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everyone, I'm Burn a Brown
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and this is a crossover
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dare to lead a locking
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Us episode. Hey bear it
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Hi! I'm excited about that
1:28
episode of were coming to
1:30
the end of an eight
1:32
episode series called Living Beyond
1:34
Human Scale, The possibilities, the
1:36
costs and the role of
1:38
community and the whole. Kind
1:41
of driver for me behind
1:43
this series was trying to.
1:46
Step. Maybe I don't know?
1:48
Backer up and look at what's going
1:51
on around us. It. Feels you
1:53
agree. It fills on tethering. A
1:55
does. Yes, I agree. Yeah, I think.
1:58
The. Velocity of Change
2:00
and social media shit
2:02
show. A I
2:04
conversations and every nook and cranny of
2:06
every organisation were doing work and. What
2:10
stands out to you is the most. Disorienting.
2:14
If anything as disorienting, He
2:16
I think it's interesting because between
2:18
the podcast episode that we've done
2:21
and in advance that we've been
2:23
doing over the last several weeks,
2:25
I think it says the uncertainty
2:27
that everybody's and and. Not.
2:30
Really understanding what's next? And then you
2:32
said something other than an event that
2:34
really has stuck in my head that.
2:37
Were already not on solid
2:39
ground and solid footing. So.
2:42
We don't have a real foundation. Even start
2:44
to build and understand what's next. Yeah me
2:46
I think that's true. I think by the
2:48
way, if you haven't guess at this is
2:51
episodes can be just me and Berets reflecting
2:53
back on these episodes and what we've learned
2:55
in front of. What? Are
2:57
go to plan is from what we've learned
2:59
and what we're so confused about which is
3:01
the biggest category of having. Of
3:03
a I think this is the point like he
3:05
has. A. I
3:08
social media. An.
3:10
Election year. Absolute devastation.
3:12
Of violence and tragedy all over
3:14
the world right now and. It's.
3:17
Important to understand what's happening.
3:21
And. Is more than I
3:23
think we're neurobiologically wired to handle.
3:26
right? And so the point that you
3:29
just brought up as like it's not
3:31
like we're hey sis. Leeway to get
3:33
real So make sure you're grounded, you're feeling
3:35
good about yourself and as well rested, well
3:37
said, well moves, You know, well connected. Let's
3:39
go. It's were on the ground and the
3:41
whole room spitting up and down and we're
3:43
trying to get on our hands and knees
3:45
and climb up and then all the ships
3:47
coming out of the same time because we're
3:49
not okay. People are not okay. You
3:53
think that the talking about the human
3:55
scale? Metaphor or Story
3:57
is worth repeating. I did it. Honestly, there's the
3:59
first podcast in this area yes I totally the
4:01
of a guy. So if you haven't listened to
4:04
a Sears the podcast the Thera which we did
4:06
lie that south by southwest which kicked off this.
4:08
Whole series. The idea came to me
4:10
because. Maybe ten or. Fifteen years ago
4:12
was getting my hair done. And.
4:16
D Stylist. At.
4:19
The salon looked at me at some
4:22
point I have like although spoils in
4:24
my hair. And I had my code.
4:26
Against my ear talking to somebody at
4:29
work and then I was also my
4:31
laptop sitting. Any goes, man you are
4:33
like shot. Added a Canon and I
4:35
was A and I was like. Dude.
4:38
And working I get you to your focus. I'll do
4:40
my focus. I got shit to do here. I'm at
4:43
work his appointments sick. ninety minutes to get to my
4:45
natural color. And
4:47
so like you focus on you, don't focus on
4:49
me and I just collect data and mm like.
4:53
I. Don't know. That means I'm sure that I'm kinda new,
4:55
I got shit to do and I'm on my laptop,
4:57
I'm on my phone and I'm. He
5:00
came back in that he goes loud really
5:02
live in beyond human scale. That's.
5:05
Okay, Enough is enough. He
5:07
went to hell so I gotta sell it
5:09
was my laptop and I said what do
5:11
you mean because I knew. When he said
5:13
you're living beyond human scale. When
5:16
I was like. With
5:19
a hundred foils in my hair and a
5:21
phone tucked under my ear by laptop open
5:23
I knew that looks like a maniac and
5:25
says it would have be living beyond human
5:27
scale and he said well I'm a private
5:29
pilot They said we for such a pilot's
5:31
license. It's really amazing
5:34
and I really to discuss. As you
5:36
know I took flying less attitude some
5:38
facilitated two seater cessna what I was
5:40
in high school as a way to
5:42
bond with my father. And so
5:44
he's I can you know use take flying. Lessons
5:46
in your in these old two
5:48
seater planes and it's really amazing
5:51
because you take off and you're
5:53
flying. An ear. As he said it. I
5:55
could feel it. And if the wind blows. Hard
5:58
the plane moves and is
6:00
you throttle down you. Can kind
6:02
of feel it in your stomach and
6:04
if you do this like you are
6:06
in a plane that spilt completely at
6:08
human scale as seats to people. It
6:11
goes fast, but not super fast. Said he
6:13
sucked but. He gets tired of
6:15
that and so then you want to fly
6:17
a jet? Whatever. Dot there because I never even
6:19
did my solo on the do that either. Human scale.
6:21
Plan them a desire At some point my fine structure
6:24
was like I really can't get tons of keep ticking
6:26
your money for these lessons because you have so many
6:28
hours now. We've done all the stuff you just gotta
6:30
go up by yourself and years that have like. Well
6:33
this is where our story in Mississippi. As if
6:35
you think of I'm going to get up in
6:37
the same thing by myself. You are.
6:40
Not. Okay, so. So.
6:43
He's a did you get the jet and he said
6:46
when you get the jet a supplying the jet he
6:48
can't feel anything. And
6:50
it's not built a human scale. it's
6:52
going like beyond human scale fast. And
6:54
now you're not in the moment at
6:57
all. Now you're thinking ahead. Thirty.
6:59
Seconds or a minute. You can't be in the
7:01
human moment, Because if you're in the human moment,
7:03
you die. You better think way out ahead. So
7:06
you've disembodied. And
7:08
your body is in this moment, but
7:10
your mind is in this moment and
7:13
you're thinking ahead as this is where
7:15
very. Few people passionate little planes but
7:17
in as the planes he said it's
7:19
controlled flight into terrain meaning. As.
7:22
A pilot you think you have control of the
7:24
flight to the minute you're dead. You decide to
7:26
the side the mountain and you're like oh I
7:28
wasn't born without thinking and he said so. I
7:30
think it feels like you look like you're living
7:32
beyond human scale of like. Like. Some
7:34
I'm I found my laptop and I'm trying to get signals
7:37
from outer space of my foil the my hair. Shut
7:39
up. You don't know me. For
7:42
Diddy. But he did omaha. I
7:45
never went back to that guy again as like
7:47
a Us visa leave me alone but I thought
7:49
about it ever said. So I wanted to do
7:51
the series on Living Beyond Human Scale. Were.
7:54
Just embodied. Were.
7:57
Not covered in our bodies were
7:59
not ground. Id and were been swept
8:01
away by and change. And so that's what
8:03
this was so soliciting. So we start our
8:05
mocking us with Astaire per Hour which is
8:08
great. What were your Big G take away
8:10
from that that the podcast. With us there
8:12
was never one. I just thought it
8:14
was. Really fun to be at
8:16
South by Southwest for that conversation and
8:18
to have the live audience that's I see.
8:22
The. Conversation just about social
8:24
Media A comparison and.
8:27
The connection is not really real and
8:29
I love how you kind of raymond
8:31
sometimes about social media is not a
8:33
tool for connection. Yeah as a
8:35
communication to yeah. And sightings for me.
8:37
That's where I sat in the conversation.
8:40
With. This their I think my big tag.
8:42
Away from hers when seen have thought. That
8:44
that image for the podcast on social media said
8:46
i have a thousand friends but no one to
8:48
feed my cat is it is. That is exactly
8:50
zero. Point I think like. Die.
8:52
We have ten or fifteen or something
8:54
million followers. On social media
8:57
I do get. I
8:59
know, twenty of them suspicious,
9:01
and then whatever. Twenty minus
9:03
fifteen million as that number.
9:06
Forty percent of them are just following hoping
9:08
that something really terrible happens to me. and
9:10
they've got some good collective Saddam Freud be
9:13
seen as I used to. Yeah, yeah yeah.
9:15
Once you get those numbers you got like
9:17
every week on Instagram I get something as
9:19
as. You add one hundred and
9:22
something thousand followers. That we believe or
9:24
spam. Yeah, unlike what Mister Nice they can
9:26
say to balance the people who are actually
9:28
real her hateful. but it's it's just. I
9:31
don't. I don't think we're built for it. so. Easy as he
9:33
frames it as artificial intelligence. Ah, the
9:35
ai as artificial intelligence. I loved that.
9:37
Oh yes, artificial intimacy. Oh yeah, or
9:39
yeah, I saw it on Illicit to
9:41
allow certain and I think. I
9:44
guess what? Am I did take away that I thought
9:47
of a lot? Is that attention as an undervalued form
9:49
of love. Ah yes! It's
9:52
Big. Yup, Highly
9:54
recommend Zola! Cinema say that. All of
9:57
them Okay Then we talked to William
9:59
Brady as. Your browser therapist.
10:01
Amazing. Live
10:03
conversation, funny fund.
10:06
And. Hard and really about loves.
10:09
Yeah, It. Was definitely there
10:11
are a lot of truth and that.
10:14
Then William Brady. Who is a scientist scientist
10:16
and he is so interesting because he said
10:18
his moral outrage on social media and the
10:21
importance and helpfulness of moral outrage or mean
10:23
there's a lot of shit we should be
10:25
absolutely outraged about. Mean if you look at
10:27
the treatment of some the student protesters if
10:29
you look at what's going on and Dawes
10:31
if you look at what's going on the
10:33
sedan congo me like is is a response
10:35
to that is not moral outrage. Then
10:39
I think something is wrong. What
10:41
I learned from this though. Was.
10:44
Helpful because this was the
10:46
start. Of this for me. Of.
10:52
understanding. And.
10:54
We talking about an indictment of late stage
10:56
capitalise on like. What
10:59
happens when you've got
11:01
technology including social media?
11:05
That's built. To.
11:09
Leverage human vulnerability
11:12
for commercial gain.
11:15
That is my big take away
11:17
from all this. Be honest with
11:19
you, what happens when moral outrage?
11:22
If. You stay the concept of moral outrage.
11:25
Which. I mostly state other people's research
11:27
on. I'll say it myself, but you
11:29
understand it does serve a purpose. Get
11:31
A It can be a catalyst for
11:33
activism and change in wonderful things. They
11:35
can also lead to dehumanization. Like for
11:38
me I just use the student protesters
11:40
as an example of he had the
11:42
treatment of them by armed basically military
11:44
looking police on campuses. To me great
11:46
moral outrage and me. The.
11:49
Treatment. Of. Jewish
11:51
students on campus. Also
11:53
creek moral outrage and me
11:55
and so I think one
11:57
of the problems. Is
12:00
that? With. Moral outrage
12:02
also comes to self righteousness
12:04
that we become the monster
12:07
were trying to kill. Yeah,
12:09
And i think what one thing that was
12:11
so into see this conversation for me was
12:13
kind is it. Common
12:15
enemy, intimacy and as vicious cycle
12:18
of. Connection.
12:20
That's not real, but oh do we hate the
12:22
same people so you kind of by yourself on
12:24
the. Extreme.
12:27
End of the spectrum because
12:30
years so. Looking
12:32
to belong to a group of people?
12:34
Gas and who when? Doctor Brady's how
12:37
about I thought it was really powerful
12:39
to find yourselves isn't as vicious cycle
12:41
of. Looking. For
12:44
connection. But is that really where you're gonna
12:46
find it? And is that really what you
12:48
believe? Are you just so far and now
12:50
to the connection that you think you have
12:52
with this community. And the
12:54
I do think that. There.
12:56
Are people in My life that unconnected to
12:58
genuinely. And
13:01
there is room for disagreement. In
13:04
Those relationships. That.
13:07
Counterfeit connection around moral outrage.
13:10
Is. So powerful. And
13:13
then the that the social. Learning of oh
13:15
the more outraged I am and in his
13:17
study that shows like they looked at power
13:19
hundreds of thousands of tweets and these things
13:22
and that it's talk to the people who
13:24
turn out to be less pissed off and
13:26
outraged. Then. What
13:28
They appear in their social and their avatars
13:30
on social media. but they're trying to belong
13:32
to a group of people. And more
13:34
outrageous you are. And they're. Harder
13:37
your comments are. The
13:39
more the algorithm put it in of
13:41
everyone eggs. Still a little sad part
13:43
to me. Yeah, because this is. Where
13:45
commerce meets exploitation of human
13:48
people. Because.
13:51
They. Need us to stay on
13:53
these platforms to service ads in
13:55
the second we forget that. Which.
13:58
Is fox yeah. King.
14:00
I mean we really are because.
14:03
I. Saw this are willing to this and the podcast
14:06
page on what every by to watch it is like
14:08
was life changing to me sending it to my kids.
14:11
There was a psychologist from
14:13
Oxford talking about are some
14:15
mental illnesses, illnesses or hashtag
14:18
and what happens when the
14:20
velocity of messaging around as
14:22
if you. Have these three things:
14:24
You have this diagnosis. Oh man. If
14:27
you have these for things you're probably this.
14:29
if you have these six I mean let
14:31
me tell you I'm not even kidding you
14:33
like I'm I take this test I was
14:35
out what I had such as a as
14:37
I am look at me like of a
14:40
social scientists. I'm like oh my god I
14:42
now I have five of these five things.
14:44
This is my diagnosis for sure and I'm
14:46
just not getting the right medication and if
14:48
I do get. The right medication. For.
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Whole life is gonna be great, but in
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I now and then the next slide little tell. You
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whatever you do too. I had
15:01
that medication. I mean you're like.
15:04
I know. Yeah, so I
15:06
think William Brady of A Lot to teach us
15:09
about polarization. About again, if
15:11
you're not. Outrage were some. Is that you're saying
15:13
you're not paying attention. But.
15:16
My. Whole new thing about advocacy
15:18
and activism. It's
15:22
an interesting place where that dissects
15:24
with my. Wouldn't
15:26
discuss the word I'm looking for dissects
15:29
Intersects Heirs have club dang son of
15:31
a secret suggests it. Sorry. For
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the wizards. Of
15:38
yesterday was issue the twelve. Death.
15:40
Twenty eight years of sobriety yesterday, so
15:43
happy Birthday didn't give. This.
15:45
Is Rising about activism now? Hey
15:48
friend! You. Take your inventory
15:50
about your activism and I'll take my
15:52
inventory about my activism. He.
15:55
Have no idea what I'm doing. You have no idea
15:57
what I'm giving. You have no idea who I'm talking
15:59
to, who and. Into I'm Calling Every week.
16:01
You don't know anything about what I'm doing
16:03
and it. You're going to evaluate what my
16:05
activism. From. What?
16:07
I do and social you have no understanding me
16:10
as me at all and I do the same
16:12
thing about you so I'll take my inventory. On.
16:15
Activism you take your inventory and my
16:17
hope for everybody is as they are
16:19
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16:22
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supply. Let's.
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Go to the next person. As craig lot
18:17
going on this was jailed to. Okay,
18:20
y'all need to listen to him. He
18:22
has a joint appointment at University of
18:25
Texas at Austin, her com an Mit
18:27
and I think the big take away
18:29
for me is that. When.
18:32
We start unleashing a i
18:34
invulnerable. Industries.
18:37
Like. Are. Vulnerable.
18:40
Spaces. Like police seen
18:43
prisons, healthcare, And.
18:45
We're not careful, Ai is just
18:47
a machine that people put stuff
18:49
in side of and will be
18:51
scaling and justice. And so the examples
18:54
he gives about that are so
18:56
powerful and I love where's that
18:58
quote. He taught me
19:00
the phrase the Alignment Problem I think the
19:02
praise the twenty years old that the Alignment
19:04
problem with a I scientists are we building
19:06
systems that are aligned with our values as
19:08
a democratic society. And the answer right now
19:10
is now. Seeing. What is you
19:12
think about the Us? I mean. Number
19:15
One. I was so grateful that he
19:17
spoke to us in terms that were
19:19
so easy to understand. Yeah, oh yeah
19:21
he's so good. Yeah he's so that
19:23
I love the he talked about the
19:25
right people been at the table to
19:28
do the ai systems. And
19:30
I are soldiers! Really loved.
19:33
Every. He really brought in to soak is for
19:35
me. Ai
19:37
is is what we make it. Yeah, and.
19:40
We're. Gonna screwed up for were going to make
19:42
a great and the other thing is that he
19:44
talked about that i thought was really. Disturbing.
19:48
Kind of. But and then. At
19:50
the same time hopeful to someone talking about
19:52
it is. That. We just don't
19:54
have any guard rails yet to wasn't about
19:56
nine. Years like he
19:58
was, he was the first. My enters
20:00
his courses with as was like the
20:02
first time I understood what the consequences
20:05
are. When. Tech move faster
20:07
than policy isn't. I
20:10
mean he said we're gonna look back way into the As
20:12
and be like what? Does the and are
20:14
we thinking and this idea that
20:16
when you're building a i. It's
20:19
great to have the engineers and the computational
20:21
mathematicians at the table, but you better have.
20:23
The ethicist, The people with
20:25
lived experience the liberal arts
20:27
folks. Like shot out all the liberal arts
20:29
people. Let's go. He asked the social workers.
20:32
the. Human as they better be at
20:34
the table to he I have a
20:36
last are just really lovely. Give a
20:38
shout out when he said, well so
20:41
far as thirty minute conversation, these said
20:43
scary Six tired or that's right, Yeah,
20:45
sure that you're smiling. From earlier to
20:47
see that a talk show off while I got
20:50
court and he was so gray late gay at
20:52
us so we love that part. I'm. So.
20:55
Thank you to him to. Okay so Jennifer bounty
20:58
know De Vries and Michael. Color both
21:00
New York Times just
21:02
Award winning. Journalist. They.
21:05
Wrote a piece for the New
21:07
York Times or bouts young girl
21:09
influencers on Instagram. Her managed by
21:12
their moms and then stopped by
21:14
men. And. Disco.
21:17
Lot a comments in A lot of feedback
21:19
across social. this was a hard conversation. It
21:22
really was. Yes, You. Know and. They're
21:25
reporting as am not. everyone's going to
21:27
go on their methodology but as as
21:29
a researcher I thought their methodology was
21:31
just so elegant and sophisticated. An amazing.
21:33
I thought the article was really disturbing
21:36
and scary and. Sad about.
21:39
Parents. running influence or
21:41
counts of young girls not really often
21:43
making a ton of money but gain
21:45
a lot of free stuff. And.
21:47
Then. The
21:50
men who follow those accounts and
21:52
release and. Completely
21:56
disturbing. Lewd. Inappropriate.
21:59
sexual. His. Comments:
22:02
In are scary and it was interesting because
22:04
I think we talk very much about how
22:06
you're reading. this in your focus is just
22:09
like where these mom's during, where these mom's
22:11
doing and in the invisibility. Of
22:14
the men. And.
22:18
I. Think the many to be held accountable. And
22:22
I don't think there there's there again. no guard
22:24
rails. Know. Elysee. The platforms
22:26
do exactly what they want. Yeah.
22:30
No. It's such an important piece to
22:32
understand, but it was also kind
22:34
of the underbelly of what social
22:36
media can be. But it's also
22:38
important to understand. You know his. Mom's.
22:41
Have kids and understanding what social media
22:43
isn't what it is is an. End
22:46
the conversation. I thought it was really
22:48
interesting that when they talk to they
22:50
talked to so many of the people
22:53
that they were interviewing that age and
22:55
start of most of them started off
22:57
and just site simple. Ways.
23:01
To really. Showcase. What
23:03
their kids are doing and all the sender
23:06
just materialize into this. Monster.
23:08
Thing almost that they couldn't sit down and.
23:10
So. I thought that was really interesting aspect and
23:12
that's where I was like really pause and doubles
23:15
like on the couldn't Shut Down. The
23:17
yeah. You know they
23:19
can set it down. They can set it
23:21
down. Yes. But
23:23
if you're listen, you're thinking yeah, you can
23:25
set it down. Well. Are
23:28
you listening right now And social media is hurting
23:30
you? But you're scrolling anyway? I know. Yeah, I
23:32
mean, Or are you. On social
23:34
media? Yeah, Are you scrolling Vs? Does
23:36
it hurt you? Yes, Yes. At one
23:39
thirty am when I'm like damn, I
23:41
gotta be up to five, Yes, Yes,
23:43
yes. And set you know mentally Isn't
23:45
all of it? Yeah. So and now
23:47
we're we as somebody and our organization.
23:50
The other day we had this conversation
23:52
and in you ask them. Why?
23:54
Are you so on Sesame and I can't
23:57
remember what their response was, that it was
23:59
something along the. That because this is how
24:01
we all stay connected and communicate with each
24:03
other and want to mess and aghast. How
24:05
do I and I don't know? I
24:08
got a as a me for years I just a
24:10
mental health other than as a kind of a public
24:12
figure and. Literally. You
24:14
know me, probably better than. You've
24:17
known me since the moment they brought you'd
24:19
Actually, I know. I mean, can you think
24:21
of anyone who's less cut out to be
24:23
public? The Me know? I keep. I
24:26
mean. I'm super
24:28
introverted, And I get
24:31
my feelings hurt. Yeah, And I
24:33
keep my feelers open because that's what my research part
24:35
of me like: cities that I'm terrible at. It
24:37
and. Everyday and thinking. And
24:40
to set this whole thing down. And. As
24:42
such a double edged sword, this conversation
24:44
was really helpful and is kind. I'll
24:46
a sign the light in. Some.
24:49
Areas to. Pay. Attention to them as
24:51
a good conversation like that either
24:53
own caption I think on social
24:55
media ironically. That.
24:59
I. Got really judge he. I
25:02
came out that podcast saying I'm a
25:04
lock. All the men up for our
25:06
yeah and there are many. Get the
25:09
moms and some deep therapy and then
25:11
I'm in a. Enact the rules
25:13
that they haven't for And France No
25:15
one under eighteen on social media. Yeah,
25:18
And. Not a game but your kids
25:20
pictures up as it were done
25:22
like ice. Unlike us allies closet
25:24
dictator says that they're gonna say. I
25:28
want to hear it. It was really good
25:30
conversation. As hard as it was it was. Really go
25:32
to and helpful. Deaths of
25:34
a Sudden are crossover episode
25:37
was Amy Web and see
25:39
is incredible. She is. What?
25:42
What's that? is this whole thing that she says that
25:44
she is. So strategic foresight, Strategic
25:46
foresight. okay I just think she's about
25:48
as burrow pat ya citizens the crossover
25:51
episode where it was under to leave
25:53
and unlocking us and. If
25:56
you could see the line as south by
25:58
southwest every year to get into. Her talk
26:00
and my probably that twenty percent will get in
26:02
and the other eighty percent do not get and
26:04
yeah people are in line for talk. is it
26:07
ten at four o'clock in the morning to get
26:09
at exists because she'll say here he I shall
26:11
say Here's what's common. Here's where we
26:13
are. This. Is how it's gonna
26:15
go in. It's amazing and she's in a
26:18
borderline prophetic and her what she says. I
26:20
love this conversation. I thought it was
26:23
so good and am again she has
26:25
it incredible way to make really complicated
26:27
things easy to understand it all out
26:29
as he had a really good metaphor
26:31
in here that I'll let you explain
26:34
about the into the oh yeah it's
26:36
staring into the turn to the curve.
26:38
Or it was during the ice pass.
26:40
yeah I. She's like where we are
26:42
basically is when you're driving and you
26:45
had a patch of ice. your. Human
26:47
reflexes, the slam on the brakes and first
26:49
year out of it and what you have
26:51
to do Because she grew up in a
26:53
place with a lot eyes as you have
26:55
to keep your foot off the brake and
26:58
stare into a little bit and she said
27:00
that the uncertainty were and right now like
27:02
we're having some spinney out of control. I
27:04
stars and we've got to take a deep
27:06
breath. Maintain. Some
27:08
composure and steer intuit a little
27:10
bit until we can gain
27:12
control of. You know, Really.
27:15
I think the car. In
27:18
this metaphors are nervous system is
27:20
why is it until we can
27:22
do that? So I thought the
27:24
metaphor was incredible. I also thought
27:26
the information that we're in a
27:28
technology super cycle three big things
27:30
which is artificial intelligence. Were.
27:33
Bulls isn't which will it If you listen
27:35
you're like oh my god I'm not going
27:37
to be doing that. Are not going to
27:39
work with a helmet on my head that
27:41
kasino my thoughts on to a wall that
27:43
it up or that wearable all over me
27:45
right now like I've got an aura reign
27:47
of these are wearable and in the last
27:50
one is biotechnology and. And. Thus coming
27:52
does he'll be asked. Yeah, that's the thing
27:54
that artificial intelligence that I think. I'm
27:57
not saying if you're if you're on Facebook that
27:59
era. Like me but. The. Facebook
28:01
comments were so decidedly different on these
28:04
pasta to be hello, the lights on
28:06
not gonna do it. Or
28:08
not gonna do artificial. Intelligence. I don't believe
28:10
in that we're losing our minds
28:12
and it reminds me of me.
28:14
Mod The Piggly Wiggly. This site's
28:17
everybody. Every person in mid life
28:19
has a line weather like. I.
28:22
Don't give a shit whether I'm older, not.
28:24
I'm not doing this party and. I
28:27
think our grandmothers me mas was like i'm
28:29
not getting money out of a machine and
28:31
the wall and on that put nations are
28:33
not you and a T M but when
28:35
she went to Piggly Wiggly the grocery store
28:37
suri really big and as I guess I'm
28:39
in Texas a cell phone orders but can
28:42
imagine people the north would have a store
28:44
called the Piggly Wiggly but see where they
28:46
were still getting groceries an area to ninety
28:48
nine to ninety nine. Cents
28:50
and she was so appalled and she
28:52
said i, I just don't think it's
28:55
fair to keep as people travel to
28:57
dump like that underneath this conveyor belt
28:59
looking up and read no signs to
29:01
people like to Ninety Nine. Explained
29:05
that read a bar
29:07
codes. What? Are
29:10
you like do here? Do things coming your way?
29:12
I'm done with that. Now our eyes is the
29:14
backside. Are you know how many years ago it
29:17
was? Probably. Like sixty years
29:19
ago and I remember sitting on my
29:21
back patio with my teacher friends and
29:23
I was I: i'm never gonna text.
29:26
Like. Why would people. See.
29:29
Made me take the was so funny
29:31
so I don't know my line right?
29:34
Answer. Really curvy line pride. Say what
29:36
I do hate is when my forty year
29:38
old has to teach. Me something on my oh
29:41
yeah and I know that hey this yeah. But
29:43
daughter the I do love about Amy's talk
29:45
was that concept of gin T o generation
29:47
transition yeah said that that was really powerful
29:50
to to all of us no matter how
29:52
we are going to be in that area
29:54
where all the generation transition for sure that's
29:56
fine it right over your lied places as
29:58
you notice. Yeah. Why
30:01
did tell you this she has agreed to but
30:03
she done Answer: I'm a guy. Is not true.
30:05
Oh I am a good reason Hundred
30:08
and ah, we seek it.on the podcast
30:10
one day and ask him who's the
30:12
better responder. Nevermind. Oh
30:14
yeah. Let's
30:17
call him less know I'm right now in
30:19
one maybe two years. He called me once
30:21
a week and asked if you're dead zone
30:23
Our success. Of days. Then.
30:26
We taught to love this conversation to
30:28
visit dig. At this point I was
30:30
like. Candidate not
30:32
Doom and Gloom, but I was kind of
30:34
going back and forth between. Okay, I understand
30:36
the cost, but what of the possibilities? But
30:39
I will say to you before you say what you're
30:41
going to say today, I know you're going. One thing
30:43
I do love about Amy's. Talk. In
30:45
ways she said is what an exciting time
30:47
in his entered the workforce. Oh yeah I'm
30:50
for young people and I and I did
30:52
think that that that did so. really hopeful
30:54
for me because we have a lotta really
30:56
amazing young people come in and right now
30:59
to the Us for sale and I thought
31:01
thousand. Important and it'll hopefully to you back
31:03
and eerie say. Oh
31:05
yeah, so lisa. Give Albert so she
31:08
talks about a I for good and some
31:10
the things that are happening. How.
31:13
People are using a I, for example
31:15
lesson plans for teachers on I'm Like.
31:17
I said I was thinking like when she said that
31:19
people are putting in their lesson plans and they're like.
31:23
Give me for different reading levels
31:25
two languages. I was like. What?
31:27
The heck, I didn't even do lesson plans
31:29
on my computer until the very into my
31:31
teaching career. I can read them. Yeah.
31:34
I mean it's incredible, right to the him
31:36
and plans for kids who have. To miss
31:38
You know, two or three weeks of school because of
31:40
illness. Or you know, family. Emergencies, you know, just
31:43
as a seat And this is what.
31:45
We've been doing with the great catch
31:47
up plans for someone in this grade.
31:49
With this reading level you know, and
31:51
this proficiency here, that's the best way
31:53
to cats has been like that as.
31:55
As As and I was incredible. I
31:57
was really sucks in her conversation. There
31:59
was still says a digital divide. I
32:02
had no idea when she talks about
32:04
the work that they do to get
32:06
people email addresses. Guess they go into
32:08
libraries and help people set up email
32:11
addresses? I don't think I even understood.
32:15
Number. One, what are you need an
32:17
email address for? to that against take it
32:19
for granted and number two that there are
32:21
people out there that don't have internet and
32:24
or have email address and say I was
32:26
surprised by that and so grateful for the
32:28
work they're doing to catch everybody up. And.
32:31
That area. Huge. And the role
32:33
of libraries especially as are just funding
32:36
them here left and right. I
32:40
think I your love for libraries and
32:42
librarians has rubbed off on me In
32:44
Seattle is really important. When she said
32:46
that our. Libraries, their labors, or
32:48
where people go for high speed
32:50
internet when they don't have it
32:52
home. And so when you defined
32:54
a library, you can change the
32:56
economic future of an entire family
32:58
of cut that shit out. So
33:01
this was really good so we sick of
33:03
over for a I for good Also. Google
33:06
certificates was a conversation. Here
33:08
how. And
33:11
I just read an article about. Google
33:14
offers certifications and technology.
33:17
That you don't. Have to have a four year degree? Do.
33:20
And they're online and asynchronous mean you can
33:22
be can be passing out soon Some job
33:24
waiting tables I always referred have access what
33:26
I did for some years but at during
33:29
the day or whatever and then take these
33:31
classes at night or vice versa So they're
33:33
super flexible classes as the and you're certified
33:35
to do a tech job and you're certified
33:38
from google and he says are making six
33:40
figures and changing families trajectory. I. Mean it's
33:42
incredible. Yeah they'll dollar be as I did
33:44
see the other piece. I really love to
33:46
it and leases conversation was the human loop
33:49
but I think it is ties back to
33:51
other conversations that the humanness of the Ai
33:53
system that we're building in the technology. Yeah
33:55
keep a human in the loop. And so
33:57
I think it was as card watkins that.
34:00
Bad: It's interesting what people said
34:02
from the top se or. For. Else
34:04
had a i artificial intimacy
34:06
issues. Craig Watkins
34:08
said. A I should
34:10
be augmented intelligence cause it should
34:12
be augmenting human intelligence not his
34:15
own who's And then we have
34:17
Doctor Joy our final like. What?
34:19
A way to in. Iraq is One of
34:21
our colleagues at me attack our first of all
34:24
three or four of the people who work here
34:26
from the youngest keyboard see the most senior tax
34:28
to me and said the were the youngest people
34:30
taxes. And said. Oh. My
34:32
God Doctors Way and then when I'm
34:34
a senior people said doctors always career
34:37
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a I she is.
36:05
The founder of the algorithmic
36:07
Justice League season. Mit researcher,
36:09
an artist, a poet, a Rhodes
36:12
scholar, a Fulbright fellow, a recipient
36:14
of the Technological Innovation Award from
36:16
the Martin Luther King Jr. Center.
36:19
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36:22
walked me through it. She.
36:25
Is so incredible and. Oh.
36:27
She's so funny as he so human
36:29
a had yeah we see this talks
36:32
of like. I. Ave
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months read because of yells conversational
36:36
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36:38
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36:40
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36:43
that particular about like as he knows
36:45
he can be a Fulbright scholar so
36:47
kid I you know the I. I
36:49
just love the possibilities that come along
36:51
with listening. To Doctor Joy. It's
36:53
incredible. Yeah and how she said accused
36:55
her life to looking at a I
36:58
and technology. And.
37:01
Some. People call a I generative. Intelligence
37:03
or generative learning. And she's like,
37:06
know, their regurgitating is regurgitating is
37:08
because they've been said. Your books.
37:11
Yeah. Either regurgitating that stuff and so
37:13
she really talks. About equity
37:15
and justice and
37:17
incense. And yes,
37:19
she just. The
37:22
daughter of a scientists and artists. Bringing
37:24
poetry and toting. Into.
37:28
A Just as lens. Amazing! Yeah,
37:30
I mean her study on tinder
37:32
seeds? I could not even wrap
37:35
my head around. How. People
37:37
How. Countries.
37:39
Where near seen the. Been
37:42
able to identify people based on the
37:44
color of their skin and the seeds
37:47
of their skin. I was in awe
37:49
of her approach to what she was
37:51
doing. A little. Mortified
37:53
that. We.
37:55
Were doing better. Yeah, No yeah, I mean.
37:58
What a group of people! Oh my gosh,
38:00
I feel like we're so lucky. Yeah, so I for
38:02
so like it. Here is a job. As
38:05
a able to talk to these helps them learn so
38:07
me as he doesn't put on the spot. Okay great.
38:10
What? Did you learn that's changed
38:12
how you're thinking about your.your
38:14
fourteen year old daughter? Social
38:16
Media use. Let
38:19
us not the questions that. You can ask. He.
38:22
Knows I think we're at a
38:24
really weird time since his and
38:26
fourteen so sees. Some
38:29
friends don't have phones yet Some
38:31
friends have phones that no social
38:34
media and was interesting is. They.
38:37
Feel like it's so critical to be long
38:39
for belonging and so I you know we
38:41
have a rule that we go through it
38:43
together and anytime I want to say like
38:45
hey let's check in as we all had
38:47
this rule for our kids are to get
38:49
started with he says thank you for that
38:52
Though when they started on social media they
38:54
had to start they can only follow this
38:56
the on to use for ever. And
38:59
so I figure is really helpful.
39:02
Good little start to navigate Instagram
39:04
and I just this week. Letter
39:07
get snapped had an i mean
39:09
it's fun. To. Watch her
39:11
like I love how see. Alice
39:14
The word I'm looking for. The.
39:16
Style see has on Instagram. oh god it
39:18
yet you liked developing a static that sorry
39:20
ass and I love that is so fine
39:22
as private says if why I that was
39:24
like we're on lockdown on all the ago
39:26
yes it but I the kids' sake. Having
39:29
to be really careful, it's it's such
39:31
a great opportunity for trust building with
39:33
us. On because. Who.
39:36
She had to sign a contract. Number one.
39:38
Like here all the rules for social media
39:40
Here are the things that keep that you
39:42
if you do these will lose social media
39:44
and we also have a three strikes rule
39:47
around the house. Like if she's not been
39:49
helpful or unhygienic, chores done that strike one
39:51
site to start to your social media signed
39:53
me I think. It's health
39:55
a lot of ways, and I think
39:57
we've also had our conversations about. People.
40:00
Always sharing the best of them on social media
40:02
and to watch out. The. Not
40:05
everybody has the best of everyday. I
40:08
think is interesting and. Hard.
40:12
I think it's hard. My. Kids
40:14
are older. they teach me a lot. You
40:16
know he either. There, you know? I
40:18
think in one this the pod guess I talked
40:20
about my two buttons that I use when I'm
40:23
scrolling through all of the experts. If you have
40:25
these are things in the you mean have this
40:27
if you have these for things oh did you
40:29
know and in the ones that for virally vulnerable
40:31
to me that make me super hateful were like
40:33
oh it's apparent with dementia you can not have
40:35
dementia if you eat in oh my gosh yes
40:37
do as you see others like a they must
40:39
have known that's that Mom had that. That's.
40:43
Kind of ghriskey. Experts
40:46
a cool you. I
40:48
know it's like no zero credentials
40:50
for some of these people can
40:52
about really important thing yeah and
40:55
that's really I. Think. I think
40:57
is why when of social media. Yeah because
40:59
I was scrolling through that one day I just
41:01
saw I was so heartbroken to those cards for
41:03
the end of mom's life and it was he.
41:05
Are you taking care of them as image or
41:07
you to do these three things if you're take
41:09
whatever you do don't do these do they know
41:11
the same things about and I was doing like
41:13
overwhelmed and then I came up. In
41:16
the seed and they had clip something
41:18
that made me seemed so certain and
41:20
so definite. you know because on social
41:22
media as I were really careful about.
41:25
We. Have to review Clips now because they
41:27
have the part where I say you know
41:29
geez, I don't really know where I don't
41:31
study that are I'm unsure, I'm struggling the
41:33
of myself and in a lead. The definitive
41:36
part. And then I'm like I can't be
41:38
another one of these people contributing to this
41:40
bullshit. And so that's why when offer year
41:42
classes like a can't I can't do that
41:45
because of more. I understand. The.
41:47
Last by now Mercer. Yeah, and so
41:49
I think that has hard. I'm grateful
41:51
for every one who was part of
41:53
the series for Sir. Yeah and out
41:56
the molesting allow his dad. at least it's
41:58
been fun to be back out. The road
42:00
and do all these big events and I
42:02
think was been so and to see is
42:04
just how. Ai as
42:07
the topic of so many conversations
42:09
and or and organizations and big
42:11
conferences and big Hr conferences that
42:13
we've done lately and I think
42:15
it was so helpful. To.
42:18
Hear all these different
42:20
perspectives. There. Were some
42:22
overlaps and how people are thinking
42:25
but the different perspectives x specially
42:27
when we hear what's going on
42:29
inside organization that think it was
42:31
really helpful to have this series
42:34
right now and said sir. Transformational
42:37
Time and the world. Of
42:40
a i agree athletic City on top of that
42:42
which we have we talked about publicly as as
42:44
I said I'm in the middle coming. maybe. Seventy
42:46
percent in to. Understand
42:49
the skill set that we're gonna need. To.
42:51
Navigate as at work and so much
42:54
unit leader said in a I for
42:56
non coding people. What skills
42:58
are we going to need to survive
43:00
the change that's coming? And so to
43:02
have this podcast series On top of
43:05
that research that we're doing right now
43:07
and then on top of been out
43:09
talking to people as then exciting my
43:11
angry yeah and. I
43:13
think people will be surprised by the skillset when we get
43:16
there. I can say this
43:18
is is it. You don't have
43:20
to know Python other things assad
43:22
about coding skills, but it is
43:25
about probably some neuroplasticity and really.
43:28
Been. In our bodies to understand how much
43:30
are nervous system can take a not take
43:32
and how to regulate emotion probably the Arabic
43:35
parts of it or I will. Thanks for
43:37
doing this summary with me. A. Sudden.
43:39
Oh yeah, you're so welcome! So.
43:41
All the notes. From
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on board a brown.com under. This
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and will be back for another series
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in a couple months. and I think
43:54
it's. Been hard to find the podcast because
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we're trying series is that of every week
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both podcast just. Do that and. Do
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my research in my work and so we're trying
44:04
Like Time Limited series. I think it's been hard
44:06
for people to find them because a bit across.
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Dear. To lead and unlocking own He
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and so I'm we're going to work
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on that. Yeah. I'm
44:16
excited. I think it's sad. It's a
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it's exciting time. I
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