25:00
Twenty sixteen presidential election relic. I was
25:03
like holy shit twenty four in danger
25:05
and I was like holy shit i
25:07
cannot feel com for like making this
25:09
amount of money and she of not
25:11
give you know. I
25:13
thousand dollars You thousand dollars to know
25:15
that dollars to helping trend sequel which
25:17
get passports with get documentation before like
25:19
the door slams shut on accidentally slip.
25:22
Trump. Administration Brooks the ability to get
25:24
seen Center Markers Rights said I was
25:26
in the first for a that my
25:28
spouse and I said into this farmers
25:30
activism and philanthropy. Some of this work
25:32
let us towards working with the National
25:34
Center for Tension or Quality Flight like
25:36
some of this work let us to
25:38
working with trends left lifeline and you
25:40
know over the course of time that
25:42
organization is becoming much more effective organization
25:44
them via organization and grew too quickly
25:46
and embezzled money totally basically for us
25:48
ill is in a seem impact or
25:50
dollars hydrant with been really really. Involved in
25:52
their three with it's not as dollars to us
25:54
relic it's the stories of how the work that
25:57
we did weather at the Mcg is policy work.
25:59
Whether it be. The money that
26:01
that one's life point has given people this
26:03
user Id documents related. That.
26:05
Makes a huge difference in people's
26:07
lives. Anger. In. Of my starts in
26:10
Iraq are big fans of this. Idea of You
26:12
know, so we find ways to get some
26:14
one hundred dollars that they don't wind up
26:16
you know, are being evicted from their apartment
26:18
and having a thousand dollars be do right
26:20
like that sign is a thing that we're
26:23
thinking that should you skill this outright, that's
26:25
how do we do this effectively with organizations
26:27
that are funded by more than just stops
26:29
relics that does not be a death sentence
26:31
upon. A single or
26:33
individual fry like this? This has to be
26:36
at some Unity funded efforts right? I think
26:38
that's thing as the the main thing that
26:40
we're working towards. I think
26:42
the other angle that you're asking about his
26:44
you know, how did we feel comfortable giving
26:46
away large sums, hundred and and then yesterday?
26:49
He wants to know when is enough Like
26:51
what is enough for you to control in,
26:53
Live on and then are you know? Can
26:55
you give away anything beyond that right? like
26:57
that? I think is is the key thing,
27:00
but I recognize as the thing that our
27:02
lives and people do not reach and that
27:04
is really really unfortunate. I wish were a
27:06
world in which trans people hadn't just as
27:08
much wealth and that were just as it
27:11
didn't seem. Distribution. Of economic status as
27:13
opposed to trends you're being socio
27:15
economically. Disadvantaged yeah I have
27:17
found that. When. I'm
27:19
talking til. Most. says
27:21
people and or most taxi
27:24
paw. They. Don't really have an
27:26
awareness of how little money the average
27:28
Tams person has and the fact that
27:30
like the average trans worker, Only.
27:32
Makes like sixty percent of the average says my
27:35
car and not only people that actually can find
27:37
work and the unemployment rates also higher in do
27:39
you feel like there's that disconnect for you with
27:41
coworkers? were they just like really don't understand the
27:43
level of the need? I mean like any coworkers
27:45
or for any time I'm not trying to like
27:47
make you call out of a person right now.
27:50
Oh God I am so so. So
27:52
fortunate that be startup that I work at
27:54
now we're something like twenty years to be
27:56
percent clear. It's. Fucking awesome. I'd
27:59
love it. On the
28:01
yes. You're right, it can
28:03
be a challenge and at the end of
28:05
the day for that you know you and
28:08
your colleagues are there to do works right.
28:10
like not necessarily to talk about trans rights.
28:12
ah I think. Definitely a really tricky balance
28:14
though it's to strike I think in general
28:16
I don't think it's on and trans people
28:19
who are vulnerable when in in their workplaces
28:21
to. To. Educators, his colleagues and I
28:23
still don't think it's that's a reasonable last.
28:26
I'm. Interested you. You said that you work
28:28
at this company. That's like very clear. Also
28:31
very try and from demand an absence
28:33
of color. obviously that is just an
28:35
objective good to do. You feel like
28:38
there's any way that that has noticed
28:40
li affected anything about the way the
28:42
company operates. I. Don't have that can
28:44
be like accommodation structure linguistic. Hiring
28:46
is a set of a lot. Easier
28:49
like We have so many
28:51
qualified candidates, right? It turns
28:53
out. That on people who
28:55
are members, dissidents, minorities, We.
28:57
Talk to each other about our workplaces.
29:00
So it turns out that he knows
29:02
he got in an instant. Some very,
29:04
very qualified people who really, really want
29:06
to market the Reflux are very selective
29:08
about what workplaces that they're willing to
29:10
consider. Right in That I would argue.
29:13
There. Isn't a lowering the bar? There
29:15
is a raising of the bar litter.
29:17
Parts to be with Caliber is amply
29:20
town and we are tracks right wing.
29:22
I think that's a huge advantage. May
29:24
I think? beyond that you know we've
29:26
I am. So. My company
29:29
hi some weird sentimentally a big data
29:31
company right we analyze data from software
29:33
developer systems in give Salford offers better
29:36
to lean to interrupt that they didn't
29:38
make their systems. So I think that
29:40
any design practices really really enhanced by
29:42
having a diverse and represent new set
29:45
of backgrounds are of the people working
29:47
minded as as the acceptable they reach
29:49
up to an interview. I. Decent
29:52
that you get better outcomes with regards
29:54
you a more usable products and is
29:56
more inclusive. I think the end of
29:58
the day though we have. To prove
30:00
that we succeed as a business right like
30:02
that, you know our mission is not diversity.
30:04
Our mission is building a successful business and
30:07
if we do that, you know along the
30:09
way we'll prove that that the favor see
30:11
has been helpful to us. I.
30:14
Wanted to. Hop around
30:16
a little that I can. You just
30:18
tell us what their coworkers solidarity fund
30:21
as and how it works. I wanna
30:23
make sure we we get to this
30:25
today. Oh yeah, absolutely. So I'm in
30:27
Twenty eight Seen a couple of Giant
30:30
The Oscars rocks Google first year as
30:32
Project Maiden in which it was revealed
30:34
that Google Ways I'm working with the
30:37
Us Department Defense to build Serbian Ai,
30:39
surveillance technology and Blacks like data centers
30:41
for the Us Department attempts to aid
30:44
in what they claim was only. Going
30:46
to be aerial surveillance and you know
30:48
their of the a human and whoop
30:50
to pull the trigger. Pets like nine
30:52
really uncomfortable and also selling Know you
30:54
know if I don't have access to
30:56
inspector classified data center that we're building
30:58
for you that you're not you know
31:00
using a I to automate pulling the
31:03
trigger separate maven happened. Then project Dragons
31:05
Like happened in which us was a
31:07
collaborating with the People's Republic of China
31:09
to build a not only censored version
31:11
of the search engine that would lie
31:13
to you about air quality. Result in
31:15
Beijing could also be would turn over
31:17
the results of searching for a person's
31:19
mobile phone number two and sorts of
31:21
they conducted without due process or a
31:23
warrant right? Honestly that latter part was
31:25
was given more friendly. Keep. On
31:28
Channel Smart, they understand that this results
31:30
are censored. That's not the issue. The
31:32
issue is turning over people data without
31:34
their consent. That's scary, not ethically. Okay,
31:37
so the fact that Google pulled these
31:39
you know to secret projects in a
31:41
row product maybe projects Dragonfly. There was
31:43
huge uproar and employees revolted and leadership
31:46
did not listen to them on. and
31:48
we're really really saw us on these
31:50
demands don't Number one. Number two was
31:53
the Google Evans walk out. right? That
31:55
happen. Also, in in twenty again. I
31:57
wear. It was revealed back double paid
31:59
Md. The been from unlike eighty
32:01
ninety million dollars to finally meet after
32:03
he was found. By. The
32:06
board tours are sexually harassed
32:08
subordinates. Now. The
32:10
real with wake up call for employees set
32:12
the bar perhaps their own that like employees
32:14
like we're on our own, we need to
32:16
organize like this is existing. structures were working
32:18
for things that we didn't know about arm
32:20
and that we need it more formal mechanisms
32:22
to ensure that the was going to be
32:24
absurd. So.
32:27
In the wake of all of that. I. Proposed
32:29
a strike on for the one place because
32:31
I heard from a lot of my colleagues
32:33
that know. They're comfortable, of course you
32:36
know, turning up to the author to new showing
32:38
up to a protest for an hour lunch. But.
32:40
That it's akin to a sustained industrial
32:42
action or for came to the company's
32:44
further retaliating. Next people as the company
32:46
I'm actually did against the Go Women's
32:48
Walk Out organizers, we're not prepared to
32:50
resist that kind of union busting fact.
32:52
You know previously the approach or been
32:54
okay like in our representatives will pass
32:57
it out and was not working anymore.
32:59
We worked in heard some he to
33:01
build more worker power so that spark
33:03
need proposing a strike on for Alphabet
33:05
Workers and I ducked legends for something
33:07
like a hundred thousand dollars in the
33:09
span of my two weeks. And.
33:11
Then I said, i'll match that one for one
33:14
Right Then I'm on. I'm saying, you know, enough
33:16
is enough Amber towel Like I'm tired. I don't
33:18
think what I'm doing is working for me anymore
33:20
And they're on a boat and carry on the
33:22
spider google. So I resigned in January of nineteen.
33:26
And Air Google paid me a severance of
33:28
nine. Get out the nose runway are they?
33:30
they can out some of my in advance
33:32
of my softbrands. Was. Some.
33:37
Of my softbrands early was ninety thousand
33:39
dollars, right? I think that speaks to
33:41
the extent to which Google employees precisely
33:44
those were previously rewarded for their organizing
33:46
efforts, right? That is not typical.
33:48
Must have been placed my like bus on
33:50
break so ninety thousand dollars and I was
33:52
like okay great I will take this my
33:54
that I've gotten to do Glad when you
33:56
put it to immediate work creating something of
33:58
solidarity or strike mind. And. Then
34:00
we ran into a couple dishes on we
34:02
had to think about what they're appropriate. Legal
34:05
vehicle was for delivering defines how they react
34:07
to the youth saying have good governance the
34:09
kinds after the trend pipeline fiasco you know
34:11
you can understand why I'd share about good
34:13
governance and being involved in the mesmer where
34:15
my money is going. So. We
34:17
ran is hop was hurdles rate
34:19
like we looked at. can we
34:21
use the vehicles that unions traditionally
34:23
used to distribute? Strike once a
34:25
final one sees fine labor conditions.
34:28
It turns out you cannot
34:30
do that. The ties we
34:32
wanted to be inclusive of
34:35
people, sub contractors and a
34:37
pregnancy fight because of lobbying
34:39
by the auto industry. It
34:41
from cover employees have multiple
34:43
different companies. In three
34:45
states and Us area. Or
34:48
it can be nationwide for one it one
34:50
single employee or record. It's not be
34:53
both things you couldn't tell you know
34:55
Google employees and sub contractors in all
34:57
fifty states and I. Believe.
34:59
Deeply and class solidarity. I know that
35:01
Google subcontractors summers the worst treated workers
35:03
at in the Google conglomerate, right? So
35:05
that's how we want to say okay,
35:07
we know this work. Are you know
35:10
actively doing labor organizing has actively discriminating
35:12
money for the benefit of mutual benefit
35:14
of of workers like this is not
35:16
either One C Three material. It's not
35:18
five When see materials to leave on
35:20
it for eating, be braver when see
35:22
former coworker solidarity when. And
35:25
over the course of best importance he would
35:27
pledge that hundred thousand dollars. In the course
35:29
of talking other donors we realize that we
35:31
were really Houston are some as if we
35:33
said this is only for Google workers and
35:35
will support Vector some to make a broader
35:37
tax sector. On so
35:39
he must apply Led Attack Worker Solidarity Fund
35:42
I believe in twenty twenty at something here
35:44
to get off the ground. And
35:47
get we We basically are now
35:49
working towards. you know we've. Made.
35:52
Grants to workers are paid at
35:54
netflix, workers organizing at Apple, and
35:56
also non tech sector ops assaults
35:58
organising Starbucks approach. About creating
36:00
a similar are organizing French finance
36:03
folks at Amazon I. we are
36:05
very crucial toward helping some of
36:07
the people started be Amazon labor
36:09
union. I said a of yoga
36:11
helps get off the ground the
36:13
trees we stopped and pretended to
36:15
be retaliation that they experience from
36:17
Amazon from being as damaging as
36:19
it would have otherwise been necessary.
36:22
Time be coworker solidarity and Vitamin
36:24
C for clear a mutual aid
36:26
organization where the a misuse have
36:28
workers were making a little. Bit
36:30
more money are a little bit more
36:32
comfortable giving money to backstop workers who
36:35
are struggling. Little bit more and really
36:37
could use a twenty five hundred dollar
36:39
sides and to cover the rent or
36:41
to cover i bind cab ride home
36:44
after a late night protests right? Like
36:46
all these things are permissible, uses the
36:48
clothes we validate that people are actually
36:51
doing the organizing work. And
36:53
we trust that the know the best way to use
36:55
as sites. Ah, delay.
36:58
Athletic. Club thing ah lol happening at
37:00
all of them again. You've. Experienced
37:02
really horrendous and now as tag
37:04
that harassment and doc thing online.
37:07
I. Would love to hear what privacy tips
37:09
you have rather trans people are people are
37:12
hi doc singer as as as the answer
37:14
with a lot of the things I've a
37:16
portfolio company for that one of my portfolio
37:18
companies is on top hobby and hauled off
37:21
these business model is to. Create.
37:23
Anti Harassment as a. Form
37:27
of employee insurance right back the
37:29
same way that you would buy
37:31
health insurance covers for your employees
37:33
that anyone who is in the
37:36
line at their job placed exciting
37:38
dressed that they should receive coverage
37:40
to to cover that rest of
37:42
mitigating and sat rest on so
37:44
tall Poppy is led by the
37:47
very wonderful Iraq and Li and
37:49
arrogantly are are phenomenal banners amazed
37:51
and of create this idea that
37:53
in players should be responsible for
37:56
and employers and. Also, individuals who are
37:58
privately willing to pay rent it's ten. Can
38:00
receive biggest kind of. Benefits of.
38:03
Hardening, Their profiles in advance of having
38:05
crisis response available to them in the
38:07
event that. An employee experiences
38:09
severe harassment. I just like you do their
38:12
job or not but as their job right?
38:14
Now. We've covered in place. you have these
38:17
domestic violence restocking situations. Rail it. It's similar
38:19
to the gate program I gave me a
38:21
P program. You might have access to
38:23
therapy, might have access to financial counseling you
38:25
might have access to. You know, basic legal
38:28
consulting fees are things that well heeled companies
38:30
should be, funding for their employees and
38:32
acting a collective. Isaacs? it's not A The
38:34
person who gets harass has to be reasoned
38:37
with. The class. At
38:39
is this is broader and spread across
38:41
more employees knowing that statistically at least
38:43
one employee is going to get a
38:45
huge amount of now he wanted this
38:47
and that he knows the employer's going
38:49
to benefit by not having that employers
38:51
like disrupted. Sir Paul Hobby is a
38:53
new update. Enterprise Service or also Tall
38:55
Poppy puts out a lot of really
38:57
fantastic guides. As two hundred and yourself
38:59
and interest mans, you know how I
39:01
need to get my manager or succeed
39:03
about. You know what's going on or
39:05
these are all resources that Tall Poppy
39:07
can help with. And for the
39:09
are people who are not commonwealth ah among
39:11
us I'm so happy as a com not
39:14
fraser brain to you know someone who is
39:16
exists in their field or otherwise it is
39:18
you know someone who is a tree was
39:20
rushed and to everyone else is trying to
39:22
cut because you know because because they're like
39:25
i'm jealous of that person right. In
39:28
a trans people we are fabulous. I was
39:30
a freight and I think the and that's
39:32
why we attract a lot of hatred house
39:34
a house there that self. Again,
39:37
So in addition to you
39:39
doc saying targeted harassment, that
39:41
genre of things to worry
39:43
about on the internet. Either
39:46
other. Internet related
39:48
or tech Really concerns that you think
39:50
trans people said have on their radar
39:52
that maybe we're not talking about or
39:55
thinking about in mass generally. I
39:57
think broadly every transfer.
40:00
The know a trans person sex worker in
40:02
the same way. As you know there's a
40:04
story have of every tenth person at a
40:06
trans person cat. Border of right. I think
40:08
we need to think about how we're. Address
40:11
this issue of sex work being
40:13
deemed criminal because it's impacting the
40:15
livelihoods of so many members of
40:17
our community. So I think that's
40:19
the main lobby thing, but I
40:21
brushed nice. It's going be really
40:23
challenging what the republican controlled congress
40:25
with the prospect of a republican
40:28
president and twenty twenty four rightly.
40:31
So. Yes,
40:33
I do think everything is sex related
40:36
legislation. Things that we should be aware
40:38
of that we need to reverse the
40:40
damage of as soon as we can
40:42
and I'm I think that we need
40:45
to make sure that we are protecting
40:47
and uplifting sex workers And that means
40:49
that as soon as we can and
40:51
do the damage that far since Sl
40:53
done to work to those communities there
40:56
the better Right that when we're criminalizing
40:58
sex work when we are criminalizing platform
41:00
set have sex workers right? That makes
41:02
it very. Very difficult to act for
41:04
those people to turn the wedding or
41:06
at least for it forces them into
41:08
more precarious situation in terms of like
41:11
finding fine for they otherwise might not.
41:13
So I think that thing as the
41:15
number one thing obsessed and legislation related
41:17
piece of activism that we can be
41:19
doing when the local conditions are right
41:21
that is now is not the time
41:23
knowing that you or see some huge
41:25
backlash against friends you being able to
41:27
use the fucking lives if we we
41:29
can't use the loo like you know
41:31
and Republicans are legislating against bad and
41:33
legislating. Against trends we've been able to exist
41:35
in schools are like. Yes
41:37
it is. Now that we need to
41:39
fight that battle and we need to
41:41
eventually win an award for From Fossil
41:44
The when we we have to say
41:46
oh we've forgotten about Awesome Sastre Absolutely!
41:48
And are they? Do you have anything
41:50
they wanted to ask. Fi. Last
41:52
question. I. Do have one
41:54
question and I don't know if you'll have an. Answer to this
41:56
but I was thinking about it when you were
41:58
talking about lake. Organizing at Google
42:01
Crashing Google Docs. I
42:04
guess I'm just curious. Like a someone
42:06
who has worked at Google and has
42:08
criticisms of the company but then also
42:10
obviously so many organizers use a lot
42:12
of these tools. Just
42:14
like if you have any thoughts about
42:16
how to think about like the tech
42:19
tools that were using to organize, knowing
42:21
that so many of them are controlled
42:23
by companies that might be doing awful
42:25
things or. Trying. To use them
42:27
again. The stuff in some cases. So.
42:30
I think fundamentally it would destroy
42:32
Googles business model if they ever
42:34
used to their technology to spy
42:36
on people who are working against
42:38
Google arm and regular damage or
42:40
their enterprise trusts right? like you
42:42
would certainly be worried about if
42:44
you are competing with Google hours
42:46
of having into your Google knocks
42:48
used against you right with you
42:50
know, for long time at least.
42:53
My understanding is that see Smoke
42:55
use Google docs right? like while
42:57
simultaneously competing with with whom the
42:59
social networking. Three so it's not to let
43:01
hum he know Obviously don't use Google I com
43:03
email for things you don't want. Google next up.com
43:05
The We'd We'd. Like. Is
43:08
your some other kind of activists to
43:10
is not employed by the Ago and
43:12
is organizing amphibole? I really don't think
43:14
you should have to worry about losing
43:16
to the left Organized for it with
43:18
obviously you said no for like anything
43:21
that's genuinely genuinely sensitive but like. Yeah,
43:24
that was far more to lose by
43:26
trying around in user data and Google.
43:28
In my experience and my experience of
43:30
the boss I know at the book
43:32
or so working there on the premise
43:34
Engineering teams in the other engineering and
43:36
the security engineering teams like there are
43:39
very robust safeguards to prevent an executive
43:41
from the answer will from deciding that
43:43
they wants to breeds bridge google lox
43:45
like that that is not a realistic
43:47
threat model. if the government isn't your
43:49
for i'm all right like then know
43:51
reminder whether it's cooler weather the notion
43:53
like that's not face really you need
43:55
to be using fully decentralized are mechanisms
43:58
of organizing. It boils down to. Are.
44:00
You going to be more likely compromised
44:02
by a mole within your organizing group?
44:05
My. Like it's much more break reasonable. Think
44:07
about humans are threat models and against the
44:09
thing to think about you know, google esoteric
44:12
leader sightings. All right, Everything one of their
44:14
privacy controls and you being the target of
44:16
that's right. Like it's maybe they will be
44:18
Eigen Rothys and five years and years of
44:20
school from truly evil. But like at the
44:22
moment, there are a lot of. Keep.
44:25
What the law Who are before working
44:27
to prevent inside arrest him to prevent
44:29
tampering and like the European Commission would
44:31
have a field day with Google if
44:33
they ever get this right. If they
44:35
used as a know their their access
44:37
to people's documents you to them steal
44:39
from them rights So. Be.
44:41
Realistic about drugs so bright lights you
44:43
are more likely to a compromise if
44:45
you don't have second bachelor set up
44:47
by someone just in your password and
44:50
lodging in his you spray artwork he
44:52
lives in the event that than you
44:54
are you know get some Richmond's a
44:56
double servers that expect again. If
44:58
you are working at a company, do
45:00
not use company resources or for organising.
45:02
yes I company relic. That is a
45:05
cardinal and very clear rule. Like beyond:
45:07
Act like a haven't seen any of
45:09
the Google workers call for a boycott
45:11
of Google and I have no practically
45:13
how how easy that would be do
45:16
so. I. Think that
45:18
you should use the tools or lose deceptive
45:20
you rather than hampered your own efforts in
45:22
order to kind of have the security of
45:24
no, I'm not going to use Google or
45:26
Amazon Chortling, right? Up
45:28
my answer your question or the as
45:30
is very long as there's no yet
45:33
itself because the an appeal. The security
45:35
and privacy engineering answers always and yeah,
45:37
no I think that's that's very reassuring
45:39
actually. So thank you for setting that.
45:41
Yeah. Bottom line, you actually care about
45:44
it. Pretty insane on disappearing messages. You're
45:46
allowed to do that and not subject
45:48
to litigation crumble com of. The
45:51
way we always and the south is by
45:53
asking. In. Your ideal world. What
45:55
would the future of gender look
45:57
like? Oh boy. Be
46:00
sure of gender. I aspire
46:02
to a future where
46:05
people can express their
46:07
gender without your retribution
46:09
and in which there
46:11
is the fully representative.
46:14
Said. As you know, professions and
46:16
prayers in and com site among friends
46:18
people just same way that there are
46:20
among to see. That's the thing that
46:22
I that I was for. I am
46:24
profoundly incurred in this idea of not
46:27
pulling the latter up after me on
46:29
and therefore I aspire to a more
46:31
prosperous future of work for everyone, but
46:33
especially to equalize a lot of the.
46:36
Disadvantages that have held trans people and
46:38
especially trashy both most once intersection our
46:40
these are that has held us back.
46:48
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Will be back next week with
47:34
more feelings about gender free Palestine.
47:48
I. Will say I am now in a lawsuit against the
47:50
City of Portland where they. Were. Like can you hand
47:52
over your text messages from the time and I
47:54
was like know they burned baby. I can't give
47:56
you anything. sorry about. That.
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