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Welcome to the Manifestation Bay podcast.

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My name is Catherine Zincina and

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I'm a manifestation expert, master

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mindset coach, and multiple seven figure

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entrepreneur. I'm obsessed with helping you

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achieve everything that you once thought

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was impossible. If you're looking to

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massively uplevel your life, your finances,

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your relationships, your productivity and success,

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then you have come to the

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right place. My goal

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in this podcast is to help

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you see the infinite potential within

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yourself to be, do and

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have anything that your heart desires.

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Think of this podcast as your weekly dose

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of mindset development to help you

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maximize who you are and where

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you're going. Leave it

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to me to provide you with

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tools, the resources, the strategies and

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teachings that you need to manifest

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a reality wilder than your wildest

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dreams. I know we're about to

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have so much fun together, so

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thank you so much for pushing

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play today. And now let's begin.

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Hello, my beautiful souls and

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welcome back to another episode

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of the manifestation Bay podcast.

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I am currently recording this

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from the beautiful Island of

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Bora Bora. If you've been

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following my stories last week, you'll know that

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my husband, my

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son and I, the three of

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us spent an entire week in

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Bora Bora that came to me

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as a surprise, a complete surprise

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that I didn't know about until

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two weeks before the flight where

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my husband looked at me and was like,

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I know what you need, Catherine. You need

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an international destination,

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work cation, baby

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cation, because it's not a real

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vacation when you have a

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toddler with you. Right? Am I right

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parents? It's called parenting in

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a different location. My

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mom, who is our nanny and

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lives with us, she's actually on

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a real vacation in Co. Costa

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Rica. So it's just the three of us and

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we're having a grand old time doing our

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thing here on this beautiful island. One of

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my favorite places if you ever get the

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chance to go to Four Seasons Bora Bora

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or honestly any of the hotels in Bora

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Bora are great. I hear the St. Regis

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is great, the St. Regis is

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right next to Four Seasons so that's

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why it's top of mind. Highly, highly,

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highly recommend. Okay so yesterday I

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was swimming in the lagoon with my son

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and I had a breakthrough. I

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had this thing download in

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my head, this question that

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gave me, was actually inspired

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by a fear of

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mine, of

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having a second child and bringing

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a second child into my life

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where I already feel so

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overwhelmed by my first child.

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He is a very high energy

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toddler. I also run a

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business. My husband's just as busy as

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I am and it's

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just a little crazy town you know. It's

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one of those seasons of life, it's a

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phase of life where it's a little crazy

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town and I've just surrendered to the fact

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that it's going to be this way for a

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few years and that's okay. I've

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always known that I have

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you know two biological kids

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of mine and possibly

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one who is an adopted

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child or comes into my

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life some way

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later on. These are just fun

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little downloads about my spirit babies. I know

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I have three but two of them come

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you know from pregnancy of my own and

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at the same time I'm so afraid

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to bring in that second child because

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I'm like what the fuck? Am I

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really gonna add chaos to my life

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right now? Should I

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get it over with and do it

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right now or should I space them

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out by ten years? You know like

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there's just questions I'm asking myself and

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I've been going back and forth and

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back and forth. and back and forth

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and my friends are

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now pregnant with their second babies

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or actively trying for their second

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babies and so I'm just kind of

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over here like all right, when do I

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do this? What's the perfect timing? And then

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I'm like, no shit, I

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feel stuck. It's

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because I'm focusing on perfect timing

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and not focusing on what would

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I do if I

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had no fear of the situation. So

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there's this question that I asked myself that

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gave me clarity that I needed

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to understand what

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decisions, even aside from

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the second baby decision,

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what decisions am I making from

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fear and what decisions am I

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making from genuine desire?

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And genuine desire comes with the

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assumption that all is

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always going to work out. So that's

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how you can understand what

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your genuine desires are, is

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coming from the assumption that no matter

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what you choose, everything is

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always going to work out. So under

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that presumption, what

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are you going to choose, right? So

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the number one question to ask

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yourself, this is what inspired this whole podcast

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because I'm like, holy shit, this

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gave me so much clarity. I

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really wanna share this question with my

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people, my loves, my babes, my podcast

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listeners. Number one question

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to ask yourself that reveals everything about

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your potential and where you're supposed

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to go and what

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reveals to you where you're still playing

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small. And so here's a question that

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I asked myself. If

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I could delete the feeling of

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fear from my life or if

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I could delete the feeling of

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fear from this decision, what

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decision would I make? So

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rephrased, if you could

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delete the feeling of fear from your life,

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what would you do differently? How

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would you show up differently? What

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would you pursue? What

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would you say yes to? What

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would you say no to? What

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would your life look like? Would you still be

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in the relationship that you're in right now? Yes,

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no. Would you decide to

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have children? Would you decide to have

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more children? What is the timing in

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which you would decide to have those

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children? Would you decide to not have

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children? Would you change careers? Would you

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change something about your business and the way

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that your business is going and the way

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that you're marketing or promoting or finding clients

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or doing discovery calls or not

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doing discovery calls? Would you choose

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to be a corporate baddie? Would

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you work for this company or

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that company? What

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would you say and to whom? Are

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there any unexpressed desires or

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unexpressed concerns that you have

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that have been unaddressed due

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to fear? Where

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would you go? Are you avoiding traveling

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somewhere because you're fearful of the uncertainties

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of going to a brand-new country maybe

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by yourself or even with your family

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just that uncertainty. Are you afraid of

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flying and so maybe that's the thing

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that's holding you back? What

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dreams would you no

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longer deny yourself? So

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this is going to be a really short podcast

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episode like literally this is it. I

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suggest to you to open

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up your journal this week. Meditate on

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this question. If you could

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delete the feeling of fear from your life or

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if you could delete the feeling of fear when

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it comes to XYZ what

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would you do differently? It's all

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about deleting fear. If fear was non-existent.

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Meditate on this question. Open up your

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journal. Journal on it. Take this question

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to a breathwork session. I love breathwork

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for this exact reason. It's such a

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great way to open

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up your intuition or just

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mentally ask yourself this question and just

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ponder on it. Like if you're swimming in

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the lagoon of Bora Bora and you just

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happen to be swimming with your son, see

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what comes through and just see and

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just witness what comes out of it.

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I promise you're going to be absolutely

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amazed by what parts of your

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life are still being run by

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fear and which

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ones aren't. And the

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thing is, is that fear isn't

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an ingredient in the recipe of

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taking a line to action. It's

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so important to know that we

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can feel fear. Yes, there's nothing

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wrong with feeling fear. We

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can even be fearful. There's nothing

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wrong with fear itself. But

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the point of all of this is,

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are you acting on fear? The

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point is not to act on fear because

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acting on fear only creates more

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fear. So whatever decisions you make

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from fear only

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create more unaligned

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or misaligned scenarios and

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experiences and outcomes in your life.

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So you can feel fear

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absolutely because we have our

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survival brain that's wired for

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survival and feel fear, but

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it's all about having

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discernment and recognizing

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that we can consciously decide

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what we really want to

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decide as if fear

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was deleted, even if we still fear

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it. And then

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making the decision that's coming from this

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scenario in your mind that you're just

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making up, if fear didn't

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exist, if it wasn't anything

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that I felt, if I could just fucking

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delete it, what would I decide to

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do? And act

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on that. And

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just see what comes

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out of that. Okay, I'm

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gonna leave you here. I hope you enjoy this

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episode. Please share it with. someone you love

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who you think could really benefit from

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this super duper short episode, very rare

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episode by Catherine Zinchina. And I

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just want to say I so appreciate your

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reviews on my podcast. It would mean the

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world to me if you left a review.

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It takes like five seconds, maybe

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like 10 seconds if you want to write me

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a message. I would so appreciate it. And with

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that being said, I'll catch you in the next

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episode. Bye. Thank you

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so much for tuning into today's episode.

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so much and can't wait to connect with you in

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the next episode. In the meantime, go out

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there and manifest the magic.