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Hi hello how are you are
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Oh listen I'm doing great. I
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ah my intro is weird because
3:24
I was like oh no I
3:26
don't know what to say in
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and I was like more basketball.
3:30
The thing okay Asia where did
3:33
you start playing basketball? Tell me
3:35
about in Blue Yes. I was a
3:37
late bloomer so I don't have the like story
3:39
of like oh I was born in the bathwater
3:41
my hand and I was i grow within. I
3:44
probably started playing basketball when I was may be
3:46
I want to say like thirty years old but
3:48
I was a really good at it like I
3:50
when I I was awful cook ware my first
3:52
two years until I mean like this year though
3:55
to our like okay as and co ordination here
3:57
it's pretty decent. I just did not like to
3:59
sweat so. The underlying stop. Me from
4:01
wanting to be active. Fair. I
4:04
guess that I to do not
4:06
like to sweat even in my
4:08
adult years I'm. So. You said
4:10
you're a late bloomer? Would you say
4:12
that you were a late bloomer in
4:14
love? Yes, I feel like
4:16
I was. I believe our society. Really?
4:18
To myself I was kind of like a big company
4:21
have come to him but does a cool us miss.
4:23
at a young age I was really looking for a
4:25
lot of different things like boys were to and not
4:27
and I was also like. Growing.
4:29
Up in our wanted to be tall. And I'm
4:32
like Lane he was corking so I was still
4:34
not in my goal of things. Yes so am
4:36
I Am I know my no one wants me
4:38
because I don't I when will my film or
4:40
so com I won't have been so I would
4:42
like I googly ivo avoid from afar but it
4:44
was never like our let me so you guys
4:47
when I'm working with. The
4:49
you seem so jill about your
4:51
leg is it comes, it comes
4:53
and oh boy when I like
4:55
to have just a little bit
4:57
of chill O Six guide to
4:59
the with. How. Were you
5:01
tall in your? You know I really.
5:03
Was it I probably didn't Him are gross for
5:05
and so maybe I was like a sophomore in
5:07
high school and I always gave my height to
5:10
my mom and my mom was like. Five.
5:12
Knife I tune in I like was bully cern
5:14
like were sue the little beta like slowly start
5:16
to see the top or hey like bathroom like
5:18
okay I'm certainly good talk but. Other than that,
5:20
like I was really kind of normal. For
5:22
the most part in and of course when I get
5:25
to high school it's like okay here he comes or
5:27
growth spurt and now. My. Clothes are pretty
5:29
weird and I'm like I'm looking weird and
5:31
I have I have. I have been eyebrows
5:33
at the time and a baby t this
5:35
elusive by side with. Honestly,
5:38
What a funny this role. It's just
5:40
a very tall person with little eyebrows
5:43
and little deeds like very varied all.
5:47
The others ah so
5:49
without lights. Good for
5:51
dating or bad free.
5:53
Dating word the gentleman. Like too
5:56
tall. Are I feel like I was? I have a girl
5:58
with are like. Overseas Cool like cease to exist. The
6:00
be around you know they never really say like
6:02
oh no never have much of a lake super
6:04
Cooper's They like our personalities good so I think
6:06
it was a healthy balance like it could have
6:09
been. I was tall and like guys are dad,
6:11
tile and parmalat little I that wouldn't imagine being
6:13
a girl that's like. Taller. Than
6:15
me and of what I'd do not
6:17
like sort with this sort key far
6:19
as our own i can eye candy
6:21
in were sort of me happily the
6:24
sunni tom in in the world are
6:26
really even settle for that purpose so
6:28
I'd never settled were a smoking and
6:30
I feel like at that point. Of.
6:32
My life and limb growing up in high school
6:34
outing they ever couldn't do a taller woman or
6:36
a woman that with did some highlights Setting it
6:38
really wasn't It didn't help me in that way.
6:40
Been announced cool person to be rules and I'm
6:42
like okay like I could maybe put up with
6:44
you. We. How
6:47
tall are you? And six for. All.
6:53
We have you run into because there's a
6:55
bunch of videos I'm like Instagram of this
6:58
man is like. Is an answer
7:00
like Santa Monica or whatever And he's like how
7:02
tall are you in These guys like sixteen and
7:04
he's like can I measure you They're like know
7:06
and some of them are like sure all the
7:08
shorter ones elect no please don't measure me or
7:10
as defined monthly dues your five eighth. So like
7:12
have you ever gone out with someone who said
7:15
that they were like six. Six. Four
7:17
six five and you get on the date you. Like.
7:21
Yeah don't really have anyone that lied about their
7:24
hi I did have like I did Canada only
7:26
was a date as I did not like
7:28
using that word or those kind of like my
7:30
friends have been. Abysmal candlelight your mike uncomfortable
7:32
with to let it cool. oh or maybe be
7:34
seen out would do well I we don't
7:36
go together so laid out when incident where I
7:39
was like okay they were the same I
7:41
like I can wear heels. Around you.
7:44
Go away where the same height Kuwait
7:46
or or I'm never really got together,
7:48
never really been lied to, where they
7:50
can die, Really? I find
7:52
that so funny to say that I'm dating.
7:54
Are you on the app? Know.
7:56
On only as. I'm sitting a their
7:58
of own. the. The people in Paris
8:01
and have an effect on verify invalidates I
8:03
do they viewed i've gone out with guys
8:05
or I like looked at their high that
8:07
said like six foot and then we get
8:09
on the day and I'm like but I
8:11
can see into your eyes as not sick
8:13
foot I'm not. Sick. For I'm pretty little
8:16
a regular. Digger girls were good
8:18
our of or. A sudden I
8:20
guess I'm much taller than I thought
8:22
I was us. that. We're.
8:24
So we, how are you? Are you? In a
8:26
relationship Now. Yes, I I, I'm in.
8:28
I'm very happy or where I am. I'm
8:31
loving where I am. I'm Barry. just a
8:33
piece. How. Did you meet? A
8:35
lot. of the me I can't seem
8:37
to be all that see but just know
8:39
like. You. gotta wait or time like
8:42
isolate the says this is god's that he's like
8:44
this is you this is your you're mad see
8:46
that to be happy in their so i believe
8:48
that is like of view of with thing for
8:50
me and I love it I'm. Telling you
8:53
know like day, not wait alone and else but.
8:55
Is my one of those moments where I'm barry
8:57
like to have been at peace? Where I am
8:59
uncomfortable or big. It. Makes. Me
9:01
uncomfortable and I really Tennessee.
9:04
I. Like that sounds like he challenges you
9:06
and a nice and healthy my god
9:08
I'm just like when is my time
9:10
I did that a tarot card reading
9:12
where i specifically as I was like
9:15
when is the next person and then.
9:17
They. Drew The Devil Cardinals like wait let
9:19
me or like yards gonna look bad for
9:21
a minute now like this is. Simply.
9:24
Not what I want. This is not the treats
9:27
I asked for. I don't want to hear about
9:29
the devil coming for me. That's rude. Or
9:31
know. Willing that
9:33
me some sun's coming after like a the devil
9:35
can stay forever You that you've gotta you're gonna
9:38
break through and I fully best ten or maybe
9:40
how you could look at it you gotta look
9:42
at it like okay I may go through this
9:44
than the storm but that censoring that rape zombie
9:46
there. You. Know why is
9:48
your right? That's what they said during
9:50
the reading their like it's not all
9:52
bad, it does get better and I'm
9:54
like flat land in their lives of
9:57
their foreign to the future. Nicer Okay.
10:00
Up up. So you play this.
10:02
Ah Ahmet did you play in. Europe
10:04
or just your Dad. Your dad played
10:07
for ten years overseas and yes, my
10:09
dad played in Sweden for majority of
10:11
his overseas Korea, the plane Euro. Did.
10:13
You get to go to Sweden or. Rebounding now I
10:15
wasn't even born yet our like a maybe
10:18
as far as they are. My mom was
10:20
may be pregnant with me for his last
10:22
couple years but I'm not. Even then I
10:24
think it was just when he was coaching
10:26
but no I was never really was a
10:28
nearby but out and Sweden the. Sit. At.
10:32
Your leg Julie? Not even a
10:34
little morsel on this earth yet.
10:37
I'm the you didn't play.
10:39
Overseas at all. Now I played in
10:41
China for maybe like. Not.
10:43
Even two years after my rookie year and yeah
10:46
I got her and I was is like i'm
10:48
good like this is it. Let me try something
10:50
else. I got an amazing to email me get
10:52
my point over here in the states and I
10:55
haven't left since. Will. Visit like
10:57
playing in China because they know in
10:59
China is the people of the black
11:01
for sleaze in and are pretty far
11:04
and few between it and you're also
11:06
a taller Get Lax. A little wild
11:08
to say that you're a taller blacks
11:10
will? You're taller Black. Person.
11:13
Ah Ahmet lives that weird and people
11:16
like stop you to take pictures and
11:18
stuff. Very weird. Emmy my my dad
11:20
was over there actually with me and I
11:22
remember as being and I'm all in all
11:24
of us and Ali she was started car
11:26
coming around us. money. And. My that was
11:28
like what's going on and are the guys day a
11:31
week or like are so i think where the meme
11:33
for them sterling like in all of us arm and
11:35
it was very it was a little quarter zoc for
11:37
me on a lot of lot of people and like
11:39
we were in a small town in a small town
11:42
to them as like to me and be books is
11:44
that. And. So it was. It was a
11:46
little different. but the thing that I love about overseas
11:48
basketball is that it has no gender. I feel like
11:50
in the United States is very like. Mean
11:52
women like Iraq. But.
11:55
Like overseas it's kind of like know we'd love the
11:57
game of basketball and we love the way that is
11:59
played and were gone. Support it no matter what
12:01
sewell it was like. So down arena is
12:03
like Everyone came in to watch us play.
12:05
is so like the feel of that. Of
12:08
pretty cool. That's. Exciting!
12:10
I love that! Did. You
12:12
date at all when you were in
12:14
China or know I was in a
12:17
relationship? Yes, and it with someone in
12:19
China. Resilient and. Know so. And in the United.
12:22
Okay oh yeah no I was my I didn't
12:24
deal with in in being over there but I
12:26
was in a relationship at that time. It was
12:28
a lot of just a lot of say sounds
12:30
obviously and at times were like I was going
12:32
to sleep and he was getting up for school.
12:34
I think of the time on so it was
12:36
very late. we could only target like a certain
12:39
amount of hours of by the time. I'm.
12:41
Waking up and going through a practice he's
12:43
already by the go back to sleep so
12:45
it was very very hard to navigate through
12:47
that and obviously like everyone's cuddle of my
12:49
want to be around somebody and like hug
12:51
and legs critically a beer just overseas and
12:53
it's it's that easy out of the he
12:55
gets talks about for us as as women
12:57
that have to sometimes player receives like. That.
13:00
So long season of being away from your
13:02
loved ones and so they sometimes you will
13:04
be in the dancing. you may have their
13:07
season depression and like you want that person
13:09
your personal be there in a kid so
13:11
it's hard on but after that we kind
13:13
of went our separate ways and I wish
13:16
that the with the best for him but
13:18
yeah it was a moment. Wow stuff will
13:20
I? I've long distance is different. This answer
13:22
people do with. This I don't know
13:24
people do it either. Also I love her.
13:27
Diplomatic you are a wish them the. Six
13:30
A nebulous Exes the best I
13:32
say I hope yours that numbed
13:34
hynix. I do wish them the
13:37
best. See, I'm you nailed as
13:39
easily as did you basketball with
13:41
nails on so. I just kind of
13:43
sort for the season. So yeah this is
13:46
like my sort basketball playing of com but
13:48
sometimes in the off season I do go
13:50
along i broken and not as many as
13:52
I thought I would nice seems like only
13:54
break them and like big games when I'm
13:56
like oh diverts open up a number of
13:59
course my thumb. The be everywhere but
14:01
I'm I'm a glam girl. I love
14:03
getting my last is done. my nails
14:05
them are brown hair all that I
14:07
have to be snatched. Sometimes it's. Just
14:09
that I see I like to look in
14:11
the mirror and be like look at you
14:14
so pretty and hims will just put on.
14:16
Makeup for the sake of putting on make him
14:18
and Legacy okay. Well I guess I'll take
14:20
it right off and go to sleep.
14:22
It is midnight. He. Also.
14:26
Here's another glee: how long as you're season,
14:28
How long is about the most? I don't
14:30
know anything about sport. No, it's fine that
14:33
I'm here. I gotcha. Girl assistants are season
14:35
is. It starts in May with a draft
14:37
is this month April and as starts in
14:39
May and then you'll probably play until October.
14:42
But this year is is a special year
14:44
because the Olympics is right in the middle
14:46
of our season so it's a little longer
14:48
or we may run. been in doesn't really
14:50
go over October made us go instead it
14:53
two weeks until October might be three but
14:55
I'm yeah it's that's is pretty much the
14:57
summer. we have a lot of find going.
14:59
all these different places have a yes Olympic
15:01
year so are also what was used to
15:04
be are all Star Break. Will now be
15:06
Olympic athletes who had over two years and.
15:08
Compete. For a gold medal. We. Do
15:10
do you get It is beyond the Olympic
15:12
team. how does work? So it's crazy because
15:14
I'm currently here in Cleveland competing so he
15:16
had these different training camps that we go
15:19
to arm and then they come out with
15:21
it while player roster of i think maybe
15:23
somewhere before my i think June may be
15:25
utterly me know when the listen I'm now
15:27
but you just better hope your own it
15:29
on but we do these different cancer we
15:31
have a committee that overlooks everything in they
15:33
just kind of figure out who they want
15:35
to be on the team with who that
15:37
a teenager who's obviously great up in the
15:39
basket own whole. Arm and go from
15:41
there but it's been great so far. I
15:43
won my first one in twenty twenty one
15:45
in Tokyo. so yeah it's me good. Okay,
15:48
so you one your first gold medal in
15:50
twenty Twenty one. Were you in a relationship
15:53
then? Or now? Ah
15:55
in know I was is
15:57
okay. So. All these
15:59
athletes gets like the mingle around in
16:01
everyone is like hi. Let. Is
16:03
that like like is like. Oh.
16:07
I mean I guess. which agree with Kobe better
16:09
really was a really rare like we were
16:12
can I used to being in their quarantine
16:14
space of does. Taken. Him. But I
16:16
think it's also a beautiful been to see where a
16:18
lot of people try to pin us against each other
16:20
like they really try to be like oh well. The
16:22
Mph doing this with adobe me to they need
16:25
the money and other that have been like. In
16:27
actuality it is like a brother in a citizen
16:29
that we really kind of linked together. We're really
16:31
cool I and to realize that we could all
16:33
be normal in our space cadet Villegas professional athletes.
16:35
me after. But. That Moscow and and
16:37
be the certain person. With. And we're surrounded
16:39
by people are like minded your car way I
16:41
can kind of be free, I can take them,
16:43
ask up in be myself and play video games
16:45
in just ticket and talk about all of our
16:47
experiences in the locker room. so we're pretty cool.
16:50
I don't think any of it got too crazy
16:52
sits at all, but yeah, look like. Do.
16:54
the other sports like commingle
16:57
like real hanging out with
16:59
diverse and like gymnast. Is
17:02
assumed. They were actually in the.
17:05
Village we didn't have the opportunity to
17:07
stay in the militia we were in
17:09
around other sports and to opening ceremony
17:11
that was the time where we are
17:13
really guide says see the different sorts
17:15
and like not only our country arms
17:17
that was pretty cool it it is
17:19
really be like know we're the best
17:21
athletes. Were. You I'd
17:23
say so and best athletes in the war right
17:25
here and we're all were in the same like
17:27
pullover ruff more and outfit and it's way we
17:29
had is. It was so hot
17:31
it was ridiculous. My name is almost sweating
17:33
through my denim jeans and that said a
17:35
lot on but it was pretty cool just
17:37
to see telling everyone just really come together
17:39
and like be fans of us And as
17:42
I always I like to watch you guys
17:44
like running. Try agrees to like you guys
17:46
on the sand volleyball. Well I paid so
17:48
it's kind of cool to really see everybody
17:50
come together. I love the era, like
17:52
the athletics of it all, the sports as
17:54
and on. I'm truly so warranty that I'm
17:56
like did you law ah I would is
17:59
than like wow. How you do about
18:01
this poor oh my god that's
18:03
your your your little houses next
18:05
to mine in the village. Maybe
18:07
really see each other later. Up
18:09
Up Up Up Up Up. To
18:13
us room A that. As a
18:15
villain or know they as the Village.
18:17
So yeah we were just as Legos
18:19
is really does. Solo. Dollar.
18:23
That and then you did that after playing
18:25
in the bubble, right? Yes, so
18:27
it was like a with the following
18:29
year so he had a pretty much
18:31
normal seasonal heading into the Olympics that
18:33
years. but it was the deathly kind
18:35
of first. it was like the first
18:37
thing everyone was doing that involved a
18:39
lotta other people on of it so
18:41
still be work highlight. I don't want
18:43
to be the one the gate coli
18:45
hanging, sit bad or sit in my
18:47
room for error with by a live
18:49
bliss little father figure. What
18:52
is it like? There was no. One
18:54
is a audience for. That's not what. People,
18:57
spectators, A renewed spectators as the
18:59
at the bubble. Yeah no
19:01
it wasn't on at all for to glee
19:03
in the in the olympics it was know
19:05
when it was quiet me opie similar use
19:08
no one in the seat so you're just
19:10
plague We've been like a mom who have
19:12
wifi me on tv and in in the
19:14
bubble yeah it was says we were plan
19:16
for the curtains assists a was really just
19:19
like an awkward view on because he just
19:21
couldn't be able to hear everything is really
19:23
dislike twenty. Yeah. That
19:25
sounds really wild. it at lake.
19:28
City. Feel like a practice? Or
19:30
did it feel. Like. Like.
19:34
A girl what's it called? Like
19:36
a dress rehearsal type feel? It
19:39
was just yeah it's on it as gave ago
19:41
weird by like we're we're all just sheer kind
19:43
of felt like a tear way we are Decision
19:45
they like you just go to Tammy player games
19:48
the go home. My bow was really pretty much
19:50
everything and it was just i miss the thing
19:52
you never know how much you miss of than
19:54
until it's gone obviously and on the main like
19:56
I missed the hecklers I miss booing allies I
19:59
was arrested. With here because
20:01
I want it and so when it's gone it's
20:03
like dang is we have to create our own
20:05
energy. a delight. Bring it every single day and
20:07
sometimes we rely on the fast a light hyper
20:10
sat so minute or had their you're like. I'm.
20:12
Gonna go play against his team again.
20:14
We're the same uniform lagged a little,
20:16
was nobody there to sizzling. Always told
20:18
me that are good or bad bad.
20:22
As if. I'm idly basketball just
20:24
a little bit lose in middle
20:26
school I think I was. ah
20:28
now it's so hard i the
20:31
only good thing as that i
20:33
can do is box out sad
20:35
as. Parallel. The whole running
20:37
back and forth. My God that
20:40
she, it's. Hard. Ah,
20:42
I've built. I barely knew like I'm I'm
20:44
right there with you though. I believe we
20:46
can't get like the second by the accolades
20:48
there have been down for ninety four. Be
20:51
good, exhausting and sometimes a look at the
20:53
stats you know my, how did I even
20:55
do that? If you ask me to do
20:57
this without wearing an Ace his uniform our
21:00
probably lab. You've eaten. Let
21:02
this in. Do you play? I.
21:04
Am a power for so I'm not to
21:07
mention the be. Centers. But
21:09
I'm also not like the guards so I'm rain and
21:11
between I could do a little bit try to delivered
21:13
every day. Lead. That means you're good
21:15
at boxing out right? if you're Imo in
21:17
the I was a power failure I sig
21:20
I really don't remember ever be like you
21:22
say here for a little bit sister, how
21:24
bout you know you just try to hit
21:26
the hit the loop again and then we
21:29
just rest for lot of before running all
21:31
the way back to the other side of
21:33
my lungs. That idea. But. Isn't
21:36
so much money? I campbell a league track
21:38
and field and then you've to dribble and
21:40
and it's like double dribbles of the oh
21:43
my God so lot. But it's exciting. It.
21:45
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Back. Okay so after
23:57
you got in the Wm.
23:59
Be a real. Relationship: when you got
24:01
into the Wmds, Yes,
24:03
yes, I was who years had me
24:05
back on my finger over without yes
24:08
I was set. But yeah, I work
24:10
in a relationship. Did. Success
24:12
change the relationship at all.
24:15
Ah with said the
24:17
question I. I. Guess you
24:19
can see. Yes,
24:22
Because. Within an evident the same time
24:24
as like I didn't see myself as
24:26
being that successful at the time. But.
24:29
It was a certain things where I would think back
24:31
to her. Mom always says i you know that every
24:33
waking go as you and isn't one of those places
24:35
where I was like. A.live
24:38
where you lay, I promise you. this
24:40
is no hard feelings but like I'm
24:42
trying to go somewhere where I really
24:44
don't need anyone else. and in a
24:47
little another they were. Like a site
24:49
you with me but late for real. Like
24:51
honestly it was one of those things rouse
24:53
i I ne I started to prioritize a
24:55
lot of different things before me and I
24:57
lost myself in there and answer like I
24:59
was i it to I go probably still
25:02
am someone that falls in love with the
25:04
potential and so on. Miss that a me
25:06
in the person straight up so I wouldn't
25:08
say success was like all the reason like
25:10
oh you're getting all these you're gone It
25:12
was more so like their potential that I
25:15
saw a new started to. Not. Be
25:17
real estate and I had to be real
25:19
my cell and that moment our society cari
25:21
that think it's time for me that Hannah
25:23
split my ways but. It. Was cool
25:25
verbose for me and I'm at the time
25:27
of the probably like obviously I felt like
25:29
I was like oh and tears when period.
25:31
But then I started early the road myself.
25:34
I. Get that eyes the i'm miss to
25:36
the time fall in love with someone
25:38
for ten saw yeah and only one
25:40
day you'll get this lenses and then
25:42
it's like you wake up one day
25:44
needle. Nose there
25:47
one day than ever com the my
25:49
one day has some head is time
25:51
for me to like. Move.
25:53
On in a graceful way.
25:56
Yeah. But that's also it's
25:58
hard to realize. Your mom
26:00
saying you can take everyone with you.
26:02
I love that so much because it's
26:04
very true. Like. You can have a
26:06
lotta love for somebody, but you know sometimes is
26:09
not meant to be. Yes, And that's the hard
26:11
part because you're like paying like I wish you
26:13
well. I don't want to make you seem like
26:15
out like that new law for doing this but
26:18
it's like I just where I want to go,
26:20
where I see myself a desert involved. A lot
26:22
of people is sometimes assist me and we're fighting
26:24
with them myself and say like what I want
26:27
to do i can are better myself and sometimes
26:29
you just get everybody with you So yeah it's.
26:32
It's of an artist. Been a long journey but I'm
26:34
I'm finally like at peace with Data. I was happy
26:36
that I could do that. It was about time you
26:38
know. I
26:41
get that. Okay, When. You
26:43
got your first paycheck from
26:45
the Wnd A Do remember.
26:48
The. First thing you bought. When I
26:50
got my first check for something rose
26:52
like I have extra moneys I bought
26:54
a purple Michael Kors bag that I
26:56
still have. It was like two hundred
26:58
and eighty dollars and I was like.
27:01
I. Can't believe I'm spending do hundred
27:03
and eighty dollars on up her suffer.
27:05
But I still have it And I
27:07
look at the doing yes, I
27:10
did that. I bought that for myself.
27:12
the than anything like that. Are.
27:14
Minor stuff when I was cool thanks
27:16
You is actually the macro that I'm
27:18
going now. Success with. A
27:21
with my lap.where I'm late at ballet
27:23
up on that Mcglade Star player with
27:25
me is the air like is like
27:27
the my little insane legged for what
27:29
I see everyone on the campaign own
27:31
for yeah that was my first big
27:33
purchase lego and i was shaking going
27:35
into apple come out by my purse
27:38
Imo by I don't belong to be
27:40
here I go to see mobile get
27:42
my phone and I'm out later when
27:44
it was going like Apple store our
27:46
by our guys see job by the
27:48
come get me because somebody help me.
27:51
So yeah I would sigma my arm and bureau
27:53
of oh my peers and I just go in
27:55
there. New thing I was voted the like a
27:57
sex shop in a second call in air you
27:59
good enough? A hooker is
28:01
so yeah. It
28:03
is funny though when you're like okay I don't
28:05
normally spend this much money all that once and
28:08
you're like I'm in a give you all of
28:10
this money all at once you like I don't
28:12
know what to do our know how to act
28:14
other I truly door to. Do more
28:16
than of yeah. And I carry
28:18
that shit out of that bag. your that
28:20
bag everywhere as I would eleven idea I
28:23
it was. I would like get another see
28:25
that a restaurant to be like my purse
28:27
needs it's own. Seat please of photo
28:29
it yeah I was a so i
28:31
was waiting for the bank delay hit
28:33
me with the fraud insects most. Of
28:37
it's what you do it. I'm in. A
28:41
Promise me say as
28:43
do you remember. Like
28:45
the most romantic thing anyone's ever
28:48
done for you. See.
28:51
Like I'm awfully Alice Sad lead I
28:53
dislike. The most romantic thing to me is
28:55
this labour thought legs as. Having
28:57
leg and edible arrangement waiting for me like
29:00
and my longer in my house like bad
29:02
as site so romantic to me because it's
29:04
not for like he did not have to
29:06
do that. I'm so I think that was
29:09
pretty much the most romantic thing is that of am
29:11
a nosy person like. I know a
29:13
lot of surprises aca see a lot of
29:15
things coming from a mile away because I'm
29:17
like in the business moulay when something is
29:19
under late in the it gets their me
29:21
a lesson that is pretty romantic in the
29:23
job well done because I didn't see that
29:26
one company. Says I also love
29:28
the use that an edible arrangement.
29:30
Always thinking about eating healthy. As
29:32
you said, you surprised me well
29:34
through and. Ah,
29:40
Ah, so okay when you're on
29:42
the road. Do. You get a
29:45
fly. Private isn't a wild question. The have.
29:47
Nots that all costs mask and know we deny
29:49
gets by private. we don't get
29:51
the fly private and to. Play.
29:54
Offs I think. And so the finals
29:56
late last last leather like I he
29:58
though, he almost burned. So here. Sit
30:00
home and and like the other travel
30:02
a time as click so we would
30:05
need to be there obviously. Like.
30:07
Just to be rested. So yeah. but other
30:09
than that, know we're all in a commercial
30:11
flights. This year we're going to manifest in
30:13
that has gone say. Manifests? Oh
30:16
yeah, that like a cylinder. Like
30:18
traveling. So how long have you
30:20
been on the current? Team that
30:22
you're on right now will I was
30:24
drafted to the scene so it this
30:26
will be my seven year and when
30:28
a say yes seventh year salary is
30:30
finance than a. Minute. And
30:33
it. Has. It been the same
30:35
teammates the whole time or no. Oh.
30:38
No, we. I think it's been
30:40
the same like recently, where maybe
30:42
the last. Three. Years.
30:45
Ah, But the first for it's been a
30:47
big difference so so we've gotten a lot
30:49
more. we weren't the best said he got
30:51
we continue to get like draft picks know
30:53
in like people retire and people just kind
30:55
of change or go to different team Before
30:57
the most part the core that we are
30:59
now has been together for the three years.
31:02
Okay I they like your
31:04
best seized you guys like
31:06
gab. They
31:08
are my best to their my their little
31:10
you must assume some days I can't stand
31:12
on Sundays. I can't live without them like
31:14
I'm so excited to see them coming into
31:16
training camp. but if you would have asked
31:18
me this in November oh what a really
31:20
I cannot stand those women who new wave
31:23
remember system so they are my their my
31:25
sister's them overseas or we do a lot
31:27
of things together like our team. Chemistry is
31:29
immaculate. I below know and it's very hard.
31:31
The magic as wheezes were very late. worry
31:33
that pussy but we're late. Know the the
31:35
hunger late. She. Down On Down. So
31:37
yeah we do kind of. Our locker
31:39
room is our guys. It is A
31:41
It's A. It's a well placed that
31:43
he and his allies sometimes without a
31:45
warrant are newcomers but it's a ton
31:47
of I. Have. You
31:49
ever seen the movie Eddie with Whoopi Goldberg
31:51
where she plays the head coach of the
31:53
New York? Next? Know I have
31:55
not seen that whoop of. Okay
31:58
there very few people have seen this
32:01
movie but I was like is it
32:03
really what it's like to be in
32:05
professional basketball but alas, you've never seen
32:07
it. Ah ha ha ha
32:10
ha. What? State.
32:12
Do. You remember like your first kiss. He
32:14
said that you were. A late is
32:16
bloomer city. Remember when that first kiss
32:19
was? Had to be
32:21
like. A. Full
32:23
rein. To me know if that's
32:25
not late, I think that the on time
32:27
bloomer. Oh really bank you for that.
32:30
The like Moma friends like girl, new
32:32
late Les and repairs there are you
32:34
will over a base. Ah we yeah
32:36
I think I was at think he was a. Dream mean
32:38
I had to be. I had to do before a high
32:41
school our the that. Are within that
32:43
corny but own assists breathe Yeah
32:45
it was says there and along
32:47
we were just kind of like.
32:50
Taken. It. I. Think year
32:52
was nothing really crazy. wasn't like spectacular
32:54
like it isn't the movies. I
32:57
feel like every first kiss is very
32:59
much like, well, That. Was
33:01
it that the thing. Okay
33:04
to buy yeah my for his
33:06
his A remember it being like.
33:09
Okay, and like other is no like.
33:12
There. Was no sparks right? Know there
33:14
are words, no lag my leg
33:16
kick in a like manner. That
33:19
manner. As she uses
33:21
like okay. Would.
33:23
You say that you are
33:25
as serial monogamous or a
33:27
person who spend some time
33:29
being single? I feel like
33:31
I spent. Some time being single
33:33
I like said kind of be
33:35
bummer. so I like disliked. Come.
33:38
Still it that's our biggest thing is like I'm
33:40
not really gone. be out about like that. You
33:42
know if you test me as Colic? oh hey,
33:44
what's up But I'm really to myself but my
33:46
teammates will go out and on my arm pool
33:49
like I can deal with a lot of people
33:51
are let alone in my space. So yeah, so
33:53
I'd I'd come a good writer myself. Time to
33:55
be single cassette a lot. I don't think people
33:57
really. Think. About when you're in a relationship.
34:00
Like everything A really goes for me
34:02
to we. And. Then is a lot
34:04
for person. they're so used to me assess
34:06
so like. When it is when I
34:08
do like break off or when it happens
34:10
or whatever I have to give myself sometimes
34:12
is the kind of get used to be
34:15
V again and then I can realize okay
34:17
am I ready to Canada welcome in that
34:19
we to base So yeah do a ton
34:21
of. Silao. And then
34:23
like I said of it turns Cons of
34:25
a goes goes cool I'm happy where I
34:27
am. I got my puppy silt and it.
34:30
Was in a pot see
34:32
I've australian. Shepherd mix with poodles
34:34
them the. So
34:37
fucking. Two
34:39
boys A sin. Do they have my
34:42
heart set. That suits you.
34:44
Are you gonna love how till you are
34:46
in? I love that you were like oh
34:48
in between releases elect elect. A
34:50
new route myself in. The
34:52
army again and feel what it's like
34:54
to be in my body by myself
34:56
again. and I think that's really important
34:58
for people. I have friends or I'm
35:00
like, how are you jumping from person
35:02
to person? Who are you like? You
35:04
know who you are at lake too
35:07
late. Silence. A little bit
35:09
as and in this era of me
35:11
being single, I am now enjoying that
35:13
I don't have anybody to like answer
35:16
to or be like I'm thinking about
35:18
doing this thing. I can just leave
35:20
town, have to find someone to take
35:23
care of my dogs, but I can
35:25
just. Leave. Town
35:27
and. Not. Check in
35:29
the have to call nine one One amount of
35:31
power. And. It's funny
35:33
because at first I was like ah man
35:35
I want that, I want to like have
35:38
you know a home base to like, call
35:40
or whatever But now is really enjoying being
35:42
single and. I think
35:44
that's something I needed before I
35:46
try to dive into something else.
35:49
Yes, Big issues with as I say
35:51
that also allows you to they when that
35:53
time is ready to then give which you
35:55
know you can get to that person And
35:57
I think that's why I enjoyed the most
35:59
because. Like okay, am I not ready from
36:01
within? Like now. I can wholeheartedly give you what
36:03
I've been trying to build in, grow in the
36:06
hotel you protected in, take care of it and
36:08
that's what I love about just kind of like
36:10
the companionship of at all is just like okay.
36:12
now we can mean the middle like we're not
36:14
perfect I promise you I'm gonna fuck up along
36:16
like is gonna be crazy. I'm going to cry
36:18
my most it was all over the place especially
36:20
in seasons but it's telling but that's what are
36:23
your for it Like that's what you're supposed to
36:25
gonna. Take care about other
36:27
side but I feel like I would never do
36:29
that if I didn't have that time to myself
36:31
to really gotten myself. Yeah.
36:34
I've seen. I'm like working on alone is
36:36
like telling people how I feel in the
36:38
moment. I. Have such
36:40
a hard time doing it like it.
36:42
So when hurts my feelings I'm very
36:44
good. To be like easy let's get
36:46
another drink. I'm fine an antenna be
36:48
like okay. They did hurt my feelings.
36:51
And the way I can articulate it is like. You
36:54
know it's I'm not commenting on you
36:56
as a person, but I really didn't
36:58
love what was said and I'm rail
37:00
little certain way. And
37:03
I have such a hard time doing it.
37:05
And in a relationship I think that's like
37:07
super invaluable to be able to. Say.
37:09
How you feel on the moment or.
37:11
Say. How you feel today's down the line Believe
37:13
that thing is that. I it does. I've been
37:16
holding it. And. I'm. Trying
37:18
to do it more with friends. like and
37:20
like bring it into a relationship. You.
37:23
So fucking ground at how did this happen.
37:26
I mean that as a between my parents and
37:28
between just the people that I have in my
37:31
life currently in that I've been through and I
37:33
was kind of like my lessons. I've really gotten
37:35
this kind of really gotten to him with myself
37:37
and knew exactly what I want, it what I
37:39
didn't let him and sometimes it hurts. It really
37:42
does hurt because it's like you want the best,
37:44
like you're like cool and I really want these
37:46
like a we were rooting for you like com
37:48
or emphasis on this and in it's like crash
37:50
and burn and then I just felt. Like I'd
37:53
out that so tired of this been stuck
37:55
in that crash and burn states that I
37:57
just really ten I got into with myself
37:59
and. It alive in our society. What
38:01
am I missing? What do I need more of?
38:03
Who can I get to like That's just me
38:05
and then later on as time went by and
38:08
like as alleges gonna let it go in and
38:10
is just like you are like. This.
38:12
Is where you can be happy with this
38:14
as we can be yourself with and and
38:16
I turned to my parents and their dislike
38:18
hey we he looked good like if you
38:20
look you like you're just yourself so go
38:22
for it and so I think that's kind
38:25
of where it comes from his says learning
38:27
those lessons and and being like the city
38:29
lights and also communicating wasn't my best thing
38:31
like I was really as a community crazy
38:33
that unlike in the locker room arkansas the
38:35
my teammates like that I'll I get him
38:37
but then with us to a guy like
38:39
oh. Cause. I don't know
38:41
how that will make you feel when I
38:43
die. Makes me feel it out an arctic
38:45
communicate that she's so man learning part for
38:48
me and finding someone like that and I
38:50
can trust to be like I can release
38:52
take you do this step by step A
38:54
we could communicate together. As. Inflame the
38:56
kind of was to grow. Yeah.
38:58
The whole communication thing for me is hard
39:00
to the my what of I tell you
39:02
how I feel in you leave dilemma is
39:04
there This is like Lilith they leave, they
39:06
leave. You. Don't Own Them.
39:09
Also, isn't that a great.
39:11
Isn't that so nice that you said how
39:13
you felt and they couldn't handle it? So
39:15
they left the as a couldn't meet you
39:17
halfway. That means it's not your person. I
39:20
was like oh my god, it makes sense
39:22
lady But like ah, right. Yes,
39:25
Yes, it is Not The. Easiest thing,
39:27
but we learn and we grow really
39:29
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39:32
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39:34
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39:42
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You. Mentioned earlier that sometimes your teammates like
41:32
go out and stuff that's wild to
41:34
me when your whole thing is like
41:36
i have to play basketball for however
41:38
long the game is and I'm gonna
41:40
go out right before. Do it like
41:42
that. So wild I barely do physical
41:44
activity. In have a drink The night before
41:46
I do a physical activity. I'm
41:48
bad. Of
41:50
a may not be right before but
41:53
they like grievously discover were still human
41:55
like yours google new were swiftly out
41:57
about of i just get annoyed easily
41:59
and i. This very are of i'm a
42:01
homebody so they know I gave i come
42:03
out is like special occasion and on the
42:05
lower on y zero lower me we leave and
42:07
at this time I get ready so like
42:09
they really kind of you realize like okay
42:11
is is coming our lives you latter time right
42:14
now so they're always like a lot of
42:16
find to kind of to hold my hand as
42:18
i go through there cause i'm like I'm trying
42:20
to be here but you guys I'm down
42:22
for his. Sir you all get
42:24
out of my bed and that on
42:27
something nice. When you go out together,
42:29
you're like. Avenger tall
42:31
people I would imagine. Do. Now
42:33
though, oh you basketball players and then do
42:35
they give you free shit. Yes
42:37
a six years and it's message has
42:39
been in Vegas Light when I'd say
42:41
Vegas shows as so much love in
42:43
a soda love before light winning championships
42:45
with I have rev are grateful for
42:47
the day. So as soul mice law
42:49
they make sure that were good. They
42:51
salazar and they're like a leg the
42:53
the queen, the Vegas or a hero
42:55
delay I'll yell or in the. Midst.
42:58
Of some greatness so late act accordingly so
43:00
it's pretty cool that's how to have that
43:02
really in the city of this entertainment li
43:04
they give you can be doing a million
43:06
things in Vegas but we have of bambee
43:08
says so that are a crowd of a
43:10
lot of a lot of games and I'm
43:12
like Jacobi anywhere but you guys are here
43:14
are ruining and cheering for us so it
43:16
has a lot of fled in the city.
43:19
I. Love that! So is your home these
43:21
Vegas. Yes, He.
43:23
Are you okay to do a
43:25
like in? Obviously you don't live on
43:27
the strip. That would be insane. I see
43:30
I do for of I first read as
43:32
easy as if you lived on the stress
43:34
yes I lived literally A was like a
43:36
walkway to India Modern art for me you
43:38
are would be easier for me were biggest
43:40
I didn't have a time. It's it's it's
43:43
it's like little. it was one where it's
43:45
not a casino inside of it so it's
43:47
kind of like calmer. But it
43:49
was like the bachelor read city like bachelor
43:51
battle as he lay there was like know
43:54
every time I saw the girls with asserts
43:56
that like i'm the crazy what I'm this
43:58
time around and unlike. I'm just trying
44:00
to get to my room like some sort
44:02
of gives them a marvellous the don't Leave
44:04
honor Yeah I lived for a couple years
44:07
and then I finally moved off and it
44:09
was just like a whole nother world. unlike
44:11
who. Peace. A subtle I. Was
44:13
I doing this? A living on the
44:15
strip is like living in Times Square.
44:17
It's like good Lord seems insane. just
44:19
really. isles. As. Anything wilde
44:22
happen during games because I feel like
44:24
people in Vegas. Or like I'm going to
44:26
get the drunk as I've ever been in my
44:28
whole life. Tonight. Sets. Oh
44:30
yes, But then. I. Believe that's like
44:33
the door and so it's not wilde
44:35
I would say we had an earthquake
44:37
that was literally going on during our
44:39
game and I thought that beyond say
44:41
came to our game so army ever
44:43
was I play they were screaming thousand
44:46
girl the queen is here it's all
44:48
the time. The jumbotron like say seen
44:50
above. My point guard issues on a
44:52
call a player were like oh my
44:54
god it's an earthquake so we to
44:56
cancel the game I'm in. it was
44:58
just a hot mess but yeah I
45:01
was very disappointed. I'd. Be I'd say was
45:03
not there but it was like an earthquake. I
45:06
really love. You
45:08
so rumbling and thoughts in seeking.
45:11
Invalid. But
45:15
it's neighbors a good it and be on say oh
45:18
right I like I can't put. Anything past Vegas
45:20
or I'm like it's beyond say and they
45:22
when they say those are great I was
45:24
very disappointed. Nicely. Guess I
45:26
had you feel that Cowboy Carter? I
45:28
have not finished it yet. Okay so
45:31
far so good. I would say I've
45:33
skipped a couple songs and I'm normally
45:35
don't skip the beyond say I'm home
45:37
alone with sometimes on legal I can't
45:39
listen to that. Right now I feel
45:41
like you've gotta be in a different
45:43
setting to like. Listen. To it and
45:46
analysis Do it if on my work it out on
45:48
my way to work out as of among the. Attorney.
45:50
Thereby right now but I'm not finished yet.
45:52
but it's clean be so I like it
45:54
so far. Up size and than I'm going
45:57
to the her down. I love it! yeah I as
45:59
one of my favorites. But it's so
46:01
the has, yeah, You heard the during your
46:03
and other. Civil
46:05
a lot of other club when I was a
46:08
kid it was is like the yes the a
46:10
Song of thing gov Jan I just loves. Of.
46:16
I'd like to go away. Carter, I'm
46:18
having a good day. He must success
46:20
Asia and they have a question. Okay,
46:23
Do. You have any advice
46:25
for single. People out there.
46:28
I would have to say practically for
46:30
the single woman. Ah, Don't be
46:33
afraid, the shooter own saw it like isolate where
46:35
he stuck into this phase a light will were
46:37
to sway and let's sit around away. But unlike
46:39
if you feel it, go for it. Like go.
46:42
For. A one hundred per se because you
46:44
never know at as a lotta guys are
46:46
it is equally as shy as we are
46:48
so you gotta give yourself a chance but
46:50
at the same time don't force it down
46:52
more than it at all I would have
46:54
for you will be for you and just
46:56
know that like. The. Path that you're all
46:58
and with T Bit you go find the right person.
47:00
You're silly as Winfrey at the End of the Rainbow
47:02
and does have fun with it. That's
47:05
so nice. You. Have an
47:07
older brother named Ronaldo. Is he
47:09
single? I
47:12
see it being a lot of Hiv. Okay,
47:15
tell him about me and tell them
47:17
you mother's really nice lady who's single
47:19
and she's as he he he ha
47:21
has a nice time. I
47:24
gotta. I
47:26
gotta do, I'm living in, yours are
47:28
allowed under. Yeah, I gotta do it.
47:31
And I'm doing ever. It is better
47:33
than. I. Am
47:36
you are also named one of Forbes and
47:39
Thirty Under Thirty One and I feel like
47:41
was that like really. Made at
47:43
a cast Alice's like I'm on the forces
47:45
everybody get out my way it does not
47:48
matter which are part amount of hours on
47:50
of wordlessly start talking but I do wish
47:52
that I was on it when it when
47:54
we were like in cove it it that
47:57
begins cause i wanted was gonna go to
47:59
resisted of. The all kind of. I meet and
48:01
greet with everyone else on the list but I was
48:03
like oh I would love to like go and actually
48:05
network with these people in lane kind of get their
48:08
pick their brain but I'm deathly blessed on something that
48:10
so they can take away from me so I'm happy
48:12
there. I I
48:14
can imagine that. Lake. Though.
48:16
They did take away a lot of
48:18
people I it never occurred see that
48:21
Lake High School seniors are like college
48:23
seniors like Mr. Seasons of their their
48:25
sports and since yeah like that was
48:27
robbed from that some of the high
48:30
yet this. All the whole thing. Fuck
48:32
him. At
48:35
all of prefer. Ah,
48:38
Miss you wrote a book. Dear Black
48:40
Girls, what's that of the house? Yes,
48:42
Dear Black Girls is really a book.
48:44
a journey of how will a journal
48:47
really of how I just navigate it,
48:49
my life and how I was should
48:51
myself and. How I became who I am is
48:53
just like is not a. Telling people
48:55
what to do or how you see is
48:57
more so of like this is my life
48:59
This is the human side of Asia. They're
49:02
not a lot of people kids see with
49:04
as they normally to see me the uniform
49:06
and it was just like a lot of
49:08
different stories like dealing with racism and dealing
49:10
with Greece happiness as well. Winning with success
49:12
is kind of lonely. you're gonna. You
49:14
don't know, you can't figure it out. Sometimes a you
49:16
lose yourself in that but it's a book I'm just
49:18
guiding. Our young people particularly but
49:20
also black women. Because Odyssey I can relate
49:23
to they want to have a very personal
49:25
level of just like being true to ourselves
49:27
and get ourselves some grace or same that
49:29
this world is not nice which means we
49:31
don't have to the nice we can still
49:33
be true to ourselves but I had a
49:35
lot of one writing it. I'm in ah
49:37
for reading and I didn't audio book as
49:39
well. Oh, that's fine. yeah
49:41
I wrote a book but it has
49:43
more pictures than it does word Anyway,
49:45
So when you talk about racism, are
49:48
you talking about being one of the
49:50
few black students in your school growing
49:52
up? Is that like the reason is
49:54
that the this. Year. I
49:56
went to a private school for twelve years
49:58
on end it was. A lot of
50:01
black people at all, let alone them black.
50:03
What? men are black young girl? So yeah,
50:05
it was a lot of different instances where
50:07
I'm just like, know, looks like me. Men:
50:09
Knowing can relate to me in I don't know how
50:11
I feel about that and I had a lot of
50:14
this is where it was a say you're cool with.
50:16
Our my peers don't like he is so is
50:18
gonna lie I'm a young girl at were friends
50:20
that I'm just like what do you mean like
50:22
hartley it was very so my peers gonna have
50:24
to have that talk and a bus and in
50:26
the book I was like you know. What?
50:29
Boys get the talk all the time. I
50:31
have least homes x Todd everything but the
50:33
only. Girl doesn't really get that is com a
50:35
lei. Good luck girl! The of the need
50:37
for it wants your bags and. It's like, know
50:39
we need that thought to like we're navigating the
50:42
world. As well. So yeah, it was for lot of
50:44
ups and downs of my life, but it made me
50:46
who I am today. I like
50:48
that you speak about that as I
50:50
too grew up in. A
50:53
town of. Up until I people
50:55
are me amazes relaxes you black kid
50:57
see and it was like a weird.
50:59
Talk with my mother were she's like, you know,
51:02
Wave. Might not bring your home because of
51:04
their appearance or this than the other. and
51:06
you're just like we lay fry and it's
51:08
a wild thing to. They feel like. I
51:12
was in other and it felt like the
51:14
majority like the white kids didn't ever have
51:16
to have that conversation. The. A nice
51:18
name was like oh you might not
51:20
be accepted in this group it because
51:22
it's like bull their the majority so
51:24
like were announced that that is the
51:26
norm or say race is. It is
51:29
a very weird way to like have.
51:31
To present yourself to the world in like oh
51:33
I might just be rejected because of just. Literally,
51:35
the way I was born, my gun means
51:38
that. Yeah, I
51:40
was like I: we're just like a double
51:42
minority. I'm a woman. I'm in. I'm a
51:44
black woman like is just my drum glug
51:46
Navigate miscarried were a little. You're not like
51:49
don't have been to levels are high school.
51:51
And. Then to add on that you
51:54
had dyslexia So was that. Hard.
51:56
Or was it like a singer was like oh
51:58
i'm having trouble with. Reading. Because
52:01
I have dyslexia or was it like we don't
52:03
know what's going on? Elm. Elsevier. it
52:05
was very hard. It was one of those moments
52:07
where it was just like iti and I studied
52:09
so hard, work so hard and that when I
52:11
would get into the classroom. A. With I
52:13
didn't even know the i was like reading their
52:15
own subject and for me it was hard for
52:17
my family because it it was hard for me
52:20
to be vocal about it because I'm just by
52:22
I don't know what's going on mama promise you
52:24
I'm looking at a material like we're literally steady
52:26
get together in the my peers like we're just
52:28
being lazy late. start doing your work work harder
52:31
and I'm like I am. I'm in then that's
52:33
what I finally dame and was like Okay so
52:35
we gonna get you tested for a learning disability
52:37
in our we were doing all those courses of
52:39
i'm just like oh my god just tell me
52:41
what what's wrong with me. Arms And
52:44
finally they said that I was diagnosed
52:46
with dyslexia and from their my whole
52:48
life changed because our society. When.
52:50
Our on this high profile as lead does the
52:52
world needs and node by my teachers need to
52:54
know. Do I tell my friends I don't want
52:57
people to think I can't read so I was
52:59
just like really battling with myself way the what
53:01
do I do that? where am I I would
53:03
do I need to say and is slowly I
53:05
just started to read a lot more. My clothes
53:08
made me read scriptures like sucess. I know we're
53:10
going to help you. Be. A
53:12
lot better. Like its notes here, but you're
53:14
definitely more comfortable in the what's I doubt
53:16
that I was like you know, at every
53:18
Chinese these resources. So that's and I started
53:20
my foundation. And I'm just like, let's get
53:22
these resources at these young kids to make
53:25
sure they understand they bury. This isn't
53:27
just a discipline, this isn't just a disability that's gonna
53:29
hold you back from success like you can live in
53:31
be true to use. So it was a novel in
53:33
the beginning, but now I live it and I love
53:35
it is. I kind of make jokes about it Suits
53:37
that com said. I like the moon. I
53:40
get it, I grew up with a D
53:42
H D in everyone's like like is she
53:44
times injury was uses do or works and
53:46
I. Truly. Couldn't believe I
53:48
just can't like I rightly cannot
53:50
sit here and do this works
53:53
I physically cannot the earring concentrate
53:55
on as and I didn't find
53:57
out til I was like way
53:59
older little. Growing. Up
54:01
and then be an adult. And I'm like
54:03
the way everyone thought I was lazy. Like
54:05
the whole thing about being a kid is
54:07
like obey adults like that's what you're told
54:09
as a kid their like. That's all I
54:11
want to do. So it's like when you
54:13
can't. Let. Would deeper introduce.
54:16
Maybe. It is a learning disability. The the it
54:18
is is like they're a D H D or
54:20
whatever it's like. I. Truly felt like people
54:22
were like oh you woke up today and you're like
54:25
you're not than a less than some like no, no
54:27
I woke up like I'm a listen so hard today
54:29
but they're the bird outside and I think I need
54:31
to tell someone a story about a dog that isis
54:33
and it's like. Success
54:36
as. Well
54:38
license hard. It is
54:41
a. Here's. Another question.
54:43
For. You. Think that there's
54:46
like somebody out there for everybody.
54:48
Like do you think? There's.
54:50
Like a puzzle piece for everybody. Or do you think there.
54:52
Is some people were to be sad
54:54
and alone? Oh. Oh.
54:58
Oh. I do think that
55:00
there is. I think there
55:02
is a match for everybody. Yes, one
55:04
hundred percent I think so. And out
55:06
there is. Like. Your Soul Me: I'd
55:08
really do things that I believe in there.
55:10
I feel like we're all. But. On
55:12
this earth to love to be kind to one another
55:14
and like when you find your match as a bad
55:16
as when is really gonna like. Come. Together
55:18
and it's kind of like you have your
55:21
Eureka Aha moment. So yeah, the no one
55:23
should be by themselves. As really bad as
55:25
not, the way. God intended us
55:27
to be and so you ever was. Matches
55:29
out there somewhere. So. Where are
55:31
you religious? Everything curse words, been
55:34
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cannot be combined with any other offer.
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Combo meal single item at regular place.
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