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217. BTS: Is there a right and wrong way to encourage independent play?

217. BTS: Is there a right and wrong way to encourage independent play?

Released Thursday, 4th July 2024
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217. BTS: Is there a right and wrong way to encourage independent play?

217. BTS: Is there a right and wrong way to encourage independent play?

217. BTS: Is there a right and wrong way to encourage independent play?

217. BTS: Is there a right and wrong way to encourage independent play?

Thursday, 4th July 2024
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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...

 

 

3:23 - The developmental appropriateness of independent play - it might not last as long as our culture might lead you to believe it should.

 

4:25 - To foster independence, you might have to first allow your child to be dependent on you. (And the psychology of how and why this actually works!)

 

7:05 - The difference between independent play versus "why can't they play quietly so I can take a phone call?"

 

10:12 - In our culture, we're often taught that we should always be engaging, stimulating, and entertaining our kids to help them reach their full potential.

 

11:40 - When we say "play" what we really mean is exploration and engagement and by understanding this, it shifts what we think our role is in this interaction.

 

12:30 - How to foster independent play with older kids if you didn't start building this skill from a young age.

 

 

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT PLAY?

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode with The Workspace for Children's Lizzie Assa

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode with Jennie Monness

🎧 Listen to our BTS discussion about enrichment classes and brain development

 

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT RIE (RESOURCES FOR INFANT EDUCARERS)?

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about using RIE with babies with Deborah Carlisle Solomon

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about evolving RIE into respectful parenting with Janet Lansbury

 

 

✨We want to hear from you! Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions! ✨

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Securely Attached

Securely Attached is your go-to parenting podcast, supporting moms and dads from pregnancy all the way through their child's adolescence and every stage in between.Join us every Tuesday as clinical psychologist and mom of two Dr. Sarah Bren shares her expertise and interviews top experts in the field, simplifying complicated concepts and pulling back the curtain on the brain science and psychology that drives and shapes the parent-child relationship. And now, every Thursday, Dr. Sarah Bren is joined by Dr. Emily Upshur and Dr. Rebecca Hershberg for a special segment, Beyond The Sessions. We’re answering YOUR parenting questions from the perspective of clinical psychologists highly trained in developmental science and real-life moms who get that parenting is messy, and sometimes we have to laugh, cry, and throw out the “rules.”From toddler tantrums, to effective discipline strategies, to leaning into the principles of respectful parenting, and to managing your own mental wellness as a parent—this podcast is your ultimate resource for judgment-free, research-backed information you know you can trust.About Sarah Bren, PhDDr. Sarah Bren is a licensed clinical psychologist and mom of two who helps parents understand the building blocks of child development and how secure relationships form and thrive. Her work is focused on helping parents find their inner confidence so they can respond to any parenting problem that comes along and raise kids who are healthy, resilient, and kind.

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