Just because you aren’t sharing it doesn’t mean you’ve got it together, just because you maintain your peace and never ask for help doesn’t mean you are carrying it well. Just because you are able to keep taking it all and being ‘strong’ does not mean you are carrying it well and by God’s standards. The world has taught us to share the pretty, easy looking and happy sides and will always chastise us for being vulnerable.. men will know this one too well.. but in that situation, how you handle your challenges should be aligned to God’s purpose for it. God wants to carry those burdens and in turn you must keep focused on running the race, his word, his works, faith, peace, joy, a prosperous life and truth.