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I do.

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Today's

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podcast we have a little phrase

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More specifically mel la petite

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mort, the females little death.

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And you asked me what does that

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mean? It's an expression in

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Today we examine the female

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orgasm and inspire marriages

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Its like living on the edge. And

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I won't sing Bon Jovi for you.

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Yes!

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Yes. Welcome to marriage's sexiest

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secret podcast.

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But it's crazy. So let's talk orgasms. But

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first, let's talk what is

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The clitoris which is made up of

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over 8000 individual nerve

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begins to swell and your outer

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lips separate. This is often

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Along with this lubrication, the

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lower part of your vagina

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or toy.

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Yep. As

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arousal increases, the person's

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There are changes throughout the

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whole body. A head to toe kind

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chest and your face get all red

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or pink and rosy. Many artists

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You've probably seen it

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on other people in your life.

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Yes,

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testosterone and

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have some tension, some tingling

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building throughout their body,

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over your whole body. That's

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called my atonia. And it is

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orgasm?

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No, I didn't. And I

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would say from our experience,

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Yes,

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absolutely. That's when you're

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I think that's great.

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Back to what you were just

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Almost.

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Maybe that was you telling me

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I think that

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might have been me saying that?

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Well, we definitely agree.

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Yes, we agree

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on that one. Let's talk about

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researchers show that gentle

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reflex is part of the spinal

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That makes perfect

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sense. I'll be honest, like I

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Yes, so

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interesting. But if we talk a

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I love feeling those

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The sexual

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tension caused by lovemaking or

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feeling you get. And the

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afterwards, what some people

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course your breathing returns

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back to normal. Women also have

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that means when you're watching

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porn, you might be able to just

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transmitted directly to the

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brain. There are many nerve

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I want to know where

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that pathway is.

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You find that

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pathway quite often. Let me just

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submissive, you have to keep

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those pelvic floor muscles

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that's kind of the goal. You

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want that actual climax of that

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So that's really

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interesting news to me, So if

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More pleasurable.

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pleasurable orgasm.

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Absolutely.

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So all those kegel like

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you just said the kegel

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Yes, during

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your orgasm, before, during and

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Hmm. I had no idea.

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If you think

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about it, all of us ladies who

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Which it pretty much does naturally.

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Yeah.,

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I honestly thought that

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was like, is it incontinence? Is

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Absolutely.

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That is it's like building any

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Right? But I had no

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idea that by keeping that muscle

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Yes, it's a

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pleasure for you. It's pleasure

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So as a good dominant I

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could give you exercises to do

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Absolutely.

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That would be part of the

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And it would benefit me.

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Again, win, win.

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I love this. I love it.

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Okay, I'll let you continue.

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Okay, so we

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were talking about the climax

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Now men are so literal,

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I know men are gonna be out

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Well, she

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would kind of the contractions

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Unless you're inside her.

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Right? You could feel that.

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Absolutely.

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If you want to

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explain about watching someone

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Winking is basically

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when you watch the vagina

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Yes. So you

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can count the contractions by

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If it is really

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powerful. It's like she has

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Okay,

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everybody would need that

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each one of those 12

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contractions for a minute at a

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orgasms are just physical or

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just the body, they're also the

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Your brain also is releasing

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chemicals. Like I said earlier,

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submission. Really, when you're

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doing orgasm training, or

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reacting, mind and body. So I

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would say and I tell everybody,

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have an orgasm. And I would say

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husbands know their wives

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know what her rhythm is. No, I

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think you should explore that

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fun.

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All the women in the

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world are cheering you on right

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Well, it's so

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true. So that's just the very

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Alright. What I would

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say to about the orgasms is I

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so I mean, orgasms are great for

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everybody.

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Everybody has

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a part in it. Let me just say

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Parners I mean, both partners

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have a great benefit and

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right, it's the key to

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a happy marriage.

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Yeah, complete ecstasy.

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I mean, it is it's the pathway

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I agree.

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So when we talk about

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orgasm control and training, it

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right. That's kind of what the

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forced orgasm is. So orgasms

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partner, or by yourself. It

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involves the maintenance of a

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Edging. Edging is postponing

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that orgasm to achieve a

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Orgasm denial, it's pretty much

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what we say it is. Preventing

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as well. One thing that I've

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done with LK, while I've been

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that I don't think she can

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accomplish an orgasm in. Right,

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it. How freaking frustrating is

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that? And she's usually really

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Yeah, it

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builds. I mean, doing like we

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Right?

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It's part of

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honing her for your arrival.

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Yeah. And again, I

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mean, that can even be done

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you know, I'll check in like she

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talks about like our check in

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And trust me like, LK, so good

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at this control. I've given her

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Well, I mean,

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the more you practice, the more

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We could be standing in Costco,

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and he could have said the right

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Should we give it a

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try? Hey I bet this would be

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Probably. But

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yeah, so I'm just saying you get

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But it's also plain

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fun. It gives you like, like

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Giving her a real opportunity to

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be able to have an orgasm.

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And your Sir

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is helping you learn how to do

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going through my mind the entire

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time we're scenning or playing

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I don't want to get

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sidetracked but honestly after

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say that lk has some of the best

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orgasm control, probably of

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A lot of years of practice.

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And as a dominant,

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there's still like she can

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Right.

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So like as the dominant

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I have to think of what my goals

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can still find that O.

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Yeah, we'll

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talk more about that later.

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There really is an art

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to it, I think I mean, there's

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Yeah. Another

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reason, it also increases

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tolerate stimulation he gives

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you. Some sirs like immediate

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flexibility and stimulation, I

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guess I should say. So that's a

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duration of your sex or what's

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going on probably at least twice

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I would say done

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correctly, I believe it makes

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doesn't exactly stop. Like I

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want to say a guy's body like my

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the body started off on the

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right path. It's almost an

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I think that's

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the case for most of us ladies.

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And then we'll talk about orgasm

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control can be used to create a

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flexible and what you're trying

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and doing. Maybe if he's pushing

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please please please I want to

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please him. And that's used for

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and subs. This is great when

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you're doing this orgasm

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husband in the fact that he is

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controlling that.

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Definitely.

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So by doing

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this in the beginning, oh, it's

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Yeah, there's

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definitely something very

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about the orgasms is we also

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realize that you know, some

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that we do realize that some

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people will have challenges

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Like you said

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we could go on and on but

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the menopausal a woman. That's

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going to help her find her mind

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Right? And again...

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Again, another whole subject.

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It is, but I also found

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it fascinating at the beginning

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and things besides the

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psychological.

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Yeah.

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Besides the hormonal?

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Like we said,

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we keep saying orgasm is the

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I've been saying that

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since we were kids. It fixes

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I have one

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more listed that the orgasm

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the man to not spread his seed

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to save his seed up. Also, if

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time, teaching you to have it if

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he doesn't touch the clitoris,

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virginal or the clitoral, then

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this gives you a chance to

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And not to get too far

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off the topic again but the

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areas down around the pelvis and

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stuff a lot of places you can

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There's so

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much more than just the button.

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There is soo much more than a button.

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Yes.

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Its the easy button, like staples.

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And what a great name for it.

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But easy isn't

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always better. So then we go

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submissive to orgasm or not

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right? Orgasm is command. No

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you already are doing this, you

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know exactly what I mean.

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sexual plateau. Then he'll

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quickly reduce the level of

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order to develop and increased

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level of sexual tension. It's

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Yeah, we talked about

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edging a lot on husDOM.

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Yeah, I'm

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gonna start singing 30 Seconds

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No, go ahead. Everybody would love that. I would love

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Yeah, no, no,

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no, nobody would love it. But

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simulation. And by practicing

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this with his subMrs to learn

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at some point, the repetition

29:20

may cause the urge to orgasm to

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usually stronger due to the

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increased tension of the arousal

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your mind telling you that you

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just failed on holding back and

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wink, funishments, punishments.

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And like I was told LK

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I really don't like the word

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would be an opportunity.

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Right. But if

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you're like a performer like me,

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not reacted the way you were

30:37

asked to. So that's the whole

30:50

It would ramp up so

30:50

quickly, right then LK, that y

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Yeah, you

30:55

know, I punished myself for

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You would be thinking holy shit, what's coming.

30:59

Right. Because

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the submissives mind isn't

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something else that again, you

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don't hold on to that because

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Because we'd be going somewhere else pretty quickly.

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Right. So the

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flip side of orgasm control,

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go and stop, go get high, high,

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high stop. Get high high high.

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Mr. Fox.

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By bondage.

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Bond. James

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Bond, no bondage, James bondage.

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I'll bet you LK.

32:17

James bondage.

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I'll bet you there is

32:19

already a porno named James

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A forced orgasm is

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consensual BDSM or kinky sexual

32:23

(Sinnging) and over. Without that come down

32:45

period between each orgasm right

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bang bang orgasm after orgasm

33:02

with zero break and intensity.

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control or train an orgasm of a

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submissive physical restraints

33:27

(sinnging)

33:30

The whole bondage thing

33:30

though, like there's a whole

33:44

Right? If you're edging it, you

33:44

tie them up and you tease them.

33:58

physical, but it's also a lot of

33:58

psychological intensity that's

34:14

bound. Regarding multiple or

34:14

forced climax, the dominant can

34:34

doing those things, you can say

34:34

a lot of wonderful things about

34:42

Use your five senses.

34:44

Yes. Yeah, what you say

34:44

to her can also be incredible

34:50

We're gonna go

34:50

into total sexual denial next,

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I don't know if I'm gonna like this.

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I can tell you

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I don't think anybody likes it,

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Three days with no water, I think.

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Okay, so if

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you put them out in the desert

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total avoidance of any type of

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genital stimulation to any part

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on a man or woman. Remember, the

35:41

brain is the largest sexual

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It could be your submissives

35:59

favorite turn on our fetish.

36:02

And it is though, like

36:02

we talked about like if I is the

36:15

verbalize. But if I've locked up

36:15

under lock and key, your

36:23

Like that pleasure center.

36:25

You don't, I know you

36:25

don't, LK you're so creative

36:37

mindfuck of the whole thing.

36:39

And I have a

36:39

funny little side note, that

36:54

was or is still we still talk

36:54

about to this day. And I'm sorry

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husband loves. So it's kind of

37:10

funny, but we still talk about

37:16

it's hilarious.

37:16

Sorry, his

37:16

hole, wherever you are. If you

37:24

It's great.

37:25

We're also

37:25

going to talk about the use of a

37:40

all the while denying his

37:40

submissive the ability to

37:57

used to prolong penetrative sex,

37:57

for the dominant in cases of ED

38:15

satisfies a dominant partner's

38:15

need to control his submissives

38:19

I'm going to add even

38:19

to that whole using the dildo in

38:35

So to think that during that

38:35

scene, you're gonna have an

38:50

to extend penetration and

38:50

orgasms and just to extend that

38:55

Yeah. And, you

38:55

can use it during your orgasm

39:10

Right, which is great

39:10

on so many levels, like even

39:16

The real thing.

39:17

Right? Not just fill my

39:17

hole, but the real cock she'll

39:23

Yeah. So there you go.

39:25

There is not much

39:25

hotter than your submissive

39:28

Yes.

39:29

And really needing it.

39:31

Right.

39:31

There's nothing more sexier

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Alright, and beginning

39:39

training and honing her skills.

39:53

her to masturbate and how many

39:53

times she can during the day ask

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learns that her orgasms are

40:07

owned by her dominant. And

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Lots of practice, practice practice, We can talk a little bit about

40:20

so many people talk about rules

40:40

it clear that the rule always

40:40

applies to her during scenes

40:54

Yeah, to be honest, I

40:54

would say the whole rule is

41:10

explicit permission in order to

41:10

come. And really, that rule

41:30

We can talk a

41:30

little bit about the different

41:44

verbal command. That's what you

41:44

hear in books. That's what you

42:04

tone of voice. How he uses the

42:04

command, or the trigger or the

42:21

then you're in the line and

42:21

somebody comes over the speaker

42:30

LK, it's like ooo,

42:33

Yes, yeees.

42:33

And you'd have one of those

42:41

That's hilarious. We have the touching cue. The

42:42

touching cue is the touch in the

42:42

So the verbal

42:42

cue has the tone of voice and

42:56

shall we. A couple can use a

42:56

visual cue. And again, it's just

43:12

visual cue. So you know, h

43:12

could flash you three finger

43:42

foot. You really have to be

43:42

thinking because if he slaps

43:52

The countdowns of course. It's the final countdown.

43:54

(Singing)

43:56

Yes, that's Europe from 1986.

43:56

This is probably the most used

44:15

in play. So he's counting down

44:15

till you're allowed to come.

44:19

Sound cues. I would say the snap

44:19

of a finger. You can use timers

44:37

helicopter on there and then

44:37

trapper in to responding to the

44:42

I think you're right

44:42

and every podcast somehow you're

44:47

Ah, ok.

44:49

I love it.

44:50

I don't know I think that is how my mind works

44:51

What kind of helicopter?

44:52

See what you have done to me? You're in all these noises I

44:53

want to like upload a helicopter

44:56

After so many years with you I

44:56

guess it's just...

44:59

I love it. I really do

45:01

Transforming

45:01

me. Um, I'll hand it over...

45:05

Little by little, I'm

45:05

transforming you. Little by

45:07

Im going to

45:07

hand it over to you to talk

45:18

If you're edging or

45:18

practicing forced orgasms with

45:32

that she is physically spent

45:32

past her limit. Communicating

45:48

maybe leading to a half, or all

45:48

together disappearing orgasm.

46:03

her to orgasm. Even when you've

46:03

been stimulating her in the

46:15

Okay, so I

46:15

have a couple of common

46:32

question is, when do you want to

46:32

do it? Whenever you both Deem

46:48

just a little period of time

46:48

where you practice that. It

47:03

annually to add some freshness

47:03

to your dynamic and you can also

47:18

aftercare. I also advise people

47:18

to make sure in your downtime

47:32

journals? They can journal their

47:32

thoughts. What worked for them.

47:46

It's not handy during a

47:46

scene No, but later on. Yes,

47:49

Yeah. So you

47:49

can go back and read what worked

47:51

And the key for us

47:51

Dom's probably is to go back and

47:57

Of course,

47:57

afterwards, it would be too

48:10

Share that with your sir, in

48:10

downtime even. It's very

48:24

I'm gonna go back to

48:24

your number one because when do

48:30

Yes.

48:31

Every single scene.

48:31

Probably from the very first

48:36

Because my

48:36

number one rule if I don't come

48:39

So the whole time I'm trying to

48:39

perform for my sir and not do

48:45

Right. I would say that

48:45

that element is in almost every

48:57

happen. They're going to somehow

48:57

have my control on them. And no

49:12

in the exact same scene. Which

49:12

I would think it is in most

49:18

Well, an

49:18

actual training sessions where

49:26

So the scene is just that.

49:28

Yes.

49:28

Okay.

49:29

Yes. And

49:29

people do ask me how many

49:43

course, once you get pretty in

49:43

control of yourself, and he's

49:57

you're showing me what you can

49:57

do. And then you take it a

50:04

If a guy asked me, how

50:04

many times I would tell him,

50:09

Right. Make a

50:09

plan. What's your intention?

50:12

Right. And then I would

50:12

use that and figure out how

50:17

And hopefully,

50:17

it takes a really long time to

50:20

Unlike most goals,

50:20

because in my mind, I'm thinking

50:23

Your going to

50:23

ask the man is a four, we'll do

50:29

Right. I would set a goal.

50:31

And then it is

50:31

really fun to sit down with the

50:45

that come up sometimes during

50:45

those sessions. OOr maybe you're

50:58

Somehow we ought to

50:58

come up with like, when I say

51:09

Yes, we've

51:09

done it in the we've done it in

51:12

So maybe give everybody

51:12

like, drop down menus or

51:22

Absolutely.

51:22

You know, there's a couple

51:32

Maybe this is a good one.

51:33

Yeah, I think so.

51:35

I'm liking it.

51:35

Okay. Well, I

51:35

think that ends our orgasm

51:43

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51:43

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bunninfox Bunny N Fox. My

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Until next

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time, au revoir.

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Goodbye From our Wonderland This is lk

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and Mr. Fox

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Reminding you that

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our communities are the

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only place to learn bedroom

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Discover our

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method and live the dynamic

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Anymore little French

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comments put in there LK before

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How do you say fuck me in French?

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I don't know but I bet that's pretty universal.

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Fuck Me?

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Yeah, I bet if you said

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that to a French man, he would

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You would

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think I say fuck you,fuck me.

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No, I doubt he would think that. Baiser Moi

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Baiser Moi Say like you mean?

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Baiser Moi...

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There you go.

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Oh, wait, I want you to fuck me. Here is, I want you to fuck me.

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You know I'm gonna put this in the podcast.

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Right here.

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Oh, what it doesn't say it to me

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You mean it doesn't

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talk dirty to you? What kind of

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I have to get

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it to say it because I can't say

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Oui Oui

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Ready?

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That's a lot to say.

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That's a mouthful

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Je veux que tu

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me baise

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Why don't you just hide your skirt up and I get the idea. Je veux que tu me baise,

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Nevermind.

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Just touch yourself lk,

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I'll understand.

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We're just ending

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Alright.