Watch Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy's season finale to learn about LuzCelenia and Stefane's beginner kink journey including some of the most commonly asked questions for those interested in starting their kink journey.Support the showSign

What Do You Know About Kink?

May 17th, 2023 20m 3s

Welcome Back to Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy podcast where LuzCelenia and Stefane talk all things sex and sensuality for the currently churched, the formerly churched, and the over-churched. This week we're revisiting kink and covering so

Is Masturbation Really a Sin? Part 2

May 10th, 2023 31m 44s

Host, LuzCelenia, and Stef continue the conversation on masturbation discussing the benefits of the practice and debunking some of the myths about it as well. Stay till the end for a sensual mindful moment and preview of a self-pleasure guided

Is Masturbation Really a Sin?

May 3rd, 2023 21m 43s

Join us in this episode as we dive deep into the taboo topic of masturbation and explore the long-standing myth that it is a sin. Our experts separate fact from fiction and provide evidence-based insights on the physical, emotional, and mental

Freaknik, Churchnik & Mama's Boys

Apr 26th, 2023 28m 40s

Welcome to "Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy," the podcast where we explore topics related to sex, love, and relationships in the context of faith and spirituality. In this episode, we will be discussing some recent headlines that have caught

Carnal Conundrum: The Weak Flesh Debate

Apr 19th, 2023 38m 18s

Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we delve into the intriguing topic of Matthew 26:41 and its interpretation regarding sexual temptation. Does the phrase "the flesh is weak" refer to abstaining from sex, or does it have a deeper mean

Better to Marry than to Burn Part 2

Apr 12th, 2023 39m 41s

Continuing the conversation from last week, we continue to delve into the often-misunderstood phrase from the New Testament, "It's better to marry than to burn." Our host LuzCelenia shares a personal story about a church leader who used this ph

Better to Marry than to Burn

Apr 5th, 2023 26m 24s

In this episode of Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy, we delve into the often-misunderstood phrase from the New Testament, "It's better to marry than to burn." While this verse has been used to promote abstinence and chastity, it's also been t

Money, Power, Respect

Mar 22nd, 2023 36m 41s

Power dynamics are present in every relationship, and romantic relationships are no exception. In fact, power struggles can often arise in intimate relationships, as each partner tries to negotiate their needs and desires. But what exactly is p

Unrealistic Expectations

Mar 15th, 2023 31m 32s

Welcome to episode 11 of Sex and Sensuality for the Churchy, where we’ll be discussing unrealistic expectations in relationships and the dangers they can bring.Many people enter into relationships with certain expectations, whether it be about

Do You Believe in Soul Ties?

Mar 8th, 2023 39m 23s

In this episode, we dive into the controversial topic of soul ties - the idea that when we have sexual or emotional intimacy with someone, we create a spiritual connection that can be impossible to break. Some people believe that soul ties can

Why We Heal

Mar 1st, 2023 24m 10s

In this podcast episode, we explore the topic of emotional healing in romantic relationships and why it is important for our well-being. We delve into the various reasons why people may need to heal emotionally, including trauma, past experienc

Holy Sex vs Unholy Sex Part 2

Feb 22nd, 2023 15s

Part 2 of What makes sex holy or sacred? Is it marriage? Is it sacrilegious to consider yourself favored by God when engaging in sexual activity? How do you make or keep the sanctity of sex? Let's talk about it.Support the showSign up for the h

Unholy Sex vs Holy Sex

Feb 15th, 2023 25m 8s

What makes sex holy or sacred? Is it marriage? Is it sacrilegious to consider yourself favored by God when engaging in sexual activity? Join hosts, LuzCelenia and Stef for part 1 of this conversation and stay tuned for part 2 next week!Support

Follow Your Gut

Feb 8th, 2023 53m 43s

In this episode, we'll explore how to tap into your intuition and trust the guidance it provides. We'll look at how our host, LuzCelenia used her intuition, sensual practice, and practical experience to execute her 40th birthday party. Head ove

Sex Education

Feb 1st, 2023 54m 46s

When and how did you learn about sex? Stef and LuzCelenia share their stories of sex education.Support the showSign up for the host, LuzCelenia's mailing list HERECLICK HERE to join our PRIVATE FB Community, Sex and Sensuality for the ChurchyWa

Martyrdom is NOT a Love Language

Jan 25th, 2023 39m 41s

Are you familiar with the scripture Mathew 16:24, "Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me"? How was that taught when you heard it? Too often we are told we h

Takers vs Givers in Relationships

Jan 18th, 2023 1h 6m

Stef and LuzCelenia discuss a Twitter thread by @reynasnoriega and dig deeper into why people choose certain relationships but refuse to do the things that would make their partner happy and feel loved. Does it matter if your partner can't give

Is the church misogynistic?

Jan 11th, 2023 53m 45s

LuzCelenia along with the new co-host, Stef, continue the conversation from last week's episode about misogyny in the church and how misogyny has impacted our lives. Theme music: Ashland - Neon (used with permission)Support the showSign up for

New Year, New Beginnings, New Endings

Jan 4th, 2023 49m 14s

Podcast is bizack!!! New episode is LIVE on YouTube, Apple, Spotify and me website… Link in Bio!!LuzCelenia is leaving her church of 18 years and shares with you why.The Sex and Sensuality podcast team is growing and the bane is changing (a lit

Stop Blaming Da'Naih for Derrick Jackson's Behavior

Dec 14th, 2022 34m 31s

We are still blaming women for their abuse and I don't like that!I get that Da'Naiah is not a sympathetic victim, but let me hip you to something...victims aren't perfect and do not/should not have to perform to get your sympathy or empathy.Tod

Why Are Christian Couples Not Having Sex???

Nov 30th, 2022 41m 2s

The average married couple in the United States has sex once a week and Christian couples are having even less than that. In this week's episode, LuzCelenia talks about why Black Christian couples are likely to have less sex, what the benefits

Dealing with Relationship Grief During the Holidays

Nov 23rd, 2022 38m 21s

LuzCelenia gets personal in this episode discussing how she grieved the relationship she thought would be her last one and turned pain into gold. Join LuzCelenia on Wednesday, December 14th in her private Facebook group (link below to join) for

You're Not a Broken Toy: Why we HEAL

Nov 9th, 2022 48m 9s

The narrative that we're broken is old and tired and a lot of the advice given to and from men and women about relationships on the internet and on these red pill podcasts is really just toxic and counterproductive to the goal of experiencing

Kinky Church Girls Part 3

Nov 2nd, 2022 1h 2m

Delayed but not denied...we had some tech issues but we close out Kinktober with our special guest, Dee Rae. She was so gracious to record again to get this much needed conversation about her journey as a church girl into kink and polyamory. Sh