How many times in those younger years were you told to "be patient" when you really wanted something? This is really the way of life. Many today have been duped into thinking one can get what one desires at that moment when it is asked. This is really a farse because much of what is of value will take time. Flowers take time to grow as well as it takes time for a baby to mature enough to be born. Adopting a mindset to be patient is important. Having it will allow for a lot less stress and heartache.