A little bit of a rant today! Shad and Heather talk about moms and dads that are super controlling and are afraid of allowing kids to explore and be kids. We talk about guns, concealed carry, how guns work in our home with 6 kids running arou

012-Cake by the Ocean

Aug 31st, 2016 1h 2m

Shad and Heather discuss how much the music now BLOWS compared to the artists from the 90's, and how much negativity prevails in the news. Why do we love hearing about murders so much?

011-It's only been 8 months!!

Aug 24th, 2016 57m 44s

Shad and Heather talk about where we're been over the past 8 months... What's happened, what's new and where we've been. We also discuss where our podcast is going! We need to hear from YOU!

010-8 Things to remember

Nov 4th, 2015 57m 29s

We begin this podcast with a dramatic reading. A dramatic reading of popular songs with crap for lyrics... And then...Shad finds another great article that he would like to discuss (without reading it first AGAIN), and we discuss the 8 things

009-Halloween Special

Nov 2nd, 2015 49m 12s

Shad and Heather discuss Halloween and the origins of the holiday and why it seems like more and more people aren't participating in this controversial holiday. (we love it) and we constantly get distracted and off topic, straying to talking a

008-Communication Breakdown

Oct 29th, 2015 54m 46s

In this episode we go over a article listing 9 ways to help you and you partner communicate. In typical Pair of Spades fashion, we stray off topic.To find out more, please visit, www.pairofspades.com, or find us on Facebook under Pair of Spade

007-Will you marry me? Ummm... No.

Oct 8th, 2015 1h

We received a great email from one of our fans asking for life, dating questions, and how a person knows if they are making the right decision to get married or if they are even choosing the right person. Red flags? What should you look for?

006-Part 2-It's Over, Now What?!

Sep 21st, 2015 43m 3s

Now that it's over, and you are hiring a lawyer, what kind of information should you be SURE to include in your divorce decree? What financial info do you need to bring? Do you have retirement? Real estate holdings? Savings? Investments? W

005-Part 1-It's Over, Now What?!

Sep 15th, 2015 54m 3s

Your spouse tells you today, I am DONE with this marriage. I want out. What happens now? Where does your mind immediately go? Searching for answers, do you seek counseling? Does that even help? Shad and Heather share their experiences fro

004-From Healthy food to Aliens and everything in between

Sep 13th, 2015 34m 14s

Our first live podcast! We asked our fans to give us questions to discuss and they responded! We discuss everything from healthy food to love at first sight, apologizing, and organized religion.To submit questions for future Q and A podcasts,

003-Facebook, why we love to hate you!

Sep 8th, 2015 53m 51s

Facebook is sited as a cause of roughly 33% of divorces. How does it continually suck you in? Why do we look at it? What problems arise when you connect with old flames? Do you hide your Facebook activities? Do you delete the conversations

002-Top 10 Reasons Marriages Fail

Sep 8th, 2015 46m 21s

Do you think affairs will be listed in the top ten? Guess again! Heather and Shad go through the list, item by item discussing whether each item specifically contributed to the failing of their marriages. They also discuss whether those item

001-Who are the Pair of Spades?

Sep 8th, 2015 21m 36s

Find out how Heather and Shad met, bonded, and found out that they were suffering through the same struggles in life. We talk about our past marriages, divorces, how we met and saved each other through it all. We discuss future topics, includ

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