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You know, I've spent many
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hours with children who've gotten
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involved with drugs. They
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start your age even younger.
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In March of nineteen eighty three, at
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the behest of a sixth grader named
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Arnold Jackson, First Lady
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Nancy Reagan visited a classroom
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at New York City's PS four
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h six to talk about drugs.
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And they're all tragic stories of kids
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with great potential whose lives
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were ruined.
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But this New York City classroom
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was actually on a Los Angeles
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soundstage, and Arnold
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Jackson was a character played by
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actor Gary Coleman.
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Who children about Missus Rady's.
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Well, I happened to be here in New
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York and I saw that story about
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you in the paper, Arnold. You know
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I'm very concerned about drug abuse, especially
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among the young.
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Missus Reagan was taping an episode
0:58
of the popular NBC sitcom
1:00
Different Strokes to promote her Just
1:03
Say No anti drug campaign.
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In the plot the series, regular Arnold
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actor Gary Coleman gets some help
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from Missus Reagan in his own effort to
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curb drug abuse among students.
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Do you remember when the Nancy Reagan Different
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Strokes episode aired?
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Yes, absolutely, because it was a big deal.
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I mean, it was definitely like, this
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is something that we have to talk about.
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This is Jessica Shawl. She hosts
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the pop Culture Spotlight on Serious
1:30
Exam Radio, and it's written about
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television for decades.
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I mean, I'm gen X.
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The fact that my parents even knew I existed was
1:38
like a minor miracle, you know. So the
1:40
fact that adults were going on
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our shows, they weren't going on
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the news, they were going on our shows to reach
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us felt different and
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kind of.
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Special, very special. Over
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thirty two million people watched
1:55
The First Lady that night. Do
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you remember what your reaction to it
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was.
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I'm sure that I took it kind of
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earnestly as a child, because
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we weren't cynical like children are
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now. Let's say, in like the twenty twenties.
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I think in the eighties there was a little bit
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more of like, oh, I need to listen to
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the First Lady and what she has to say.
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This is Reagan.
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I guess there's something I should say. I've
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tried drugs a few times.
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Thank you.
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That took as much courage as it did for Arnold
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to write a story.
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This feels like the prototypical
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very special episode.
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Yes, I mean absolutely.
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The very special episode a
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mainstay of nineteen eighties and early
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nineteen nineties television. It
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often came with a warning to parents that
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the ordinarily hermetically sealed
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off world of your favorite family
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friendly series was about to get
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injected with a dose of the
2:57
real world. Tuesday, Very
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Special.
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Fullhouse, We're starting a special
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two part show on a very sensitive
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and important subject.
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You figured we'd talk to.
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You kids and your parents two about smits
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kind of hard to talk about.
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The laughs would still be there,
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just more muted. It could
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get awkward.
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Well, I get eight present that I'm doing pretty
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good.
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This was the sitcom itself in an
3:23
in between state, experiencing
3:25
its own well growing pains.
3:28
What happened to his second chance?
3:32
But never fear. The main characters
3:34
would remain safe and unchanged,
3:37
and in the end, all would be back to normal.
3:39
It just might take more than one episode.
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The resolution is a big part of it, and it
3:44
might not be resolved in twenty two minutes because it's a big
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issue. It's a big issue, so it might take two
3:48
whole episodes, which is really enough
3:51
to unpack. Let's see AIDS
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molestation drug use,
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drug use.
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They made headlines and big ratings
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until they were no longer special, just
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cliched. And then the very
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special episode was dropped from the schedule.
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I mean, who needs lessons when you have Seinfeld.
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And just saying basically,
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there are going to be no very special episodes.
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That is the very thing that we will never
4:18
do. I mean, what was the quote, no hugging nor.
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Learning, No hugging nor learning from
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CBS Sunday Morning and iHeart
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I'm Morocca and this is a
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very special episode of mobituaries.
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This moment, the death of
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the very special episode.
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Can you speculate on what was the very first
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very special episode? I would
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speculate that it is a Norman Lear show.
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That's Jessica Shaw again. I
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also would have guessed that the very special
5:06
episode began with the late Norman
5:08
Lear. But we
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found something even earlier than
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the Norman Lear era. It is the February
5:18
thirteenth, nineteen sixty season
5:20
three episode of Leave It to Beaver, Yes,
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Leave It to Beaver, and the episode
5:25
was described as follows. Andy,
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a neighborhood drunk, is hired to
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paint the house and Beaver unwittingly
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gives him some brandy, which
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you know I had to say at the time must have been like,
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WHOA what is this?
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Let me ask you something. Beaver is
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your father? Would
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he have a little bit of whiskey?
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Hero? I'd never seen
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this before.
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First of all, A plus research.
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And it's it's so kind of surprising
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to see Jerry Mathers as
5:59
the Beaver or kind of interacting
6:02
with this alcoholic house painter.
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Once Michael Billy set my father bottle,
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it was all that buttonhead brandiant.
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Well, that's about what I'm talking about Beaver.
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Of course, Beaver's parents find out and
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reprimand him, But big brother
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Wally makes the point that Beaver didn't
6:19
know Andy had a problem. After
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all, Ward and June Cleaver hadn't
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told the boys.
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You and Mom shouldn't be scared to tell us things.
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Somebody's got to tell a guy about all the bad.
6:30
Junk in the world. He's somehow like
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the writer's kind of saying, please,
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please, let us tell stories that
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have a little bit more grit, that are a little bit more complex.
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It also feels like the entire premise
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of a very special episode is built on
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that one line.
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Yes, as Wally Cleaver put it. Somebody's
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got to tell a guy about all the bad junk
6:50
in the world. Ten years later,
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another family sitcom dared to
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do just that.
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Bhy This is Elizabeth Montgomery
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Welcome to be Witch Next on ABC.
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Tonight's show was created in the true spirit
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of Christmas.
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On Christmas Eve nineteen seventy,
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with silent night playing underneath.
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Elizabeth Montgomery, who played good
7:12
Witch Samantha Stevens on Bewitched,
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spoke directly to viewers ahead
7:17
of an episode entitled Sisters
7:20
at Heart.
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My friends at Oscar Meyern Company,
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and I feel it is a very
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special Bewitched, conceived
7:28
in the image of innocence and filled
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with truth.
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That's right. She even called the episode
7:33
very special. That's because
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the usual bad things that happened on Bewitched
7:38
involved spells gone awry, but
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in this instance, magic was used
7:43
to shine a light on racism.
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You've grown the part he said that we shall
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be colors, so we couldn't be sisters.
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She's a big jump. That's
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daughter Tabitha, who is white and
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also a witch. Her new friend, Lisa
7:59
is black. Tabitha ends up
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using witchcraft so she and Lisa
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can look more alike. She first turns
8:06
Lisa white, then turns herself black,
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then turns the both of them polka
8:10
dot. Additionally, Samantha
8:13
puts a spell on her husband's racist
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client. He starts to see everyone,
8:18
including himself, as black, and
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by the end of the episode, he's learned
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his lesson. I discovered
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something about myself. I
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found out I'm a racist. A
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racist.
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Oh not the obvious,
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out in the open type of racist.
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Not me.
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No, I was a sneaky racist.
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I was so sneaky I didn't even know it myself.
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Quick side note this episode was
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co written by a classroom of black
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students at Jefferson High School in
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Los Angeles, making it even more
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special. But the Beaver and Bewitched
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episodes were very much exceptions
8:58
to the rule. The
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sitcoms of the nineteen sixties were
9:05
happily stuck in their own fantasy
9:07
world, completely divorced
9:09
from the reality of the times. Did
9:12
divorce even come up? In
9:14
our season two episode on Television's
9:16
Rural Purge, we talked about
9:19
the country themed shows that dominated
9:21
the airwaves that decade, especially
9:23
at CBS on the Beverly
9:26
Hillbillies and Green Acres. There
9:28
were no anti war protests, no
9:30
racism, since there were rarely black
9:33
characters or political assassinations.
9:37
And how's this for a metaphor. Petticoat
9:39
Junction was a show centered around
9:42
the spur of a railroad that basically
9:44
went nowhere.
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Come ride the little train that is
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rolling down the tracks to the junk show.
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Yeah, where's Norman? Lare was like, Oh, we're
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going somewhere right.
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Right, This train is actually going
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to a real place. My name
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is Norman Lear.
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Norman Lear has changed the face of
10:05
television. Until nineteen seventy one, he
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was a very successful, if largely unheralded
10:09
producer writer in Hollywood, but
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then he burst upon the public consciousness when
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he took on bigotry with his All in the Family.
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All in the Family starred Carol O'Connor
10:21
as Archie Bunker, a man who
10:24
longed for yesteryear, pigheaded
10:26
and yes, bigoted, but also
10:28
surprisingly likable. Every
10:31
episode was special. The series
10:33
regularly addressed racism, sexism,
10:36
anti semitism. It featured
10:38
one of the very first gay characters on
10:40
television, and don't matter the topic,
10:43
Archie Bunker didn't hold back.
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His proud Roger is as queer as
10:48
a four dollar bill and he knows.
10:49
It's not only
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cruel, Daddy.
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That's an outright line.
10:53
Hello, something, Archie.
10:54
Just because a guy is sensitive and
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he's an intellectual and he wears glasses, you make
10:59
him out of I.
11:00
Never said a guy who wears glasses as a
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quia.
11:03
A guy who wears glasses is a four eyes.
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A guy who was a fag is a quia.
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So I have to say, and it might
11:10
be a super unpopular opinion. I'm
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glad they use that word that they use that slur,
11:15
because that's part of what made the show so real.
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Yeah, they didn't shy away from anything.
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Isn't it so interesting that that scene
11:21
could not air in twenty twenty three?
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Right right? The big reveal near
11:26
the end of that episode is that the person
11:28
Archie thought was gay is in fact
11:30
straight, while a pal he had assumed
11:32
to be straight is actually gay. Huge
11:35
numbers of people were being introduced to things
11:38
they were not familiar with.
11:41
Maybe they didn't even think they knew a gay
11:43
person.
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Yeah, absolutely, I imagine that
11:46
was eye opening to them.
11:49
Another Milestone episode from nineteen
11:51
seventy seven was about Archie's wife
11:53
Edith, fending off a rapist. It
11:56
was a two parter called Edith's fiftieth
11:58
birthday, and I remember being talked
12:00
about in hushed tones. I
12:03
didn't have to be told that it wasn't for
12:05
kids. What are
12:07
you going to do? You
12:09
ain't taken off?
12:10
You're close, are you? Yeah?
12:14
Then I'm going to take yours off.
12:15
Wouldn't you like a cup of coffeees?
12:21
Norman Lear became the biggest TV
12:23
producer of the decade, helping to
12:25
create an entire universe of sitcoms
12:28
and.
12:30
Then there's mod.
12:33
On the most famous episode of Maud,
12:35
the title character, a feminist plate
12:38
by b Arthur, became unexpectedly
12:40
pregnant and had to decide whether
12:42
she'd carried the child's term.
12:44
Mother.
12:45
Listen to me, it's a simple
12:47
operation now, But when
12:49
you were growing up, it was illegal and
12:52
it was dangerous and it was sinister,
12:54
and you've never gotten over that.
12:56
Now you tell me that's not true.
12:58
It's not true, and
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you're right, I've never
13:03
gotten note.
13:04
Maud had the abortion. Lear
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was also the force behind some of the
13:09
first sitcoms centered around
13:11
black characters, including Good
13:13
Times.
13:14
You Couldn't help but notice all those bruises on Penny's.
13:16
Back, a nineteen seventy seven episode
13:19
featured a young Janet Jackson playing
13:21
the victim of child's abuse.
13:24
Oh those pennies
13:26
at the awkward age. She's always falling
13:28
down?
13:29
Isn't that true?
13:29
Dear?
13:30
Didn't you fall down?
13:31
Ah? One time I fell out of the
13:34
tree and I landed on my pussy cat and a
13:37
squished them.
13:38
And Pussycat sure leads a tough life.
13:41
What TV shows are certainly a good
13:43
way to talk about these issues and
13:45
call people's attention to them in a way
13:48
that they may not be considering it.
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That's Norman lear from a conversation
13:52
I had with him back in twenty fifteen
13:54
for CBS Sunday Morning.
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Most people in their own emotionally
13:59
crowded lives hear about these
14:01
things, visit it in a
14:04
short conversation, but their
14:06
minds are not really there. So
14:08
I think speaking about it in
14:11
a comedy where they were even getting laughs
14:13
about it can only be a good thing.
14:15
If you control them in with a story. At least
14:17
you can maybe get them to
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then talk about it at.
14:20
Home in the next conversation they're familiar
14:23
with it and perhaps a little
14:25
bit more ready to embrace.
14:28
Norman told me that even decades
14:30
later, he heard from viewers about
14:33
the impact of his shows.
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It's so touching. And
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we watched it as a family. We don't
14:40
watch anything as a family now, and
14:42
we talked about Archie and
14:44
we talked about the subject matter. And
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the one thing that I think the show
14:50
accomplished that I can count
14:52
on because I've heard it through all the years,
14:55
was that there are
14:57
big words to me. We talked
15:00
to the show and we.
15:01
Talked think
15:03
about the things that Norman Lear was able to get away
15:05
with, quote unquote, get away with talking about.
15:08
And he was so powerful at that point
15:10
that I have to imagine that there were I mean,
15:12
there was that whole standards and practices department
15:14
at every network that there must have been people who
15:16
pushed back against certain things, lines
15:18
that he wanted to do, or maybe maybe topics.
15:21
There was indeed pushback to
15:23
many viewers shows like Norman
15:26
Lear's were too candid. Additionally,
15:28
there was outrage over the nineteen seventy
15:31
four Linda Blair made for TV
15:33
movie Born Innocent, which
15:35
included graphic sexual violence
15:37
and aired at eight PM when many
15:40
children were watching TV. The
15:42
networks went on defense.
15:44
The period from seven to nine PM
15:46
is known in television as the family viewing
15:48
period.
15:49
A period during which parents and children
15:51
are supposed to be able to sit together and watch
15:53
television without being made to feel
15:55
uncomfortable or so the networks
15:57
to find the family owner.
15:59
Which meant that in nineteen seventy five,
16:02
shows like All in the Family, which
16:04
had been airing at eight pm Eastern,
16:06
had to move to later in the evening.
16:09
Let's All Sing, the nineteen
16:12
seventy five version of
16:14
those were the day
16:17
the cast recorded a parody of
16:19
their opening number, mocking the
16:21
Family Hour concept and celebrating
16:24
what their later time slot would allow
16:26
them to talk about.
16:28
Seeing Congers.
16:33
Robert Can Propose to
16:35
Build.
16:37
In court, Lear and other writers and
16:40
producers challenged the Family
16:42
Hour. The court ruled that the Family
16:44
Hour concept was a violation of the
16:46
First Amendment, but it also
16:48
said it had no authority to dictate
16:51
how the network's programmed We
16:53
Can Show.
16:54
My Pregnancy and
16:57
John Boy Can Have b D.
17:02
Plus a quick ves sent.
17:07
After nine o'clock. The
17:17
Family Hour wasn't going away anytime
17:20
soon. On the other side of the break
17:23
the nineteen eighties and the heyday of
17:25
the Very Special Episode.
17:27
It was one of those things like can
17:29
we just farm out parenting
17:32
to this show. Yes, cool,
17:34
We're super happy with that.
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Hello, I'm Conrad Vain Tonight
17:43
on Different Strokes, we're starting a special
17:46
two part show on a very sensitive
17:48
and important subject.
17:51
Different Strokes was one of the biggest
17:53
hit sitcoms of the early nineteen eighties,
17:56
airing at eight pm Eastern on
17:58
Saturdays, prying family
18:00
time. So in February nineteen
18:03
eighty three, when Conrad Bain,
18:05
who played the wealthy adoptive father
18:07
of Arnold and Willis Jackson, spoke
18:10
directly to viewers before the episode,
18:13
you knew it was serious.
18:15
Now we urge families, children and parents
18:17
alike to watch both of these informative
18:20
episodes and then to discuss the problem
18:22
presented, which is of deep concern to
18:24
all of us.
18:25
He's saying, this is what we're going to show
18:27
you. Parents, children, sit
18:29
down and discuss.
18:31
This is how America we do very special
18:34
episodes. Okay, So this episode
18:36
was about stranger danger and pedophiles.
18:39
It's Arnold and his friend Dudley, and
18:41
they become friends with the owner of a local
18:43
bicycle shop, mister Wharton.
18:45
You know, guys, you can
18:48
just have an awful lot of fun with your close office.
18:51
Les's of course you live at the North Pole, going
18:53
to freeze your tush off?
18:57
What kind of fun?
18:59
Well, for instance, as Skinny Dippit, mister
19:03
Hohrton gives the kids wine, which
19:05
is later discovered by Conrad Bain's
19:08
character. Here Arnold explains
19:10
what happened.
19:11
Well, while I was there with Dudley, he
19:14
gave us some pizza and wine.
19:15
What else went on there?
19:17
He showed us some pictures.
19:19
Everybody was naked
19:23
naked, and he showed us some kinky
19:25
cartoons.
19:28
What do you mean by kinky?
19:30
Well, you told.
19:31
Me about the birds and bees, but that's
19:33
nothing compared to what those mice were doing.
19:41
Who was laughing? Who
19:43
is laughing?
19:44
Here?
19:44
I know? I think part of the awkwardness is
19:46
that Carrie Coleman was such a star
19:49
and they couldn't resist
19:51
having him show his comedic chops,
19:54
and here it is jarring.
19:56
I wonder if.
19:57
Maybe it's more jarring,
19:59
and if they fell more compelled to make
20:01
sure the laughs were there. Because the audience of
20:03
Different Strokes was a younger audience as opposed
20:06
to the leer shows. Those
20:08
were smart, smart shows, and
20:10
those were smart enough that adults
20:12
were watching they weren't sort of here
20:14
I'm going to spoonfeed us had come to a child.
20:17
That's Jessica Shaw again, and
20:19
she's right. This was a younger audience,
20:22
and this episode did have an impact.
20:25
Newspapers reported the arrest of
20:27
at least one suspected child
20:29
molester in Indiana after
20:31
a young boy recognized and reported
20:34
predatory behavior in an adult.
20:37
Now it's important to note that the term
20:39
very special episode was never actually
20:42
used by programmers. It just
20:44
sort of became a joke later, so there's
20:46
no strict definition. I
20:49
think of it as any episode of a family
20:51
show where quote unquote sensitive
20:54
subject matter was discussed, whether
20:56
or not there was an actual warning from Conrad
20:59
Bain and probably
21:01
no show had more very special
21:03
episodes than different strokes.
21:05
They covered kidnapping, bulimia,
21:08
drinking, and just one month
21:10
after that Stranger Danger episode
21:13
came the Nancy Reagan Just
21:15
Say No episode. The
21:18
Reagan era became the golden age
21:20
of very special episodes, and
21:22
sometimes at the direction of Washington
21:24
itself. In the case of drugs,
21:27
the White House wanted to get the just
21:29
say no message out to as many kids
21:31
as possible. Congress
21:33
was also applying pressure Chuck
21:35
Schumer, than a New York House Rep
21:38
co wrote a letter asking networks
21:40
to devise an intensified campaign
21:43
of public service announcements and
21:45
instructive programs. Author
21:47
Philip Sepanski makes the case
21:49
that the networks were eager to comply.
21:52
This was a period of deregulation
21:55
when the networks stood to get even
21:57
richer. They wanted to show that they
21:59
could be responsible programmers
22:01
without the old rules that forced
22:04
them to be. So it was a win win
22:06
for the government and the networks. Plus,
22:09
kids learned something while their
22:11
parents theoretically received guidance
22:13
on how to explain, as Wally Cleefer
22:16
put it, all the bad junk in
22:18
the world. Here's
22:20
an elegant transition AIDS. It's
22:22
the eighties, so this is right
22:24
when AIDS emerges, obviously
22:27
as a major crisis, and there were very
22:29
special episodes about it.
22:30
Now but Nancy Reagan, I can tell you that much.
22:32
Let's go into Mister Belvidere,
22:35
a show that I must confess I never saw until
22:37
now.
22:38
That's Belvidere, Lynn Belvidere,
22:41
Queen.
22:41
That's a girl's name. Mister
22:44
Belvidere is a British butler who works
22:46
for the Owens family in suburban Pittsburgh.
22:50
Here he is greeting a friend of youngest
22:52
child, Wesley.
22:54
Everyone you remember, where's his friend? Danny?
22:56
Oh?
22:57
Oh, Danny?
23:00
Hi a champ? How's it going well?
23:02
I get eight.
23:03
President that I'm doing pretty good? Okay.
23:07
So it's very direct.
23:09
And I also think at that point, look
23:11
at what was going on in the White House. No one
23:13
was talking about AIDS, so
23:16
you can bet that families weren't
23:18
talking about it either.
23:20
It's true President Reagan didn't
23:22
even mention AIDS in public until
23:24
nineteen eighty five, four years
23:27
into the epidemic.
23:28
Just having a conversation about this
23:31
is usually when you think about what was going on
23:33
in real life with Ryan White.
23:35
Ryan White was a hemophiliac teenager
23:38
from Kocomo, Indiana, who contracted
23:40
AIDS through a blood transfusion and
23:43
was banned from attending school.
23:45
It's a story we're hearing more and more often, a
23:47
story marked by school boycotts and lawsuits
23:50
and students like Ryan White manned from
23:52
school because they have AIDS. Now, I
23:54
think that such a serious issue is not the stuff of which
23:56
situation comedies are made. Were
23:59
but don't tell them, folks, who work on Mister Belvidere.
24:02
This episode aired in January
24:05
of nineteen eighty six, and for a
24:07
network television family show, it
24:09
was pretty radical. For the writers,
24:12
it was personal. They were inspired
24:14
not only by the case of Ryan White,
24:17
but also by their very own talent manager's
24:19
loss. Her three year old son
24:22
had died from AIDS after a blood
24:24
transfusion. In the episode's
24:26
final scene, Wesley stands
24:28
up for Danny, who was not allowed
24:30
to participate in a school pageant.
24:33
Is Daniel and Neion. He was supposed to play linkon
24:35
but he couldn't because he's got AIDS.
24:38
Hey, oh, what are you doing out here?
24:41
Dennis?
24:41
Get away from him?
24:43
Hey, what's now with you people?
24:45
He's not going to hurt you.
24:47
I'm sorry. He feels bad enough forgot everybody
24:49
trying to make him feel worse.
24:50
I have to say, like I was getting
24:53
a little emotional. I felt a little burd in my nose
24:55
watching that scene because adults
24:58
were horrible, and you hear
25:00
them in the audience saying get away
25:02
from him, and then you hear this next
25:05
generation saying no, you're
25:07
being a nightmare and you're
25:09
being a bigot.
25:10
And there's something powerful
25:13
about that.
25:14
And I should point out that the actor
25:16
who played the boy with aids is
25:19
today a trans woman journalist
25:21
at Axios and is very very proud
25:23
of that episode and great that episode
25:25
did.
25:26
Yeah, I think it is powerful and also not
25:28
to be underestimated how much parenting
25:32
was farmed out to network television.
25:35
The drama of very special episodes
25:37
went done right required more
25:39
nuanced performances. The
25:41
best example maybe the nineteen eighty
25:43
four Uncle Ned episode of
25:46
Family Ties. In this scene,
25:48
the lead character of Alex P. Keaton
25:51
played by Michael J. Fox, encounters
25:53
his alcoholic uncle Ned in the kitchen
25:56
in the middle of the night. You'll probably
25:59
recognize the voice, so the actor playing
26:01
Uncle Ned.
26:02
Oh oh, oh oh, here we go.
26:04
Now it may not be million
26:06
time, but it is vanilla time.
26:10
Looking at you, kid. Now,
26:17
remember, don't drive and bake.
26:23
I don't believe this. You'd just strike a whole bottle of vanilla
26:26
extract.
26:27
And so who is it? Very
26:29
famous actor.
26:30
Tom Hanks as Uncle Ned in like,
26:32
by the way, the tightest jeans
26:35
ever.
26:36
Wow, those are tight. Well, first of all,
26:39
maybe I should know this does vanilla extract have
26:41
alcohol?
26:42
I think it does?
26:43
Oh it does? Okay, you know, when I first saw this a
26:45
couple of years ago, many years after it aired,
26:48
I thought, oh, I'm going to watch something
26:51
really, really laughable. But of course Tom Hanks
26:53
is so good that he pulls
26:55
it off.
26:56
Yes, absolutely, I mean that line, don't
26:58
drive in bake.
26:59
It's a good come line.
27:00
But yeah, he's so good,
27:02
and he's so funny, and he's
27:05
so charming.
27:06
This storyline feels organic.
27:09
Towards the end of the episode, a drunk
27:11
uncle Ned blows a job interview
27:14
and Alex tries to remind him
27:16
of his successful past. Then,
27:19
in a pretty shocking scene, Ned
27:21
backhands his nephew across the
27:23
face. Hey give
27:25
me, leave me alone.
27:26
Give me lave me alone. What
27:29
the hell are you, Joyce?
27:31
I don't know, I
27:34
don't know.
27:35
I'm sorry.
27:36
Sorry.
27:38
The Keaton family gives Ned an ultimatum,
27:40
call AA or get out. Ned
27:43
calls AA, and we never
27:45
see him again. Like all Very Special
27:48
episodes, everything is resolved
27:51
five years later. A nineteen eighty nine
27:53
episode of Growing Pains addressed
27:56
drinking and driving, younger
27:58
sister Carol finds out her boyfriend
28:00
Sandy was in a car accident. Sandy
28:03
is played by another soon to be famous
28:05
actor.
28:07
What happened last night?
28:09
Well, this big tree ran right out in front
28:11
of me, and
28:15
I'm gonna be charged with drunk driving.
28:19
I don't understand.
28:19
I mean, it's not like we had that much to drink.
28:21
I know.
28:22
I mean there's been plenty of times I put away a lot more
28:24
than that.
28:25
Nothing happened.
28:26
I guess I just ran
28:29
out of luck last.
28:29
Night, Are you kidding?
28:33
I mean, when you think of what could have happened,
28:36
you were really lucky.
28:38
And so that is Chacy Gold who plays
28:41
the daughter Carol, who's an honor student,
28:43
so she's usually you know, goody two shoes,
28:45
I guess. And that's her boyfriend,
28:47
played by Matthew Perry. Right, so
28:49
it takes on a whole other layer
28:51
of sadness. Let's see how it resolves.
28:54
Carol Sandy just died. Oh
28:57
my god, he said just
28:59
a few minutes.
29:01
Michael Seer, that is the second joke
29:03
that I have ever heard.
29:04
I'm never gonna forgive you.
29:06
Now. I went earlier and I looked
29:09
this is obviously on scientific but I looked
29:11
at comments on YouTube. There's no snark.
29:13
There are all these comments about how
29:16
powerful this episode was
29:18
and what a difference.
29:19
It made what happened to
29:21
his second chance, what
29:25
I happened to his second chance?
29:28
Yeah, and this is one of the episodes that
29:30
people look to and they say, oh,
29:33
this stopped me, or this allowed me to talk to
29:35
my kid about drunk driving, or this stopped
29:37
me from having a drink before getting behind a wheel.
29:39
And I have to say, just the very idea
29:41
of.
29:42
What happened to his second chance is
29:44
so profound, and
29:47
it's so simple.
29:48
It's nothing.
29:49
It's one line, you know, and it
29:51
says everything you want to say, as opposed
29:54
to some of these other very special episodes that are like, well,
29:56
you know, there's so much verbiage there.
29:58
Jeez. That's such a great point because this seems
30:00
to me like the kind of thing
30:03
a parent tries to impress on a child,
30:05
and it's really hard
30:07
to get a child to accept that there's not always
30:10
a second chance.
30:11
Yes, because kids think they're invincible.
30:14
And so when you hear another kid almost
30:16
being like I don't understand, it
30:18
goes right there and it's so understandable
30:22
and relatable.
30:23
You were saying a lot of these very
30:25
special episodes were
30:27
doing parenting for parents,
30:29
but here something that a parent would
30:31
say to a child is actually dramatized pretty
30:34
effectively.
30:35
And better in some ways. I think there were conversations
30:38
that parents should have had with children.
30:40
I have two kids, two teenagers now, and
30:43
there are things that they will
30:46
learn in a way that they will
30:48
listen to more. Their ears will open more
30:50
if they hear it from someone their age, if they hear
30:52
it, you know, coming from culture rather than from
30:55
their mother.
30:56
And this is one of those
30:58
examples.
30:59
By the way, you interviewed Matthew Perry,
31:01
right.
31:01
I did for his memoir, and
31:04
then watching this watching him
31:06
play someone who's
31:08
using alcohol and then who dies,
31:11
I don't know, it kind.
31:12
Of takes your breath away a little, and you know, people
31:14
keep saying it. But in that
31:16
earlier scene he is really good.
31:18
I mean, he was a good actor.
31:20
He could deliver a line, he had great timing,
31:22
and in that moment you can
31:24
see that he had the potential to play
31:27
a little bit of drama too.
31:28
Now, a lot of the shows we've been talking about
31:31
featured suburban white families,
31:33
but in the eighties and nineties, many millions
31:36
of viewers were watching black families
31:38
on the Cosby show, Family Matters
31:41
and The Fresh Prince of bel Air.
31:44
Now this is the story all about
31:46
him. Well, I'd got twins ferns upside
31:48
down and I'd like to take a manager said,
31:50
right then, I'll tell you how it became the prince of a
31:52
town called bell Air.
31:55
Okay, so this is a very special episode from The Fresh
31:57
Prince of bel Air. It
32:00
aired in nineteen ninety. Okay,
32:04
so over thirty years ago. Will
32:06
Smith's character and his cousin Carlton
32:08
the wonderful Alfonso Rovero
32:10
driving in a fancy car to Palm
32:12
Springs and getting stopped by a cop vehicle
32:15
registration. Please just a second,
32:18
But the thing is, officer, this isn't my car.
32:23
Get out of the car, Carlon what he's
32:25
gonna tell us to get out of the car?
32:27
You watch too much TV?
32:28
Will get out of the car, officer.
32:33
Honestly, I don't see the need to
32:35
get.
32:35
Out of the car now. Okay.
32:38
So then they're basically booked
32:40
into a precinct and then
32:42
they're released, and then
32:44
there's this discussion which is really interesting
32:47
between the Will and Carlton characters.
32:50
Were attained for a few hours.
32:52
Dad planned things up, and we were released.
32:54
The system works.
32:57
I hope you like that system because you want to be seeing
32:59
a whole lot of during your lifetime, not if.
33:01
I bring a map.
33:07
You just don't get it, do you.
33:09
No map is going to save you. Neither's
33:11
your glee club or your fancy bel
33:14
air address or who your daddy is, because
33:16
when you're driving in a nice car in a strange
33:18
neighborhood, none of that matters.
33:20
They only see one thing.
33:22
Just the fact that this is still happening.
33:24
And you know, could have beared last week and
33:27
people would have said, oh, this is so timely, is its
33:29
own tragedy. But it's so
33:32
fascinating that scene and
33:35
how the writers go right there.
33:37
It really is.
33:38
And part of what's also interesting, And look, there's
33:40
a kind of subtlety of sophistication happening
33:43
between those two characters. Right they
33:45
don't introduce a white bagot
33:47
character who has the conversation with
33:50
Will. Will and his cousin who's also
33:52
black, are having this disagreement over it,
33:54
and somehow it seems to have more impact that way.
33:56
Yeah, no, I agree. I think it's a really interesting
33:59
scene.
34:00
A conversation between two
34:02
black characters about racism.
34:04
The Very Special episode had come a
34:07
long way since the groundbreaking Bewitched
34:09
episode of twenty years before.
34:12
But by the end of the nineteen nineties, the
34:15
very special episode was dead.
34:18
What killed it?
34:19
I think audiences became kind
34:22
of too hip to what was going on.
34:25
That's next,
34:30
Jesse.
34:31
Those pills are dangerous.
34:32
Yeah, it was, sois geometry.
34:33
You told me you were going to stop taking them.
34:35
I need them to stay awake and study.
34:37
Okay, this is saved by the
34:39
Bell. This is an episode about
34:42
caffeine pills. It's sort of like
34:45
when people don't want to say Kleenex, they
34:47
say facial tissue. They didn't want
34:49
to use the brand name Nodos here, right,
34:51
so instead they're talking about caffeine pills.
34:53
Anything would be okay. I just need one
34:56
of these pills.
34:58
And so this is Elizabeth Berkeley's carearacter
35:00
Jesse, and she's turned to caffeine
35:03
pills to keep up with her studies and her new
35:05
singing group, which is called Hot Sunday.
35:07
I mean, you really are taking drugs.
35:09
You need them, say,
35:12
Jessee, you can't sing the night
35:14
you cat.
35:16
I'm so excited.
35:18
I'm so excited scared.
35:24
Well, first of all, do you think they had to pay for the rights?
35:27
Did she sing enough of the Pointer Sister
35:29
song that they had to pay for it.
35:30
I hope, so they should be paying for something. It's
35:33
super subtle. I love when she's like digging
35:35
around.
35:35
She's like pails pills.
35:38
It's no one ever acted that way
35:40
about nosing their lives
35:42
exactly.
35:43
I was a Jolt Cola person if I needed to finish
35:45
a paper, but I don't remember getting that excited.
35:48
To be fair, producers had originally
35:51
wanted the substance Jesse was taking
35:53
to be speed, but the network wouldn't
35:56
allow it. The nineteen ninety
35:58
caffeine pills episode of Saved
36:00
by the Bell was so memorable
36:02
it was parodied twenty five years
36:05
later on Family Guy.
36:07
You actually are taking drugs, Stuet,
36:09
give me those the contact.
36:11
I need them to sing.
36:13
I'm so excited, I'm
36:15
so excited, so
36:19
scared.
36:25
Screech is going to stab someone on Christmas.
36:28
But even by nineteen ninety four, when
36:30
the movie Reality Bites came out, the
36:32
very notion that a sitcom bore
36:35
any meaningful resemblance to real
36:37
life was sadly by gone.
36:40
I just don't.
36:44
Understand why things just can't go
36:46
back to normal.
36:47
At the end of the half hour, like on
36:50
The Brady Bunch or something.
36:54
Well, because mister Brady died of aides and
36:57
for most kids growing up in the late nineties
37:00
and early two thousand's family,
37:02
our TV seemed alien.
37:05
First of all, the idea that your parents
37:08
would sanction your TV watching was
37:10
donzo, forget about it. I'm watching
37:13
the show I want to watch for me.
37:15
You don't need to know what I'm watching. And
37:17
so that stamp of parental approval
37:20
of like, we're going to have a conversation that adults
37:22
are going to spoon feed
37:25
to you kind of in your language, but kind
37:27
of not, there was a generation
37:29
of kids who are like, no, we
37:31
don't do that anymore.
37:32
Right, I don't need to be introduced to this
37:34
topic on my favorite
37:37
sitcom?
37:37
Yeah, yeah, absolutely, and just
37:39
the entire tone of sitcoms
37:42
changed.
37:43
If there was any one sitcom that marked
37:46
the death knell for the very special episode.
37:52
Larry David and Jerry Seinfeld would come along
37:54
saying basically, there are going to be
37:56
no very special episodes.
37:58
That is the very thing that we will never do.
38:00
I mean, what was the quote, no hugging, no learning,
38:02
No hugging no learning, right, So Seinfeld is a
38:04
series was a stand against everything that the
38:06
very Special episode stood for.
38:08
Yeah, there will be zero
38:11
issues, and even in the show within
38:13
the show, that show was
38:15
also about nothing.
38:17
Well, what's the show about?
38:19
It's about nothing?
38:22
No story?
38:23
Forget the story.
38:25
You gotta have a story?
38:26
Who says you gotta have a story. Remember
38:28
when we were waiting for that table in that Chinese
38:30
restaurant that time? That could be a TV
38:32
show?
38:35
How many levels of smart?
38:36
I mean, it's just it's so
38:39
so great and thank god, I
38:41
mean truly, can you imagine if they tried
38:43
to tackle an issue.
38:45
Of course, plenty of new series
38:47
did take on topics that were new
38:49
to sitcoms, but instead of these
38:52
being handled by ancillary characters
38:54
in one off episodes, they became
38:56
part of the fabric of the series itself.
38:59
Take Will and Grace, what decades
39:02
earlier might have been a very special
39:04
episode about an out gay man
39:06
living with his straight female best friend,
39:09
became an entire series. On
39:11
the show, Blackish creator Kennya
39:14
Barris wove into the comedy issues
39:16
as serious as police brutality
39:19
and the use of the N word. Not
39:21
surprisingly, he cited Norman
39:23
Lear as a major influence.
39:26
Yeah or even a show like My Crazy Ex
39:28
Girlfriend, I mean talking about mental
39:30
health.
39:30
Forget it.
39:31
I mean, can you imagine it's sitcom in the eighties
39:34
talking about mental health.
39:35
No, that wouldn't happen today. The
39:37
term very special episode is
39:39
so by gone. It's quaint, used
39:42
almost endearingly here
39:44
on the ABC sitcom Abbot
39:46
Elementary.
39:47
Okay, if you guys are finished with
39:49
this very special episode.
39:52
The very special episode could be
39:54
pretty corny. And let's face
39:56
it, there's only so much any kind
39:58
of sitcom can do to a us some
40:00
real world problems. When Quinta
40:03
Brunson, the creator and star of Abbott
40:05
Elementary, was asked by fans
40:07
to consider a school shooting storyline,
40:10
she suggested they use that energy to
40:12
demand more from lawmakers. And
40:15
yet there's also something to be said
40:17
about a time when families were more
40:20
likely to watch together and
40:22
maybe even learned together. As
40:24
Norman Lear told me about that time,
40:27
we talked. We looked at the show
40:29
and we talked. He's right. We
40:32
may have laughed, we may have disagreed,
40:35
we may have cringed, but
40:37
at least we talked. With
40:40
the exception of the Jesse Saved by the Bell,
40:42
Caffeine pil freak out. I found
40:44
myself looking at a lot of these scenes and I
40:47
don't know, being kind of moved by them,
40:50
Like the good times that mister Belvidere grows
40:53
hands.
40:53
I mean, yeah, and
40:55
Tracy Gold is really good in
40:57
that scene. I agree with you there intense
41:00
and they're dealing with complex
41:03
and profound feeling.
41:05
In the best way that they can in the format.
41:08
Yes, and in a way that somehow
41:11
works.
41:12
And of course not almost it comes had very special
41:14
episodes. There was never a very special episode of Three's
41:16
Company, right, yeah, I mean what would that
41:18
have been about? Like about rent Control?
41:20
I feel like something could have happened with the roper. That
41:22
was a very special episode waiting to happen.
41:24
A Mumoo accident, for
41:27
sure.
41:27
It was flammable and the house burned down. Right,
41:30
let's explore homelesses.
41:35
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