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Three games into the NBA Finals and it's all boss and
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they're up 3-0. We'll take a
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look at last night's game including probably
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a horrifying fourth quarter for
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Celtics fans. Lucas'
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turn potentially and
0:24
some Tatum stuff coming off of game two and
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a terrific game three. We'll get
0:28
Howard back to break down the Finals even more, compare the 24 Celtics
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to a 22 team
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Boston takes a 3-0 lead in the NBA Finals. How
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did we get here? Let's start
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with a couple different things. I want to talk Tatum,
2:36
I want to talk Luca, and why the Celtics remind
2:38
me of Glengarry, Glen Ross. So we
2:40
figured it wasn't a great matchup, basketball wise for Dallas.
2:42
I think a lot of us felt that way. But
2:44
I still felt with Luca and Kyrie going off, the
2:48
offensive capabilities of what those two guys can do.
2:50
And they went off last night, the box score. Kyrie
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had a terrific game. A lot was tasked on him
2:54
with Luca fouling out, which
2:57
of course we'll get to. So Kyrie responds. You
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can see from the beginning of the game,
3:01
much more assertive looking to attack from the
3:04
first possession. So that wasn't an
3:06
issue at all. But I thought
3:08
with the combination of those two guys and what
3:10
they're capable of, and the improved defense that we've
3:12
been looking at as a major factor at the
3:14
end of the regular season in carrying on through
3:16
the playoffs, and the Boston stuff. The
3:19
stuff that if you've watched the Celtics all season
3:21
long, if you have Celtics
3:23
fans that are friends of yours, where
3:25
they're like, yeah, you know, they're really, I mean look, the
3:27
stuff that Bill and I have talked about all year long
3:30
about just those moments where you're like, what is
3:32
up with these guys? Well, we got a full
3:34
fourth quarter of it after a small sampling of
3:36
it at the end of game two. But
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when I look at Dallas's problems and there's
3:41
a long list here, the others is one
3:43
of the headlines. The others meaning
3:45
if you look at the third, fourth and
3:47
fifth leading scores for the Mavericks through the
3:50
three games in the finals, they've combined for
3:52
twenty nine point seven points per game. And
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that means others, depending on who that
3:57
is, because there's like four or five guys you can pick
3:59
from that group. where Dallas can't, Boston's
4:02
group is outscoring those three leading
4:04
scorers by 20 points, almost
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20 points a game, they're averaging 48. PJ
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Washington was Grayson Allen against the Thunder, hitting
4:11
47% of his threes, went for 25% against
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Minnesota. So
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you're like, okay, maybe you just had the bad shooting night
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because there still looks. Boston's at 29%.
4:21
And when I watch PJ, when I watch
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Derek Jones, Gaffords,
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not somebody really gonna be trusting to like, give
4:31
you something offensively, even though they tried that
4:33
late in game two, because Tatum's his primary
4:35
defender. If they're not bringing Tatum up into
4:37
the switch, it just looks
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like these guys are just uncomfortable and not
4:41
even thinking about the rim. There's
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just a group
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of possessions where even
4:50
if somebody else gets a catch, it's just like, I don't
4:52
want anything to do with this. And then you factor in
4:54
the cleavus clearly hurt, not even thinking about shooting, which you've
4:56
already touched on in game two. Dallas
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in the finals is now 28% overall from
5:01
three, 37%
5:04
on the regular season. They
5:07
were searching last night, big time. They
5:10
played 11 guys in the first half. Gafford,
5:13
who's been such a big part of this defensive
5:15
resurgent in this kind of Dallas 2.0 version, he
5:18
played 16 minutes last night. He put only 14 minutes
5:21
in the first game. So you could say, well, first
5:23
game was kind of a blow up, but like he's
5:25
just played 50 total minutes through three games. And
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it's clear that Kidd is just not trusting him
5:30
the way he just wasn't
5:32
either exploited or was just having better games
5:34
because I think his life was just a
5:37
lot easier in a non-Boston matchup.
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If you look at Dallas's defense, before the
5:41
finals was actually only seventh overall in the
5:43
playoffs at 111 points per 100 possessions. Now
5:48
it's eighth through three games in the finals. The number's
5:50
basically the same, but that's a massive departure from where
5:52
they were at their last 15 games of the regular
5:54
season where they were number one in defense. You could
5:56
say it's too small of a sample, but that's the
5:59
thing that kept. making you feel like you
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have to throw out the season long stats from Dallas, which
6:03
I still think is the right thing to do. But
6:05
that number was like five points better at
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like 106. Now, you
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could even argue that their playoff number
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is lower because they faced
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the Clippers, although a diminished version,
6:16
a terrific OKC offense, which still
6:18
just didn't have enough around SGA
6:20
and then Minnesota that
6:22
was was in a majority of those games in
6:25
the Western Conference Finals. So this the resume
6:27
of teams that they're facing are tougher than
6:29
than anybody else. So maybe that number is
6:31
going to go down. But you factor
6:33
in that they're also now collectively shooting way
6:36
less from three. I mean, these are just
6:38
all a lot of problems are all coming
6:40
to head in the NBA Finals. Okay,
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the Boston angle, if you remember
6:45
Alec Baldwin's terrific monologue, they're
6:48
sitting out there waiting to give you their money.
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That's what the Celtics do. And
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boy, did they try to do it in the fourth quarter. It
6:57
was 85-70 after three. At that point, Boston
7:02
at the start of the fourth quarter after Derek White
7:04
three in a timeout, it's 91-70. Boston has a 41-19
7:06
advantage in the
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second half. And then
7:13
Boston invited Dallas back
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into this game because
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of the way they just somehow
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cannot help themselves from avoiding these defensive
7:22
stretches, where you're like,
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what are you guys doing? Here's a collection
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of my favorites. A Peyton
7:29
Pritchard ISO jumper granted late shot
7:31
clock. A Jaylen Brown
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no dribble three point attempt with eight seconds
7:36
left on the shot clock switched on to
7:38
lively. Another Peyton
7:40
Pritchard ISO jumper, where he
7:42
tried to hit a step back against
7:44
PJ Washington. Again, another late shot clock.
7:47
Tatum had an ISO against Kyrie. And
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Kyrie actually held up terrific defensively, but
7:52
it's that left elbow swing
7:54
around up and down back. I don't even know
7:56
if it was a fade away jumper, whatever it
7:58
was, it was a that really
8:01
had no chance. Jaylen Brown later
8:03
on has a step back three against Luca
8:05
with nine seconds left on the shot clock.
8:08
For whatever reason, he took that one. Horford
8:10
travels juggling the ball after Luca had fallen down
8:12
that play that we'll get to. So it was
8:14
five on four and then Horford somehow travels. You've
8:16
got a Jaylen Brown turnover in there. I mean,
8:19
look, I list the entire game log. I'm
8:21
not gonna do that for you. There
8:23
was that Luca, Jaylen
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Brown collision where
8:28
not on the sixth foul for Luca, it was a
8:30
different one. The ball got loose, Tatum grabbed it, and
8:32
then Drew Holliday decides to take a three. That's not
8:34
even close to like what you'd expect from him in
8:36
his game with 15 seconds left
8:38
on the shot clock. All
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right. It was
8:43
possession after possession where they're either so determined
8:45
to run down the clock that they didn't
8:47
care about the look, but that's
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what I can't stand about. All
8:51
basketball at all levels
8:53
is really the way I should say
8:55
it where it's like, don't become so
8:57
obsessed with running clock that you're just
8:59
inviting yourself into these awful match-ups or
9:01
shot attempts. I don't think Pritchard decides
9:03
to go, hey boys, it's
9:05
Pritchard time. So those shots
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again, as I point out late in the shot clock, but
9:10
it just keeps happening over and over and
9:12
over again. At one point,
9:15
Dallas had gone on a 22 to two run. Boston
9:22
from when it was 91, 70 in 53
9:24
seconds scored
9:27
two points over the next
9:29
eight minutes. And when they got
9:32
it to 93, they didn't score
9:34
any points for
9:36
four minutes and 37 seconds. Again,
9:40
they're waiting to give you their money. I
9:43
knew if I were a Dallas fan after game
9:45
two, I'd be like, they were terrible from three.
9:47
They were up nine, even though Boston was six
9:49
to 30 from three. And then they
9:51
had that brutal stretch towards the end. This
9:54
was almost the entire fourth quarter.
9:56
There was also another step back
9:58
three from. him
10:00
later where he's trying to put the game
10:02
away where you're like what is what is
10:04
that now drew holiday may have
10:06
had the play of the game jaylen brown hit a turnaround
10:08
shot later that was kind of game but drew holiday at
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98 92 when he made it 98 92 it
10:12
was almost like he just thought all
10:15
right enough of this shit drives baseline
10:17
throws a ridiculous pass Derek white hits a
10:19
three so Luca had fouled
10:21
out at four
10:23
twelve on the hoerford travel play
10:26
that i mentioned there's also another hoerford turnover in
10:28
there where you got a rebound and decided to
10:30
bring the ball up by himself for whatever reason
10:32
and turn it over it's just unbelievable how great
10:34
this offensive team is how great they are defensively
10:36
how great all the stats are over and over
10:38
and over again and you're like wait if this
10:40
team is this good why do
10:42
they do stuff like that for like eight straight
10:45
minutes when it's the difference between likely closing out
10:47
your opponent with one more game to win and
10:49
four more chances versus dallas going
10:51
all right we survived it historic comeback
10:53
it's 2-1 and persingas
10:56
may or may not be coming back
10:58
you know building some confidence all of
11:00
that like that entire quarter is about
11:02
two very divergent paths and
11:04
boston just decided to put on one of the
11:06
worst displays of offense that we've seen in the
11:08
playoffs so luca is a
11:11
big topic as well because all
11:13
of these things end up massive
11:15
referendums on the biggest stars so
11:18
when he drives on tatum
11:20
at 93 87 he flops
11:22
goes into the baseline seats it's five on
11:25
four luckily they get the hoerford travel but
11:27
that's a huge possession obviously in that moment
11:29
but luca's so mad about not getting the
11:31
call that he just hangs back he
11:34
fouls out at four twelve when it's 93 90 i
11:37
think it's a terrible decision with five fouls
11:39
to put yourself at risk of trying to
11:41
get a charge on kind of
11:43
a scramble play uh where
11:45
tatum's bringing it up in transition there's just
11:48
not even if you're going to get that
11:50
call you can't risk it being your sixth
11:53
where you're like wait i'll add to this
11:55
when i'm sitting at home much like you're sitting at
11:57
home watching that game you're thinking are they really We
18:00
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now the line sits at Boston minus a
18:05
point. So we'll see if that moves at
18:07
all. That one feels a
18:09
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18:12
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y'all seem more experienced with this stuff, would
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not have a car. Should I
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buy one before this? Maybe start with
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a vehicle. I had
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to get my dad on the pod for this one. He would have all
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the answers. I don't know. I
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mean, look, the way you framed it out, pun, this
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sounds like a bad idea. You
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think? I have no experience doing any of these
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things, but I want to do it. I
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will say the van thing is oversaturated.
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What? Van bubble? Well,
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there's just too many people when I scroll on
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my Instagram, TikTok, whatever on YouTube that are just
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doing the van thing. I don't
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care if you do it. If you want to do
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it, go for it. I just don't think you need
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to be a vlogger because there's just too many of
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those already. But whenever I see it. Sounds
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like vans are in your algorithm. Sounds like you're
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watching a lot of van stuff, buddy. Maybe you're
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too close to this subject. Well, you know how
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you get the stuff in your feed that you
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don't really want? I got a bunch
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of gnarly accident videos and I'm like, what is,
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now they're all in my feed. Well, you stop
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for one second and then they're like, oh yeah,
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he's a big accident guy. So that's
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where I'm at. But I had a big van thing
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for a while and those vans, some of them are
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like really nice. I'd
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imagine, I don't know, maybe the YouTube money is probably
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pretty good if you're doing that, but again, it seemed
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kind of late to the party. So I don't know
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anything about renovating them. I'd imagine if you have zero
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skill, it's gonna be a big
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problem starting from zero. Can
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you just like do an Airbnb thing? Like I had a buddy
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that just kind of traveled to a bunch of different cities when
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he got out of college. Didn't have a van, he just Airbnb'd.
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And he didn't spend a ton of money on housing
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and stuff and just figured out what city he wanted to
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live in. he did. Why can't you just do that? Yeah,
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on yourself podcast, but this seems like it might
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take years and then you might not complete it.
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If we're doing an alliance on this, my pick is going
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to be like, you give up on
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this after several years and then you've got a
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half completed van that might not even be done
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correctly. I
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think it'll just be like a story where people ask
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me like, how are those rabbits doing? You hate in
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your life. They're going to be like, how's the van
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guy doing great? You're
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the guy with the money pit
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van. You're spending your Saturdays just
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like scratching your head, trying
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to figure out what this part is that you need to
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find or where how'd I get to it? That happened to
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me. I inherited like a riding tractor mower because I was
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like, yeah, I'm going to do this in the backyard. It's
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going to be awesome. Belt popped. That thing's been in my
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shed for like two years. Think I'm fixing
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that thing? Nope. I
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didn't realize we had such a
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great van resource though. You're on
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the show. You
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said something that I think kind of confirms it
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for me that you shouldn't do this is I
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don't know how to do any electrical. I don't
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know how to do any plumbing. I only did
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framing and some
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flooring, shingles, roofing. Anybody
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can do roofing. I wouldn't say
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well. Shingles, you just kind
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of have to have an eye for it.
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Dex, that was
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great. But there
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were things I would look at and be like, I have
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no idea what's going on there. Okay. And I think I
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was pretty handy at one point because I was able to
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do some of those things. But
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it's a bit like a foreign language where then
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I have the tools and I thought it was cool to
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have like tools. I bought a circular saw when I was
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in Connecticut because I was like, oh, this is the bright
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one to get. I'm like here and never use this. That's
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what men do. Yeah. Yeah. What are you going to do?
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Build a deck? Like you didn't even
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have any land. Get some land first. Circular
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saw guy. So the
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reason I, I, there was a couple things
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that I would do later on far removed
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from the that point in my life where
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I was like, man, your skills are, uh,
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your skills are a little diminished here. And
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if you have zero going into this, um,
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and you're admitting that you're kind of a dumbass
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with this stuff, like this takes incredible
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patience. And I wouldn't say
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like an engineer's mind, like
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you could probably figure it
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out, but I'm doing a
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poor job of explaining this. I
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think it's, I
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think it's like the guy in your group that
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it's, you just don't trust to hold something versus
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the guy that you do. Right?
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Where do you have
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a habit of just breaking
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shit? Do you have a habit of
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somebody lends you something and then you
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returning it damaged? I
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just think that there are people, whether it's
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caring about other people's property, respecting the property,
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or sometimes even just respecting or caring about
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the condition of their own property. I
1:10:58
think you have to be wired
1:11:01
in a way that gives you
1:11:04
an advantage going into this so
1:11:06
blindly. And if
1:11:08
you, I don't know, as simple
1:11:10
as you fall down, you know, am
1:11:12
I making any sense here? Here's, here's
1:11:14
a perfect example. When you leave your apartment with
1:11:17
your suitcase, do
1:11:19
you always fucking smack it into something and
1:11:22
leave a mark like Chip and Nick, surrutides,
1:11:26
or, or do you like
1:11:29
go, okay, let me get the right angle. Let
1:11:32
me take my steps patiently and let
1:11:34
me make sure I don't smash my
1:11:36
suitcase into my walls.
1:11:39
Like, here's another example. I had a friend staying with
1:11:41
me and I set him up in the guest room.
1:11:44
There was a little Ottoman deal in the corner and
1:11:47
he put down a suitcase and he opened
1:11:49
up the top of it and he just
1:11:51
flapped it right open and it dented both
1:11:54
corners of the sheetrock. He
1:11:56
was there 30 seconds. And
1:11:59
I was like, dude. Yeah,
1:16:01
I've just seen people paint like everybody's like
1:16:03
I'll just grab some brushes and then I'll grab some
1:16:05
paint it's like I'll I'll figure
1:16:07
this out and they kind of think they killed
1:16:09
it and Then anybody that
1:16:12
actually knows how to paint a contractor. Yeah would
1:16:14
look at it and go. Oh my god, like
1:16:16
what the fuck is this? I Give
1:16:19
them in three months. Yeah, right. Okay
1:16:23
We did do this one before go ahead.
1:16:25
What'd you have? No, I was just saying we did obviously we were
1:16:27
just super negative there So, you know, I mean we're not trying to
1:16:29
kill everyone's dreams, but but just trying to be realistic I
1:16:32
think we did him a favor. Yeah, he takes
1:16:34
our advice not what you want to hear but sometimes what
1:16:36
you have to hear So
1:16:38
we did did we do this one about the full
1:16:40
frontal on the work zoom call? I think we did
1:16:43
I Don't know. I feel
1:16:45
like that would ring a bell and unless it already happened
1:16:47
to a very famous dude at CNN I've don't this thing.
1:16:49
This is the first time I heard him It's
1:16:53
not from him to Yeah,
1:16:57
so I Guess
1:16:59
I'll read it again. I think we did because I
1:17:01
remember the The
1:17:04
shout out that she gave because she was a big
1:17:06
Michael Porter junior fan Because
1:17:09
she played hoops. Yeah,
1:17:11
she played hoops in college. So Here's
1:17:14
what she sent us months ago work
1:17:17
for a Sizes company New York
1:17:19
City with this company work closely with a team
1:17:21
about 20 about two weeks ago in an internal
1:17:23
zoom meeting with 12 people one of my co-workers
1:17:25
will say mark was talking to my boss about
1:17:28
a project We're working on is their discussion discussing
1:17:30
the project a guy who is new ish here
1:17:32
We'll call him Ken 45 years old I
1:17:35
guess somehow accidentally turns on his camera now everyone
1:17:37
can see Ken is completely naked with his dick
1:17:39
right in view of the camera To make it
1:17:41
worse. The camera is facing his bed and in
1:17:43
the distance. There's a naked woman in the bed
1:17:45
So we're all looking close up with this. Yeah
1:17:47
worse. Yeah, what's that? I don't think that's worse. I
1:17:49
think he's got a better alibi than before. Yeah, at
1:17:52
least it's an excuse I don't know like just
1:17:54
being naked for no reason but
1:17:56
anyway Interesting and
1:17:59
thought of it that way Does it make it
1:18:01
better? She had written the email
1:18:03
and said, and to make things slightly better,
1:18:06
I don't think anybody would ever write it that way. So...
1:18:11
But to improve the situation... At
1:18:14
least. Yeah,
1:18:16
I don't... I
1:18:19
think I'm agreeing with the email and her version
1:18:21
of storytelling here. So we're
1:18:23
all looking at a close-up of Ken's genitals and
1:18:25
a woman off in the background in the bed.
1:18:27
I know Ken is divorced. Mark,
1:18:29
who was talking, stopped mid-sentence and said, what the hell
1:18:32
is going on here? After about
1:18:34
30 seconds of discomfort, my boss goes, Ken, please turn
1:18:36
off your camera. Ken turns his camera
1:18:38
off, then turns his mic on and says, sorry
1:18:40
about that, guys. What
1:18:43
are you supposed to do? You have to leave
1:18:45
your job in that situation. You can't be there
1:18:47
anymore. Unless it's
1:18:49
really impressive, and then
1:18:52
you could probably stay. But... Anyone
1:18:56
have any questions? I
1:19:00
don't want to read into it that much, but
1:19:03
that woman in the background looked very satisfied. Can
1:19:05
I just ask before we move any further, what
1:19:07
kind of angle do you need to have... This
1:19:10
thing's already a mess. I'm sorry. What kind
1:19:12
of zoom angle do you need to have
1:19:14
to see your crotch and your face? Or
1:19:16
maybe his face wasn't even there. What
1:19:20
kind of angle would you have to have to
1:19:23
be sitting at your computer and I
1:19:25
could see both your head and standing,
1:19:27
I guess. What if
1:19:29
he's standing and she's off to the side? It could be. You're right.
1:19:32
It could be. I don't know. Maybe his
1:19:34
face wasn't in there and he's
1:19:36
just got deniability. He's like, I don't know. I'm hacked.
1:19:41
What if he says, oh, my kids are messing around
1:19:43
with the backgrounds again? We're
1:19:48
a pretty liberal family. We're
1:19:51
laid back about all this stuff. Okay.
1:19:56
I love the commentary. Can
1:19:59
please turn off your camera. Sorry about
1:20:01
that guys. The meeting continued and ended at its
1:20:03
regularly scheduled time to end. The next day, Mark
1:20:05
sent an email to our boss and copied HR
1:20:07
saying he no longer wants to work on projects
1:20:09
with Ken because he quote, showed up to an
1:20:12
online meeting fully naked with another person in the
1:20:14
background. Our boss emailed back and said
1:20:16
he and HR looking into the incident will decide
1:20:18
how to proceed. Since this everything has, since
1:20:21
this everything has been business as usual. Side note,
1:20:23
one of our other coworkers was on the call
1:20:25
and said he didn't know what was going on.
1:20:27
He just thought it was quote, a finger and
1:20:29
some hair. I
1:20:32
don't think we, why is the Michael
1:20:34
Ford Jr. thing making
1:20:37
me think we read it? And then now that
1:20:40
line. No way have I heard this before,
1:20:42
a finger and some hair. Kyle would
1:20:44
have tried that. I
1:20:46
am one of the few girls in my office
1:20:48
and on my team, I worked in a male
1:20:50
dominated field. My seat in the office is very
1:20:52
close to Ken. Since the incident, I don't feel
1:20:54
comfortable being around him or speaking to him. I
1:20:56
don't know if that person or actions has happened.
1:20:58
I saw him in the hallway. He said, sup
1:21:00
boss and reach out to give
1:21:02
me knuckles. Boss
1:21:05
Ken's doing fine. Ken's
1:21:08
guys. He's not. I
1:21:11
gotta tell you, there are times in life,
1:21:13
like maybe the ultimate goal is to be
1:21:15
unfeasible. Ken has reached it.
1:21:19
Sup boss. I responded
1:21:21
by saying nothing and practically slamming myself on the wall
1:21:23
and attempt to dodge him in his hand. My question
1:21:25
is showing a full frontal on zoom is absurd. Shouldn't
1:21:28
Ken be fired? Should I reach out to HR as
1:21:30
well? Or just ask for my seat to be moved?
1:21:32
If it's two plus weeks, why is
1:21:34
my company not acknowledging this? God, knowing how things
1:21:36
go, I'm surprised you didn't just ask for a
1:21:38
promotion and you would have gotten it. You
1:21:41
definitely could have asked for your seat to be moved. That's
1:21:43
a no brainer. I mean, you
1:21:46
basically on the sup boss knuckles exchange,
1:21:48
kind of let them know with body
1:21:50
language that you weren't exactly down to
1:21:54
be his friend. So she
1:21:56
sent us an update after
1:21:58
four long and uncomfortable months. our work flashers
1:22:00
finally been fired. He was not fired for
1:22:03
the obvious reason of the flashing incident. He
1:22:05
was fired because he did not show up to work
1:22:07
on Monday. He told some coworkers on our boss, he
1:22:09
had a funeral. My boss was skeptical because of his
1:22:11
flaky attendance in the past. My boss
1:22:14
had IT look into his computer log hours and
1:22:16
as it turns out, he had a golf outing
1:22:18
on his Outlook calendar to make it even worse
1:22:21
when he came in the day after he told
1:22:23
people about how sad the funeral was. Unfasable. You
1:22:26
know, there was like 1% of me that wanted to
1:22:28
be like, alright, Ken was naked on the Zoom. He
1:22:31
may be fucked up, maybe he's not. Is he automatically the
1:22:33
worst dude in the world if he screwed up? Clearly he's a
1:22:35
little bit weird. But now that's
1:22:37
gone. Alright, this guy sucks. It's
1:22:39
gone. I think I just wanted
1:22:41
to read that. There's not really anything else to add, so
1:22:44
we should do one more. Yeah. Speaking
1:22:46
of a golf outing. Alright. Sup,
1:22:48
boys? Uh, 5'10", no impressive gym stats,
1:22:51
but a 4'2 amateur jujitsu record. Mmm,
1:22:55
look out. Let's get to the
1:22:57
chase. My office was out yesterday for golf outings.
1:22:59
It's a small business. What if this guy's Ken?
1:23:01
I recently got
1:23:03
fired. Yeah. Like,
1:23:06
he chimes in. He's
1:23:09
like, 4'0". Everyone's so sensitive today. I don't know what
1:23:11
to be dealing with. 275, 315 dead left. Did
1:23:16
show my dick on a Zoom at work once. Alright. Alright,
1:23:21
small business. We had to go to two separate
1:23:23
outings because they were mistakenly scheduled for
1:23:25
the same day with me being the newest guy. And
1:23:28
by the way, how about the Pat's Hall
1:23:30
of Fame induction ceremony during the NBA Finals?
1:23:34
Should WIC have issue with the Kraft family? Did
1:23:36
you not believe in us to schedule this
1:23:39
during the NBA Finals? Alright.
1:23:42
Yeah, I thought there could have been a bad day. I agree. Yeah.
1:23:45
Yeah. What's going on with
1:23:47
Brady? How about this? Yesterday was 6'12".
1:23:49
Do you think that has something to
1:23:51
do with it? The statue's going to
1:23:53
be 12 feet, Kyle. When are you going to go visit it? Probably
1:23:57
the first time I set foot
1:23:59
in Massachusetts. So that'd
1:24:01
be cool. I think that's a great use of
1:24:03
time. Okay. All right. So we had to
1:24:06
go to two separate outings because they're mistakenly scheduled for
1:24:08
the same day with me being the newest guy in
1:24:10
the office of 15, five guys that can golf meant
1:24:12
that I went with the other salesman who's
1:24:16
who golfs the least of
1:24:18
all of us and went
1:24:20
to the lesser golf event. The other salesman in
1:24:22
question, let's call him Dave mid 40s, burn along
1:24:24
his buddies from high school round goes fine. We're
1:24:26
smoking. We're drinking a little smoke and a little
1:24:28
drinking. We can we
1:24:30
use most of my balls in the scramble.
1:24:33
He said in parentheses, though I was clearly
1:24:35
the fourth we're or the throuple the whole
1:24:37
time. And when we got
1:24:39
to the 12th hole of our round, the three of
1:24:41
them mentioned they have to go to various practices for
1:24:43
the kids that we should leave early, not
1:24:45
wanting to play by myself or six holes in the middle of
1:24:47
a log jam. I also left. Now I come in this morning
1:24:50
to greet my project manner. And she asks, how was the round
1:24:52
to which I reply with the previous. She
1:24:54
then gets pretty upset and informs me. I
1:24:56
should have to tell the CEO of our
1:24:58
small company what happened. Turns out
1:25:01
the golf ball sponsors of the event
1:25:05
were expected. Turns out the golf ball
1:25:07
sponsors went of the event were expected to stay for
1:25:09
the dinner after not communicated to me
1:25:12
that on top of leaving early of an expensive
1:25:14
outing for the business was not seen as kosher to
1:25:16
say the least. As much as I could throw this
1:25:18
dude under the bus, I don't think it's really necessary.
1:25:20
I feel I can say the
1:25:23
round went well. My boss wouldn't care and move on. Though
1:25:25
my project manager clearly thinks differently. What should I do? And
1:25:29
do the boys have any company golf outing
1:25:31
stories to share with Saruti using his high
1:25:33
school golf experience to hustle some ESPN execs?
1:25:35
Want to take that last one first, Saruti?
1:25:37
No, definitely not. I played in the ESPN
1:25:39
tournament a couple of times, but nothing. There
1:25:42
was nothing crazy. Trying to
1:25:44
think of which execs would even invite you to golf. Yikes.
1:25:47
Ouch. I'm
1:25:49
just being realistic. Well,
1:25:52
I'm not. Jesus Christ, dude. I
1:25:55
don't know. I mean, I didn't really try to think. What?
1:25:57
Hey, I know how the place operates. Rudy.
1:26:01
No, not because of you or your personality, but just
1:26:03
like the fact that somebody high up would be like,
1:26:05
you know what? Who's working behind
1:26:07
the glass today that I can golf with? It's not 30
1:26:09
yet. Yeah, they're trying
1:26:11
to golf with JJ Reddick. Sounds better when you explain
1:26:14
it, but we'll always have the clip. Sorry.
1:26:17
They heard a little bit. Look, I think there's a couple
1:26:19
people that got like three contracts out of that place just
1:26:21
because they played at Avon. Smart
1:26:26
thing to do. I could do it all over again.
1:26:28
Join Avon. Probably
1:26:31
not though. Okay. So
1:26:35
here's my main concern. If
1:26:37
the project manager freaked on
1:26:39
you about a potential CEO freak out,
1:26:42
you have to tell the CEO now. You
1:26:45
definitely can't lie and say everything was
1:26:48
fine. So my
1:26:50
guess would be, well, I don't
1:26:52
know. I don't know how everybody's different with
1:26:54
this kind of stuff. You're supposed to go to the dinner
1:26:56
after, but nobody told you. The
1:26:59
problem is, is now somebody else knows what
1:27:01
happened and it's going to get around. And
1:27:04
sometimes people love just sharing stuff. It's
1:27:06
not because they're evil, but
1:27:08
it it's this like, Oh, Hey,
1:27:11
I get to bitch about a coworker right
1:27:13
now. And it's somebody underneath me. He's like,
1:27:15
Oh, did you hear what Brad and the
1:27:17
guys did at the golf outing? They left
1:27:19
early. You know, so now she's
1:27:21
getting the first word in. She's
1:27:23
getting the opening statement and the
1:27:26
closing statement before you even addressed
1:27:28
it. So I
1:27:30
know the easier thing is like, why even
1:27:32
put yourself out there? But there's a mole
1:27:34
now there's a mole. And if
1:27:36
she was upset, that means she thinks it's important.
1:27:38
And that means she's probably at some point going
1:27:40
to share it, whether it's like a direct thing
1:27:42
or it's just going to come up at some
1:27:44
point down the road. And so
1:27:47
you could maybe save yourself by never
1:27:49
saying anything. But if you lie, then
1:27:51
it becomes way worse with the
1:27:53
whole deal. So maybe
1:27:55
you can find like a casual setting if
1:27:57
it's a small business, maybe the next
1:28:00
work trip. I don't know if you're at the
1:28:02
Hotel Marriott just experiencing life
1:28:04
together. You say, Hey, dude, I
1:28:07
don't know if you heard, but I kind of wanted
1:28:09
to explain what happened to this golf outing. And
1:28:12
now that I see like I can see where I've set, but
1:28:14
you have to understand like my intent or
1:28:16
the things that I did not intend. And
1:28:18
by the way, nobody even told me there was a dinner
1:28:21
after the fact. And so I was just playing by myself
1:28:23
and I was kind of in everybody's way. So because I
1:28:25
golf, I was like, well, I don't want to do this.
1:28:27
And it would never mean
1:28:29
that I was ever doing it, not
1:28:31
appreciating what you were doing or being
1:28:33
disrespectful. It still may not work or
1:28:35
he may not care, but I
1:28:37
still feel like those two avenues are
1:28:39
way better outcomes than you certainly
1:28:43
ignoring it. And worse than that lying about
1:28:45
what happened. Well, where
1:28:48
everyone in his foursome was working
1:28:51
for the company or there, didn't he say something about high school
1:28:53
buddies or were they, they high school buddies
1:28:55
that also worked for the company? Like, was there any outside
1:28:57
guy in this group? Yeah,
1:29:01
see, there's one salesman and then
1:29:03
he brought his buddies from high
1:29:05
school. So that means, yeah.
1:29:08
So he doesn't want to throw him under the bus, Kyle.
1:29:10
There you go. So I hear it. Thinking about the other
1:29:12
guy. You've got a couple options here. A, you say nothing,
1:29:14
which you're saying maybe, maybe would hurt you in the long
1:29:16
run. B, if you
1:29:18
do try to say, which what I was going to
1:29:20
suggest was saying, listen, like I didn't even know we
1:29:23
were allowed to still play. I thought we needed to
1:29:25
have our full thing. And, you know, I just,
1:29:27
I left because I thought it was, it seemed like,
1:29:30
like you said, things were log jammed and I was,
1:29:32
I was alone and I just thought the rules were
1:29:34
different. But then, you know, then some
1:29:36
people don't like when you throw other people under the bus, like
1:29:39
even in an explanation, like, Oh, this guy, it doesn't
1:29:41
own your shit. I think sometimes when you do make
1:29:43
a mistake, the best thing you could do is own
1:29:45
up to it. Be like, Hey, I got nothing to
1:29:47
say other than I'm sorry, there was a little miscommunication,
1:29:49
but that's on me. So maybe
1:29:51
that maybe that's the move. Although I
1:29:53
could understand saying, listen, there were some outside guys that really didn't
1:29:55
care about this. And I just didn't think it was an option
1:29:57
for me to stick around. Like I thought there was real rules.
1:30:00
here. Can we get some
1:30:02
clarification on the like the
1:30:04
leadership hierarchy? So the project manager
1:30:06
is mad. The CEO doesn't know
1:30:08
but then they say that he didn't think the
1:30:10
boss would care or that it would be that
1:30:12
big of a deal. So is there like a third I'm confused about
1:30:14
that. See,
1:30:17
I just don't like where he says as much
1:30:21
as I could throw this dude under the bus, which
1:30:23
I again understand why you wouldn't want to I don't
1:30:25
think it's necessary. I feel I can say the round
1:30:27
went well my boss wouldn't care and move on. Yeah,
1:30:30
I don't know the project manager is the
1:30:32
flaw in your entire deception game here. If
1:30:35
she was upset, she's going
1:30:37
to tell on you. In that case,
1:30:39
I would tell the boss what happened then. Be
1:30:42
like, Hey, project manager got real upset. Now,
1:30:44
by the way, she might be overstating her
1:30:46
whole deal with some
1:30:48
fucking ridiculous corporate structure power
1:30:51
play thing of like, I
1:30:53
can get mad at you because of the
1:30:55
hierarchy. This is unacceptable. Yeah, probably words. I'm
1:30:58
going to make this right. I'm going to
1:31:00
make this a way bigger deal because most
1:31:03
of the shit I do here is pointless. So
1:31:05
I'm just going to get on your case about shit. Because
1:31:08
that's what I like to do. Instead of solving
1:31:10
problems, I like to add I like to layer them on
1:31:12
like a cake. So you
1:31:16
know, you should have said anything. Obviously,
1:31:18
you screwed that part up. You should have just told her
1:31:20
what you plan on telling the CEO, but you
1:31:23
don't have to necessarily throw the other guy into the bus. You could
1:31:25
just go to the other guy and be like, Hey, do you know,
1:31:27
she got like pissed. Now he might say, why did you tell her?
1:31:29
So now you have to deal with that. I mean, ultimately, this thing
1:31:31
is not a do you do a good job? Are you awesome at
1:31:33
your job? If the answer is yes, no
1:31:36
one's going to give a shit about this. So
1:31:39
maybe they're mad for a little while, but I would you
1:31:42
have a rat. You have a rat. Yeah,
1:31:44
I think inside. I think owning shit like that is
1:31:46
better than like coming off as a little bit of
1:31:48
a weasel or a rat about it. So I think
1:31:51
people do respect that if you're just like, I'm not going to
1:31:53
try to tell you seven reasons why
1:31:55
this didn't go well. I'm sorry.
1:31:57
I understand. Yeah.
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