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Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies, but most of us feel completely clueless about how to actually make them happen! In today’s episode, we walk you through how to have your first one, and share some hot, hilarious, awkward, and hor
Get ready for the highly anticipated third act to one of our most popular episodes yet - Is This Normal?You’ll get answers to questions like: Is it normal that my husband isn’t instantly turned on when he sees me naked? Is it normal to never h
Today we’re getting ULTRA personal, and answering all your questions about our recent experience in couples therapy.Do we think therapy sometimes digs up stuff that wasn’t a problem? Do we ever hope our therapist takes our side? And of course,
Are these four communication mistakes ruining your relationship?In today’s episode we’re revealing the Four Horsemen. Researcher John Gottman discovered that these specific communication pitfalls could predict divorce with over 90% accuracy!W
Xander’s back in the hot seat answering all your burning questions about male behavior!Why do guys mansplain? Why do they struggle to find things that are right in front of their faces? Why are men always initiating when we’re right in the mid
When the spark dies off in a relationship, it’s really easy to blame it on libido.But is libido actually the problem?In this episode, we reveal the truth about sex drive and ask a big question, “does libido even matter?”Links & Resources:Ul
Welcome to our 2nd round of “Know Ya Boo” (bonus points if you get the Parks and Rec reference). Grab your partner, pull up a chair, pour your favorite cocktail or mocktail, and come on a double date with us!You guys gave us 50 questions, and
What do you do when it’s been a while…When you don’t remember the last time you had sex. When the idea of initiating feels even more awkward than usual. When you’re not sure if your partner is missing it the same way you are.In this episode,
We’re back again with another edition of Am I The Asshole. This time around we’re talking about your trickiest in-law related situations.We’re covering stories about dietary preferences, back-handed compliments, dinner table mishaps, and so m
A few weeks ago we asked our community if they felt resentment in their relationship and only 29% said no!Resentment doesn’t feel good for either partner, and it can lead to things like more stress, less sex, and lots of other serious consequ
Imagine this… you’re crawling into bed at the end of the night, thinking, “Hmmm sex sounds nice.”We hate to break it to you, but you’re too late! You needed to have been planning for this much earlier in the day. You needed to be using our un
You’ve had a fight over text message with your partner, right? Most of us have! Maybe you sent a text to your partner that was a little too snarky, or maybe you read too much into a message. Odds are your text fight did not end well…Today
If you’re a Pillow Talks listener, you’re probably on board with the idea of talking about sex openly. But what do you do if your partner is a lot more hesitant?In this episode, we’re going over why your partner might be feeling resistant,
We really went there…It’s time for another round of Smash or Pass! The series where we find the internet’s weirdest sex tips, try them out, and report back to you with all the details.We dug deep to find the craziest ideas for us to t
“This, uh, isn’t working…”Most of us have experienced a partner having some performance issues in the bedroom, and feeling wildly confused about what to do. How do you react? What do you say?And let’s be honest, most of us women take the
“I just don’t understand where you’re coming from.”Have you ever been in the heat of an argument with your partner, and felt totally unable see their perspective on the issue?We put up a question box on Instagram and asked people to t
Have you ever wondered what everyone secretly fantasizes about? We anonymously polled our audience, and we’re spilling all the secrets today!We’re also doing a deep dive on all your fantasy questions. Where do they come from? What do they
75% of people say that nagging is an issue in their relationship. So we thought it was time we gave our take on this controversial topic.We’re talking about the differences between nagging, reminding, and micromanaging. When is it nagging
Have you ever wondered what your partner REALLY thinks about your performance in the bedroom?Well, it turns out there are a few things they secretly wish you’d stop doing…We turned to Instagram and asked people to anonymously share al
Surprise! We’re in couples therapy.We sat down and recorded one of our most vulnerable episodes yet all about why we’re in therapy and how it’s going. We talked about what to look for in a potential therapist (and where to look) and gave som
Today, we’re tackling a huge issue that so many people can relate to… feeling uncomfortable in your own skin during sex. We’re diving into the specific things that make you the most self-conscious, and how these thoughts can impact your sex lif
Today we’re asking a tough question… Are you lazy in bed? And an even harder one… Would your partner say you’re lazy during sex?In this episode, we’re breaking down the specific things you’re doing that your partner thinks are lazy, the co
79% of our community members want their partners to be more romantic. Romance seems to come so easy at the beginning of a relationship, but feels so much harder to sustain long-term!In this episode, we’ll walk you through specific steps to
You might already know that you’re a 3 on the Enneagram, a generator in human design, or an ENTJ in Myers–Briggs. But do you know your personality type in the bedroom? Today we’re breaking down our Sex Personality Types model. Our 11 types
Snip snap! We’re back with part 2 of Xander’s vasectomy journey. (Start with part 1 if you want to hear his story.) This time we’re answering all your questions about the process from start to finish (literally, all 30 “finishes”).Did Xand
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