Outsiders are not supposed to know these ins and outs on your love life. They don't have the privilege of knowing what makes you feel vulnerable, because they'll come and try to capitalize off of your low moments in life. The souls who get it won't even need an explanation to know when energies have shifted and your life is not in alignment with the Universe. When you are drawn to others it's not by coincidence. It's what is meant to be. Some tend to isolate themselves in order to regain sight of their purpose and get back in tune with fulfilling what makes their souls be at profound peace. Others would lose it if they had to face themselves and their trauma alone. They find solitude in being surrounded by crowds , because they have yet to seek the solutions to evolve and walk into their higher selves. They're afraid of rejection and peace seems strange to them. Only then will they live up to their true calling and not remain trapped in the illusions of who they thought they were supposed to be and lives they pictured themselves having.