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1:00

At a bully me into thinking that a

1:02

mantra be wearing a dress. Why would I

1:04

care about little commentators calling me homophobic or

1:06

self hating black person? I mail of things

1:08

I'm anti stupid and there's a lot of

1:11

stupidity going on right now. I honestly. Want

1:13

you to be pregnant again? Just argosy debate.

1:15

Offense at that. I'm at home is in order. You

1:17

have everything. you feel safe? Yeah, you should. On your

1:19

business where. I got that. That's when I

1:21

lost respect for Kz and game more respect

1:23

for Com. Yeah, what? Are your prayers look like

1:25

with you and God. Well. And

1:28

the about is a very personal question by.

1:30

That killed for speaking up for what I don't

1:32

even know where to have a or celebre. As

1:34

a Christian, it bothers me that I allowed the

1:36

school system to inform my perspective to not care

1:39

about human beings. That so powerful

1:41

had Georgia Seconds is an absolute. Out

1:46

only to do when he was. That was the off

1:48

and I sit down somebody the first. Your

1:51

whole lot of and. Will

1:54

get me something to think my own damn way out.

1:57

A lot of one are miserable. I'm

2:00

excited. I am too. Thanks for coming down by the

2:02

way. Oh, thanks for having me. Yeah, and your whole

2:04

team was unbelievable I was like they wanted us a

2:06

shoe with your spot and I was like no I

2:08

want to shoot on mine I feel like it would

2:10

be too much like your show and I felt like

2:13

it would be too home court advantage You'd interview us

2:15

and dude they just blink and then like everything was

2:17

set up here with

2:20

the phone court advantage But

2:22

thank you so much for coming on we're so thrilled Yeah,

2:24

I haven't done this I think had anyone on my set

2:26

since I did the NELK boys podcast So

2:29

this is the first time we've done this again. I love that. Let's

2:31

go. I hope you enjoy just as

2:33

much You you remind me

2:35

a lot of Andrew Tate. So when I did the

2:37

interview with him He said something that stuck with me

2:39

forever and I can't unsee it He

2:41

says in the eyes of God you're either gonna be

2:43

a number or a name and that's

2:46

how war is in war You're either a number

2:48

like you're a soldier or you're a

2:50

name like you stand out like you did so even

2:52

if they killed you you still stood out and they

2:54

know who you are and Watching

2:57

your timeline. I've realized this about

2:59

you Regardless of

3:01

where your heart is you will be at the

3:03

front center ready to fight for it I

3:06

want to take the time to learn from your

3:08

POV because we in this podcast We do help

3:11

people see from our point of views and

3:13

sometimes it gets scary because you learn so

3:16

like have you ever just like been so

3:18

certain on a thing and then like a

3:20

180 and now you have to fight the people that

3:22

had your Viewpoints before

3:25

well, I mean my story in politics

3:27

is that I was a liberal and then

3:30

I became a conservative and

3:33

It I would say when I was a liberal by the

3:35

way to be clear. I was never voting Democrat That's one

3:37

of the biggest lies that the media always publishes like she

3:40

was a Democrat and then one day She realized she could

3:42

make more money as a Republican Which

3:44

is such a nonsense given the fact that

3:46

if I wanted to make money I would

3:48

have leaned into being a leftist. Yeah entire

3:50

media loves the left I would have been

3:52

on the cover of Vogue if I had

3:54

said black lives matter and here's why So

3:57

I Definitely did not take the easy route there, but. You

4:01

know? I think that probably the biggest

4:03

example of really having to fight was

4:05

just the way in which the media

4:07

attempted and still attempts. But I think

4:10

a lot is there a Black American

4:12

of waking up to it to turn

4:14

black people against me. Which. Was.

4:18

No evidence A hard I would

4:20

say. It was very frustrating to

4:22

realize that. When. People print

4:24

things, People that read them to

4:26

success that it must therefore be true when

4:28

now actually eaten watching a clip in It's

4:30

Contacts About Actually and the distal happen to

4:33

this day like people just want the information

4:35

a journalist as a lot of power Candice

4:37

said this in it's Something that I've never

4:39

side and they just believe it. Or

4:41

I was watching your all your hearing when

4:44

you're are. They. Use your words and

4:46

they spawn it and they made it seem

4:48

like you're laughing at the mass shooters that

4:50

wrote you in his letter and I just

4:53

wanted actually want to take that moment right

4:55

there. So pay me the picture of you.

4:58

Being. A young black woman. Being. Told

5:00

were black people are going through

5:02

by many white people around them

5:04

and then they're. Taking. Your

5:07

words, A casino. Everything's typed for the media,

5:09

so they although be able to code it. They.

5:11

Spin your words. they put it for

5:13

you and they say swallow this You

5:16

said this. How do you not lose

5:18

your mind and say disrespectful things. You

5:20

lose your temper. You you get into

5:23

know you just sat there. And

5:25

you at it's how you know to look like a look what you

5:27

were angry. But you send not which

5:29

I really love that point of

5:31

view. You were able to just

5:33

just dismantle them without any any

5:35

disrespectful tone. How long does it

5:37

take a person to get to

5:39

that capability? And how did you

5:41

feel in that moment? you

5:44

know it's funny that you started talking

5:46

about the analogy of war because i

5:48

would say that and moments like that

5:50

i am never more focused or more

5:52

clear when i realize that your i'm

5:55

under attack right and i think that's

5:57

a part of adrenalin were adrenaline can

5:59

be very clarifying and I just

6:03

saw red and I recognized what it was

6:05

and I just pinpoint shot like

6:07

a sniper and I think

6:09

that yeah it's the biggest part was

6:11

just I was under attack and it wasn't fair but

6:13

I definitely didn't get to that

6:15

point by any training and I always tell

6:17

people wherever you want to

6:20

go in life make sure that you're leaning towards what

6:22

you're who you naturally are and I

6:25

have very much been this way since I was

6:27

a kid like my parents tell me stories

6:29

all the time growing up that I

6:31

was just kind of one of those precocious kids and

6:33

they would constantly have to like close

6:35

the door and laugh because of what I

6:38

was saying like you just imagine like you

6:40

know four-year-old reasoning with you and

6:44

so I think I've always been a person that

6:46

pushes back against what I deem to be arbitrary

6:48

authority like I didn't like when my mom used

6:50

to say growing up do

6:53

this because I said so was that something that

6:55

I would instantly be pushing back as a toddler

6:57

right because I'm just what do you mean because

6:59

you said so that's not logical I want

7:01

an explanation and I think that very much that

7:04

is the media complex today it's like this is

7:06

reality because I said so yeah which makes an

7:08

enemy of of me yeah well

7:10

it's one of the reasons why I respect you

7:12

so much is your ability to be so eloquent

7:14

and well thought out and you're able to make

7:16

all your points like in that moment when you

7:19

said that you were able to make to take

7:21

all the points that they're like saying and then

7:23

make your case and I just

7:25

think that it's such a beautiful thing to watch and

7:27

such a wonderful thing for a woman like you to

7:29

show an example for other women

7:31

and the like you truly are a role

7:33

model for women to show that you can

7:36

be strong in your point of views and

7:38

make your points clear but also be you

7:40

know level-headed you didn't need to cause

7:42

a scene or anything like that to make your point yeah you

7:44

stood on your business bro right all the people like what

7:46

does she mean by

7:48

that I say that's like okay I get it I get it I

7:51

get it and there was someone like one of the judge

7:53

when you spoke you know he was for you he he

7:55

sat back and he was like yeah he gave you your

7:57

time yeah that's sick I

8:00

want to take a step back when

8:02

you were a liberal. Why

8:05

were you a liberal? Were you influenced by your

8:07

surrounding or was it your parents that influenced you?

8:09

What influenced you into making that decision? The

8:12

entire ecosystem. I mean, the propaganda

8:14

that we all grow up with.

8:16

I'm so interested in what

8:18

it takes to create a human mind, what

8:21

elements it takes to create a human mind,

8:23

and I think obviously the biggest elements, obviously

8:25

you brought up family. My family didn't care

8:27

about politics, so they were apolitical, which really

8:29

just instigates how

8:33

powerful any other influence was going to be

8:35

because I was starting at a zero. That's

8:37

where they want you to be. That's where they want you to

8:39

be. It's great to be apolitical. Yeah, because you're not fighting against

8:42

them. Exactly. Then your

8:44

ideas are likely going to be seeded from the education

8:46

system. You get into school, you're there six hours a

8:48

day, what are they telling you? Well, if you're a

8:50

black American and you come out of school, or if

8:52

you're a white American and you come out

8:55

of school, you have a viewpoint about

8:57

slavery, about the Republican Party being racist

8:59

and backwards, that Democrats rescued

9:02

black people somehow, which is just so

9:05

counter to what actual history is. It's

9:07

almost stunning to think about that. I thought Republicans did

9:09

that. Yeah, Republicans did, but in the school system,

9:11

you take away this idea. If you want

9:13

to wonder why black people vote for droves

9:15

in Democrats, it's because the textbooks make you

9:17

think that LBJ, because he literally was the

9:19

person who signed the Civil Rights

9:22

Act, but they don't contextualize that. They don't

9:24

tell you that LBJ was an avowed racist.

9:26

He was essentially forced to sign it because

9:28

there were riots. He was angry about having to

9:31

sign it and came up with a plan

9:33

that he would, quote unquote, have those N-words voting

9:35

Democrat for the next 200 years. That

9:39

plan was Wellfirism, the Great Society Act. You

9:41

don't learn that. You just, a Democrat signed the

9:43

Civil Rights bill and you got all of your

9:45

rights. It's very, here are the villains, here are

9:47

the heroes. They rewrote their

9:50

story. They rewrote their story. Genius.

9:52

It is genius. You got to respect

9:54

the move, right? My mom used to always say,

9:56

think like a snake, be pure as a dove.

9:59

So You got to know. how deep they'll take it. And.

10:01

What they do is still. Beat. The

10:03

living crap out are you mentally physically emotionally

10:06

and then they'll say we're the ones that

10:08

took care of you and you'll be like

10:10

know But if you say that many many

10:12

times in different variations you're somewhat be like

10:14

oh guess it's humbling when you're in a

10:16

bad relationship with somebody like that you love

10:18

will tell you the good things to confuse

10:20

you but his actions to everybody else going

10:22

for that a letter to the love you

10:24

So I'll guess you said that you are

10:26

going there because he your ego systems and

10:28

I love watching your debates. I honestly want

10:30

you to be pregnant again Just I guess

10:32

you'd say. That I truly like.

10:34

Do you like? Get over it? And

10:38

brawl at our pause and just die of

10:40

laughter and senator my friends and receives to

10:42

consistently depressed about how does it is very

10:44

soon to the point but I have

10:46

to play devil's advocate When you see a

10:49

young lady with you know blue hair and

10:51

she has her size is she saying things

10:53

that are just regurgitate from somebody else? Do

10:56

you not at empathy and see the you

10:58

were that human beings. That she's doing the

11:00

same. Say she's standing. At the front lines

11:02

trying to defend would she feels

11:04

nice defense and. You

11:06

just. Shatter them. Rather, stand.

11:09

Now that's exactly what they need. They need

11:11

a parents were. that was the problem. I

11:13

was a liberal but I was never that

11:15

migrate that web. Think about what those students

11:17

are doing. This is an event they are

11:19

not forced to attend. It is a ticketed

11:21

events that's being held by Turning Point Usa.

11:23

That has meant so that Conservatives can finally

11:25

here that perspectives on these liberals hotel a

11:27

tear in campuses and are just basically applauding

11:29

Marxists principles all the time. You don't? They

11:31

rarely get to hear a conservative speak. So.

11:34

These people are choosing to

11:36

buy tickets to attending events

11:38

that day. Is. That is

11:40

it At someone that a seat is speaking at

11:42

rates than they get in line and they stand

11:44

up so they can say that they're a victim

11:46

that there has that that they're even standing up

11:48

the city that I'm even there are. Didn't talk

11:50

about victimizing yourself your this is this is really

11:52

ridiculous and what's happened in this scenario is that

11:54

we now live in a society where people don't

11:56

believe in parenting notice. This is a weird thing

11:58

where people now you know why you're went from

12:01

like put him in time out went from like

12:03

you're going to get a saying in which is

12:05

my generation of is my household either. My but

12:07

what? yeah on the brakes officer for

12:09

a specific the brothels. Well as Obama

12:11

said that I don't listen. Listen listen

12:13

we ain't doing the American raising. My

12:16

kids are pretty the get excited with

12:18

my parents have allowed to have. I

12:20

was like please look who's twenty. Clapper

12:23

snap in the morning? Okay, no clubbers. nominal?

12:25

More do you think? I'd. Ever be able

12:27

to go like this. The My Dad my

12:29

oh my god he disassemble mean pull me

12:31

back in his balls from a couple more

12:34

weeks as long as the way he was

12:36

real Cause I like but guess what? Like

12:38

you, you Don't Spare The Rod. I talked

12:40

about this or my last podcast You Don't

12:42

Spare The Rod. The reason why the Bible

12:44

says don't Spare The Rod is because if

12:46

your parents are not going to discipline you,

12:48

somebody else will and their mindset exactly so

12:50

you're. Okay, So it absolutely bratty. It's

12:53

absurdity your there's nothing here that you in victimized

12:55

that you bought the ticket. You took that ticket

12:57

by the way. that might answer all we sold

12:59

out. That and conservatives are are so desperate to

13:01

hear people that represent their beliefs, you took that

13:03

ticket in that see away from somebody else. Who.

13:06

Could stand up here and say. What? Do

13:08

you have to say about people that feel victimized

13:10

by your presence? Yeah you know like that is

13:12

so in theory me A tells me directly what

13:14

kind of a parent you had rain that you

13:16

just can't mind your own business and reality is

13:18

or not because I thought I present you just

13:20

need more attention and you been getting way too

13:22

much attention for your every feeling you get. You

13:25

look like of validated giles us you boil validated

13:27

you been affirmed in your gender in your ideas.

13:29

You just didn't get slapped up a hotline across

13:31

the had like I did when I was not

13:33

for my mom. I'm A I got I got

13:35

were pretty that you know it out with for

13:37

advertisement. I'm not even really sure what I

13:39

did there yet. And history major rethink when

13:42

you want to do some right? And I

13:44

didn't have this privilege mentality of like every

13:46

time I have a feeling everyone needs to

13:48

listen to it. you know, where they were

13:50

paying. For. the the are the trophies

13:53

are participating yeah or disappear like the

13:55

for everybody wins when you remove the

13:57

loser everybody feels like a winner So

13:59

they act like losers while acting like

14:01

winners. It's a weird weird weird weird

14:04

concept I think the pendulum is coming

14:06

back though I think the children that

14:08

are now feeling this are gonna teach

14:10

their children differently But it's

14:12

only people like you that are standing up and be

14:14

like none of this nonsense Like I'm happy

14:16

by the way Just going back to your point about

14:19

empathy because I want to make it if she actually

14:21

was saying something You know what I mean? They're and

14:23

there are kids and those don't go viral who asked

14:25

a question like you know and actually one did it

14:27

was a young Black woman and she

14:29

was saying, you know, what do you have to say

14:31

about someone like me? I've listened to your points I

14:33

agree with them I don't agree with some but I

14:35

am obviously I think she said a part of the

14:37

LGBTQ community and we had a great back-and-forth Because there's

14:40

nothing bratty She actually had a question she wanted I

14:42

had to say But you're not going to take time

14:44

away from this event and these kids that are here

14:47

So that you can be seen and be heard you're

14:49

you know Get out of my face and get out

14:51

of this event and let people actually engage in this

14:53

event in a meaningful way So,

14:55

okay, I don't know how

14:57

you were raised was was your mom very heavy-handed, but

14:59

does she ever show like love and compassion to you? Yeah,

15:02

I mean I my mom was heavy-handed and if we

15:04

were doing something wrong, we were very well behaved kids

15:06

Yeah, I mean I had a kind of mom that

15:08

would pinch us and like she like whisper

15:10

in our ear Like if we even hyped up at

15:12

a restaurant, you know, she'd be like, you know, when

15:15

you when we get home I'm gonna whip your ass.

15:17

You ever get one of these gosh the pinches this

15:19

right here If any Middle Easterns, I don't know that in

15:21

real quick when I saw this this you don't even have

15:23

to say anything She'll just see me from across the room

15:25

like this and then wait till we get home Dude,

15:29

she beat me up in church dog Like I don't

15:31

get the look in the finger my mom like to

15:33

get down No, I love what you put a finger

15:36

in my face She didn't care where we were like

15:38

where we never threw fits and it's never little peep

15:40

It was on site like right there everyone would say

15:42

like we were the best behaved kids because of that

15:45

We understood that we needed to

15:48

be well behaved or else you were going to get into

15:50

trouble It's your parent, you know my like my sorry my

15:52

mom always said, you know, like too many parents now are

15:54

trying to be The friend and

15:56

my mom always says I'm not your friend. They

15:59

don't come at times when you know you're older

16:01

and we build that friendship with each other in which I

16:03

have that with my mom now But when you're a child

16:05

you need an authority figure to tell you what's right as

16:07

a child You don't know what's best for you. Yeah,

16:09

also like I've like anyone who's seen me and

16:11

my mom and dad were best friends I even

16:13

got a place right next to them because like

16:15

I just can't stop being with after this I'm

16:17

going straight to them like they are my kings

16:19

and queens, but I never lost

16:22

that they're above me Mm-hmm, so

16:24

I think what happens is The

16:27

government says your parents don't know

16:29

shit Right. They were lied to

16:32

and then when you lose that respect for your

16:34

parents What they don't understand is that you'll start

16:36

losing respect for yourself And

16:38

it trickles down. So how do we get so

16:41

we've tried the heavy-handed, right? I feel like it is waking

16:43

up a lot of people but how do we how do how

16:45

is there a tactic that we could do it out of love

16:47

like I Haven't seen

16:50

it online where we're like sitting down because when

16:52

I see these people standing up and talking about

16:55

Identity issues or their

16:57

background issues or wherever their their viewpoints are

17:00

I do like I have so much

17:02

under because I'm like damn I you're broken

17:04

and you're lost and Everybody keeps

17:06

pushing you to the hell's fire

17:08

and like no one's giving you

17:10

any like real love Like when

17:12

you hit I'll give you an example of friends like

17:14

if you have friends are always telling you Candace You're

17:17

killing it bro. Like you the way you punch that

17:19

little kid in the face dog. He deserved it You're

17:21

like, no, no, no, you should probably tell him like

17:23

hey, dude I love what you said But you shouldn't

17:25

punch that kid in the face you have to

17:27

have somebody give you the real shit like

17:29

you shouldn't do that And I feel like

17:31

now because of the media especially with the

17:33

algorithm. They're only feeding things for your ego

17:35

Mmm, and it's causing a separation. So how

17:37

do we teach them out of

17:39

love because I feel like the Separation

17:42

is like us like really never being able to see

17:44

it from their point of view. I See

17:47

I I disagree with that I would have to say

17:50

I disagree with the premise I don't think that it's

17:52

not seeing things from their point of view I think

17:54

actually the entire world is bending down to see things

17:56

from their point of view But we can't even miss

17:58

gender someone on YouTube seeing from them part

18:00

of you is being blared out cultural messaging no

18:03

matter how they feel they have to be affirmed,

18:05

right? That is actually the culture. They're being affirmed

18:07

in the classroom. That's why they're bratty. It's actually

18:09

we're suffering from too much love, too

18:11

much coddling, too much with their hand

18:14

being held. So if the pendulum

18:16

is going to swing back, it needs to

18:18

be with more aggression in my view, right?

18:20

If you're going to even that out, they

18:22

need a moment that just smacks them in

18:24

the face and it's like, you're not that

18:26

special. You're actually not that special. Something

18:29

about your life to me is enviable.

18:31

You are not going to use words

18:33

to try to silence conversation by calling

18:35

this homophobia. You know, there's so many

18:37

different words. This is sexism, chauvinism, this

18:39

is homophobia, feminism, whatever it

18:41

is. So yeah, I

18:43

bear much agree with the premise that these people

18:45

need love. I think what's been

18:47

happening is that they have the wrong idea

18:50

of what love is. And in my view,

18:52

love is discipline. Love is discipline.

18:54

I think it's important because you want people to

18:56

do well in life. And so the people

18:58

that are affirming them, like you just said, are setting

19:00

them down a path of absolute failure. This is

19:03

why these kids end up, they come out of

19:05

college, you have a useless degree in gender studies

19:08

and they don't even know who to be angry

19:10

at when they can't get a job. And so

19:12

they blame the white man, the rich man, the

19:14

tall man, you know, it's because of racial prejudice.

19:16

It's because women can't get it. No, it's because

19:18

literally you have done nothing of value in your

19:21

life, nothing in value at all. Right?

19:24

The world lied to you. The teachers lied to you. Your

19:26

mom lied to you. So I'm just going to stand up

19:28

here and be the truth. And

19:31

great counterpoint. Honestly, that was an amazing point. I

19:33

now agree with you because you're right from seeing it

19:35

from that point of view. Like

19:37

my, I always just want to not

19:40

offend because stop that. It's,

19:44

it's, it's hard because like

19:46

I try to mimic Christ, right? Christ

19:48

always offended, but he never wanted to

19:50

offend them. He just said, I don't want

19:52

to. The truth is offensive. Now, right?

19:55

You're a man. Like, no,

19:57

I'm wearing a dress. You know what I'm saying?

20:00

The truth is now considered offense.

20:02

That was our first tie together Logan

20:05

asked me on an impulsive. He goes Harry Styles

20:07

is wearing a dress He goes isn't that manly

20:09

and this is I was on the podcast for

20:11

maybe like a week or two Like I'm very

20:13

new to the podcast. So I just go manly

20:15

I don't think that's mainly at all and I

20:17

made jokes I go when you go to a

20:19

department, you know go I really want a nice

20:21

dress and they go Yeah, it's in the men's

20:23

department. They go in the women's department. I got

20:26

reamed for that Mean you tied in

20:28

because you said the same thing and I said who's

20:30

that like that? Cuz I was like, yeah, who is

20:32

that who's saying that and you tweeted out? You're like

20:35

tell your friend who's irrelevant that I'm so sad. I

20:37

was like, no, no We're on the same side like

20:39

I was like your side and I was like, oh

20:41

fuck I'll apologize to her later about that. So I

20:43

worry about apologize. No, it wasn't you it was

20:45

me It was me. No, it wasn't it was

20:47

another person that was next to him. Oh, you

20:49

were talking about Mike. Yeah Yeah

20:53

You're talking about Mike. Yes, bro. Yeah, because

20:55

he said I remember watching this clip and

20:57

he didn't just say like Oh, who's that

21:00

an address? He said it was it was

21:02

actually regarding BLM and he

21:04

was on his like pro BLM

21:06

pitch Paul Logan Logan

21:08

Paul and he basically was saying

21:10

that my Perspectives

21:12

on it. I don't know what he was saying essentially he

21:15

was very pro BLM and they were trying to say that

21:17

I was deranged for being a black person who held different

21:19

viewpoint and Yeah, I was

21:21

I tweeted What are

21:23

you even talking about here and I was like, I don't know

21:25

who your friend is for years I'm walking around like

21:27

don't don't don't get out of bounds, bro. No,

21:29

it wasn't about So

21:32

this is my point of view, right? I don't

21:34

think it's manly if a man wears a dress

21:36

now if a man came up to me and

21:38

is like I think It's mainly wear a dress.

21:40

I would say okay, I Would

21:42

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21:45

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21:47

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21:49

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two, one, easy. Oh, my love. I

23:51

just don't get it. How do we get to a friendly argument?

23:54

How do I get to somebody that has these viewpoints

23:56

and be like, dude, I get it. You think that

23:58

wearing a dress on a cover of a magazine. or

24:00

are these men acting like women

24:02

in movies? And Cat

24:04

Williams was talking about this. Everybody has their own

24:07

points of views, but I've never in my life

24:09

ever heard somebody else's point of views and got so

24:11

upset that I was like, no, they need to see

24:13

it from my point of view. I think that's what

24:16

makes the world beautiful, bro. Even the people that I

24:18

truly don't even agree with, it's at least we could

24:20

get on a common ground and be like, yo, I

24:22

don't agree with you, but could you at least respect

24:24

my opinion? Actually, if we had

24:26

that, if we had an agreement that, if

24:29

we were respectful in that way, I feel like then the

24:31

school system wouldn't be so messed up the

24:33

way that it is because then we would respect the fact

24:35

that there are two sides and one side wouldn't only be

24:37

taught, right? Both sides would be taught and then the students

24:39

would be able to make their decision as to where they

24:41

wanna go, but that's not the case. The

24:43

reason that people get upset, just to kind of answer

24:45

your question of why that is, you only get upset

24:47

when you're lying, right? The

24:50

lie hates hearing the truth, always.

24:53

So if you say something that

24:55

is so obviously a lie, that

24:58

a man dressing up as a

25:00

woman is manly, you're

25:03

going to be upset when someone says, no,

25:05

that's obviously not manly, that's not

25:07

an example of masculinity to cosplay as

25:09

a woman. And so they then

25:12

turn into Marxist, they

25:14

then turn into George Orwell's 1984 and

25:16

they're like, I have to force you to

25:19

not believe your own eyes, right? And they

25:21

get tremendously defensive because they've been exposed as

25:23

a liar, right? Not because these are two

25:25

different ideas, right? It's not like when you're

25:27

not lying and you're like, oh, I really

25:30

like, I think the white couch looks

25:32

better to the left. Oh, really? I think

25:34

the couch looks better to the right. It's a

25:36

difference in opinion, right? But when you're outright

25:38

lying, it comes with anger and it comes

25:40

with defensiveness. So in that moment, which I

25:42

didn't see, if Logan Paul was

25:44

literally saying something that is so absurd

25:46

and so untrue, if he actually thought

25:48

that wearing a dress was manly, he

25:50

would do it. I'd

25:53

say, dude, 100%, you should do it. You

25:55

should wear a dress tomorrow. That's what I would have

25:57

said. You should wear a dress tomorrow. You don't wanna do that.

26:00

I don't want to be manly. Is he

26:02

going to say that? I don't want to

26:04

be manly. No, because he knows he knew.

26:06

I think some of his ideas have shifted

26:08

over the years because those lies are no

26:10

longer serving him as he's getting more into

26:12

boxing and MMA and that's like stuff that

26:14

is just, you know, it's weak. It would

26:16

be cool if he admitted now, which I'm

26:18

totally fine with people to transform over the

26:20

years. I think he probably cow-towed to leftist

26:22

pressure when he took the BLM stance and

26:24

took all of the Marxist stances going on.

26:26

But you want to be a man? F the

26:29

dress, apologize for lying, right?

26:32

Because people listen to you, right? And when

26:34

you say stuff like that, when men lie,

26:36

it renders them weaker. Men

26:39

should never lie. It's better to say nothing than to

26:41

allow a lie to come from your lips. Amen.

26:43

I believe that. I do. The, the, the

26:45

thing that I don't like is when you

26:49

lie to me, you're an empty vessel because

26:52

if you can't stand on your word, then what

26:54

are, who are you as a human being? Yeah.

26:56

Over exaggerating to tell a story or a joke,

26:58

totally fine. But like for you to stand on

27:01

your business, but you know your business is illegitimate.

27:03

That's kind of crazy. Um, taking it away from

27:05

that, how did you

27:07

resurface? Like, was it like a educational,

27:10

like how did, how did you in

27:12

your environment get out? Right? Because if

27:14

your environment is all this type of

27:17

situation, how do you guide somebody that's

27:19

in your footsteps out

27:21

of the ecosystem to educate

27:23

themselves in the proper way? Yeah.

27:25

I started reading books, not the textbooks that

27:27

were handed to me, not the assigned readings.

27:29

It was just a moment that made me

27:31

really curious. And it was, you know, because

27:34

I very much liked culture, I knew obviously

27:36

that Donald Trump was very well-loved in culture

27:38

before he ever ran for president. It was

27:40

sort of a symbol of success. If you

27:42

listen to rap songs or music, you know,

27:44

uh, even Beyonce and Jay-Z

27:46

sipping poolside at Mar-a-Lago, you know, he was the

27:48

symbol of success in black America. So it was

27:50

very strange to me when he ran and I

27:52

wasn't going to vote for him when

27:54

he came on the escalator. And then suddenly the media was

27:56

saying he was a racist and that he

27:58

was going to put black people back in

28:00

chains. I mean, the rhetoric was insane. And

28:02

so that just piqued my curiosity where I was like, okay,

28:05

if this was the truth, didn't you guys just

28:07

give him a show for decades? This guy has

28:09

been on TV, he's been in our face. Why

28:11

are you just telling us now that these are

28:13

his perspectives? Why did you ever platform him? So

28:16

that was just too obvious of a switch up.

28:18

And I had just being

28:21

curious, watched him give a live speech

28:23

in Dimmondale, Michigan, where he was talking

28:25

about black America and he

28:27

was basically the pitch was, look at your communities,

28:29

look at the rates of whatever's going on in

28:31

your communities. Why don't you just try something new?

28:33

Take a chance on me. The Democrats obviously haven't

28:35

done anything for you. Just take a chance on

28:37

me. And I remember watching it and thinking, all

28:40

right, cool. Cool enough pitch. Like I wasn't gonna vote

28:42

for him still, but I was like, that's a solid

28:44

pitch. Just try something different. It piques your curiosity.

28:46

Yeah, and then I watched the

28:48

media report on that speech in real time,

28:50

the way that they lied. He

28:53

faked tears from like black Don

28:56

Lemon type people on TV. He's looking at

28:58

black and people in the face and he's

29:00

saying, you're poor, your communities are this. Like

29:02

he's a racist. And that moment just changed

29:05

everything for me. I just realized this

29:07

is full on propaganda. So that was

29:09

your turning point. Was Donald, you investigating

29:11

in Donald Trump's ideas? Yeah, that was

29:13

the wake up moment for me that,

29:16

the media really is just actually

29:19

evil, really. It's bought. It's bought. It's

29:22

paid for. These people are actors suddenly.

29:24

I was really able to recognize the

29:26

performance of it all. The fake tears.

29:28

Oh my God, the rhetoric. And

29:31

I was, honestly, it was

29:33

very hard to go through. I always say that I

29:35

suffered a bit after because it was like having your

29:38

whole world turned upside down. Like you really like

29:40

you were so wrong. You have

29:42

to go through a death of an ego, right? Cause what if

29:44

you were like, I'm not talking to you cause you're a racist

29:46

and blah, blah, blah, blah. Cause you believe the media hype. But

29:48

it just, it kind of shattered my world as I knew

29:50

it. And I decided to kind of quietly for a year,

29:53

just do some studying. And you know,

29:55

I really dove into Thomas

29:57

Sowell, which he made the

29:59

economic. arguments. He never was left

30:01

or right per se, but he definitely is

30:03

a free market capitalist and he made very

30:05

sound economic arguments of how could I ever

30:08

accept anything the Democrats are doing. And

30:10

yeah, I just kind of went down

30:12

a dark hole of reading so much.

30:15

Thomas Sowell, Shelby Steele, because I wanted

30:17

to start with the Uncle

30:20

Tom's and the Coons, the people that I

30:22

instantly thought were Uncle Tom's and Coons because

30:24

they were black and conservative. And you know,

30:26

jokes on me now is the stuff that I get called. That's

30:30

crazy to go from fighting against them

30:32

to aligning with them. Did

30:34

you feel like you were kind of, you know,

30:36

like dying to your old self in a sense?

30:38

Like for that year you like left yourself behind?

30:40

Yeah, I went through like, I

30:42

would say shock and then

30:44

I was educated and then I

30:47

was angry at how evil to

30:49

realize what the Democrats have done

30:51

to black America, how

30:53

they have used the school system, how

30:55

they have encouraged us to burn down

30:57

our own neighborhoods via Marxist principles and

31:00

causing people to flee our neighborhoods after BLM,

31:02

which I spoke out against the entire time.

31:05

I was really angry because I

31:07

realized it's just a modern slave plantation. You're doing

31:09

all the same stuff. You're breaking down our families.

31:12

You are making sure that we aren't educated.

31:14

I mean the percentage of black boys and

31:16

girls that can read in America right now,

31:18

shocking, right? And you've largely got

31:20

to gotten away with it and then that empowered

31:22

me to say I want to be a voice

31:24

and speak out against it. How do you feel

31:27

about your culture and what they do with music? I

31:30

think it's a part of it. It's a

31:32

part, and I've talked about this on my

31:34

show, who owns these record label companies, who

31:36

signs a sexy red. You can

31:38

go out and you can buy, you can get any artist in

31:40

the world based on their talent. Why is

31:42

that when you come to black America you

31:45

want to platform someone like sexy red?

31:48

When it used to be you platform people like

31:50

Lauren Hill. This is intentional. This

31:52

is intentional because, you know, as

31:54

Confucius said, Chinese philosopher said that,

31:56

you know, what is in your

31:58

ears will eventually be

32:01

what surround you, right? Music is

32:03

very powerful. I heard a saying that

32:06

music doesn't need an invitation to your

32:09

soul. That's a great way of saying it.

32:12

You are who you hang out with, but if you're just

32:14

listening to it all the time. And

32:16

I always got confused. I could never have said it

32:18

because I'm not black. But if

32:21

I had an Assyrian culture and

32:23

all they did was make money

32:25

off of belittling my

32:27

people, I would not pay money for it. I'd be like,

32:29

yo, what are you doing? You switch sides on us. Why

32:32

would you make it out, quote, and then

32:34

shit where you came from? Why don't you

32:37

come grab us and build us out? Do

32:39

you ever get scared of speaking the way

32:41

you speak? No, no. I

32:43

feel very comfortable speaking the way I speak

32:46

because I'm teen God, right? So

32:48

yeah, if God has you, who can

32:51

be against you? You know what I mean? Amen. Yeah,

32:54

I am very confident in what I say.

32:57

And I take obviously a beating from the

32:59

artists who I believe, just like you said,

33:01

have turned their back on black America because

33:03

I don't fault these artists. I

33:06

grew up listening to Jay-Z. I

33:08

would say Jay-Z and Kanye probably had the biggest influence

33:10

on me. And there's a lot in Jay-Z's music that

33:12

I'm so grateful for because he

33:14

made it clear on how to move in

33:17

a business room, I would say. So

33:19

many of his lyrics talking about, you know, this

33:22

is how I think about it when they want me to do

33:24

their shows. Like how are they benefiting off of me, my brand?

33:26

He's thinking like a boss. But

33:28

then he gets up on stage and he, him

33:30

and his wife tell people to vote for Hillary

33:33

Clinton. I know Jay-Z is smart enough to know

33:35

that's wrong. I know he's smart enough to know

33:37

that if I listen to the DNA of his

33:39

music. So if you got out, why don't you

33:41

tell other people how to get out? And that's

33:43

when I lost respect for Jay-Z. And

33:45

it is what made me gain more

33:47

respect for Kanye because he is willing

33:49

to say stuff that makes him unfavorable

33:52

in Hollywood where I think Jay-Z really

33:54

cares about what Hollywood thinks about him.

33:56

Do you know what I mean? Absolutely.

34:00

Unbelievably talented can't deny it Beyonce.

34:02

Unbelievably talented can't deny it Kanye

34:04

West. I would say a genius

34:07

can't deny it Unfortunately, you

34:09

stood on someone who

34:11

is Very up and down

34:13

with what he says Does

34:15

that not like if I had a teammate

34:18

that just kept going back and forth It's kind of

34:20

it's kind of hard to like stand out and let

34:22

me give you an example My

34:25

mom and dad would come up to me and they'd be like hey

34:28

if you're voting for Trump Don't talk about that and

34:30

I was like damn we got to a

34:32

place where it's hard to even voice what

34:34

you're Voting

34:37

for what you're siding with and

34:39

then I realized that my mom was trying to

34:41

teach me a lesson be careful who you Stamp

34:44

your name on because now how they act or

34:46

how they portray themselves or any of that is

34:48

gonna reflect you Because people are gonna be like

34:50

well you signed off on this man So

34:52

how do you sign off on a man who stands

34:54

on a car and says yo Jesus is coming You

34:57

got to be about good things all

34:59

this stuff, but then I'm

35:02

a sick fuck. I like a quick fuck the next day

35:04

You could see when Kanye has his eyes on Christ and

35:06

then you can see it when he's like Oh, I need

35:08

to get these numbers up or stuff like that So

35:10

I think the single most

35:12

important thing that Kanye has

35:14

told About himself

35:16

publicly which weighs into my mind when

35:19

he makes music like that is that

35:21

he's addicted to pornography He's

35:24

talked about that's a huge societal ill like it's not

35:26

something that men normally talk about like being addicted to

35:28

pornography being addicted to sex talking about how he you

35:30

know, he Felt like

35:32

he was introduced to pornography too early, right?

35:35

and so when in my view, I

35:37

think that is an addiction in the

35:39

battle that lives with him, you know

35:42

and Has come out

35:44

in his music at certain times. I can't listen to

35:46

that music. I do not listen to that music I

35:48

do not I think that make it worse But

35:51

I'm very honest about the fact that I don't listen to pornographic no,

35:53

no, no, no Because

35:59

I really raised my frequency because

36:01

I can't hear it. It makes me cringe. I used to

36:03

listen to it when I was young. It didn't impact me.

36:05

But now you woke up and you're like, I can hear the

36:07

programming. And I realize how important

36:09

it is, what you put into your ears. I

36:11

quite literally cannot listen to that kind of music.

36:13

It just, it does something to my soul. But

36:16

so my question is now that you know that, how old are you if you

36:18

don't want to ask, you're going to want to ask me to ask that.

36:20

Thirty-four. Thirty-four. You can

36:22

always ask me. I don't live by that rule. If I'm 65, I'll

36:24

be like, I'm 65. So

36:27

you're 34 years old, but you

36:29

seem to be like from my POV

36:31

of just me, but seems like if you learn it,

36:34

I got it. Move on. So how

36:36

could you work alongside somebody who just

36:38

said, hey, I'm addicted to pornography ruined

36:40

my marriage. You're ruined. That's

36:43

brave. But then he goes back to teaching kids to do that

36:45

shit. That's how addiction works. Right.

36:48

So for me, if I was promoting

36:50

for hours, you know, listen, listen, this is a conversation

36:53

you got to have with Kanye. I don't listen to

36:55

that music. I don't promote that music. And

36:57

if I'm standing next to Kanye for something that he

36:59

is saying and being honest about, I am co-signing what

37:01

he is saying and doing. So when he put on

37:04

the MAGA hat of the very

37:06

significant moment for black America, you do

37:08

not have to vote Democrat. He lost

37:10

a lot of fans. He lost so

37:12

many fans for saying that. But he gains

37:15

too. So that's good. Right. And

37:17

so that that never been done. You never could have

37:19

seen that. Rappers just know, even if they're saying it

37:21

privately, that they liked him, they would have never, ever,

37:24

ever said that and been honest about that until Kanye

37:26

took all of the bullets for being like, you have

37:28

another option, black America. And

37:30

I commend that bravery. Got it. Right.

37:33

If I was sitting next to him or in that video, then you

37:35

could talk to me about that. Yeah. Candace,

37:38

do you accept? No, I don't like that kind of music

37:40

at all. So you're good at picking and choosing what.

37:42

Yeah. And not, I mean, do you know his

37:44

music is the majority of his, like when we're talking about, you

37:47

know, all the way from his early or

37:49

early days all through now, like, yes, he

37:51

has a lot of, especially on this recent

37:53

album. He, there's one song that's really great,

37:55

but I can't listen to it because the

37:57

lyrics are too pornographic. For

38:00

me personally, Carnival is just way

38:02

too pornographic. People

38:04

can take that if they want to, but

38:07

on me, in terms of what I talk about on my

38:09

platform, I'm not going to

38:11

promote pornography. I tell people

38:13

that what you put in your ears is what

38:16

you will put in your heart. But I also

38:18

know that if I was me when

38:20

I was 15, I wouldn't be listening to Canis at

38:22

34 because I was listening to that music. So

38:27

people are complicated. They're absolutely complicated, but

38:29

I can't be meant to answer for

38:33

Kanye's addictions, Kanye's afflictions, Kanye's

38:35

convictions, because I'm not, I'm

38:37

not yay. Got it. You

38:40

know? Hold the phone. You're not

38:42

yay? I'm not yay. I'm sorry. The

38:45

interview is not going to go as viral as anticipated because

38:47

I am not yay. No,

38:49

honestly, it's, it's, it's, we're getting at what we need. Can

38:51

I get my Celsius over there? I don't want to just

38:54

get, oh, perfect. Is this a smooth ad

38:56

plug right there? Can I get a

38:58

Celsius? Oh, I'm so thirsty. Can somebody

39:00

get me a Celsius? Do you want one? No,

39:03

I'm good. Okay. I've actually

39:05

never had one. Really? Yeah. Is

39:07

that like all the biz? Like, would you taste it right? Oh, they're all

39:09

cold. But would you taste it? Yeah, of

39:11

course. It's not, it's not alcohol, right? I don't drink. No,

39:14

no, no, no. It was caffeine. We

39:17

know this whole area by now. Yeah, it's great. Yeah, we live

39:19

here now. Kind of detouring from that. So

39:21

okay. So circling back, you

39:23

were liberal, got educated, read books, saw

39:26

Trump, realized the media is manipulating his

39:28

words, woke up, died to yourself, had

39:30

to recreate who you are to teach

39:33

people to not walk in the same

39:35

footsteps that you did. What

39:38

is the hardest part of standing up for

39:40

what you believe in? And how could somebody

39:42

like, okay, I don't want to be sexist

39:44

when I say this, but I feel like

39:46

it's very hard for a black female to

39:49

go out and speak passionately without

39:51

so many critics speaking on her. How did

39:53

you beat this? Who are you looking up

39:55

to? What philosophy were you picking from?

39:58

I always say to people, I'm just my granddaddy. these girl,

40:00

you know, my granddad was just, and he

40:02

was not political at all, super

40:04

conservative, believed in discipline, was extremely

40:07

faithful. We had to read the

40:09

Bible every morning. He

40:11

would make us a big club and breakfast and we had

40:13

to read Bible verses and he just, I'm very

40:17

much like him in Grant. My

40:19

granddad was so he, he passed away

40:21

two years ago, three years ago now,

40:23

but he was just very stubborn,

40:27

you know, like you were never going to come

40:29

to granddad and tell him about his family and

40:31

tell him about his life, you know, and I

40:33

think that there was just a genetic component where

40:35

for me, once I know this

40:37

is how I'm living, this is what I

40:40

believe to be true, you're not going to

40:42

bully me into some BS. You're not going

40:44

to bully me into thinking that I managed

40:46

to be wearing a dress. It's so absurd

40:49

and so ridiculous. Why would I care? Why

40:51

would I care about little commentators calling me

40:53

homophobic or calling me sexist or self hating

40:55

black person or anti-Semitic? You can't tell me

40:57

those things that they're simply not true. I'm

40:59

any of those things. I'm anti stupid and

41:02

there's a lot of stupidity going on

41:04

right now. Right. And yeah, so I've,

41:06

it doesn't impact me. And then I

41:09

became 10 times stronger when

41:11

I got married and I had kids. I've never been

41:13

more secure in who I am and who I am

41:15

not. Then when I made the decision

41:18

to start a family, has motherhood changed you in

41:20

any way when it comes to your, the way you speak?

41:22

No, it's actually fortified me more. And I was looking

41:24

forward to, I think it was

41:26

Ali Stuckey. I really like her. She, she has

41:29

a podcast called Relatable. And I think after she

41:31

gave birth, no, it might've been Lila Rose actually.

41:34

And she was talking about how motherhood, you

41:36

know, softened her, you know, cause you

41:38

start seeing people as their kids and they were

41:41

saying, I really hope AOC actually has kids because

41:43

it will change her. And I was looking forward

41:45

to when I was pregnant, I'm going to be

41:47

softened and like communicate with more passion, compassion. And

41:50

actually it hardened me. Well,

41:53

more mama bear. Get me

41:55

Ben Shapiro now. Yeah. Now you

41:57

want to protect them and you're like, mama bear. before

42:00

you even have that right my question did

42:02

you ever think about your children

42:05

before they even existed oh yeah do we do

42:07

that all the time I feel like everything we

42:09

do they'll look up to that I

42:12

told I'll say this cuz like I don't

42:14

care but it's scary but I'm gonna

42:16

mention it but I always tell that I go if I

42:18

die never ever ever be sad because if

42:20

I got killed for speaking up for what I

42:22

believe in just know we're in we're in heaven

42:24

we're celebrating so I always act as if God

42:27

forbid we get to a point in the world

42:29

where my life is in jeopardy and

42:31

the only things my kids have to raise them

42:33

with is the tapes that I speak on so

42:35

I really put everything into this like if I'm

42:38

God forbid like this is how I'm gonna raise

42:40

my kids and so every

42:42

move I make is like hey be careful your kids

42:44

gonna see that and I feel like people should think

42:46

this way because it's taking me out of a lot

42:48

of stupid like decisions because when you're thinking oh it's

42:51

just me I'm young then you're like oh I don't

42:53

care but if you're like no I got to make

42:55

sure that my mom's not embarrassed and my kids are

42:57

not gonna be embarrassed it really is

42:59

fear you could use it for a good thing

43:02

yeah well that's a great question I don't I'm

43:04

really not trying to drag him at all but

43:06

that is a very I think

43:08

powerful statement because think about that so Logan's

43:11

gonna get married right his

43:13

kids will see what he said would you stand on that

43:15

to your son that it's manly to go out and wear

43:17

a dress would you be like yeah

43:19

I'm so proud of you go out the door and wear a

43:21

dress as a man you know these are the things that you have

43:23

to think about you're right that's why it's so important to tell

43:25

the truth and for me when I before I had children yeah I

43:28

dreamed of what kind of parent I wanted to be and then

43:30

when I had children the mama

43:32

bear came out and

43:35

for people that don't know we don't

43:37

just use that phrase you know mama

43:39

bear it's actually it's a phenomenon what

43:41

actually happens in the wild and in

43:43

nature with a mother bear so the

43:45

Papa bear if you will when

43:48

they want to have sex with the

43:50

mama bear they can't if she is

43:52

she doesn't go into heat if she's

43:54

nursing that's a thing that's all mammals

43:56

if you're nursing you don't go in

43:59

not deal with it all the time And

44:01

so and so what happens is

44:03

he realizes if I kill the

44:05

cubs Right, you'll

44:07

go back into heat so we can have sex

44:10

right? No, they don't do 100% They don't

44:12

do 100% sure 100% sure that's crazy.

44:14

So they really want to know that right

44:16

so they really that's crazy There's

44:19

wild right? Oh That's my

44:21

nickname. They'll attack the Cubs and

44:23

try to kill the Cubs and

44:26

the mama bear will fight to her death You got

44:28

to see the footage YouTube

44:30

of what she will do for her kids,

44:32

right and many times wins Right or he

44:35

goes off or whatever because it unlocks. It's

44:37

like you're about to kill my cubs That's

44:41

what the mama bear. I just wanted to state that so

44:43

people know he's gonna look at him. I'm saying she was

44:45

true It's wild. It's incredible that was

44:47

unlocked in me when I realized the

44:49

poison pill now we are giving children

44:51

in society because we have a lot

44:53

of weak men and And

44:56

therefore and we have a lot of actually I wouldn't

44:58

say weak men what we're living in right now It's

45:00

not a patriarchy. It's a matriarchy, right? We have a

45:02

lot of weak men and a bunch

45:04

of women who are able to manipulate these

45:06

men into silence or manipulate them to Say

45:09

things that aren't true and they're

45:11

running the school systems women are running the school

45:13

systems We're just it's just full pollution and

45:16

it made me Like stronger

45:18

and more fortified and I'm just gonna keep saying the

45:20

truth and keep saying Should

45:24

What flavor would you like by the way? Oh, I think they

45:26

got me. Oh shoot. I'm gonna try this. This is great Which

45:30

one or tropical vibe I'm a

45:32

tropical vibe my from my family's from st. Thomas,

45:34

okay Yeah, some of my family's from you schools.

45:36

My grandma was from st. Thomas. Yeah,

45:38

so this feels like the right thing to do Yeah, tropical

45:40

I this will with you terrible

45:44

So now with your husband Do you feel like

45:46

when you met him where where were you at

45:49

in your career when you met your husband? And

45:51

do you feel like he had any influence over

45:53

your points of views and your growth? He

45:56

and my growth. Absolutely every day in

45:58

marriage, you know, I'm I

46:00

am blessed that I am married to the

46:02

most wonderful man in the world, no offense.

46:04

Great name. He is, yeah, great

46:06

name. Same name as you. Only same men can be

46:09

named George. I'll

46:11

tell my son that, he's named after George. Dude, I'm

46:13

trying to get her to name it, George. She

46:16

won't. I did. George

46:18

the third. Come on, how hard is that? I love

46:20

it. I like George the third. I go the

46:22

third. Bro, if you say it loud enough, all

46:24

bears get heated up. You

46:27

don't even need to kill the cubs. Sorry, sorry,

46:29

sorry. Sorry, sorry. Sorry, sorry. Sorry.

46:32

Yeah, no, but no, that's that like, yeah,

46:34

so I got married to my husband and

46:37

we, from the day that

46:39

we laid eyes on each other, it took us 18

46:41

days to get engaged. I was about to say, it's

46:43

quick, right? Too weak? Crazy story. Yeah, totally crazy story.

46:45

God thing without question. And

46:48

the way that it's changed me is

46:50

my husband is incredibly faithful. It

46:52

also, like I said, added to just my

46:55

security. It's like, there's nothing the world can

46:57

do that's going to impact this, right? So

46:59

that there's constantly this threat when you're on

47:01

your own that we can

47:03

pull this and your life will be over. Your

47:05

life will be canceled. When your family, when your

47:07

home is in order, you have everything. You feel

47:09

safe. Yeah. The

47:12

foundation of life. It means you just nothing that can happen

47:14

that you can take from me because we have

47:16

everything. Amen. And I

47:18

pray that goes only stronger and it builds and

47:21

your bloodline gets stronger. There's just a bunch

47:23

of OCs just running around screaming at people.

47:25

They're like, you're a liar. And how does he quick?

47:27

Oh, yeah. I don't know if this is supporting. I

47:29

think the response because I think that's the Celsius.

47:31

But I'm going to try it. So

47:34

if you are a sponsor and it's bad, unfortunately, I always

47:36

tell the truth. Let's

47:38

go. Let's go. It goes from that.

47:41

A different question. Right. Right.

47:44

If this randomly gets cut, it's because I didn't like it. So

47:48

funny. This

47:52

is what's the flavor? Tropical. Tropical

47:54

vibe. Tropical vibe. And it's an

47:57

energy thing. It's going to get you going for the gym.

47:59

Oh, OK. Yeah, a lot of items.

48:01

This is actually good. Let's go Yeah,

48:03

it's actually good. Yeah. Yeah, right. Okay. You energy.

48:05

This is a better solution than Red Bull. Oh,

48:07

I gotta stop with Red Bull I don't drink

48:09

it a lot. Do you drink the yellow one?

48:11

I was pregnant with my son I drank a

48:13

lot of Red Bull. No, no, no, you did it.

48:16

You did it the kids hyper. Yeah, no, yeah

48:18

because that's what you had the most Just

48:21

randomly gonna be like yeah That's

48:25

actually great Wait, that is actually really well when you think about

48:27

it the fact that you drank a lot of Red Bull and

48:29

he's super hyper Because usually women when

48:31

they're pregnant whatever they eat the most that ends

48:33

up being the kids like favorite food and they're

48:35

all hyper So fun

48:38

hyper From like watching her like it

48:40

to talk about Red Bull. They're like, oh, come on. What the fuck? No,

48:42

I'm so sorry, but like yeah, no, I don't want to

48:44

drink. I didn't want to drink That's

48:46

what I'm saying. There's a better way better

48:49

way better for you. Definitely. It's obviously

48:51

bad. That's right there. Yeah, she tells the truth

48:55

Okay, cool. So now that now you're in mama bear mode,

48:57

what's the next five to ten years? Are you gonna be

48:59

running for office? Everyone says that I don't

49:01

want to run from office. I hate Washington, DC Wait,

49:03

but in Washington DC to the ground

49:05

I mean if I saw somebody that thought was super inspiring and

49:08

they wanted me to come in I would

49:10

probably do it I love to the big Ramaswami.

49:12

I really did and he is like when I

49:14

say If anybody can

49:17

listen to me and just recognize that we

49:19

will never probably in our lifetime have a

49:21

candidate Somebody who wants to go to

49:23

DC with his brain power I

49:25

mean, he's not just smart anybody can be

49:27

academic and smart anybody can pass the test

49:29

with enough studying He

49:31

is genius. He's genius and

49:33

his desire to learn I mean,

49:36

he's just built differently like I said this

49:39

on I think my podcast It's sometimes

49:41

things happen in the womb and things just go really

49:43

wrong and sometimes things happen to women things just go

49:45

really right Dude is a mutant,

49:47

you know X-men we

49:49

actually just had him last week. No, did you

49:52

yeah, he said I actually wanted to bring this

49:54

up. He said that We

49:56

are not as divided as the media wants us

49:58

to believe do you agree with us? Yeah,

50:00

I agree with that. Absolutely. I think all these

50:02

rallies are like fake because we watch mind

50:04

you This is a conspiracy

50:06

thought but with the whole Joe Biden

50:08

on meetups. I saw that there were like nobody

50:11

there Yeah, nobody was ever there. Yeah, it

50:13

was just they wouldn't even announce where he

50:15

was going It was bizarre. Remember the car

50:17

honking during the covid stuff. Did you know all the

50:19

cars are the same cars? They're all like

50:21

Jeeps or something like that. I forgot that they were all the

50:23

same brain. Yeah. Yeah I mean,

50:25

obviously sadly Joe Biden is dead, right?

50:27

I mean, he's just mentally incapacitated Oh

50:30

my god, she's gonna bust a drop some shit. I'm a

50:32

girl you are you are you right now dog He's

50:35

daddy's that's actually not even him. It's a fact.

50:38

Yeah, but I mean it's just like so you're

50:40

just saying it though He's like on no one's

50:42

home. Yeah, got it. Yeah I'd

50:45

like to reaction that you seemed very upset that you lost

50:47

the president really was really dead, but hold up Don't

50:49

make me a terrorist. I dealt with that when 9-11 happened

50:52

and everybody looked at me weird I

50:54

just I respect every actually on the Vivek

50:56

episode. I said I respect them I can always respect

50:58

the man who wants to roll up his sleeve and get

51:00

to work Yeah I can't I think it would be it

51:03

would be dishonorable for me to be like f that guy

51:05

when who the hell am I? I got talks on a

51:07

podcast. So for me to just be like he's not I

51:09

don't think he's suitable to be running this country I don't

51:11

think that's disrespectful That's just my point of view if you

51:14

have to walk the man off the stage don't think you

51:16

should run the country Right, you know saying and I don't

51:18

mean that in a bad way I just mean I would

51:21

rather know that the other countries are looking at us

51:23

in a very strong Situation when Donald

51:25

Trump was in office regardless how you felt about

51:27

him the other countries had their own feelings about

51:29

him They're like we're not gonna push this guy

51:31

this guy will push us right back, right? So

51:33

we need that right and and I think I'm

51:35

not sure if rumors are true But I think I

51:38

recently heard that Putin said he prefer to have Biden

51:40

of course if you're a country and in

51:42

your competition Is America wouldn't you prefer to have Biden

51:44

leading that country because you just there's no fear there

51:46

You know, how do you feel about Putin? I

51:49

thought his interview was Unbelievable

51:51

what Tucker did in that interview because

51:53

talk about showing us the contrast

51:56

of what it looks like to have an

51:58

intelligent leader There's nobody that can not

52:00

admit that Putin is extremely intelligent.

52:03

Oh yeah, well-rounded. And then just

52:05

recognizing how much the culture has dumbed

52:07

down Americans, that there were people who

52:09

were like, the first hour was boring,

52:12

this is how much ADHD you have,

52:14

right? That you can't even listen. He

52:16

started in the eighth century, Russia. I

52:18

mean, that's just incredible. Going

52:20

through every century and talking about what

52:22

was happening in that region, Americans are

52:25

fundamentally ignorant when it

52:27

comes to history. And

52:29

we are propagandized into believing that we understand things

52:31

and we don't. And so I use that opportunity

52:33

to really make Americans aware

52:35

of what was happening in that region and

52:37

why I'm so uncomfortable with what

52:40

Zelensky is doing. It's giving me

52:42

Bolshevik vibes. And there's something

52:44

very evil happening right now in Ukraine, right in

52:46

front of our faces. And the reason why America

52:49

is allowed to be used as a bank

52:51

really for these wars is because Americans

52:54

don't know anything. We know very, after

52:56

9-11, I think about it now, the

52:58

propaganda to make me afraid of Muslims.

53:00

I can't even imagine being a Muslim growing up after

53:02

9-11 in America, because I know how I felt about

53:05

them. I was young, I was 11 years

53:07

old, but that beating every day in

53:09

our heads that every Muslim was a terrorist was

53:11

the idea that you got. I make jokes

53:13

about it, but you don't understand. I had to

53:15

shave my face to go to the airports. My

53:17

mom would make me shave my face at school.

53:19

I was so young, this is actually funny. I

53:21

had a mustache in the fourth grade and my

53:23

mom made me nair it, because

53:26

it was really, really bad, because whatever your, the

53:29

household would say, the kids have no filter. So

53:31

they would just say whatever they wanted to me.

53:33

But at a young age, I

53:36

realized that I myself

53:38

as a Middle Eastern was racist too. I was

53:40

like, oh, it's not us, it's them. And so

53:42

I would point my finger out of fear and

53:44

be like, no, no, they did it. But then

53:47

I went to, what country did I just go

53:49

to? Sorry, I went to Saudi Arabia. And

53:51

I don't think I've ever been to a country that was more

53:53

hospitable to me. The love that

53:56

I got, the respect that I got, I literally

53:58

sat back and I hung myself out. to draw

54:00

on a podcast. I go, wow, I was brainwashed. I

54:02

was so scared. I didn't bring her. Yeah.

54:04

Same. And so first I want to say

54:06

just like to all Muslims growing

54:09

up during my time in America, I am sorry

54:11

on behalf of America. Yeah, I'm sorry. The way

54:13

that you were treated. It is

54:15

so unacceptable. When I go back and I reexamine that

54:17

propaganda, that brainwashing that took place in the classroom to

54:19

make me scared of something. I didn't even know what

54:21

a Muslim was. I remember going to the airport and

54:24

someone was a Hindu and I was scared of

54:26

it. I'm like, Oh my God, they're gonna make

54:28

him take this off of his head. I thought

54:30

that was a Muslim, right? There was no education

54:32

about anything. And the reason for that, you know,

54:34

he who controls the textbooks controls the entire country

54:36

in my view, right? It was because everything

54:39

that we did for spawning to 9 11

54:41

should be assessed as whether or not

54:44

they were crimes against humanity. We bombed

54:46

a million Iraqi civilians. We

54:48

killed a million Iraqi civilians. What were we

54:50

doing in Iraq? I never understood that. They

54:52

just said there's weapons of mass destruction and

54:54

then they never found them, but they, in

54:56

the process, they killed a million Iraqi civilians.

54:58

Right. And we, it made us think it's

55:01

okay to just keep bombing Muslims. That was

55:03

the purpose to me of that educational propaganda

55:05

and brainwashing is that we, we feel nothing

55:07

for Muslims if they die. And that's so

55:09

wrong as a Christian, it bothers me as

55:11

a Christian, it bothers me that I allowed

55:13

the school system to inform my perspective, to

55:15

not care about human beings. Yeah. There,

55:18

there was a, that's

55:20

so powerful that I just want

55:22

to take a second to say, I absolutely agree with

55:24

you. That is very powerful. But

55:27

painting your civilians or

55:29

your citizens mind,

55:32

let's face it. Television is war. Tell

55:35

a vision. What vision are you

55:37

telling your citizen? So when they

55:39

are weekly programming every time

55:41

it's a weekly program, they're programming you

55:43

to think of a certain thing. This

55:46

is not new though, right? This is

55:48

a tactic that's been since Jesus Christ,

55:50

like the, the king or whoever it'll

55:52

be like, they're evil because this and

55:54

this and that you would think

55:56

social media would kind of open each other's eyes

55:58

to be like, Oh wait, on like they're

56:01

not that bad. They're actually in America. It's a

56:03

mixing pot, which means they're coming from other countries.

56:05

You think they would be educated. How

56:07

do we get our country to not be divided?

56:10

Actually, properly get educated. And I think this is

56:12

the, this is the reason that they hate alternative

56:14

media sources like me. You know, if you say

56:16

any, they hate podcasts and you want to figure

56:18

out how to control this, right? Because suddenly their

56:20

narrative is threatened. And I think that we are

56:22

in the midst of a mass awakening. I would

56:24

say to any person that's watching this is to

56:26

know that anytime you are thinking

56:29

in your head that these are always the good

56:31

guys and you're referring to an entire religion,

56:33

you know, an entire class of people,

56:35

all women are this, all men are

56:37

that, all, all Muslims are this, all Jews

56:40

are this. You're being, you're being programmed. You

56:42

have been programmed. Human beings are more complex.

56:45

Alexander Solzhenitsyn is a person

56:48

who was in

56:50

the labor camps during, during the communist regime.

56:53

And he came out when he wrote extensively about

56:55

what they suffered. By the way, no one ever

56:57

talks about the Christian Holocaust, 20 million Christians killed

56:59

in Russia. And he, he was

57:02

writing about it and he says, everybody's

57:05

capable. And I'm butchering this quote, we should find

57:07

the direct quote because it's so powerful that everybody

57:09

is capable of good and evil. Right. And he,

57:11

he says the reason why it's not so easy

57:14

to just go after evil and conquer it or

57:16

go after, you know, good and put up on

57:18

a platform is because at any moment good peak

57:20

can become evil and evil can become good. And

57:22

I have seen that in this industry. And

57:25

so people who throw things at me like, why would

57:27

you talk to Andrew Tate and look at what he

57:29

said, you know, 20 years ago or 10 years ago,

57:31

whatever, because I sense in

57:33

him somebody that is capable

57:36

of I see this transition happening. Right. And

57:38

he, I have nothing to do with this

57:40

platform dude, the eighth most Googled person, you

57:42

know, he's obviously relevant, whether you like him

57:44

or not, he is very relevant and he's

57:46

relevant because there is this spiritual emptiness inside

57:48

of boys. They've been hit over their head

57:50

over and over again and said, don't be

57:52

a guy, don't be a guy, don't be

57:54

a boy. Toxic masculinity. The toxic

57:57

feminists have created this narrative that being a

57:59

man. is wrong. And in many ways that

58:01

being a woman is wrong too. You should want to climb

58:03

the corporate ladder. Why do you want to be home with

58:05

kids? Neither thing is okay. And so when

58:07

Andrew Tate, I understand it when Andrew Tate got up

58:10

and was like, no, you can be a man. F

58:12

her, F her do this, blah, blah, blah, blah. These

58:14

girls are all hoes. They responded. Right.

58:16

Like goodness. Finally, we can hear something

58:18

else outside of this conditioning that we're

58:20

hearing that men are awful and backwards

58:22

the entire time. Um, and so yeah,

58:25

if you have to constantly reassess, you have to constantly

58:27

reassess people that surround you. Are they still a good

58:29

person? I know that you were a good person two years

58:31

ago. I've seen people in politics that still have platforms. I'm

58:33

like, I don't know if you're a good

58:36

person anymore. I don't think you're a good person. Just because you were a

58:38

good person five years ago, doesn't mean you're a good person now, you know,

58:40

uh, has money corrupted

58:42

you, has your own wants corrupted

58:44

you, has power corrupted you, everything

58:46

corrupts. So constantly take measure

58:48

of the people that you're listening to and

58:50

ask yourself if you think they are good

58:52

people. You know, if you could restructure DC,

58:54

cause I know you don't like DC. If you

58:57

could restructure it. Like for example, with Vivek, I said,

58:59

I don't think lobbying should even be 100th first thing

59:01

I was going to say. Okay. I like to me,

59:03

that's bribery at a whole different level. And all of

59:05

our politicians have been bribed. They all have been bribed one way

59:07

or the other. So that's the first thing that would

59:09

go. What else would you change? Like if

59:12

you, if you want to go with that permit,

59:14

term limits, the promise is that

59:16

the issue is you can just be in DC

59:18

forever, right? Then you want to figure out how

59:20

to enrich DC. This is your job now, right?

59:22

How do I make my company, so to speak,

59:25

uh, more successful, which is why you go to,

59:27

you accept the lobbyists bribes because it's a lot

59:30

of money coming from big pharma. It's a lot

59:32

of money off being offered to you from the

59:34

military industrial complex. That's what happened to Nikki Haley.

59:36

She wasn't debt, right? And then suddenly she recognized

59:39

that she could make a lot of money if

59:41

she just promoted the military industrial complex. We have

59:43

to go to war all the time. War, war, war,

59:45

war. You see Lindsey Graham, he's a total nut job,

59:48

you know, bomb Iran. The heck

59:50

is wrong with, why are you saying that? Do you,

59:52

do you think you're representing the interests of the American people? But

59:54

what if you're, what if you had term limits and you had

59:56

to go back and be the American people? What if it's your

59:58

children? Yeah. What if you were only here for four years

1:00:00

and then for the rest of the time you

1:00:03

got to be like us well then suddenly bomb

1:00:05

Iran and let's go to war doesn't really doesn't

1:00:07

really serve you so the term

1:00:09

limits should be established they lobbying should

1:00:11

not be accepted whatsoever no bribes should

1:00:13

be allowed going to DC should be

1:00:16

an act of service because you're not

1:00:18

gonna make a lot of money right

1:00:20

but you you want to change your

1:00:22

country you actually want to make it

1:00:24

a better country right now no

1:00:27

they want to be celebrities it's it's like a it's

1:00:29

a Hollywood I was I told the vic

1:00:31

I said the only thing like I I like to challenge

1:00:33

my guests because I don't want to sit here and just

1:00:35

kiss ass and the one thing I challenged

1:00:37

him and I go when I watched

1:00:39

your guys's panel I go as a

1:00:41

comedy rest if

1:00:44

that's our leaders tearing each other

1:00:46

down what the hell are we doing we're

1:00:48

gonna follow in your guys's footsteps you guys are the

1:00:51

people that were teaching our kids to support and learn

1:00:53

from I also think they should have to

1:00:55

pass a civics test because there's

1:00:57

a lot of really not smart people that are in

1:00:59

DC I don't think they even know how their

1:01:01

government works they just get a platform because they're

1:01:03

saying what people want to hear it doesn't even make

1:01:05

sense to me I mean this was something that

1:01:08

the vague was talking about on the road was saying

1:01:10

that every single person should have to pass a civics

1:01:12

test to even vote and that was considered very controversial

1:01:14

and it's like wow that's how dumb we've gotten they

1:01:17

mean go back and read the letters that were written

1:01:19

from 17 year olds that were fighting

1:01:21

in the Civil War to their moms geniuses they

1:01:23

sounded like poets yeah and geniuses no school

1:01:25

and no university now read anything

1:01:27

that's written by somebody who's allegedly a

1:01:29

journalist I was reading today the Rolling

1:01:32

Stone Rolling Stone cover

1:01:34

issues I was covering on my show it's like

1:01:36

Kristen Stewart the first sentence is such an insult

1:01:38

to just the English language it's

1:01:40

just an assault on the English language how

1:01:42

are you able to write for a magazine

1:01:44

how did you get this job right and

1:01:47

so now we're at the place where we're like oh my god

1:01:49

no if I have to know how many states there are and

1:01:51

I can't vote like then that's not fair no if

1:01:54

you don't know how many states there are you can't

1:01:56

basic then you shouldn't be voting because you could actually

1:01:58

be going up into home many people

1:02:00

in speaking on that said they don't know about

1:02:02

you don't know I'm too dumb to do this

1:02:04

but I'm definitely smart enough to vote doesn't really

1:02:06

make sense to me I want to be

1:02:08

a doctor and do surgery but I don't want to go

1:02:10

to school right are you gonna open me up especially

1:02:13

another thing if you don't pay taxes it's wild

1:02:15

to me that you would be allowed to vote

1:02:18

if you don't pay taxes and you're and you're just

1:02:20

fully just on the tit so to

1:02:22

speak why on earth are you able to vote on

1:02:24

how I'm going to get taxed like this doesn't make

1:02:26

any sense to me right like do you not a

1:02:28

participating member of society if you're not voting if you're

1:02:31

not if you're not being taxed have you been in

1:02:33

LA you've got no skin in the game I have

1:02:35

been in LA many many times have you ever lived

1:02:37

in LA no I would never live in LA what

1:02:39

are your thoughts on homelessness do you live in

1:02:41

LA I used to I go back and

1:02:44

forth I come for work so I have a place

1:02:46

in LA where I come and shoot and do stuff

1:02:48

but I mostly resigned in scotch Arizona my

1:02:50

thoughts on homelessness is that people

1:02:53

are really uneducated they believe this narrative

1:02:55

that a homeless person is just somebody

1:02:57

that's down on their luck and

1:03:00

just needs a place to stay the

1:03:02

overwhelming majority of them are drug addicts

1:03:04

and they had places to stay and

1:03:06

ruin their entire lives because they if

1:03:08

you gave them $200 told me go

1:03:10

feed themselves they would go to the

1:03:12

corner and they would buy crack these

1:03:15

people are extremely dangerous right this whole

1:03:17

concept of the poor sad homeless person

1:03:19

and the way you're going to help them

1:03:21

is by giving them more money to spend is

1:03:24

completely foolish and ridiculous like again we need

1:03:26

to tell the truth about why we have

1:03:28

people that are on the streets they're getting

1:03:30

free stuff they don't care they're happy to

1:03:32

live on the street they tell you that

1:03:34

I phones they can do their drugs for

1:03:37

free now about clinics where they can shoot

1:03:39

up for free their life is great yep

1:03:41

you know for them this is the daddy

1:03:43

warbuck lifestyle and then you're told oh

1:03:45

we just need more money to fix the issue and to

1:03:47

give them more money and the money doesn't go to them

1:03:49

no and a lot of

1:03:51

people would be like that's not very Christ like a

1:03:53

view no no no no it is it's a sin

1:03:56

to walk that type of life go like I didn't

1:03:58

realize this until I went to other countries and

1:04:00

I looked around, none.

1:04:03

And I asked my neighbor there, I go, hey, you

1:04:06

guys have no homelessness. He goes, it's illegal.

1:04:09

If you're homeless, you'll go straight to prison. So it

1:04:11

pushes them to go get a job. And

1:04:13

the reason why I wanna push this is because

1:04:16

when you're just given something, okay, let

1:04:18

me give you an example. This is a perfect example.

1:04:20

There's this guy that I know, he came from a

1:04:23

very wealthy family, drug addict. Yeah,

1:04:25

of course. Threw away his life. And I looked at him

1:04:27

and I go, what the heck is wrong with

1:04:29

you, bro? God has blessed you with

1:04:31

such a fruitful life and you throw

1:04:33

it all away. And he says,

1:04:35

you'll never understand what it feels like to never need

1:04:38

to work for anything. I actually fully

1:04:40

subscribe to Rich Kid Probs. They're real.

1:04:42

They're real. They're real. I feel bad

1:04:44

for Rich Kids. It's because I'm like, wow, like I get

1:04:46

that. Like you never had to learn. You

1:04:49

never had to work. And it's something that I

1:04:51

am so conscious of with my children because I'm

1:04:53

from a school of hard knocks. I had nothing.

1:04:55

I had no money. I had over six figures

1:04:57

in debt just trying to get to university because

1:05:00

I felt the peer pressure to go, which is

1:05:02

a joke. You do not have to go to

1:05:04

university and get a degree. That is just already

1:05:06

putting you into the banking system because you start

1:05:08

your life already owing money. And in debt,

1:05:10

that's another evil in our society. But

1:05:12

I think about this all the time

1:05:15

that they are in a sense handicapped

1:05:17

by their own parents. I saw, I was friends with

1:05:19

a girl and we, I had to bust my butt.

1:05:21

I mean, I've had a job since I was 14

1:05:23

years old. I've never not had a job. And

1:05:26

I have slept in my car. I've

1:05:28

had $9 in my bank account. I remember crying on

1:05:30

the phone with Sally Mae when they wouldn't stop calling

1:05:32

me over student loans. And they were like, they just

1:05:34

call back to back. Totally mentally,

1:05:37

they're just in you. And

1:05:39

they're just like, you're gonna default on the loan. You're gonna have a local choir

1:05:41

store. You're not gonna be able to live. We're gonna take your first kid.

1:05:43

And I just remember being on phones talking to someone and

1:05:45

being like, what? I literally have $9 in my

1:05:48

bank account. What

1:05:50

would you like me to do? And

1:05:52

I thank God for those moments, especially in

1:05:54

the retrospect. In fact, thanking God in the

1:05:56

retrospect is why I never doubt him now

1:05:58

when I'm suffering. No matter what's going through

1:06:01

is because the lesson of my life When

1:06:03

I was a liberal and I fell away

1:06:05

from the faith and I was embarrassed about

1:06:07

my grandfather's my grandmother's faithfulness And

1:06:10

I fell into the world and worldliness and

1:06:12

the secular habits I was miserable

1:06:14

and I was angry at God. I was

1:06:16

like why me why couldn't I come from

1:06:18

a rich family? You know, why couldn't I

1:06:20

you know have money? Why can't you make

1:06:22

things easy? It turns you into a little

1:06:24

Marxist, right? And then

1:06:26

when I started going back to where I

1:06:28

from where I started, you know Or

1:06:31

what my grandfather's lessons were what actually

1:06:33

wealth is because it isn't money, you

1:06:35

know, it's it's family. It's security

1:06:37

It's clear thinking it's there were so many

1:06:39

blessings in my life. And now

1:06:41

I realize oh my gosh It

1:06:44

sounds ridiculous to say this God's

1:06:46

a genius, right? It sounds so ridiculous and

1:06:48

patronizing to say God is a genius But

1:06:50

every single place that he put me every

1:06:53

bit of suffering Now when

1:06:55

I speak I speak on authority, right? Yeah,

1:06:57

I'm like you are just so smart God

1:06:59

your genius Oh, I just say it's so

1:07:01

patronizing to you But hmm, you know it

1:07:03

you know and now and I can't make

1:07:05

sense of things that are happening when I

1:07:07

am like why It's happening to me mass

1:07:09

shootings. That's why I'm like, I

1:07:12

don't know what you're doing God But I know that you have me another

1:07:14

you're not putting me through this suffering I will

1:07:16

I will understand your perfect design and your

1:07:18

plan later on. Yep, and I don't know

1:07:21

I also want to I want to know with that because You

1:07:27

could be very very rich or very

1:07:29

very poor your God doesn't look at

1:07:31

dirt and question your surroundings Okay, whatever

1:07:33

you're thinking is valuable to him was

1:07:35

created by dust. So to him it's

1:07:37

literally dust where you're at

1:07:39

in your life if you're uncomfortable if you're mad if

1:07:41

you're upset listen to what you're asking God for and

1:07:44

Realize that he's putting you through what you're praying for So

1:07:47

if you want to be great know that you have

1:07:49

to go through things that will make you great You

1:07:52

have that obstacle when you were like, I want to be

1:07:54

a leading woman I want to teach these people how to

1:07:56

get out of there and God's like, alright man, but look

1:07:58

how many obstacles I'm gonna have to put you through because

1:08:00

you need to mentally prepare yourself. I can't just

1:08:02

give it to you. The best thing that God

1:08:05

could give you is wisdom. And if you ask

1:08:07

anybody who's wise, how do you get wisdom? It's

1:08:09

really by absorbing what you're going through. Everything.

1:08:11

Even if you feel like you're at rock bottom, exanimate,

1:08:14

like really, really see how am I here? Why

1:08:17

am I here? And now when God pulls me

1:08:19

out, how can I tell my brothers and sisters

1:08:21

to get out of there? Really open up your

1:08:23

eyes and fear nothing but the Lord. If you

1:08:25

fear nothing but the Lord, then everything else is

1:08:28

just literally a game. Life is a game and

1:08:30

you're just building up. Very, very proud of

1:08:32

you. Yeah, he's very intentional.

1:08:34

God is so intentional.

1:08:36

And yeah, your suffering is intentional.

1:08:38

You have to suffer. You have to

1:08:40

go through suffering in life.

1:08:43

That is a teaching moment for you.

1:08:45

And when you make it through suffering, you

1:08:47

will be so much stronger. And I think

1:08:49

that because I was forged in the fire,

1:08:52

a lot of this stuff just seems so ridiculous

1:08:54

to me. Some people are like, how do you

1:08:56

deal with all the mean comments? I'm like, what

1:08:58

a blessing. My grandfather had to get up when

1:09:00

he was five years old and

1:09:03

lay tobacco to dry on a sharecropping

1:09:05

farm. I'm his granddaughter and I gotta

1:09:07

deal with mean tweets on the internet. I'm

1:09:10

foiled. They're misspelled too. Yeah,

1:09:14

I'm like, oh my gosh, oh, my life is

1:09:16

so hard. I'm like, everyone's like, are you so

1:09:19

happy? I'm like, because my life is wonderful. That's

1:09:21

the pain I have to go through is an

1:09:23

optional mean tweet. I don't have to be on

1:09:25

Twitter. You know what I mean? Who cares? You

1:09:28

fixed your focus. Your perspective is perfect.

1:09:31

How do you get somebody to have your perspective, right?

1:09:33

Cause they keep being in the trenches, but if you

1:09:35

have your perspective right, it's paradise. How

1:09:38

do you get, how did you, like, how would you, okay. Perfect

1:09:40

question. Your children are now

1:09:43

being raised by their surrounding. You're

1:09:45

older. What's your advice to a young, is it

1:09:47

a boy or girl, if you know what I'm asking?

1:09:49

My children, I have three, two boys and a girl. So

1:09:52

is the new one a girl? Boy. A

1:09:54

boy. Boy, girl, boy. Congratulations family.

1:09:57

The boy is about to turn 18. The

1:09:59

world is. telling him it's wrong to be a man. But

1:10:02

you're teaching him. If you had to tell that

1:10:04

young man, this is what

1:10:06

you need to gear yourself for the war of life,

1:10:09

what would you gear him with? That's

1:10:11

actually a question that I get often when I'm on

1:10:13

college campuses and I tell them exactly what I just

1:10:16

said is, you know, when people tell me they're going

1:10:18

through something hard, I always ask them, what did your

1:10:20

granddad do? What do you want to do for a living? What

1:10:22

did your grandfather, what did his father do for a living? And

1:10:24

to hear them talk about, to realize what the

1:10:26

time of men, that's what it was, it was

1:10:28

the time of men. Men had to be men

1:10:30

and someone will say, oh, he fought in World

1:10:33

War II, whatever it is. And I just

1:10:36

try to change their perspective, right? Your

1:10:38

life is great. Your life

1:10:41

is, my goodness, the technology. Even when

1:10:43

I think about little things, the convenience

1:10:45

of technology, even with

1:10:47

raising kids, how unbelievably

1:10:49

spoiled we all are,

1:10:52

right? The problem is, is people aren't

1:10:54

given that perspective. They actually think that

1:10:56

their suffering is true suffering or true

1:10:58

hardship. And what's amazing is that the

1:11:00

people that lived through what I would

1:11:02

say was true suffering and true hardship

1:11:04

don't have that perspective. They don't complain.

1:11:06

No, they never complain. Because they don't

1:11:09

play Victor. Right. The

1:11:11

problem is like, that actually is a direct quote from

1:11:13

me that was taken from turning point. Really? Yeah. I

1:11:15

swear to you, my mom has said that my whole

1:11:17

life because

1:11:22

she, my mom's had an absolute

1:11:24

wild life, you know, and we had our own tribulations when

1:11:26

I was younger and she does look at me and she's

1:11:28

like, in life, so you could either be a victim or

1:11:30

you could be a Victor. You choose what you want. I

1:11:32

love that. And that's because nothing is original under the sun.

1:11:35

That's amazing. We're going

1:11:38

to let her mom.

1:11:40

Yeah. But that is the right perspective to have.

1:11:42

And it's like, actually, the best thing to teach

1:11:44

them is like, you're just not a victim. You

1:11:46

have it so easy compared to how this person

1:11:49

had it. And that's why it's so important. And

1:11:51

this is what the problem, the reason why the

1:11:53

children of rich people tend

1:11:55

to become Marxists and it's because

1:11:57

they want to rinse themselves off of the guilt of

1:11:59

their wealth is because they had no suffering. They

1:12:01

don't know about how their parents made that wealth.

1:12:04

They don't know about where it came from. It's

1:12:06

too easy, right? They don't know that when you

1:12:08

go back, somebody suffered for that. You know what

1:12:10

I mean? Somebody was suffering to create that. And

1:12:13

then unfortunately, that person, whoever that person was, didn't

1:12:15

do the right thing and raise you right and

1:12:17

make you understand what they went through to achieve

1:12:19

that success. And so it is incumbent upon parents

1:12:22

that are successful to make sure that you don't,

1:12:24

that you raise your children with the right perspective.

1:12:27

And even if you are a parent and you

1:12:29

are not successful to, or you know, and

1:12:31

you're, and you're, you think that, oh, I'm not, we're

1:12:33

not making enough money. No, I actually find people with

1:12:35

the best values come from homes where they don't have

1:12:37

it all. Right. Preach because their perspectives are better. You

1:12:39

have to work for it. And I think most of

1:12:42

the time when somebody tells you something, you're not ready

1:12:44

to hear it. So you're not going to take in

1:12:46

what the person is telling you. But when it comes

1:12:48

back to you having to deal with the problems at

1:12:50

hand, those are the tools that are building up to

1:12:52

be the woman that you are the same way that

1:12:54

you got built up to be the woman that you

1:12:56

are. And so yeah, they, they need

1:12:59

those experiences, you know, I truly,

1:13:02

from our perspective, right. Belle had a different

1:13:04

upbringing than I had. She had more of

1:13:06

a turbulence. I like a

1:13:08

silver spoon is like degrading to what I had.

1:13:10

Like I had everything. If I even pumped, fake,

1:13:12

looked at something, I'd have it. Like I had

1:13:15

everything my eyes ever had. My dad would literally

1:13:17

spoil me to a degree where I tell her

1:13:19

stories and I start feeling guilty. I'm like, all

1:13:21

right, man, maybe I should like talk about my

1:13:23

life. Like, and like people think I'm exaggerating, but

1:13:26

my life was unbelievable. Right. But how

1:13:28

did I become the mindset that I have?

1:13:30

My mom and dad focused on two things.

1:13:32

Most importantly, God, I ain't nothing

1:13:34

without God. They're nothing without God.

1:13:37

And then two, they changed my

1:13:39

focus into never wanting, but

1:13:41

being grateful. So always, always

1:13:43

working for it. I give you an example of

1:13:46

I was in music. If I wanted

1:13:48

a microphone that was expensive, my dad wouldn't shorten it

1:13:50

because he worked hard in his life, but he would

1:13:52

make me perform in front of him and his friends

1:13:54

for like fucking days, freaking days. Sorry, freaking days, bro.

1:13:56

It's embarrassing. And he'd be like, I don't, I don't,

1:13:58

I don't believe. believe you believe in the song. Get

1:14:00

out of here. And I'm like, oh my God. So

1:14:02

I realized that it has nothing to do with your

1:14:04

wealth and has nothing to do with you being poor. How

1:14:07

are your parents raising you? Everything about that. The

1:14:09

reason why poor parents probably raise their kids better

1:14:11

because they're probably around them more and they're teaching

1:14:13

them, I don't want you to have this life

1:14:16

forever. I want you to know this and this

1:14:18

and that. And then rich parents are like, you

1:14:20

don't even have to worry about it here. Have

1:14:22

this and you have no idea how bad

1:14:24

you just poisoned your bloodline. Right. I totally agree. And

1:14:26

victim mentality will always be a cancer in your life.

1:14:28

No matter what you go through, just find a way

1:14:30

to think about it and go, what a blessing. This

1:14:32

is a blessing because begin the sentence that way. This

1:14:34

is actually a blessing because you know, I recently had

1:14:36

a thing and I was like, this is a blessing

1:14:39

because that it up and I'm good about it. And

1:14:41

everyone's always, I'm sorry. I'm like, don't be sorry. It's

1:14:43

cool. It's cool. Like this is actually great because of

1:14:45

this and you will see how much it

1:14:47

changes you as a person. It changes how people respond around

1:14:49

you. People love to be a victim. I don't get it.

1:14:51

It's weird. It's, you know, the trauma dumping on the internet

1:14:53

and yeah, it works. They're

1:14:56

oversharing about things in their life. You know, I

1:14:58

was just diagnosed with a bad pinky, whatever. And

1:15:00

then they're, oh, I'm so sorry. I'm

1:15:03

so sorry. I'm so sorry. And

1:15:06

I am so sorry for those people. I

1:15:08

am so sorry. This is what you have

1:15:10

to resort to for attention. I am so

1:15:12

sorry that your life is so void, right?

1:15:14

That you don't realize that you are tremendously

1:15:16

blessed in every single way. And that the

1:15:19

message that we should be sharing with people

1:15:21

is that no matter what suffering you believe

1:15:23

that you are going through, it

1:15:26

is without a question, a

1:15:28

gift that has been handpicked for you

1:15:31

by God. Like he is at the

1:15:33

gift shop in heaven and he's like, let me

1:15:35

get this gift. I know it's wrapped up in

1:15:37

a curse. You're like, Oh my God, but let

1:15:39

me tell you something. It's a gift. The

1:15:43

first thing I ever said on impulsive was when

1:15:45

my mom taught me and I'll re-say it right

1:15:48

here. It says, my mom used to tell me,

1:15:50

uh, the devil is never powerful

1:15:52

enough. The devil could never take what

1:15:54

God has installed in you, but

1:15:57

he could blind you from where it takes you. every

1:16:00

tool that he uses is a lie. That's it,

1:16:02

it's just a lie. He can never touch you,

1:16:04

he can never affect you, but he can get

1:16:06

you to give up what God gave

1:16:08

to you. And so if you have

1:16:10

something in your heart, if you have a skill set, if

1:16:12

you're an artist, in any way, shape, or

1:16:14

form, you feel you're built a certain way, give it to

1:16:16

God and watch it just blossom. My final

1:16:18

question for you before you get going, you have to

1:16:21

go shoot and all your stuff is, what

1:16:25

is your, and you don't have to

1:16:27

get too personal, this is a question I really

1:16:29

would love to know, what do your prayers

1:16:31

look like with you and God? Wow,

1:16:35

yeah, that is a very personal question. You

1:16:38

don't have to dive into like all the details. I

1:16:40

mean, I will be honest, when my husband

1:16:43

and I pray together, it is

1:16:45

just about first and

1:16:47

foremost, we just have a ton of

1:16:49

people that we name that we ask

1:16:51

him to intercede in the path of

1:16:53

their lives. Like this is, sorry,

1:16:56

we pray for this person, this person, this

1:16:58

person. So the majority of the prayer I

1:17:00

would say is just praying for

1:17:02

other people. Believe it or not,

1:17:05

we pray for our enemies. No, that's

1:17:07

beautiful. Yeah, I mean it to people when

1:17:09

I'm like, I genuinely wish you well. I mean,

1:17:12

because where you are at right now is such a dark

1:17:14

place if you can do these sorts of things that like,

1:17:16

I can't even really be mad at you. I just have

1:17:18

to feel bad for like where you're at if I'm not

1:17:20

there. And then it

1:17:23

is just giving thanks.

1:17:25

And without question, I

1:17:27

always ask him for strength to continue doing

1:17:29

his will in the world is probably, that's

1:17:31

a direct thing that I say in all

1:17:33

of my prayers. Thank

1:17:35

you for the continued strength to keep

1:17:37

doing your will in the world. Amen. I

1:17:40

just, it was in my heart, it was like the first thing I

1:17:42

wrote down that I wanted to know. And

1:17:44

I'll say why, it's because when I look at you,

1:17:47

I see a legit soldier that got

1:17:49

put here purposely. And I really do mean

1:17:51

that. I don't just butter up my guests

1:17:54

if I feel like I truly need a

1:17:56

rebuke or influence,

1:17:58

I'll do that. I sat with you,

1:18:00

I really do feel like we're just taking away. You've

1:18:03

been in the war a lot longer than us. So I just

1:18:05

wanted to learn from your perspective. And honestly,

1:18:07

I pray that none

1:18:09

of your ego or anger, any emotions that

1:18:11

the devil wants you to use is ever

1:18:13

used. And I just pray that not

1:18:15

only you, but your bloodline is multiplied and there's

1:18:18

a lot of blessings that

1:18:20

come your way. I really do, I really pray for that. Well,

1:18:22

I just wanna thank everybody watching because I think people always come up

1:18:24

to me and they say, I pray for you. And that is the

1:18:26

only thing I ever ask people to do. If

1:18:28

you ever wanna help me, just pray. And that

1:18:30

is obviously the prayers have been working and God

1:18:32

has given me the platform that I

1:18:35

have today. And it is

1:18:37

obviously a platform that I'm grateful to have, but

1:18:39

it wouldn't be here without the people that

1:18:42

invested me by watching a video, subscribing to

1:18:45

my YouTube channel. Like everything that I have

1:18:47

is because God gave

1:18:49

me the strength and people believed in me. And

1:18:51

so I will always be honest with them, no

1:18:53

matter where it lands, no matter

1:18:55

what fire zone I have to go through. I

1:18:57

just don't lie for a living. You're

1:18:59

such a beautiful soul. Thank you, you guys are so sweet. Thank

1:19:01

you so much for sharing with us. Yeah, that was awesome. Thank

1:19:04

you so much. We'll have to do it again. I'd love to.

1:19:06

Yeah. I'd love to, that'd be awesome. Thank you so much. Where

1:19:08

are you guys, I'll let you guys wrap up. Where are you

1:19:10

guys based? We travel around. So

1:19:13

we're usually based in LA

1:19:15

and then Arizona. And

1:19:17

for our podcast, I don't

1:19:19

know, I think I learned- We travel a

1:19:22

lot. I learned from Impulsive because Logan would be so busy

1:19:24

he would travel a lot for his work. And I was

1:19:26

like, whoa, this is actually genius. I'm not gonna wait for

1:19:28

my guests to come to me. I'm gonna show them that

1:19:30

I wanna be there. So great. And we

1:19:32

were actually just talking about this, like two days ago, talking

1:19:34

about how not all people do that for their podcast and

1:19:36

it's such a different experience to come to the person. And

1:19:38

it's a lot of fun. You know, experience of the

1:19:40

day. We can just see their own town and stuff.

1:19:43

So cool. Nashville's lit. Great food, bro. Everybody's

1:19:45

so positive. There's just a bunch of positive people.

1:19:47

Look at those guys smiling back there. I can

1:19:49

see as well. And all the hotels of country music, which I

1:19:52

love country music. I love being in like, kind of your Texas,

1:19:54

you know? Hey, she has to go. Come on, darling. I'm so

1:19:56

sorry. Nashville.

1:19:58

All right, thank you guys. Thanks for watching, I'll

1:20:00

see you guys next time.