Seventeen years ago, the fabric of our marriage was torn by an act of infidelity. Through this podcast, we share the intimate and often unspoken journey of rekindling the sexual and emotional connection that was threatened by this betrayal. We

EP9 - Keeping your circle tight: We brought too many friends and family into our marriage. Its really none of their business

Feb 17th, 2024 22m 51s

In this episode we talk about how we allowed our circle to be to big. Letting in to many friends and family. We learned quickly the importance of keeping that circle tight with friends and family that you know you can trust.The ones that were t

Ignite Your Marriage 10 Day Challenge: Games, Romance, love and some laughs (link in the show notes) Plus a FREE giveaway!

Feb 12th, 2024 11m 44s

This is the 10 Challenge that has changed marriages! One of our favorite things to do together with our Remix Your Marriage community!10 Days of fun things to do together, for each other to Reignite the flames or to add fire to the flames that

EP8 - The beginning of a new Marriage: Reconnecting, communicating, setting boundaries and having fun again

Feb 7th, 2024 31m 51s

In this episode we talk about reconnecting and trust-building after infidelity, where we don't just share our story, but also the essential steps we took to revive the love that once seemed lost. It's an intimate look at the shifts we endured

EP7 - Joy and Pain: The steps we took to move forward. It was messy, we fought, loved, hated and learned how to reconnect

Jan 30th, 2024 37m 31s

We really did not like each other a lot during this process. I (Lyndan) had no right to be angry or mean which made me just want to give up. I am not the victim and I was struggling not to be the coward and run away!Vanessa struggled with feeli

EP6 - The death of a marriage (part 2): As Vanessa deals with the pain of infidelity and her own insecurities, she begins to seek validation from other men

Jan 23rd, 2024 34m 36s

In this episode Vanessa shares her feelings of being lost and feeling like she had nothing. Feeling like she was just a mom and Lyndan's wife. As she is trying to heal she begins to seek validation from other men. This only causes things to get

EP5 - The death of a marriage (part 1): Lyndan's horrible secret is found out by his Pastor. He is forced to tell Vanessa the truth.

Jan 17th, 2024 38m 26s

As we, Lyndan and Vanessa, lay bare the rawest edges of our marriage, we confront the shadows of infidelity and the long, often bumpy road to healing. Our heartfelt discussion offers a glimpse into the emotional aftermath that followed my (Lynd

EP4 - Our Marriage Expectations verses reality. This almost destroyed us.

Jan 9th, 2024 34m 42s

In this episode Lyndan and Vanessa discuss the unreasonable expectations they had for one another when they first got married. Lyndan expected non stop passion in the bedroom, Vanessa expect a church going husband who prayed for strangers! Wit

EP3 - A Teenage Love: Fights, break-ups and heartbreak, we brought all of that junk into our Marriage

Dec 12th, 2023 45m 18s

As you learn more about our back story you will understand why we made so many bad decisions as teenagers that we carried into our marriage. In this episode we talk about the beginning of our relationship, the toxicity, drug use and an unexpect

EP2 - The Quiet Room, it was mental torture for kids: Lyndan's Story

Dec 4th, 2023 40m 23s

Ever wondered how childhood experiences can shape your relationships and self-perception? Get ready to be part of an enriching conversation, as we, Vanessa and Lyndan, uncover the profound impact of childhood trauma, exploring deep-rooted stori

EP1 - Brown Skin Girl, Vanessa's Story

Nov 26th, 2023 33m 31s

On today's first episode, Vanessa shares part of her childhood story . The pain of growing up with parents that fought daily, losing her father at 13 and how that effected her teenage years. Please Subscribe! I know we are the first Podcast h

Remix Your Marriage: Who the heck are we?

Nov 26th, 2023 5m 32s

Have you ever felt like you were just "playing house" in your marriage? Like you were fumbling in the dark, trying to figure out what it meant to be a spouse, a parent, and an adult all at the same time? That's where we, Lyndan and Vanessa, fou

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