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2:11
Anyone? No. I bet half of
2:13
you got a fucking PhD though. It's
2:16
not useful for my bikini line. I'll tell you
2:18
that now. I'm sure you're saving the
2:20
world, but I just, you should
2:22
see my, I went for a swim today and you should see my
2:25
like, I haven't got time. I'm on tour.
2:27
Has anyone got a home kit and
2:30
feels confident? No. Okay.
2:33
All right. I'm on my own. Can
2:36
anyone lend me a razor? No.
2:43
I'm a feminist, but, I'm
2:51
a feminist, but when I see women
2:54
in swimwear with their
2:58
butt cheeks fully exposed,
3:02
on the outside, I'm like, yes,
3:04
you go girl. But on the
3:06
inside, I am like
3:08
a conservative prude going, oh, oh,
3:12
oh, put that in a
3:14
wetsuit. Oh. Is
3:18
that your most boomer opinion, Geraldine? Yeah.
3:21
Probably. Just pop the peaches away.
3:24
Yeah. Yeah. I'm
3:26
like, oh, but I'm very torn because
3:28
I'm like, yes, yes, you should, am
3:31
I jealous? I don't know. I
3:34
feel the same. Sometimes I have an
3:36
internal response to something and I think, I'm sure
3:39
that's patriarchy that's trained me that way, but here
3:41
we are now and it's
3:44
a bit low. Yeah. I
3:47
actually do enjoy other
3:49
people's sort of like gay abandon, you know, when
3:51
they just sort of. Yes.
3:54
But then I find myself like, like
3:57
having this inner turmoil of going,
3:59
yeah. but no and then
4:01
eventually going you're staring so
4:05
staring yeah
4:08
just yeah while
4:10
you decide what is internalized
4:12
patriarchy and what's a bit
4:14
much in a public space
4:17
somebody else is looking back going like I'm
4:19
up here yeah I'm a feminist
4:24
but but
4:31
I do genuinely feel
4:34
like there's about 48 hours about four days
4:37
before my period where I just shouldn't be
4:39
listened to because
4:43
I am fucking unhinged
4:47
I mean about my my girlfriend but
4:51
six months ago I was really
4:55
really riding the PMS train
4:57
and and I
4:59
said to my girlfriend oh my my career is
5:02
going nowhere my come get it I think I
5:04
think I think I think I'm gonna join the
5:06
army I'm gonna join the army my
5:09
girlfriend very tactfully said okay
5:14
I'm not dismissing your truth but
5:19
you did say my
5:22
career is going nowhere I'm gonna join the
5:24
army 28 days ago 28 days before that this is
5:26
the value of a same-sex
5:33
relation where the other person also menstruates
5:35
isn't it the only one because
5:38
because my husband would stop downloading
5:40
the forms yeah the part
5:46
that I'm questioning is the army me too
5:49
I mean I sort of saw
5:51
you as someone really like left-wing
5:54
and pacifist and that's why I booked you for the show
5:57
oh yeah oh yeah and
5:59
you're now revealing I'm feeling that, what are you
6:01
gonna do in the army that's gonna make you
6:03
feel comfortable with your politics? That's my real question
6:05
for you. Darling, don't ask for logic. I can't
6:07
even get up in the morning. I'd be the
6:09
worst soldier in the world. Is
6:12
it just sort of a private Benjamin
6:14
G.I. Jane fantasy? No, again, you're
6:17
looking for a reason where there is none. I can't.
6:21
The army, it's given me
6:23
pause, I tell you. Well,
6:25
listen, I'm menstruating boot camp,
6:28
that's what I say. I've
6:30
forgotten mine now. I'm
6:34
a feminist, but I really,
6:36
no, I'm a feminist and
6:39
I really love, for the first ever
6:41
time, having a female tour
6:43
manager. Give it up for Kylie Jackson.
6:45
Wooo! Kylie, can
6:47
you just come out? Can
6:49
you just come out and just, she's
6:52
absolutely amazing. Wooo! Let's
6:55
do a quick, and she's always glamorous.
6:57
I've never, I've toured so many times, I don't,
6:59
oh, actually, no, I have had a female tour manager
7:01
once, but years ago before the guilty feminist. Kylie, thank
7:03
you so much, you've been doing an amazing job. And
7:06
now, can you leave so I can do the bus? Yeah,
7:08
thank you very much. But, I
7:13
have to, I
7:17
don't have to. I always feel I have to offer
7:19
to help with the suitcases. So
7:22
we're at the airport, if it's a man,
7:24
a male tour manager, I just wander away.
7:26
I just go, well, this is my bits
7:28
on the stage, my bits going onto the
7:30
stage in a sparkly cloak. My
7:32
bits that, I don't have to do suitcases. But
7:35
when it's Kylie, I go, can I give you a hand with that?
7:38
Kylie goes, no, I'm the tour manager. And she just heaves it up.
7:40
She has a lot of weight lifting in her spare time. She
7:43
just heaves it up. And I
7:45
found myself at the airport the other day going,
7:47
oh, you're so strong. And she looked at me, and
7:49
I went, yeah,
7:52
no, I said that. Yeah.
7:56
Do you know where I could join the army? Ha
7:59
ha ha. I'm
8:02
a feminist but I
8:04
think my wife should stay in the
8:06
kitchen. What
8:09
is happening here? Just
8:13
during the times when she wants
8:16
to do the laundry, because she's
8:18
not good at
8:21
doing the laundry and she disrupts my
8:23
system, so
8:26
she should just stay out of
8:28
it. Let me do it.
8:35
I don't think this needs any
8:38
more follow-up questions at all. I
8:40
just wanted to ask if your ranking was Colonel or Major.
8:45
Grace, have you got any more? I'm
8:48
a feminist but when I read that Olivia Rodrigo
8:50
was born in 2003, I
8:54
thought, shouldn't
8:57
she be in school? She's
9:00
just got a driver's license, famously.
9:03
Famously. And then when I
9:05
read a bit more about it, when I
9:07
read that she
9:09
has won three Grammy Awards, an Arduino,
9:11
an American musical ordina Brit, and
9:14
she was named Time Magazine's Best Entertainer of
9:16
2021, I'm
9:19
going to join the army. Are
9:23
we ready to start the show? Then
9:26
welcome, welcome, welcome to
9:28
the Guilty Feminist live
9:30
tour here in Adelaide.
9:34
Carly Jackson, everybody! Big
9:38
giving off for Geraldine Hickey and
9:40
Grace Petrie. Two
9:42
incredible feminists you'll be seeing a
9:45
lot more of tonight. Along
9:48
with our other very special guests, our other screen. Hello
9:52
Adelaide, it's been a while since we've been here.
9:55
Thank you so much for coming out. It's
9:58
just wonderful to see you. Give us a
10:00
cheer if this is your first time at the guilty feminist. Give
10:03
us a cheer if you've been before. Give
10:06
us a cheer if you listen at Hope. Give
10:09
us a cheer if you don't know what you're at. Oh,
10:13
those people are up the back. Notice
10:15
that their cheer is less certain,
10:19
less feminist if you will. But
10:21
don't worry, by the time that
10:24
you leave here tonight, your cheer will be
10:26
just as sound. Fair, Minist and Jubilant
10:28
is the ones down the front. It's not a cult, lock
10:30
the doors. If you
10:32
don't know what you're at, you're at a podcast. And if
10:34
you don't know what a podcast is, it's radio that nobody
10:36
stops you making. It's why women do it so often. It's
10:38
the normal channels are closed down to us. So,
10:41
yeah, this is a podcast about feminism, but
10:44
it's funny. That's the sort of nub of
10:46
it. Just
10:48
give us a cheer if you
10:50
would say that you have a feminist job. It doesn't have
10:52
to be a job you're paid for, could be. Or
10:55
it could be a volunteer role or some other project
10:57
you're doing. But if you think your day job is
10:59
feminist, or you have some other kind of feminist role
11:01
in life, just give us a cheer. Give
11:06
us a cheer if you think your role is not feminist.
11:09
Oh, I'm interested in that. What? You
11:12
sounded... It's
11:14
more... Normally that would get more of a... But
11:17
you went, whoo! It's an unfeminist
11:19
role, which I liked. Who's got an
11:21
unfeminist job? Yes, what's
11:23
yours? You work in fashion. You work
11:25
in fashion? What do you do? Wholesale.
11:29
Wholesale. Is
11:31
it fast fashion or sustainable?
11:34
Sustainable-ish. Sustainable-ish.
11:40
Nothing sustainable, really. So my question
11:43
is now, do you do any
11:45
Trojan horse feminism within
11:47
your industry, secret feminism?
11:50
Are you in there infiltrating? You
11:53
do what you can. So are you trying to
11:55
sell stuff to shops?
11:58
You're trying to sell people stuff. What did you tell us
12:01
what brand it is? You
12:04
work with lots of different brands you're being quite
12:06
coy is that because this is gonna be
12:08
out on a podcast What
12:10
I'm interested are there
12:12
any brands I would like? Because
12:14
I would be very sustainable if you gave me
12:17
the clothes I would
12:19
sustain I'd keep them for age. I'm really good. You'll
12:21
see me look at my Instagram. I'm in the same
12:23
things for years Red carpet
12:25
events. Oh, there it is. Then there's the long red
12:27
jacket again. Deb's brought that one out again I
12:30
hold on to my stuff. I get very little I
12:32
get nice stuff very little and I wear it over
12:34
and over again And I used to be like oh
12:36
all these other people got really fancy things for everything
12:39
and now then just one day It
12:41
just turned out to be there was a big
12:43
announcement that that's more sustainable And that's the
12:45
that's the best thing to do
12:47
and suddenly I was fashionable because
12:49
like Kate Middleton. I wore things
12:51
again And I
12:54
immediately turned it into a celebrity chic statement
12:57
But really I was just buying something. Is there anything that you
12:59
can see me in that you buy that you sell I'm
13:07
not getting anything free here, and I think that's what we've
13:09
established I Was
13:11
looking for some kind of
13:13
sponsorship deal But
13:16
really I feel like we've mined that as much
13:18
as possible I'm a
13:20
size 14 to 16 if you want to send to me
13:22
anything My channels are open
13:26
You know dress me is what I'm
13:28
saying dress me like a bar. I'm a feminist,
13:30
but dress me like a Barbie Thank
13:34
you anyone else do anything unfeminist More
13:37
unfeminist than than slightly sustainable
13:39
fashion More
13:41
unfeminist than that anyone got anything more infemines
13:44
that because my audience I have realized is
13:46
broken into three parts people that do something
13:48
with gender in the title something women in
13:50
the title The
13:52
second group is people who do something like health
13:55
care or literacy or some big-picture Societal
13:57
thing and the third section is people doing
13:59
PhD in Virginia Woolf. Just
14:02
give us a share if you're doing a PhD. Yeah
14:05
there's always so many people doing PhDs in
14:07
my audience. A picture of
14:09
you've already got your PhD. Yeah
14:12
that's the rest of them. Very
14:14
few people, very few people, very
14:16
few people. Adrienne Bohm
14:18
who produces this is in tonight. Adrienne I'm
14:20
telling you next time you bring Jimmy Carr
14:22
over go into that stadium and shout out
14:24
is anyone doing a PhD. There'll
14:28
be more of them but I'm telling you
14:30
now not one. There'll be not a one. There'll
14:33
be there'll be one doctor who's come in the
14:36
wrong entrance and thought they were saying something else
14:38
was brought by someone else that's all. What
14:41
who if you're doing a PhD just shout out again. What
14:44
are you doing your PhD in? Well-being
14:48
in youth orchestras. I am
14:51
so sorry I did not mean to laugh that is a
14:53
really important thing. That's a very
14:56
important thing. Listen those youth orchestras they've got
14:58
to have well-being and we
15:00
need more youth orchestras. We do, we
15:02
do. Young people need to be making
15:04
music. It's so good for us as
15:06
human beings. It builds empathy, collaboration. It
15:08
makes your brain better for maths. It's
15:10
just such a wonderful, wonderful thing to
15:12
do and I'm so thrilled
15:15
that somebody is checking on the
15:17
well-being in an academic way
15:19
and going deep into, deep
15:21
dive into. What is
15:23
that though? Like what
15:26
could it possibly be? Like you're going to
15:28
spend seven years analyzing whether
15:30
the first violinist is having a
15:33
nice time. I don't know. Is
15:37
having a mental health episode because of the stress
15:39
of being young and having to do
15:41
that with the whole orchestra where everyone takes their eye
15:43
off the conductor and then they think oh fuck we
15:45
don't know we're doing it. Then the first violinist goes
15:49
and everyone's back in time. So it's the sort of
15:51
responsibility of that. Is it the kid that plays the
15:53
cymbals going oh fuck I've only got one moment. Can't
15:55
fuck it up, can't fuck it up, can't fuck it
15:57
up, can't fuck it up, can't fuck it up, Oh,
16:00
I fucked it up. Is
16:02
it that kind of stuff? Like, genuinely I'm
16:05
asking. That's
16:07
your dissertation. My
16:10
honorary doctorate, please. Does
16:13
anyone give out honorary doctorates? Michelle McCourt
16:15
and I asked this in New Zealand the other night, and
16:17
we would both be interested in one. I
16:20
got offered one, but then apparently it didn't, some
16:23
person who was booking it said, oh, we didn't think you'd want to get up that
16:25
early. And I was like, what? Get
16:27
up that early for a free PhD? I'd
16:29
get up at any time for that. What are you talking about?
16:31
And I think the moments pass now, and you can't go back
16:33
to a university and go, you know that
16:35
honorary doctorate that you offered me? Is
16:38
it still going? It just feels a bit desperate, given
16:40
I didn't earn it in any way or work for
16:42
it. So if anyone here is
16:44
giving away honorary doctorates, I
16:46
will fully come and I'll do a speech. I'll wear
16:48
this glittery cloak if necessary as an academic gown
16:51
and a matching mortarboard. Anyone
16:54
who else is doing a PhD? Give us a cheer?
16:58
I don't have a lot of miles to say now, apparently. Have I
17:00
scared you off? Have I scared you off? Anybody
17:02
else doing a PhD? Yes?
17:06
You're telling on someone else now. Have you
17:08
heard of Woo? What was your Woo? What was your Woo? That's
17:15
very niche, isn't it? Just
17:18
like silence. Okay,
17:21
anybody got a feminist job or project they want to tell us
17:23
about? Yes? What's yours?
17:27
A disability advocate, okay. How can we
17:29
help with that? Contacting
17:36
your MP? And when we contact our
17:38
MP, what do we say? More
17:41
funding. More funding for disabled people. And
17:43
when you say you're an advocate, do you have an organisation that
17:45
you work with? Yes. Okay,
17:48
would you like to say what it... Sorry?
17:53
Disability Rights Advocacy Service. Disability Rights Advocacy
17:56
Service. And is that your full-time job? Your
17:58
full-time job. Disability Rights Advocacy Service. service. Do you
18:00
need money? Your
18:04
government funded so no. We're not allowed to give
18:06
you money because then we might be... we
18:09
can give you personally money. Do
18:12
you have a Patreon or a sort of or
18:14
just a handbag we could pour it into? So
18:17
you're paid by the government so we're not allowed
18:19
to interfere with that and give you side hands
18:21
because otherwise the government would be like oh you're
18:24
corrupt but if anyone would like to buy you
18:26
a drink in the bar tonight that would be
18:28
very much appreciated because you're fully underpaid by the
18:30
government to do disability rights advocacy of course because
18:32
the government don't pay well for that do they?
18:34
No. You're in the front row. What's
18:37
your name? Sarah. She's in the
18:39
front row. Her name's Sarah. Buy her
18:41
a fucking drink. She's
18:44
working tirelessly for feminism for
18:48
no money an hour which is what the government... you
18:51
know a lot. Excellent. Okay super.
18:53
Anyone else doing anything they want
18:55
to tell us about? Either feminist,
18:57
unfeminist, academic, anything local that
19:00
you need help with? Yes
19:02
go on. What was
19:04
that? I'm a midwife.
19:07
You're a midwife bringing
19:09
life into the world and
19:12
how is that? I love it. You
19:14
love it. How many babies have
19:16
you given birth to? I mean not
19:18
personally. Have you ushered into this world
19:21
this week? Yeah.
19:24
Five? Five this
19:26
week? What day is
19:29
it? Saturday? Is it
19:32
Saturday night? If it's Saturday it must be Adelaide.
19:36
Five? You've given birth to one a day?
19:38
I mean not given birth. You've helped
19:40
somebody else give birth one a day? What you
19:43
just... what? They just call you up and go there's one
19:45
over here and you just get and drive over and you...
19:48
What do you do? You
19:50
stand there going push, you
19:53
know you push too much, push
19:55
harder. Shift work. Do
20:01
you ever have a mid-shift in the middle
20:03
of the labour and tag
20:05
out and say I'm going home now? Or
20:08
once you've started, do you? I
20:11
would find that disconcerting. If I had half
20:13
a baby out, I
20:15
would not really want you going, well that's
20:17
me. Sorry
20:20
that's my Uber. I'd
20:24
really want you to wait to the whole, presumably
20:26
if the head's out, you hang
20:28
around. But if it's going to be another 17 hours
20:31
of just sweating and swearing, you
20:33
go, oh, I'm watching
20:38
like Happy Valley with my
20:40
partner and they're
20:42
already at home and then they just have to
20:44
tag it. But so if I booked you as
20:46
a midwife, would you introduce me to
20:48
like a team and it could be any one of you?
20:52
You would? Okay. Is it
20:54
very exciting to get to see the miracle of
20:56
life constantly? Yeah, it
21:00
must be exciting because you're the most important person in that
21:02
person's life. Like they'll never forget you because
21:05
you've, assuming you do it well, you're
21:09
like, oh my God, you brought my little
21:11
life into the world. That's
21:14
absolutely amazing. Do you need
21:16
anything from feminism? Is
21:19
it well paid? Could
21:23
do with a little bit more. How would that
21:25
happen? Okay.
21:29
Will you work on that? On how we
21:31
can help, but also, so we're buying Sarah
21:33
a drink. What's your name? Isabel.
21:37
If you enjoy the miracle of birth, buying
21:39
Isabel a drink in the interval, if you're
21:42
interested in becoming a midwife, ask her about it.
21:44
Anyone interested in becoming a midwife? No,
21:47
people are like actively, no, usually feminists always like,
21:49
oh, if I didn't, so many feminists say
21:51
to me, if I wasn't doing anything I was doing, I would be a
21:53
midwife. Literally everyone says that to
21:55
me. So it turns out not
21:58
in Adelaide. The
22:00
team is set. How many midwives are there in Adelaide? Could
22:05
do with some more... All
22:08
right, fast fashion. You're
22:11
doing something super unfeminist. Give
22:14
up peacoats and colots.
22:19
Get into... getting
22:21
humans the size of a
22:24
watermelon out of the hole the size of
22:26
a tampon. That's your
22:28
new... That's the new
22:30
job. All right, so you've got two people to
22:32
buy drinks for. If anyone else thinks of anything
22:34
they'd like help with, let us know. And listen,
22:36
when that PhD is done, please come on the show
22:39
and explain. How long... How
22:41
far away are you from... Six
22:45
weeks in. Oh,
22:47
fuck. Oh,
22:50
good. Oh, well, good luck with that. How
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25:11
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All right, I think it's time to
25:37
start the podcast proper. So please welcome
25:39
out back to the stage. My co-pilot
25:41
of this evening is the incredible Geraldine
25:43
Hickey. Hello. Got
25:47
my stubby collar. Just
25:58
quickly, can I just start by? Where's
26:01
the midwife? Do
26:03
you need her? No. But
26:07
yes, you should get paid more. And I
26:10
know we're in South Australia but at the moment
26:12
the Victorian nurses are on strike, including
26:14
the midwives, for better pay conditions. So that's
26:16
what we can do is we can support
26:18
them. Don't ask me any details because I
26:20
don't know. Something about just
26:24
leave and more hours and
26:26
being able to put leave in the bank. So
26:30
other people can, like if you've been working for
26:32
ages and you've got all this leave and someone
26:34
else, you can give your leave to a mate,
26:36
put it in the bank. That's the most femtest
26:38
thing I've ever heard. Isn't that fucking right? What, so you
26:40
could give someone else a week of holiday? Yeah,
26:43
well if they need it, you know, just, I don't
26:45
know, I don't, oh, don't
26:48
fact check everything that I say. It sounds like a
26:50
nice idea but I wouldn't, would
26:52
they be striking for that though? It sounds
26:54
like a lovely idea. Yes, no, yes. They
26:57
must be striking for more than that because
26:59
it's something more things than that. More things
27:01
than that. But nurses added one of the
27:03
things, a pay rise as well. And
27:07
also nurses and midwives. Yeah,
27:09
but you know Australia, so
27:11
many of my friends who were doctors are coming out to
27:13
Australia from the UK. A friend of mine came out. She's
27:16
got a baby. She and her husband were both working
27:18
full-time as doctors in the UK for 48
27:20
hours a week each. That's
27:22
too much. She's on parental
27:24
leave now because she's got a little baby. Her
27:27
partner is earning more
27:29
than both of them were earning put
27:31
together in the UK and he's working 38
27:33
hours a week. Yeah,
27:35
so you're getting all of our doctors. We're not going
27:38
to have, I mean, because they're also like, oh, are
27:40
my doctors from, he's British. Yeah,
27:42
and the downside is they
27:44
get to live in Australia
27:46
where it's warm and sunny
27:49
and there's beaches. So there are people from
27:51
London going, I'm trying to think of,
27:54
trying to think of the downside. I'm trying to
27:56
think of a reason not to leave Brighton
27:59
and... go to a proper beach. Yeah.
28:03
You've got the Ferris wheel and stuff in
28:05
Brighton, that's fun, like the, you know. You've
28:10
got the rides and stuff there, I've been
28:12
on them, they're good fun. Yeah, we've got
28:14
the end of the pier, but if you're
28:16
raising a child, you can sort of see
28:18
how you might rather have a house in
28:20
Melbourne. But beach is safer in Brighton, no.
28:22
Well that's because you can't swim in them.
28:24
Yeah. It's
28:26
freezing cold and there's rocks on the beach.
28:28
Yeah, no. So the reason the beaches are
28:30
not as safe in Melbourne is you can actually go in and
28:34
the ocean's always gonna try and get you.
28:36
Yeah. If you give it half a
28:38
chance. Yeah, that's why I go in waist deep with
28:40
my boogie board. I
28:44
can see. I
28:46
can see that. How have you been
28:48
Geraldine? Have you, I haven't seen you since, we
28:50
were in Adelaide together on the last tour. I've
28:53
seen you for a while. I thought it was last
28:55
year, but apparently, you know, what is time, who cares?
28:58
But I've been, I've been, but I've been to
29:01
Adelaide a few times since, not
29:03
without you, I'm so sorry. But
29:06
yeah, I've been, he had been doing stuff.
29:09
I got married just after the last time
29:11
I was here. Oh, yes. Yes. Congratulations.
29:16
Was that exciting? It was
29:18
a great, it was a big wedding. Was
29:21
it? Yeah. Because- I feel like
29:23
you shouldn't say that because I wasn't invited. I
29:25
think you should say it was an intimate wedding. No,
29:28
it was, it was big, but I
29:30
knew you weren't available. I'm
29:34
pretty sure- How was it? No, because I did
29:36
ask if you were going to be around. I'm
29:38
kidding. Honestly, you don't need to invite me to your wedding. But
29:41
I am open to it the same way I'm open to honorary
29:44
PhDs if anybody is getting married.
29:46
Yeah. But yeah, we
29:48
had a lot of people
29:50
and, you know, when people
29:52
were like, oh, you're having a big wedding.
29:54
Like why, why so many people? And it
29:56
was, well, first of all, we did fight
29:58
pretty hard for the right. to get
30:00
married. Yes. So we
30:03
wanted to have a party. And
30:06
also, my wife and I, we both come
30:08
from reasonably big families. And we just wanted
30:10
to include, like we get along well with
30:12
our cousins and stuff. So we wanted to
30:14
include aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, all of
30:16
that. And that's
30:18
what we told everybody. But really, it
30:20
was because my wife saw a tarot
30:22
card reader. And yeah. And what
30:24
did the tarot card reader say? You're going to have
30:27
a big wedding. And she was. That
30:30
tarot card reader was angling for an invitation. Maybe.
30:32
Maybe. Because you're going to have a big wedding.
30:35
And my wife was like, oh, it's early days. We're
30:38
still playing. And she goes, no, no, no, sorry. It
30:41
has to be big because your
30:43
community needs it. Yeah.
30:47
That is lovely, but also manipulative. Yeah.
30:50
Because you had to foot the
30:52
bill, didn't you? Yeah. But
30:55
we had it at home. So it was all. But
31:00
not inside the house. And we lived next door to
31:02
a park, like
31:04
a national park, state park. And
31:07
we just got permission to be out
31:09
there. And I mowed
31:11
the lawns before everyone came. Fancy.
31:14
Yeah. Because the park
31:16
people, the park rangers, they come
31:19
in once a year too. Because
31:22
there was a fire break
31:25
next door. Do you know what a fire break is?
31:27
Yeah. I think so. Do
31:29
you ever know where a fire break is? Maybe
31:31
explain in case somebody out here doesn't know. Yeah.
31:33
So a fire break is like, if there's a
31:35
bushfire, there's like a
31:38
patch where there's nothing. So just basically
31:40
so the fire can have a break
31:42
before continuing on. I'm
31:46
pretty sure that's not what it is. No, no. It's
31:49
so fire trucks and stuff can get through.
31:51
So it's just cleared land. And so they
31:54
come in like once a year to mow.
31:57
We're getting close to the day and the grass is getting. So
31:59
I've got the ride on. I wore out and went up and down,
32:01
up and down. Are you allowed to
32:03
do that? Yeah, yeah. Did you
32:05
ask to do that? No, yeah, but we do
32:07
it all the time. Don't worry about it. I'm
32:09
not sure you're allowed to mow a national park.
32:12
It's a state park, so it's different. But
32:16
I, but, no, we are, because I did
32:18
it, and then we
32:20
are because I did it. I like that. But
32:23
then I finished it, but I went back, I was
32:25
admiring my, I don't know if you've ever mowed a
32:27
lot of lawn before, but you've- Never mowed a national
32:29
park, no, or a state park, because I'm satisfied. You've
32:31
got to stand back and look at it. And that's
32:34
what I was doing. I went back, because it started
32:36
to rain as well. Anyway, I was pouring rain. I'm
32:38
on the ride, I'm going, oh, get it. And
32:41
then I did it, and then went inside. I
32:43
was admiring my work. And then that's, once a
32:45
year, I remember this, that's when Parks Vic rocked
32:47
up with their big tractor. And
32:49
then I ran out, and I've already done it. And
32:52
they're like, did you do this? And I'm like, yes, and
32:54
they're like, oh, this is terrific. Thanks very much. So you're
32:56
allowed to. Wow.
33:02
I would have no idea. I would have thought they would have
33:04
said, you are not allowed to do it. In Britain, this
33:06
is what I love about Australia. In Britain,
33:09
they'd be like, well, let's get to the rules. And I'd be
33:11
like, but you were just about to do it. I've saved you
33:13
all the work. And they'd be like, no, no, no, no, no,
33:15
it's my job. And you shouldn't have done it. It's more than
33:17
my job's worth, or they would get really cross. I love that
33:19
in Australia, the guys just turn up and go, oh, job done.
33:21
Time for a sausage roll. Yeah. Time
33:23
for a Chico roll, mate. Yeah. What else
33:25
do you have? Golden Gate on. It's
33:29
always the most amusing. It's always the most
33:31
amusing Australian snack. A hot Milo. Might
33:35
have a lie down on a hot
33:37
Milo. Yeah, absolutely. A violet crumble. Oh,
33:39
yum. Yeah. These are things
33:41
we can't get. A Golden Rough. Do you
33:43
get a Crunchy? Yeah,
33:45
they're international. Yeah,
33:47
Crunchy's are better than a violet crumble anyway.
33:50
No, I'll fight you. They've turned. They've
33:53
turned. So you
33:55
need to bite the chocolate off. But no,
33:57
okay. The bar,
33:59
Crunchy. is superior, the
34:01
bite-sized pieces, violet crumble, yes
34:04
please. Okay, well you know
34:06
how to please Geraldine if you are
34:08
trying to get them to come to
34:10
your school.
34:13
I don't know what it is you want from Geraldine.
34:15
I can do school talks, no problem. Yeah, okay. If
34:18
next time Geraldine is in Adelaide you can get
34:20
them to come to your school, luring
34:23
them in with a crunchy. Do
34:25
not, and I cannot be too clear about this,
34:27
leave a trail of violet crumbles.
34:31
They won't be there. And you've given up drinking
34:33
you told me backstage. Yes. But
34:35
I said why and then you went, oh we've got to
34:37
go on now, so I never heard why. Because
34:40
I'm on meth. And, um,
34:43
what? Yeah,
34:46
well, methatrixate. Do
34:49
you need an intervention? Anyone
34:51
on methatrixate? Yep, anyway, so methatrixate,
34:54
that's a drug they use in
34:56
chemotherapy but I'm just microdosing. But
35:00
it's, um, what? Yeah,
35:03
is that the same as meth? No,
35:08
that's meth-enthetimine but I'm
35:10
on methatrixate. Yeah,
35:13
it's just in tablet form for me, like the
35:15
other meth you might need a glass barbie
35:17
or something but I don't need that. Like
35:20
you're on methatrixate once
35:23
a week for you? Do
35:26
you have autoimmune disease? Rheumatoid
35:29
arthritis? Boom. Ra. Ra.
35:33
That's, but you make it sound fun. Ra.
35:37
But it's not fun is it? And if you're on that
35:39
you can't drink? Well you can,
35:41
but it's, yeah, you're allowed
35:43
to, I was told that you can
35:45
have two to three standard drinks a
35:47
week. That's recommended. I think I might
35:49
be on that and they didn't say
35:51
anything about drinking. It happens.
35:54
It happens. British doctors a paid lesson might not be
35:56
asked to say. It happens. door
36:00
getting a plane to Sydney or something. I mean
36:02
you can drink but it's just like it's because
36:05
it does to your liver what alcohol
36:07
does to your liver essentially so when
36:09
you drink what you normally drink it
36:11
kind of... I
36:13
think I should check up on that. I mean
36:16
you can't... I don't drink much anyway. Yeah so
36:18
you'll be fine like for me it was I
36:20
I've did two to three like at first I was
36:23
like oh yeah that's fine that's easy no problem that's
36:25
about what I have anyway and then it was like
36:27
the next day that I was like hang on a
36:29
second there's seven
36:31
days in a week two
36:34
to three standard what if I stuff up when I
36:36
have the two to three yeah what if I stuff
36:38
it up are you the same are you did they
36:40
tell you you couldn't drink you
36:44
were 16 so you weren't drinking anyway.
36:47
It's Adelaide though you sure you weren't drinking?
36:50
16 come on come on.
36:53
Alright so for me I went
36:56
no look because I
36:58
was so scared of you know getting mucking
37:01
up when I was having the two to three
37:03
yeah I went I'm gonna be sober no drinking
37:06
that's it I'm done I've finished it because
37:08
it's easy to have none than some not
37:11
like because I want to have
37:13
heaps I just want the
37:15
opportunity like because I love alcohol.
37:18
I didn't quit drinking because I had
37:20
a problem with it I was I
37:22
was really good at it. I appreciated
37:27
it. I love going to
37:29
a nice restaurant and having that first sip of
37:31
wine and going oh that's really good and then
37:33
looking up at the waiter that's recommended it and
37:35
then we just have this moment because we both
37:37
know what good wine tastes like. I
37:40
miss that. You're in the
37:42
right place this is this is I
37:44
know this is Adelaide. I know fully
37:46
known country here it's hard coming back
37:48
here to proper what like yeah anyway
37:50
right get let's get on with the
37:52
show. Are
37:55
you ready to hear some stand-up comedy? Then
37:58
please welcome to the mic! The
38:00
incredible Geraldine Hickey! CHEERING AND APPLAUSE Have
38:04
fun. OK. Sup,
38:08
fuckers. LAUGHTER
38:12
Just, let's talk about medical
38:14
things more. Has anyone heard
38:16
of Raynaud's? Yes,
38:19
a few people. Raynaud's disease phenomenon
38:21
syndrome. Raynaud's, Raynaud's.
38:24
Raynaud's, have you got no idea what
38:26
I'm talking about? CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
38:30
Relieved. That's because I
38:32
had no idea, right? And I
38:36
found out what it was when I got it, like about
38:38
a year ago. And so Raynaud's is
38:41
a condition where your blood vessels are constricted
38:43
in your extremities, usually your fingers and toes,
38:46
and it causes pain, tingling,
38:48
numbness and discolouration, brought
38:50
on by cold temperatures and sometimes stress. And
38:53
quite often, when it comes up in conversation,
38:55
I'll bring it up. LAUGHTER The
39:02
response I usually get is, oh,
39:04
yeah. And
39:06
I don't think, oh,
39:09
yeah, is appropriate.
39:12
I don't think it fits. I'll
39:14
set the scene of what happened the first day I ever
39:16
got it, the first time I ever got it, and then,
39:18
yeah, you tell me if, oh, yeah, works. All
39:22
right. So, picture it, beautiful day. Beautiful day. The
39:24
sun's been out. Not too hot, though. It's a
39:27
day like mid to low 20s. It's
39:29
a day where you go short sleeves
39:32
on the arms, long sleeves on the
39:34
legs. Not jeans,
39:36
though. Too hot for jeans, but up top.
39:39
I'm talking a shirt or
39:41
a blouse or
39:44
a T-shirt if you're non-binary. And then
39:47
down the bottom, like
39:49
trousers or slacks
39:52
or T-nose if you're
39:54
non-binary. And then, and you're
39:56
getting ready to go out.
40:00
home. The sun
40:02
starts to go down so it's a bit of
40:04
a drop in the temperature and you're like, oh
40:06
it's a bit fresh, oh it's
40:08
a bit of a chill in the air, should I
40:10
wear a jacket? Do you reckon I need a jacket?
40:12
Oh no, a jacket's too much, I don't need that,
40:14
oh that's silly. I'll go cardigan, yeah, could you say,
40:17
get that cardigan, oh no that's not with this, oh
40:19
I'll go, oh puffer
40:21
vest, puffer vest, they're back, yes,
40:23
yes I'll go a puffer vest, that'll be I
40:26
don't own one, I'll go, I'll
40:29
just go like hoodie sleeves up, yeah,
40:33
you're with me like that type of temperature, you
40:35
know what I mean? So
40:38
you've got hoodie sleeves up and so you're
40:40
walking out, like I don't know, you're
40:42
going out somewhere, I don't know where, right, but you're
40:44
walking and then as you're walking your hands feel like
40:47
a bit, they're cold
40:49
and but also tingly, right, and you
40:51
look down at your hands and they
40:53
now look like they belong to a
40:55
pasty white ghost and
40:58
that ghost is wearing red fingerless
41:01
gloves. Would
41:03
you look at that and
41:05
go, oh yeah, because
41:11
I didn't, yeah, I
41:13
looked at it and went, what the fuck is this? What
41:17
is this? But to be honest,
41:19
I went so quickly from like freaked out
41:21
to excited though, because
41:24
I remembered
41:26
I already had a doctor's appointment booked in,
41:30
yeah, and how often is it
41:32
that you get to go to the doctors and
41:35
present to them with physical evidence that
41:39
there's something not right going on inside, yeah?
41:41
Doctor can't just look at that and go,
41:43
oh it's probably just your period, just
41:47
yeah, or I'll just get you to jump on
41:49
the scales first, and you know, I imagine, I
41:51
was so excited because I imagine I was gonna
41:53
go there to a doctor because I, with my
41:55
find that took a photo of it right, and
41:57
then I was so excited because I thought to
42:00
the doctors and I imagine that I'd go in and go
42:02
have a look at this, have a look
42:04
at this, right, show them the photo and
42:06
then they'd look at it and be like
42:08
oh my goodness, do you know what,
42:10
I'm so glad you've come in today, yep, do you know what,
42:13
I've got a couple of ideas of
42:15
what this might be and I'm going to run
42:17
a couple of tests, make sure we're on the
42:19
right track and yeah, I want, will you set
42:21
on treatment, yep, I want you to book a
42:23
follow-up appointment because yeah, I want to make sure
42:25
that we're heading in the right track and don't
42:27
worry, we'll get to the bottom of this, right,
42:29
and the whole time that they would be talking
42:31
to me, they would be rubbing my back. That
42:40
didn't happen and to
42:42
be honest, I'm
42:44
still not over the
42:47
casual way in which I was
42:49
diagnosed, yeah, because I went to the
42:52
doctors and I went and had a look at this
42:54
and they just glanced at it, just one quick glance,
42:56
just went bang, like that, like that. I
43:01
didn't even take the phone out of my hand, like
43:03
just went oh yeah, that's
43:05
Raynodes, just get some
43:07
good gloves and some hand warmers. Sorry
43:11
what? Good
43:13
gloves and hand warmers, that's it, that's all
43:15
you've got, sorry, I
43:17
don't think you realise the magnitude of
43:19
this situation, yeah, good gloves and hand
43:21
warmers, so because when it gets cold
43:23
enough and it doesn't need to get
43:26
that cold, my fingertips, they go, they
43:28
go white and then they go numb
43:30
and then they're tingly and then they
43:32
go so numb that I can't feel
43:34
my fingers and if I can't feel
43:36
my fingers, I can't use my fingers,
43:38
I need my fingers,
43:40
yeah, I'm a lesbian, I'm
43:44
a married lesbian and
43:46
I'd like to stay that way, yeah,
43:49
but if I can't text my wife
43:51
from Bunnings to go what size nuts
43:54
do we need to get for those bolts
43:56
that we got earlier, then I'm sorry for
43:58
good gloves and hand warmers. doing shit for
44:00
the problems I'm going home to. So
44:08
I've got some gloves. And
44:11
now I've got to wear gloves when
44:13
it's not cold enough to wear gloves,
44:15
yeah? Sometimes I'm wearing
44:17
gloves inside and someone will come
44:19
in and they'll see me with the gloves. They'll see the
44:22
gloves. They'll
44:24
be like, why are you? You
44:28
know, they've got to say something. They're like, don't tease me about
44:30
my gloves. And
44:32
they'll go, oh, yeah, why are you wearing
44:34
gloves? And I'm like, I've got Raynoids. And
44:37
they're like, who's Raynoid and why do you have their
44:39
gloves? And I'm like, no. It's
44:43
a condition where your blood vessels are constricted
44:45
in your extremities and it causes pain tingling
44:47
and nubs and discolouration. It's brought on by
44:49
cold temperatures and sometimes stress. And
44:53
they'll go, oh, yeah. That's
44:57
it from me. Thanks very much. Geraldine
45:00
Hickey, everybody. Thank
45:03
you so much. There's
45:06
some more amazing, do you not agree? Are
45:09
you having a nice time so far? Are
45:12
you glad you came out? Has
45:17
anyone been in a youth orchestra, by the way? Yes,
45:21
you've been in a youth orchestra? Just cheer if you've been in a
45:23
youth orchestra. You
45:25
know what? So much
45:27
for feminism because all of these people, their
45:30
wellbeing was affected by the orchestra they were in.
45:32
Just give us a cheer if you're still in an orchestra. Just
45:36
one person. But
45:38
give us a cheer if it affected your overall
45:40
wellbeing and your ability to feel like you're a
45:42
good feminist. Oh,
45:45
disappointing. Okay, disappointing. I thought you were
45:48
all gonna go, yeah. If we
45:50
hadn't been in that youth orchestra, we wouldn't be here now. This
45:52
is discouraging for our doctorate
45:55
candidate. She's there
45:57
thinking, you know, what's the point? Don't
46:01
discourage her. Give us a cheer. Being in a youth
46:03
orchestra has affected you today and made you the person
46:05
you are today. Better,
46:07
that's better. What
46:10
do you, the one that's still in the orchestra? What do
46:12
you play? I play the flute. The
46:14
flute, me too, on the floor test. Oh
46:17
my God, we could do a duet later. And
46:19
then you could test our well-being before and after. We've
46:25
got an incredible guest for you now. She
46:28
is an emerging creative based
46:31
in Adelaide. Her writing compels audiences
46:33
to tune into stories, introducing
46:35
lifelong curiosity with the word and the
46:37
ways of it. Her
46:40
spoken word element involves theater characterized
46:42
by wordplay, repetition, and fragmentation as
46:44
they often carry themes of community
46:47
and identity. She has
46:49
appeared as part of the Mental Health
46:51
Coalition of South Australia's Poetry Prescribed Event
46:53
held as part of Mental Health Month
46:55
in 2021. Her
46:58
theater credits are many
47:00
and varied, including a development project
47:02
alongside the Adelaide Festival Center. Could
47:05
you put your hands together and make
47:07
incredible woohoo noises for the wonderful Vivana
47:10
Luzzacimana? ["Woo-hoo, Woo-hoo,
47:13
Woo-hoo"] ["Woo-hoo,
47:16
Woo-hoo"] Mine,
47:25
the color of tainted caramel,
47:27
there's the color of smooth
47:29
whipped cream. My
47:32
sister, darker than
47:34
chocolate, ought to lower our self-esteem.
47:39
Day in and day out, we were taught to play
47:41
that ruinous game. Compared
47:43
our colored arms, doped about
47:46
who was darker, who was
47:48
lighter, until one of us was
47:50
put to shame. As
47:52
if that would give us the gratification
47:54
we sought, as if we didn't
47:57
know any better but to chase that
47:59
dream. That dream,
48:01
the dream to be ourselves, no, we
48:03
wanted freedom to be like them. To
48:07
become like the other girls, the girls with
48:09
hair so silky, so peculiar to us. The
48:12
girls would see in the magazines and television
48:15
screams, we wanted to be free within our
48:17
own bodies, but we didn't know it then.
48:20
Would you understand this new hatred that was
48:23
forming around our skin? It stained
48:25
our souls and infested our very way
48:27
of thinking. Sinking
48:30
deep in a colorist pool, we no
48:32
longer saw each other as
48:36
beautiful. We
48:41
took turns wearing that mask. They
48:45
masked it with jokes about my
48:47
light-skinned privilege and I masked that
48:50
fear of the harsh sunlight
48:52
darkening my caramel with
48:55
a smile at their jokes. I
48:58
was 12 years old. I
49:00
didn't understand this new hatred that was
49:02
forming around my skin. I
49:04
too had been sold and so created a
49:06
new mold, an image of a stereotyped girl
49:09
who could flow into skin. I
49:13
too had been sold. Sinking
49:15
deep in a colorist pool, I no
49:18
longer find myself as beautiful, but please,
49:20
please listen you see the history of
49:22
my skin is too deep. My
49:25
heart is too big to let them
49:27
fall, to fall
49:30
into the trap they made for us. My
49:36
skin melanin richer than
49:39
gold. Let
49:41
us not forget the gifts were given
49:43
from birth, thick lips that shared with
49:45
our four mothers, textured bodies
49:47
that tell the untold story of a
49:50
colored family, of
49:53
stories of
49:55
melanin richer than gold. Thank
50:01
you. Thank
50:03
you so much. My
50:14
name is Vivana Loz I'm
50:28
so honored and blessed to be
50:31
here today with the amazing team.
50:34
Thank you so much. I
50:36
will be sharing two poems. The
50:41
first one is about my mother. I don't really write
50:43
about my parents very much but for some reason I
50:45
was thinking about what's her out for the show when
50:47
they came up. And
50:49
the next one is about my dad. I
50:53
hope you enjoy them. Thank you. Some
51:04
days I open my mouth and my mother
51:06
slips out. Each
51:10
word as chaotic as the next to the
51:12
ease of it shocks me. The
51:15
world begins burning and we're all waiting for
51:18
her to put out the flame. She's
51:21
always looking out for other
51:23
people never her own own
51:25
self neglected and selflessness confused
51:27
with people pleasing. Some
51:30
days I am awakened by the
51:32
sunrise with hurried legs I find
51:34
find myself in the kitchen. I'm
51:39
more like her than I let down the
51:43
virtue of being a mother. I
51:46
have inherited the rage that comes from
51:48
visitors who leave without cleaning up their
51:51
mess. Inherited
51:53
the gift of giving through her
51:55
whose tears are used to wash
51:58
away everyone else's pain. but
52:00
her own. I
52:03
have inherited the generational anger from
52:05
bloodlines of mothers yet to speak
52:07
up. My
52:10
mother, she pulls knives from her
52:13
back, blood rinsed with water to show me
52:15
how cruel the world could be. A
52:18
forgiving nature I can only wish
52:20
to attain. My mother, she creates
52:22
handcrafted knits, skirts, dressed with smiles
52:24
to show me how little is
52:26
more and how beautiful the world
52:28
can be. A
52:31
creativeness that did not pass me by, gee,
52:33
I'm grateful. Some
52:37
days I open my mouth and
52:40
my mother slips out. Thank
52:45
you. Thank you. Thank
52:48
you so much.
52:56
The next one is about my dad.
52:58
I was scrolling through TikTok once, and
53:00
I came across this question, and it asked me,
53:04
what if I met my father when he was
53:06
a child? And I thought, gee, I don't know how
53:08
that would go, if
53:11
it would go any different. So I pointed about it for a
53:13
little while and came up with
53:16
some words. What
53:21
if I met my father when he was a child? When he
53:23
was a child. We
53:29
would play soccer in the yard where green
53:31
grass is kissed by the sun and the
53:33
days along. He would tell
53:35
me stories about how he isn't allowed to cry,
53:39
to fall, to break. I
53:42
tell him, it's OK. You
53:45
can fall. You
53:47
can break. He
53:50
would tell me about how he has never learned
53:52
how to love himself, how
53:54
his parents did only what they could. They're
53:56
like me, feel a longing that he had
53:59
no words for. or unable to put
54:01
himself into words, into actions, I'll
54:04
tell him, to
54:07
be vulnerable is the greatest gift you can give.
54:11
Because your parents did only what they could.
54:14
And as we pass the ball to one
54:17
another, running, prancing as kids do, he tells
54:19
me that he's sorry. That
54:22
the ball kept moving and he couldn't stop it,
54:24
he couldn't control it. That
54:26
sometimes the world hurts him, the pain he
54:28
felt, he couldn't feel it, so he
54:30
kept playing. Not
54:32
noticing that life was passing him by and
54:35
we were growing. We
54:38
were leaving. We
54:41
would sing along to our favorite songs and
54:43
knowing what words would come next, only the
54:45
rhythm. We would dance in the way
54:48
our bodies tell us to, look up to the sky
54:50
and realize that God has given us everything
54:52
we could ever want, blessed us with
54:54
connection. That
54:57
love has always been here, will always
54:59
be here if only he could see,
55:01
if only he paused for a moment,
55:03
let the ball go, let his pride
55:05
down. And
55:09
we would talk. And
55:12
not just talk about his world growing up, but mine
55:14
as well. That he
55:17
did only what he knew. But
55:20
it's okay. Now
55:22
I forgive you. It
55:25
would let our heart sing in the silence of our
55:27
presence, he would lay his head to rest
55:29
and he would cry and cry
55:31
and cry until he couldn't feel
55:33
the ache in his chest. Because
55:36
now we both knew what it is we really
55:38
wanted. Thank
55:44
you. Thank you. Vivana
55:49
Luzolchimana. Give
55:52
it up. Thank
55:56
you so much. I'm
56:00
going to ask, where can people in
56:02
Adelaide see you perform other times? I
56:05
perform monthly, sometimes bimonthly at
56:07
a place called Soul Island
56:09
Adelaide. That's their Instagram
56:11
handle, but we're at various locations throughout
56:13
the city. So if you want
56:16
to see me perform or any other talented people, that's
56:18
where you can find me. And
56:20
we've got global listeners, where can they
56:22
find you online? On Instagram.
56:26
My personal Instagram, my full name,
56:28
Vivana Lozocimana. I post a
56:30
lot of my work on there and a lot of shows that
56:32
I tend to do. And that's
56:34
the easiest and quickest way to keep up with me
56:36
as well. Great. And how can we
56:38
support you financially? Do
56:41
you have like a Ko-fi account or
56:44
a Patreon or anything like that? I do not know what
56:46
that is. Okay, because someone needs to set one up for
56:49
Vivana, because Vivana needs your money. I don't
56:51
want to assume, but I've heard that poets
56:54
need money. Yeah. Yeah.
56:56
I can go out on a limb and say, you know,
56:58
but it's just, it's one of those jobs where you could always
57:01
need money. You should set up some kind of Patreon or
57:03
something. In the meantime,
57:05
we'll just send you stuff on PayPal. Sounds good.
57:08
That's fine too. Have you got any books coming out that we can buy?
57:11
In end of the year, I'm really seeing a
57:13
book and I'm also really seeing a
57:16
kind of animation of the poem that I wrote about my
57:18
dad. So yeah, keep
57:20
an eye out for that through my Instagram if you
57:22
happen to follow it as well. Great.
57:25
So give Vivana a follow and then
57:27
you can trace what she's doing because
57:31
it's so important to support artists
57:33
who are still in rooms, you
57:35
know, and creating really real work that
57:37
isn't overly sponsored. I don't want to
57:40
make assumptions. Maybe you're sponsored by Pepsi. I
57:42
don't want to make assumptions,
57:45
but I'm guessing you're free. Not sponsored
57:47
by Pepsi. I mean, are you open
57:49
to sponsorships? I am definitely open to
57:51
sponsorships. Okay. If you've got
57:53
a business, she'll write you a poem once a
57:55
year. If you
57:57
pay her 15 grand a year. Thank
58:00
you so much. She'll write a poem about your shoe shop
58:02
or whatever. That wholesale
58:04
sustainable fashion thing you've got going
58:06
on. Could
58:09
you do a poem called Sustainable-ish? Of course. Sustainable-ish.
58:13
Excellent. What rhymes with sustainable-ish? You'll be working
58:15
on that. Oh yeah. Yeah, yeah, you'll be
58:17
working on that. You could write a poem
58:19
about midwives. I can't. Oh,
58:21
five babies a week. That's impressive. Five babies
58:23
a week, yeah. What's the one thing
58:26
people don't know about giving birth? What's the
58:28
one piece of advice if someone's about to give birth? Because
58:30
loads of people listening to this will be about to give birth and I
58:32
realised I didn't ask you that because I'm not going to. So
58:35
I was just like, that's really selfish of me. Any
58:37
advice for people who are giving birth? Stay
58:41
home. Stay home. Stay home, birth.
58:43
Are they all right? Amazing. Yeah.
58:46
Okay, I think I might consider that. Yeah, I'm not going to do
58:48
that. Give
58:51
me the drugs. I'm
58:54
sure that's... Do what she said but
58:56
also give me the drugs. Okay. Vivana,
58:59
I absolutely loved that. Will you come and join us
59:01
again on the Guilty Feminist another time? Of course. Thank
59:04
you so much for having me. Big round of applause
59:06
for Vivana, everybody! Thank you so much. All right. Soon
59:11
we're
59:15
going to have an interval but this
59:17
first half is not over yet because
59:20
I have brought an artist all the way
59:22
from the United Kingdom. I dare not travel
59:24
without her now because people
59:26
will complain and throw things if I
59:28
try and do the Guilty Feminist with
59:30
one of the remaining last good things
59:33
to come out of the United Kingdom,
59:35
the incredible Grace Petrie! Hello.
59:38
So yeah, gosh,
59:41
one of the last
59:43
remaining good
59:47
things out of the
59:49
United Kingdom is that it's
59:53
a lot of pressure
59:56
but it is all pretty fucking shit
59:58
over there, to be honest. I
1:00:03
had a record out this
1:00:05
year and the first single from
1:00:07
it in the first week
1:00:10
that it was on
1:00:13
top of it got 10,000 streams in seven days. Thank
1:00:17
you, yeah. That's how I felt
1:00:19
until I did the maths. I
1:00:22
worked out that I get about 33 pounds for that. About
1:00:27
60 bucks, right? And
1:00:30
now, interestingly, Spotify, who have
1:00:33
totally killed the music industry, killed
1:00:35
it dead. They've
1:00:37
now introduced new rules, I don't know if you've heard
1:00:39
about this, where songs that have under
1:00:42
1,000 streams, they're not going to pay artists
1:00:44
for at all. So
1:00:48
that obviously impacts the
1:00:51
newest artists, emerging artists, people who are only
1:00:53
just starting out. And how on earth
1:00:56
are you supposed to get fans, right? If
1:00:58
you can't make money from your songs when you're first
1:01:00
starting out. So I think that
1:01:02
that's all pretty appalling. And I wrote a song
1:01:04
a while ago, this is from an old
1:01:07
record, about Spotify. And
1:01:10
basically I did a tour with a
1:01:14
big star called
1:01:17
Frank Turner and had a
1:01:19
great time on tour with him. And I've always
1:01:21
been independent. And there was about five
1:01:23
minutes after I did a tour with him, it was
1:01:26
about five minutes when the music industry was interested in
1:01:28
me. And I had
1:01:30
one meeting with them. And
1:01:32
that was enough. For them and
1:01:35
me. And
1:01:39
I wrote this song from
1:01:41
verbatim quotes of the things that
1:01:43
the man in that meeting said to me. And
1:01:46
it's called, we've got an office
1:01:48
in Hackney. Because
1:01:51
they always fucking do.
1:01:54
And I'm going to take
1:01:56
one now. And yeah, if
1:01:58
you would consider it. you are a Spotify
1:02:00
user, I would really encourage you to rethink that.
1:02:02
If you want to use other streaming platforms, Tidal,
1:02:05
Apple, Music are actually much fairer
1:02:07
in their inauguration for artists. And,
1:02:09
you know, as our esteemed
1:02:12
PhD can testify,
1:02:14
music is the future, isn't
1:02:16
it? You know. Is that... Did
1:02:18
I hear that right? Is that the... The... Oh.
1:02:22
The music... The orchestra PhD, is that right? Yeah?
1:02:24
Yeah? Oh, it's just not funny.
1:02:26
Okay. Can I handle
1:02:29
it? You
1:02:34
got your first real sick strip, got
1:02:37
your heart full of pain, you
1:02:39
got the makings there, kid, all
1:02:42
the lucrative campaign, you
1:02:44
got your story and your spirit, you
1:02:47
got a rock and roll dream, we've
1:02:49
got an office in acne, we've
1:02:52
got a really cool team, because
1:02:54
we love your authentic, lonely
1:02:57
outsider type, big
1:03:00
up that snake, on
1:03:02
your socials for the hype, whoever
1:03:04
said the revolution wouldn't
1:03:07
be televised, they didn't
1:03:09
have our contacts yet,
1:03:11
they didn't have our
1:03:13
PR guys, but I
1:03:15
was reaching out for
1:03:17
a land fine, facing
1:03:19
the tide, I was
1:03:21
trying to work out
1:03:23
why, if my name is
1:03:25
up in lights, and it's
1:03:28
all going right, I've never
1:03:30
been as lonely as tonight,
1:03:34
I've never been as lonely as
1:03:37
tonight. Well,
1:03:46
every night I get this spotlight,
1:03:48
and I get out this guitar,
1:03:51
like so many folk before me, easy
1:03:53
to open up my scars, and
1:03:55
I don't know if it's helping, or
1:03:58
if it's driving me insane. I'm
1:04:00
just looking for connection,
1:04:03
yeah, to know somebody
1:04:05
feels the same Yeah,
1:04:07
I'm reaching out for
1:04:10
a lifetime, fighting tight,
1:04:12
yeah, trying to work
1:04:15
out why And my
1:04:17
name's up in lights, and
1:04:20
it's all going right I've
1:04:22
never been as lonely as
1:04:24
tonight I've
1:04:27
never been as lonely as
1:04:29
tonight And
1:04:39
come rain or wreck or ruin, I'll
1:04:42
be following these dreams The
1:04:45
same way I've been doing since
1:04:47
the middle of my teens If
1:04:50
there's a single person out there
1:04:52
singing this song, something means I'll
1:04:55
take one lonely broken heart over 100,000
1:04:57
streets And
1:05:01
I've still
1:05:04
got this sick
1:05:07
stream, still got
1:05:10
my heart
1:05:12
full of pain And
1:05:25
I don't know how to fix things, but
1:05:27
I'm still in the game Maybe
1:05:29
I don't know what the point is, maybe
1:05:32
I'm never gonna see But
1:05:35
long as anybody's listening,
1:05:37
this is where you'll
1:05:39
find me I'm gonna
1:05:41
be reaching out for
1:05:43
a life vest, fighting
1:05:46
tight, yeah, getting you
1:05:48
my best To
1:05:50
turn down all the lights, stay with
1:05:53
me in this fight Between
1:05:55
me and my loneliness
1:05:57
tonight Yes,
1:06:00
I let me see your hands
1:06:02
I need someone that understands When
1:06:05
I'm out here all alone This
1:06:08
right here is home So
1:06:10
let me sing The
1:06:12
thing that you're the only
1:06:15
thing Between me and my
1:06:17
loneliness Tonight What
1:06:22
a love You
1:06:26
saved me from
1:06:28
my loneliness tonight
1:06:32
Thank you very much We'll
1:06:35
see you after the break, get a ring So
1:06:50
that was the first half Join us for
1:06:52
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Political Content. And
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turn on Don't Limit Political
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Content. That's an option. Otherwise,
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you won't see almost anything
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we post, because we are
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deemed political. Please
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do that now, or you won't even see
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the posts about our shows, our fun things.
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So if you want to see guilty feminist content and know
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when we're coming to a place near you or
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releasing a new podcast, do it now.
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