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We're talking at Cheers. And keeping it real. Small
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doses. With me and N. Steelz. So funky.
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Welcome to Small Doses, Side Effects of Deconstructed Karen.
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We're not even going to do a whole, we're
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already in it. So I am here with Syra
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Rao and Regina Jackson and like many folks, I
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became into the tune
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with you all during this pandemic when
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you started doing
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these deconstructing Karen dinners.
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And everybody like saw this clip
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that was floating around where this
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white lady found out in real
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time that just because she
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was sleeping with black men, that
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that didn't mean she couldn't
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be racist against black men. And it was
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like seeing the horror come across her face
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of, I think it was like a
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very palpable and
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like just enjoyable thing for I think a
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lot of us to witness during a very
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dark time. But I wanted to
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just from jump get into like what
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made you all even start this?
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Because to my understanding these were in Canada, right? These
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were not in the States or were they in the
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States? No, they're in the US. Okay.
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They were in the States. Someone told me it
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was Toronto and I was like, I don't know.
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They feel real American white. Yeah. That's
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where the documentary premiered was Canada.
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But we started this because
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Syra ran for office in
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2018 way before George Floyd and white people
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discovered racism. So Syra
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ran against a
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long time democratic Congresswoman and
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her whole platform was anti-racism.
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So every time she would give a
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speech or talk, white women would line
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up around the corner They
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wanted to talk to Syra and what
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they wanted to say was not me.
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I'm not racist. So
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I had a white woman friend in
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the neighborhood who says I'm done with
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Syra. Where is this in America? Denver,
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Colorado. Denver, Colorado. So I go
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to Syra and I said so and so wants to
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meet with you. Syra goes,
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Regina, I'm not doing that anymore. She said,
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I'm paying for breakfast, lunch, dinner, cocktails. I'm
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paying for a babysitter. I'm meeting with all
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these white ladies and they're not going to
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vote for me anyway. She said, but I'll
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tell you what, if your friend wants to
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have a dinner and invite some
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of her white lady friends and you do
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it with me, she said we can do
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that. So we had a couple of those
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and take it from there. I
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mean, her friend, her friend who
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said that Syra hates white people.
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The straw that broke that Karen's
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back was by saying
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that Beto O'Rourke is a white
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savior and if you
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live in Texas, vote for him and
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donate money to him because I
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just did. And so white
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supremacy depends on false binaries. Like it's
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got to be either or. Multiple
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things can be and are true. And
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that was it. So yeah, we, I posted about it
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on Facebook and it went
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viral. The next thing you know, we have hundreds of
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Karens raising their hand. I want to do a dinner.
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I want to do a dinner. Oh wow. Regina came
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up with the title, Race to Dinner. This is in
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February of 2019. And
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Patty Ivanspecht, who is the director of
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Deconstructing Karen reaches out to me over
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DMs and she's like, I've been following
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your congressional race and I've been wanting
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to do a movie about the
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work, but I couldn't figure out a way to ground it.
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And now there are these dinners and Regina and I were
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like, yeah, this white lady in LA is going to actually
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come out to Denver and do a
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movie. There she shows up in the summer
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of 2019 with her whole film
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crew and we shoot the dinner. And
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that's what you see in Deconstructing Karen. And
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the reason it world premiered in Toronto. Is
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that all the American film festivals ran
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for the hills they thought and they're
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like this is too toxic So
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the CBC bought it After
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seeing it hot docks in Toronto aired
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it two days later Jesse Waters on
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Fox News does a full five minute
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Story hit piece of course he's saying
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that running it in Canada is
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the equivalent of Canada declaring war on
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the United States And compared it to
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Pearl Harbor So talk about
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the dummification of people and
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that's like the most watched media outlet
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show in the world And so this is how people
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become this is why we are where we are is
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because of people like Jesse Waters, so My
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question when these people leave these dinners
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is like have you seen any of
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them behave differently after the dinner or?
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Do they just leave in a huff? Well
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that dinner that was on but that
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was videoed a lot of people left
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in a huff Let
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me say that but what we have
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now is we have created a community
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where these women can stay connected to
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Women around the world who have
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done race to dinners, so we
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have a community where they stay
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connected You know we can
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talk about doing the work they can
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bring up issues that they're having they
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can have events in different places and Get
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invitations out to people so we maintain
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a community for those women What
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do they say that oh go ahead? Yeah?
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I would just say though that back
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to what's happening right now and like with guns
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So like the rubber hits the road with
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it's they go on these unlearning journeys or
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these learning journeys for years like when does
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your Journey end when does the bus stop
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on your journey, and you take a pit
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stop to do some shit, right? And that's
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my question Yeah, and so
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I would say honestly like I'm done trying
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to even sugarcoat this in my own mind
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I would say maybe five percent of the people
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Five percent of these white women have gone above and beyond
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because you can talk and you can talk and you can
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talk and you can stay in touch. But like, are
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you showing up for children? And I
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can say no, you're not even showing up for your own
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white children because we had an action in Denver on June
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5th. Thousands of them said they were gonna
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be there. Maybe a thousand
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actually showed up. These women, like
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RSVPs for weddings and go, they,
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I mean, they'll knife fight each other to
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go to a Taylor Swift concert. I
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mean, they'll walk, moonwalk across the Atlantic
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Ocean to go see Taylor Swift, but
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they RSVP to show up for one
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day and sit on a beautiful lawn
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in Denver, Colorado on a beautiful day. And
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they're too crazy busy. They got really caught
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up with their peloton or their
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hike that day. And so in
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the end, honestly, I think that
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white supremacy, capitalism, patriarchy, colonialism, all of
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it has snatched their souls and they don't even
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care about their own kids. They don't even care
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about their own kids. So if you don't care
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about your own kids, how are you gonna care
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about you, Amanda? How are you gonna care about
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you, Regina? How are you gonna care about me,
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Cyra? They don't. I mean, I guess
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my other question becomes, if people don't
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care about kids, like, cause kids has always
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been kind of like the ground like barometer
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thing for everybody, right? Like everybody seems to
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be able to be like kids and dogs.
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We can all get on board about caring
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about the kids and the dogs. And like,
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when we see a man just like shoot
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a dog in Tennessee because the dog came
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too close to him and the cops are
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like, yeah, that's fine. That even
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was like, oh, now we've gone to another level.
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Cause honestly, I feel like they care more about
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the dogs and the kids. And
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once Sandy Hook happened and no
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one like really made enough
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of, like when I say no one, I
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mean not enough of us, right? Because ultimately
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it should have been everybody being
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like, all right, that's it. And it
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was, it really wasn't. I mean, people
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were able to make entire fortunes, Alex
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Jones, off of just
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creating falsehoods about this. And so many
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people were willing to go along with
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it. And now I'm trying to understand
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in this phase that America's moving into,
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you know, you said something just now about like, when do you move
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from learning? to action, right? And
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I feel like I spend so
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much time just trying to educate
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people with the mindset that like,
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if you know enough, it
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will drive you to do. But
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it seems like that's just not necessarily
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the math. And so
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when we are trying to deconstruct
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these Karens, how can we? I
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mean, I don't know that we even at this
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point, I don't
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want to sound defeatist, but like these white
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people are out of their minds who subscribe
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to this type of rhetoric. And
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I feel like they are the kind of
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folks that are there's more
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folks now than ever that feel really
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bold about just saying like,
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yeah, I learned that, but I don't care.
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How do we manage that? You
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know, that's a real loaded question. I
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just feel like I can only
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be responsible for what I do,
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what I believe, what I
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share and what I bring to
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the table. So you don't
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stop. You don't stop. You know,
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as black people, we can't stop.
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We don't have the privilege of saying,
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oh, I'm done. I'm done talking about
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racism. And I love it when white
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people say, you guys
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make everything about race. No, you all
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made everything about race. Yes.
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I mean, I feel like I'm
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seeing more black people than ever
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say, yeah, I'm just, I'm done.
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I'm stopping. And I'm like, you, where did that,
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where did you get this luxury? Yeah. Well,
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those people are going to
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find out that they can't
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stop that you are standing
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up for yourself against
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races. So when do you
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stop standing up for yourself?
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You don't back or,
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or if we're going to be, you
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know, sort of more, at least me, I'm
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just talking for myself, being realistic
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about this moment. In
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some ways, I think we're fighting to be on the right
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side of history at this point. I
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mean, it's watching. All the
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parties, all the politicians, I'm not just talking
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in about the United States. I had a friend
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yesterday text me and she works in human
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rights and she's in Washington right now. And
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she said the thing that is really gutting is
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that it's not just the US. It's country after
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country after country. You've got Rishi
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Sunak, you know, who is
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South Asian. It
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hasn't been awesome for us, you know,
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and now you've got Rishi Sunak out
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there being a whole ass fascist, you
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know. And you've got Nikki Haley here
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and you've got the big Ramaswami and you've got the whole thing.
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Nimorata. I would feel for her Nikki. I'm
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like, your name is Nimrata? Yeah. Yeah.
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Cut it out. And she's a Sikh, you
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know, she's a Sikh. Like the Sikhs have
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been really subjugated. They've been very persecuted. And
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a person she's not. Yeah, she's not talking
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about slavery. There are benefits to slavery. Like
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it is, this is the whole full
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circle. This is the full circle. This
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is white supremacy eating itself. And
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so for me to maintain whatever semblance of mental
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health that I have, and some people argue that
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I don't have much at this point, is
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that we have to pass the
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time. We have to pass the time. We have to get
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through the day. And how are
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we going to pass the time? And for me,
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I can't not speak up. So I will continue
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to speak up because it's the only thing I
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can do. But to be fair to
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the black folks that you're talking about saying that they're done, I
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don't blame them. Yeah. Like
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I don't blame them. I really don't.
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I blame them. It's like I blame
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them. And I'm going to say as
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a black person, an elder who, you
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know, this is our life. When do
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you give up on your life? When
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do you say I'm done? And
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done fighting for the rights
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that everybody has? You don't.
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When we talk about fighting, right? At this
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point, what do you guys feel like are
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the tools that we have to fight with?
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I feel like it's honest
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conversations. You know, keep having
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honest conversations. I believe it's
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like the event. we did, I
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was so excited about the New
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York City Bar Association event
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because there we're starting to
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get into the systems that
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oppress us. The legal
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system is a huge, huge
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oppressor of black people. As a matter
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of fact, you know this Amanda, we talk
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about just us. We say
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justice, just us. So
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that's huge. We just did a
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thing at a public school in Denver,
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getting into the education system. That's
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huge. I would say
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also truly even watching what you're doing,
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watching what a bunch of us are
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doing on, I've never been a big
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proponent of social media, social
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media, but I will say at least right now
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with the massive disinformation happening
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from mainstream media outlets, it
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is quite interesting to be able to
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trust some people to actually speak the
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truth. The disinformation videos that
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you just did earlier today, Amanda,
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I do think that social media
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is serving a purpose now that
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in some ways it matters more than
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ever. So I think that that's an, I really
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believe social media is a tool in many respects
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for good in this moment. Which
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I got to tell you, I never thought I'd say
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that, right? Me neither. Me
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neither. So many times for so many years
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has just been, oh my God,
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I want to get off of this. I want to get off of this.
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I don't even think I realized
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that social media
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or that I was using social media
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as a tool to fight, right?
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Because honestly it started for me as just
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like keeping my sanity by just not keeping
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it in my mind, right? Like, okay, I'm
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going to make a video where I'm instead
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of me like yelling into the ether of
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the black hole of my brain, like, and
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ruminating, I'm just putting it out there. And
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then you start to see people agree,
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right? Or you start to see people say like, I felt
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affirmed. And what you
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realize is that when you start affirming folks,
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they start then getting empowered. And when you start
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empowering folks, you start building community. And when you
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have community, you start building an army. Like it's
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a force, right? So like that's how that works.
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And we've seen that work, you know, in, in, in, we've
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seen that exploited in a bad way, right?
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Like we've seen that with the MAGA, right? Like
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it's the same process. It's
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just in a negative way. Like
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we've seen that with Zionists that support genocide. Like
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that it's the same mindset of like,
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okay, we're going to do this, this, this, this, this, and
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you will feel empowered, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
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And so I feel like, you know, sometimes
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I feel very just kind of defeated. I
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mean, hearing you Cyrus say that, um, really
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right now we're just trying to be on the right side of history. Like it's
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like, is that even enough? You know, but it's like,
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I don't know what else there is. I think it's great
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that you guys are getting into the system. I
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feel like that's where I'm starting to go.
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And I got to tell you, it's gross. Like
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when you start really understanding
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the politics of things. And
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I know, Syra, you and I, we do see eye
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to eye on this, even if you think we don't.
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These folks are within
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government. Republicans and Democrats are
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all cut from the same cloth in
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the sense that majority of them are
15:22
cut from a politician cloth. Right.
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And so you have to be a certain kind of
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person to come into this thing as like, I'm a
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politician, but then there's like layers on it. Right. Cause
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then then you have people who it's like, I
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just an opportunist and that's its own type of
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whackness. But then it's like, not only I'm an
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opportunist, I'm an opportunist white nationalist.
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And you're like, Oh, you added some,
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you sprinkled some mayonnaise on that. Look
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at that. Then you add on top
15:47
of it, like I'm also a misogynist.
15:49
And this is like, Oh my gosh.
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Like, so even the ground floor was
15:53
trash, which is a lot of folks, both
15:55
Democrats and Republican. And then it just gets layered and
15:57
layered and layered and layered. And
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I'm rambling now because
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I have monopolized this interview. But
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I know I'm going to tell like
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screaming in frustration at how
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do I encourage, how do
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I keep us encouraged? How do you all
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say, let me, let me say something. And
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I think this is important. I pulled some
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stats from the Pew report the other day,
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and it was about
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how people voted by
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race, by age
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group, by different
16:30
categories. I'll tell you,
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not 1% of
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black women voted for Donald Trump.
16:38
Not 1%. Okay. So
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the Cape is all in line. No, we
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know. And
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people need to, you hear all the
16:48
time, listen to black women. As
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Trevor Noah said, they
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don't have the
16:55
capacity to fuck around and
16:57
find out. Right. Right.
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That's right. And you know, what's interesting about that Pew thing,
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because you sent it to me, Regina, is
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you know, who never gets included in
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those stats is Asians.
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And so I'm why is that? Because
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we're a race. I mean, like, I'm having a
17:15
whole new awareness around
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and we have enough numbers now that we should not
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we are not statistically insignificant
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anymore. Right. And which
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I mean, this is in the movie, I talked about it in our
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book, Amanda, if you don't have a copy of our book, we'll send
17:29
you one. It's this, it's white women,
17:31
everything you already know about your I have
17:33
that how to do better. Okay.
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Okay. And I talked about art,
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my anti blackness as an Indian woman, because
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all all everybody's
17:43
anti black, all non black people
17:45
of color are anti
17:47
black. And my family came here after
17:49
the Civil Rights Act. So on the
17:51
backs of black people, due
17:53
to the Immigration Act, and when they came
17:55
here, they were trained to be
17:57
anti black before that there's British
18:00
colonialism right so they had to leave the
18:02
South Asian diaspora exists because of British colonialism
18:05
which was British genocide and
18:07
and now we have Hindu nationalists over there
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on the backs of British colonialism murdering Muslims
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and Catholics right it's all it's all doing
18:14
this but we come
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here my parents I was I was indoctrinated
18:18
to assimilate and my parents never used racial
18:21
slurs against black people but it was very
18:23
obvious that we were to assimilate towards whiteness
18:25
and not blackness right and and that was
18:27
and that's how we've been trained and to
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our own detriment to erase ourselves
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you know don't smell like Indian
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food don't wear Indian clothes don't
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speak native language I no longer
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speak be small and
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I went to Alabama last weekend it was
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my second time there to the legacy museum
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and I walked through and I'm
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like I'm not here I'm
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not in this museum that should not even
18:53
be called the legacy museum it should call
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the be be the American history museum every
18:57
person in this country should go there and
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the only place Asians show up
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in that museum two places one
19:04
the Supreme Court case that made
19:06
it okay for Japanese internment camps
19:08
it's okay to have Japanese internment
19:10
camps and also laws anti-miscegenation
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laws where whites and Asians were not
19:14
allowed to get married so I truly
19:16
I walked out of that and
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I'm like this is who we are in
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this country we are fucking pawns
19:23
we are soldiers to harm
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ourselves and to harm black people and to
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prop up white people and I'm not doing
19:30
it anymore I'm not doing it anymore and
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I'm also I understand the
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big Ramaswami I understand number stuff
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I do it's actually it's not
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even number after it's number stuff
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like it's not really bad for her you know no
19:44
no stop and um and
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all the reasons like we are erased we
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don't exist we're always a side chick you
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know it's it's so I'm
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just really sitting with why am I here I'm told every
19:55
day to go back to my country and I I'm back
19:57
to my country I moved to my hometown of Richmond
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And I go to India and I'm told
20:03
like I'm not Indian. There's no place right
20:05
for us and There's
20:07
just no analysis. There's no conversation. I try to
20:09
talk to family members about this I try to
20:11
talk to other members of the South Asian community
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and people don't want to have the conversation They
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don't want to have the fucking conversation. So if
20:18
my own people don't want to have it How
20:20
can we even expect white people to be able
20:23
to deconstruct it? It it does I'm you're catching
20:25
me on a day that I'm feeling slightly Hopeless,
20:28
but I'm still here. So obviously
20:30
I'm not super hopeless, but I'm feeling
20:32
a little bit more realistic about it
20:34
Why all day from a time? So
20:37
I remember when everything was black and
20:39
white, you know, it just was I Live
20:43
in Denver, Colorado, which I call
20:45
white conda. It is so white And
20:54
what I know is that Black
20:59
people again, we don't have the
21:01
luxury We've never
21:03
had the luxury of saying I'm not
21:05
gonna be in this fight And I
21:07
tell mothers all the time if you
21:09
are not up there in that school
21:11
and you have a black boy Trust
21:13
me. Your black son is being mistreated.
21:17
I know I've got children I've got
21:20
grandchildren because 80% of
21:22
the educators are white women and
21:24
they are afraid of these little
21:26
black kids They're so afraid of
21:28
them that they have no expectations.
21:30
They let them do whatever they
21:32
want And
21:34
you know what though Amanda because Regina and
21:36
I just did this workshop with a bunch
21:38
of teachers mostly white in Denver And
21:41
I was talking about what I'm calling violent
21:43
indifference I think all of this is like
21:46
this is not late stage capitalism. This is
21:48
not late stage white supremacy This is end
21:50
stage capitalism. This is end stage
21:53
white supremacy And I and I and like you
21:55
there's violent indifference and at the end remember Regina
21:57
this one white woman raised her hand She
22:00
said I want to say this out loud so people
22:02
can bear witness and she goes I see you Talking
22:05
about Israel and Palestine and you care. I see
22:08
you talking about guns and you care and she
22:10
goes I'll be honest I
22:12
don't care. I don't care. I used
22:14
to care. She goes I don't care about even
22:16
I knew about June 5th And she goes
22:19
I don't even care about the environment and
22:21
I don't care about Anything that I should
22:23
care about and she said it she admitted
22:25
it and I'm like and you're not a
22:27
bad person This is what fascism is. This
22:29
is fascism over decades centuries,
22:32
right? I also love how we're pretending like democracy
22:35
is gonna fall off a cliff This
22:37
fucking country is genocide of
22:39
indigenous people genocide of an enslavement
22:41
of African people Chinese exclusion act
22:43
Japanese internment cat camp operation wetback
22:46
Muslim ban Tell me when we
22:48
had a democracy. I would like
22:51
to know when we've had a
22:53
democracy What are we trying to save
22:56
but we can't have these conversations because everything
22:58
you I again I see you Amanda trying
23:00
to have these conversations with people online and
23:03
it's what about what about what about I
23:05
can only imagine What your DMS look
23:07
like honestly, like I can only imagine
23:10
Like RIP your DMS because
23:13
the what about isms and
23:15
that's where we are people can't even can't
23:17
even have a fucking Conversation about it, you
23:19
know Well, I think when
23:21
you need to know when to go ahead Amanda Well, I
23:23
was gonna ask like no glass the Regina because I'm sorry.
23:25
I'm asking another question What
23:27
I was gonna say is I believe it's
23:30
important to know when to cut people off,
23:32
you know I'll just say I'm gonna need
23:34
you to go sit down or I said
23:36
what I said and I'm done Cuz
23:39
yeah, yeah Yeah, but the new
23:41
one that I learned was the new statement
23:44
I learned that has been very effective to
23:46
use is listen, I can explain it, but
23:48
I can't make you understand it That's
23:51
right. Oh, that's good. That's right. Can I
23:53
can I quote can I please it is
23:55
for the community It is in the community
23:57
pie. I can't explain it. I can't make
23:59
you understand You know when
24:02
you say that the reason why she doesn't
24:04
care is because of fascism Why
24:06
why is that like what is
24:08
it about fascism that makes people
24:10
not care? I think
24:13
it rocks. So there's a have you seen
24:15
this show on Disney the mysterious
24:18
Benedict Society? No, it's
24:21
so good watch it. Okay
24:23
in some ways. I think it's the most interesting Depiction
24:26
of fascism and it's like family-friendly television series
24:29
But how it's meant to confuse you like
24:31
like so that's what it's sort of the
24:33
stage is at least I'm 49 So
24:36
sort of in my in my lifetime
24:38
is this confusion like I'm overwhelmed you
24:41
hear this language. I'm overwhelmed I'm confused.
24:43
I'm crazy busy all this stuff, right?
24:45
It's like all this stuff and then
24:49
You move into I can't
24:51
watch the news. I can't watch the
24:53
news to Numbness, so if
24:55
you've got and also it's look we've
24:57
had systemic we act like oh
25:00
my god the public education system This is
25:02
by design our government
25:04
does like decided to like
25:06
yank funding from from education
25:09
We by design are under educated
25:11
and uneducated and it falls like everything
25:13
else In a shitty system the
25:15
white kids get a much better education than the black
25:17
kids But everybody is getting
25:19
a shitty education, right? Like it's
25:22
to under educate and uneducated right
25:24
and then you add you bombard you bombard
25:26
you bombard and so now yours is too
25:28
much It's too much. So we've now moved
25:31
into the stage of numbness It
25:33
really is numbness and
25:35
I don't the more interesting
25:38
thing my question actually is how
25:40
are the three of us and
25:42
a Statistically insignificant amount
25:44
of other people and I'm including brown. Oh,
25:47
you're about to ask the question I was
25:49
literally just about to ask you god. How
25:51
did we escape it? I Well,
25:56
I hope you have an answer I'm
26:00
asking you. You know what? I
26:02
don't know. I mean, I don't remember if
26:04
I'm honest and this may sound very like
26:07
woo woo, but I
26:09
think there's something supernatural that
26:11
happens and I'm in
26:13
for woo woo. I
26:16
do. And
26:18
I say that because I didn't
26:22
start being like this. I've
26:25
always been like this, right? I've
26:29
been wired with magic. You understand what I'm saying? I don't
26:31
feel like I came to, I didn't have to have a
26:34
near-death experience or I didn't have
26:40
to go work with
26:43
the Peace Corps and live in a
26:45
hut for two years to awaken
26:48
my senses. You know what I'm saying? I
26:50
didn't have to do that. I've
26:54
seen people have to do that, right? Like
26:57
I didn't have to, I don't
27:00
feel like I ever had to find something
27:02
to believe in. I feel like I was
27:04
always here in this way. And my mom
27:06
has said that she knew when she was
27:08
pregnant with me that I was going to
27:11
be a problem. Like she knew
27:13
it. She was like, I knew when
27:15
I was pregnant with you, this person
27:17
chose me and they're coming here to
27:19
be here. And
27:22
I was like, but, cause I think
27:24
if someone says that you might feel like they're kind of
27:26
like, there's like some type of
27:28
egoism in it, but my mom has never said it in that
27:30
way. Like it was always very matter of
27:32
fact that it was like, there's a
27:34
soul up there that like tapped me
27:36
and was like, I'm about to come
27:38
through. Do you have siblings? Yes,
27:41
but listen, my siblings are just
27:43
with my father, right? So my
27:45
father has four kids and my,
27:47
the eldest of his kids, Neda,
27:49
we are the same spirit. Like
27:52
she and his wife is
27:55
Palestinian. So my
27:57
brothers and sisters are black. And
28:03
let me tell you, if you go on
28:05
Netta's page, she's got on a smart funny
28:07
and black hoodie and it's like, all right,
28:09
let's get down to brass tacks. And
28:12
my mom is like, what
28:14
are the, like, my mom is just like,
28:16
how are the odds, like, how
28:18
is this the way that this is? Like he made
28:20
two of the same person in
28:23
different forms. Like I'm the artsy
28:25
version, you know, like, but Netta
28:27
is also like, Netta can cook
28:29
anything, right? So it's like,
28:31
I feel like we were just wired
28:33
in this way. And I think that
28:35
that's the same with y'all. I think
28:37
there's just like a, a, uh, here's
28:39
what I think. I think
28:42
as human beings, we all know
28:44
right from wrong. And I'm,
28:46
when I say all, I mean, assuming
28:48
you're in a good mental health and all,
28:51
we know what we
28:53
choose is to not
28:55
acknowledge it because if we don't acknowledge
28:57
it, then we don't have to act
28:59
on it. But why are people like,
29:01
that was never an option for me. Why
29:04
is that an option for folks? Cause
29:06
it's not a, I don't know. I
29:09
don't know. That's the question. That's the
29:11
question. That's the question. You don't have
29:13
any. It
29:21
really is. And I think that, you know,
29:23
back to white women. Yeah.
29:25
Yeah. And they're really
29:27
diluted because of their
29:29
centuries long privilege. They
29:31
are really diluted into believing that if
29:34
they don't do anything, they will be
29:36
protected. And what I think
29:38
is bananas is that every, every bit
29:40
of data happening right now, your
29:43
kids are not being protected from guns. You're
29:46
not being protected from guns. You are
29:48
not being protected from climate catastrophe that
29:50
we are doing, you know, a white
29:52
American and a white American is
29:54
like the biggest climate villain on the planet
29:57
and causing birds to fall out of the
29:59
sky. India, Bangladesh to be wiped off the
30:01
map, many places in Africa about to be wiped
30:04
off the map. And I'm
30:06
sorry, Maui's gone, Miami is like a
30:08
hot tub, you know, New York City
30:10
flooded. And there's this real hubris.
30:13
There's this real hubris that
30:15
white people have, white women
30:17
have, that they will be untouchable.
30:19
And there's all the data proving
30:21
otherwise, and they still can't get
30:23
off the peloton to do shit.
30:26
They can't, they won't, they won't do it. And
30:29
I think that that's, this is like the full circle
30:31
of white, this is the end stage
30:33
of white supremacy. We are actually seeing
30:35
it right now. We're actually seeing it
30:37
right now when white supremacy is killing
30:39
white people. And they're like, I'm going
30:41
to go shopping. I'm crazy busy planning
30:44
Christmas right now. And it's October, you
30:46
know, it's very, it's cognitive
30:48
dissonance is a
30:50
euphemism for batshit fucking denial,
30:53
white denial. So if
30:55
this is the end stage of white supremacy, what comes
30:57
after that? I mean,
30:59
the end, like we're
31:01
watching the demise of humanity. Nobody
31:03
survives that catastrophe. Nobody, nobody
31:06
survives climate catastrophe. We know
31:08
that we know, I mean,
31:10
this is science. This is science.
31:13
And science is not burning. So do
31:15
they have it? So do they have
31:17
the right idea? Like if no one's
31:19
surviving climate catastrophe, should we be at
31:21
the mall? No,
31:24
or we should ban fossil fuels in
31:26
fast fashion. Like there's things that
31:28
we can do to stop this.
31:30
That's why I want to react. We
31:33
are, we are purposefully pretending, oh my
31:35
God, it's so complicated. No, it's like, we
31:38
know how to stop. They're literally calling climate
31:41
change the seasons. Like
31:43
they're literally like, this is just
31:45
autumn. And it's like, ah,
31:49
so now the season and summer
31:51
is Maui gets wiped off and
31:53
white people were snorkeling in that
31:56
water the next day, amongst dead
31:58
bodies. Why I paid for
32:00
this Hawaiian vacation. So I'm going
32:02
to take this fucking Hawaiian vacation.
32:04
They're dead. They're dead inside. Their
32:06
souls have been snatched. They're gone.
32:09
And while you have the magic that your
32:11
mom was talking about, you know what the
32:13
magic is? Poof, their soul is gone. Magic.
32:16
And so now we're stuck with this shit forever. I
32:20
just want you all to know, Syra said the other
32:22
day on Instagram that somebody told her that she was
32:24
intense, that she was too intense. And
32:26
you were like, I am intense.
32:30
That's fucking right. That's our Syra.
32:33
And that is the story of
32:35
my life. Like I, I can't even
32:42
date at this point because I'm like, check
32:44
this out. I'm intense. I'm
32:47
very serious. They'll come and even know
32:49
fuck shit. This is going to be pointless for
32:51
most of us. They're like, well,
32:55
uh, right. My husband
32:57
says to me, he
33:00
says, Regina, people,
33:02
not me. People think you're
33:04
crazy. I
33:07
don't care. He goes, that's why
33:09
they think you're crazy. Right. Right.
33:11
Because at this point, I'm like
33:13
me. I'm just like, yeah.
33:15
Uh, y'all already think I'm crazy. So I
33:17
mean, what do we, what do we even really trying to
33:19
pretend for? Like, I
33:22
think Amanda, Amanda, you are too smart
33:24
for 99.9% of the people. Same. Same.
33:26
I think that's
33:30
the, that's the problem. I don't think,
33:32
I think, I think for, for all
33:34
women who are listening that are suffering
33:36
from that, it's like, if we could
33:38
just find partners who are like, I
33:41
love that you're smarter than me, but patriarchy
33:44
doesn't create those kinds of people. So that's
33:46
the other problem. Yeah. You know,
33:48
like that's the other problem. It's not like there
33:50
aren't enough people out here. It's just that there
33:52
aren't enough people challenging what patriarchy has taught them.
33:54
I always tell the story that my homeboy had
33:56
called me one day and he had just come
33:58
home from like a two weeks silent
34:01
meditation in India and then he like
34:03
went to Brazil and did ayahuasca and
34:05
he came home and he was like he
34:08
was like uh hey
34:11
did you know that niggas
34:13
ain't shit and I was like yes I
34:16
actually did know that no no that
34:18
yes I actually am quite
34:20
aware that he was like
34:23
I had no idea
34:26
and now I have to like re-examine
34:29
my entire existence and I think
34:32
when we talk about like this
34:34
idea of deconstructing Karen right what
34:36
you're presenting to people is this
34:38
concept of like you're
34:40
only lost because you're abandoning yourself
34:43
like we're gonna give you the information
34:47
to save yourself and
34:50
if you choose to abandon that
34:52
information then you have abandoned yourself
34:54
your children this society this world
34:58
because it's here and it's
35:00
not esoteric it's not like
35:02
confusing or confounding it's just
35:04
fact and fact is like
35:06
so frightening for people because
35:09
they built everything up on things that
35:11
are just not really like real
35:14
but they believe in it and so
35:16
like my homeboy was a study because
35:19
he is a black man in America
35:21
and he has been built up on a
35:23
whole bunch of stuff that wasn't real
35:25
and he had to deconstruct the
35:28
hotel he had to deconstruct and
35:30
it was difficult you know
35:32
like he had to really kind of grapple
35:35
with like oh shit I
35:37
was doing that damn
35:39
that wasn't okay
35:41
and then you have guilt and now you
35:43
gotta deal with the discomfort of the guilt
35:45
right it's like that's what therapy is and
35:49
we are in a mass
35:51
state of PTSD and mania
35:54
and delusion like everybody needs you
35:56
know how they have them like giant weddings like
35:58
those group weddings like that's what they do. So
36:00
we need a giant group therapy.
36:02
Yes. Like that's what, and
36:04
I think, you know, I
36:07
could be crazy, but I think
36:10
social media in some shape or form
36:12
is performing that for a lot of
36:15
people, kind of like mass therapy.
36:17
Like when I see you guys's videos and
36:19
like there's so much of your stuff that
36:21
I share because I know you post it,
36:23
cause you're like, I saw this and it
36:25
made me feel like I'm not fucking losing
36:27
it. And then I see it and I'm
36:30
like, let
36:32
me post this shit that Regina just
36:34
posted because the people need to see
36:36
this right now, you know? And so
36:38
we ended up passing along like these
36:40
jewels, you know, that
36:42
make us feel valuable again. And
36:44
not like we're just like out
36:46
here losing our minds. But
36:49
I relate when you said today
36:51
that like, you're like, you know, right
36:53
now I'm just feeling very real. Like it's
36:55
like, it's not even defeat it. My
36:59
realism is realisming because
37:01
I feel like people
37:03
call that pessimism. And
37:07
that for me is frustrating. Like if you're sitting in
37:10
a room with Karen and you tell them about yourself,
37:12
you know, they're gonna call you a pessimist. And it's like, well,
37:15
no, no, no. I agree. And I
37:17
think it's really interesting. I mean, oh,
37:19
sorry. I just go ahead. We do this work. We
37:21
all three of us are doing this work around the
37:23
clock. And anytime
37:26
I even mention I'm losing hope or this
37:28
or that the first thing I get is
37:30
like a smack in the face. Like, you
37:33
know, you're a pessimistic, your glasses have empty. I
37:35
choose to have hope. And I'm like, it's
37:38
such like, I'm not even allowed to have one
37:40
moment of reflection. I'm not
37:42
allowed to have one moment of wondering if
37:44
all of this is for not. And
37:47
that's also white supremacy culture. That is the magical
37:49
black and brown women are supposed to
37:52
always keep our head up, always lead
37:54
the way. We're not allowed to have
37:56
a bad day. We're not allowed to
37:58
have a moment of. Doubt and
38:00
I don't have self-doubt. I have doubt
38:03
about y'all. I don't have about I'm
38:05
not having self-doubt I have white women
38:07
down and so the minute
38:10
that happens. It's like oh my god if
38:12
you lose hope How about this you
38:14
get yourself some hope? Yeah worry
38:16
about my hope you go get yourself
38:18
some hope You worry about you
38:20
and we had a white woman who worked with
38:22
us who went full-blown Karen We're not gonna name her
38:25
name, but she did say something poignant Which
38:27
was we hate black and
38:30
brown women because you don't hate
38:32
yourself and That
38:35
is true. Why do they themselves did they
38:37
teach y'all anything about why I'm nothing dinner
38:40
They don't have anything Amanda. They literally
38:42
all their entire world is consumption. They
38:44
don't have community They don't like each
38:46
other they don't you know so different
38:49
than us and I would say to
38:51
sire really really That's
38:53
how they feel that way. You know what? I'm
38:56
worried about right now. You guys are gonna
38:58
laugh at me But I'm very concerned so we
39:01
are of course supporting Ukraine We're
39:03
gonna be supporting Israel what
39:06
the hell's gonna happen in the US
39:08
where the Republicans try and steal the
39:10
election next November but that's what I'm
39:13
really genuinely I don't I'm I'm not
39:15
even joking like I Look
39:18
when we talk about like democracy falling off a
39:20
cliff I'm like I Completely
39:22
agree with you that it's been a shit show
39:24
up until this point But I'm like I'll even
39:27
take this little pretend little democracy We got right
39:29
now more than then what they offering up on
39:31
the other side Yeah But it becomes harder and
39:33
harder and harder to tell people we
39:35
just need to vote for a path forward When
39:37
you see the path forward out here like well,
39:39
we need to use your money for a genocide,
39:41
right? so it's like it becomes
39:44
incredibly very difficult because we know that
39:46
even though the point of even
39:48
though the Role of the president is
39:50
you know, kind of Well
39:53
for the most part for the past few years
39:55
It's been very figurehead ish versus like let me
39:57
sign these actual executive orders to create legitimate force
40:00
it. But for the most part, I just
40:02
feel like people don't
40:04
realize that the local elections, like
40:07
Louisiana, like at the time of
40:09
us recording this, y'all, Louisiana just
40:11
voted in a Republican governor and
40:13
90 and then like, like
40:15
apparently all of the sheriffs were up for reelection and
40:17
90% of them won and
40:19
they were all white Republicans. Okay. And
40:22
when they looked at the poll numbers, like black people just didn't
40:24
vote. Like there's gerrymandering. I was
40:26
getting ready to say that. Black people didn't
40:28
vote. There is voter suppression, but like black
40:30
people didn't vote. Then you have just the
40:32
realities around the
40:35
fact that people don't know how the system works. Right?
40:37
So like I created in Amanda, we trust because I
40:39
want to like to try and help teach people how
40:41
the system works because I'm even learning how the system
40:43
works. And I'm like, damn, I'm really fucking smart. If
40:45
this is difficult for me, like
40:47
imagine for folks who aren't
40:50
even accessing information and intellect
40:52
on a daily basis. Right? So then you're
40:54
like, okay, okay. How
40:56
do we, like, I feel
40:58
like when you all do these dinners, there's
41:00
a certain level of reality that it was
41:03
white women who sent us down this path
41:05
in 2016. Like they are the
41:07
ones who voted Donald Trump in office. So it's
41:09
like, but it is wildly distressing to me to
41:11
think that like my future in this company is
41:13
on the backs of white women. Yeah.
41:16
Well, we all ought to be concerned
41:18
because it's scary. And also, I mean,
41:20
it's also on brand, you
41:22
know, like lynchings, lynchings were
41:25
made possible by white women.
41:27
Like this is what they've always been. And
41:30
I think the thing about it for us
41:32
is now the mask has come off and
41:34
they get really mad, Amanda.
41:37
Like they get really mad. Like, why
41:39
are you coming? It's like, it feels like it's like
41:41
the witches. Remember that movie, The Witches when like they
41:44
take off their wigs and it's like, yes.
41:48
And this, and this notion that like
41:50
white women didn't have anything to do
41:52
with slavery. I mean, there's that amazing book.
41:54
They were her property, you know,
41:56
and, and, and if you go to the lynching memorial,
41:58
it's like stone. stone after stone
42:01
saying this black man was lynched because
42:03
he looked at a white woman the
42:05
wrong way. This black family was lynched
42:07
because he annoyed a white woman. It's
42:09
literally white woman, white woman, white woman. This
42:12
is less than 100 years ago.
42:14
This is not ancient history, you
42:16
know? And this purposely
42:19
pretending like none of
42:21
this happened. Look at the pictures. Look
42:23
at the pictures of these white women
42:25
screaming at those black kids during desegregation.
42:27
Those women are still alive. Those women
42:30
are... Well, and more white women, more
42:33
white women inherited slaves than they
42:35
did land. So we
42:37
had lots of white women slave owners.
42:40
And this is not like when Regina and
42:42
I did our deconstructing care and screening
42:45
in Richmond, which is capital of the Confederacy.
42:47
And you know, I was born 110 years
42:50
after slavery ended in Richmond and we're sitting in
42:52
this room and it was amazing. It was sold
42:54
out 550 people and there are people in the
42:57
audience. And you know, I said,
42:59
I'm like, this is really wild to me that
43:01
like we get to have this conversation. And I'm
43:03
like, you all literally are sitting on land
43:05
and it's all generational wealth. These homes
43:08
have been passed down over generations. Your
43:10
ancestors like three generations ago were
43:13
slave owners. This is the, this is
43:15
Philip Morris land. This is tobacco and cotton land.
43:17
And they looked at us like my husband was
43:19
like, that was amazing. Like people got up and
43:22
left. People were looking down like, you know, really,
43:25
really intense. And the fallout since
43:27
then has been really like, I'm
43:29
a lunatic, I'm a terrorist, all
43:31
this stuff. Like, I went from
43:33
being a model minority, model minority
43:35
to a terrorist in 10 seconds.
43:37
A minute ago from being a
43:40
doctor to a terrorist. I'm
43:43
the fourth generation in my
43:45
family out of slavery, fourth
43:47
generation. That means me,
43:50
my mom, her
43:52
mom and her grandmother. That's
43:54
fourth generations. Yeah.
43:56
I mean, this is recent history. So here
43:59
we are. And we can't
44:01
actually get them to decolonize or do
44:03
anything because we haven't had any truth
44:05
You can't have reconciliation without truth. We
44:07
haven't had reparations. There has to
44:09
be reparations for black people until we've done
44:12
that What's that like it?
44:14
You know, this is a black square.
44:16
They put the black squares in their Instagram and they're
44:18
like worn out
44:21
I'm so Exalted
44:23
by my anti-racism work and like the in
44:25
my god They lifted a BLM sign and
44:27
put it up there until Halloween and then
44:30
took it down and put up those like
44:32
Hanging up ghosts from their trees, you know,
44:35
I don't know I've had it Amanda I've
44:37
had I had a man and I have
44:40
truly had it there bullshit. They are liars
44:42
They hate themselves and their hatred for themselves
44:44
is killing us all and I don't know
44:46
how to change that You cannot get people
44:48
to care about themselves. You can't What
44:52
do you do to care for yourself? Talk
44:54
a lot. I have heard myself
44:56
on on a daily basis. I
44:59
actually do affirmations That's
45:01
how I start my day and at the end
45:03
of my day. I give thanks I Show
45:06
gratitude for all the wonderful things that
45:08
I have in my life and that's
45:10
how I maintain myself Yeah,
45:13
I walk a lot. I like I'm
45:15
like the Indian Forrest Gump. I swear Like
45:19
all over the place on foot listening
45:21
to shitty 80s music just
45:23
walking I walk a lot
45:31
What do you do Amanda I would love to what do
45:33
you do what do you do? What do I do? Um, You
45:37
know, first of all, I lie to myself. So
45:40
we'll start there. I lie to myself and I'm
45:42
like perfect I
45:48
have an endless capacity for
45:50
all of this I can manage
45:52
everything and then I'm like,
45:54
but boy my lower back really hurt
46:00
It's because yes, fool,
46:02
you're holding all of
46:04
it in your lower
46:06
back. Then it'll be
46:08
like, okay, why can't
46:11
I sleep? Why?
46:16
So like I'm managing all
46:18
day long, but I
46:20
can't sleep. Oh,
46:23
that's because you're not managing. Are
46:26
you in LA? Yes, okay.
46:29
So you're not managing. You got some dummies.
46:32
So I will lie to myself about all of that,
46:35
and then I will get
46:37
real with myself and get back on
46:39
regimen. And I found that regimen is
46:41
very helpful for me. Like Regina said,
46:43
like waking up in the morning and
46:45
having like a regimen for like some part of my
46:48
day, having a regimen, like, cause the rest of my
46:50
days for y'all it's like whatever, like I might be
46:52
doing the podcast and then the radio show and then
46:54
I have to do another thing and another thing. But
46:57
like being able to know like I'm gonna
46:59
wake up, I'm gonna stretch. Okay,
47:01
I'm gonna stretch. I'm gonna stand on my head for
47:03
three minutes, three and a half minutes I'm gonna stand
47:05
on my head. And I'm not gonna
47:07
think- Can you do that? Can you do that? Can you do that?
47:11
Yeah, damn. Oh, that's
47:13
awesome. Damn. So I'm
47:15
gonna stand on my head for three and a half minutes. Cause
47:18
like they said that there's something about
47:20
like turning your body upside down for
47:22
that amount of time every day, like
47:24
kind of like helps like the equalizing
47:26
element. So I started
47:28
doing that. Then like, if I
47:31
can, I will try and go for
47:33
a walk today. I got up and
47:35
was focused enough to go to
47:38
the beach. I
47:40
drove to the water.
47:44
I drove to the water and I sat-
47:46
That's awesome. And looked at the water and
47:48
then my dog barked and I looked to
47:50
the right and a man had stripped down
47:52
naked and was sitting. I'm like,
47:55
when the man had walked- up
48:00
like he was fully clothed in like,
48:02
like business attire.
48:05
And then when I looked back, he was
48:07
naked and sitting on a towel minding
48:09
his business. So I minded my business
48:12
and but it was like creeping up
48:14
on you. He wasn't creeping up and
48:16
Jordi was not having that. Anyway, Jordi was like,
48:19
look at that man. Oh my God. But
48:21
I say all that to say that the
48:24
affirming the affirmations like sounds dumb
48:26
when you first learn about them
48:28
and then it becomes like a
48:30
real thing. And like, it's
48:33
wild how you can go through so many emotions
48:35
by just repeating an affirmation. Like I'll start and
48:37
it's like, I'm just saying the thing. Next thing
48:39
I know I'm crying. Next thing I know I'm
48:41
like, that's right. No, I'm that bitch. Like,
48:47
so that's, that's kind of working for
48:49
me. But the other
48:51
part of it too, y'all is just being able
48:53
to have conversations like this, like being able to
48:55
have exchange. Like I know that's the first thing
48:57
you said was like, I just, you know, bitch
48:59
to Regina because you know,
49:01
so much of this feels
49:03
lonely. And it really does a problem.
49:05
But lonely is another feeling
49:08
right? Like I don't have a problem
49:10
alone, but like lonely is just a,
49:12
it's a, it's a another feeling. And
49:14
when you feel like you're watching humanity,
49:17
just disintegrate in front of you. It's
49:21
lonely. It's lonely. It
49:23
is. It is. It is. I,
49:25
I, I totally agree with that. And
49:28
that's the killer. You know, the loneliness is
49:30
the killer. And can I just
49:32
ask you, when you stand on your head, do you have
49:35
your arms out or do you actually,
49:37
it's head on the ground? Head
49:39
on the ground, babe. Fuck. Where did
49:41
you learn how to do that? I
49:43
was a gymnast. Really? I
49:45
was a gymnast. So like, I mean, what I really
49:47
want is to get another trampoline, but I just don't
49:49
have the room for it. But
49:53
my mom in a
49:55
fit of adult tantrum
49:57
gave away my trampoline
50:00
she was mad at me and I
50:02
don't know if I'll ever get over
50:04
it. I generally don't know if I'll
50:06
ever get over it. But like,
50:08
I mean, that was something I would look forward
50:10
to when I would go visit her. But like,
50:12
at this point, I'm just like, are
50:15
you about to just put a trampoline in this backyard
50:17
just for like your own just
50:20
joy? Like, because I love
50:22
just jumping up and
50:26
down on a trampoline. Get
50:29
you a trampoline. Do y'all
50:31
think I should do it? Yes, you should
50:33
absolutely get a trampoline. Yes, absolutely do what's
50:35
going to make you happy. Can I can
50:37
I ask you one question? Please ask me
50:39
whatever you want to ask me. Your
50:42
profession holds the
50:44
single most power in the world.
50:47
Because Hollywood is I mean, I go to
50:49
India to visit my family. And
50:52
everyone's watching American TV and American movies.
50:54
This is how white supremacy is exported,
50:56
right? Yes. Where are
51:00
your people? Not your people,
51:02
obviously, but where are your
51:05
fellow celebrities who have gigantic
51:07
platforms, and who are
51:09
literally posting pictures of like,
51:11
you know, pumpkin spice, bullshit?
51:15
Like, what's I learned, I learned in
51:17
2019 that these were not
51:19
my people. So I don't have an answer
51:22
for you. People. Those aren't your
51:24
where your people. Yeah, we are your
51:26
people. Yes. I learned when I like
51:28
was being escorted out of a club
51:30
in front of like, black Hollywood, because
51:32
someone who is a member of
51:35
the PR of black Hollywood, like didn't like
51:37
me and thought it to see fit to
51:39
have security, escort me out of a club
51:41
and put hands on me just because she
51:43
didn't like me. Like when I when I
51:45
saw that happen, and no body
51:48
said anything. No, like
51:51
and I had a billboard the size of
51:53
a whole building like a block
51:56
away. When I saw that I
51:58
was like, Oh, these ain't your people. Wow.
52:01
Like my people are like, are
52:03
y'all you know, my people are like, Kimberly
52:05
Crenshaw, if she'll have me, you know, like,
52:07
these are my people, you know,
52:09
like, Sheryl and I feel if she'll have
52:12
me like, these are my people. And you
52:14
know, Dr. Mark, Lamont Hill, that's my people.
52:17
Like, that's my family. Like we, you know,
52:19
like we are we are love where they
52:21
have the black Republican on.
52:24
And when he talked about going to
52:26
Cheesecake Factory, they all right. Listen, when
52:28
he when they went
52:34
when when wasn't named Don was like, what's
52:36
funny, Mark, what's funny? Like, I'm trying to
52:39
figure out why he's going to cheesecake back.
52:41
Look at look at what happened. What happened
52:43
to him when he stood up for Palestinians?
52:45
Look at what happened to him. Exactly. That's
52:48
my people. Yeah. You
52:50
know, and and well, it's a shame. It's a
52:52
shame. And to even come back around
52:55
now, though, and to see him now be
52:59
regarded as a beacon of
53:02
truth and as an expert, and now
53:04
like people are lauding him for, you
53:06
know, being someone who stood in the
53:08
gap long before, is really
53:11
great to see just as like his friend and his
53:13
sister, you know, but I
53:15
don't know where they're at. You know, the
53:17
reality is that what you named earlier about
53:19
just the truth about capitalism and opportunism and
53:22
all those things, they are alive and well
53:24
here. I mean, this is not a town
53:26
of integrity. Like, that's not what we
53:29
know that you know, saying like, that's
53:31
not what this is built on. I
53:33
mean, I have had to really learn
53:35
like, oh, you're
53:38
gonna have to build your own space. Because
53:40
they're not really trying to like, give you
53:43
room. Like, they're not trying to make room
53:45
for you and help you to be able
53:47
to tell the truth. Like, that's not really
53:49
a goal in this town. For some people
53:52
it is. Don't get me wrong for some
53:54
people. But it has
53:56
been very illuminating and revelatory
53:59
to just see how alone
54:01
I have been in speaking. Like
54:03
literally nobody else though. Like literally.
54:05
Literally nobody else. First of all,
54:07
I'm really sorry that that happened
54:09
to you in 2019. I'm sure
54:12
you've had time to metabolize that, but like
54:15
that really sucks to have your own. No,
54:17
the people listening are like, did she just
54:19
bring that up again? Yes. Because even though
54:21
I have had time to metabolize it, it
54:23
still bothers me. Of course
54:26
it should. It should come bringing up
54:28
again if you feel like that's right.
54:30
Regina. I'm
54:32
going to take, I'm going to take a photograph.
54:34
Hold on. Amanda, look up, please. This
54:37
is fun. I hope we can
54:39
do it again. Well, I
54:41
would love to present to y'all some
54:43
questions that people have asked because we
54:45
have our Patreon only segment. So we
54:47
can head on over to the SEAL
54:49
squad y'all. So come and check out
54:52
this little conversation that is expanding as
54:54
you all ask your questions to Cyra
54:56
Ralph and Regina Jackson of Deconstructing Karen.
55:00
The last day. Well,
55:04
I'm so glad to be able to
55:06
share space with y'all and talk and
55:08
vent. And I know that
55:10
you all are continuing to do your work.
55:13
And even though there are so
55:15
many efforts to
55:18
keep fascism growing and to keep the ignorance
55:20
and the system growing, you
55:22
know, we have to believe that
55:25
at the very least the drop
55:28
of oil that we're putting in the ocean is
55:30
going to reverberate. And I know that what you
55:32
all are doing is reverberating because it reached me.
55:35
Right. And that's the
55:37
thing. If you had done nothing, I
55:39
would not know y'all. You know, that's
55:42
the thing. Wonderful. Thank you. Thank you
55:44
all so much. Keep up the fight.
55:46
It was such a pleasure to meet
55:48
you. I feel like I know who
55:50
you are. Thank you. Amanda
55:53
and I am. I don't fan girl over
55:55
most people, but you really like I have
55:57
to thank you truly. You're giving.
56:00
Giving people a lot of hope right now.
56:02
You truly are and you're so clear
56:04
and you're so smart and
56:06
it's incredible what you're doing. You've always been awesome,
56:09
but I thank you tremendously for the stuff that
56:11
you've been putting out in the past eight, nine
56:13
days. Thank you so much. I
56:15
really, that means a lot. I really appreciate it,
56:17
particularly coming from y'all because y'all do not play
56:19
the fuck around.
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