The Pursuit

Have you ever questioned why he hasn’t called, texted, or asked for a second date? Why he strays away from discussing the future, doesn’t include you in his future plans, or doesn’t desire to know your interests, passions, or hobbies?

I wish I could tell you it’s because he’s busy, that he’s “healing from another relationship,” his phone broke (LOL), or that he just isn’t the type of guy that plans his future out, so that’s why he isn’t sure about seeing you in his.

I apologize in advance for the next words I’m about to write…

He has a fully charged phone. He has fingers to text you back. He just isn’t pursuing you. Girl, the TRUTH is that his lack of response is a response. He’s Just Not That Interested.