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You're listening to Reading Glasses, a show
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about book culture and literary life designed
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to help you read better. I'm author
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and book devourer Mallory O'Mara. And I'm
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Bria Grant, filmmaker and e-reader. This episode
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we're giving tips on reading books that
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look good but have intimidating
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content warnings. Plus
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we're discussing book subscription boxes
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and recommending sci-fi noir. But
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first Bria, what are you reading? I read a
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book. It's a, hey, it's
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a, it's a tour. Oh,
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a novella alert. Tour novella
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alert. You know, I love
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a tour novella. That's T-O-R. If you are
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not familiar with the publishing company, I love
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their books. This is a novella that came
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out. It's a post-apocalyptic novella. Oh, it's made
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for me. It's a quick 163
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pages. I love that.
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It's about a world in which the
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way Bria loves to describe a book. That
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really is your favorite starter. A world
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in which you
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can't, if you look someone in the eye
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or the face, you immediately want to kill
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them and they want to kill you. What?
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So it's a little bird boxy. It's
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a little like, there's a few other
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like, you know, apocalyptic books that have
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like similar weird things like that. But
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it's about a girl named Riley and
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she has moved into this house in
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the middle of nowhere so she won't
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see people. She survived this horrible
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plague and they have like, some
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people have these like very thick glasses that you can
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like look through that you, what are the ones you
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use after you get your eyes dilated or? Oh, I
1:35
know what you're talking about, but I don't know what
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they're called. Yeah, like you can wear those and like
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something you can't actually see people's eyes. So there are
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ways around it, but then she moves into this house
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and then there's a neighbor. There's a neighbor that moves
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into a house nearby and the neighbor wants to talk
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to her and hang out with her. But it's like
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very scary because you really have
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to trust someone to say like, they're
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like, oh, I'm not looking at you right now. And then you
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can kind of look at them. But if they are looking at
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you, that's it. And also, this is like a
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disease, so you may not have it. If you don't
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have the disease, then you'll be fine. But you don't
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know if you have the disease till you look someone
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in the eye. So it's a very scary book. It's
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first person, so it's a little, I think it's
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first person, but it's a very, a little unreliable
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narrator because you don't know exactly what's been going
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on with her. It's great. And it's very scary,
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very weird. I read it all in a day
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because it was freaking me out. It's called Your
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Shadow Half Remains by Sunny Moraine. What are you
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reading? Oh, I
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am again, I am the conductor of the
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2024 book, Train at this Point,
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Chugging Along. But I'm reading a book that
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I think is gonna be real buzzy. Comes
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out this summer. Highly recommend Getting Your Library
2:38
Holds In Now because this will be a
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very popular book. It's called Lady Macbeth by
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Ava Reed. And I have read Ava Reed's
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books before. She's a really great author, but
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I think this is gonna be like her
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new big one. It's a reimagining of Macbeth
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from the point of view of Lady Macbeth.
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Oh, cool. And
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it's very, the way that it's written,
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it's very dark, it's very unique. You
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know, this woman, she kind of gets
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sold to this Scottish lord and
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she gets there and she knows that
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like she's in for a ride. Like
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this is not a love marriage. It's just, it's
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a political marriage. She immediately, when she gets there,
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like they take her handmaid in a way. She
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has to be alone. The thing about her is
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she's so beautiful that she stays veiled at all
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times because men just like will lose their mind
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if they look at her. Kind of similar to
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your project. Yeah. So
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immediately she has to start sort of
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plotting to get
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more power, to make herself safe. She's shown
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pretty quickly that her husband has these three
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witches that he keeps in the basement and
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she realizes that nobody else in the castle
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knows about these witches. So
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this sort of like an occult
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undercurrent and she has her own
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powers and she's like, so if
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you like Scotland, if you like
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retellings, if you like feminist retellings,
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if you like witchy books, if
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you like court intrigue, this is the book
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for you. It's really well-read. and I'm really
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enjoying it. So that's the Lady Macbeth by
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Ava Reed. And mine is Your Shadow Half
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Remains by Sunny Marines. So
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we want to take a moment to share some listener feedback.
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Emma wrote in with
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a hot bookmark tip.
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Hi Brian Mallory, I was listening to episode
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354 and I couldn't stop
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giggling about Mallory's love for a dense ass
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bookmark. You know it baby. I
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too am a fan of a big bookmark
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that I can't lose. So I have adopted
4:31
using a thin silicone drink coaster as one.
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It actually started with your
4:35
episode reviewing the little sprout bookmark. Oh I
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remember the the spria, the little it's like
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a little silicone sprout. I knew I wanted
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something leaf themed, large, flat and preferably made
4:44
of silicone so it could grip the pages
4:47
when the book was closed and wouldn't fall
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out when I was carrying my book around. I
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found these cute oak leaf was on Amazon and
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haven't looked back. I'll put a link in the
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show notes. These are adorable and are so large
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that I can't misplace them but they're also thin
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enough that they don't mess up the profile of
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the book too much. Also it's
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perfect for its intended use. It's a great place to
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put a girly drink, haha, I see what you did
5:08
there, on while you're reading. Oh my god so you
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take the bookmark out and you use it as a coaster
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and then when you're done you stick it
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back in and walk away with your drink.
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I don't know if it's designed for that.
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Like looking at it looks like it's more
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designed for just the coaster but
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I love this idea and I already added
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it to our Amazon wish list. I know.
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Emma says I also want to thank you
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too for helping me get back into reading.
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After graduation and pandemic depression I am now
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inhaling thrillers and too wild to be true
5:38
nonfiction books like The Feather Thief. Your backlog
5:40
episodes have made up approximately 70% of my
5:42
TBR list and I am loving it. Thank
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you for all that you do. Wow this
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is a hot tip I want to try
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this. I love it. Yeah I just
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added it to our list so we got to try it.
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I love the idea of something that is both it's
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a multi-use tool you know multi-use it does
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multiple things you don't have to have. Two
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things. Oh when it comes in
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making multiple ways. I don't know why multiple types of
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leaves Yeah, thank you.
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Oh, I love this Eric wrote in
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with a bookish vacation tip free
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and Mallory I am also a Mallory vacationer when
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I plan a vacation I always have a list
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of local bookstores to visit my go-to tip is
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to buy a book about local folklore or myths
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This is especially helpful if I'm visiting another country
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It also works if I can't make it to
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a bookstore But I visit a museum because I
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have to stop at the gift shop. This
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tip isn't people love gift shops Can I just
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say oh, yeah I mean who doesn't you look
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at so everyone loves looking a little trinket You
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know if you're not buying anything it is I do like
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looking at little things Yeah, I don't always
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go in the gift shop, which is weird, which
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I thought I guess is weird you should this
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tip is it Isn't a sure
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thing when traveling the US and my plan B is
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to ask if they have a book about local ghost
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stories or hauntings I like that if book weight or
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size is a concern look for a book aimed at
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a younger reader Those options are usually slimmer and therefore
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smaller and lighter I just came back from a trip
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to New Zealand and a book about Mallory legends and
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a history of poisoners Not New Zealand
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specific, but I couldn't resist the subject keep
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up the good work And I've been listening from the
7:08
beginning and look forward to new episodes every Thursday. I
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love this tip. I love this This is such a
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smart thing to do Yeah, you
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go into the place and you're like I
7:17
want a local like local folklore local ghosts
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local Whatever and then you kind of feel
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like you're actually you're contributing to the local
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economy and learning about the local area And
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you get to go to that bookstore and you get a book
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that you probably won't get in a bookstore anywhere else Then
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Robin wrote in with a wheelhouse that
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is strong female protagonist unusual magic systems
7:35
fairy tale retellings Enemies to
7:38
lovers character focus space stories, which
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is a girl with hidden powers
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shadow daddies What's
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it mean? What does it mean? I
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think it's uh like a like a
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villainous hot guy shadow
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daddy Oh,
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yeah, it's a shadow daddy is old
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like 500 years plus, but looks young
7:59
has scars and tattoos This is for
8:01
Reddit. Usually darker skin, dark
8:03
hair has shadow powers, aka the name,
8:05
like can control darkness or shadows, is
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hot, male, and more
8:10
like horny fairies, which explains this. And
8:13
also falls in love with the main female character. So
8:16
horny fairies, sex out. Robin also loves
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sentient spaceships, morally gray demons, and haunted
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castles and manners. Love
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folks, we're having our first members-only Zoom party
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you are a member and are not part
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This is gonna be a recommendation party. It's
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gonna be super fun. Bring a
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book you really wanna recommend to someone. Bring
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your recommendation request. If there's something you've always
9:04
been looking for, maybe you wrote in to
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us and we haven't gotten to your recommendation
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request yet because we have a thousand
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It's gonna be super fun. Recommend books to each
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gonna be a blast. Again, that's
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if you want to, if you're not a
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participate. And also a little request from Brea
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and I, being of traveling in bookish places,
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Brea and I are going to Edinburgh. We're
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really excited about it. And we're
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making our list of stuff we wanna do.
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So if you have a bookstore that you
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love, a bookish place that you think we
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should go to or a vegan restaurant, write
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in, let us know. And we're
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excited. We're finally, I mean, we've both been
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there before. But it's fun. I've never
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been there. Oh, okay. Well, we're finally getting to
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go to- I've never been to any Scotland.
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I've been to London and Brighton, but I haven't been to
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anywhere else. Well The Hunter you get
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week we're talking about what to do when
13:09
a book looks great except for
13:11
the intimidating content warnings. should you skip
13:13
it? should you soldier through? should
13:16
you read the synopsis online? we've got
13:18
you covered. so this
13:20
week's episode was inspired by a lot of emails. we
13:22
actually got a lot of emails about this and i
13:25
just picked one to read. this one's
13:27
from kathy and kathy says my question is
13:29
about horror books. when i was a teenager
13:31
i loved horror and at some point in
13:33
my late 20s i got terrified reading the
13:35
homing by john saul and around the same
13:37
time equally terrified watching the mothman prophecies. i've
13:39
steered clear of horror since then in all
13:41
forms. and now many of the horror books
13:44
you talk about sound awesome to me and
13:46
i want to read them. but
13:48
i'm too scared. at the same time some
13:50
books you describe as horror i have read
13:52
and loved and didn't realize they were horror.
13:55
is there any way to tell if a book will be
13:57
too scary for me in advance? Am I
13:59
doomed to miss the out on great books because
14:01
they might be too scary? I know, different thing
14:03
scare different people. So it's not like there can
14:05
be a horror rating that would tell me if
14:07
it would work for me. I thought about just
14:09
starting some of these books and stopping if they
14:11
get too scary, but by then it may be
14:13
too late and I'll be doomed to sleep only
14:15
during daylight hours for weeks or months. Is there
14:17
any hope for me to enjoy horror? Books. Okay,
14:21
This. Is going to be sort of a reader flowchart.
14:23
Situation here. Oh okay. So.
14:26
If you see a book. No matter the
14:29
genre, even the horror is the example here. but
14:31
we got a lot of other emails about just
14:33
regular content. morning and non genre bucks in this
14:35
book. Sell books on the you wanna read but
14:38
you're worried about the content. Mornings are better, will
14:40
be too intense are too scary. The first question
14:42
you need to ask yourself is how you feel
14:44
about spoilers. That is the that is the foundation
14:47
of everything we're going to talk about on this
14:49
episode. Because of your Bria and you don't care.
14:51
can be lot easier to just look up the
14:53
plot and read about what happens and judge from
14:56
there you can read some spoiler he reviews on
14:58
story. Graph A good reads in get a
15:00
sense from other readers it'll it'll be too
15:02
much for you but Bria one of the
15:04
what are they do if they me you
15:06
can go to does the da di.com and
15:08
figured out that like you'll find out more
15:10
there but if you're Mallory and you don't
15:12
like spoilers. You. Have to trade use and
15:14
non. Spoiler He research
15:16
in reviews. right? So it's
15:18
a book teacher something that in your
15:20
dog house. Try. Find out is it
15:23
on the page? is it just mentioned there
15:25
is a difference between i enjoyed like losing
15:27
their and such. We have been off off
15:29
page you know and it's Portland know that
15:31
some content morning don't. Count things
15:33
that are just mentioned with them. Then they
15:36
do you not really know? Like you don't
15:38
know if it's like oh they mentioned that
15:40
someone's you know brother died or something but
15:42
then or they show it on. The page:
15:44
There's two different. Things. And
15:46
just you know, A lot of
15:48
reviews will say this contain spoilers or a
15:51
dozen. it's three graphic good reason they like
15:53
blackout Ones that are like they like they're
15:55
like oh, click here if you wanna read
15:57
a spoiler so there you can skim through.
15:59
and sure you're not seeing the spoilers but you
16:01
are reading those reviews. And review
16:04
from professional sites as well. We also think
16:06
it's important to assess how intensely you're affected
16:08
by something. You just you got to know
16:10
yourself as a reader. You got to know your limits. For
16:12
example, everyone knows I fucking hate snakes. The
16:15
whole book about snakes? I'm gonna skip it.
16:17
I know myself. If this if it's just
16:19
too much I have like a snake-o-meter. You
16:21
know I can handle a little
16:23
like there's been books where Bria's like hey Mal you're
16:26
gonna love this book there is a snake theme but
16:28
you can skip it. I know that
16:30
I can do that but if it's like that snake
16:32
handler book that you were talking about like I just
16:34
know that I can't read that I have to skip
16:37
it. What happens if you hit hit top of the
16:39
snake-o-meter? Did a hiss come out? No my eyes bug
16:41
and go and
16:43
I start playing. It should be a snake related
16:45
noise I feel like. No I start freaking I
16:47
just I really don't like them I know myself
16:50
but I know I know how much of it
16:52
I can take. Like I
16:54
know that I can skip past it. I know that
16:56
if it's quickly mentioned like again if it's if it's
16:58
if it's mentioned I'm fine with it on page stuff
17:01
I have a hard time with it. What else Bria?
17:03
What do you think? You can also
17:05
do things that mitigate the effects. Like
17:07
can you read a horror book during the day? I
17:10
often do this. Can you read an intense book with
17:12
friends or a book club? And you can always call
17:14
them up and be like hey is
17:16
this gonna get better? Or does this get worse? Because I've done
17:18
that I'm like does this get worse for this person? And they'll
17:20
be like yes I'm like I'm done with this book. Or can
17:22
you read it in small chunks? Like you aren't reading it all
17:24
at once maybe you read a little bit here a little bit
17:26
there and so that way you don't it's not like overtaking
17:29
your life. Yeah I read
17:31
sexual assault is definitely something that's in my doghouse
17:33
it has been for a while and
17:35
I love Roxane Gay I'm a huge Roxane Gay fan
17:37
and she came out she edited that collection not
17:39
that bad about sexual assault and
17:42
took me like a year to read it because I had I
17:44
really wanted to read it but I had to read in small
17:46
chunks and you know that's the way I dealt with it. So
17:48
Brea what do you do in this situation there's a book you really
17:50
want to read that looks good but it has something in
17:52
there that you really just don't want to read about. If
17:55
there are content warnings I don't often check
17:57
the content warnings, but sometimes I'll get to a point in the
17:59
book. and I'm like. Oh, you're going to
18:01
go somewhere I don't like. I. Probably in
18:03
a dump, the bug or if someone tells me they like
18:05
hey it's all about this time dying. I'll be like and
18:07
I read a book like I just won't read and I'm
18:09
I'm going to try to. but. If. I'm loving
18:12
the book and I get so part is particularly
18:14
horrific to me. I will soldiers rogue if I
18:16
love the books because it's so rare to love
18:18
a book like so much that you're like, okay,
18:20
this always say I'm good outweighs the bad here.
18:23
Daytime. Reading works for me for things that
18:25
are scary. Mickey's your someone else is around just
18:27
like in the house you know know knowing someone
18:29
here I'm on a plane I'm like okay is
18:31
that a lot of people here like enough damage
18:34
that way less scary and keeping a book around
18:36
that isn't as top of the read so like
18:38
if I'm like this is you much and rings
18:40
at nights freaking me out I will go to
18:42
a book and like this is just a book
18:44
about know. Rather, Than hobbies and like
18:46
that in the book that I can actually just switch
18:48
to at any time. And knowing I have that outlet
18:51
I don't have to soldier through. Dad's.
18:53
Really helped me a lot. Just. Knowing
18:55
if there and being able to switch I think it's
18:57
helpful. What are you doing when there's. You.
18:59
Want to read it but you know it's gonna be have
19:01
stuff you know like. Me on the
19:03
same way. I feel like I'm lucky enough that I
19:05
can compare. Book of its hitting a big dog house
19:08
item for me and I'd have just like you I
19:10
do often. I know I followed a character
19:12
from one of those nineties reading shows, but
19:14
that's the magic and the danger of reading
19:16
books as is, never know what's gonna happen
19:19
like. Honestly, there are disturbing
19:21
things and books that have really stuck
19:23
with me. Ah, there's a scene in
19:25
the last house on needless. Street that is
19:27
branded onto my brain for the rest of my life. And
19:30
it involves a sound. And it is.
19:34
Really really stuck there. But personally I found
19:36
that the experiencing that book was worth it.
19:38
I was that it was the same things
19:40
that you just said is A I wanted
19:43
to know what happened, I wanted experience the
19:45
rest of the book and I waited My
19:47
brain and I realized that I I find
19:49
getting through it up being said. That.
19:52
Particular disturbing seen that I just talked about wasn't
19:54
something that's in my dog house. it wasn't something
19:56
that like. Overtly. Or.
19:59
Like. It hits me harder
20:01
than other things. I do avoid bad reading
20:03
experiences by skipping things that I know will
20:05
be too hard for me. I've
20:08
definitely dumped a lot of books. There was a really
20:10
popular book last year that I
20:12
didn't realize was all about sexual assault, and it starts happening
20:15
on page one, and I read about three pages, and I
20:17
was like, no, I'm good, I don't need this. I
20:19
do think if there is something that is so upsetting
20:21
to you that it'll ruin your day, you need to
20:23
be doing your research, even beyond the content
20:26
warnings listed on the book. Because again, content
20:28
warnings are usually about things happening on the
20:30
page. And if there's something that is so,
20:32
that will derail your day, you've
20:35
gotta take the responsibility and do
20:37
your research and read reviews
20:39
beforehand. Because again, all
20:42
of this stuff is so subjective
20:44
that you
20:46
really never know. So the short
20:48
answer is there is no definitive way to
20:50
say the book is gonna be too much
20:52
for you, right? It's just subjective, that's the
20:54
great and awful thing about reading.
20:56
That's the great thing about reading. I don't know if
20:58
it's awful. It is what reading is. So even if
21:01
your friend reads something and they're like, no, no, no,
21:03
it's fine, it's fine. It could be totally different for
21:05
you. And something maybe too intense for them, maybe not
21:07
as bad for you. So you don't, you aren't going
21:09
to really know. And the best way you can do
21:11
is take an educated guess from hearing what other readers
21:13
have to say, do some research,
21:16
you really, really wanna read this book. Just know you can
21:18
dump it if it gets too intense and get some library,
21:20
get a bit of a shot. But if you're like Kathy
21:22
and you're gonna be affected months from now, which I do
21:24
wanna pause and say like, that is a
21:26
little concerning to me that you read something that, affected
21:29
you so badly that you couldn't sleep for
21:31
months. I do think, again, we
21:33
always sign the show, we're not therapists, we're
21:35
not mental health professionals. If you're experiencing something
21:37
that intensely, something else is going on, like
21:40
you've got a, you probably should talk to someone, figure something
21:42
out like that is, I would say
21:44
an unusually intense reaction to something in a
21:47
book. Yeah. But I do wanna say,
21:49
it's not fucking worth it. Yeah, that's
21:51
right. I feel like like that
21:53
too. It's not fucking worth it. Months of
21:55
not sleeping? It's not, it's not gonna
21:57
be worth it. Go to sleep. that
22:01
you need to read a horror book. I think
22:04
if you see a book that sounds good
22:06
to you but it has something in there that
22:08
is concerning to you, find a book that
22:10
is on a similar subject or has the
22:12
same trope that is not as intense,
22:14
doesn't have the same content warnings, you know almost
22:16
every book we talk about has a book that
22:19
we can recommend that's kind of like it. That's
22:21
what art is like and I guarantee
22:23
you that you will be if there's a horror book
22:26
or I'll just say it because this book I
22:28
think won the national book award or a Pulitzer
22:30
prize or something so it doesn't if
22:32
I say that I didn't like it it's not going to affect it but
22:34
The Rabbit Hutch was a book
22:36
that came out I think it was last year
22:38
the year before it's all about sexual assault but
22:41
I wanted to read it because I like stories
22:43
that are about like one apartment building and it's
22:45
basically about how this one assault affects all these
22:47
people and like all these people in this apartment
22:49
building the bar they call it The Rabbit Hutch
22:51
but the opening chapter is about what all these
22:54
other people in the room in the building were
22:56
doing while this woman was getting assaulted and I
22:58
was like you know what there's a bunch of
23:00
other books that that are about a bunch
23:02
of people living in an apartment building and
23:04
don't involve this so I'll just read
23:06
that you know there's just so many books out
23:09
there you know don't let the buzz from a
23:11
book pressure you into a bad reading experience just
23:13
because it sounds really good just
23:15
because it's a bunch of people are reading it
23:17
just because it's buzzy but you're like this thing
23:19
really bothers me like folks you there
23:22
are other books out there like that like
23:24
you don't have to read it but like there's
23:26
very simple solutions like you aren't stuck it's not
23:28
like all right well this is the only this
23:30
book is really buzzy and it looks good this
23:32
is the only book I can read now there's
23:35
so many other books like just find something else
23:37
that's similar you know don't put yourself through
23:40
something just to participate
23:42
in some buzz don't do it
23:44
yeah so you can send your
23:46
thoughts to reading glasses podcast@gmail.com before we talk
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to solve a bookish problem from one of our
26:30
listeners Heidi wrote in I'm curious
26:32
about bookish subscription boxes I work at a
26:34
bookstore and I have a hard time paying
26:36
full price for books that I can get
26:38
with my hefty discount our bookish
26:40
subscription boxes with all the extras really worth
26:43
the expense is this a good way to
26:45
get signed or special editions am
26:47
I going to end up with a bunch of
26:49
crappy stickers and tchotchkes that I don't really want
26:51
or use how do you find the right subscription
26:53
box for you as a reader Rhea
26:56
what do you think well
26:58
I don't have a subscription box because a I'm an
27:00
e-reader and that would doesn't really
27:02
make sense and be I like to pick my own books
27:04
I really like it I really look forward
27:07
to picking my books every week I
27:09
think these are great if you don't like picking your books or
27:11
want a limited selection of books to pick from like book of
27:13
the month or something like that I looked
27:15
at Nightworms which you had talked about and
27:17
I think it's cool they promote horror
27:20
books I couldn't find on their site if you could
27:22
cancel at any time or worry
27:24
me nothing's worse than a website that makes it
27:26
hard for you to cancel something you know or
27:28
tell me what the cost is like you have
27:30
to like sign up for and
27:32
remember yeah I didn't like that so if
27:34
you can cancel at any time I think
27:36
it's worth trying out if you are this
27:39
interested that you wrote into a podcast about
27:41
it I think that's cool but and the
27:43
one like Nightworms specifically they don't send a
27:45
bunch of crappy stickers which you know
27:47
if that's your concern but I gotta tell you something if
27:49
you're most book boxes you're gonna get a bunch of stickers
27:51
I'm gonna get a bunch of stuff that you're gonna eventually
27:53
put right in the trash can or maybe you love it
27:55
and your whole house will be filled with stuff but it
27:58
doesn't sound like it so I don't know I maybe Maybe
28:00
that one's right for you, but maybe you could also email
28:02
them and say, hey, can I cancel in the meantime and
28:04
just try it for a few months? Like, I think that's
28:06
totally worth trying if you're curious about it. But I think
28:08
there's also ones that you can get a more direct answer,
28:10
it seems like, on that question. What do you say for
28:12
Heidi? I think just by
28:15
Heidi saying a bunch of crappy stickers, that
28:17
they're not the intended customer for the kinds
28:19
of stick-up-to-poxes, especially if you've already worked with
28:21
a brand new sticker and shoshkis. Yeah, you
28:24
know, that's right. That's true. These boxes are
28:26
great for people who aren't super familiar with
28:28
the book world and also like getting those
28:30
things. Like, personally, as someone who is
28:32
very intimately familiar with the book world,
28:35
I don't subscribe to those because there's a good chance
28:37
I'm already going to have the book, you know? The
28:39
thing is, I do love stickers. Give me, Heidi, I'll
28:41
take your crappy stickers. I love a sticker. I
28:45
think places like Book of the Month are worth it
28:47
for readers who aren't
28:49
as familiar with the book world. They do love new
28:51
releases. They just want to
28:54
read whatever's buzzy right now, but they don't want
28:56
to pay extra for stickers and tea bags and
28:58
whatever. Like, there are places that are just books,
29:00
which Book of the Month is. I
29:03
canceled my Book of the Month subscription way back in 2017 because
29:06
I found that I wasn't reading the books that I was
29:09
getting. Because, I mean, it comes once a month, but if
29:11
you're already reading a lot of other books, it does pile
29:13
up quickly. And I remember I looked at my shelf and
29:15
I was like, I haven't read the last four of these.
29:18
And like, I'm happy I have them, but I just I don't
29:20
think I need them right now. For
29:23
Heidi, I think the only type of box that
29:25
would be worth it for them would be like
29:27
a Luma Crate or something, which there are these
29:29
subscription boxes that have or basically only special editions
29:32
that you can't get anywhere else. You can't get
29:34
it in a bookstore. You know, you get a
29:36
different cover. You get you get little extras in
29:38
the back of the book. Like if you are
29:41
someone who likes special editions, I think those are
29:43
worth it. That is, again, if you're someone who
29:45
wants to collect those, you want something special. Overall,
29:48
I think book boxes and book subscriptions are
29:50
great. It just depends on the type of reader that you
29:52
are. If you don't buy a lot of
29:54
books and you find yourself, you know, you're
29:57
always looking for new recommendations. Recommendations
29:59
aren't. naturally coming into your life all
30:01
the time. You know, you don't know a lot
30:04
of bookish people, you don't follow a lot of
30:06
bookish stuff on Instagram, you're not like me and
30:08
Bria and are getting sent books constantly. They're amazing
30:10
because then you get the, a
30:12
bunch of, you get to choose from or sent
30:15
a buzzy new book every month. That's
30:17
perfect. But if you're like me and you are,
30:20
you do have a constant stream of books flowing
30:22
into your home and into your phone and into
30:24
your social media, I
30:26
personally think they tend to pile up. So
30:28
I think you need to assess your reader
30:30
situation and what you want or not want
30:32
out of a subscription. For Heidi, again,
30:35
I think the only ones that are gonna be worth it are
30:37
the special edition ones, like Illumicrate. I don't think any of
30:39
the other ones. Again, you work at a bookstore.
30:42
So you'd be paying full price for
30:44
a book that you could get for cheap. Mallory
30:47
doesn't understand this bookstore, why
30:49
you would do something when you can get it
30:51
for cheaper. This Illumicrate thing is pretty cool. I'm
30:53
looking at it right now. There's a few, the
30:55
Owlcrate I think is one, Fairy Loot. But
30:59
I think, again, you just have to assess
31:01
your own reader situation, what you're looking for out
31:03
of new books and out of books coming into
31:05
your life and go from there. So
31:07
if you want us to solve your reader problem, you
31:10
can send it to readingglassespodcasts@gmail.com. Now
31:16
let's answer a recommendation request from Dan. Dan says,
31:18
dear Bree and Mallory, I just wanted to take
31:20
a moment to say thank you for your wonderful
31:23
podcast. It's definitely a high point for me every
31:25
Thursday and it's helped me recommit to my reading
31:27
goals and to find new books. I
31:29
first discovered it back in October last year doing a
31:32
long drive for work and I think I listened to
31:34
10 episodes on just that one day. Wow, that's awesome.
31:36
Reading has meant the world to me, especially recently as
31:38
I've been going through a painful divorce. I
31:41
read a wide range of genres, but I'm
31:43
currently looking for a noir with a strong
31:45
sci-fi element. Any recommendations you have in that
31:47
regard would be really appreciated. Bree,
31:49
what do you think Dan should read? This may
31:52
be the most obvious recommendation in the world, Dan,
31:54
and if you've already read it, I'm sorry, but
31:56
it's Titanium Noir by Nick Harkaway. It's
31:58
literally a sci-fi noir. the word noir in
32:00
the title. It's about a detective working a case
32:03
I've talked about on the show. Maybe
32:05
it was on my best of what's it? I can't
32:07
remember. Maybe. It's about a detective
32:09
working a case that might take him
32:11
down, you know, because it's a noir. He's
32:13
looking to the death of a titan, which are
32:15
these people who have genetically altered themselves that
32:17
they live extra long lives. But in doing so,
32:20
they keep growing really tall. I don't know.
32:22
Every time they extend their lives, they have a
32:24
growth spurt. And so they end up being
32:26
like seven feet tall, eight feet tall, and they
32:28
become these people called Titans. And it's only
32:31
for the super rich. So they investigate this world
32:33
of this rich, elite people who also have like
32:35
strange genetic choices where they've chosen to be these
32:37
very old, very tall people who live like multiple
32:40
lives. It's really great. It's interesting. And it definitely
32:42
follows that noir kind of detective world with a
32:44
great sci fi element. What do you got? I'm
32:46
really pumped because I haven't got to talk about
32:48
this book on the show for a while. I
32:50
did recommend it a bunch during the drive. But
32:53
this is a book by an author that we
32:55
both love. It's called This Body Isn't Big Enough
32:57
for the Both of Us by Edgar Contaro. Edgar
32:59
Contaro is just such an awesome author. This
33:01
book is so buck wild. It is
33:03
about these twin detectives, their brother and
33:05
a sister, they run their own detective
33:07
agency and their polar opposites. He is
33:09
meticulous and organized. He's all logic. And
33:11
she is an alcoholic addict, who is
33:13
a creative genius. And the two of
33:15
them together, when they can get along
33:17
are incredible at solving crimes. But the
33:19
big problem is they share one body.
33:22
They and they kind of wrestle for control over
33:24
the body at all times. And so that's like
33:26
the sci fi element of it. And they get
33:28
hired to solve this murder and they end up
33:30
getting sucked into this gang war in Southern California.
33:32
And there's all this stuff like
33:34
it's them getting sucked into this sort of
33:37
like triggers all this other stuff happening. The
33:39
new war part is super fun. You got
33:41
Edgar Contaro loves to play with tropes. So
33:43
you've got like the sexy dames and like
33:45
the tough guys that they've got to beat
33:47
up. But you know, it's super funny. It's
33:49
action packed. And then there's like, again, this
33:51
fun sci fi element of them sharing one
33:53
body fighting over control of the body like he
33:55
loves when she gets drunk enough to the point
33:57
where she passes out because then he gets to run the
33:59
body. while she's asleep. It's
34:02
so fun. It's a blast. So that's called
34:04
This Body Isn't Big Enough for the Both
34:06
of Us by Edgar Cantero. And My Titanium
34:08
Noir by Nick Harkaway. If
34:14
you want us to answer your recommendation request you
34:16
can send it to Reading Glasses Podcast@gmail.com. As always,
34:19
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