Be resolute in your mind and heart to be relentless in character. Be not moved by the circunstances infront of you. Press on to what you too desire and have it as any other person who does. Seek God with all your might, never lose sight of the vision. If you don't have one.. persue it and want to live a meaningful wholesome live as well. Be unapologetic and seek that which you know you can have anf give.