How do you know when you're running with the right people? It's time to take an assessment and learn 3 markers of health.Join us as we upgrade into Havar 3.0 where two besties are learning to navigate the in's and out's of true Kingdom comm

83. Turning the Ship of Leadership

Feb 7th, 2024 46m 40s

Is Leadership what we think it is? Is there a healthier way? Can we turn the tide? We think we can! Stacey puts Tabatha on the reporter's hot seat to discuss how Tabatha is doing Leadership the New Wineskin Way. Whether you've been a leader fo

82. We're Back: Friendship That Brings Us and Keeps Us At the Table

Feb 3rd, 2023 45m 8s

It was time for a check-in! We've missed you, we've missed our mics, and even more than that, we think HAVAR is growing into a lot more than what we thought it was (what's new?!). Now we're at 82 and New. It definitely feels like a new day! We

81. Eighty-one and Done: Haver and Havar Full Circle

Apr 27th, 2022 35m 16s

Well, we didn't see this one coming. A passion to follow God and a calling to do it together sometimes doesn't look like what we imagined. In those times, we cling to Him and let go of what He asks us so that the greater things can come. Now we

80. "Me" to "We" Mentality

Apr 13th, 2022 44m 43s

When we come to relationships only wanting to receive, it ends up being a pretty lonely feeling on both sides. The root of "I" is isolation, though it may not feel like it in the moment. But when we come in the posture of service, it is life-g

79. The Devastation of Disconnection

Apr 6th, 2022 32m 33s

Have you ever felt the pain of disconnection and with it all the painful emotions it brings? When those moments come, it may seem like it's easier to check out than to check back in. But we know in HAVAR Land that we are called to never stay go

78. Why Are My Thoughts So Loud?

Mar 30th, 2022 47m 30s

There's nothing worse than having our own thoughts bombard us and not knowing where they come from or WHO's behind them! As Christian women, this can be a constant struggle since all of us have a deep desire to hear God but can't always be cert

77. Shields Up: Creating a Culture of Honor

Mar 23rd, 2022 42m 4s

Feeling an uptick in warfare lately? We know we are. But we are not helpless, alone, or without ways to fight! This week God is showing us how by calling us to cover one another through one powerful action word: honor. When we grasp what it tru

76. Var Garden: Guarding What God Gives You to Grow

Mar 16th, 2022 44m 58s

How do you know if your life is "good soil" and if you've planted the right things? God took us through a little "gardening" exercise this week to show us what to plant and how to protect the sacredness of our gardens together or individually.

75. Alcohol & Anointing

Mar 9th, 2022 38m 11s

Ok ladies, here we go! Do alcohol and the anointing of God mix? Can Havar Life at The Well include a little wine every now and then? What's the harm, right??Well, it seems the world is asking a similar question with a phrase we heard recently:

74. Jealousy: How the Havar Life Puts an End to Third Wheel Syndrome

Mar 2nd, 2022 46m 3s

"Jealousy is an ugly monster! So many of us have been isolated from having true friends because of work, home, and life responsibilities, not to mention having calls on our lives that no one understands. It's hard to watch others find friendshi

73. Chosen for Greatness: How Friendship Walks You to the Door of Destiny

Feb 23rd, 2022 38m 37s

We're celebrating Stacey's New Book Release! Stepping into the Call of Author never felt so good, and it was all made possible through Friendship—the kind that leads you onto the narrow way so that the world opens up to you. This is where the t

72. Friendship Friction: Coming Back to the Table after Misunderstanding

Feb 16th, 2022 49m 16s

Do you ever have these ridiculous moments in your friendships that you think will stay a joke between the two of you forever and ever and then suddenly you find yourself telling it on a very public platform... like, say, a podcast? Ex. Normal-

71. Burnout: Set Fire to Man-Made Labels. Step Into God-Given Design.

Feb 9th, 2022 54m 10s

Q: What do you get when you put two best friends in a room with a lighter? A: A prophetic act to burn man-made labels and replace them with the truth of our God-given design.Once the smoke cleared, not only could we breathe again, but we coul

70. Let the Prophets Out and Let's Rebuild God's House (Part 2)

Feb 2nd, 2022 53m 12s

Think Disney's just for kids? Well, look again... at Encanto! This story follows Mirabel who, despite lacking a "special gift" like everyone else in her family, fights to save her family's home, which is cracking from the inside due to perfecti

69. Encanto: You're Exactly What This Family Needs (Part 1)

Jan 26th, 2022 35m 34s

Do you ever feel like there's something missing, like you're not sure how to plug-in or show up, and when you do, maybe you still feel unsatisfied or frustrated? Like something just isn't clicking in?The second you received salvation, you were

68. The Ask: Taking Back What the Enemy Has Stolen + More with Lisa Cowling

Jan 19th, 2022 51m 52s

On this special podcast spotlight, I am so excited for you to meet my (Tabatha’s) dear friend Lisa Cowling, as she releases a powerful, right now word from the Lord for the women of God.On this episode, you will hear about how God connected us

67. Meekness Over Weakness

Jan 12th, 2022 31m 42s

Okay, let's face it. No one likes to feel weak, walked on, or mistreated. Feeling powerful is a much better way to protect ourselves, right? But God doesn't want us to just feel powerful, He wants us to BE powerful. And that looks a little diff

66. The Quick Turnaround

Jan 5th, 2022 35m 38s

Well, as we so often say around here, God rarely lets us talk about a topic we don't first have to DO. We are Friendship in Motion after all! And this week, God called a big "change of play" through a friend. We were stunned, a little breathles

65. Ditching Resolutions for Revelations

Dec 31st, 2021 38m 59s

There might be a way to keep your New Year's Resolutions this year. We know, we know, some of you love this time of year when goals are set, resolutions are made, and words for the new year are optimistically etched into your journals for safe

64. Prophetic Etiquette

Dec 22nd, 2021 44m 25s

What does it mean to be a "prophetic" friendship podcast? What does it mean to be a prophetic people? And why should you even care?!Well, we'll tell you, friends. There are so many things available to us in the Kingdom as Spirit-filled believe

63. What's the Truth About Making Money?

Dec 15th, 2021 47m 59s

Should we feel guilty about using our God-given abilities and talents to make money? So much confusion and controversy surrounds this topic in Christian circles, so when the question came to us from one of our friends, we couldn't wait to put o

62. Girl, Take Yourself Off That Shelf

Dec 8th, 2021 41m

From the latest release of Tabatha's first E-book (and how we thought it was a bestseller but as it turns out Stacey can't read) to learning and living out the meaning of Stacey's name, this episode is packed full of equal parts wisdom and equa

61. Friendship Myths Busted Up by the Holy Spirit

Dec 1st, 2021 40m 32s

We had fun with this one! Looking at some common advice out there in Friendship Land, we busted up a few myths that are almost true... but not quite! It's so easy to get swept away in what sounds good because honestly, there can be a lot of tru

60. A Throne Room Thanksgiving

Nov 24th, 2021 51m 31s

This isn't your typical Thanksgiving podcast, and we are over-flowingly grateful for that. We've just returned from the Fierce Women's Conference at Convergence Point Apostolic Hub in Independence, MO, where a banquet was set for us to feast ar