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Okay, we do require these out of
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order. said is or yeah so the
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out of sab you area. this is
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January. I just got back
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from Us Africa and went to
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South Africa. A way to say
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cells. Zambia, Zimbabwe
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didn't need anybody. But.
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Isis. Is drained from ah
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push hori had to Victoria
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falls from South Africa to
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of Zimbabwe Yeah and I.
3:25
Met this lovely couple on it. And.
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Ah we I asked them like how
3:31
they met or whatever and then says
3:33
here talked about her partner and then
3:35
I was like they've. Been everyone with looked
3:38
at me and I was like ah. I
3:40
don't I don't have a
3:42
partner right now. I have
3:44
several meaningful friendships. everyone laughs
3:46
and then they went. Don't
3:48
worry, Ill happened. For. You and now
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I can't leave. I'm says on a train
3:52
and they have to like have dessert with
3:55
these people who now feel bad for me
3:57
and. Him.
4:00
The hundred miles from home and I still
4:02
feel bad. About being single eyebrow at it as
4:04
I hear that have a good side by myself
4:06
will get about it's say who had a Gf
4:08
I had always wanted to go to Africa like.
4:10
And like is a dare. I.
4:13
Had a great time a second.
4:15
Loved Africa. I can't recommend the
4:17
continent and Us. It was
4:19
really beautiful in. There's so much to
4:21
say. We only saw the southern part
4:24
of Africa, but there is like Northern
4:26
Africa Central Africa legs. It's just I.
4:29
It's a beautiful consonant. like it's just
4:31
stunning. Or data God I mean
4:33
I threw the as do you on a
4:35
meaningful friendships they'd go after like have been
4:37
settled or long ago and all of my
4:39
emotional energies is Bill has is built really
4:41
suppress is of really around avast Yes yes
4:43
I'm really proud of really proud of these
4:45
people and I love they have generated. In
4:47
my life as as it's like yeah it
4:50
will be really nice to like have somebody.
4:52
Who's romantic? But I'm like. It's
4:55
not have any sales. Of
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my friends when about so
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France? Letter that till say
5:01
are using all your single. Yeah
5:03
yeah, yeah single. Yeah.
5:06
I basing a for a long time as well. like I
5:08
was doing that. So I was on a date the other
5:10
day and she asks me how long have been single and
5:12
I had to do the math and it was. It.
5:14
Was about a gun. was eight years, nine years
5:16
A and was nine years. That's I see
5:19
Lake in a legal question. I don't think
5:21
anyone should be allowed to Philly. So how
5:23
long have you been single bit? Don't worry
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about it, I'm here with you. Now
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trying to do such sites that use of
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his ass? yeah right. brain to have already
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a Marty. It'd be good for you. As
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over the opposite. Our smooth
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as the was life because the zebra
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address our rights the I see that
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I'm a sap a big establish you
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as is only a big spots. and
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up really like i'm not even live like i
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eat me but I am he I'm have been
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anything i like are eating whenever brad i felt
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so bad a qb why they were aroused by
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this it of mass the your success. Or
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ended up advises like. There was like
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a barbecue begun bergen I was just a like
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and serena up as. A was is
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often shards grouse bright eyed so I
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went. To be honest. A I
6:09
went from I'd I felt like I was
6:11
already honest about the yeah. How
6:13
much I don't like the food that I get at that point
6:15
on? I just can be as about everything that. Had
6:18
is Gabriel All of it's. Status sign a
6:20
it when you make the choice on a
6:23
Thursday to be like I'll never see. This
6:25
first that again you could have all my
6:27
saw everything that's ever been in my head
6:29
I do not give a shit out A
6:32
separate see you again yes I did it
6:34
take to get a wizard or ever and
6:36
one day arcs you were flagged on in
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assets that's really friday as it it like
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a free a lot enough I'll be I
6:43
might go out again and are no. Admire.
6:46
You know and and I'm not. I'm not against dating
6:48
have begun but I do realize like I do want
6:50
to have the same answers with somebody I'm dating a
6:52
thing. As a site it's as ours going to
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is always going to be a thing I like to eat out
6:57
a lot like I like the and now. So. Like
6:59
is always going to be Am you
7:01
know a complication plant? And
7:04
see if you date is the again. It
7:07
has to be as egan who is
7:09
not like a pretty good they're like
7:11
looked down on you for eating meat
7:13
if gabi as he get his like.
7:15
Like. My friend, you know, Lagan Legacy is
7:17
illegal who will go anywhere as long as
7:20
it have won the game item on the
7:22
menu for her ass? Ah, but she doesn't
7:24
give a shit what you eat so it's
7:26
like you can go anywhere with her. That's
7:28
the kind of Egan I'd have to day.
7:31
It's yeah, where it's like we go. Anywhere
7:33
as long as like yard sale with the one big
7:35
an item is it every now and again. Will
7:37
go to a full vegan restaurant for you.
7:39
I agree I big that's a beautiful see
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that as a great way to Luciana specific
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with spree either side. You
7:46
know as I can I admire it like is
7:48
not like I'm my biggest get away for me
7:50
is is like I assume I'm actually like I'm
7:52
as epic is a beautiful bag and I I
7:54
would love to it and I see a buddhist
7:57
I said be not eating meat but I was
7:59
like. But. Yeah I figure
8:01
I think I don't like the anxiety of
8:03
having to think about that kind of stress
8:05
with something that unless cel mai tns vidal
8:08
Yeah so yeah like meaningful friendship. That's what
8:10
I have when I would love to travel.
8:12
met some me about it go Africa let
8:14
me know up the love which are really.
8:18
But. Yeah, I do. What is about to ask? I
8:20
want to go to Egypt. I went to see some
8:22
pyramids. Ah, I want to go
8:24
to Morocco and one of the.
8:26
There's a ton of places I haven't been yet that
8:28
I really really us it. One ago and we've been
8:30
to Japan. Yeah, I want to go there this year
8:32
and what am I hope this ago there's no one.
8:35
A Good It shows you how
8:37
bad is like. Side. You know,
8:39
mano, right? My yeah plant with his has then.
8:41
And was a team of as a
8:43
season so I just I want a
8:45
partner to travel as also happy to
8:47
tablet my meaningful friendships but lakes it
8:49
seems nice to like get on a
8:52
slight with their partner tee hee hee
8:54
with your partner and then like get
8:56
off and like go fuck in a
8:58
hotel or. Is. Limited to say say
9:00
he. Is like a
9:02
get the i like immediately like as soon
9:04
as we get off the place last week
9:06
that you gotta ride it out renounce out
9:08
which I did do that as in is
9:10
like where do we go let's go check
9:12
out the Vatican real quick. Says that. Are
9:15
you what kind of I've traveled person? Are
9:17
you? Are you like organize more? Are you
9:19
like to go with the flow kind of
9:21
by know. I am So
9:24
for this twelve a. Trip to Africa.
9:26
I packed. I started packing at
9:28
eleven pm the day before we
9:30
last. Ah, So. That's
9:33
the type of traveler I am.
9:35
I do everything. Last minute.
9:37
Ah. I either under packer, over
9:40
pack this? yeah my over packed every to
9:42
everywhere we went before. like are you staying
9:44
here for a month So. I
9:47
just has the biggest suitcase known
9:49
to man. Bill to the brim.
9:51
Yeah also I i'm very cool
9:53
ago at the flow. I'm very
9:55
close land to a location and
9:57
not having a single thing planned.
10:00
and then figuring it out while we're there and
10:02
the same way yeah like of were like walking
10:04
down the street and we see like a cool
10:06
thing a bar or something that they'll it's really
10:08
had to sing and like mrs go there and
10:10
them and see where that days of our members
10:12
and with yet like map from like. I.
10:14
Yes I see I went apart arkansas work
10:16
as like my best friend Car you know
10:18
Carl he he he lived out in a
10:20
country for a long time. He he he
10:22
refuses and leave the country's athletic. Lives
10:26
As America necessities, Less
10:29
Americans goddamn it's by
10:31
yeah I I. Like
10:34
my goal in life like I did we
10:36
did vision boys her feel as good as
10:38
done a job and everybody's by had a
10:40
homey bar say we. Ah
10:43
we did visit boys for his birthday
10:45
m as in my vision boy was
10:47
are travelling. Like outside of the country
10:49
like so that's like saying a half I have to
10:51
do when I'm in a relationship or not. Zoc out
10:53
of it but I don't want to do about myself
10:55
is gonna nerve wracking likes to be enough for country
10:57
like alone and of series out our it. It.
11:00
Is I went to Dublin
11:02
alone. And all I had
11:04
to do with like. Leave the hotel unexplored.
11:06
As a for tonight's that I could have
11:08
done. Sat by was so like nervous as I
11:10
don't have you like the loser. Lady in
11:12
the corner of a bar. and then
11:14
when I was on vacation as like
11:16
by made friends like aids. People to
11:19
talk and you could easily make friends.
11:21
I forgot about that when I was
11:23
alone. Yeah, that yeah, I'm traveling. alone
11:25
is a. So it's nerve
11:27
wracking. And also, I love that you did
11:29
this And boards. I've done it to this.
11:32
You boards And twenty Twenty three. And
11:34
I'm like, guess I'm due for another one.
11:36
Just gotta. Put. Things in
11:38
my eyesight of what I was like. One
11:40
is. A love one And if
11:42
a man comes to my house and is in
11:45
my room he's gonna be like are you well,
11:47
like, are you okay. Now
11:50
I doesn't have a license. Good salaries and
11:52
ninety minutes last yeah, Louisiana good sex or
11:54
at how did you find out in a
11:56
magazine As you suggest this, I can be
11:58
nice. Had to cut out. The. The.
12:01
As he acts in it looks like ransom.
12:03
Okay, this is mine is as I'd like.
12:05
I'd have this woman right. Here is this
12:07
is why Black woman and in classes. As
12:11
a little very nice there is every favour
12:13
as though it over it as she looked
12:16
at a lighter as seedless either out this
12:18
issue right events will be me a supply
12:20
of right now that's this of the picture
12:22
of a random person by I Am yeah
12:25
like this was for much of what's vida
12:27
as Isis is area side a sign of
12:29
the I started to get. Down As like I
12:31
people's this is really for me. I wanted people to see
12:33
this. But. I I got there
12:36
and a dogs I want to get a
12:38
dog in a in Oscars and when you
12:40
can ask. Ss
12:43
I. Like that Those? I mean that's good.
12:45
I wish I had my near me. But.
12:47
As their in my i say is that
12:49
when I wake up a look at once
12:51
and then the other one when I go
12:54
to the bathroom I pass by air Yeah.
12:56
But. It's like yeah like tribe loss pictures
12:59
of like water because I love water and
13:01
both school of a boat and then I
13:03
have a picture of a couple. Neither one
13:05
looks like me are like the people I
13:08
date or whatever was like oh no they
13:10
look like they're happy that I had our
13:12
as the ads. From different letters and
13:14
it truly looks like a you know
13:16
it's like steel someone as if we
13:19
if we have sex you get your
13:21
flight back or something as a ransom
13:23
note is looks like a has arranged
13:25
to assess assess as this. You
13:28
Canada? Are you tempted? Letters about separately
13:30
from different magazines? Admit yeah. I've
13:33
got quite aware of. it isn't for hims as
13:35
one where separates us as. The. Design says
13:37
in an earlier than me and and
13:39
I see her. In
13:42
there like different sizes so it looks wilde.
13:46
But yeah, I have. So okay. Iceland
13:48
four and a half hours on both
13:50
isn't boorishness ssl last. Titan it's
13:52
just ten, ten ten ten i
13:54
don't own a six are helpful.
13:56
Also, I feel like writing letters
13:58
is helpful. may. So. I
14:01
dated somebody for a little bit and right
14:03
before I met them, I wrote a letter
14:05
to my future partner. And then.
14:08
Put. It in the mail with a stamp
14:10
and it just said from From and Nicole.
14:12
Buyer on a buyer on the another you
14:14
put my full names. And I wrote
14:16
Los Angeles, California. The retired as and
14:18
to them. I wrote to my future
14:20
partner anywhere in California close to me
14:22
and I stood in the mailbox and
14:24
then I met so. In a couple
14:27
months later. so I'd wow Dan.
14:30
Because I was like a cigarette ready to meet
14:32
somebody. So I did as again and I'm like
14:35
I. Said
14:37
one from the post office does has a collection
14:39
of these things for me is that as a
14:41
couple time it was a guy the most obvious
14:43
who ride in love with the right after his
14:46
i miss my brother girl again two sisters
14:48
don't worry rows and rows and I'll try to
14:50
convince ago I shoot is sad and like so
14:52
many like he doesn't I disobeyed your assets for
14:54
his as their retrieval he. Doesn't know where I
14:56
live because I. Didn't. Put my address their
14:59
and I said there's no way I see
15:01
you don't have a return address as wrote
15:03
Los Angeles California know retards of my. First
15:06
initial last name and then I do
15:08
put his stamp on it because. Know
15:12
like as a feeling that like makes the
15:14
magic works. But I'm pretty
15:16
sure it's own at the post office is
15:18
like this are all going through it or
15:20
assist or another she wants the series of
15:22
of a resume them never heard of that.
15:25
Areas. Am I like shit like that? I like
15:27
a magic writes his at the I like I
15:29
like I have I'm in say they were of
15:31
years I liked I like do as you like
15:33
that to feel like or maybe something in there
15:35
in universe is to for me. But.
15:37
Our womb and for good luck. For with
15:39
that let me know how those. We'll.
15:42
See if and when you when you send it out. I
15:44
sent it out. Ah
15:47
Chris, Oh it blew Isn't
15:49
it out? To.
15:51
Two or three days ago. I. Was a
15:53
it's the beginning of the year I got
15:56
a guy gets a magic word Gangs.against Gotta
15:58
love the universe Know that? Ready and
16:00
I'd like to meet somebody. Yeah.
16:03
And then the apps are bad. Are you on
16:06
the apps? Yeah, yeah Yeah that they're now for
16:08
an ad on Wiped Out Really light. I have
16:10
enough. Yeah. I'd like to me
16:12
people, him and real life I am I'm
16:14
realizing that Edison person yes I'm also not
16:16
really good at ah like even oh I'm
16:18
a writer I do have a hard time
16:20
figuring out what to say like I find
16:22
myself saying it's are making a job that
16:24
I should make if we like knew each
16:26
other for two years. Him an Omega As
16:28
I affairs said there's ice The other day
16:30
I said this girl. A way I
16:32
will act as a big thing about astrology lately and
16:35
outside the she says he had a really good day.
16:37
like a good afternoon. Money and assets are like I
16:39
had a really good day. My conceal day right and
16:41
I'm sue of and I and I was like a
16:43
waiver on the same page or you I said i
16:46
your i like or or your water or air signed
16:48
like me. And. Issues I had. you
16:50
know that was amazing Actually, believe you guessed
16:52
that I'm an homage and were both Gemini
16:54
sites and ago. And
16:56
ago yeah I'm from space baby sit
16:58
with as bad. As
17:01
allies never heard of from her. Is it
17:03
like it to stop with the twists and
17:05
we was not. My
17:07
we had a good run. it is as a side
17:09
cyrus and as I say that why Joe. Also
17:12
forgot us as well as a fight is us. Off
17:16
really hard and legs phase me do every
17:18
Jupiter's or now let's relates that zoo like
17:20
know really how does you'll see like how
17:22
did you guess this by yeah I don't
17:24
add add another what are and I file.
17:26
All these guys are like I'm trying to
17:28
learn about it's get better at it but
17:31
I just I think I'm I just not
17:33
be yet day a day in a person
17:35
by. I. Remember being like
17:37
I'm. I. Was ah match
17:39
with this girl during Christmas time and it was
17:41
a seaside hi how are you in as like
17:44
hi are you x you're excited take for Christmas
17:46
like were great guess you want to get. As
17:49
as as nothing since like silence
17:51
was synthesizer never heard that What
17:53
are we supposed? To be saying to
17:56
each other's i don't know you, you
17:58
don't know me It's a very. The
18:00
question of what do you want for Christmas?
18:02
I know. I hope. I'm hoping they get
18:04
this perfume that I like. Yeah, what are
18:06
you hoping to get set like? It's not
18:09
that fucking I like how are you and
18:11
I'm like great, How are. You are
18:13
like that. I'm I'm not doing great.
18:15
I'm pretty. Sad about the impending holidays and
18:17
that the way I feel like it's end dates.
18:20
how are you like? What Am I? I I.
18:23
I. You know I their this
18:25
man on one of the apps who is
18:27
like. The. He was like a
18:29
minute the in Europe and I was
18:31
like oh okay, I'm currently in Europe.
18:33
this is over the summer I guess
18:35
I didn't realize it showed people exactly where
18:37
I was on rise. And. Then he was
18:40
a community in New. York later this year. knows I'll actually
18:42
be any earlier this year. And he's like when and
18:44
I told him he looked. That's exactly when I'm going
18:46
to be there. an ugly or a. Lowly hit
18:48
me up lawyer there and then. he
18:51
like hit me up when i was a new york me
18:53
that when do I see you know like this is too
18:55
much this. Is. One
18:57
hundred and like, forget about me. but I was
18:59
like. At. All it just isn't
19:01
like he did have a life. Of
19:04
yeah I forgot about that boy success
19:06
and and I don't remember that they
19:08
are like we do. You want a
19:10
day for like says out? But I don't want
19:13
to date a psychotic. Person and this or that
19:15
was given me like crazy. Person buys is that
19:17
he was I would you like. Are
19:20
you. Oh
19:22
that I don't know what I why does
19:24
not like a normal still persists Matthew you
19:26
get like yeah and as of I just
19:28
feel like especially with day in as like
19:30
I feel like. I'm like a
19:32
very in a a i want to outlets
19:34
are you little be about this highly sensitive
19:37
stomach of my i'm of May my after
19:39
my a man after and I've been reading
19:41
a lot about it but I find myself.
19:44
Very. As I heard you say this
19:46
on a par with that. You like your
19:48
very like you tell your business everybody's like
19:50
now very much like Best Buy it like
19:53
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24:14
twenty one is. Everybody was like
24:16
ah, we're out here I want a meaningful
24:18
connection with somebody and I went on some
24:21
nice days of the boss and then as
24:23
the years have gone on I feel like
24:25
everybody's back to be like a fucking shit
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has yet legs as people whacked and wild
24:29
and sit like it's it's bad out here.
24:32
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24:34
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l a thing you have any your you have
24:38
a new York to write. How was
24:40
it up their lives in New York for eight
24:43
years? I loved it but also the my early
24:45
twenties so like I was always our you know
24:47
at a bar or something like a free read
24:49
on Timeout New York. And
24:52
I what the people all the time and
24:54
I was always kissing people answer Ah never.
24:56
Had a meaningful relationship. Still have
24:58
my meaningful friendships yet, but I
25:00
didn't bet a ton more people.
25:02
Like when out more. And dated
25:04
a lot more and. Would like: Do
25:07
you like you able to Mcmanus.
25:09
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, Mcmanus so
25:11
fun. They sometimes. They. Like
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lock He and his legs three.
25:15
Four Five of them were name and like
25:17
you and your night. Kiss them somebody. That's
25:19
where I spent my twenties. Those legs Yeah
25:21
fun. The. Dalai like
25:24
know. That. A wake
25:26
up and hike. that a wake up in
25:28
work. There's no like making out with people
25:30
at bars because everyone kind of clichy. I
25:32
don't. It's another I don't have. Good luck.
25:34
isn't very like. Elway.
25:37
Everyone is like sin and
25:39
blonde and white n's. How
25:42
now I feel a medium just lead not
25:44
attractive to like men? In a way I
25:46
think I'm attractive to like white women who
25:49
were like oh my god you're. Brave that
25:51
your thoughts and block and okay whether.
25:55
To Five. We love sex with him To come over
25:58
and sell your home as you may face. Inspiring?
26:00
You are? No, I spy. Yeah, I think.
26:02
I. Feel I l a has a
26:04
strange zam. Transients.
26:07
Feeling where people are just like incapable of
26:09
in abu I include myself in is due
26:11
on the a amp up like I'm part
26:13
of his pants. And. It just feels
26:15
like. My. Because we don't have family
26:17
hair just I just feel like I'm now.
26:19
I'm not really grounded and I always found
26:21
that I had my dating life is always
26:24
been better when I dated someone who's from
26:26
here whose family is here in new as
26:28
like out has roots or something. I don't
26:30
know why. is it? Maybe it's just something
26:32
about says made. You. Decide the
26:34
a the energy as as having a
26:36
like keep moving, a keep like keep
26:38
surviving our here versus like. I'm.
26:40
I'm I'm I'm settled in the sick
26:42
and and the space. But. Ah,
26:45
Without. Or know I eat ice. I'm I. Wow
26:47
so you their site because I'm A. I've been in
26:50
therapy for a few years now. And. Talking
26:52
about this a lab. but. I. Definitely
26:54
want to like. I feel like for a while
26:56
been like seeming myself for been single for so
26:58
long. Now finally like letting
27:00
go as as. I. Say
27:03
kids out like I make up. As.
27:05
Ever watch our oh maybe I'm like just
27:07
afraid. like I mean I'm be a really
27:09
cool present. And then I'll just bail
27:11
on the really are like get out of it
27:13
really quickly and I saw massacre like. I'm
27:16
afraid of commitment or something, but. I.
27:18
Was thinking I was. The. Article my therapists
27:20
and it's like I really. Didn't.
27:22
Realize it? You know I'd distances and
27:24
really says in a person tested estate.
27:27
I'm white I get overwhelmed by most in and
27:29
out and I like in a it is like
27:31
I did he on people's emotions and I've found
27:33
that idol it when I look back through all
27:35
the release if I had as like our when
27:37
I looked up to those lenses and isn't it.
27:40
Oh. If I like knew how to deal with
27:42
that of I knew how to like man is and
27:44
I think I would have a lot more success or
27:46
later says anything I was so. Everything
27:48
every any time any was shown me any
27:51
be like stealing or care. I was nice
27:53
feeling like overwhelmed by it and I think
27:55
I didn't know that he was an actual
27:57
quality or as a part of your personality
27:59
as rude. Like he allows com childhood
28:01
or whatever. But as of now I'm like
28:03
now I go now be I'm one of
28:05
those guys. It goes really civil. Let me
28:07
tell you all my issues like I'm highly
28:10
sensitive of right guy society am I am
28:12
on antidepressants are Bligh does. This is where
28:14
you need a dental by like but it
28:16
makes me feel better about like missing a
28:18
napkin and my dentist any. Misguided.
28:21
Just like nice to be single cause I
28:23
really didn't like America Really most romantic I
28:25
know, like like I've believed. I guess I
28:27
believe in magic. You know, like I'm going
28:29
like out like yeah, like connect with anybody
28:31
like it's very easy is very easy for
28:33
me to connect on. The flip side of
28:36
the hard part is and it's had a
28:38
man is. My ass. Oh the
28:40
overwhelming feeling of like. A
28:42
most in As and being sensitive and he dealing
28:45
with catholic and when we don't disagree if we
28:47
disagree on something in the the pain that causes
28:49
at last may be at last a little longer
28:51
for me to get over it. and like an
28:54
average. Person. I'm
28:56
eighty one. Yeah. That's
28:58
when so appeal against them. yet when about when I
29:00
want to say is i. I'm feeling okay
29:03
about be a single Attic you said to.
29:05
That's. What I think. That's
29:08
nice. Go
29:10
in and out A sealant. Okay, that
29:12
the insane lonely isn't the end. All
29:15
be all being in a relationship. I
29:17
look at some people's relationships and I'm
29:19
like ooh yeah, Flood and a friend
29:21
who's dating this person and I actually
29:24
hate That person thinks they're like. Oh
29:26
no this. like. Actual losers. A
29:30
real life and like I did see another
29:32
year. Advice is like a loser as where
29:34
I'm like oh my god. Like you eat
29:36
like you are taken Els everywhere you're not
29:39
funny skill, get shit like you're just not
29:41
fun to be near. And I'm like law
29:43
I as much as I want to be
29:46
in a release of our that wow what
29:48
up? Like a person that everybody. My life
29:50
things as a loser but won't say to my say as.
29:52
ah and then i look at other relationships
29:54
where i'm like oh that seems to work
29:57
on paper but them when i hang out
29:59
all i'm like oh And I need to
30:01
take a nap because your dynamic is too It's
30:04
too much for me like yeah, and
30:06
it's like that might work for a lot of
30:08
other people But I'm like I don't want that
30:10
like I would like a relationship. Okay. I met
30:12
these people I've mentioned them before He's
30:15
a tattoo artist in Atlanta. Oh
30:18
god. I can't remember his name but
30:20
whatever he is his partner is
30:23
also a tattoo artist they have a shop together
30:25
and And his
30:27
girlfriend is a piercer at their shop.
30:29
They all get along. She also has
30:31
another partner They have separate
30:33
rooms, but they sleep together sometimes
30:36
and they're so kind to one another
30:39
Yeah, and they talk about things and
30:43
Again, I don't actually know them But
30:45
I think each tattoo well one tattoo
30:47
took I think four hours The
30:49
other one took like two and a half three hours
30:51
So I was with him for like almost 10 hours
30:53
and I was like at no point
30:56
were they unkind to one another Yeah,
30:58
and it's like their relationship and living
31:00
dynamic is strange to I think a lot of
31:02
people I was like oh that
31:04
works for them and they vocalize what they
31:06
needed and they've adjusted in a way that
31:08
makes sense to them and That they
31:11
still can be really kind and nice to each
31:13
other and I was like, huh Maybe I
31:15
need a relationship that's like that doesn't make sense to
31:17
somebody else. It makes sense to us Yeah,
31:19
I don't know what that looks like But
31:22
I'm an anxious attachment style Which I've learned
31:24
because if I text someone and they don't
31:26
text me back within 15 minutes I think
31:28
that they have left me and they hate
31:30
me I'll
31:34
be alone for the rest of my life And
31:36
I have to let them know that if they
31:38
don't answer me soon, I will walk into traffic
31:40
which is like not okay Yeah,
31:46
it's so it like we it's bad Whenever
31:48
you're I'm the I'm the I'm the person
31:51
who's not tech. I'm the avoidant one So
31:53
I'm like, yeah, we would have trouble
31:55
but made it be like I cuz I would be like
31:58
I would be like Oh, she knew I need to text her So
32:00
she to know, to make sure she knows that
32:02
I still care about her even if it's, even
32:05
if I'm compromising something on my end.
32:08
But yeah, I think that, but
32:10
it defines someone who can like, you can work on
32:12
it with like and be like, okay, I know this
32:14
about you. I know and you know this about me.
32:17
No, it's like, I want to get to a
32:19
point where you take like the
32:21
subtext and a relationship is gone. Like there's no
32:23
subtext. It's like we know, we communicate so well
32:26
with each other that like if you say,
32:28
hey, I'm going to go see this movie. Do
32:30
you want to come and you say, you say,
32:33
no, I don't really want to see that. There's, you're
32:35
not like, you don't have this like thought
32:37
like, oh, she hates my taste and like she doesn't really want
32:39
to spend time in there. Yeah. Yeah.
32:42
But that only worked. That only happens if you
32:45
have a dope communications, if you communicate so well
32:47
that you don't have to like try to figure
32:49
each other out and like, and
32:51
like figure out what's really going on. Annoying
32:53
because I don't want to tell someone
32:55
I'm interested in. Hi, I'm very anxious
32:57
that you're going to leave me because
33:00
I have abandonment issues. So
33:02
if I text you when you see it,
33:04
if you could just say, hey, I'll get
33:06
back to you when I can, that literally
33:08
makes me feel okay. Yeah.
33:10
Even if like, there's like 10
33:13
hours between that text and when you actually get
33:15
back to me because you're working, like you
33:17
have a job, but like that just makes
33:19
me feel okay. Or like a good morning because
33:21
it makes me feel like you thought of me in the
33:23
morning. But like, I don't want to
33:25
tell that to someone in the beginning because it's like,
33:28
oh, I'm going to scare them
33:30
away with like all of these things I
33:32
need. But then it's like, well, maybe
33:35
I should be scaring away people who
33:37
cannot give me the things that I need. Yeah.
33:40
No, I'm just yeah, I had
33:42
that's a good point because I'm like, you
33:44
know, I'll tell some like I remember I told
33:47
this girl like, you know, on the first day
33:49
I was like, I did with depression and like
33:51
high, like high anxiety. And
33:53
so there are times where I'll, you
33:55
know, like I'll overthink and I need to
33:58
like process it or I need space
34:00
to process it. I would
34:02
tell someone that I'm really anxious and
34:04
I guess the catch 22
34:07
is when you're anxious, the thing you don't
34:09
want is for people to like coddle you,
34:11
you know, and like try to protect your
34:13
anxiety. So what happens is I'll tell someone
34:15
that and then they like overcorrect and they're
34:17
like, they're like, hey, we're
34:19
gonna do this. Is this okay? I'm like, I don't know,
34:21
like actually, this is making me way more anxious. But now
34:24
like I regret telling you that. But like, I don't know.
34:26
I don't know what's better. Like you said, is just trying
34:28
to find someone that like you can tell those things to
34:30
and then and it just worked like
34:32
that. The couple you're saying like, like,
34:35
it's just I think it just worked because they're
34:37
both compatible in that way. It was just kind
34:39
of cool. Yeah. I don't
34:41
know. Yeah, it was very interesting to like
34:43
watch and listen. And I had a lot of
34:45
questions and they were very, very kind. And we're
34:47
like, oh, yeah, yeah, here's how it works for
34:50
us. And it's
34:52
interesting with anxiety, because I just
34:54
realized I have anxiety sometimes.
34:57
Like I took this dude, I was dating
34:59
to one of my shows and I didn't
35:01
realize that I was anxious about that. But I
35:03
was like, Oh, if he doesn't like it, that
35:05
like, yeah, I mean something
35:08
about this, this dating or whatever,
35:10
because it's like, and I did tell him I
35:12
was like, Oh, if you didn't like my stand
35:14
up, I don't know if we would continue dating.
35:16
And he was like, right? Really? And I was like,
35:18
yes, because then I wouldn't invite you to shows. And
35:20
if I did invite you to a show, I'd be
35:23
like, Oh, he hates my work. He
35:25
is this thing
35:28
that is, yes, my job,
35:30
but it's like me putting my it's
35:32
me. It's yeah, that was
35:34
like a super personal thing. But
35:38
yeah, I did some with anxiety.
35:40
And I discovered I have
35:42
a little anxiety. And they were
35:44
really good at handling mine. And I was like,
35:46
not great at handling theirs at times, because I
35:48
was like, rub their back or be like, Are
35:50
you okay? And then they were like, Oh, that's not
35:52
what I need. I just need to like feel it.
35:55
And I need you to know that I'm having anxiety
35:57
right now. But like, just be normal. And I was
35:59
like, But like
36:01
something's wrong with you and I
36:03
should comfort you. So there would be times
36:05
where we'd be walking, they would tell me they were
36:08
anxious about something and
36:10
then I would like go to touch them and be like they
36:12
told me not to touch them and my hand would just
36:14
linger and they'd be like, oh, are you trying to
36:16
touch me? I'm like, uh-huh and I know I'm not
36:18
supposed to, I'm so sorry. That's
36:23
hilarious. I know exactly what
36:25
he's feeling. But it's like, I don't
36:27
know, we're trying to figure this shit
36:29
out. I just found out a few
36:31
years ago that this is something like I've been
36:33
dealing with panic attacks and I
36:35
just have, and it's like I don't know
36:37
how to date. I feel like, I honestly
36:39
feel like ever since I started having panic
36:42
attacks and having anxiety, it's actually affected my
36:44
dating life in a real way. I
36:46
mean, I don't remember what it was before, it's
36:48
hard to remember, but I just don't remember being
36:51
that anxious as a person who's in relating and
36:53
dating and seeing people. And now I'm like, it's
36:55
like I have to figure out how to communicate
36:57
this in a way that's like clear, but
37:00
also like, you know, where I feel
37:02
like I'm giving myself space to like process
37:05
what's happening because it's still new to
37:07
me too. But I, because I
37:09
empathize with someone who's, I think my, like
37:11
I'm so empathetic to the person who's dating
37:13
someone who has, like when I hear that
37:16
story, I'm empathetic towards your experience because I'm
37:18
like, oh, I know that
37:20
feels like the right thing to do
37:22
and it's like no one's really helping,
37:25
like there's no one's really kind of talking about how
37:27
to really, you know, do like do that.
37:29
So, you know, I, you know, I don't know what
37:31
the answer is, but I, you
37:33
know, I love, I would love someone to date
37:35
someone and then just have their hand like slow,
37:37
like right behind me, like not actually touching me.
37:40
I think that would actually give me a lot of comfort. Like,
37:42
I'm here, I'm here if you need me.
37:45
No, you know, I'm kind of, I'm kind of what? Like
37:48
a little bit. Yeah. I
37:51
need people to be there for me, like not close,
37:53
but close enough, you know, in case I go, in
37:55
case, you know, I lose my shit. Yeah. Since
38:00
he had anxiety, I learned that when
38:02
I was feeling anxious, I'd be like,
38:04
I think I'm having anxiety. I
38:07
think I don't feel good. And he'd be like, well, what do
38:09
you need right now? And I'm like,
38:11
I feel very chaotic. So I don't
38:14
think I need anything. I think I just need to leave to
38:16
go to the show now. And
38:18
he'd be like, OK. And then would talk
38:20
to me in the car in a way
38:23
to calm me down. And
38:25
it was just really nice. It
38:27
was like the things that worked
38:29
for us worked. And then all the things
38:31
that didn't work didn't work. But
38:37
yeah, I just like, 2024 I think is
38:39
going to be my year. I
38:43
infamously said it for 2020. And
38:45
that was not a year for anybody. But
38:48
I do think this year is going to be a
38:50
good one. And
38:52
I'm excited about it in a
38:55
way that I haven't been excited. I was not excited about 2023.
38:58
And then that was not a great year for me. Yeah,
39:01
no, that last year was a rough year.
39:03
And I was a tough. I'm feeling good
39:05
so far. I feel like
39:08
it's already half way in. And
39:11
I just feel like, yeah,
39:13
it can't get any worse. I'm
39:19
like, yeah. But I'm really excited to
39:21
just like, I
39:23
think I'm just excited to connect
39:25
with people. I'm not like, I
39:27
don't know what I'm looking for. I
39:30
think after the pandemic, I spent
39:32
the whole pandemic by myself and
39:35
just really going through a real period of isolation.
39:38
And I was also a hypochondriac. So I was
39:40
like, I just couldn't do anything. I was
39:42
just like trapped in my house. And I
39:44
came out of it like, I want a family. I
39:48
never want to be alone again. And I think when
39:50
I approach life that way, it doesn't really
39:53
work out. Because it's like, I don't
39:55
know. It was like when I was putting it out there, it
39:57
was like I was getting rejected. And I Think it's a good
39:59
thing. Now. Just like I'm just
40:01
really, I just didn't connect. Do in different
40:04
types of people have different experiences. Even
40:06
if is one nighter is one day when
40:08
we go. or three years. Five years, Ten
40:11
years. And. And that and I'll
40:13
just go have a have a good time. You know,
40:15
be myself. I said because I think that. I
40:17
think I'm I think I'm I'm like. Becoming.
40:19
An adult as as. As
40:23
also seal like I'm.
40:25
Being. Have legal adult which is
40:27
so weird to that. Like up
40:30
as an adult Css. I feel
40:32
it and settling into more of like ah
40:34
i don't need to talk to everybody. Which
40:37
I also miss, I miss you know I
40:39
I keep coming back to be in Dublin. it
40:41
being alone had I been in Dublin. Alone in
40:43
my early twenties it would have gone out.
40:45
I would have been like that but yeah
40:47
but I might more aware that like I
40:50
was the only black person I had seen
40:52
for hours that this has listened more aware
40:54
of like one of i'm a weirdo all
40:56
these people do I want to deal with
40:59
that aftermath and like yeah go to sleep
41:01
with jetlag been like I was just so
41:03
weird for two hours and yeah I think
41:05
more about how I am like coming off
41:08
the people which I don't like when I
41:10
know it is good to be self aware.
41:12
As an hour now be an adult
41:15
is confusing his out be a like
41:17
wordpress i oh yeah i know to
41:19
me at like i feel like the
41:21
i like ever does feel like and
41:23
child like set by amish I got
41:25
i got times like us of of
41:27
like of just playing around might have
41:29
a my house by like playing we
41:31
really are suspicious spike up like playing
41:33
with toys mouths were identified as our
41:36
i'd i don't have like a sense
41:38
of was. It's like I feel
41:40
like the on don't things I'm trying to learn
41:42
are like. Like. I don't want to loot like
41:44
where you're talking about. I love that like I love you, hear like.
41:46
Such. A great presence in. I
41:49
you know when you're whenever you around on
41:51
like I guess feel so happy you know
41:53
and even out Yasuda so great and work
41:56
with the on recruits who to say that
41:58
as were. Well I
42:00
you know, I think. So. It's not
42:02
that I wanted like chain I think be a
42:04
don't thing is actually being sold down with who
42:06
I am like. Like. Be having the
42:09
self awareness but they're being like I'm so into
42:11
this guy this m into my southwest it's like
42:13
I have no answer how amp project reparative like
42:15
retrain myself as because I'm I'm the kind of
42:18
as an estimate I am so worried about every
42:20
makers are everyone is happy around me. know I
42:22
think when I wanted been a dell is like
42:24
learn how I'm like learning how to be like
42:27
oh so as I paid you want to go
42:29
out and I and I kind of feel like
42:31
you know stay at home. I.
42:34
Had maybe a year ago I would just go
42:36
out and just like not and just do it
42:38
discuss. I don't want to disappoint anyone and now
42:40
I'm getting better about as being like. Say
42:43
nods and am. And I
42:46
at least even if relates it's like an hour.
42:48
Love right? Like I have to have the right
42:50
price go through a process. will be able to
42:52
say I'm actually going to salesperson now even obeyed
42:54
to jail as I sit on their and I
42:57
have been oh care at all if I'm coming.
42:59
Another problem I am I sitting around like I
43:01
had a white I was person. I don't want
43:03
to go out tonight without offending this Vanessa like
43:05
mates If I'd literally just like learning how to
43:07
like advocate for my own needs. By.
43:10
In November is a bad makes you feel like I'm becoming
43:12
a doubt because of in some they even at the restaurant
43:14
like. being like same food bag is
43:17
like issues down like a sense of back
43:19
the other day i feel so good about
43:21
it like i'm in like living also hyper
43:23
like along attack another of celebrated do that
43:25
away as as like this is the wrong
43:27
order and i was is taken as eat
43:29
it. Doesn't
43:31
speak about is either. ah specific.
43:34
It's a sign. I'll eat this whole i
43:36
order to save for this has caused us
43:38
and it's fine. Eat it and I will
43:40
see if you twenty. Five percent are eight
43:42
at by be will actually like in
43:44
ammo me will like instead of even
43:46
being like they're they're wrong or be
43:48
like maybe they think I deserve bought
43:50
like maybe they wanted to give me
43:52
pasta. Because they knew they
43:54
may I know something that I don't know.
43:56
It's it's own private lives on. It's justified
43:59
as a statement. Just like batavia
44:01
this us up I love sending
44:03
sued back ala be like know.
44:05
Essentially. Like. Someone. elses food
44:08
so we don't have as wanna. Speak up.
44:10
I'm like this is wrong and they
44:12
want. To explain a base. Ah, but
44:14
I won't do it for myself. I
44:16
don't know why. Snooze
44:19
in several occasions where legs that when
44:22
has made me. Uncomfortable or like entered my
44:24
personal space and I let it happen. And
44:26
then a friend turned. Around. And like what
44:28
are you doing to her and I'm like the
44:30
smell like smoke. Why did you say something? Like
44:32
this? I don't know. Because.
44:35
I think I'm willing to be a little
44:37
uncomfortable. If. Everyone else is comfortable
44:39
yeah that is as as aggregate data in
44:41
insane people pleasing type thing but like I
44:43
like when everyone else is happy and I'm
44:46
like I could be a little uncomfortable for
44:48
a while. I was like in a bar
44:50
with this year and this man was like
44:52
in my birthmother isn't she truly turn around
44:55
with again For space it away from Earth
44:57
seven surpasses you Look why didn't you say
44:59
something about was like. Know
45:01
he just looked around and everyone was having a good
45:04
time. Oh
45:06
my God ago that is bigger. My best
45:08
vaccine our brilliant my other methods every other
45:10
day and like. ah obviously really
45:12
paranoid about jersey staff were like moving
45:15
the guy. the guy was using a
45:17
machine and I want to use it
45:19
after and he like totally clean there.
45:22
And. Did his day but I like
45:24
waited to He was a in my of embassies
45:26
like equated. it was nice whitman out but I
45:28
didn't want him to spill their like he did
45:30
a bad job as a slight. I just want
45:32
you know adults aged early as I get a
45:35
ride my mates many by they've my dad at
45:37
a right rudder why you begin to say with
45:39
the made it out even though this person but.
45:42
Ah my yeah, it's a today tix, a
45:44
lot of methods and kind of exhausting that
45:46
way of thinking. Thailand Not to do that,
45:48
but. I
45:50
mean it is what it is. I when I
45:53
used. It or a gym I would be the same
45:55
way I would. was so unclean. I'm a scene and
45:57
an idyllic. more right? Let me get up in there
45:59
and. The just as well
46:01
it's not worth it for for whatever
46:03
reason it made me feel better because
46:05
I was like I'm doing and I'm
46:07
yeah, everything I. Think I'm gonna touch?
46:10
I'm getting and I don't know
46:12
if they actually sprayed enough of
46:14
the cleaner on their stuff. It's
46:16
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46:18
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46:22
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46:24
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What? Gym Do you go to? Hell? And.
48:13
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48:15
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48:17
Acer got a Planet Fitness. And.
48:20
That. I yeah I like
48:22
back as As and the yeah the jasmine
48:24
free zone like days jr My is everyone's
48:26
like you're not allowed to be like a
48:28
meathead in their. An odd
48:30
way. You know, just was always
48:33
crowd is I ended up going. did you kind of
48:35
my New Year's party to come in? I know. Because
48:37
I was. ah, I wasn't as Rica. Ah
48:39
you, that's or yes, our own. I was. It
48:42
was last last year by damn. I.
48:44
At the a we request Spezia
48:46
was also in Africa has happened.
48:49
To for New Years sorry. Get them anything
48:52
every. Time as I mean I
48:54
am in Africa. Lumiere citizens.
48:58
By. I am. I had a party at this place.
49:00
Going to L A have led a club. And
49:02
again and I'll because I use that venue, they
49:04
let me do a membership there. And.
49:06
I'll ride. I love a decade. It's
49:09
like are it's of it is super
49:11
raises by like having our sense of
49:13
a flower the same race as well
49:15
as that we've been around since slavery,
49:17
etc. Again, as active
49:20
on a while your way out of a
49:22
mess with the B S. but I will
49:24
either because it's sides as me and lay
49:26
Odds eighty or oh I do that album.
49:29
At and they're not trying to tell me I
49:31
know I live wasted space. I love it as
49:33
a as in Israel as a hero say very
49:35
funny. I also went
49:37
to Planet Fitness for a while when I
49:39
lived in New York and then I just
49:42
recently saw it is There a video of
49:44
this woman who was like I got a
49:46
Planet Fitness and people have been complaining about
49:48
how ice mouse I thought this is a
49:50
judgment free zone Harrys Melon the gym and
49:52
I was like girl. You. Must
49:54
the stinky. It's first when.
49:57
His sickness to complain about.
49:59
Now. I have been to play,
50:01
I have smelled the smells at Planet Fitness.
50:03
Yeah, Planet Fitness be staking, it be staking,
50:05
that little clickin. I saw a
50:07
motherfucker in there working out in
50:09
a mailman outfit, like... I
50:13
was like, yo, I didn't... Well, weird as shit
50:15
happens at Planet Fitness. It's
50:18
crazy, isn't it? I saw a woman eating a
50:20
Calzone on a treadmill at Planet Fitness, and
50:22
I was like, you could do anything
50:24
you fucking want here. This is more
50:27
than judgment free. This is just a zone
50:29
where you can exist however you fucking want
50:31
to. Have you seen the commercials? There's a
50:33
commercial out right now with
50:36
Meg Thee Stallion promoting it. It's
50:38
the most insane commercial I've ever
50:40
seen. Like, Meg Thee Stallion plays
50:42
this genie. She's like a magical
50:44
workout genie. She's calling people out
50:46
for being judgmental. She's like, we
50:49
don't do that. The hotties don't
50:51
do that. It's
50:54
just so funny to see rappers line themselves
50:58
up with brands. I'm saying
51:00
my age, but when we were younger, it was
51:02
not cool to be... A rapper
51:04
couldn't line himself up with a commercial brand.
51:06
That was not the cool thing. Unless it
51:08
was Sprite. Yeah, because Sprite was awesome.
51:12
But yeah, I gotta say, it's
51:14
the funniest commercial. I
51:17
love Meg, but it was great. It was just
51:20
like, this has nothing to do with exercise. It's
51:25
just Meg being like, no judgment. Hotties don't judge.
51:27
That's so funny. It's
51:29
like a purple cloud. He's like floating over the
51:31
gym. Like, it's crazy. Anyways, you'll
51:33
see it soon. Watch.
51:36
I swear to God, now that I've told you, you're going to see it
51:38
all the time. Probably,
51:40
and I can't fucking wait to see it all the time. I had
51:42
a dream when I would go to the gym a lot. I'd
51:46
be like, maybe I'll meet someone at the gym. But then
51:48
I'm like, do I want to meet someone at the gym?
51:50
I'm pretty sure I'm going to meet someone. I'm
51:53
barely at the gym. And then I'm like,
51:55
how do I want to meet someone? So I'm being like, you're doing that
51:57
wrong. It's like, no. I
52:00
don't know how I want to meet anybody. I
52:02
just, I want this to be easier. Also, I'm
52:04
like, I want to meet someone on set, but everybody on
52:06
set's married and shit. Yeah,
52:08
like what do you, I mean, let me ask
52:10
you this, are you more interested, do
52:13
you feel more comfortable dating someone in business
52:15
or like someone who's just like
52:17
a direct, like a person who's just outside
52:19
the industry completely? Or you don't care? I
52:23
don't know if I care, but the
52:25
more time I spend with actors, the more I'm like,
52:27
oh, I simply don't want to
52:29
date one of y'all. Especially
52:32
like just a legit actor who doesn't
52:34
do comedy, like they don't have a
52:36
whimsy about the job and they don't
52:38
have like a twinkle about it. It's
52:40
like very methodical and like, here's
52:42
why I'm saying this and coming this way, and
52:45
should I try it that way? And it's like,
52:47
oh, you have a lot of, you
52:49
think a lot about yourself in a way that I
52:51
don't. And then
52:53
I'm like, I don't want a comedy person.
52:55
I tend to feel like comedy people are
52:58
always aspiring for somebody better than them, but
53:00
not necessarily career wise, looks wise.
53:05
So like I don't want that. And
53:09
then I've dated normal
53:12
people who
53:14
have like jobs, bartending,
53:16
editors, and
53:19
nothing has like really like popped
53:22
or anything, but I do think I want someone like
53:24
adjacent to it. Like I think I would like
53:27
a cinematographer or like a camera operator, a grip,
53:30
set design, prop. Oh
53:33
man, I got a camera out for you. This dude is cock
53:35
diesel, he look good as hell. Really?
53:38
I say, he was like, me and my homie
53:40
were like, we were, it was on an episode,
53:43
well I will say he'll know, but it
53:45
was on episode with Charles. My
53:48
homie was directing and I was the
53:50
writer on it. We just like, we
53:54
were like two like soft ass skinny
53:56
dudes. And then like this guy was
53:58
like, he had this. Camera right next to
54:00
have it is is most of his as I balls,
54:03
it's a we kept I said I live and as
54:05
a real man right their success. Average.
54:09
I as like away our asses as
54:12
at the moment ago this as a
54:14
dense. You. Please
54:16
do about makes that's funny that
54:18
you said. That's a real man is
54:20
when I met June, Diane Raphael as
54:22
a disturbance on the bike as well,
54:24
I met her. I was like that's
54:26
a woman enticement. Where's weights? And. Fifty,
54:29
She's like my marriage he was headed to a white
54:31
know, like she's. Not afraid get do
54:33
Sada and she's a real woman.
54:35
is not drinking juice. Fast
54:38
as a static one will not happen
54:40
So nice Bf tell their operator about
54:42
May. I would love to be set
54:44
up. In. A way it like with
54:46
somebody who is a nice person who has a
54:48
job like yeah yeah with the at let me
54:50
that we were gonna be each other up let
54:53
up, underwhelmed is like a free zone. His leg.
54:55
Nice. You know, Like. I myself am
54:58
so conflict avoiding as the like. As
55:00
one who, yeah, when I'd. Yeah.
55:02
When the like ticket you know like a best friend you know some
55:04
I'll be like the home you were. But. I do.
55:06
yeah those you be I wanna like I feel
55:08
like I do this thing a lot Mst feel
55:10
like a matter of room and I'd I'd i
55:13
when I come home and I'm trying for my
55:15
keys in the like I guess we're dropping off
55:17
to get away identified him and like eyedropper like
55:19
five thousand for identified as as well I got
55:21
a feeling of room and as a do this.
55:25
Is going around soon as soon
55:27
as he has excesses cartoons is
55:29
dropping your Jesus's I also drop
55:31
my keys a lot or. So.
55:34
I'm in my car. Is
55:36
either way, my. Car as is. Hate my A
55:38
d off because I'm too many keys on in.
55:40
they get a nice I just take it off
55:43
but I don't put it back on immediately. I
55:45
will leave my car key in the car if
55:47
and only sold in the wrong spot. I will
55:49
leave my phone in the car and then I
55:51
get upstairs to my house and I go. Well.
55:54
Do. I need my phone for the rest of the
55:56
night and then it's always like yeah, because that's your
55:58
alarm, You gotta go. I'm
56:00
always leaving shit in the car. I do.
56:02
Yeah left my window down the other day.
56:05
I Was throwing
56:07
something away and I was like, huh my windows
56:09
not tempered Like it I can see right into
56:11
my car and then I like put my hand
56:13
on the window There was no window. I just
56:16
left the window down for like a day. Oh Shit,
56:20
yeah, I didn't say shit like it out, but
56:22
I have the same mental process I'm like man,
56:24
you could really see in that motherfucker. They don't
56:26
like Oh
56:34
Yeah, are you I'm also a bad driver
56:36
too I'm like I I just want
56:38
to step it up on all those kind of things
56:40
There's a little thing a little little tweaks. I'm a
56:42
make but you know ladies I know I know y'all
56:44
listening, but you know, I'm you know, I got something
56:47
to offer. I think I do so I think you
56:49
do too. I think you're great Yeah,
56:52
I have a question for you. You've gone on the
56:54
record about liking little Dom lasagna
56:56
despite being lactose intolerant What
56:59
is it about little Dom lasagna that you
57:01
like so much? I
57:04
think I just think it's hard to find good lasagna
57:06
in this city If you know, I
57:08
think I'm not don't necessarily like
57:11
little Dom's like the best side It's
57:13
not the best lasagna ever had but
57:15
they would do it on I they would only do it on that Tuesday
57:19
and It's Friday now Is that
57:21
what happened? Cuz I can I went back on Tuesday
57:23
and they were like we don't do this shit no
57:25
more and I was like They
57:28
told you they do it on Friday. Yeah, I don't
57:30
know I'm the opposite signs in a newsletter that yeah,
57:32
but I was like man what's that a little doubt
57:35
This is a quick step like cuz I what they
57:37
got do a lot. I don't know if you do
57:39
this as a single person I like take myself on
57:41
dates a lot So I'll do like like I like
57:43
I like literally have a conversation myself. Like where do
57:46
you want to go tonight? I'm gonna take you somewhere
57:48
nice and we're gonna get dressed up
57:50
and And I
57:52
was like, let's go a little dance. Keep it local, you know, I'm saying
57:54
and It was like popping that
57:56
night and it was Tuesday. I was ready for lasagna.
57:58
But Anyway, this is Not. It was are
58:00
am related issues you know you remind
58:03
me an idea So I get there.
58:05
And. Man. I swear
58:07
to God it was like. A. Lie it
58:09
either outside has a patio right there. Soon
58:12
as you as I said a bow Their
58:14
house like wants me to my table and
58:16
is just like a line of beautiful women.
58:18
Just. Like having a great time and in there
58:20
was like this whole table of life. Like.
58:23
They were had to be like. Anna just like
58:25
young girls are, whenever. And.
58:27
I said she says be in the chair
58:29
and it's ads is immediately follows from pests
58:32
it as a As and if everybody's l
58:34
I know it was like. I
58:36
was dismayed to say though
58:38
is if it's worth more
58:41
sincere day every bus. By.
58:44
Yeah no I I is the honestly and when
58:47
it's on electors up in cook you know amazon
58:49
to learn how to make lasagna of I
58:51
really says let me elect a added lactose. thanks
58:53
yeah I'm trying to, I just take the pills
58:55
now if a person really limited. Pizza
58:58
and his demeanor Me: And. My
59:00
book make incision. Sees.
59:02
This isn't an Arab like
59:04
lasagna. Atlantis it was.
59:07
I knew like that last ah yes I
59:09
sit as. Sizes
59:14
on. Your campus added sees
59:16
good a mad Sega are a
59:18
valid their say I love my
59:20
Garfields valley dare say on ah
59:22
when else as season it. Ah,
59:25
Mac and Cheese cheese fries. Mac
59:28
and Cheese yeah I am glued on.
59:30
was on yet every Friday for a
59:32
full year and now I kiss hours
59:34
since I've had too much of it.
59:37
Ah I see believe that there was
59:39
enough right is now a gag and
59:41
am yet again as and that he
59:43
just order it online. you have to
59:45
go in and get it then they
59:48
won't let you have to go, you
59:50
have to start it there and then
59:52
you can pack and I think there's
59:54
so many rules and I don't understand
59:56
why. Yeah Time signal. Oh does honestly?
59:59
Last. I.
1:00:02
Am. I
1:00:04
think a lot of you find a game as I
1:00:06
used by. let me know. And. I go
1:00:08
out as. If I am, I let me know
1:00:10
as fucking Love lasagna. I think it's really good.
1:00:12
I make a pretty decent lasagna. But I've
1:00:14
only done it twice. Yeah, And
1:00:17
I'm like maybe the third time will
1:00:19
be bad. I know now. Also, I
1:00:21
tried cooking more to keep this man
1:00:24
in this really discuss it. At home.
1:00:27
And then in hindsight it was like it ended
1:00:30
up being good is now I know I can
1:00:32
make pretty decent. Check em. Yeah! Can
1:00:34
make pretty decent pasta. Ah, what else
1:00:36
did I make That mail? I made
1:00:38
a cheesecake. buy hemp. Why? I can
1:00:41
make a very good seed cake now.
1:00:43
Ah bad. although that another one cheesecake.
1:00:45
Amazon your bathroom and I'll break my
1:00:48
rules for like I love cheesecake so
1:00:50
much. And. Yeah I asked. yeah, just
1:00:52
sacked by your budget if I got my going
1:00:54
like I'm like yeah, I'm. In it
1:00:56
and be committing to destroying my nine Nasa's
1:00:59
metics. As as I say, it's like we're
1:01:01
gonna going into that. This. Is
1:01:03
really at his place. The horses has really
1:01:05
care if I go cheese. Teaches
1:01:07
take is so good. Horses I
1:01:10
think that's the restaurant where it
1:01:12
was a couple. Yeah, mayonnaise. I was
1:01:14
a retired as I out of I didn't know. They
1:01:16
started by killing cats or
1:01:18
something. Yeah yeah yeah couple now to set
1:01:21
the for. I
1:01:23
often so way I buy ours like I'm
1:01:25
going to recommend his restaurant fully knowing about
1:01:28
is the you're about to say when I
1:01:30
was like maybe maybe no matter where Oh
1:01:32
that yes. Listen
1:01:34
and I love that yes men's it it but
1:01:36
as he got a bon app the T. Dot
1:01:39
coms it says what's happening
1:01:41
inside horses the by the
1:01:43
only restaurant now surrounded and
1:01:45
drama or this sets owners
1:01:47
have a very public divorce.
1:01:49
Ah it's pretty wild and
1:01:51
I haven't been using. For. Any
1:01:53
was gimmick jab at the restaurant way. he
1:01:56
was doing it at home he was killing them
1:01:58
on his own time yes as You
1:02:01
were doing it at home. Yeah, I mean, is
1:02:03
it still open? Yeah, I
1:02:05
think it's still a home life balance.
1:02:07
I don't think that chef
1:02:09
is there, but I think it's still rocky.
1:02:12
How funny. How wild. That is
1:02:15
so wild. Oh
1:02:17
yeah. Still on Resi. They
1:02:20
do have, oh they
1:02:23
have tons of reservations, so I don't know if
1:02:25
they're doing well for today and tomorrow. Yeah, I'd
1:02:27
be curious how much that is. Maybe
1:02:30
they're on their way out. Maybe it's pretty much done for
1:02:32
them. I don't know. Maybe.
1:02:34
Maybe. That's a pretty rough
1:02:36
gamble. I've heard of these really good. That's a crazy scandal
1:02:39
to have. It's terrible to be like,
1:02:41
you're killing cats and shit. I would be
1:02:43
like, oh no, I gotta get out of here.
1:02:45
I wouldn't defend myself. I'd be like, uh oh. That's
1:02:47
nuts. I might be on
1:02:49
the run. Maybe I'd get the hell out of
1:02:53
here. But before I, you know, I had the cheesecake, just
1:02:55
for the audience, I had that cheesecake before
1:02:57
I knew anything about the cat killing. I
1:02:59
would never support anything like that. I
1:03:04
like that you've gone on the record to
1:03:06
say that. I feel the same way. I
1:03:08
probably will never go to the restaurant because
1:03:10
they're very badly behaved. Well,
1:03:14
Lamar, we really have ended.
1:03:17
No, we've come to the end. Oh my god.
1:03:20
Do you have any? You're single, but do you have
1:03:22
any advice for single people? I don't know. Or do
1:03:24
you have any advice that you're trying
1:03:27
to follow? I was trying to do this
1:03:29
book called Calling in the One, and I
1:03:31
hit a roadblock on it, and I've
1:03:33
mentioned it several times, and I really like
1:03:36
doing it. And people I've talked to
1:03:38
are like, oh, I've met someone after doing it. But I
1:03:40
came to the conclusion, why do
1:03:42
I have to do a book to find love when
1:03:45
other people don't? So
1:03:47
now I'm not doing it anymore because
1:03:49
I'm like, what the fuck? So do you have any
1:03:51
advice for single people? My
1:03:54
advice, I don't have any advice. I mean, I'm
1:03:57
just like, my advice is just to be. Peace
1:04:00
with it. Because. I stayed
1:04:02
calm. I think the more I think about it
1:04:04
the more a single I am Canada is as
1:04:06
nice as his legs. the more I stress of
1:04:09
like our as the guy is gonna like focus
1:04:11
or something else and then. I
1:04:13
see the other thing will com
1:04:15
by down and I say that.
1:04:18
I don't know how my advice is. Like really
1:04:20
Cuisine? Lame? Like. One. Is be
1:04:22
yourself because. He I used to be
1:04:24
like if a girl didn't respond to me or like we
1:04:26
went on a couple days and Satanic goes to me. Away
1:04:29
like really question myself and I who
1:04:31
you know I am and feel like
1:04:33
okay, there's someone out there. Like.
1:04:36
I don't need say like change him do
1:04:38
anything for anyway I'm decisions and be that
1:04:40
present ethic the recent miss going to be
1:04:42
somebody. Like that then and
1:04:44
as at it as and it worked like
1:04:46
Adiga many sites in a city make me
1:04:48
happy is cute Mint my don't seek an
1:04:51
Amazon maybe to the most Amazon off my
1:04:53
of medication right out of five antidepressants and
1:04:55
I'll like eyes and with am I trying
1:04:57
to find ways that Doberman at the exercise
1:05:00
the what do they mean to me saying
1:05:02
so I think those days that it you
1:05:04
know they'll make in I target. At
1:05:07
you know, but I think down. But.
1:05:09
I do. I know how knows nothing about
1:05:11
hurts of a sick of it's aliases. Is
1:05:13
that like manic episodes? I
1:05:16
mean I don't know, I see that's like a
1:05:18
nice thing. Delayed take care of yourself. Everything on
1:05:20
the internet that like that you deal with being
1:05:22
single is like take care of yourself. Yeah.
1:05:25
Do nice things for yourself. Sided? How did
1:05:27
you that? Till ah, not as I did
1:05:29
back there. That. Delayed by I do these
1:05:32
workouts that this man named Daniel who lie
1:05:34
yeah I recommend that the self care yes
1:05:36
yes he tells them they can do it
1:05:38
during the work out and sometimes ago no
1:05:40
idea Daniel and then. They
1:05:42
summarize where he says you could do it by the so there's. A
1:05:45
reluctance is else is doing right now. sit
1:05:47
down and an ugly I need to Disneyland
1:05:49
and he's like that's why I keep the
1:05:51
success of the end You like hum says
1:05:53
this in the air and there's like there's
1:05:55
a music that's like we did it together
1:05:57
and for whatever reason cornish it works for
1:05:59
me. Yes, And it feels really good and I'm
1:06:01
like we did all the way that sadly and a
1:06:03
quarter did it. I did it, the other lady in
1:06:05
the corner did a he did it. We all did
1:06:07
it and it makes me feel good and. I was
1:06:10
like maybe that works for me of her
1:06:12
might work for other people but who knows.
1:06:14
yeah but I'm I'm into the whole working
1:06:16
on yourself gig. I think that's good. Yes,
1:06:18
I submit a cell easy to control I
1:06:20
say that the very least. So like that
1:06:23
and in a house? yeah but ourselves. we'll
1:06:25
see what second listless segment, games and couple
1:06:27
weeks sir I was going to been as
1:06:29
a totally out of the me and you
1:06:31
might. Assist assist
1:06:33
as a couple weeks or yeah, maybe
1:06:36
a couple. Adult are you never
1:06:38
know. How. It is. Yeah,
1:06:40
downsize days isn't so happens I.
1:06:43
Will. Buy it, let's go get some
1:06:45
was eyes on where we define a place
1:06:47
I love to get lasagna when I recover
1:06:49
from covered who who let's do. Didn't
1:06:53
do that as you want to promote
1:06:55
lamar. Test My album is
1:06:57
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1:07:00
talks a lot about what we just talked
1:07:02
about and down is available if you want
1:07:04
to buy directly for me to go buy
1:07:06
it on my website. And. If
1:07:08
you don't it's on all the semen
1:07:10
platform. A spot of fi apo, the
1:07:12
title and it has it's has a
1:07:14
lot of dough People on a like
1:07:17
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1:07:19
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1:07:21
probably the most part South Africa and
1:07:23
on our themselves out and really while
1:07:26
people to hear it it's. I'm
1:07:28
excited about it! I'm excited to listen to
1:07:30
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1:07:32
great. I mean, I was. you think? I'll
1:07:36
buy it from. Yeah, that's what I'll do.
1:07:38
I'll support you. Yeah have spot of fights.
1:07:41
I guess it elicited an apple. Know about
1:07:43
it from yeah? That's a nice thing to do. Yeah,
1:07:45
I'm also lamar as everybody's as I
1:07:47
forget sometimes that would you date me
1:07:49
of. Course I went out every day's.
1:07:54
I'm trying. To protect
1:07:57
his magic rises. Know
1:07:59
what? He just didn't. Ground very sincere
1:08:01
but that's okay to call
1:08:03
I definitely day you level
1:08:05
will get lasagna or get
1:08:08
drinks. It's gonna be great if you.
1:08:10
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1:08:12
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1:08:14
I didn't make the mistake of reading com
1:08:16
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1:08:18
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1:08:21
hospital. Lot of you are very very very
1:08:23
nice. I will say that I had a
1:08:25
lot a nice comments. it's just as mean
1:08:27
ones that really sick out some time but
1:08:29
again lazy to me that he have none.
1:08:31
None of my business. Anyway I celebrate the
1:08:33
people who like me. This nice person wrote
1:08:35
me a nasty message and if you write
1:08:37
me a nasty message hitting on me too
1:08:40
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1:08:42
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1:09:11
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1:09:13
deep talks about life in loves than
1:09:15
a big spoon. You and Creeley with
1:09:17
my little lead will fall asleep see
1:09:19
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