You walk in your favorite store, you see a shirt you really like and want to buy it but realize that it's too expensive. Normally you would say to yourself "I can't afford this", put it back and leave. Rewind, before saying "I can't", switch it to "How can I". When you say I can't, it immediately turns off your brain. When you ask yourself "How can I", your brain searches for answers. Asking "How can I afford this" will change your mindset to figure out a solution in the hardest moments of your journey.