These judgments, we put so much weight on the judgments of other people that we cannot even create room in our body and soul to find joy.  What is really holding us back and how much of the decisions we make, the products that we buy, and the life we design are based on the approval and affirmations of other people? At the end of the day, are we living a life that is designed to "prove them wrong"?  Or are we designing a life that is led by intention?

When we focus our energy on showing a specific group of folks wrong, there is a whole new army of haters coming at us for something entirely different. There is no winning with this approach. Why? Usually, the people we are trying to prove something to have already forgotten and moved on. Giving them the benefit of the doubt that they still care is stealing time from ourselves.

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