Janae and Theo review "Judas and the Black Messiah" and "Malcolm and Marie" for Black History Month. They discuss what each movie had to offer, what they'd rate the movie out of 5 stars and whether they'd watch it again. THERE ARE SPOILERS. In

{The And} Game

Feb 10th, 2021 48m 58s

Ever heard of The And Game? The creators of the game describe it as the couples edition as:Ask your partner the questions you’re dying to know the answers to, but are too afraid to ask. Using 199 questions taken right from our Emmy award-winnin

10 Marriage Myths Debunked

Feb 3rd, 2021 39m 53s

There are a lot of things people say about marriage ...whether they're married or not and whether it's true or not. We discuss these ten myths:1. Marriage is easy2. Marriage is 50/50 ..completely equal3. Marriage changes things4. Sex stops once

Budgeting in a Marriage Ft. Shannah Compton Game

Jan 27th, 2021 55m 32s

Janae and Theo sit down with Shannan Compton Game of Millennial Money podcast to discuss how exactly does one budget when married? Shannah discusses money mindsets, the importance of a budget, being a team player in your marriage and how you c

Divorce? Who said that?

Jan 20th, 2021 49m 7s

Theo & Janae discuss why they believe divorce isn't an option and speculate on what causes a divorce. They also discuss why divorce is so harmful and their take on the divorces they witnessed. Disclaimer: all of the views, thoughts and opinions

Saying No to Sex ... in a Marriage!?

Jan 13th, 2021 31m 45s

Can you say no to sex? What do you think? Theo & Janae discuss the room spouse's have to say yes or no to sex. Agree with them or disagree? Let them know. I Cor. 7:5 NIVDisclaimer: all the view, thoughts and opinions expressed belong solely to

You Need PreMarital Counseling.... Here's Why

Jan 6th, 2021 1h 20m

Janae & Theo get on the mic with their premarital counselor and discuss the who, what, where, why and how of premarital counseling. The bottom line is you need to get premarital counseling. If you want to marry someone and you want it to be suc

2021 Betta Come Correct or Nah

Dec 30th, 2020 38m 28s

Janae and Theo find themselves preparing for a new year by reflecting on the year before and discussing what the year before them should bring. Disclaimer: all the view, thoughts and opinions expressed belong solely to us, by us and you should

Quarantined Christmas

Dec 23rd, 2020 20m 32s

Merry Christmas from the Barbours! Theo & Janae tell you exactly how to have a festive Christmas...even when it's quarantined. Disclaimer: all the view, thoughts and opinions expressed belong solely to us, by us and you should take it at your o

It Works If You Work It ft. Mixing With Mani and a new special Guest!

Dec 16th, 2020 53m 28s

Mani, Theo, Janae and Maya discuss how you're supposed to deal when your significant other has decided to make a major decision. How does one handle their spouse evolving, especially when it doesn't really involve you and yet, affects you? Whet

Homeownership and Why It's Important Ft. Elisa Wells

Dec 9th, 2020 51m 53s

Do you know why it's important to be a homeowner or how to become one? We'll tell you with our realtor! Elisa breaks down myths about home buying, the upfront costs of home buying and how do you become a homeowner as easy as 1, 2, 3.To contact

Our Love Story Pt. 2

Dec 2nd, 2020 1h 1m

In this final part of Theo & Janae's love story, they catch you up from where they left off to present day. They hear their love story from each other's perspective, tell why they love each other and how they chose each other after of almost 10

Our Love Story Pt. 1

Nov 25th, 2020 1h 3m

Theo and Janae have a long winded love story but today they shared it..well some of it. Enjoy their musings on childhood ignorance and college mishaps and misunderstandings. To see them as children in the same yearbook, check their instagram! O

Relationships & Sports Featuring Theo's Best Friend

Nov 18th, 2020 47m 30s

Theo has first first solo episode and sits down with Brandon, his best friend, best man and a third party witness of Theo and Janae's love story. They discuss what marriage has done to their friendship, the loss of Kobe to their generation and

It's a Celebration Every Time We Link Up

Nov 12th, 2020 47m 24s

Here's to 30! Theo celebrates making it 30 revolutions of planet earth and talks how his wife made it memorable. Disclaimer: all the view, thoughts and opinions expressed belong solely to us, by us and you should take it at your own discretion.

Technology & It's Impact on Marriages

Nov 5th, 2020 33m 11s

Technology has made an impact on all our lives, whether good or bad you cannot deny it's playing a part. Theo & Janae discuss how it can affect a marriage and how they try to be successful despite the consequences of tech and social media. Disc

Wedding Planning & Reality Checks

Oct 28th, 2020 36m 33s

When you get engaged/propose you start to feel like you're in a romance movie and everything should be perfect. Here's a reality check.. you will fight, you will cry, you will feel overwhelmed, tired, annoyed and everything in between... but yo

Wedding Planning & Your Budget

Oct 21st, 2020 41m 32s

The budget has the most misconceptions and can cause the biggest arguments when wedding planning. Theo & Janae share the struggles they had and what you can expect to spend when you start planning your wedding. Disclaimer: all the view, thought

Wedding Planning & The Nitty Gritty

Oct 14th, 2020 43m 46s

Theo & Janae discuss the details of wedding planning and reminisce on their own wedding details. It's a conversation full of gems on where to get started AFTER he proposes. Disclaimer: all the view, thoughts and opinions expressed belong solely

1 year down, a lifetime to go

Oct 7th, 2020 45m 57s

Janae and Theo have made it to a year! (sorta...) Congratulate them! On October 10, 2019, they were blissfully married and a year later, they reflect on what a time it's been, what they've learned and how much they love each other. Get into it!

What if my spouse has a different political view than I do?

Sep 30th, 2020 26m 38s

Listener, in their best Hamilton voice, Janae and Theo insist you don't throw away your shot! Janae and Theo how to deal with different political opinions in a marriage and what a difference one vote can make. They even have a brief digression

An Interracial Relationship in Trying Times

Sep 23rd, 2020 50m 27s

This week Theo and Janae interview their friends Kristen and Daniel who are an interracial married couple. They discuss what Dan has learned from Kristen as a white man and the kind of conversations Kristen has been having as a black woman with

Mixing with Mani & Answering Her Questions

Sep 16th, 2020 54m 57s

Theo & Janae linked with Mani from the Mixing with Mani podcast. After featuring on her podcast as Bravo virgins to watch an episode and discuss the married shenagnigans, they invited her to talk on their podcast and answered questions she's al

Janae Solo: Marriage & Friendship ft. Bev

Sep 9th, 2020 58m 39s

How does a friendship change when one gets married? Cue the Girlfriends theme music as Janae interviews her best friend in her first solo episode. Disclaimer: all the view, thoughts and opinions expressed belong solely to us, by us and you shou

Is the relationship over if she says no to your proposal?

Sep 2nd, 2020 37m 19s

This is by far the silliest episode Theo and Janae have ever recorded. The laughs kept coming. Hopefully you find it as funny as they did. So you're on one knee with a ring out and she said no... what's your next move? Theo thinks the guy has n