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Hello everyone and welcome to episode 390
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of the True Crime All the Time
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ready to get into this episode of True
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Crime All The Time? I am ready. This
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is a case that I've been wanting to
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cut. cover for a very long time. We're
4:02
talking about the murder of Phil Hartman
4:05
on May 29th, 1998,
4:08
successful actor and comedian Phil Hartman was
4:10
killed by his wife, Brent
4:13
in a tragic murder suicide.
4:15
They appeared to be a happy couple to
4:18
outsiders, but those in their
4:20
inner circle knew that they
4:22
fought often and had tension in
4:24
their marriage. And for me, you
4:26
know, going back to those
4:29
days where Phil Hartman was on SNL,
4:32
those were some of the glory days. Oh sure
4:34
was. I mean, you think about the
4:36
people who were on there
4:39
with him and really him in
4:41
particular, I just felt
4:44
like he was so gifted. He could
4:46
play, you know, so
4:48
many different roles and
4:50
they were all played perfectly.
4:53
He uh, it was very funny.
4:55
And just extremely talented. Philip
4:58
Edward Hartman was born on September 24th, 1948
5:01
in Brantford, Ontario. I
5:05
also think there's a lot of funny
5:07
individuals who have come
5:09
from Canada, especially with Saturday
5:12
Night Live. Yeah. Mike Myers.
5:14
But then you know, you even get
5:16
into like the old SC TV deaths
5:18
with John Candy and
5:21
Eugene Levy from
5:23
Schitt's Creek stuff like that. It's
5:26
just a lot of funny Canadians. It's so cold up
5:28
there that maybe that's all you can do is just
5:30
be funny. Does
5:32
that keep you warm? Being
5:35
funny helps keep you warm. Phil
5:37
was the fourth of eight children. His
5:39
dad was a building material salesman
5:41
and his mother was a homemaker. In
5:44
a 1993 interview with people, Phil
5:47
said that he didn't make any ways
5:49
as a child and had a passive
5:52
people pleasing middle
5:54
child mentality. Okay. I
5:57
can relate because you're the middle
5:59
child. Yeah. Okay. Well, you are
6:01
somewhat passive, somewhat of
6:03
a people pleaser. I
6:05
am not. You definitely are not.
6:08
And maybe that's because I'm an only
6:10
child. Yeah. But I can see, you
6:12
know, as a middle
6:14
child, maybe you gotta
6:16
play peacemaker between some of the older
6:18
kids, some of the younger kids, you
6:20
know, you're trying to fit in, you're
6:22
trying to find your own way. I
6:25
could see the challenges. Trying to keep everybody
6:27
happy. Sure. Trying to
6:29
make sure you get enough at the dinner table. I'd
6:32
say it can be a challenge sometimes with those big
6:34
families like that. Phil's family
6:36
moved to Southern California. In
6:38
1960, he became a
6:40
US citizen 30 years later, in
6:43
1990. Took a while. Yeah,
6:45
did take a while. He was interested
6:47
in theater from a young age. And
6:49
in junior high, he performed with
6:51
Lynette Frombe, who was sentenced
6:53
to life in prison for
6:55
the attempted assassination of former
6:58
president Gerald Ford. Squeaky.
7:00
Squeaky Frombe. Squeaky Frombe. Did
7:03
you say Squeaky? No, Squeaky. No.
7:05
I think if people play it back, they're gonna
7:07
hear Squeaky. But it is
7:09
interesting, right? When you talk
7:12
about people who do really
7:14
bad things. Right. Well, obviously there
7:16
are a lot of different people who went
7:18
to school with them. Sure. Some
7:20
of them might later go on
7:23
to become famous themselves,
7:25
but they're not infamous, actually famous.
7:28
In this case, somebody went to school with
7:30
both of those. Somebody went
7:33
to school with her and they also
7:35
went to school with Phil. So
7:37
they can say, well, I went to school with.
7:40
The famous and the infamous. Yeah. After
7:43
graduation, Phil attended Santa Monica
7:45
College and then California State
7:47
University, Northridge, where he majored
7:50
in graphic design. Phil
7:52
worked several jobs before he became a
7:54
famous comedian. According to ABC, he was
7:57
a roadie for a band called Rockin'
7:59
The Okay. It's
8:01
not one that I'm familiar with. Maybe
8:03
it was like the early years before
8:06
the Foo Fighters came around. Well,
8:08
I am sure it was well before
8:11
the Foo Fighters came around, but
8:13
I'm not sure what your point is.
8:16
Mike Thomas, author of You Might
8:18
Remember Me, a biography on
8:20
Phil Hartman, said that Phil
8:23
lived a bohemian existence around
8:25
this time. And I know at
8:28
certain points in your life, you
8:30
have been known to lead a
8:32
bohemian existence. Nothing
8:35
wrong with that. There are even
8:37
claims online that bohemian
8:39
rhapsody in some
8:42
small part was crafted
8:44
based on you. I'm
8:47
going to have to say I can either
8:49
deny or confirm. Well,
8:52
what would an episode be without you saying
8:54
that? Thomas said in
8:56
an interview with Salon magazine, I also
8:58
thought it was really cool to read
9:00
about the real Phil, who was
9:03
more of a hippie than anything else. He
9:05
loved to surf. He loved to hang out
9:07
on the beach of Catalina, Smokepot.
9:10
He was not the characters he played, a
9:12
lot of whom tended to be more straight
9:15
laced, stick in the mud
9:17
boss like figures. And I wonder
9:19
how much of that is true for a lot of
9:21
actors. They're playing a character.
9:23
Sure. I'm assuming
9:26
a lot of times
9:28
much different than what
9:31
they are like in real life. You
9:33
know, sometimes you got to do what you got to
9:35
to move your career up. You
9:37
know, sometimes you're going to play a role
9:40
that is really not who you are.
9:42
Well, if you're a good actor, though, you can
9:45
pull those off. Sure. I
9:47
mean, I play a cowboy every weekend. And
9:49
you are not a cowboy. I am not. But
9:51
I do think it's true. You know,
9:53
if you look back or think back
9:55
on the characters he played on Saturday
9:57
Night Lot, they weren't the, you
9:59
know. over the top in
10:02
your face characters like
10:04
maybe a Dana Carvey played or,
10:06
uh, Adam Sandler, he
10:09
did play more of, uh, uh,
10:12
the straight guy, right? Not
10:14
to laugh out loud, but
10:16
he was super funny in
10:18
the way that he did it. In
10:20
1970, Phil married his first wife,
10:22
Gretchen Lewis. The marriage didn't last
10:25
long and they were divorced by
10:27
September, 1972. Pretty
10:29
quick. Yeah. I mean, to me,
10:32
that sounds like one
10:34
of those relationships where it
10:36
seems great until you're spending
10:39
every day, every day together. And
10:41
you soon realize that you're not
10:43
meant to be Phil's friend.
10:45
And attorney Steve small told 2020
10:48
Phil fell in love easily, but
10:51
wasn't very skilled at continuing a
10:53
relationship. That's a tough skill to
10:55
have. Making a relationship work.
10:57
Yeah. Well, it's easy to fall in
10:59
love. I think for a lot of
11:01
people, I kind of look at
11:03
that as the easy part. The
11:05
hard part is continually
11:08
working on a relationship,
11:11
you know, even a marriage because
11:13
it does take work. It takes sacrifice.
11:16
It takes compromise, takes
11:18
all those things. Yeah. And I think there
11:20
are some people who just, you know, are
11:23
not willing to do that. They want
11:25
things a certain way, but they want it the
11:27
way they want in the
11:29
mid seventies. Phil worked for
11:31
his brother's talent management agency
11:34
and he designed album covers for rock
11:36
band. Kind of cool. No, it
11:38
is kind of cool. It's also cool to
11:40
see how people ultimately
11:44
got to where they did, right? The route
11:46
that they took, you know, how many
11:49
people just out of high school burst
11:52
onto the set of
11:54
S and L or our
11:56
headlining big stadiums as
11:58
a comedian. It takes
12:00
work and you got to put in your due.
12:03
Yeah. But it was said that
12:05
Phil wanted to get away from
12:07
his self described introverted lifestyle. So
12:10
in 1975, Phil joined
12:12
the groundlings and improv group in
12:14
Los Angeles. He attended one of
12:17
their shows and volunteered
12:19
to participate. The groundlings
12:21
were so impressed by his performance
12:23
that they invited him to join
12:25
their group and take classes with
12:27
them. Oh, that's kind of impressive. It's
12:30
really cool. I also think,
12:32
you know, the groundlings is
12:35
a huge thing. A lot of SNL
12:37
characters came from there. It's, you
12:40
know, I think something akin to second city
12:42
in Chicago, a lot of SNL
12:45
cast members came from there as well.
12:48
But I think there's been a lot of famous people who
12:50
have gone through kind of both of those organizations.
12:54
Comedian Tracy Newman, a founder of
12:56
the groundlings told ABC, I
12:59
never saw an audience member come up
13:01
with that kind of excitement and energy.
13:04
It was like a hurricane hit that stage.
13:06
And I mean, in a good way, Phil
13:09
married his second wife, real
13:11
estate agent, Lisa Jarvis in
13:13
1982, Lisa said she
13:15
realized their relationship was over
13:18
after a year of marriage. That's pretty
13:20
rough. It is, but you know, I'm
13:22
also kind of getting the feeling
13:24
here that, you know,
13:26
much like what the one
13:29
guy said about Phil, he
13:31
fell in love easily, but he had
13:33
a hard time making relationships work. I
13:36
don't know that he was the one doing
13:38
the leaving. It sounds like it
13:40
was his partners who were leaving
13:43
him. Lisa told 2020, my
13:46
sense of Phil was that he was really two
13:48
people. He was the guy who
13:50
wanted to draw and write and
13:52
think and create and come up with ideas.
13:55
He was the actor and entertainer, and
13:58
then he was the recluse. Okay.
14:00
Can't say I know anybody like that. Nobody?
14:05
Well, I'm not an actor or entertainer, but,
14:08
and I wouldn't call myself a recluse, but
14:10
I do enjoy my
14:12
time. I love spending
14:14
time with my wife and the family, but
14:16
once they go to bed, then it becomes
14:18
kind of my time. For a very long
14:20
time. And I do kind of tend to
14:22
stay up late. Yes. She said
14:24
in a 1998 interview with People, he
14:27
would disappear emotionally. Phil's body
14:29
would be there, but he'd be in his
14:31
own world. That passivity made
14:34
you crazy. And when I'd
14:36
protest, he'd say, you're getting in the
14:38
way of my career and this is who
14:40
I am and what it's going to be
14:42
like. Focused on his
14:44
career. Yeah. And I do think
14:47
a lot of people who become
14:49
very successful do kind of
14:51
have that one track mind, you
14:54
know, whether it's real estate
14:56
or business or acting
14:58
or singing, they
15:01
pour everything into this
15:04
one thing in order
15:06
to become successful sports,
15:09
right? Basketball, baseball, football.
15:12
It takes up all of their,
15:14
you know, time and energy, which
15:16
can be very hard if you're
15:18
trying to have a relationship with
15:21
this person, because you're
15:23
not number one. No, they
15:25
may love you, but you're not number one. But
15:27
there's a lot of successful people that
15:30
got that way because they put themselves first. Or
15:33
whatever their goal was.
15:35
Yes. First. Yes. And
15:37
by extension themselves. So I get what you're
15:39
saying, but there's a price to pay
15:41
for that. Right? Of course.
15:43
Yeah. And I think in
15:46
many cases it's the prices,
15:48
relationships, things like
15:50
that. Lisa and Phil got divorced
15:52
in 1985. Phil
15:55
spent 11 years performing with
15:57
the Groundlings, but he did have
15:59
other actors. gigs in
16:01
the late 70s. Phil helped
16:03
Paul Rubens, a fellow groundlings
16:05
performer, create the character Pee-Wee
16:08
Herman. I did not know
16:10
that before we started researching this episode.
16:13
He even co-wrote the movie Pee-Wee's
16:15
Big Adventure and played Captain
16:17
Carl on the Pee-Wee Herman show. So,
16:21
you know, dating myself here, but that is
16:23
a show that I did watch back in
16:25
the day before I
16:27
knew what Paul Rubens was
16:30
going to get into. But
16:32
it was such a strange show for
16:35
the time. Like just had never seen
16:37
anything like it. Yeah, for sure. Yeah.
16:40
I know you love that voice. Yeah. But
16:42
think about that, right? 11
16:45
years performing with the groundlings. And I'm
16:47
sure he was not making a
16:49
boatload of money. No, but man,
16:52
talking about some amazing connections. And experience
16:54
and all that. But it goes back
16:56
to the, you know, you have to
16:58
pay your dues. Phil's big break came
17:00
in the fall of 1986 when
17:03
he joined Saturday Night Live as a
17:05
writer and performer, and
17:07
he is arguably best known for
17:10
his SNL sketches. Some
17:12
of his most memorable sketches were
17:14
based on his impressions of Bill
17:16
Clinton and Frank Sinatra. And
17:18
he did do a great clip. And you
17:21
kind of always remember the person
17:23
who does the sitting president
17:26
during that time span. Yeah.
17:28
Like you remember Will
17:31
Ferrell doing George W.
17:34
Yes. And you remember Dana Carvey
17:37
doing George H. It
17:40
just is just how it goes. I
17:43
even remember John
17:45
Lovett's doing Dukakis for
17:48
some reason. The political
17:50
people, they were so
17:52
good at it, doing them. You
17:54
can remember them. There was one that
17:56
I remember where, you know, Hartman's
17:59
playing Clinton. and Clinton's out
18:01
running. He's getting some exercise
18:04
and he's got all the secret service
18:06
with him and stuff. And he stops
18:08
at like a McDonald's or a fast
18:10
food restaurant to kind of talk to
18:12
people. And he says,
18:15
are you going to eat those fries?
18:17
And he starts taking food off everybody's
18:19
plates. And then he's eating as he
18:21
runs by the restaurant. Phil
18:24
set a record by
18:26
participating in 153 episodes.
18:29
Other cast members called him the glue
18:31
because he held the show together. Now,
18:35
my thought is that that record has
18:37
probably been broken because that
18:39
Keenan Thompson has been on there for,
18:41
I swear like 20 years. It seems
18:43
like, I think he left for a
18:46
little while and then maybe came back, but he
18:48
has been on the show for a long time.
18:50
Soon after joining SNL, Phil
18:53
went on a blind date and met
18:55
his future wife, Bryn Omdahl. Bryn's
18:58
birth name was Vicki Jo
19:00
Omdahl. She grew up in
19:02
Thief River Falls, Minnesota, and
19:05
had what was described by
19:07
her brother Greg as an
19:09
idyllic childhood. Would you say
19:11
you had an idyllic childhood? Yeah.
19:14
Mine was pretty good. Yeah, I can't complain. I
19:16
don't know if it was idyllic, but
19:18
it was really good. I mean, it was
19:21
good. According to people, Bryn
19:23
dropped out of high school and
19:25
got married to Doug Torfin, a
19:27
phone operator. She did some modeling
19:29
in Minneapolis before she decided to
19:32
move to California for better opportunities.
19:34
A lot of people do that,
19:36
right? They move to California. If
19:39
you were stuck in the Midwest
19:41
somewhere and you wanted to
19:43
be a model or an actor or an
19:45
actress, where were you going to go? Either
19:48
California or New York? Yeah. It's
19:50
really your only options. Most likely. Especially back then.
19:53
Bryn's dream was to be a model and actress,
19:55
and it seemed like she was off to a
19:57
good start. In the mid 80s, she She
20:00
signed with a modeling agency
20:02
and worked as a swimsuit
20:04
model for Catalina swimwear. In
20:06
her spare time, she went to auditions. Then
20:09
you do some modeling back in your high
20:11
school days. For Catalina swimwear,
20:13
which is quite a coincidence. It's very,
20:15
yeah, I mean, you know, that's
20:17
what you're into. Those little,
20:19
uh, banana hammock. Did
20:22
you just say banana hammock? I was about
20:24
to say banana hammock. Oh, we all know
20:26
what you meant to say. I'm
20:29
just saying, do you know what you really say? Banana
20:32
hammock. So you know,
20:35
she was figuring out her identity as
20:38
a lot of people do when they're young.
20:40
Sure. And she eventually decided to change
20:42
her name, which is how she went from
20:45
Vicki to Brent. Brent's brother
20:47
Greg told ABC that she developed
20:49
a cocaine problem when she first
20:51
moved to LA. He
20:53
convinced her to go to rehab and she
20:56
was mostly sober for years. Well,
20:58
if you're talking about California or
21:00
LA is specifically in the 1980s
21:02
and you're running
21:05
around in some circles
21:07
with actors or models, you're
21:10
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21:12
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code WONDRY. Phil
23:18
and Bryn had a strong connection from
23:21
the beginning. An unnamed friend
23:23
told people he had never had a
23:26
quote unquote babe before
23:29
and she was it for him. He married
23:31
his dream girl and Bryn
23:34
was a very beautiful woman.
23:36
However, people reported that Bryn
23:38
and Phil were emotional opposites.
23:41
Biographer Mike Thomas told Salon
23:44
magazine his relationships would
23:46
always start out very intensely.
23:50
Intense emotionality, sexuality,
23:53
and then they would eventually peter out.
23:55
I mean with Phil, he was always on
23:58
the hunt for the new. The Frans. and
24:00
he had an artist's eye for beauty.
24:03
So it sounds like he kind of
24:05
got bored with the current
24:07
relationship and basically
24:10
didn't have anything else and
24:12
basically didn't have anything else to talk about
24:14
and just wanted something new. Well,
24:17
let's face it, there are some
24:20
guys who are all about
24:22
the hunt. And then
24:24
once they are able to
24:27
be with this person who they've
24:29
been trying to court or whatever
24:31
you wanna call it, then that
24:34
kind of is it for them. They go
24:36
on to look for somebody
24:38
else. It's almost
24:40
as if it's the pursuit that
24:44
drives them and not so
24:46
much the actual
24:48
relationship. And I have to
24:50
say, that seems like it would be a very sad
24:53
and lonely existence. It really seems
24:56
like to me. No,
24:58
I agree with you. Yeah, yeah, for sure it would be.
25:00
Not to mention the fact that you're probably hurting
25:02
a lot of people along the way. In
25:05
a different interview, Thomas said about
25:08
Phil's relationships. But as the
25:10
months go on, the cracks begin to show. And
25:12
Phil does what he did with his
25:15
last two relationships. He begins to withdraw
25:17
emotionally. They begin this pattern of
25:19
fighting and making up and
25:22
fighting and making up and
25:24
that would really mark their relationship
25:26
from there on out. And
25:28
I wonder how much of that, and
25:31
I don't know about Phil specifically, but I
25:33
do think there are some people who, they
25:36
get scared that
25:38
the relationship is going to
25:40
end. So it's almost like they
25:43
preemptively start to withdraw, which
25:45
almost inevitably is going to
25:47
cause the relationship to fail. Because
25:49
they're trying to keep themselves from
25:52
being hurt. Yes. So they'll
25:54
take the first step and... But
25:56
maybe it would never happen if they wouldn't. But
25:59
in their mind, they think... It will happen. And
26:01
then I also think there are couples
26:03
or, you know, people in relationships that,
26:05
you know, they, they have this
26:08
fight makeup, fight makeup
26:10
kind of dynamic.
26:13
Yeah. That's just not good. Well, it's
26:16
not, but some people can get addicted
26:18
to it. Sure they can. They like
26:20
the drama. Yeah. You like the drama.
26:22
You also, the makeup part
26:24
is great, but to
26:26
me that sounds exhausting. I would just
26:28
think you're always going to be on eggshells waiting for
26:30
the next fight to come around. Or
26:32
you're going to be the one trying to figure out when
26:34
to start the next fight. That's true too. Yeah. Phil
26:37
and Bryn got married in 1987. Their
26:40
son Sean was born a year later after
26:43
Phil's son was born. He called
26:45
his ex-wife, Lisa Jarvis, to tell
26:47
her he was a father. As
26:49
reported by ABC, Lisa
26:51
wrote a card that said something to the
26:54
effect of dear Phil and Bryn, much
26:57
love from aunt Lisa. If
26:59
you ever need a babysitter, I'm
27:01
so thrilled for you. Now I did
27:03
find that a little strange. You
27:05
know, some people have really,
27:08
really good relationships with their exes.
27:11
So maybe it's not that strange,
27:13
but you know, you're going to call
27:15
your ex and say, Hey, guess what? Not
27:17
only am I remarried, but I'm a
27:19
daddy. Yep. I'm a dad. And she's probably like,
27:22
okay, great. But it sounds like she was very
27:24
gracious. You know, she sent a
27:26
nice letter, but according to Lisa, she
27:29
got back a letter that was hair curling,
27:31
fury, rage, and
27:33
a death threat from Brent.
27:36
The gist of it was don't
27:38
ever fucking get near me or my
27:40
family, or I will hurt you. I
27:43
never want to hear from you. Never,
27:45
ever, ever come near us or you
27:47
will really be sorry. That's
27:50
brutal. That is brutal, but
27:52
she's probably trying to protect her, uh, interest
27:55
in her man and obviously her child.
27:58
Yeah. Maybe in her mind, she is. Well,
30:00
and I think that's why so many of the
30:02
relationships don't work. Like when
30:05
two stars are together. Yeah. Not
30:07
to mention the fact that oftentimes
30:11
they're both off in different parts
30:13
of the world on different sets
30:15
or whatever it is. Any
30:18
good quality time together. Yeah. But
30:21
you could see how that could be frustrating
30:23
for her, right? She wants to be a
30:26
model. She wants to be an actress. It's
30:29
not working out, but you know,
30:31
here's Phil who's on SNL,
30:33
you know, every Saturday night,
30:35
he's becoming this big star.
30:38
Everyone loves him. Yeah. Well,
30:40
why, why am I not making it? Right? Why can't
30:42
I do? Bren's friend,
30:44
Susan Stadner recalled that
30:46
Bren got plastic surgery due
30:49
to low self-esteem, a
30:51
plastic surgeon who operated on her
30:53
told people that Bren wanted to
30:55
be the perfect wife of a
30:57
Hollywood actor. The Hartman's former nanny
31:00
in New York reported that some of
31:02
the surgery was Phil's idea. He
31:04
thought Bren's face was too round and
31:07
wanted her chin to be more
31:09
square. Okay. Not
31:11
sure what the real truth
31:14
is. And maybe both of them are true.
31:17
I can't imagine going to my wife
31:19
and saying, you know what, honey, I've
31:22
been thinking about it. Your face is
31:24
just too round. And I need for
31:26
your chin to be more square. Can we square
31:28
that off a little bit? You
31:30
know how that conversation
31:32
would go. Not good for you.
31:34
No, there would be a
31:37
number of expletives and I'd
31:39
be told where I could stick that idea. And
31:41
I don't know how this helps somebody with self steam
31:44
issues. I don't think it does at
31:46
all. Yeah. Because you're basically telling them
31:49
that they're not good enough. Right. In
31:51
your eyes. If this is how it
31:54
really went down as
31:56
relayed by this former nanny, it's
31:58
definitely not you loving. And
36:00
it's like, how do I stay
36:02
here? Yeah. How do I stay on top?
36:04
When am I going to be knocked off?
36:06
Because everybody gets knocked off at some point,
36:09
except for, you know, Tom
36:12
Hanks. Nothing ever happens to
36:14
Tom Hanks. Now, sometimes some
36:16
of them make a comeback, right? And
36:18
their second go around is actually
36:20
better than their previous go around.
36:23
Sure. Maybe it's not movies.
36:25
Maybe they switch to TV or whatever it
36:27
is. Phil's work
36:29
schedule increased in the nineties. He was
36:31
still working on SNL and the Simpsons
36:34
and was doing commercials for big brands
36:36
like Cheetos and McDonald's. He
36:38
was also a regular on late night
36:41
talk shows. He wasn't home as often
36:43
as Bren wanted him to be. And
36:46
I think it's pretty hard to be home when
36:48
you have that much stuff going on. I
36:51
mean, Saturday Night Live is done
36:53
in New York. Yeah. So if
36:55
you're living in California, obviously
36:57
you're going to be gone for a number of
36:59
days, rehearsal, the
37:02
taping, all of that. And if you're doing
37:04
a movie, if you're doing commercials, it's not
37:06
a lot of time for home life. No,
37:09
it's not. Biographer Mike
37:11
Thomas explained that Phil might have
37:13
liked the idea of fatherhood more
37:16
than the work of being a parent. And
37:19
that's a very interesting statement.
37:22
Being a father is great. It's
37:25
one of the greatest joys
37:28
of my entire life. I agree. But
37:31
there's a boatload of work involved. Yeah,
37:33
not easy. And being a parent, it's
37:35
not an easy thing. And I do
37:37
think there are some people who have
37:40
this notion of being a parent, but
37:43
when it comes to
37:45
doing everything involved, especially
37:47
if you're a guy like that who
37:49
has a very busy schedule. When
37:51
you get home from doing all of these
37:54
things, are you then
37:56
changing all the poopy diapers? Right. I
37:58
don't know. Yeah, I mean, I think. There's
38:00
definitely a difference between being a father or
38:02
a mother versus a parent. I
38:05
mean, to be a parent, you're
38:07
parenting. And that's a lot of work. Oh,
38:09
you mean as opposed to just biologically
38:12
being this person's mom
38:14
or dad. Yeah, I get it. I give a true
38:16
sign. Bren was resentful
38:18
because Phil was always working. And
38:21
again, she was jealous of his
38:23
successful career. Well, at some point
38:25
you have to realize it
38:27
is what it is, right? Yeah,
38:30
I think so. And you
38:32
know, you're that you're also benefiting
38:34
from it as well. You know,
38:37
you have the wealth that allows you
38:39
to live in, in the big
38:42
house and be financially secure. But
38:44
it sounds to me like she kind of
38:46
never let go of the, some of those
38:48
dreams that she had of either
38:51
being an actress or being a big model
38:53
or, or whatever it was. Bren's
38:56
brother Greg told ABC, she
38:58
just wanted to be more part of the
39:00
spotlight than she was. You know? And
39:03
again, I do think that would be hard
39:05
for some people. You're married to
39:08
someone who's on magazine covers,
39:10
who's on the television all
39:12
the time. And you're not getting
39:14
that same type of spotlight. No,
39:17
nowhere near it. Phil and Bren
39:19
argued often she was
39:21
described as volatile and insecure
39:23
about her husband's fame by
39:25
people magazine. Phil was
39:27
outwardly genial, but sullen and
39:30
withdrawn in private. Phil
39:32
once told his friend I go into my
39:34
cave and she throws grenades to get me
39:37
out. Phil's friend, Steve small
39:39
later told the LA times, she
39:41
had trouble controlling her anger. She
39:43
got attention by losing her temper. Phil
39:46
said he had to restrain her at
39:48
times. Okay. This sounds like a
39:51
really rocky marriage. It really does. I
39:54
think you're also seeing the
39:56
difference of on camera or in public.
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42:11
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42:13
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42:15
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42:17
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42:19
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42:21
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42:24
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42:27
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42:30
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42:32
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42:34
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44:17
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44:19
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44:23
rock from the sun. And that's a show
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I used to watch a lot as well after
44:27
nearly a decade of sobriety. Brin
44:30
began drinking and using drugs
44:33
in late 1997. Phil's
44:35
co-star Andy Dick gave cocaine
44:37
to Brin at a Christmas
44:39
party. And you know, back in the
44:42
day, Andy Dick was pretty funny. I
44:44
know he's gotten into quite a bit of
44:46
trouble. Controversy. In,
44:49
in recent years, Dick
44:51
spoke to 2020 years later and
44:53
said, she was already in
44:55
relapse mode, which I didn't even know
44:58
she had a problem with at all. In the
45:00
first place, Brin was taking
45:02
Zola, an antidepressant at
45:05
the time of her death, according to the
45:07
Mayo clinic. And aggressive
45:09
reaction is a less
45:11
common side effect of Zola. She
45:14
turned 40 the month before she died.
45:17
And she struggled to accept the fact
45:19
that she was aging as
45:21
do we all. Yeah. Coming
45:23
from a guy who at
45:26
the time this episode airs, we'll
45:28
just have had another birthday in
45:31
another year older. Yeah. And they
45:34
seem to be coming faster
45:36
and faster. Oh, happy birthday.
45:38
Appreciate that. In the months
45:40
leading up to the murder, she was in
45:42
and out of rehab. She also checked
45:44
into a clinic in Arizona, but
45:47
only stayed four or five days before
45:49
she left. Brin was drinking
45:51
and using cocaine again days before
45:53
her death, which can
45:56
cause negative side effects when
45:58
mixed with antidepressants. Not
46:00
a good combination. No, and a
46:02
lot of people take antidepressants, probably
46:04
more now so than ever
46:07
before. Sure. There are
46:09
quite a few things that you're not
46:12
supposed to take with them. I
46:14
think I know more people that take them than
46:16
don't take them. God, I'm right with
46:18
you. According to a
46:20
TV producer who knew the family, Bryn's
46:23
erratic behavior caused their housekeeper to
46:25
quit 10 days before
46:27
the murder-suicide. According
46:29
to Greg Omdahl, Bryn and Phil were
46:32
fighting more than usual. By the spring
46:34
of 1998, they saw a
46:36
counselor, which they said helped.
46:39
They wanted to improve for each other. I
46:41
think that's a good step. Yeah, I think
46:43
if you're having problems, or sometimes even
46:46
if you're not having problems, but it's
46:48
just getting kind of stale. Or you
46:50
think things could be better. Yeah. But
46:52
the wanting to improve, the
46:55
relationship, and then each other
46:57
on their own, that's a big
46:59
step. You got to have the want to. Sure.
47:02
Yeah, it's not going to do any good if you're dragging your
47:04
feet going into the therapy. However,
47:07
back in 1998, Bryn's
47:09
childhood friend, Jeannie Peterson, told
47:11
people that Bryn wanted out
47:14
of her marriage. Peterson said she
47:16
had been trying to get a divorce
47:18
for two years, but Phil wouldn't agree
47:20
to it. Others say it was Phil
47:22
who was ready to end the marriage. So
47:25
there is a little bit of a debate, I guess. Depending
47:28
on who you talked to about
47:31
who really wanted to end the
47:33
marriage and who didn't. No doubt. There's
47:36
a lot of people that are in a marriage right now that don't
47:38
want to be in it, but they're not going
47:40
to do anything about it because of many reasons.
47:42
Yeah. So there's people listening right
47:44
now who are saying, yes, yes,
47:47
Gibby. I am one of those
47:49
people. I would like to get out. But I can't.
47:51
On May 28th, 1998, Bryn
47:54
fatally shot Phil inside there in
47:57
Cino home and then shot herself
47:59
in the head. hours later on
48:01
the evening of May 27th, family
48:04
babysitter Lorraine Moss was waiting for
48:06
Phil to get home because
48:08
it was almost time for her to go. Bren
48:10
had already left and said she
48:13
wasn't coming back until late that evening.
48:15
Bren went out to a restaurant with
48:18
her friend Christine Zander. Zander
48:20
told people she was in
48:22
a good frame of mind. She seemed content.
48:24
Bren drank two cosmos over
48:27
two hours. According to
48:29
Zander, she didn't talk about any problems in
48:31
her life and they'd made plans
48:33
to see each other the next weekend. The
48:36
bartender at the restaurant said that nothing
48:39
seemed off about Bren. She
48:41
and her friend were smiling and laughing
48:43
during dinner. When Bren left she told
48:45
him I'll be back real soon and
48:48
I'll be sure to bring Phil next time.
48:50
It's kind of an interesting encounter.
48:53
You know, two cosmos over a
48:55
couple of hours. Okay. It's
48:57
nothing crazy. It's not like she
48:59
drank five pitchers of margaritas
49:01
in an hour. Yeah. Seems
49:03
pretty standard for a night out. Yeah.
49:06
And then you have all of these
49:08
interactions making it
49:10
seem as though she
49:13
wasn't a person on the brink
49:15
of, you know, committing some horrendous
49:17
act. Yeah. At 10 15
49:19
p.m. Bren drove to her
49:22
friend and former lover Ron Douglas's
49:24
home. Douglas said that Bren drank
49:26
a few beers and complained
49:28
about Phil. She left his house
49:30
at 12 45 a.m. and drove herself
49:34
home. It's a little strange,
49:36
you know, if you're married what are you
49:38
doing at your ex-lover's house? Well,
49:41
and is it also the difference
49:43
in how you're going to act
49:46
when you're out in public versus
49:49
behind closed doors? Absolutely. But
49:51
for someone to be so jealous just about
49:53
a letter that Phil's ex-wife said
49:56
now she's over at her ex-lover's house.
50:00
Well, does that mean that
50:02
she knew that she was
50:05
going to do something? Authorities
50:08
believe that Brennan Phil got into
50:10
an intense argument that ended with
50:12
her shooting him in his sleep.
50:15
Steven small, a friend of Phil said
50:18
he made it very clear that if she
50:20
started using drugs again, that
50:22
would end the relationship small
50:24
describe the typical pattern of the
50:26
couple's arguments. She had to
50:29
get amped up to get his attention. And
50:31
when she got amped up, he would
50:33
simply go to sleep. He would withdraw
50:35
and in the morning he'd wake up
50:38
and everything would be fine. And
50:40
I do think there are some people like
50:43
this. You know, they need the
50:46
attention. And so they
50:48
create drama or, you know,
50:50
some type of scene because
50:53
they're trying to draw some type
50:55
of emotion out of
50:57
their partner. Right. Yeah. It sounds
50:59
like maybe that's what she was trying to
51:01
do. It also sounds like he
51:03
wasn't having any of it. He sounded
51:06
like he didn't care. You, you, you go ahead
51:08
and yell at me. You can say the nastiest
51:10
things about me. I'm just going to
51:12
go ahead and close my eyes and go to sleep. And
51:14
tomorrow morning, it's going to be back to normal. It
51:17
was almost as if she couldn't get the
51:19
rise out of him that she was trying
51:21
to get. The couple's son, Sean
51:23
later told the police that he heard
51:26
the slamming of a door around the
51:28
time of the shooting. Both
51:30
children were in their bedrooms. When the
51:33
shooting occurred at 3 45. A.M.
51:35
Ron Douglas was woken up by someone
51:37
pounding on his front door. He
51:40
saw that Bryn was outside per
51:42
ABC. Bryn told him, I killed
51:44
Phil. I don't know why Douglas
51:47
didn't believe her. Bryn called
51:49
another friend and confessed what she
51:51
did, but Douglas was still
51:54
doubtful. And again, this
51:56
Douglas guy is her ex lover.
51:58
Yeah. So. It's kind of
52:00
strange that she went back to him, but he
52:03
didn't believe Bren until a gun fell out
52:05
of her purse. He put it
52:07
in the trunk of his car and they
52:09
drove separately to Bren's home. Douglas
52:12
saw Phil's body in bed.
52:14
He went into the hallway to call 911 at 6 20 AM. Okay.
52:19
So your ex lover
52:22
shows up at your house saying
52:24
that she just shot and
52:26
killed her husband, you're
52:29
dubious until a gun falls
52:31
out of her purse. And this
52:33
guy's first thought is to pick the gun
52:35
up and put it in his own trunk.
52:37
Yeah. I thought that was very
52:39
strange. Now I get it.
52:41
You probably don't want her to have it.
52:44
Yeah. So you're going to secure it in a place
52:47
that you feel like you can do that. But
52:49
I also feel like the true crime
52:51
person in me is screaming. Don't
52:53
touch it. Don't touch it. And especially don't
52:55
put it in your own trunk. Yeah.
52:58
Cause at that point she could say he killed
53:01
Phil because he was jealous. Yeah.
53:03
You know, I had been with him
53:05
the night before or whenever it was.
53:08
So he sees Phil's body. He
53:10
calls 911. Then
53:13
he saw that Bren had locked herself
53:15
inside the bedroom. The police
53:17
arrived soon after and found nine year
53:19
old Sean running out the front door
53:22
as officers were removing Bergen from
53:25
the house. They heard a gunshot
53:27
and found both Phil and Bren dead
53:29
in the main bedroom. She was
53:32
lying beside him on the bed. Phil
53:34
was shot twice in the head and
53:36
once in his right side with a 38 caliber handgun,
53:40
it was one of several weapons. Phil kept in
53:42
a safe in the house. Bren
53:44
was killed by a self-inflicted gunshot
53:46
wound to the mouth. So
53:49
a pretty horrific scene. She
53:51
kills him. Then she turns
53:54
the gun on herself. They
53:56
wind up lying in the same bed
53:58
next to each other. Yeah,
54:01
almost as if she realized
54:03
what she had done. She was
54:05
sorry about what she had done
54:07
and she knew she couldn't live
54:09
with herself over what she
54:11
had done. Now she could have
54:14
shot herself anywhere. Sure.
54:17
Is it significant that she
54:19
shot herself in the
54:21
same bed where he
54:23
was? And my thinking is
54:25
it, there probably is some significance
54:27
to it. Both children
54:29
were distressed and confused in the
54:31
aftermath of the murder suicide, they
54:34
were taken to a police station
54:36
for questioning. Family friend, Joel
54:38
Diamond took the children from the police
54:40
station to a park. Sean
54:42
told him, my mom promised me
54:44
she'd take me to a lot of fun
54:46
places and now she'll never be
54:49
able to. How sad. Yeah. I
54:51
mean, those kinds of statements
54:53
made by young kids,
54:55
it just break your heart. Bergen
54:58
said, I know I'll never
55:00
see my mommy and daddy again.
55:03
Again, Bergen's even younger. Yeah.
55:06
It's just tough. You know what I mean? These kids
55:08
at that time were so little and you lose
55:10
both your parents. In the
55:12
way that it happened. In the way that it happened.
55:14
Because I always think about that. You know, if
55:17
they were involved in a fatal car
55:19
accident and they both died, yeah, that
55:22
would be one thing. It's still going to
55:24
be horrible for them. Absolutely. But
55:26
to know that your mom
55:28
shot your dad and
55:30
then shot herself, that's a different
55:34
level of processing
55:36
that's going to have to happen
55:38
over the years. That's definitely some
55:40
more intense therapy. Yeah. Bryn's
55:43
toxicology report was released on June
55:45
8th, 1998. Her
55:48
blood alcohol level was 0.12. She
55:52
had cocaine and antidepressants in
55:54
her system as well. According
55:57
to Phil's brother, John Hartman, the
55:59
corner. him that Bren
56:01
had combined Zoloft with alcohol
56:04
and she did not know what she was doing
56:06
or why she was doing it. He
56:09
said, I took that as true and
56:11
I forgave her in that moment.
56:13
Yeah, I think, you know, she kind
56:15
of realized she did something wrong when she
56:17
went over to her ex lover's house and
56:20
said, I killed Phil and I don't know why.
56:22
Well, we talked about the
56:25
mixing of drugs and alcohol
56:27
before. I mean, some of
56:29
this stuff just on its own can do
56:31
some things to you. But when you
56:33
start mixing a bunch of different things,
56:36
antidepressants, cocaine, alcohol,
56:40
the side effects can be devastating.
56:43
Phil's former co-star Andy Dick told 2020
56:45
that Phil's
56:47
SNL co-star John Lovitz blamed
56:49
him for causing Bren
56:51
to relapse and therefore
56:54
causing the murder. Suica Dick
56:56
told 2020, I didn't cause her
56:58
to relapse. That's one of the misconceptions.
57:01
That is not true. Not
57:03
true. Like for real, I didn't
57:05
cause her to relapse and I didn't
57:07
give her cocaine. And then
57:09
she ran off, got a gun and
57:11
shot her husband and herself. No, that
57:13
happened six months later. So
57:16
obviously he was catching some
57:18
heat from different people. Now,
57:21
did he cause her to relapse? I don't know.
57:24
Was she using cocaine before he
57:26
gave her some at the party that night?
57:29
I don't know. There's also the issue
57:32
of she could have said, no, of
57:35
course I'm sober. I don't
57:37
want to take that. But obviously he
57:40
didn't cause the murder suicide. I
57:42
think that's pretty clear. You know,
57:44
like, like he said, it's not like
57:47
all of this happened at the same time.
57:49
The murder suicide happened six months
57:52
after this party. In
57:54
1999, Greg Omdahl filed a wrongful
57:56
death suit against Pfizer, which makes
57:58
Zoloft he alleged. that the
58:00
use of Zoloft caused Bren to not
58:02
know what she was doing and
58:05
shoot her husband. When she came out of
58:07
it, she shot her cell.
58:09
Pfizer issued a statement to
58:12
salon health that there's no
58:14
scientific or medical evidence that
58:16
Zoloft causes violent or suicidal
58:18
behavior. The suit was settled for
58:21
a hundred thousand dollars and there was
58:23
no admission of any wrongdoing. And
58:25
this is something that you and I have
58:27
experienced. We've talked about it
58:29
on a number of occasions. When
58:32
you are a big company, it
58:34
is often in your best
58:36
interest to settle some of these lawsuits.
58:38
Especially some of these quickly.
58:42
Well, and, and high profile. Yeah.
58:44
You know, for a fact that to
58:47
fight it, they would have spent more
58:49
than a hundred thousand dollars. Oh yeah.
58:51
And legal fees easily. And you don't
58:53
want people jumping on to
58:55
the lawsuit. Yes. So you want to go ahead
58:57
and just settle it, get it done, brush
59:00
it to the side and hope that it gets
59:02
buried and, and move forward. So
59:04
as we wrap this one up Gibbs, you know,
59:06
I said it's one that I've been wanting to
59:08
do for a long time, mainly because I just
59:11
really thought Phil Hartman was amazing
59:15
as a comedic actor. And
59:17
he still remembered today as
59:19
an extremely talented actor and comedian
59:22
in 2007, entertainment
59:24
weekly ranked Phil, 87th
59:27
on a list of a hundred
59:29
greatest television icons of all time.
59:31
Pretty, pretty good. There have been
59:34
a lot of people on television
59:36
over the last what? 60
59:39
plus years or however long television's been
59:41
around. So to be included
59:43
in the top hop 100, that
59:46
is pretty amazing. In 2015, Rolling
59:50
Stone named him one of the 10
59:52
greatest SNL performers in
59:54
the show's history. That's also a
59:57
really big achievement. If
59:59
you look at the, people who have come
1:00:01
and gone through SNL since the
1:00:04
1970s. It's
1:00:06
the who's who of comedic
1:00:08
actors. It really is. So many
1:00:10
great performers. Phil and Bryn's
1:00:13
children were raised by Bryn's sister
1:00:15
and her husband. The children
1:00:17
grew up out of the spotlight
1:00:19
and live private lives as adults.
1:00:22
Sean is now in his thirties and
1:00:24
has started a career as an artist
1:00:26
and musician. Bergen is
1:00:28
married and started her own business.
1:00:31
Bergen occasionally posts on social
1:00:33
media. In 2015, she
1:00:36
attended the 40th anniversary special
1:00:38
of SNL and spoke
1:00:41
to the Hollywood reporter around
1:00:43
the 25th anniversary of the Simpsons. You
1:00:45
know, these kids gotta be pretty tough
1:00:47
to, to get through what
1:00:50
they had to go through and,
1:00:52
um, come out what
1:00:54
appears to be pretty well
1:00:56
adjusted. And you mentioned
1:00:59
therapy earlier. I'm, I'm hoping there was
1:01:01
probably some of that. I'm sure there was. Yeah.
1:01:04
Yeah. But Phil Hartman was loved
1:01:06
by his fellow actors and many fans.
1:01:09
You know, he likely would have gone
1:01:11
on to star in many
1:01:13
more TV shows and films before
1:01:15
his retirement, he still considered
1:01:17
a great comedian and an
1:01:19
inspiration to many people in the
1:01:21
industry. And, you know, this is
1:01:24
a different type of story. I
1:01:27
think then a lot of the ones that we
1:01:29
do, you know, she didn't kill
1:01:31
him for greed. You
1:01:33
know, it wasn't for insurance money or
1:01:35
because she wanted to run off and
1:01:38
be with
1:01:41
somebody else and not
1:01:43
lose the kids or any of those reasons that
1:01:45
we see in a lot of the cases
1:01:48
that we do, I do think
1:01:50
there were a lot of factors that
1:01:52
played into this murder, suicide.
1:01:55
Their relationship seemed to be
1:01:57
a little toxic, pretty volatile.
1:02:01
at times, it's hard
1:02:03
to discount the drugs
1:02:06
and the alcohol and what
1:02:08
role did that play? At
1:02:10
the end of the day, it's just a sad
1:02:12
outcome for everyone. Yeah.
1:02:16
Devastated their family. Yeah, absolutely. But
1:02:18
that's it for our episode on the murder
1:02:20
of Bill Hartman. We've got some voicemails, Gibbs,
1:02:22
you want to check those out? Let's hear
1:02:24
them. Hi, guys. My name
1:02:26
is Alicia. I am a
1:02:31
prison advocate, social justice
1:02:33
organizer in California. I
1:02:36
was just listening to the
1:02:38
latest episode, the part two of Booty
1:02:40
Areas, and the question came
1:02:42
up about restitution. And I thought
1:02:44
I'd give you a call and give you a
1:02:47
little bit of information on it. But it's a
1:02:49
little bit different in Arizona, even if it is
1:02:51
in California, but not much here in California. People
1:02:55
that are incarcerated within CDCR and
1:02:57
owe restitution will have 50% of
1:02:59
their pay taken immediately. So they're
1:03:02
eight cents an hour, 16 cents
1:03:04
an hour, 32 cents
1:03:06
an hour will be cut
1:03:08
in half and immediately go to victim
1:03:10
restitution. If there's money
1:03:12
sent in, if you send money into your loved
1:03:15
one, you go through one of the websites to
1:03:17
pay. Your money is
1:03:19
automatically taken as well. If you send
1:03:21
$100, your loved one inside gets $50.
1:03:25
As far as who gets
1:03:27
or how many victims get
1:03:29
actually see the restitution, it's less
1:03:31
than 1%, at least out here in California. Most
1:03:35
victims don't even are not even
1:03:37
aware that there's a restitution plot sitting
1:03:39
for them. So it just kind of goes
1:03:41
untouched. It's
1:03:44
hard for me because these folks
1:03:46
inside, regardless of crime, are still
1:03:48
human beings and still need to
1:03:50
eat. And without
1:03:52
money, without commissary, they're not fed enough.
1:03:55
So this is something that we have
1:03:57
pushed back on quite a bit. Yeah.
1:04:00
And then I, I did look up Arizona and
1:04:02
their rules are just a little bit different. There's
1:04:04
a 20 as low as 20% and
1:04:06
up to 50% as automatically taken out. Hope
1:04:09
this helps. Um, I love y'all show. Thank
1:04:12
you so much. I am so addicted. I
1:04:14
listened to every single of the search guys
1:04:16
are amazing. Thanks so much. Keep it up.
1:04:18
It's your own time. Pick in the site. So
1:04:20
we only had one voicemail cause that one was a little
1:04:23
longer, but I wanted to play it cause I thought it
1:04:25
was some really good information. Now again,
1:04:27
if you're making eight cents an hour or 16 cents
1:04:30
an hour, okay. How long is
1:04:33
it going to take to pay back 40, 60, a
1:04:36
hundred thousand dollars? Yeah. You're never going to
1:04:38
pay it. No, but it
1:04:41
does, according to
1:04:43
her really kind of hurt
1:04:45
the inmate because that's just less that
1:04:50
they're able to use for commissary.
1:04:53
And I thought the part about garnishing
1:04:55
what is sent in by friends and family,
1:04:59
that was pretty interesting. I didn't, I
1:05:01
wasn't aware of that. No, I wasn't either. So
1:05:04
it does kind of, you
1:05:06
know, really hurt them. Yeah. And
1:05:08
now depending on their
1:05:10
crime, nobody's probably crying
1:05:12
for them, but uh, it's
1:05:15
just may, it seems like almost like
1:05:17
another form of punishment, I guess. But
1:05:20
that's it buddy for another episode
1:05:22
of true crime all the time. So
1:05:24
for Mike and Gibby, stay safe and
1:05:26
keep your own time ticking. Yeah.
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