Deception is a stronghold that can lead to disappointment, depression and despair. There are many scammers on and off line just waiting to use and abuse, so we must be careful of the plots, schemes and the hidden agendas that are sometimes found in false love, kindness and trust!  Red flags always warn us when they start waving, but we choose to ignore them while continuing to be bamboozled and preyed upon.  We must take control of our lives and call a thing a thing. Be emotionally healthy and stop letting yourself be misused out of desperation for love and affection.