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Today we talk

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a bit about building a married

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dominance and submission scene.

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First, what's the scene? A scene

4:26

is a scheduled and planned out

4:26

time where a couple us BDSM

4:29

activities that may or may not

4:29

involve sexual intercourse. I

4:34

know we all want it to but

4:34

sometimes it doesn't. So we'll

4:38

begin with planning a scene. The

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key to a great scene is planning

4:42

ahead together. In DSM we

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suggest to married couples that

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they seen two times a month if

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it's possible. Pick your date,

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taking into consideration meds,

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hormones and cycles. begin to

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think about what you both want

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from your scene. What type of

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scene Do you really want to do,

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there's different types of

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scenes, there's training scenes.

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And when I say training scenes,

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I mean like oral training, anal

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training, orgasm training,

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position training. Then there's

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impact scenes, spanking, using

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your hand, crop, flogging

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caning, using multiples of those

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things. Then there's experience

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scenes. Those are the

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experiences where you want to

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try something new like wax play,

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Deep Throat play, electro play.

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Then I have roleplay, scenes,

5:37

master slave, Little Princess,

5:37

daddy, animal and fuzzy play,

5:43

pain play. Then we come to the

5:43

type of training scene where you

5:49

use to Bari and rope. There are

5:49

so many different types of

5:53

scenes, but that's the general

5:53

list. So your overall

5:57

atmosphere, what does it look

5:57

like? Think about your props,

6:01

which are like furniture, tools.

6:01

When I say tools, I mean things

6:06

like rubber gloves, lubricants.

6:06

Also, you could have toys,

6:10

costumes you might use in your

6:10

atmosphere. General atmosphere

6:14

is like candle sense music. Then

6:14

you think about aftercare. Where

6:20

do we end the scene in your bed?

6:20

We've talked about submissive

6:25

nests. Also with the aftercare,

6:25

we talk about the skincare the

6:30

lotions, rehydrating drinks,

6:30

blankets, things that make you

6:36

feel very comfortable and loved

6:36

after you have a scene. So

6:41

you're imagining and fantasizing

6:41

what the scene will look and

6:45

feel like for both of you. A

6:45

happy submissive is one that's

6:49

given things to do in

6:49

preparation, am I right? But she

6:52

doesn't want to plan the actual

6:52

scene. She would like her sir,

6:55

to plan that actual scene. She

6:55

wants to feel his dominance

6:59

through the scene. Now, when I

6:59

say those things, it's okay for

7:04

a submissive to suggest in the

7:04

pre planning. Subs can always

7:09

adjust and add to the scene. Let

7:09

their SIRs know what their likes

7:13

and dislikes and desires are. So

7:13

to follow up, where does the

7:18

scene start for the sub and Dom?

7:18

In the mind, the brain is the

7:23

largest sex organ for a woman as

7:23

well as men. Yes, guys, your

7:26

brain is larger than your penis.

7:26

When does a scene start? The

7:32

scene starts the moment you

7:32

schedule it, or begin speaking

7:36

about it. A quick rule of thumb

7:36

with most things in BDSM is the

7:41

20 Minute Rule. Now this is

7:41

different for everyone. This is

7:45

a very general rule. So use this

7:45

as your standard time for clips,

7:51

clamps, you don't want to cough

7:51

circulation to areas too long as

7:55

it can kill the tissue and you

7:55

could even lose a nipple. Also,

7:59

when theming day in a certain

7:59

play or position about the same

8:02

amount of time, the body needs a

8:02

little movement or flexing

8:06

during sessions. Even when

8:06

you're orgasming and you're

8:11

sitting in a certain position,

8:11

you keep trying I think to have

8:15

that orgasm. But if it's not

8:15

happening, if things are not

8:17

happening in that scene, use

8:17

that 20 minute rule. Sometimes

8:21

it's even less for some women.

8:21

Check in with your SIR, ask if

8:25

you can move a little bit

8:25

somehow so you can achieve the

8:28

pleasure that he's trying to

8:28

give you. There's never any

8:32

shame in communication. So let's move on to ideas for

8:35

scenes. Use your community. This

8:39

community use some Mrs. Your

8:39

serves us has done. There's

8:43

forums there's groups and chats

8:43

to get wonderful ideas. Use that

8:48

search bar on some Mrs. And

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Hassan. There are more than 10

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years of archived ideas in

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there. Read a book, read

8:56

fictional read nonfictional.

8:56

Write down your ideas, keep them

9:00

in your journals, the husbands

9:00

can keep them in their little

9:03

black books. Saying inspired is

9:03

all about reading and learning

9:08

from others. And if anything

9:08

else, just go watch some good

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old porn together that will give

9:13

you some ideas for remember porn

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is fictional. So let's talk a

9:17

little bit about through this a

9:21

missus eyes. For submissive.

9:21

There is yet another key to

9:26

great domination submission seen

9:26

knowing how to use and work your

9:29

inner submissive. Learning how

9:29

she responds to different

9:33

stimulus is very important.

9:33

Learning what's pleasing to your

9:37

dominant is very important.

9:37

Building a scene of performing

9:41

is a true art. It is definitely

9:41

a team sport. Yet each person

9:46

needs to study and grow in their

9:46

roles. I love to think of it as

9:50

producing a theater show. It

9:50

takes both partners engaging in

9:53

the role and doing their best to

9:53

come out with a great

9:56

production. It is very common

9:56

that sometimes Mr. Fox and I

10:00

will work on a scene repeatedly

10:00

until it runs smooth. We discuss

10:05

after every scene what worked

10:05

and what did not. Taking that

10:08

info we apply it and make the

10:08

scene better and better. Again,

10:12

some misses journal has Dom's

10:12

put it in your little black

10:16

book. Your notes are golden not

10:16

only to your future scenes, but

10:20

to keep a chronicle of your

10:20

journey. Your scenes will start

10:23

about an hour is about

10:23

appropriate time and quickly

10:27

expand in time as you try more

10:27

and more elements. I have to

10:33

give a warning on the don't do.

10:33

Okay. Never do drugs or drink

10:37

before a scene for multiple

10:37

reasons. The mind? Well, you and

10:42

your partner can lose control or

10:42

have lack of control.

10:46

Physically, drinking alcohol can

10:46

make you bruise more easily. And

10:50

when I say drink, some people do

10:50

have a drink before they seem a

10:55

drink. There's not an issue with

10:55

that. But always make sure you

10:58

rehydrate after you play. I also

10:58

say a two drink Max. But I would

11:05

say with that to drink Max.

11:05

Drink Two waters as well. But

11:10

let's talk about the brief the

11:10

brief before the scene, your

11:14

dominant Bay want to start with

11:14

a briefing. briefing as an

11:17

action of informing or

11:17

instructing someone briefing can

11:21

be in person or written in an

11:21

email or given to the submissive

11:24

at any point before the scene.

11:24

You can discuss things in

11:28

downtime as well. You know, it

11:28

just depends on how much prep

11:31

time is needed for the scene.

11:31

Your dominant in the brief will

11:35

tell you his wishes for the

11:35

scene. This is when your SIR

11:37

will be very business. It's best

11:37

at this point to understand that

11:41

you are the object for his

11:41

pleasure. What does his DOM one,

11:47

don't be his wife at this point,

11:47

be a submissive in the brief, he

11:52

will list his expectations of

11:52

his submissive what he wishes

11:56

his submissive to wear. But it

11:56

also will instruct the

11:59

submissive on how to begin the

11:59

scene where she should start,

12:02

where you are to be how you are

12:02

to be sitting or in a position

12:07

if you're allowed to verbalize

12:07

or touch him. In a submissive

12:11

eyes, you read and make sure to

12:11

understand every word that is

12:15

spoken or written in this

12:15

briefing. Make sure you give him

12:19

all that's needed from you. If

12:19

there's something in question,

12:22

then you have to let him know

12:22

before the scene. sir may I ask?

12:26

These questions will clear

12:26

doubts in misunderstandings and

12:30

help the scene flow more

12:30

smoothly. Do not assume

12:34

anything. You ask ahead of time.

12:34

And this will help your dominant

12:38

many ways. always communicate,

12:38

ask and discuss. So when you're

12:43

beginning the scene, the

12:43

atmosphere your SIR will be

12:47

setting atmosphere within the

12:47

scene ahead of the time picking

12:51

the activities in the scene.

12:51

They will put the tools and toys

12:55

out that will be needed. As a

12:55

submissive you take this time to

12:59

get the mindset you need.

12:59

Meditate, stretch, you know do

13:03

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13:03

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so we talked about transition into the mindset of your roles. The

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beginning of the scene this is a

14:17

transition time into your role

14:17

you will be bonding and letting

14:21

each other know that you're in

14:21

this together your SIRs chance

14:24

to relax you a bit. It's a

14:24

loving atmosphere at this point,

14:29

you're so remind you have your

14:29

safe words red, yellow, green,

14:32

or word that you both have

14:32

agreed on previously. Now this

14:36

is a general setup of how Mr.

14:36

Fox and I usually do our scenes.

14:42

Keep in mind, you can kind of

14:42

pull from this what you want and

14:45

what works for you and then move

14:45

it around if that's what you

14:48

need. But usually we start with

14:48

petting bonding and like verbal

14:51

reminders and option for the

14:51

bonding. Their dominant may want

14:56

to use a brush or kind of braid

14:56

your hair pulling Get back so it

15:00

doesn't get in the way of the

15:00

scene or get caught up in D

15:03

rings or whatever. You may want

15:03

to sit and he may want to

15:08

massage or slather you down in

15:08

oil, softly touching you

15:12

everywhere, the word softly,

15:12

your neck, your lower back the

15:17

inside of your thighs behind

15:17

your knees, except he's not

15:21

going to be putting any oil in

15:21

those places that you want it

15:24

the most. But it's nice that he

15:24

may whisper some soft, caring

15:28

words in your ears and reassure

15:28

you that he will take care of

15:31

you, asking you for your

15:31

submission and your acceptance

15:35

of giving it freely, very

15:35

important. Lastly, your SIR will

15:39

ask and remind you of your safe

15:39

word red, yellow, green, the

15:43

word you have already agreed on.

15:43

And then when you when you're

15:47

really looking through the eyes

15:47

as a submissive again, your

15:50

butterflies are excitement, our

15:50

n but they will start to settle.

15:55

You will gain confidence knowing

15:55

this is this is your job. This

15:59

is what you're doing this for

15:59

your his submissive you're not

16:01

looking at as his wife or his

16:01

girlfriend. You're gaining

16:05

confidence in your services. And

16:05

knowing this is what you want

16:10

and he is about to take you

16:10

under his hand and play you like

16:13

our true instrument. You have to

16:13

let go and let him enjoy you,

16:18

your body will begin to respond

16:18

to His words, and you will fall

16:22

into him. The next step of the

16:22

scene is prepping the body

16:27

warming the muscles and the mind

16:27

and getting those endorphins at

16:32

the start. First prepping of the

16:32

submissive skin, the dog may

16:36

have already oil to skin or you

16:36

can do that now. petting the sub

16:40

skin is essential, easily moving

16:40

her and lightly directing her.

16:44

Again, the key words are easily

16:44

and lightly. The DOM wants to

16:49

make the subs muscle more

16:49

pliable and flexible for what

16:52

has seen demands. bending her

16:52

over getting the subs attention

16:56

always works for me getting her

16:56

out of her head and back into

17:00

the role of her job. So if

17:00

you're having issues with that,

17:04

let your server know that you

17:04

may be struggling you're in your

17:07

head and him demanding certain

17:07

things of you or making you bend

17:11

really quick. Kinda will snap

17:11

you back in. So as he does that,

17:16

he's getting you out of your

17:16

head, he begins to rub a little

17:19

harder, his touch becomes a

17:19

little more harsh. His subs back

17:23

arms and legs. He keeps rubbing

17:23

them as you're doing this, it

17:28

begins to warm skin. This is

17:28

transitioning your mind, the Dom

17:31

has to begin to let go of the

17:31

love and move into his

17:34

dominance, grabbing the back of

17:34

your neck or pulling at the base

17:38

of your hair which we all love

17:38

that sensation, wonderful

17:41

sensation. If you've ever read a

17:41

bit about skin and the reaction

17:46

impact or spanking, then you

17:46

know it's very important before

17:49

that you do any impact that you

17:49

ready the skin. readying the

17:53

skin for play is done starting

17:53

out light thing getting more

17:57

vigorous, vigorously rubbing,

17:57

then cupping into soft pinching

18:01

and tapping. throwing something

18:01

sharp, in like a little slap a

18:07

little harsher handling in the

18:07

combo here and there makes it

18:10

exciting. And it's tricking you

18:10

both into your roles moving out

18:14

of the loving and soft into the

18:14

business of your role. The skin

18:19

begins to react and both of you

18:19

and your roles minds, you begin

18:22

to react and become your

18:22

submissive and his Hassan, the

18:27

mind in the DOM is falling into

18:27

his role as a dominant and now

18:30

prepping the sub skin and

18:30

triggering her endorphins to

18:33

start moving her into the brain

18:33

and the female sub is creating

18:37

her own lubrication that can be

18:37

checked by the dominant. Then

18:41

the next step you go into

18:41

symbolic bondage and initiating

18:45

the implements. Having the sub

18:45

kneel and symbolically placing

18:49

the subs wrist and ankle cuffs

18:49

on and color is where the DOM

18:54

marks the change. Personally,

18:54

from being personal wife into

18:59

objectifying his submissives she

18:59

is now bound to serve Him in

19:04

whatever way he wants her needs.

19:04

It's a wonderful way to

19:08

symbolize things. She can be

19:08

kneeling, she can be standing

19:11

however, the dominant likes.

19:15

After cupping and ownership has

19:15

been taken implements to

19:19

initiate more sensation to the

19:19

area so be used further or to

19:23

trigger more endorphins in the

19:23

brain. A domme may ask yourself

19:27

if she wants more endorphins,

19:27

using his judgment if he wants

19:31

her there or not. These

19:31

additional steps will help make

19:34

the scene more physically and

19:34

mentally a successful

19:37

experience. Aidan may use

19:37

additional leather pieces as a

19:41

hog tie a leash or rope clips,

19:41

clamps tape, the list could go

19:46

on and on. But always have a

19:46

medical scissor ready for quick

19:50

release. Removing a sense like

19:50

vision will make the body more

19:54

reactive. blindfolding the

19:54

submissive will make her skin

19:58

more alert. It's the dominants

19:58

best friend the blindfold. This

20:03

blindfold gives the DOM leniency

20:03

on his organization and the sub

20:06

her imagination of being in a

20:06

scene in her head. The one that

20:10

she's always read about and

20:10

loved, blindfolded the sound of

20:14

the wander vibrator, not where

20:14

we wanted Of course, we'll take

20:18

the scene up a notch. The DOM

20:18

can begin the teasing by

20:21

brushing against the tender

20:21

nerve ending areas with the

20:24

wand, his fingers, even his

20:24

cock. Verbally the DOM asks, Do

20:29

you want it physically asking

20:29

you to touch him or take him

20:34

into your mouth, licking rubbing

20:34

himself against your most

20:38

sensitive part, sadly, no

20:38

penetration until you perform to

20:41

his standards. He should be

20:41

driving his son, mind and body

20:46

to the brink, making his son

20:46

more wanton. Begging for his

20:50

hands attention. The nipples and

20:50

the pressure points should be

20:54

tugged on. stimulated in some

20:54

way, working the sub easily into

20:59

impact tools that is planned.

20:59

light taps with the crop soft

21:03

swats with a leather glove or

21:03

paddle are good things to start

21:07

with. Make the submissive beg

21:07

for it. Now in the submissives

21:13

eyes, the best thing to do when

21:13

doing bondage is the trust you'd

21:18

have in your DOM. Don't struggle

21:18

against the bondage. You can get

21:22

hurt very easily by jerking or

21:22

pulling too quickly. User safe

21:25

words, if you need a DOM to slow

21:25

down call yellow, but yellow is

21:29

not red. Just slow the roll and

21:29

check in with words. If ever

21:34

triggered in a bad way, read

21:34

out, say read. It's a stop,

21:39

discuss and reschedule the scene

21:39

at that point. Now let's get

21:44

into application of impact

21:44

employments. Now, impact play,

21:49

the dominant will use any

21:49

implement that he may tickle

21:51

vibrate or strike with. This

21:51

includes his hand a flogger whip

21:56

crop, leather straps canes. This

21:56

type of activity is why it's so

22:00

important to warm and prepare

22:00

the skin. Always ask that your

22:04

sir has practiced on something

22:04

other than you lots before

22:07

trying a new employment in a

22:07

scene. Also, I'd recommend

22:11

before using it in the scene,

22:11

use it in play time tested out.

22:14

It's kind of like that example

22:14

of getting those new pair of

22:17

high heels you're going to wear

22:17

to some event. And then you

22:20

first time you wear them, you

22:20

wear them to the event and then

22:23

your feet are killing you and

22:23

you have blisters for weeks

22:26

afterwards. Same thing here, you

22:26

don't want blisters, you don't

22:30

want some type of surprise, you don't want to have to take it off because something bad

22:31

happened. So always test it out

22:35

usually in a little play time

22:35

before when you actually get

22:38

something new. Now with the

22:38

swelling of tissues under the

22:42

skin, the submissive will feel

22:42

less and less of the impact and

22:45

be able to take more and more

22:45

intense impact as a session

22:48

continues. Very important that

22:48

the DOM learn to submissive

22:51

skin, what it looks like. And

22:51

when it's had enough, the DOM

22:55

does this by always checking in,

22:55

he can begin doing that by

22:59

checking one to 10. Overtime, he

22:59

will begin to recognize his

23:02

submissive tail tails, even when

23:02

she cannot. Now we've gone into

23:09

impact and now we're going to

23:09

get into the good stuff, right?

23:12

We're talking about intercourse

23:12

and fucking the dominant. When

23:16

satisfied with giving his sub

23:16

all he wants, he stops and pack

23:20

takes her off any of the

23:20

equipment and moves this tub to

23:23

a place to reward her. The DOM

23:23

should rub shoulders, make sure

23:27

his sub is in good condition. As

23:27

a good fucking as an order for

23:31

all her hard work. The DOM

23:31

starts to unwind to become

23:35

softer again. This is the

23:35

frosting to the cake. Your sir

23:39

will take his final orgasm from

23:39

you and he will climax here. If

23:43

my service still wound up, he'll

23:43

put me on my stomach and explain

23:46

he wants a hard release and for

23:46

me to completely submit to Him

23:50

and open up. He rides me until

23:50

his release and he will slowly

23:53

turn me over giving me every

23:53

release I need in a softer way.

23:58

A kind DOM will continue with a

23:58

wand or whatever you need until

24:01

he begins counting you down and

24:01

out of the scene. I always feel

24:05

a unique sadness when he tells

24:05

me he's beginning the countdown.

24:10

Then we get to the aftercare and

24:10

debriefing. Right after care.

24:14

It's over, you get to relax a

24:14

little bit.

24:18

The Cara Dom takes of his subs

24:18

mind and body after a senior

24:21

session is aftercare. Also, he

24:21

should not forget about his own

24:25

care. A rehydrating drink a warm

24:25

blanket and a small nap is

24:29

appropriate for both parties

24:29

after a scene. The DOM may also

24:32

apply any ointments to the skin

24:32

that's needed. Who knows you may

24:36

come out of this with badges of

24:36

honor. Your dog may even want to

24:40

take pics of the rope marks or

24:40

your body's badges of honor, so

24:45

he couldn't remember the scene.

24:45

Mr. Fox always lets me nap while

24:49

he rehydrates and cleans up

24:49

after the scene. I usually am up

24:52

within 45 minutes and in the

24:52

shower. You may experience a

24:56

little letdown or some call sub

24:56

drop. This sub drop is normal

25:00

For a few hours, you know your

25:00

body in mind. If it's lasting

25:04

more than a day, I would say,

25:04

then you may want to communicate

25:07

that to your SIR. And then it

25:07

goes on further, you can even

25:11

take it to a therapist or to

25:11

your doctor, it's always better

25:15

to figure out that it's fine

25:15

than it not end up being, you

25:18

know, something that you

25:18

definitely struggle with. Now,

25:21

let's talk about the debrief.

25:21

Once you're both feeling more

25:24

yourselves, it is good to

25:24

debrief or examine the scene, I

25:28

advise you to do it sooner than

25:28

later, you will remember the

25:32

things that worked or the things

25:32

that led up to those things that

25:34

did not work. So it's very

25:34

important that you both are

25:37

honest with all your thoughts.

25:37

So the scene in play can even be

25:40

more successful the next time

25:40

around, take notes in your

25:44

journals, and again, has done so

25:44

little black box. It may also be

25:48

good to write your feelings in a

25:48

journal, so you can track how

25:51

you respond and grow in the

25:51

scene, you will surprise

25:54

yourself. A few final notes in

25:54

the submissive thoughts. Your

25:59

dominant will push and stretch

25:59

you and your limits, but he

26:02

won't break you. This is his job

26:02

and his wish you are to

26:06

remember, you're his tool to use

26:06

to achieve his deepest and

26:09

darkest desires. It is your job

26:09

to help them receive the highest

26:14

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26:14

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26:18

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26:18

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