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Sophia Franklin and you are listening to Sophia with an

3:00

F, but

3:02

I think I'm in the mood for a quickie. I

3:09

also got made fun of for

3:11

sounding really, really stupid, which

3:15

not much has changed. Although I do

3:17

make a living off my voice now,

3:20

which is kind of interesting. What

3:28

is up party fucking people?

3:30

I should not swear within

3:32

the first second of filming

3:34

this slash recording it,

3:38

but actually this isn't going on YouTube, which

3:40

it should, but there

3:42

is lint all

3:45

over my microphone. That's

3:47

not why it's not getting uploaded to

3:50

YouTube, but there will be clips on

3:52

tick tock and I'm basically naked. So

3:55

you should probably go follow

3:57

me. So if you then have Franklin the why,

3:59

just kidding. a huge baggy teacher and I'm sitting

4:01

on the floor. I do look

4:05

pretty cute though. I do

4:07

look pretty cute. Okay guys, happy

4:10

Monday. Let's jump into this mini.

4:12

Now it looks like I've dandruffed

4:14

on my shirt, but

4:17

it's not. Even though

4:19

I do kind of suffer from dandruff here

4:21

and there. And with that,

4:26

welcome to Sofia with an F. We

4:28

are going to do an SOS

4:31

mini today and I'm

4:34

very excited because listen to this

4:37

first one. Hey Sofia, I'm going

4:39

to a new high school in

4:41

September. Do you have any advice

4:43

on making a ton of new

4:46

friends and getting people to know

4:48

me? I am

4:50

always so fucking

4:52

shocked when I hear that people

4:56

are in high school listening to my

4:59

show. Even though

5:01

I guess like it's not as raunchy, like

5:03

I used to really be raunchy and like

5:05

step by step, the how

5:08

to give a blow job, hilarious

5:10

coming from me by the way.

5:12

But also high schoolers are no

5:14

longer high schoolers. Like

5:16

you guys look and act like

5:18

you're 26 years old. So I

5:21

guess you know what? It makes sense. Here's

5:24

the thing about

5:26

high school is every

5:29

high school is totally

5:31

different when it comes to who

5:35

the popular kid is. Contrary to

5:37

like what you see on every

5:40

movie where it's like the

5:42

football jock and the hot

5:44

blonde cheerleader and like those

5:46

are the popular kids. I

5:49

don't think so. Like in

5:51

my high school, the

5:54

popular people were in student

5:57

body and like the student body.

16:00

pulling back and then pulling

16:02

back even more. That is

16:04

on him. I think that it

16:06

was a manipulation tactic to

16:09

throw some crazy shit out there

16:12

on the first date to maybe

16:14

hook up with you. I really do and if

16:17

it wasn't and it was just reckless

16:20

behavior on his part, all

16:22

the more reason to say thank God. Thank

16:27

God. This guy is no longer in my

16:29

fucking life and in the

16:33

off chance that

16:35

he decided to

16:37

pull back because

16:39

you did engage in

16:41

something sexual with him on the first

16:44

date. Then

16:46

fuck this

16:49

dude. He can

16:51

suck my dick. Any

16:54

guy who's like that and

16:56

loses respect for a woman because she hooks

16:58

up on a first date, especially

17:01

after basically saying he wanted

17:03

her hand in marriage. Fuck

17:07

them. Literally, they're gross and

17:09

they're the type of dudes that

17:11

are like, Oh my

17:14

God, I'm just like, I'm really holding out to

17:16

like find a virgin wife and

17:18

those are my standards. Guys

17:20

like that are disgusting and gross

17:23

and have a very outdated, ridiculous,

17:28

insecure and straight

17:32

up fucking stupid point of view

17:34

and perspective of the world. So

17:37

good riddance and again,

17:41

don't let this dictate how

17:44

you behave on another first date.

17:47

I have said this and I will say it again.

17:50

I have. Okay, how many

17:52

boyfriends have I had six

17:54

maybe I'm going to say

17:57

three of those six, maybe four. hooked

17:59

up with on a first date. Okay.

18:03

Period. Mic drop. I'm

18:11

ready to be a wife. Yeah,

18:14

I said it. I

18:16

don't have a fiance or anything

18:18

close to it, but I'm

18:20

ready. The only thing is

18:22

I'm starting to wonder if I might

18:25

have to catch a flight

18:28

to find the one to find

18:30

my man or excuse me,

18:32

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20:37

Moving on, Sophia

20:39

I'm 26 and

20:41

just came out as a lesbian.

20:43

My boyfriend doesn't understand why I don't

20:46

want to stay with him. I'm

20:48

a girly girl and I'm attracted to

20:50

girly girls. Now that I've accepted

20:53

myself, I just don't see my boyfriend or

20:55

any man as anything

20:57

other than platonic and

21:00

hairy and gross. Sorry,

21:08

I'm just thinking about how

21:11

I wish I was just... I do

21:13

consider myself pretty fluid when it comes

21:15

to my sexuality, but like it would

21:17

be kind of

21:19

fucking dope to be a lesbian. I'm

21:23

not one. I don't

21:25

know if that's okay to say in 2024,

21:28

but to just not deal with

21:30

guys because you're right. They are

21:32

hairy and they are fucking gross

21:35

and I feel that, but you

21:40

saying my boyfriend

21:42

doesn't understand why I don't want

21:45

to stay with him after

21:48

you came out as

21:51

a lesbian and

21:54

let him know, does he

21:56

not know

22:00

what the term lesbian means.

22:03

Does he not

22:06

believe you? Like, does he think

22:08

this is like a phase or

22:10

whatever other just completely

22:12

ignorant people seem to think?

22:16

Then, I mean, the relationship's

22:18

over. You

22:20

like vagina. You

22:23

no longer like penis. He

22:26

wants you

22:28

to stay the

22:31

same as you were before you,

22:33

I don't know, decided

22:36

that you like pussy. This

22:39

isn't saying to me, my

22:42

boyfriend doesn't understand why I don't want to stay with

22:44

him. Then I think

22:46

you kind of dated a idiot

22:50

or you know what? I'm going to try to

22:52

be sensitive and empathetic right now. Either

22:56

way, regardless if it's because you

22:58

cheated or came out as a

23:01

lesbian or what have you, you

23:04

are ending the relationship and it is

23:06

going to hurt him. Right? It's going

23:09

to break his heart. So

23:13

I think maybe he's like a

23:15

little bit in denial and

23:18

maybe he just doesn't really want

23:20

to believe that that's your truth

23:22

and the truth of what's

23:25

happening. So I

23:27

don't know. I guess we can

23:29

be a little bit patient with him,

23:31

but also just stick true

23:34

to who you are

23:36

and eventually I think he'll fucking get

23:38

it. Cause I don't, I

23:40

don't get my boyfriend doesn't understand why I

23:42

don't want to stay with him. Like, is

23:44

he fine with an

23:46

open relationship and you not engaging

23:50

in anything with him sexually, but

23:53

you wanting to engage

23:55

in things sexually outside of the relationship

23:57

with women. This probably isn't.

24:00

that rare. Because dudes,

24:02

I mean, there was

24:04

like a dude the other day who asked

24:06

me if I had ever hooked up with

24:08

a girl and I said yes and he

24:10

was like, oh my god, like that's so

24:12

hot. Which,

24:14

okay, great. I could see how

24:16

that's hot, but it also kind

24:18

of like signaled a little bit

24:21

of immaturity to me because it

24:23

was like, it's

24:25

like a fetishy thing for him. And

24:28

it was not a fetishy thing for me

24:30

when I've done it. But

24:32

I don't know.

24:35

I think sometimes men don't

24:37

take homosexuality as

24:40

serious as

24:42

when it's between two women and two

24:44

men. Or they think

24:46

it's just like this kind

24:49

of cool extra fun quirky thing that

24:52

he can fucking get in on. And

24:55

either way, whatever the case is, he'll

24:58

understand. Trust me,

25:00

over time, he will

25:02

get it. And with that, you

25:04

guys, I love you so much. I

25:08

am kind of going through

25:10

it, aren't we all? And

25:12

I love you guys so much. And

25:14

I will talk to you

25:16

guys next week during the

25:19

next mini-sode, which are my

25:21

favorite episodes to fucking do.

25:23

Good night. Goodbye.