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it might have bought whole for reporting my car

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missing after my husband took it to attend

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his brother's wedding my husband

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is thirty five doesn't have a car

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he sold his car to help pay for his brother's

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wedding i didn't agree on this

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but he had this car before we got together

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so it's not shared property besides

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i have my own car so that didn't affect

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me until my husband started complaining

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about having to commute to work and hang out

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places he tried to get me to let

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him drive my car several times but

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i stood firm and established a boundary

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that he would never be able to drive my

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car one of the reasons why

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is because of how bad his driving

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his his brother lives at town

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my husband as if you could drive my car to

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the wedding but i refused

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not because i'm not invited but because

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like i said my car is off limits

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he threw a fit calling me unreasonable

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to let him take public transportation because

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he can barely stand it for ten minutes

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let alone hours i said

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that wasn't my problem woods irritated

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him but made him stop arguing about it

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today that he was supposed travel out town

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i woke up ten am and i

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couldn't find my car key i went

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outside and couldn't find my car

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either i was beyond

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pissed i call them and

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like i expected he took

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my car and was on his way to the the

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town i lost it and

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told them that i did not given permission

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to take my car for five whole

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days and i said that if he doesn't

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turn around with an income home then i

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would call the cops and reported missing

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his response was you wouldn't

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dare do it because you know

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what would happen i hung up on him

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and immediately called the police

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and told them about my situation i

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didn't tell the my husband target because

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they would think it's family dispute and decide

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to not get involved i just reported

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it missing two hours later

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i got call from my husband saying that was

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back in town and was being held our local

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police station i went to the station

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talk to the cops my husband

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made seen their swearing over

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and over that i gave him permission to take

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it and he said that i was acting out of jealousy

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and spied because he was going to attend

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wedding that i wasn't invited to

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i took my car and went home but

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he had stay a little longer he

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came home in the evening and when into

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a rage about how i created an

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awful situation and almost caused

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him to mrs brother's wedding she

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told me vindictive peter

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and a lunatic to call the police on him

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and try to accuse him of stealing my

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car he had to leave the same

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day to be able to be there with his family

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and decided to extend his stay

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hands he still hasn't gotten back yes

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right now his mom and brother

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are blasting me for what happened

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and calling me spiteful okay

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i don't really understand what's going on with the story

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but something strange hear your

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husband sold his car

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to pay for his brother's wedding that

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you aren't invited to and install

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your car i almost feel like i'm missing

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important information here because this

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doesn't sound like normal behavior but

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basing the story off of what just read

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here i'm giving use your out of five bottles

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i mean yeah calling the cops

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is a bit extreme abide so

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is stealing someone's car like

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of i can't the guy just taken over what's

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the big deal why is a you're responsible

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the to cover for his mistakes

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anyways opie you get zero out of by bottles

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your husband gets three point five at five

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bottles my the but whole

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for leaving my best friend and his friends

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stranded in an unfamiliar city so

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for background my best friend

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has gotten into going to the spartan races

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and for clarity spartan races is

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kind of like like that ninja warrior

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thing we run there like obstacle courses

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and it's like a really intense fitness type thing

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he in a small group of his friends had started

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going to local ones but recently

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heard about one in another state they wanted to

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go and compete in but they didn't have

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anywhere stay so they asked

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me they could borrow my truck and trailer for the weekends

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i have tow behind camper i said

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no i wasn't comfortable with him

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taking my truck and trailer but i

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would drive them in the camp to their events we

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made three hour trip and we set

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everything up in the area where the race was taking

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place and next day i have a habit

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of leaving my keys on a hook next the bedroom

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door my camper remember this

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com nightfall i went to take a phone

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call outside and i ended up

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wandering around grounds for over an hour

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when i got back to the camper the door

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was locked and i was told by

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my best friends older friend through the window

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that there wasn't enough room for me

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in my trailer so

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i reach for my keys to unlock the door

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but i realize i left him inside

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the camp or on the hook in my room so

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i called my best friend from outside

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and all i was told was sorry

5:29

bro nothing i can do so

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i ended up sleeping in my truck that

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night words i had fortunately

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left unlocked by accidents their

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race began at eight am and

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at seven and they came meandering

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out of my trailer and woke me up no

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apology by the way so

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while they were racing i hope my truck

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back up to their trailer and waited until

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just after they finish and started

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walking back to the trailer imagine

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them walking across a really wide

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open fields when i saw them

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com mean i started truck and drove

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off the property with them chasing behind

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me i made three hour tour back home

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declining call after call

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when i finally got home i took my

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best friends call she started yelling

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at me saying why would you do

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this we have no way home now

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i just said i'm sorry he shouldn't

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have made me sleep the truck after i did you

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the solid he told me there are better

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ways to handle this and by leaving them

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in an unfamiliar city with no way home

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i think he ended up calling his dad

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to come and get them is he right

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was there a better way to handle this i

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felt justified until he said that

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i'm kind of doubting my decision now

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a my the bottle down in the comments

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we have this post from sad weird not

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the bottle their spartan warriors

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right they should run home

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yeah i agree o p you did nothing

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wrong here and they basically stole your

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trailer your own damn

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trailer that you paid for and are acting like

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they own it's opie you get zero

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am

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I the butthole for begging my daughter?

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Not to have any more children? I'm a 58

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year-old woman. My husband Rob and

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I have two kids. Erica who's 35

8:11

and Mike to start a both

8:13

of my kids are married but are and

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her husband steve live close to us

8:17

and this issue concerns them they

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work full time have two kids

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a five year old boy and a four year old girl

8:24

five years ago my daughter as

8:26

my husband and me if we would be willing to

8:28

become their full time childcare said

8:30

they could continue to work and afford their comfortable

8:32

life we agreed but

8:34

we didn't discuss much more than watching

8:36

the baby and their expectations i

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was a teacher and i retired two

8:41

years before i could make my pension so

8:43

my husband continue to work and we

8:45

made few sacrifices like vacations

8:48

and adding to our savings but

8:50

we were able to make it work so i

8:52

could take my full pension fifty five and

8:54

my husband retired year later our

8:56

arrangement worked fine and we enjoyed having

8:58

the kids however by

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year three which was twenty twenty

9:02

we started feel like they were taking advantage

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of our help in twenty twenty

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during the lock down at they were both

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working from home and they expected

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us to keep the kids all day and

9:13

we wanted to split time with them because

9:15

they're preschools last day care was closed

9:18

we settled on today's with them and three

9:20

days with us and my son

9:22

in law complained about it pretty much every

9:24

day things got better when the kids

9:26

were able to go school fast forward

9:28

to year for which was funny twenty

9:30

one and we had a bit of a blow

9:33

up over kindergarten my daughter

9:35

didn't want her five year old son to start school

9:37

but i said that had to go because

9:39

i needed break i also

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ask for my four year old granddaughter to spend

9:44

more time at daycare program my

9:46

son in law complained about cost

9:48

but i pushed anyway they

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relented and then this

9:52

past spring my son in law push

9:54

for us to take the kids for a week so they could go

9:56

on vacation we said they had

9:58

to take the kids the my son in

10:00

law said they couldn't afford it so

10:02

no one went on vacation so

10:05

anyways my daughter and i were casually

10:07

having a conversation other day and

10:09

she mentioned she had an ob do i an appointment

10:11

and tests i asked if everything was

10:13

okay and see said that

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stephen her we're trying for baby number

10:17

three i asked her what her child

10:19

care plan was and see looked

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at me like i was crazy and said

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you i said that would have

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been nice if she told me this both for

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trying for another baby but see

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said that it was none of my business i

10:32

said if i'm providing five more years

10:34

of babysitting done it sure is i

10:36

then told her that we were not a

10:38

viable child care option for a new baby

10:40

and we begged her to reconsider

10:43

our grand daughter is going off to kindergarten

10:45

and we feel like we're finally getting

10:47

our days back to some extent and

10:49

we refused start all over again

10:51

with an infant's eric has said they

10:53

were making her choose between her dream has three

10:56

kids and financial stability i

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argue that she has two beautiful children

11:00

and they are financially stable

11:03

they shouldn't ruin that with another baby

11:05

i might be the butt hole because erica

11:07

feels like we should have told her sooner i

11:10

feel like i'm not because i never

11:12

agreed to lifetime of raising their kids

11:14

o p your daughter and son in law

11:17

are being super selfish a

11:19

really summed up the entire argument when

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she was upset because you were making

11:23

your choose between her dream of three kids

11:25

or financial stability but like

11:27

yeah that's her decision to

11:29

make not yours what about

11:32

your in your husband's dream of retiring

11:34

and relaxing after a lifetime

11:36

of works opie you get zero out

11:38

five bottles your daughter and

11:40

son in law get two point five out five

11:42

bottles am i the but whole

11:44

for not sharing any family news with my

11:46

son growing up because he would tell my

11:48

ex everything resulting in legal issues

11:51

my son grew up living with both my ex

11:53

wife and myself my ex

11:55

is extremely high conflict

11:57

and to to her job as lawyer see

11:59

use courts to inflict as much

12:01

damage on my life as she could which

12:04

i never did understand because see

12:06

one of the divorce and claimed to have lost

12:08

feelings for me so naturally

12:11

i avoid sharing any details were

12:13

there and i usually gave one

12:15

word tax replies for things involving our son

12:17

this worked until my son turned eleven

12:19

and i found out that my son was telling

12:22

my ex everything that he was hearing our

12:24

home even recording videos

12:26

and sending them to her this continued

12:28

even after therapy with my son

12:30

and explaining to him how damaging

12:32

over sharing was after

12:34

wasting sounds of dollars over

12:37

pointless legal fight that was started purely

12:39

because of my son spying my

12:41

new wife and i made the decision to no

12:43

longer share any information with my son

12:45

that could potentially cause issues the

12:48

family therapist suggested this approach

12:50

and unfortunately this

12:53

means that we keep any news about promotions

12:55

vacation plans and extended

12:57

family issues from my son my

12:59

son only found out about family

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trips while he was on the way to

13:04

go to them this continues until my

13:06

son turned nineteen and my axe remarried

13:08

of removing me from her focus my

13:10

son is now twenty and he

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found out that we purposely did

13:14

this for most of his childhood and

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he's furious he says that

13:19

we treated him like an outsider i

13:21

apologize profusely as did

13:23

my wife the tried to explain

13:25

why we did this but he's refusing

13:27

give me a chance to resolve this she's

13:30

gone on this tirades my parents and

13:32

siblings and called me a negligent parents

13:34

she also told my axe and

13:37

now my ex is suing me for something

13:39

completely unrelated that has no standing

13:42

but i'll be wasting thousands dollars

13:44

on lawyers anyway which is what she

13:46

wants am i the bought whole

13:48

okay so your son invaded your privacy

13:51

and then you protect yourself from your son

13:53

invading your privacy and then he gets

13:55

mad at that's okay it

13:57

sounds like your son takes after his

13:59

mother okay you get zero out

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five potholes your son gets

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two point five edify but holes and

14:05

your ex wife gets four point by about

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five but holes move on lady

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am i the but whole for tricking my in-laws

14:13

into trying my food this isn't

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necessarily my proudest moment

14:17

but i'm tired of being the outcast

14:20

i'm a thirty two year old woman and

14:22

my husband pete comes from

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a family where all the women are bakers

14:27

i'm a baker myself and i used

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to sell things out my house under the state's

14:31

cottage laws but i stopped because

14:33

i like to just being hobby his sister-in-law

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k is known for her cupcakes

14:38

and cake pops when i first met

14:40

every one years ago this was the

14:42

first thing that i learned everyone

14:44

talked about everything that she made

14:47

even when pete mentioned how good my stuff

14:49

was everyone would say that case cells

14:51

hers and they're popular so they must

14:53

be better whenever i bring treats

14:56

they are often left untouched because

14:58

they're not ks yes

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i've been told that they asked

15:02

me to bring something every get together

15:04

and they never touch it's to

15:06

be clear k is mainly a baker

15:09

whereas i bake and specialize in professionally

15:11

decorated cakes case as

15:13

that overly decorated cakes or compensating

15:15

for their bad taste and pizza

15:18

family agrees we had a barbecue

15:20

on monday for memorial day and everybody

15:22

brought their treats k decided

15:24

to bring cake pops she posted

15:27

them on her instagram the night before

15:29

and i know this is immature but

15:31

i made the exact same one that

15:33

she did same flavor and design

15:36

we got there and everyone asked for my

15:38

treats where i said there in the car i'll

15:40

get them in a minutes so i

15:42

waited for everyone to be outside

15:44

then i brought in my cake pops

15:46

and put them next to case after

15:48

we eat i noticed the family eating

15:50

my cake pops and not case

15:53

k didn't notice it first and then asked

15:55

if they just weren't feeling in the mood for cake pops

15:57

they said they just ate them and that they

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were the best cake pops he ever made

16:02

and they asked her what she did differently

16:04

my mother in law even said that

16:06

they looked so much better in person

16:08

than in the picture he was confused

16:11

and said that hurt cake pops we're still on the

16:13

table that's when i said oh

16:15

i brought those i'm glad you enjoyed

16:17

them case has been said that he hadn't

16:19

had one yet which was a lie

16:21

he a to and everyone else

16:23

to said yeah they were okay

16:26

fine k didn't say anything the rest

16:28

of night's p thought that it was funny

16:30

but his brother says husband

16:33

said yesterday that what i did was mean

16:35

and i'm just mad that case better

16:37

baker by pete said that it's

16:39

ridiculous that family including

16:41

k puts down my baking when they

16:43

won't even try it all because i'm not k

16:45

m either but whole okay two

16:48

things are clear here one you're

16:50

not the bottle to pieds

16:52

family is just sock full of

16:54

potholes like why did they just arbitrarily

16:57

decide that you're bad of but

16:59

t as good like as are some ulterior

17:01

motive here either way opie i'm

17:03

giving use your out of five bottles i'm giving

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literally everyone else to add

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five bottles that includes your husband

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because even though he defended you at the

17:12

end there he's been allowing his family

17:14

to essential he makes fun of you this

17:16

entire time which is not cool

17:19

that was are slashing my the but whole and

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