Often in life you find yourself in a loop. It's filled with the same toxic relationships, same toxic connections, and the same toxic feelings. So, when are you going to make the change? When are you going to put yourself first? In today's episode we talk about all of the scenarios and steps that play out in becoming your own self advocate and what's needed to become a good selfish that looks for the positives in ones own future — rather the toxic becomings of somebody else. Also, if your into Hot Dogs, Office references, and Bethany's ego –– this episode is perfect for you.