Today, I want to share a memorable experience from 2023, something I consider a golden rubbish—a lesson I learned that I hope can be valuable for all of you.

In life, different routes lead to various destinations. What may be a pain for me might be a joy for someone else, so I encourage you to analyze it in the context of your own life.

One of my painful experiences in 2023 was the breakdown of a relationship with a senior friend. As a graphic designer and voiceover artist, he was someone I respected in the industry, particularly for his skills in motion graphics. We had a working relationship, and the breakdown of this relationship became a source of sadness for me.

The Importance of Self-Value and Boundaries:The core issue revolved around boundaries and mutual respect. Despite the respect I had for him, there were instances where he overstepped the bounds, demanding urgent work without proper briefs or consideration for my schedule. This lack of respect led to a strain on the relationship, impacting not just the professional aspect but also the personal connection we had.

Lesson Learned: Others Will Love You as Much as You Love Yourself:The lesson I took from this experience is that people will love you as much as you love yourself. It's essential to recognize that people are watching and waiting for you to set boundaries. The way you allow others to treat you establishes a standard for how they will treat you in the future.

Setting Boundaries and Demanding Respect:If you willingly respond to disrespectful calls or requests, you inadvertently allow a certain level of treatment. It's crucial to set boundaries early on, establishing a framework for how you want to be treated. People will value you to the extent that you value yourself.

Life Gives You What You Demand, Not What You Deserve:A mentor once said, "Life will not give you what you deserve; life will give you what you demand." This applies to respect and how people treat you. If you demand respect and set clear boundaries, people are more likely to respond accordingly.

Moving Forward: Building a Foundation of Self-Value:To avoid similar mistakes in the future, I've decided to be more professional in my work relationships. I'll set clear boundaries, especially concerning time and expectations. I'll expect those who value me to respect my schedule and plan accordingly.

Conclusion: Relationships Are Priceless, But They Require Balance:In all of this, it's crucial to remember that relationships are priceless, but their value is upheld by the people within them. As you grow, maintain your core principles like the unchanging sun. Don't compromise your values for friends or family unless judged correctly.

Thank you once again to Mr. Benjamin and everyone listening. May God bless and increase each one of you.