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Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Released Wednesday, 29th November 2023
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Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Wednesday, 29th November 2023
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0:00

Matt Bomer and Jonathan Bailey bring explosive

0:02

chemistry to Fellow Travelers, a new Showtime

0:04

original limited series from the writer of

0:06

Philadelphia. Bomer and Bailey play two political

0:08

staffers who fall in love at the

0:10

height of the lavender scare of the

0:13

1950s. Their fiery and forbidden affair

0:16

intensifies through the decades, despite the

0:18

constant threat of being exposed and

0:21

losing everything, including each other. The

0:23

Can't Miss limited series also stars

0:25

Jelani Alladin, Noah J. Ricketts, and

0:28

Alison Williams. New episodes streaming now

0:30

with the Paramount Plus with Showtime plan.

0:39

When Sonia Falk was 26, she

0:42

fell for a much older man

0:44

named Colin, before she even

0:46

met him. It

0:48

started when Sonia rented a room in Colin's

0:50

house in London while he was away teaching

0:53

English literature in the U.S. The

0:55

first thing Sonia saw when she walked into his

0:57

home was... He

1:24

had copies of as well. Sonia

1:27

had grown up in South Africa. Then,

1:29

after getting her degree in psychology, she'd

1:31

spent the last few years traveling and

1:33

staying in hostels. She got the

1:35

sense that Colin was a traveler too, from the art

1:37

he collected. Sonia wanted

1:39

to meet the man whose house she felt

1:42

so at home in. And then, finally,

1:44

it happened. One

1:47

day, when Sonia and a friend were on their way

1:49

out of the house... We met Colin on the stairs.

1:52

He had these really bright,

1:55

quick eyes with his quick eye movements.

2:00

was very energetic and springy on

2:02

his feet. And after

2:04

we walked away from each other,

2:07

I said to my friend, I

2:09

find that man so attractive. Colin

2:13

noticed Sonia too. And

2:15

even though he was heading back to America, he

2:17

came up with a way to stay in touch.

2:21

When we had spoken, I

2:23

told him that I write poetry and he'd invited

2:25

me to send him my poems. And

2:29

that was a big moment for me because I

2:31

was very young and I'd never

2:34

ever shown anybody my poems

2:36

really. And he was this professor of English literature.

2:38

He was a published poet. And

2:40

he then said, coming back from

2:42

America, would you

2:45

like to have dinner? And then we can

2:47

discuss your poems. And

2:49

just before the dinner, he posted me

2:51

this brown envelope returning my poems

2:53

to me on which he had

2:55

written comments. This is like romance

2:58

novel stuff. OK, sorry, keep going. Yeah.

3:00

And that dinner happened

3:03

on the 3rd of August. And

3:05

we then named that

3:07

date as our anniversary date. It

3:10

was just obvious that both

3:13

of us were just feeling really affected

3:15

by each other. What did he

3:17

say about your poems? He

3:19

was really critical of my poems. He

3:22

ripped them to shreds. Yeah, that was

3:24

pretty devastating. From

3:31

the New York Times, I'm Anna Martin. This

3:33

is Modern Love. When

3:36

Colin ripped apart Sonya's poetry, it

3:38

didn't turn her off. She

3:41

liked his directness and his authenticity

3:44

because that's the kind of person she was and

3:46

the kind of person she wanted to be with. The

3:49

connection between the two of them was so

3:51

magnetic that when Sonya found out that Colin

3:53

was 34 years older than her, it

3:56

didn't stop the two of them from building

3:58

a genuinely happy life. together. Sonya

4:01

and Colin never had a conventional

4:04

love story,

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