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cost of this call is 10 cents per minute. Hello?
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Hello. Hi, what's your name?
1:14
Dan. Dan. Dan,
1:17
where are you calling me from? I said this
1:19
is a crazy number. Oh, I'm
1:21
calling from an undisclosed location in Asia.
1:25
You're in Asia right now? Yes. You
1:31
sound European.
1:37
Yeah, yeah. I kind of have family from
1:39
there. Oh, okay.
1:43
All right. So you are a
1:45
European in an undisclosed part of
1:47
Asia. Well,
1:51
we got all right now that that's out of the way. What's
1:56
up, Dan? How can I get you today? What do you want to talk
1:58
about? Well,
2:01
there was a time I got
2:03
declared a profit while incarcerated. You
2:07
got declared a profit
2:09
while incarcerated? Yes.
2:13
Okay. Um, the
2:15
floor is yours, Dan. Well,
2:19
how do I say this? I don't know
2:21
how much of a story I could tell about it, but basically
2:24
I was, uh... I
2:27
went homeless. I
2:29
got detained because of
2:32
a lack
2:34
of papers and so on. I
2:36
almost got deported, but then they
2:39
got sent to... But
2:41
then while I was in jail and
2:43
stuff like that, I
2:46
saw a talk about the occult. And
2:49
I would do divinations for
2:51
the other inmates. You
2:57
started a cult while in jail. No,
3:00
I was talking about the occult. You were
3:02
talking about the occult. What's the occult? Like
3:07
I was talking about ghosts, religion,
3:09
spirituality, mysticism, politics, philosophy, stuff
3:11
like that. Were
3:14
you doing that? Were you stirring up occult stuff
3:16
just to fuck around or because you were trying
3:18
to do something? Because
3:20
I was bored as heck. Alright, so you
3:23
just fucking ran around. Yeah,
3:25
but well, not fucking... I'm generally interested
3:27
in these topics, which is why
3:29
I was talking about them while in jail. Well,
3:32
can I ask you why you were in jail? Oh
3:36
yeah, basically like I went homeless
3:38
and I did not get any...
3:44
Like I basically almost got deported and
3:46
I got in a dispute with someone.
3:50
You got in a dispute with someone? Yeah.
3:53
You don't have to tell if you don't want to. It's
3:55
your business. It's your life. Yeah, I'm
3:58
not going to say that. But
4:00
this because of that and because of the black papers.
4:03
Okay. How long were you incarcerated for?
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Two weeks. Two weeks.
4:09
Okay. And so
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you're incarcerated in a—was this in
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Asia or Europe? Asia.
4:17
Alright, so you're incarcerated in an undisclosed
4:19
place in Asia. Not North Korea, because that would
4:21
have been longer than two weeks. So
4:24
we narrowed it down a little bit. Yeah, not North Korea. And
4:29
you start—you're in jail,
4:31
and you're like, you know what would be
4:33
fun right now is to start riling up the inmates
4:35
by talking about aliens and
4:37
shit. So you're giving speeches,
4:39
you're standing on a soapbox, you're talking
4:42
about the occult, and then what happens?
4:46
Well, long story short, this rich kid
4:48
and this—well, to give you an idea
4:50
of the other inmates, there was this
4:53
gangster, there was this rich
4:55
kid, there was this army dude on drug
4:57
charges, there was this—what
5:00
else? I
5:03
can't remember all of them. There was this thief,
5:06
and there was—I can't
5:08
remember all of them, but basically
5:11
two of them declared me a prophet after
5:13
I did some divination for them, where I
5:16
rolled dice to foretell the futures. And
5:20
what else? Sorry, it's been
5:22
a while. So
5:26
you rolled the dice, and
5:28
you predicted what the dice would land on? Yeah,
5:33
basically one of the inmates got
5:35
out quickly, so that
5:37
kind of adds fuel to the
5:39
fire of my reputation to speak.
5:43
And then
5:48
I—and then—I'm
5:51
having trouble remembering what else happened. There was something
5:53
else— Do you believe that you are a prophet?
5:58
Honestly, No,
6:02
I'm a magician I guess. You're
6:04
a magician, okay. That's
6:07
honestly better than being a prophet. I
6:11
feel like magicians make
6:13
more money than prophets. Well
6:16
it's not about the money for me, it's just
6:18
about the adventures. I know it's not about the
6:20
money. I know nobody gets into magic for the
6:22
money. I'm just saying there's more magicians
6:25
doing residencies in Las
6:27
Vegas than there are
6:29
prophets. Yeah,
6:33
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well,
6:37
okay, so this was a long ago. How long
6:39
ago was this? Oh,
6:42
this was how I was doing,
6:45
like this was four,
6:47
three, two years back. And
6:50
are you still homeless? Oh
6:53
no, I've been homeless two or three times since then,
6:55
but I'm currently not homeless. Okay,
6:58
good, good man. What do you, um, how's
7:01
life? Life's
7:05
been pretty good. I'm just
7:07
figuring out what to do, like where to take
7:09
the direction of my life. I have
7:12
my goals, it's just a matter
7:14
of finding out how to get there. Tell
7:18
me, tell me what the goals are. Well
7:23
basically I want to spread my
7:25
values. I want
7:27
to help those who help me. I
7:30
want to hurt those who hurt me. And
7:33
I want to find
7:36
a place of my own, you know, find a
7:38
place where they call home, you
7:40
know. Okay, some
7:42
of those sounded a little profity, which is good. I
7:44
think it's probably, I mean, I guess it's good. Um,
7:48
is undisclosed location in Asia not your
7:50
home? It
7:55
is my home, but doesn't feel like my home
7:57
in the distance. The
8:01
does make sense. That does make sense. What do you
8:03
do for work now? Right
8:06
now they're just do odd jobs. Do
8:11
you have friends and family in this undisclosed
8:13
pleasant Asia? Left.
8:19
Okay, And they are
8:21
people you met when you move. There are
8:23
they folks who also came from whatever European
8:25
country you came from. Google
8:29
column a load of column be. Cool.
8:32
Google: Whom. I'm.
8:34
So or a you want to help those
8:37
who helps you, hurt those who hurt you
8:39
and spread your message. Realize
8:42
around. Aka
8:44
are what what ideas have you a
8:47
came up with for how you you
8:49
wanna do this. What what vehicles will
8:51
these desires. You know,
8:54
take. Well
8:56
I tried. talk of people one on one on the
8:58
street. Damaged comfort. Five
9:00
people that way. And
9:02
and that like about couple times
9:05
I tried to organize a hothouse
9:07
to. And tried to
9:09
organize your for citing. A
9:12
group. That has
9:14
walked out of out of the last time
9:16
I try that chef from the in the
9:18
World in the Wilderness. Like
9:21
we organized camping trip to the some.
9:23
I tried to do it all again.
9:25
The other than that, well. Have
9:28
you tried doing like Air Bnb Experience
9:31
or Groupon or something where it's like.
9:33
In our gets converted to an
9:36
occult. I.
9:38
Feel like that's an experience people would sign
9:40
up for on the web sites. Good
9:43
point of the find the coon, the one
9:46
my area thank you for the earlier you
9:48
said you were convert, would you converting people?
9:52
Add to my values. What?
9:54
He values. From
9:58
I valued as a base for me. Freedom.
10:04
And. Will.
10:08
Not be good to see them I want
10:10
I want people to be to have the
10:13
strength and then to go after what they
10:15
truly walk and. Like.
10:19
As like. So.
10:22
Many people like we we we get
10:24
to be for we read all the
10:26
are so what are we to the
10:28
what life was a be good or
10:31
bad pluto crazy one day and the
10:33
whatever does you can do it also
10:35
includes you. Have
10:38
you already know? What? I
10:41
like that message. I'm curious what has to do with
10:43
haunted houses. obviously
10:45
as late. As basically they
10:47
are basic have heard of to
10:50
a spiritual freedom so away but
10:52
to show them were dispersed read
10:54
them after. Cause.
10:56
Paranormal phenomena of personal account
10:58
that makes sense. We can imagine
11:00
food from the the tears
11:02
into spirituality. Okay, doesn't make
11:04
sense but I want to understand.
11:07
You need to show people.
11:09
A haunted house to get them to
11:12
believe in freedom. I'm
11:16
the show people for not hoped
11:18
for now on the planet will
11:20
smell them and hot dogs to
11:22
get some to believe in freedom,
11:24
Sybil. Philippines
11:29
full of the flood. To show
11:31
them not like how reality is
11:33
much more valuable than we think,
11:35
I have to get some to
11:37
accept the message. Supervalu had to
11:39
split the values and on and
11:41
to go after what they want
11:43
to whatever it is. I'm
11:46
going to throw this out there and Anna want to?
11:49
You're doing your own thing. Here.
11:51
Is spread your a message on a
11:53
one it you know insect your message
11:55
with my message you know unwanted. just
11:57
step on your toes. Can
12:00
I- can I- can I offer
12:02
a thought? And it's okay if you think it's
12:04
a dick thought, but I just wanna offer a thought. Sure,
12:07
offer a thought. It's okay. Don't worry. Okay, alright. I-
12:11
can people not... uh,
12:15
believe in freedom... uh,
12:19
within... like,
12:21
just regular-ass reality? Like,
12:24
why do you- I guess I still don't understand why...
12:27
People need to see paranormal shit to
12:29
believe that they can do stuff with their lives. They
12:34
can believe freedom in regular-ass reality.
12:38
The reason- the reason I- the reason
12:40
I'm doing that is because I've made
12:42
freedom why I'm not keeping my
12:44
religion. Okay,
12:49
so freedom is your religion. And
12:51
so... Alright, so you're doing the prophet thing. Just
12:56
by showing people, you're the prophet, you're the
12:58
haunted house prophet. I
13:03
guess. Call
13:06
it four-hundred and magician or whatever, I'm just doing
13:08
whatever I can get. How many
13:10
people are following you? Only
13:14
five up until- only five in real life up
13:17
until now. That's pretty good. That's
13:19
pretty good. You
13:21
have five- like you- like you would say,
13:24
with all sincerity, that you have
13:26
five disciples. Yes,
13:30
like, and- and it's pretty- I
13:33
know it's low numbers, but it's actually pretty
13:35
heartwarming that they did that. Like,
13:38
it- like, if you know the area where I was
13:40
in, which I'm not gonna disclose, it-
13:42
you can get in serious trouble for- No, no, no, I
13:44
don't- wait, you can get- hold on, you can get in
13:46
trouble for... having
13:49
disciples? For
13:52
having- for having alternative spirituality,
13:54
alternative religions. Are
13:57
you in China? Something
14:00
like that. I guess you could say okay
14:06
So these people there these disciples that you have
14:08
what did how How
14:10
are they disciples like what do they? Do
14:13
they give you money do they like
14:15
wear t-shirt with your face on it?
14:18
How do they disciple you? How do they how
14:21
do you tell? That they are your
14:23
disciples. What do they have to do do they have to? Give
14:26
you their blood. What's going on? How do they?
14:30
What what's Yeah,
14:32
what's the benchmark for converted? The
14:37
best one because we'll be to accept the text
14:39
like is them to
14:41
practice our projection to
14:45
to basically Like
14:49
as is to cause the cause chaos
14:51
now the lives Stuff
14:54
in that do they have to have sex
14:56
with you? No All
14:59
right, I was just checking Interesting
15:04
okay, so do you like meet up with
15:06
these five disciples ever like do you have
15:08
like regular meetings? Yeah,
15:12
we do we do it's
15:14
not that regular since something happened,
15:16
but But we do
15:18
have meetings. We do have talk to each other that
15:21
sounds nice actually I like that That's like that's
15:23
real community right there Yeah,
15:26
yeah, I know right because this thing like
15:28
with freedom like sometimes you know like sometimes
15:32
you get pretty lonely, but
15:34
if you have a group people talking to each other
15:36
and Like should because
15:38
you try to be free to go out for what
15:40
they truly want it can help you right Brother
15:43
a fucking men do freedoms freedoms a double-edged
15:45
sword because you're right liz It
15:48
is kind of lonely, but it's good to have
15:50
you know it's good to be free with others.
15:53
You know Exactly
15:55
Exactly. And to answer your question, if
15:57
there's any men like this, two women.
16:00
Two men and sure that you could
16:02
be. At an asset. Oh
16:06
I outside of mister the. I'm.
16:09
Gonna. Look in the chat or you. I
16:12
look in the chat. Okay, can you Not look at the
16:14
chat while we don't. All
16:16
I'm sorry. Saga. That's
16:18
one of the rules of my religion.
16:22
Some. The Ten Commandments. So.
16:30
You didn't think that was funny and that's fine.
16:32
I'm not outside of for father died are you
16:35
not a lot of you? not to lie to
16:37
me. And. Or whatever. So
16:40
what? Are
16:42
you guys have a Facebook page Had as the head of
16:44
would join. Although
16:47
the to the others to fire
16:49
hawthorne part of it's very fit.org
16:51
given Real Blood said again. The
16:55
To file the Pilot Bay the.org that
16:57
we uploaded. Okay, so this
17:00
motherfuckers on Facebook or Instagram. You're
17:02
on the pirate bay. Yes,
17:06
Okay and so on. Pirate Bay there are two
17:08
files that we can this you wanna tell us
17:10
how to get? Do ya know what I mean?
17:12
I don't want to get you in trouble or
17:14
you don't have people crawling up your ass, but
17:16
I mean do you want? How do we get
17:19
them? Okay, so
17:21
it the name of the files
17:23
the first was never a knockoff.
17:25
The certain files chronicle strategy can
17:27
find them, a pirate bay or
17:30
script that authentic toilet library site.
17:32
Say. This again by know me by would be. It's
17:36
a Pdf files tax. Okay, what's the
17:39
first one? cause I don't. Forget
17:44
the what's what's the first one calls. Or
17:47
liberal a knockoff. Lebeau.
17:50
Knockout, even spotty spell. that. Are
17:53
L I T E R. a
17:57
m a r j h
18:00
Okay, what's the other one? The
18:04
second one is the Chronicles of Anarchy. Okay,
18:07
just a disclaimer. Therapy
18:10
Gecko LLC and Partners are not
18:12
responsible for any computer viruses infecting
18:15
the computers of anyone who decides to download these
18:17
files. But if
18:20
you're listening to this and you decide you download
18:22
these files, let me know what they say. Um,
18:25
cause I'm curious. And
18:27
while you're there, I mean, you can also... Dude,
18:30
you can torrent any fucking movie too.
18:33
That's kinda cool. You can have, um,
18:36
you know, an anarchist manifesto
18:38
on one page and... Uh,
18:42
Breaking Bad on the other window and have
18:44
a good night, you know? Damn
18:49
good night. Trust me, you'll love
18:51
the files. Okay, I'm
18:54
def... Wait, hold on. The way you did
18:57
an evil laugh after saying you'll
19:00
love the files makes me think that whoever downloads
19:02
these is gonna get a computer virus. That was
19:04
a computer virusy evil laugh you just did. I
19:07
would be careful, but the files themselves are not
19:09
viruses. I would be
19:11
careful when you're on the site. What do you
19:13
mean? How so? In my recommendation. Oh,
19:16
careful like on Pirate Bay or careful reading the
19:18
documents? Like are they gonna... On Pirate Bay or
19:20
on Pirate Bay. Okay.
19:22
Someone... I hope... Someone will do this. Somebody will
19:24
go in search of the files and like
19:27
send me a message and be like, this is what it is.
19:30
Somebody do that if you're listening to this and
19:32
you just have no life and
19:35
nothing else to do. Um, go
19:37
download this guy's files, um,
19:41
on a computer that has no sensitive
19:43
information on it. And,
19:45
uh, let me know what they say.
19:49
The best part is I wasn't even the one who wrote
19:51
the files. Who wrote the files? I
19:54
have no idea. I have
19:56
no idea. I just... I just made
19:59
them my religion. I read them okay
20:05
so wait so you're a you're also you're
20:08
you're not even a profit you're a disciple
20:10
and you have like you have like this
20:12
it's a pole pyramid scheme you have a
20:14
disciples underneath you but you yourself
20:16
are a disciple yes
20:20
if you want to find out to Oton you're
20:22
gonna have to look at that look it up
20:28
well I hope this I
20:31
hope this works out for you man I really
20:33
do thank you and
20:35
man don't worry about it whether or not it works out
20:37
it's not the point and the point is
20:40
if I tried and dude
20:42
kudos to you as well you know cuz you
20:44
you you had you you also had to put
20:46
a lot of line to get to this point
20:49
and I got salute you fought your courage
20:51
and like get wearing the gecko suit and
20:54
for doing all this for everyone thank you
20:56
thanks man she's very sweet you
20:58
say I appreciate it you're welcome
21:01
you know what you're a charming guy and
21:03
I understand why people join your cult thank
21:07
you thank you but I hope I also help
21:09
them to be free and
21:11
like in general in their lives I hope
21:13
that so that's the main thing
21:15
I'm after you know Dan is
21:17
there anything else you want to say to the people of the computer
21:19
before we go yes
21:23
during my time in prison I asked them because
21:25
two or three riots and they tried to kill
21:27
me because they thought I was an evil spirit
21:29
that's all I want to say peace out later
21:32
Dan shout out
21:34
to whatever
21:37
brave soul risks
21:39
that computer virus to download those files
21:41
I'm curious what's on them wouldn't be
21:43
funny if it was just like Harry
21:45
Potter or some shit now
21:49
I gotta know I might just download I'm not gonna
21:51
download there's no way I'm gonna
21:53
download them well
21:55
that was fun that was interesting I
21:58
don't know what I'm also I am curious what undisclosed
22:00
location he lives in. It sounds... It
22:03
could have been China, I guess? I
22:06
don't know. Uh... Maybe...
22:08
I don't know.
22:11
Wouldn't it be... I would be very curious, like, if somebody eventually
22:13
reaches out to me and is like, hey man, I listened to
22:15
that episode of your podcast where you talked to the guy who
22:18
was trying to convert people. I downloaded
22:20
the books off of the Pirate Bay.
22:22
Everything made perfect sense to me, and
22:25
now I also live in an undisclosed
22:27
Asian location. I'm hanging
22:29
out with this guy, and we're gonna go kill a
22:31
bunch of people. No, we're gonna... We're having a good
22:33
time. And, uh, yeah. That'd
22:35
be... That'd be cool. Maybe this
22:37
changes someone's life, I guess? I
22:40
don't know. Anyway. Thanks
22:42
for calling, Dan. Hey folks, this is
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our dogs. hello
25:57
what's your name sir i'm more
26:01
Mark. What's up, Mark? Not
26:03
much. In my
26:05
text, I basically kind of faded.
26:07
I kind of just wanted to
26:09
know if the way I'm living is
26:13
okay and appropriate, or should I
26:15
more or less come clean and
26:17
kind of stop? What
26:22
is the way you're living? Tell me what
26:25
that means. Sure. So,
26:29
honestly, in my mind, I think I got it
26:31
great. I'm a stay-at-home dad, take care
26:33
of my kids, stay at home. I don't
26:35
try to abuse it too much, considering
26:38
I love playing video
26:40
games, staying up late at
26:42
night. In fact, I
26:44
would say I live a dual life. In
26:47
the daytime, I'm taking
26:49
care of my kids poorly.
26:54
I'm
26:56
more or less lying to my wife every minute to
27:00
avoid having a conversation about
27:02
my habits. For
27:06
instance, she knows I
27:08
smoke marijuana, but I
27:10
haven't been sober a
27:12
day in over eight years since I've
27:14
known her. I don't think
27:16
she knows that. There's a lot
27:19
of compounding things that have weighed on me
27:21
over the past six
27:23
years of our marriage. As
27:26
I'm deteriorating from doing
27:29
drugs and cigarettes two packs a
27:31
day, all
27:33
the money that it costs with inflation, how
27:35
do I... Should I be
27:38
changing? But in my mind, I'm selfish
27:40
because I know I'm living the
27:42
dream. A lot of, you know, just
27:44
based off of, like, the
27:46
abilities. Like, right now, I'm painting in my
27:49
smoke room in my house that I own,
27:51
you know? I don't own.
27:53
She owns it, but it's not my name. I got
27:55
married. Why
27:58
do you say you're taking care of your kids poorly? Well,
28:03
because I know that I could
28:06
put in more effort, but I
28:08
find myself, you know, putting the TV on, you
28:11
know, like we could go outside more often, I
28:13
just kick ass backyard, but I
28:15
don't want to be outside right now. You know, that kind of stuff.
28:18
What's your name or whatever name you want to go by? Mark,
28:21
Mark, Mark, Mark. Before,
28:25
you know, Mark, I'm, um, I'm
28:27
down to talk with you about all this stuff,
28:29
but I do feel as though
28:31
I need to ask you if you've ever talked
28:33
to a real therapist about this and if you
28:35
have what they've told you. Hmm.
28:40
Not necessarily. No, you know, I had a
28:44
an issue like come
28:46
up like a medical issue and
28:50
I tried to do like it was like over,
28:52
uh, what was
28:55
it? Coronavirus. It's
28:57
like 2020 peak 2020. And
29:00
I wanted to talk to somebody because, and this
29:03
is sound tough, like suicidal ideation, like the
29:05
pain was a lot, you know, and like
29:09
I thought like given cause I
29:11
had insurance finally after, you know, 20
29:14
years of working, I had finally decent
29:16
insurance through marriage. But
29:18
uh, so I thought, I don't mind. We'll give it
29:20
a try rather than spiral. But
29:23
it didn't really, you know, after the pain went
29:25
away, I just said, screw it. And
29:28
I kind of stopped talking to her. Yeah,
29:30
that then that kind of happens. Like you'll be in
29:32
a spot and so you'll be talking to your therapist
29:34
and then things will get a little bit better and
29:36
you'll be like, well, I don't ever need to do
29:38
this ever again. So
29:43
do you still feel that pain ever or are
29:45
you in a better spot? I'm
29:48
in a better spot. Okay. Well, that's good to
29:50
hear. That's uh, that's
29:52
encouraging. Yeah. You know, honestly,
29:54
like my life's been up, especially, you know, like
29:56
single mother life, you
29:59
know, like I've, I've, You know, I
30:01
had to work since I was 16, that kind of
30:03
stuff. And, you know, in your 20s, it's tough. But,
30:06
um, and look, by the way, I'm just gonna say,
30:08
like, again, I'm happy to talk to you about this,
30:11
but... The way that... And you
30:13
should talk to a real therapist to get their
30:15
perspective on it, because... The
30:17
way that you're talking about all this stuff, you seem...
30:20
Very distressed. Hmm.
30:28
Also... Do
30:30
you not... I mean, I'm just telling you
30:33
my observation. Do you not agree that you
30:35
seem kind of stressed? I'm
30:38
torn. Because inside I
30:40
know how I feel, but
30:42
I understand what's going on. Does that make
30:45
sense? Like... Tell what's... Inside, like, I don't
30:47
really care. Like, I'm living the dream, you
30:49
know? It's like... What's
30:51
your understanding of... When you... The fact is like...
30:53
When you said, when you said, I understand what's
30:55
going on, what's your understanding of
30:57
what's going on? Well,
31:01
for example, I smoke two packs a day. I know I
31:03
shouldn't, but I love it. You know what I mean? And,
31:06
you know, there are varying degrees of that. So it's
31:09
like I was saying earlier with my kids, like... I
31:11
know I could be a better parent. I had a
31:13
shitty childhood to a degree, you know? Like, we all
31:15
have. More or
31:17
less, but, uh... I
31:21
don't know, I feel like... You
31:25
know, as I... Watch
31:27
my life pass by, watch my kids grow
31:29
up. You know, it's like I reflect on
31:32
all those things. Where I could have
31:34
done something, or been a little bit better,
31:36
or maybe not yelled so much, or whatever. And,
31:40
like you said, maybe I should talk to somebody. Also,
31:44
maybe I could work it out through here, because...
31:46
So, hold on, let me... So,
31:49
deep down inside, I don't really care. You
31:51
know, like I said, I'm living the dream. If I... You
31:54
know, if I lose seven years from smoking, so
31:57
what? You know? And I'll have an internal battle
31:59
going on. So, so
32:01
again, I mean, like I said, I'm, I'm down
32:04
to talk to you. I am. I feel
32:06
as though I should
32:09
be responsible and tell you I am a dumbass
32:13
fucking guy in a gecko costume.
32:15
I am not an expert on
32:18
the brain. I
32:20
just, just giving you my disclaimer, just giving you my
32:22
disclaimer. And I always recommend
32:25
talking to a professional now that I've given you
32:27
my disclaimer. Let's
32:29
just talk as two guys on
32:31
the phone here. So this
32:34
is, this is like a thing. And I kind
32:36
of get this of like, yeah,
32:40
I know the various
32:42
ways. I like know
32:44
logically the various ways
32:47
that my life could be better. You know, I
32:49
could stop smoking pot. I
32:52
could be a better dad in this way. I could be a better
32:54
husband in this way. I could be a better person in this way.
32:56
Of course I know I could do this. I could do this. I
32:58
could do this. Of course I have
33:00
the knowledge that I could, of course,
33:02
that's the easy part. But
33:05
yet you're in your head and
33:07
you're like, well, what's
33:09
the point? Why? I
33:13
mean, I was a certain way. Yeah.
33:16
Yeah. And finding that
33:18
motivation of why giving
33:21
a shit about taking care of yourself
33:24
and giving a shit about these
33:27
things is
33:30
a science that I,
33:33
I mean, people study it. That's why I do
33:36
think you should go to see a person. But
33:38
I mean, anecdotally, me personally, it's a science that
33:40
I have attempted to figure out as well because
33:42
it's, it's hard, man. When you've
33:44
lost your, like, not
33:47
will to live, but like your will to improve
33:50
or whatever,
33:52
you're like deep in a fog, you
33:54
know? And let me
33:57
just throw some shit out there, anecdotally.
34:00
I've found that, um... So
34:04
like when I'm in a fog, and I'm
34:07
thinking to myself like, why
34:09
eat healthier? Why
34:11
go to the gym?
34:13
Why stop smoking pot? Why... Just
34:17
work on my career? Why... Try
34:21
to nurture my relationship? Like why do
34:23
anything? Who gives a shit? I
34:26
found that if I said to myself, let
34:29
me just take a step forward. Let
34:34
me do something. You
34:36
kind of do it, and you get a little
34:38
hit of dopamine from
34:41
that, and then you kind
34:43
of can turn that into some
34:45
momentum, right? So like
34:47
if you go a day without smoking
34:49
cigarettes, and you're like,
34:51
oh that actually... I actually feel a sense
34:55
of accomplishment from doing
34:57
that, and then you
34:59
kind of build momentum off of that, or if
35:01
you say to yourself I'm gonna, you
35:03
know, turn off the TV. I'm gonna... no
35:06
phones, no computer, no nothing. I'm gonna spend
35:08
the rest of the day or night looking
35:10
my children in the eyes. You're
35:13
like, oh that actually felt good. I... I...
35:16
No, but usually, and this is... I think I
35:18
fucking... I swear to God I've learned this over
35:20
and over and over again, and you forget it
35:23
every time, but when you are... when you're in
35:25
the fog, you
35:27
have no grasp
35:30
or understanding of how it feels to
35:32
be out of the fog. You
35:35
really don't. Even if you've been out
35:37
of the fog before. The only way to actually
35:40
remember what it feels like to be out of
35:42
the fog is to leave the fog. But
35:45
yet, it's of this weird contradiction, because when you're
35:47
in the fog, you have no desire to leave
35:49
the fog. Because you're
35:52
like, what's the point? But then when
35:54
you leave it for like a sec, when you do one little thing
35:56
to step out of your fog, and you
35:58
know, you go a day without... the cigarettes,
36:01
you take some time to be with your kids, you go
36:03
for a walk, you put your phone away, you do whatever
36:05
the thing, you were like, well what's the point of doing
36:07
this fucking thing? Then once you
36:09
do it, you understand the point. You're
36:12
not gonna understand the point before you do it.
36:14
That's why you're sitting there like, what's the point? Once
36:17
you do it, you remember the
36:19
point. So you kinda have
36:21
to like, start
36:26
building your momentum without the motivation.
36:30
And then, it's like that thing of like, action,
36:34
like motivation does
36:36
not precede action. Action precedes
36:39
motivation. You know what I'm talking about? Does
36:43
any of this make sense? I understand, I understand this, okay?
36:46
It really does, you know
36:48
like... By the way, I'm
36:50
talking to you on the
36:53
six pack millionaire with a helicopter, alright?
36:55
I'm doing my fair share of eating
36:57
pizza for breakfast and whatnot too, so
36:59
this is just how I think about
37:01
it. Right,
37:04
it totally makes sense. And like
37:06
you're saying about the fog, I
37:08
find myself in the fog and
37:12
when I reach out, there's no
37:15
problems except for the realization
37:17
that I've created a whole system around
37:19
me so that I don't
37:21
get caught. So I don't get in a
37:23
conversation that leads me to get out of
37:25
the fog. Besides maybe
37:27
this conversation and me talking
37:30
to myself as I'm standing in
37:32
a room. So
37:37
we were just talking about like, self-improvement,
37:42
motivational bullshit. That's one thing. And now
37:44
you're talking about like,
37:47
how open do you want to be with your wife? That's
37:49
another thing. Do
37:53
you think it's bad that I'm
37:55
not telling her? That's really what
37:57
it is. Is it? I mean, it's... feels
38:00
it but Well,
38:02
it's it's clearly bad. Just didn't just in
38:04
the sense that we can both see that
38:06
it's bothering you Right,
38:10
you know, but maybe that's in my mind
38:13
the consequence of Doing
38:15
something that means she wouldn't like if she
38:17
found out You know, how do you
38:19
think she would react if she found out that you were
38:21
you haven't been sober a day in eight years? Probably
38:27
take away access to my money You
38:30
know You
38:33
know, like I'm truly stay at home on it.
38:35
I'm dependent. Yeah, I guess I could go find
38:37
a job but You
38:40
know so it's like I like so there's a
38:42
little bit more on top of it because like
38:44
there are consequences that Trickle down that makes
38:46
me even more fearful step out of the fog.
38:48
Do you feel but do you feel like in
38:50
the Alright,
38:52
so you guys have a situation you guys have like a
38:54
traditional situation Like she goes and makes all the money and
38:56
then you take care of the kids Right,
39:01
but do you have no sense
39:04
of like Pride
39:07
or motivation in inter like do
39:09
you have a little thing under
39:11
your ass that goes like Okay,
39:14
you know I've formed this how long you been
39:16
with your wife Seven
39:20
years seven years it's like It's
39:24
like and here's the thing especially especially
39:26
about having kids Because you
39:28
kind of and I don't have kids. Um, I
39:32
am single and I have no kids, but here's my rant is
39:35
like When
39:38
if you're if you know kids and You
39:42
know you can go do
39:44
whatever you want with your life like
39:46
fucking go crazy smoke weed for a
39:48
billion years Do whatever
39:50
live that life, but do you have? You
39:53
entered this partnership To
39:56
start a family and
39:58
your wife is holding up her
40:00
part of the deal and
40:03
do you have any like fire under your
40:05
ass of being just of like
40:07
I gotta hold up my end of this deal Oh
40:13
and I'm not and I'm not saying that you know I'm not saying
40:15
that to you I'm not saying
40:17
that to you for you to I don't I
40:20
don't want you to sit here and like beat yourself up
40:22
and go into a spiral okay, it's
40:24
supposed to be motivating you know like let
40:27
me hold let me fucking hold up my end of the
40:29
deal You know that my wife's
40:31
doing whatever she does she's working hard. No, she's holding up her
40:33
end of the deal I don't have a fire. Let me hold
40:35
up my end of the deal Yeah,
40:40
I don't honestly you know like And
40:43
it kind of goes back to like me thing
40:46
earlier like there's the
40:50
Ins like the real me and in the
40:52
mask you know like I know when I'm
40:54
wearing the mask I should You
40:56
know care about these things. There's no
40:58
such thing as real you there's no
41:00
there You're not living you're not living
41:02
a double life. You are living your
41:04
life. There's no double life There's
41:07
the hormone there is you or
41:10
everything You are all the bad
41:12
things of your life, and you were all the
41:14
good things and they don't Negate
41:17
each other they some of
41:19
that some of them interact some of
41:21
them don't it's just your messy life
41:24
But there's no two lives is just
41:26
you as a human being in all
41:28
your good in all your bed So
41:33
I guess when it comes to like
41:35
am I able to hold up my share yeah, I'm
41:39
You know I'm leachy unfortunately You
41:42
know like I'm not saying I don't give in like you
41:44
know one of my courtents is the
41:46
family you know like This is
41:48
here. What do you think about this statement? I
41:50
tell this to a lot of people I'm
41:53
done. I won. You know in terms of
41:55
my mindset. I've already bred. You
41:57
know like maybe I can get you kids to breeding age Hopefully
42:00
get that but like I'm fine
42:02
if I die right now, you know that But
42:07
you're not done I Know
42:11
that you know, but it's hard because there's a
42:13
part of me that feels that you know, I
42:15
gotta Get rid of
42:17
that part of me. I guess
42:22
Cuz you're right. Why don't you just I
42:25
serious I what's your name
42:28
again? Mark
42:31
mark ice first of all, I seriously think you should go
42:33
talk to a Therapist who
42:35
would have better right because I'm a
42:38
guy in a gecko costume You should go talk to
42:40
a therapist, but I seriously think like dude like the
42:42
fact that you're like I'm
42:45
done. I mean You
42:48
I mean, I don't want to be
42:50
like done like you know, like I mean, oh, but like if
42:52
an asteroid hits me I'm
42:54
okay with that as long
42:56
as my kids survive, you know, like Yeah,
43:01
see like I can't tell my wife that you
43:04
know, I can't I can't I can't have that conversation
43:06
with her you know like You
43:10
know if I get old and my kids can truly
43:12
understand me like when they're you know beyond like the
43:15
4 5 6 age and they're more like 8 9 10 11 like You
43:19
know, it's like you're right. I guess I do need to
43:22
you know, phone like a life coach or something Well,
43:26
like I've been living like this for well
43:28
over a decade, you know, just in
43:31
my mind living the life Yeah,
43:33
but you talk about how to do it But
43:36
you you called me
43:38
you're talking about this. You're bothered
43:40
by it you give a shit You
43:44
can I've
43:46
been give a shit. I think myself. I wouldn't be
43:48
talking right now That's
43:52
very fair so
43:54
like dude, I just um
43:57
and again, I there the reason I don't
44:00
I don't like I don't try trying to say yell at people
44:02
or whatever because I don't there's no It's
44:04
not productive. There's no reason for you to
44:07
go into a like a self-hatred spiral It's
44:09
not productive for you or your family or
44:11
anyone, but it's like Look
44:13
man like when you wake up tomorrow and you talk
44:15
to your kids like like
44:19
put your phone away Try
44:22
just try just give you Give
44:24
yourself a day give yourself a day where
44:27
you're like I'm going today I
44:30
am going to hold up my end of the deal
44:32
and Like you
44:34
know if you really do feel like I've made it
44:38
Try your best to be grateful for whatever
44:40
is making you feel that way if it's
44:42
your wife Who's you
44:44
know going out working and
44:46
doing these things out of gratitude for
44:49
your wife? you say to yourself
44:51
I'm gonna hold up my end of the deal and Try
44:54
to be a good dad Even
44:56
if you even if you fail even if
44:59
whatever whatever is going on in your in
45:01
your addiction brain Just you can't you just
45:03
can't do it. Just if you just try
45:05
you might even feel good. Just trying you
45:08
know That's really
45:10
all I got for you. I think I
45:13
don't know if any this is helpful But
45:15
I understand I hope I seriously I
45:17
hope you wake up tomorrow morning, and you're like okay
45:19
today Let me just try to hold
45:21
up my end of the deal today Fair
45:26
enough, thanks for talking so
45:29
anything else you want to say to the people the computer before we go Take
45:36
care of the AI that we're all
45:38
gonna raise very soon. Have a great day
45:41
later on dog Soon
45:44
sooner or later our children won't need parents because
45:46
we can just do you'll be out
45:48
you're literally Actually kind of
45:50
crazy. You'll probably be able to just like buy
45:53
a nanny bot like from the
45:55
fucking Jetsons and the
45:57
nanny bot will raise
46:00
your kid for you and
46:02
the crazy thing, let
46:04
me talk about AI for a second just because he
46:06
brought it up. Here's the thing, AI, it is
46:10
like, it
46:12
is sometimes, in some situations,
46:16
it's smarter than people. Like,
46:20
AI is
46:22
a better therapist than several
46:25
therapists that
46:28
I've been to in the past. It's
46:31
like objective, it's level.
46:34
Like, I'll talk to chat
46:36
GPT sometimes, and
46:38
I've talked to chat GPT enough that I'm like, you
46:40
know what, if I did die, or had to
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go away for a while, I'd let chat GPT take
46:46
care of my kids. Like,
46:49
it's kind of more depend- it's
46:51
like self-driving cars. Like,
46:53
I trust self-driving cars more than
46:55
like a stoned 16 year
46:58
olds on the road, right? I think
47:02
I actually would trust an AI nanny. Anyway,
47:06
what were we just talking about? Oh yeah,
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that guy. I hope that- that is- I-
47:12
bro, I don't know. I
47:14
don't know. I don't know how that guy's gonna fix all
47:19
that. Is it crazy? I
47:23
don't know if it's brain chemistry or what
47:27
the hell it is, but I hope he
47:29
tries, man. Because that thing about the fog
47:31
is real. I've
47:33
experienced it. I actually feel- like, I
47:35
feel out of the fog right now because I'm caffeinated
47:38
and I'm dressed and I'm talking
47:40
to people, but dear lord, I've hung out
47:42
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frickin way. What's up? Is
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this the real therapy GECCO?
50:22
This is GECCO. How is your
50:24
life going Izzy? I've
50:26
called like hundreds of times. And
50:30
here we are on the On
50:33
the hundred and one just goes to
50:35
show that persistence is
50:40
Yeah, what's up, Izzy?
50:42
How's it going? I
50:45
don't know. I've always like thought about this mom.
50:47
I was like, what will I say if you
50:49
ever answered it? Now
50:51
I don't know what to say. So I'm
50:53
gonna give some context of where I'm at right
50:56
now It is I'm recording this at 2 o'clock
50:58
in the morning Because
51:01
I'm so I'm going to Thailand in
51:03
about Like
51:09
8 hours or something and
51:12
it's like 12 hours like
51:14
the time difference is like Reversed
51:17
so I'm trying to pull an all-nighter and I
51:19
was like, well, what's gonna how do I do
51:21
that? Oh, I know what I'll do. I'll stream
51:24
But here's another thing is when I
51:26
record these podcasts You
51:28
know, typically I aim to have
51:30
my brain functioning at you know as
51:32
close to my brain never really functions at a
51:34
hundred percent But you know the closer
51:36
I can get to 100% the better I would say
51:40
But right now it's 2 o'clock in the morning. I'm gonna say I'm at
51:42
a good My
51:45
god, I'm gonna say I'm at a I'm at a So
51:48
I'm gonna say I'm at a 60%
51:52
actually feel pretty good right now. I
51:54
drank a Celsius shout out Celsius a drink of
51:56
Celsius right before I
51:58
started doing this. So If you ever
52:00
wanted to know what it's like to Drink
52:03
200 milligrams of caffeine at 1
52:06
o'clock in the morning I'll
52:08
let you guys know. I mean this I mean you'll know
52:10
by just listening to my voice. I guess That's
52:13
where I'm at. You know what's what's what's where
52:15
are you at Izzy? Then
52:18
I'm in Minnesota Okay
52:22
It's about one. It's gonna go to
52:24
bed, and I was like he's live.
52:27
This is my chance Am
52:29
I I'm not on the speakerphone am I? No,
52:33
okay Why
52:37
was I gonna say oh yeah, what are
52:39
you doing up so late Izzy? Well
52:42
like you I drink Celsius pretty late
52:44
in the day cuz I was working
52:46
and now I just can't sleep How
52:48
late in the day did you drink it I? Would
52:51
say about five o'clock five o'clock.
52:53
Yeah, they get you what made you want to drink
52:55
a Celsius at five o'clock Well
52:58
I work in HR and today was
53:00
a very long day of policies you
53:03
know that's super fun stuff and It
53:07
just drains you Why did
53:10
what's the worst HR? Situation
53:13
you've encountered in your years of working
53:15
HR So
53:17
okay funny story. I work with
53:19
my mother in H in the
53:22
same company and So I'm
53:24
her like I'm on the HR team of
53:27
The same company that she works in and she
53:29
complained to me about a
53:32
situation that was happening on her team and
53:35
Then I had to go to my boss and
53:37
be like so my mom told me cuz I
53:39
also was at home with her So
53:41
I was like my mom told me this at home I
53:44
hate to snitch, but like they're breaking policy,
53:46
so that had to be a
53:48
whole case open luckily I didn't have to
53:50
investigate it myself, but that was
53:52
pretty crazy That's
53:55
so did your mom get you the job, or did you get your
53:57
mom the job, or was it just kind of? Kismet
54:00
that you both wind it up at
54:03
the same place So
54:05
she works in like a different part of
54:07
the organization than me and she made the
54:09
introduction and I had to go through Like
54:11
the whole interview process. I
54:13
think there was definitely a little bit of nepotism
54:16
But I like to tell myself, you know that
54:18
she was really blown away by me Nep
54:21
it up. That's what I say. Why
54:23
not? Why not? If look
54:25
if your dad's the president then I think you should get
54:27
to be the president too There was
54:29
a guy who did that there was a
54:31
guy like George. What's his George W
54:33
Bush? He is
54:35
it George W George HW. Who's the son? I? Don't
54:39
know the president he he
54:41
napped harder than anyone's ever napped before Because
54:45
he had a genius thought I'm I have no idea what
54:47
I'm talking about. By the way, it's 2 o'clock in the
54:49
morning He he was like yo,
54:51
my dad was the president. Why don't I why
54:53
don't I just fucking go be
54:56
the president? And you know people make
54:58
some people think you know, that's a bad idea. That's like
55:00
from When there were kings and
55:02
stuff and the king would have a son and the
55:04
son was automatically the next king Whether or not he
55:06
was gonna be a shitty king But
55:10
he was like yo, they did that once Why
55:12
don't we why don't I just do it again? I'll just be
55:14
the president because my dad was the president again I have absolutely
55:17
no idea what I'm talking about. But you
55:19
know, I say net if you can nap nap if your
55:21
dad You know
55:23
writes if your dad is George Lucas
55:26
Fucking go go star in the next Star
55:28
Wars. Why not? Just do it, you
55:31
know I mean You
55:35
know my my dad Well,
55:38
my dad's a bankruptcy lawyer and my mom
55:40
is Is
55:42
also a lawyer and so You
55:46
know, they got me this job being
55:48
a fake therapist gecko
55:53
No, they didn't they I
55:56
mean, I got I napped a little bit. I napped a little
55:58
bit. I had a job working for my dad's
56:01
law firm YouTube channel where
56:03
I would edit videos
56:06
for him. So my dad, I guess he got me my
56:08
first editing job at his law firm. So
56:11
I napped. Go ahead and nap. Why
56:14
not? Yeah, but nothing's for real. Um,
56:19
so what, uh, what,
56:22
what do you, what do you want to do with your life? Dude?
56:26
I don't know, man. I just turned
56:29
21 and graduated college and
56:31
I just like, and then that phase
56:33
where there's some people having babies, some
56:35
people getting married, and
56:37
I just got to drink legally, so I'm
56:41
trying to figure it out. Who the hell is your 21
56:43
you said? Yeah. Who
56:45
the hell is having babies at 21? That
56:47
sounds awful. So many people. There's
56:49
so many people. The people that you
56:52
think shouldn't have babies are always the
56:54
one popping them out. Crazy.
56:58
Yeah, I don't know. Um, I
57:01
think, uh, yeah, I mean, having a kid
57:03
at 21 is probably, it's probably not a
57:05
good idea, but what the, what
57:07
the fuck do I know about how other people should
57:10
live their lives? I really mean that I really do. Um,
57:14
are you saying that you want to have a
57:16
child? Oh God, no,
57:18
not right now. God, no. Yeah.
57:21
What do you, what do you hope for the future? So
57:25
I hope to own a couple
57:27
goats and some cows. Are
57:31
you serious? Yeah,
57:33
I think that's what I'd be happy doing
57:36
for the rest of my life. How
57:38
much is a goat? I
57:40
have no clue. Well,
57:43
that's the thing is you, I mean, okay. So
57:46
you want one goat and like, let's, I mean, I want to,
57:48
if I could just do something with you right now that, you
57:50
know, I feel like I want, I want you
57:52
to get something out of this phone call. Why don't we, you
57:55
know, this is how we make, we, part
57:57
of, I think you got to make your goals.
58:00
defined an actual right
58:03
so I mean let's get into it
58:05
how what you want how many what do you want you
58:07
want one goat two goats how many goats I
58:10
would say two goats because I think they get lonely so
58:12
you have to have you all right two
58:14
goats and how many cows I
58:16
would say one because they're kind of big I don't
58:19
know if I can really do two of them do
58:21
cows not get lonely they
58:24
might but they'll have me so all
58:26
right so two goats one cow and then where
58:28
you where you gonna put these motherfuckers do you
58:30
have a you have a house well
58:33
I live in the Midwest and there's a lot
58:35
of land over here so I just figured it
58:37
pick something up and like build a shed all
58:40
right I'm going on Google right now how much is a
58:46
goat all right all
58:50
right the price of a goat can vary from
58:52
75 dollars bro you can
58:56
get bro you can get a goat
58:58
for $400 I can
59:00
buy so many goats with all right
59:02
so 800 all right I'm okay hold up
59:04
wait Izzy I'm I know you're joking
59:06
around but I'm being dead serious about this right now I
59:10
really am because I because you're telling me
59:12
this is your life dream and I'm sitting here
59:14
I'm on the computer Google and how much goats are and
59:16
I want this to be a thing where you realize that
59:19
you actually can achieve your dream by
59:21
only saving you know all right are you with
59:23
me on this I
59:25
am with you on it okay all
59:28
right all right so all right so you
59:30
need 800 bucks to get two goats how
59:34
much is a cow cow is
59:36
a little more expensive cow is $900 so you need to save $1,700
59:38
to achieve your life's goal that's
59:48
crazy that's crazy you
59:50
could do that see
59:52
you see this is the thing everyone thinks that
59:54
their goals are are out of reach
59:56
but you know one takes the time to you know
59:58
Google Google them So... I
1:00:02
just need to Google more. Well,
1:00:05
um, Izzy you said your name was? Yeah.
1:00:09
Oh wait, can you give me a name? I know you
1:00:11
give everyone names, cause you forget them, and then you remembered
1:00:13
mine, and I'm kinda let down by that, so I would
1:00:16
like you to give me a name. No, I'm
1:00:18
not gonna give you a name, you- I remembered your name!
1:00:21
Dang... It's the one time. Um...
1:00:26
I feel like, uh, well, is there anything you
1:00:28
wanted to actually talk about? No,
1:00:30
I just- I never thought you'd actually
1:00:32
answer, so I never, like, prepared anything
1:00:35
to talk about. So this
1:00:37
is just like... My goal- This
1:00:39
is a goal. It's been completed now. So
1:00:41
thank you. Well...
1:00:45
Alright. Um... $1700
1:00:48
bucks between you and your goal. Oh, you got it- You can-
1:00:51
You can save that... With your...
1:00:53
Izzy. You know... Uh... HR...
1:00:56
Nepi... Money. You can get there.
1:01:00
Definitely. Alright. Send
1:01:02
me- Send me a picture of the goat. Or
1:01:05
don't. I don't have enough sp- I don't have a- I don't have a lot of space
1:01:07
on my phone... Anymore. I- I- I've been
1:01:09
saving, uh... Uh, too many,
1:01:11
um... Uh...
1:01:15
I- I've been d- I've been downloading a lot of games... So,
1:01:18
I don't have any space on my phone, so actually don't send me a
1:01:20
picture of the goat. Um, Izzy, is there anything else
1:01:22
you wanna say to the people at the computer before we go? Um...
1:01:26
Go buy more goats. Take
1:01:29
care, dog. Bye-bye. Bye-bye.
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1:02:21
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