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Welcome to the hundred episode of smartless. I'm
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in New hose Bradley Cooper, the other guys have they
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were time. They they just asked
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for too much money to
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be right up. Here is a new episode of smartless
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it
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is one the as do about job you one hundred
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episode by the way oh thirty one hundred episode
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congratulations one hundred the episode happy
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when i read wait minute
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fifty his goals right what's
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the golden that one either ivan because
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there isn't one hundredth anniversary is you'd be dead
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no hundreds entered who's married in latin
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let's look us this has anybody
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been married been married years I
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know a couple of it feels
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like a hundred. hundred oh is
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it you what not, how are
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you? It
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says oh I Google it says what
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is the 100th? Anniversary color is purple
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not get past the headline here
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are our own pathetic internal headline
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hundred one hundred means that we've done
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two years of shows right can
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you believe that guy's been raising would want
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to listen to us for an ounce want
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thank second here and think that single
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listener we have out there
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miller misses thank you for
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it you , making
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it seem to yourself like listening
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to us three more on stock for an hour qualifies
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as entertainment but please
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don't stop because we like the what i didn't feel
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like a week it does feel like away
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generally better than it ever did see my
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like , like everyone
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to release hot one hundred people
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maybe didn't play golf today on their hundred
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know i just woke up late and i couldn't
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wash my hair i've
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, been gone to amman amanda's computer
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i don't have my glasses i look at israel's
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what's going on as you could smell
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me right now on the her oh my god
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god can't love in the hair these days gotta
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say the other day i really love it was coming out
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every saudi your visor i don't
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i don't like it and and why do i listen to
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my wife about the leg the my hair can't i
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just keep it short and dorky and
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dumb and square
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and no doors you look dumb and
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square lot the time and are you son
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of are you the way the thing about
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jason is or the every notion you
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and everybody knows knows that one truth
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man whoa whoa
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whoa whoa whoa what it would have it suddenly you might
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be compliment so known to dinner
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the men were , am going get
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a little kid is not for the we all know this but
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we're not going said the woman for yeah yeah
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tell you what i can hook line
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and line hundred of
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directors know things are
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now and there's test but it's
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shown it's just want to say this want out
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to story than have the last couple days and deciduous
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love him my
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goal our
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or not you know by the way we just try to stay connected
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to the people by the women were out there playing golf
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we're just trying to keep where do you know they were playing
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with read those were going out to the public course
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and were just picking up couple red nose or same
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come here
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i'm a guy with you guys jason are playing against
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these guys and they're crossing us in front
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on front nine they're beating a i'm all
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over the place and playing terrible jason will not my
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skis pretty great but he's not playing as normal
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great and so the after nine holes
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they're beating us on the back nine
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totally demeter know these guys we've barely
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know we sort no one the guys on the we
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we we know one the guys the going on on the back
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nine we started come back and
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there's one hole left and were walking from the seventy
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three into the eighteenth the and we have have
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to eradicate the los angeles
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goes are we gonna do your up ahead
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of us i don't speak like a dude
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from bay own when want to get down as isn't
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aware that it though is that is it
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nice piece piece of class
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that each race the same get
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some says he'd always is only gonna do
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is without win this whole because until
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he met if , beat these guys
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they kill themselves themselves
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i go psycho your
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foot off the gas man i'm
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hearing i would try i
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had a get myself off he went so
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so goes on it was i believe
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it she was for as were my
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wars are fought you know and i get
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really serious listen we we've come
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on we're we're at a hundred episodes
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i don't want just say this is his last time
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going to saving next time we were growing
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up there were nine mil in
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four days it's will arnett birthday
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speaking , a hundred when i
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saw her as saw her or as
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censor years old ah
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abbey road yeah have the luxury suite
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william county gonna be
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scott nominate i'm to be made me go there i'm
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going to be fifty do with weaker where we
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know that this is recorded before my birthday
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in in very generously
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or friend is having a nice dinner or
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the dinner from as tonight in the kids
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and kids and generously showing either
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and i'm so excited to see you guys
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i know i am too i'm seeing as and so on
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me now could you in chicago i've been in atlanta
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i've seen jason i'm in way for deciders
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goes kill himself but but
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i'm really gently for you will you'll have
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to get for your birthday yeah mean know doesn't
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really matter back yes once you get past about
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swelling uncommon don't even think of your
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list for anything no anything
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don't ever expect to get give that might
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you think you're going to get anything from your voice
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i'd i hope they get like a nice the
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richer or like a poem or something you're
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a book and are both religious
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oh on the really nice that i only read
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done and cause i wrote your i wrote you're blowing them
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in a which is honestly what the odds of them run
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your palm and are no i'm just really excited
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to i'm just
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, see you guys in have all the people love
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and around in an hour
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and five by know by right i
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if i would that mcginty mike my goal
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is to get you to cry night which might mean i might stand
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up do or a toast
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which a toast i hate to i nothing
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makes me more nervous than getting wiring
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to do it it's why you have zero in front of yeah
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i could give me i'd
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i'd anything in front the camera
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or whatever is making
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toast or speech and front of bunch
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people on state only did tore down
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in front of a and auditorium
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for people on stage when the spotlight
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the most nerve wracking thing but you
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a great you and where you are going to wear those rallies
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but you know i mean i've got of that the acting
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skills and know how to bury the the you
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just go out like but i just don't like it but
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especially not a toast i just feel like
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such can't wait for my bag kimmel
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as expecting preacher we have what you're doing and
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listen to me as i hold up a glass
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is the most airing a labyrinth nothing
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you know but it's nice it's
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, we're going do tonight really
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do to the rogan a toast each other is
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guy mitosis gonna be here is the jason's
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test and then i'm going to force own pass it
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on that's nice juice and
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you do you do still is tougher you do
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to connect that emotion the
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live i think that if you just connect to the feeling
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and forget what you have to say no return you
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and just connect to the feeling for once
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you imagine what a breakthrough that was the only
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guess what that's it you're going to get to know where
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references in a great as an homage
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and when i'm on my way through it i can't wait at me
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up with i never tell you're not going to break
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eye contact with you either as i'm
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not making eye contact know monuments became
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eye contact and i'm hearing our guest
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an ophthalmologist
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someone if you make i can't if you happen
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get locked into this person's gays
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is is a hundredth episode guest spread
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illnesses and well as better been what is the way that
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we've all lot at her be
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good this is somebody we've all locked
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days with real nice real does
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the world is locked it gays and he
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is locked in on the world he
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has made connection contact don't
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get is just i did that is tough to
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be broken but this is something
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that we've been in contact with for long time
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to three of us friends with
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this person britain is
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printed issue is person is a
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friend of ours this
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person has seven more academy
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award nominations than the three of us
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and bind which means that he has seven
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i don't know anyone that says seven okay
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serving award nominees and flying over
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arching of for for acting in three
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four million viewers are
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getting nerve that erecting i knew i had
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a mono above this ,
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person that we all adore this
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person who's been part our allies for long time
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that we've been on journey with for long time and he
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has my her he has has
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has a history single handedly is
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the is done
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incredible things over the last fifteen
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years but he's always been an incredible person
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on top that he's just an he's guy i
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don't want to talk about is bob miss work
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out going to the want talk about how much we loved
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his prison i can't wait to bring them in for
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hundred episode i have brought
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our our dear friend mr
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bradley cooper
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or added up
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, own own gradually
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this interview or interview him
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, good as
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ramsey come to this area that i admired will
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for so long as you're talking was getting
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so excited that you excited about
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i think it's like to
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believe that is something about something to think
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about these we load about me of with
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the syrian apartment of essex does he ever even
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think about me and assists the only
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route i love you remember from
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and you guys or member the permit memories of played cards
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downstairs and then ever been out
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what was i yeah what was the actors deal
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below you on risk
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oregon he and his wife iowa live
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in the front now bradley
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my last year i thought this is i
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would have never guessed because i thought we
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Used all the favor, you would give our use
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it on by you making that cameo
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the, on the, on the, on the library.
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I was
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so excited cuz I thought that that
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I date did that. You guys, did
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you join us on it to her socially backstage?
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We were all hanging out for a long time. It it was so
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fucking fun. You came on only
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briefly so you didn't really done an
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episode of. This is how we we get a full
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60 minutes. Do we
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have cut in your time a little bit middle
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name
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Can
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I get a little history? goes echo history as a god
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or for everybody that that that knows
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the so know i've had the the great
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ford's and to know all of these guys separately
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of for about twenty years yeah that
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and and each one of their circles they
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are have always been the funniest person
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in the room and everybody knows it and
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goes farzana will probably always been
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the king of every room combined the
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your out literally what everybody's always
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this is that exactly what you look for
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you've ever same for the silver
12:04
how did it for all these guys to be
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together and i said his onstage
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to but i finally like well i've been able to
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be benefactor of now everybody
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gets too too as well and that's part of that's
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is why it's so successful
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building was like you have this way of talking
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jason the first leg i
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don't know fifteen years and he was always like
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oh he's fucking with me what's your middle
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name brand new
12:30
, woods you meant like i give a fuck
12:32
what your answer to the and has been simpler way
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to democracy democracy
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for every zone like oh i don't know jason
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it's it's a charlie such
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home school her based my on died
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and gonna make fun gonna that you know i
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i do what i have no idea you're going to hit me there's
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a i do admit that i sound
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an act of lot city or that i
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really am a battle makers i though
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i mean can i say that so that was the first
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seniors yeah i'd say the last five years
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i've come to realize adjacent that of not as
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well as really on animal a really
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human being or not the other when
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i went with the everybody thinks but is
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something about the tone the prosody one could
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say of the way you speak and i am i'm ah i
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see as you will join when i am a man
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here my guy abuse it gets five
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a man's you get a girl nicely awesome
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awesome timed on the that the the
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the documentary behind scenes better that saw this
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tour thing that the that yeah brown and we have with
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your genome you know when sandwich do nothing
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really of korea and so so so
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we'll and saw a couple hours of it and
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, and couple said the will yesterday rep
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for i'd i said the golfers who kill themselves
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i said i think
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much as such an asshole know
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that think don't think seem like a real press
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is like know man me ice me
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ice i'm just crab my way of this
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is why you didn't wear your like so why do you come
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i didn't wanna go through this like don't wanna
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legal little joy to do something nice shine
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wieder of wouldn't be meadows
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and you and love you come off looking like
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said that when your the frick yes
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the mother who had ,
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have to go lucky yeah guys are
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not wearing these are these cameras up for as long for
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for first twenty minutes we
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talk about food
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hello somehow comfort food and
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we were we kept in was losing
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covering it up and value of is what
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, the the
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kept in was me finally going to jason you
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can watch this and you're going see
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how obsessed with sued you are and can be so
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we've seen at at your fucking
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the fucking is
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so true though says you but you're not an asshole
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i'm an asshole to the so you know what anybody says
14:35
anything i just like i them morning
14:38
mess up and l hope everybody knows
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that we all love each other and that's why has a
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good as for each other like brother of course
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bradley you're obsessed with allergies is
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only on minor it's probably right
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because you because you are
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your body is and fuss
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saying my body we have been is insane
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you're always my side walk great shape
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of a not shown that it's just
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all right guys incorrect statement
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now it's nice pretty closed
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at the rehearsal today with all
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these dances does were doing this these this
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part of movie i'm about to start movie
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so we're in prep and rallies playing leonard
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bernstein and it's i'm kind i was watching play by
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goes age i look like i'm on can like line
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like a wrestler my stomach with my stories
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are like ours is this what we couldn't
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do it fits the other really all these
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beautiful buys is like me like murder
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dancing like i got such a measure that on my hobby
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but by the way you are and like or
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you know i thought least you don't see somebody
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who's like super fucking talented super
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fucking nice fucking handsome and then you
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see them do another thing and really
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well and you're like oh my god less nicer every
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time you dance on something it's incredible
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like incredible can't either can't either love the
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that there was like the one thing bar mitzvahs was
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i couldn't wait for the bar mitzvah those oh my time for
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women to get good at load of the i'm like remember
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likely i was about as a lower should add some of the
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events of students have do the front but i
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will say this i mean bradley use of
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it if dancing or whatever it is when
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you when you did star is born i
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dislike brilliant idea surreal moment
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years ago i was amazing remember that
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i was in cinema current and a guy and got to
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introduce bradley come in he was showing a trailer
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for his movie and , just directed
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this huge increase in
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written this and and and knows
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move know move and we
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sat stood there on the stage with
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the whole audience and watched it
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and was so surreal we both had tears in her ever
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been drivers graduate that like memory and you and
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you edit host this whole thing which is not new
16:30
this like what did you a white suit on i crazy
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they are like was like think that's right like this like
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reg really like cool sudan's and he
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was sweating like like you and like i'm
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you were working your ass off does yeah
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yeah cool with my ass off it's
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he was fucking crazy it was like elvis
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invade like live with felt like vegas to that that
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that cinema con stadium is very a
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vertical remember it is it's not
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does not much that it feels addressing them in the thunder
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don't i look like i just eaten
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the million fried bananas sandwiches to
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i'm the same time at
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home and as fuck do remember
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that has happened on to leonard bernstein
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dancing in this movie know
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yeah yeah what they were i don't want give up but
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the there is a sort of magical moment i tell
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people i don't have you heard me to that bradley's
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right written directed and starting again
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and a movie this time is playing leonard bernstein
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synthesized it's movie about marriage is not
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a biopic but yes yeah do play
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leonard bernstein
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we may twenty first he just a just
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got back from massachusetts yes them into that
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some say i kept my yeah they have to say
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you know it's been four and half years in the making
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and feel very
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grateful i feel so grateful of this been
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such a labor of love for you man and you have put
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in the north and you've gone through so many ways
17:42
pages of shooting pieces and
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developing in our raining and in researching
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it and learn and jason was kind of to sit
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through lot of the test proves that i so
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every that allows by the time as walked
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back in my car my of his his read me
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apart of now are
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you add your by try to pretend
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the july when he said i could sit
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there for forty years and
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lots of what you did talk about you
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know a dork out on all that stuff what i'm so
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like you couldn't pay the
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only thing to do a with your first
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film you could have taken a much
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smaller bites but no the shoes
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scope and scale that they with big
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huge costar and or and
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a real a remake of like a beloved yeah
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and now you're going to move into this epic
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to have that a beloved
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american icon and and going
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into like make , and
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liberal prosthetics maybe or let's know lot
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i mean he's he's twenty five to two
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to is sixty nine says you're not
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phone in the same as you so i'm no different than all
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of you i'm in sean saw you're just the oscar
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levant and maybe you've created his whole entire
18:44
world jason and and will you've
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been do you for your own path and no
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one could even like compare on kiddo
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everybody down with they love a of his
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was the truth leno hundred and know if or know
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play below thirty anymore i died
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i don't you know what you know prosthetics yeah
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probably to below thirty if
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i don't dip below thirty probably i'd
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said the bradley grabbed his brothers by and leonard
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bernstein and he's gay while part of
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his life he was gay and i said can
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we make our duty to monitor murder there's
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a
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holding for last then
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, which burns new
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ways says i said he getting rid of these
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facts fan fan can get away
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going to stay back here to five yard line i could
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see him as going to them and them
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at parties are for i get make
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out with dude in movie everything is that yeah
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i got lucky i can run lines at
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the of his ah
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there was , the wizard
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nothing that was right for shown
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in the film means
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yeah
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you who's in the movies on certain other than
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scott alice huge part where
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you're joking i'm now living yeah scott
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alice director of of theater on the broadway
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away
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in her because his role as do it he said as
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we just close the of them so it's that southside
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out that early career that's cool
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and we will be right back
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some lemon owner nine and there's a little sick and
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like everyone are doing already done this at
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all bradley this a bradley up as well as
25:23
arca it's all about you right now fox
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bradley has nine nominations i fucked
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up while of academy award nominees
25:30
my until nine mother photos just
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finally clicked on wikipedia major
25:35
spiders i was there as party i was this party
25:37
you use been in it and i mean i know wells
25:39
like this you know i never forget anything
25:41
anybody mean has ever said right it's like
25:43
catalogs i just so i know exactly
25:45
where i was worried that if a challenge the
25:47
verb it's the sentence structure my number
25:49
so he said i never get out
25:52
of his life when they get this you know that the
25:54
see a party like four years ago at him at that
25:56
time it was like seven now my switches crayon
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i miss nuts and era that is credited
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as director guy i'm sitting next standing
26:03
there so woman who's dear friend is an
26:05
actress and goes how many you have
26:07
the idea as some have some
26:09
an email with three it's what world are we
26:12
living you
26:14
have seven nominate got
26:17
, what is wrong the mariners
26:19
i i knew when hate this business
26:22
business way i'm on every other
26:24
of them and looking i'm like to bro are you
26:26
such an asshole or whatever
26:28
from considered a doctor so i would
26:30
make it point to fucking crush them first
26:33
and first that vs rhythm it
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never forget that's a myth that same party
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the two thousand eleven nominee with daniel the fucking
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louis is that it was crazy and denzel
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was if i couldn't believe it right i'm like
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levitating and this
26:47
like siro female actress they
26:49
didn't know anna come to me go
26:52
they will universe or that i saw
26:54
your movie or are you deserve
26:56
them deserve them the
26:59
only one i am so the and
27:02
and then like ten twenty minutes later i'm
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not killing a passer like going the bathrooms
27:06
and how it is she like and females it said
27:11
what what what are we supposed to mean i
27:13
don't wear jewelry of went down
27:16
i don't remember like this
27:18
town because people are fucked
27:20
up men because it's all most
27:23
the time when you encounter people i
27:25
would say like eighty percent of interactions
27:27
have to do with them as
27:29
got nothing to do you know was in was while
27:31
you're alive one hundred percent right
27:33
time anybody says anything negative it's about it's
27:35
about their self hatred could you imagine saying
27:37
it's the money i mean like every now and he's fucked
27:40
up to do that now here's
27:43
where to push for use on prospectus and is kind
27:45
of what you saying before about feel like you're an asshole
27:48
none of us on in here would ever
27:50
actually actually plays at nothing
27:52
like that's what i will bust us money
27:54
though on our two thousand and twelve we were
27:57
an outdoor play
27:59
the same
28:00
need i say that well thank you we
28:02
, as good as i said plaza
28:04
is it was thirty or just as a to the the
28:09
i got this smells like your career although
28:11
i will say you know
28:13
coming up and like ninety ninety nine two thousand
28:16
and that the comedians that were very popular
28:18
back then mean humor was
28:21
the thing maria and
28:23
and being an insecure and
28:25
insecure person you know i was
28:27
like and i know i knew because a me
28:29
i got to know will all that circle and and
28:31
doing wedding crashers guts know those gay rights just
28:33
around like and seem like of and i'm
28:35
of there was good like the year
28:38
where i all i did was try to access
28:40
mean humor only out insecurity
28:43
in hopes the people would think i'm funny
28:45
and i still remember doing this like tv so
28:48
i'm it is so embarrassing and like really
28:50
hurting people's feelings only trying
28:52
to mimic the people that i
28:54
thought were funny and will do
28:56
remember this and i'll never forget man then
29:01
we were living next to each other and will came in
29:03
to where i was living in now and
29:06
he's like a man we had dinner the night before
29:09
made up as crime is else or anything for that
29:11
is is pretty most of my ,
29:13
but i'm your for i knock on your
29:15
hands hands
29:17
but i'll never never forget because will
29:19
who you know can be mean
29:22
but it's that you there's no ill will just like if
29:24
you know it's any feel safe and the way we do but
29:26
didn't know will that well then and
29:28
then was like him anymore we had dinner the other night
29:31
because how you think that won't the
29:33
know remember being the dinner thinking i was so
29:35
funny and got these two guys
29:37
my heroes were so thought that i was so
29:39
funny one of your memories
29:41
will you like was a either
29:43
was great as was doing is mm you're
29:45
in the and will arnett a that you are a
29:47
real asshole man you are real
29:50
asshole that was the
29:52
yeah by the way of your dogs
29:54
gone out the bathroom as a lot know what
29:57
times in four o'clock no
29:59
i think they the of best they literally thing by door
30:01
and that was like the first time first realize
30:04
i had i had drugs alcohol and
30:06
it was will saying that to me and
30:08
i just never forget was like oh the guy
30:10
that i think is doing mean humor
30:12
is telling me like truth about
30:15
that and it was like between my entire
30:17
life in that moment was when i stopped
30:20
pursuing this sort of means humor thing
30:22
as , career never do members i will do
30:25
my religion wow wow
30:28
thanks for sharing that rally that's yeah that's
30:30
amazing and bradley was it was it was because
30:33
you were trying to quote fed and then
30:35
that's yells doris of yeah i mean
30:37
zero self esteem a try
30:39
to you know zero and thinking like
30:41
oh here's something like my brain works
30:43
fast oh i can be i can be mean
30:45
to people right if i'm like finding the holes
30:47
and can and then and then you realize that
30:49
it's not mean it's just as sent
30:51
as a type of humor to sense of comedies
30:54
and like don rickles was that
30:56
was a i would argue that like i mean it's tricky
30:58
that's a tricky conversation but i
31:01
didn't i was so starving that didn't
31:03
matter that i was hurting people as even
31:05
think that i was because i don't think i was paranoid powerful
31:07
enough to hurt anybody anyway so never thought is really
31:09
hurting anybody because how could i if i'm
31:11
worthless right so there isn't the
31:13
sort the pre of that if you don't
31:15
be so we have another friend
31:19
united gun of not
31:21
long before that we'd both weirdly
31:23
just randomly added to a photo
31:25
shoot at the same studio remember that
31:29
for , for but anyway and you are
31:31
with your bunch other people there were doing and in different
31:33
stages in hollywood like on for
31:35
most or something and you
31:37
were cutting going to that stage where you are just being
31:39
very aggressive and
31:42
that ends you
31:44
know in you are funny but
31:46
you are also like sometimes had really hard coroner's
31:49
like whoa man and remember
31:51
thinking and then that night was night
31:53
was of that moment when was a
31:55
and the truth was i
31:57
remember at that time being bad at that stage
32:00
but he was there thing like why i feel
32:02
really bad belly been eminem really
32:04
strong i know i think that it's okay i
32:06
think he's just trying fuck around and
32:08
is okay and in that happened with our
32:10
other friend in
32:12
a dismember thinking there
32:14
was a tricky thing but i just members
32:17
a game you know i i love you and wanted
32:19
you to be
32:22
okay you know any mean and knew
32:24
that you weren't feeling great about
32:28
was that the moment brother that you just described
32:31
always there something more even more significant
32:33
that made you that
32:35
clicked in your brain it says oh shit
32:37
i'm really have myself
32:39
and
32:40
maybe take life i was no i mean i
32:42
was so last i was so and
32:44
i was was you enter i was so and
32:46
i had was addicted to cocaine in of as the
32:48
other thing and you enjoyed your memory injured
32:50
your leg oh yeah seven
32:52
my gillies tendon a right right after i got
32:55
fired last quit alias and
32:57
that you know it was like was a was in
32:59
another episode people say you know success
33:02
will
33:03
show you who you are you know they will bring
33:05
out it'll surface who you are
33:07
because what triggers is
33:09
usually a pretty permissive environment around
33:11
you so ,
33:14
know you don't you can drop whatever
33:16
artifice you've been using
33:18
here to for right self what's
33:20
great about your incredible
33:22
level of success is that it
33:25
did the opposite of what is
33:28
is , traditional and cliche
33:31
in this business for you know that the more famous
33:33
and rich you are the the big prick you are it
33:35
allowed you to be
33:37
as kind and vulnerable
33:40
and human as you
33:42
innately are with no
33:44
fear of that being misinterpreted
33:47
have talked about before but how ron howard's for this
33:49
great northstar for me with that like he
33:51
doesn't ever worry about anybody thinking that he's
33:53
too eager talk to them were too eager
33:55
for eager job when eager for into a room all
33:57
smiles and chatty yeah you know that
34:00
he doesn't need it you the same and
34:02
is allowed you to be what
34:04
is universally agreed upon
34:07
it is far as your reputation
34:09
goes your attention to ah
34:12
the your coworkers irrespective
34:14
the position that they hold the said i'm
34:16
a it's just it's i think it's
34:18
are incredibly admirable thing and you can't
34:20
hide from that anyone i will say this
34:23
you know i did have the benefit of that
34:25
happening when i was twenty nine i definitely
34:27
would not been out i thought was make
34:29
either they made it i got a wendy's commerce
34:31
and i call my dad saying i know i'm in a hotel
34:33
but has a window that opens like and and it's
34:36
and you know so i mean i mean yes in
34:38
terms the made it thing you know that's when i
34:40
made it but i
34:42
definitely did not feel moving to
34:44
los angeles for alias feeling like feeling was
34:46
back in highschool couldn't get in get in clubs
34:48
like know girl's mother really look me like it was
34:50
like was having a totally depressed
34:53
i'm you know that so so and
34:55
twenty nine it wasn't of really hangover i
34:57
was thirty six wanted the hangover so
34:59
i got to go through all of those
35:01
things before same
35:03
even know slade into my my
35:06
existence on a daily level so from all
35:08
that happened before any of
35:10
that makes you so appreciative of where you are
35:12
yet another just like that's like oh is it's element
35:14
has nothing do anything in while i was going seem
35:16
so that's what i was gonna say do some and introducing
35:18
has be that way before but i would agree
35:21
with bradley bradley as you
35:23
actually went through this metamorphosis
35:26
before paying over like you said
35:28
before all this stuff in and having those
35:30
realization that having that change
35:33
loud you that's what opens
35:35
you up and allowed you to be you
35:38
in
35:38
allowed you to be it's true what
35:40
what what area of when when you say that what is
35:42
going through all those things and even though that is of
35:44
again you know still working on self
35:47
esteem up until you know like year ago and still
35:49
do but like but , def we made
35:51
major breakthroughs you
35:53
know twenty nine to thirty
35:55
four two three thirty four where
35:57
i least was able like stand in front somebody
35:59
and the and listen and talk and yeah by
36:02
touching bottom was touching bottom one the things
36:04
that allowed you to kind of push off oh
36:06
my a media that was the of course yeah
36:08
yeah name's guardian i plan on
36:10
seeing lot of the organization touching bottom
36:12
is flowing river than that sean it was
36:14
it ordered a bargain improperly was
36:16
can't relate i can't really probably
36:18
was but the fact that will they they call it your
36:20
eskimo will will is the reason
36:23
the , he took that risk of having that our
36:25
conversation with me me
36:27
and like july of two thousand
36:29
and four
36:33
that that that put me on a path
36:35
of the deciding to change my life and it's
36:37
late and truly will arnett he
36:39
is the reason there's nobody
36:41
else or not doesn't know
36:43
the reason that that that i like oh you
36:46
know and it helped that it was the guy that i thought
36:48
it was emulating gemstone i'm saying is
36:50
always somebody else said it like the king told
36:52
me the that that that
36:54
was the thing that was so crazy my with
36:56
the king came down to tell you the
36:58
what you're doing not what you really should
37:00
be doing what's right or who you i blow our
37:02
i was just going as as the simple question how did
37:05
you learn esteem than how did you
37:07
get it back or discover it was there
37:09
a specific moment or was a gradual
37:12
ah
37:13
you know increase over of of
37:15
events that led you go okay i
37:17
can it's okay like myself it's not selfish
37:20
thing like myself and all of those guys
37:22
mean i don't know about all of you but
37:24
it's a life long expiration
37:27
i definitely get her acres and
37:30
has occurred in increments had started about and
37:32
my relationships to men relationships think i would always
37:34
idolize male figures and then
37:36
have them fall off the pedestal because they were
37:38
own created something that wasn't even in
37:40
one can live up to and
37:43
then am and ones aren't earning that
37:45
was sort of the second thing to be okay to
37:47
be feel comfortable and the things
37:49
i want create and having want voice having
37:51
then just intimacy then hardest intimacy
37:54
and quite honestly it hasn't been until
37:57
about it year and half ago that i
37:59
decided like i'm just
38:01
at sea and i i love
38:03
so much of my life but i'm so lost
38:05
and it wasn't too you know working with
38:07
new therapist and quite honestly like
38:10
today i can sit in front of you saying
38:12
i actually do have self esteem as not related
38:14
to any outside thing and i didn't have enough
38:16
for forty six years so think i'll
38:18
wait a long time so again to
38:20
do that that's coming say barely i
38:22
there is such difference
38:24
you know we got we had the benefit over
38:27
the last couple months we were in new york and stuff
38:29
and and hanging out for the the
38:31
most we've hung out and number of years i
38:35
it is been awesome the
38:37
knew
38:38
in his place in see you comfortable at
38:40
nothing is made me happier didn't
38:42
even hanging out the house uglier into
38:44
seeing lu bu and making
38:46
food and i honest to god dude i
38:49
was like
38:52
now i'm a great i i it's
38:54
made me happy to see you so
38:56
happy with who you are in united
38:58
last year i called you eat your
39:01
mirror this i sit down i
39:03
had moment last year was like i
39:05
was so
39:07
dup about like who i was
39:09
in relationships and stuff
39:12
and i had had michael brantley i
39:14
woke up and went make coffee a week holy
39:17
shit it's me
39:19
not everybody else it's me
39:21
and that on a car taught probably better
39:24
such as he was in same spot
39:26
and we talked about it we talked about this guy need for me
39:28
on this thing as an unbelievable
39:31
when out
39:34
yeah it does you guys are awesome by god
39:36
i'm in the is can
39:39
you i love myself since that time
39:41
i gotta let alone i sort of sight
39:43
out of him and assorted autumn i say like i
39:45
care i cannot relate to any adult
39:47
nobody can believe that you love yourself
39:50
how what you are size of we love yourself
39:52
support our kids you guys attributes
39:54
ah any of this kind of
39:56
do founder of the peace
39:59
and and centredness
40:00
north of to is is your correlation
40:02
to to having your your children
40:04
and and trying to provide them some
40:07
some guidance early on that that
40:09
perhaps you may have missed
40:11
or or or see commoner
40:14
is at the i'm sure it's all part of it and wouldn't
40:16
be just the only thing but i
40:19
know you're both incredible dad so i'm i'm
40:21
but that's that's why as i
40:24
mean fatherhood is i
40:27
mean everything changed so
40:29
the answers absolutely yes along
40:31
with like you know how i drink water i mean
40:33
it's like you know every single thing is
40:35
is absolutely shaded
40:38
by or some brought
40:40
up in glorious colors by
40:42
the fact that i get to him be
40:44
a father to father wonderful a
40:46
human being and millions of the absolute
40:49
greatest thing greatest in and i think it really in
40:51
regards to the work we do i
40:53
, literally time but as a couple days ago
40:56
and thinking
40:59
about you know you have is wonderful thing a breakthrough
41:01
with the script writer you like my gosh i personally
41:03
have a wonderful moment on this on on set
41:06
are wonderful moment the editing room
41:09
you like forty or of those
41:11
moments everyday with kids that are that
41:13
level of joy act that it was like the idea
41:15
image and that's just not as a spinning that is
41:17
just the truth in of yeah
41:19
i was like killer give me the of day and
41:21
of that this game cruiser bikes but like
41:24
you know that every sixty two filling with me she says
41:26
that where the read a newspaper but as
41:28
like i'm watching this gives you the okay daddy
41:30
and i'm like this is the greatest moment is the
41:32
got my life right now is fucking
41:35
isn't the best moment
41:37
or have my life right now mean it's
41:39
just crazy scotty nice guy or
41:41
a walk and elsewhere in chicago and
41:43
ah we saw this one woman carrying
41:46
like family of five year old kid or handsome
41:48
kind of big kids and nurse and his shoe
41:50
fell off and she was as she was walking
41:52
like fifty miles an hour and then twenty
41:54
steps behind was it was the
41:56
has been with two other kids north everybody's
41:58
screaming crying and i did return
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this guy ago
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we both like each other like thank god
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that we're ff
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ff as at i have to say that is not our
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experience now experience know you know not
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only that knowledge might be the other thing is not people
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keep saying it's flies by and
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i'm like i'm guess so i have not
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experienced that feel like feel like changed
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twenty thousand diapers it's like groundhog
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day as like things couldn't progress more up in
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a faster their income is how ya it
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there's passports and slow parts but it leaves
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resign as a question early as it did did
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find for me at one these it does do is it accelerates
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your work on yourself because you
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want to not infect them
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with the crap you don't have yet figured out
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as one hundred for yeah yeah of course users
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that seen that i made this guy knows his
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what you don't i don't want my kids
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to have recover from their childhood
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yeah and oilers oilers
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i've discovered his
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i found myself saying telling me
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i'm myself and others and narrative about
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there certain things my childhood my related to my
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parents like this thing press play i'm kid from
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philly get it's of myself as a guy and always going to look
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up at it as enough whatever it is an
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immensely like actually what is the
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truth or like what was
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my childhood like and the minute i actually
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had a real assessments
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of my childhood my upbringing
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then i had a foundation to work off of
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without the foundation it is i think
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impossible literally
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impossible to build self esteem because
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you're building on something that's fabricated and
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be my you chose because you chose not to
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acknowledge your childhood you didn't remember it
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or what why why remembered it's a
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it's it was shaped by whatever insecurity
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or however i learned how to survive
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i thought in this world right
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i created a narrative that allow me to
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survive in the way that i could but the older
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you get the more narrow that some allowed
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that that your life becomes yeah because it's
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not return that you're not really
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really living your true life because
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is that even based on reality as and
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it's really popular to keep telling
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the story of whatever story you're
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telling about yourself is way that your life is
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gonna go and eat what you gotta do east is
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started change the story it's like any
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you know there's this idea that any time you
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take memory out and look at it you change
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every time and you put it back and you change
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it so whenever you have happening now
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sean and kind of those were you saying if you're not feeling
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good about yourself and then you take that memory
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is what happened what does that seem that was kind what you're
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saying but that's not what happened and
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what you're doing is you been killing yourself
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this fucked up story line and
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it starts to get worse the as and
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so the gap between what happened and what what
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actually happened what is those those
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that get gets wider and wider and there's
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more and more pain in there when
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you do that stolen election
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well i wanted to ask question about an
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at two hundred and overflow i've admired
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i'm always you i don't know i've never asked
51:10
you i can't believe never
51:12
as i'm sure you got this in the press junket
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everything but i don't know the answer why
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did you pick a star is born to
51:18
jason's coming way earlier when
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it was done i don't know to three times before
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and weren't scared to take on such in
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a massive iconic kind of
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thing i'm sorry as such does it wanted and
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pointed it does but target on i mean it takes
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lot of guts to job as a i don't know you pass
51:34
i'm from nine times but i i've never asked
51:37
mean is jason those can't really choose
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, it is is going to motivate you to do
51:42
all that work that it fucking
51:44
takes to write and direct something and
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it's sort of you know i always always
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me i can like play of rocks
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and only because i thought i could
51:54
crush air guitar i'm not
51:57
so much but i'm guitar crazy about like
51:59
making
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well you get there that i went on jimmy fallon
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and , as they said can i do and air guitar
52:05
just to see if i believed that i i
52:08
i kidding so i went on i went the states
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a pulitzer us did i do doubt my the river
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by merely out and i did it and
52:14
i looked at as at say goodbye that
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how he'll do with our sports that's
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hell of a i don't know
52:23
about as think could pull this off think was is your before
52:25
but this was is maybe someone who's that's nice
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him as a as as works i you seen our
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that do airbase
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oh god you are you kidding night court
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tomorrow night korea and then rather
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law and order in order lawyer would not be
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your they didn't i cor do that i've done
52:40
i've done my grades you the best one
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of best their guitars of all time is john glazer
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in the but we i went
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yeah we did their gets her with her conan
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nice room the flute in the loaner
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inside an ,
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floods floods the of the
52:55
clarinet the clarinet
52:58
so kept he had a wet read wet
53:00
the wet the , to wait
53:02
so now i have another thing so a star is born
53:04
and leonard bernstein what is their
53:06
music thing where it went into music
53:08
love star decide to the stars were i
53:10
wonder i wanna tell love story always thought like
53:13
of that seemed moving to me and
53:15
that that's what i and then i thought of there's no better
53:17
way as you know sean is like you can
53:19
hide when you think mrs can literally cannot
53:21
hide it's impossible because your voice
53:24
is the instrument and has to be loose for the chords
53:26
to vibrate and if your tenure tense
53:28
or you're stuck it's not going work
53:30
as your arms as to cost of i couldn't like
53:33
mary that in the in a way that
53:35
would be that would be awesome and be that's how that's
53:37
sort started and got it sort of property
53:39
that was my warner brothers clint eastwood's going do
53:41
it he has a but i didn't think i could play jackson
53:43
main i had than american sniper yet hadn't
53:45
done elephant man i thought i honestly
53:47
thought that i could i would be acting against
53:49
the i just don't know enough honestly about
53:52
life and shit i don't think i could play this guy
53:54
and then once i thought i could play at he
53:57
didn't want to do it and then thought well you
53:59
know what i am forty i'm
54:01
all the directors i admire they don't
54:03
really want me to do their movies so what
54:05
am i gonna do and i and i all want do be
54:07
the center of the creative experience i'm gonna have to fucking
54:09
do myself as when we
54:11
were we say when easy that noted that the
54:14
directors you admire one want you to do
54:16
that i'm it is just as just as have no
54:18
way look i've had an incredible opportunity
54:20
work with great directors but know like the cohen
54:23
brothers mourn scorsese paul thomas anderson
54:25
david fincher in , list
54:27
goes on and on we i just couldn't be
54:29
any those guys movies kathryn
54:32
bigelow am so so and
54:34
was forty know the guy i just spent a decade on
54:36
the road basically and
54:38
i'm and had look at you know two or three
54:40
experiences where you know it took
54:42
a took like pound flesh out of me mad
54:44
because i am so invest in projects i
54:46
do and i felt like i wasn't working with people
54:48
that really wanted to work with to grow and get
54:50
better and i'm like i'm forty i
54:52
want a kid i want to slow down and want
54:54
to do stuff that i really care about and that's what
54:57
started that that out so so
54:59
now that you're doing leonard bernstein there
55:01
was no thing i was going to be conductor that honestly
55:03
license i was kid bugs bunny
55:05
tom jerry you know the hand spending
55:07
hundreds of hours by myself as kid
55:09
pretending i could conduct like air guitar
55:12
and their commitments this project was around
55:14
just finished stars were and i thought gosh
55:17
let me research leonard bernstein
55:19
if bernstein feel like there's story in there that i
55:21
could commit four and half years to his own
55:23
how do it any without any with shorter
55:25
time shorter made can write
55:27
it and do it and then that's that's darla and
55:29
i did and i did to the all this research about this
55:31
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55:47
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55:49
barking music that is just you
55:51
know music nuclear uke i had a secret weapon
55:54
in the stars born was lady gaga the secret
55:56
weapon i haven't this movie is fucking leonard
55:58
bernstein and gustav mahler that
56:00
music and and but but what is the
56:02
kinda what is your connection with music
56:04
did you i don't remember you singing
56:06
bradley before i never like known yep
56:08
yep so when you were like singing the family we
56:10
bradley seeing all these so sad but will will
56:13
worked my ass off i know i obviously
56:15
i mean but again i thought maybe i could sing
56:17
but you i had to work really hard because we did everything
56:19
live we sang it will include using his
56:21
incredible they did it it's a it's fucking
56:24
nuts is this fucking crazy
56:26
i'm a weird way suggests it
56:28
didn't do anything know nothing as him right
56:30
now my math test whether something
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is most of or just mail and we're looking at going be
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so go an average voter hannah both as
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things out there and talk and talk what
56:38
about out where does the
56:41
owners kind of tray question them for
56:43
you've answered this one a bunch of times too but the
56:45
passion between acting
56:47
and directing their completely
56:49
different in their creative agendas
56:52
endeavors and goals one
56:54
is a bit more singular and
56:57
and other one is a bit more sort
56:59
global with multiple departments and
57:01
your beard and went with where
57:03
did those two things balance
57:05
for you and said that you know i'm going to say which
57:07
do you like more but or what what
57:10
what type of mood are you in when in gravitate
57:12
more towards one versus the other
57:14
the true that has always been the same thing it's never
57:16
been different weather was being on alias and asking
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for everybody's dailies on vhs tapes that
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i would watch at home in sydney yelling room every
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time wasn't on said because i really i did
57:25
was i do three seems as sydney bristow they
57:27
our trip wasn't like make popcorn so
57:29
i wasn't doing anything and i'm and but
57:31
i learned idealists fascinated about
57:33
the process of making cinema and
57:35
i'm and it's always been that and so it's
57:37
never really change and i don't even see it as two separate
57:39
things jason that success it's all part
57:41
the same thing but , answers
57:44
there's nothing i enjoy more artistically
57:46
them than doing the things that that you and
57:48
i've talked about lot which is you know having
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and there's actually seen the movie where it were that were it
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without any help so little said night
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and eight minutes away someone's coming that's going to stay
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till the end of the suit which i never would have done
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but i'm for tagged as i'm doing it i know which
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in that way jason said it before but we all we've
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because of those things about forty moments of like
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that's why like ways but dead you never were apart
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you were some you start you stuck to be all the
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time so but i thought it was a good thing i
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know it's is that this would i fucked
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you're right you don't want to and
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the it's not even that you don't want your kids to
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kids to that later as he
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just don't want not do it now you don't
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want miss it and us as enjoy it
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it's really sell isis enjoy hanging
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whether just love it
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yeah if same is that picture
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that play was when best form is everything
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about how allow man yeah abu
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theater right yes and
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where it originated how crazy
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those are so sick that i did a research
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will be avenue name's you know what noticed rarely
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every single night correct if i'm wrong but
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i noticed as euros
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oh you mean about this story get you had as
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as you performances delhomme
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in your hand you had rubber band around
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your hand right that you know it not
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i did the thing that i used to do is killer the in
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oh those are you guys did in of that are you did
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that and you just how the snare the whole time
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the fingers over each other yada so you i
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thought had a rubber band or know
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what didn't you i assume be telling
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me that your back was all fucked over yeah
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i'm in no way that the left side of my face get larger
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than the right and the my right hand because
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we did three hundred sixty five forms and my right
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hand actually started to like have issues
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yeah now when when you have you
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done theater since then
1:03:21
i have not unfortunately and
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as a year which sucks because i do it it's
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it's one of those things where is the hardest thing is
1:03:28
the most rewarding and is the most monotonous thing
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it's like it's own emphasis right to write
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it but the monotony of new like oh my
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god and then you're like has kind of great oh jesus
1:03:36
i gonna love it i'm
1:03:39
i hope to do it right after maestro actually maybe
1:03:41
williamstown because it's five week thing when you're
1:03:43
in and out who
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every good remember like other the like being on stage
1:03:47
and is the greatest thing in the world it was when
1:03:49
you did before that of three days i mean
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even right what would you think detour i mean even the
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energy the tour the right when you guys are there mm thick
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as it is nothing like this is fucking is nothing
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i sort of funny the well you like
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guess it's crazy idea where were all talking about
1:04:02
about doing same and think sounds great will cut
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to my the hundred episode was
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a nutshell is not really our
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littlest it was like a second ago like way
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this crazy thing we're going do and i know either way
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that we couldn't have had the more perfect
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one hundred i know guys really
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, than one an iron fist or it's perfection
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it makes sense because we're all favour fifty
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times forgotten that were during the pagans i
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know you know so nice
1:04:30
yeah bradley men
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i'm so glad you did your on this a
1:04:35
miss an episode with us use
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that a big part of our allies and we
1:04:39
love you man and just
1:04:42
, for can do to keep reaching i am
1:04:44
i don't think i've ever see this earnestly the anybody
1:04:47
but keep fuckin reaching for
1:04:49
you know the stars and in hitting from outside
1:04:51
of park and take a big swings it's
1:04:54
fucking awesome and an aspiring
1:04:56
a oh in my are just love you
1:04:58
do love you man i love you guys
1:05:00
really it really is it's
1:05:03
very exciting to watch you go
1:05:05
oh man
1:05:06
thank you and we wish you here tonight i
1:05:09
know i was listening eliza of fakka
1:05:11
was so there man
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when when the movie come out as like the individual
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give a toasted your name please yes
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i won't come out the fall of twenty three
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a thing of holy shit
1:05:22
you shoot the whole thing out new york
1:05:24
no no we started in massachusetts
1:05:26
them were in new york east hampton and
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down and then we take break and then we go to italy
1:05:30
for three weeks and then we end in london in last
1:05:32
day last two days or mahler's resurrection
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at eley cathedral of know that
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the blake is one large gothic cathedrals in the
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world live ,
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and with a hundred and eighty course seventy four
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orchestra that soprano met soprano which
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is guess these incredible singers these mean it's gonna
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be gonna next time and like that
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way i'm sylvia i'm get excited she
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knows who knows little work in august we're going to do with live
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like it's like it's either works it either taking on
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the school doing is dope and scale
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and adjusted them
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the can't just the logistics of it alone
1:06:02
yeah no i don't think shouldn't admire
1:06:04
you more know it's amazing an incident
1:06:06
is to have that kind of that ambition
1:06:09
is female jason did his get you know you
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good tee off tomorrow is going played seen
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in that is gonna is gonna do six mile
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run on treadmill i mean i'm i know i might
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never have butterballs after hillary
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that mean that that nice to me love it's
1:06:21
lot and sean you never played
1:06:23
golf bag and day right this is relatively
1:06:25
new rights isn't meat when i started
1:06:27
when as a team with them as as you damn well
1:06:30
felt like when we first met you are not like got
1:06:32
like will was obsessed golf and you didn't play
1:06:34
i'm not sure i stopped for a was them will
1:06:36
die back and during covered by the way the real
1:06:38
quick the best thing in this i think of as my the
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thing is that like who was the guess they they stay
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subbed in you win that like formula
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one race and like the i did
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like that and him because
1:06:49
he wanted azizi suck it up at a rate i
1:06:51
wasn't guy or really any banks nobody said
1:06:53
jason player it's like is it
1:06:55
legit it is admit your power and
1:06:57
up so it's true it's like do to keep wanting
1:07:00
one is formula one race and was
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rambling badly know what i do that it
1:07:04
was it was beach grand prix thing and it is an
1:07:06
easy and then we usually go you won
1:07:08
whole thing in know he won and then recently
1:07:10
retired but it's that those tournaments
1:07:13
there many different gods many good though the bob
1:07:15
hope or every go yeah one that twice out like
1:07:17
is playing and winning woman i don't i managed
1:07:19
who are you fucking about i know
1:07:21
has horses bradley's
1:07:23
time as evidence of painterly to
1:07:25
sit on shown go around
1:07:28
that long as you get the of when was the
1:07:31
best , wherever and six speed it up whenever
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was million
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mile or they said a said more
1:07:40
humanities as
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massive as more an
1:07:50
asus at least you
1:07:53
get fired and good idea coming out
1:07:56
to my mother earth and cinema has already
1:07:58
the buyer himself bradley thank you
1:08:00
well thank you everybody loves power
1:08:02
thank god
1:08:04
thank you bye argue for the view what it what it
1:08:06
what an honor thank legend measurement of
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my buddy
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great perfect guess for one hundred
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episodes and it's like said of any
1:08:16
felt if you like families that have the perfect
1:08:18
perfect idea i don't was i know a desolate
1:08:21
thought i thought you know we we we need to have some me
1:08:23
that we all know in there would there's history and
1:08:25
family the we had a i had on in of cruises while
1:08:27
the we hadn't had barely of we had him on the tour
1:08:29
but you know into
1:08:31
so generous to be so honest
1:08:33
although been with with the knowing
1:08:35
that as a just as three you know taken
1:08:38
around and am now
1:08:40
times and of it but think of i love i
1:08:42
love to chat site that because
1:08:45
how many people that helps how many people relate
1:08:47
to it if you're if you're having similar
1:08:49
issues that you can relate to somebody
1:08:51
even like bradley cooper who is going through
1:08:54
the same thing as anybody else so it
1:08:56
it normalizes a
1:08:58
it and a is a constant process
1:09:00
it is the ability to actually connect with yourself
1:09:02
and in in be able to go in
1:09:05
bradley has and i mean and you guys have noticed
1:09:07
the to we talked about you know he has done
1:09:09
lot of work and he's yeah and
1:09:11
we know other people have to in our lives and we
1:09:13
we have members are family and ourselves
1:09:16
who we talk about these things all
1:09:18
the time about being in touch with where we're at
1:09:20
and what's going on being honest with yourself
1:09:22
on the greyhounds brown and self aware yeah
1:09:24
and itself winter's comes from being honest about
1:09:27
where you're at it no
1:09:29
think that i love that stuff i
1:09:31
can talk all day about the you the idea
1:09:33
of whatever is you are whatever storied
1:09:35
is you decide iowa that you're so i like
1:09:38
and people love getting hung up on their story
1:09:40
they love it they love it they love and is the
1:09:42
whole idea they go on and also like echoes
1:09:45
the future to if you're talking about it or
1:09:47
you know she's gonna be really hard than shit gonna
1:09:49
be really hard that
1:09:50
is all you can decide for more information
1:09:52
second my instagram stars yes
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, for gotta keep driving people
1:09:56
your social if
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you want to see
1:10:00
scotty high in their living room or
1:10:02
asking for commercials a look
1:10:05
back story we tell ourselves that
1:10:07
korea or talent show but
1:10:11
a way we did last week but are
1:10:14
you truly this this one hundred
1:10:16
thing is a real a real
1:10:18
like i'm surprised every
1:10:20
time i'm a the that we
1:10:22
have podcast like this packers
1:10:24
tomorrow i can't believe we
1:10:26
do a podcast but he wrote it
1:10:28
i hope never get used to it because
1:10:31
, stays as soon as it's like oh yeah that's
1:10:34
so great when we get to go do that
1:10:36
either i is so thank you everybody
1:10:38
forgets yeah the yeah so do is is
1:10:41
not only do we get to connect with our
1:10:43
friends like bradley but we get to meet
1:10:45
new people that we new people know and
1:10:47
we get to kind of pick their brain and hopefully
1:10:49
we're asking some the questions you want
1:10:51
asked and ah you keep
1:10:53
listening will keep doing it just means
1:10:56
is just the world to us of
1:10:58
thank you thank you for listening thank you
1:11:00
for being there and i'm so grateful
1:11:02
that you give us the opportunity to do it so they
1:11:04
are you a big genuine since
1:11:06
like to thank you the else you have a heart
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