Intention setting and asking for guidance are key to showing up in the best possible way, when visiting a loved one who is dying. Being open, listening, and observing will help you intuitively know what is needed. 

Reverend Bodhi Be is a trainer of death doulas and founded an organization along with his wife Leilah Be and Ram Dass, on Maui, working with families and professionals to engage in advocacy and educational programs on conscious aging, dying and death